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| 8 | Men don't understand that not only women compare them with each other, but they also have fixed standards.That’s not an example of not bringing her peace. Not giving peace would be like if you were toxic or abusive. Spending free time with someone is normal and that’s not what women mean by peace | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 12:10 PM |
| 2 | Men don't understand that not only women compare them with each other, but they also have fixed standards.Being in a relationship in general doesn’t attack a women’s peace imo it’s being in the wrong one with the wrong guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Having casual sex with men makes them respect you less and treat you worseYea it deff does. Learned this last year | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 11:02 PM |
| 2 | for people that were late bloomers in dating, is it normal or just common to have envy/resentment towards people who got to date and have relationships before they did or just people who got to date, have relationships around the typical societal norm of when people have their first relationship?I think it's normal to feel a little envy or resentment. I know I do. I'm also not the most mentally healthy though. I think it depends how much resentment you feel and do you let it take over your life. Also don't treat others bad cause of it or show your anger | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Men are shallow as wellI agree it is sad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 05:08 PM |
| 5 | Men are shallow as wellYeah I cringe when they say that. It's gross that some men's standards are that low. ++woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 04:19 PM |
| 2 | I think women are worst in bed then men areIn the future I'm gonna be firm on that and make them do it first or I'm not doing oral or having sex. It sucks cause I like doing it but I deserve it too. I just can't believe the audacity. That was the first guy that blatantly lied like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 08:37 PM |
| 3 | I think women are worst in bed then men areI don't know why some men are lazy and won't give oral. I always have and I feel like most women do. One guy lied and said he had a sore on his tongue so he couldn't do it. I advised him later, in a message, to get it looked at cause that can't be good. He admitted he's fine and that he was being selfish. Wow is all I can say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 08:28 PM |
| 4 | Let's be honest: men also have different rules for the women they're attracted to.But how do you know they have better options? Maybe the "better" men didn't like her or didn't want a relationship/want to get married. They might've simply not been compatible. I agree women do generally have more options though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 09:25 PM |
| 1 | What are some secrets men dont tell women?You could ask someone you date for more feedback if you think they would be kind. But sometimes it just doesn't work out. It seems like a lot of people are struggling with dating right now. I don't think Adhd makes you undesirable but it does make it harder to click with people. That is frusrating though I understand it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 05:06 PM |
| 2 | What are some secrets men dont tell women?I have ADHD too. I feel like most of the people I've been with had ADHD too or suspected they did. I wasn't diagnosed with it at the time. And I have traits of BPD well maybe the real thing. My therapist didnt really want to focus on labels. I never knew women with ADHD have a higher rate of dosmetic violence in relationships that's interesting but sad to read. Me personally, I have a hard time connecting with people in general so that makes it even harder. Like I can connect as friends but in a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality.Playing pool would be an ideal date! It's so fun! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 05:14 PM |
| 0 | Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality.I usually offer to pay anyway but I would like if they paid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 04:12 PM |
| -2 | Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality.This all the way. I think coffee dates and things are better for the first date but if a guy offers to take you out to dinner he should pay. Otherwise don't suggest it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 02:11 PM |
| 0 | Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality.This counts. It's so attractive when guys can do that :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 02:07 PM |
| 3 | You should only be in a Romantic Relationship with someone if you are VERY Sexually Attracted to them - This applies especially to women.Someone commented on another post that men don't really care about marriage. Many men do get married though. Do some men really not care or is the woman they're with not worth marrying to them? Are there men you think that never want to get married period? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 04:00 PM |
| 1 | What are some secrets men dont tell women?Can you explain what you mean by this? I'm not married lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 04:15 PM |
| 1 | What are some secrets men dont tell women?I don't know how I would feel dating someone with mental health struggles cause I struggle myself. It would be hard for two mentally ill people to be together I think... But I wouldn't rule it out. Just depends on what they're struggling with and if everything else is okay/we are compatible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 04:00 PM |
| 2 | How plausible is the type of man you want?I'm not really dating right now but your response gives me a lot to think about for the future and think about the kind of guy I want :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Are Women Really Overlooking Good Men—Or Are They Just Not ThereYour last sentence is true. I watched a couple tik toks about that and I agree lol. Both need to be attractive to each other on looks and personality etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Are Women Really Overlooking Good Men—Or Are They Just Not ThereHaha I don't really miss people. I always thought it was cause of Adhd. I wish I could retain information better I feel like aphantasia stops me since I can't form any images. I use my phone a lot too for directions but I do remember where places are (I drive to a lot of the same spots) even if I can't see them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Are Women Really Overlooking Good Men—Or Are They Just Not ThereI have aphantasia too check out the subreddit for it lol. It's cool! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Male thirst is men's greatest enemyI like having sex and I'm not against it but I don't know any woman I'm friends with that have men on rotation. If I'm seeing someone casually like hooking up it will just be one. I'm not doing it with multiple men. I guess men are different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Are Women Really Overlooking Good Men—Or Are They Just Not ThereYou're not wrong :) unattractive people date all the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Are Women Really Overlooking Good Men—Or Are They Just Not ThereYou're right it's not. Plenty of men and women are jerks and they have partners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Are Women Really Overlooking Good Men—Or Are They Just Not ThereI think the problem is with both. We can try to be better as woman but men should also raise their standards. No one wants to be with someone that they are settling for. Women do not act like prostitutes. Women and men like sex and aren't wrong for having it. It kind of sounds like you don't like women with that phrasing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Male thirst is men's greatest enemySame haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 06:31 PM |
| 4 | Male thirst is men's greatest enemyWhy do you need to have them in rotation? Sounds gross | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 06:27 PM |
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