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| 1 | POWER TALK MEGATHREADFifth link in the original post. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/16 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Theory Weekend Continues - Posting Threads Is Temporarily LockedI want to Agree and Amplify like you. Holy shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/16 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Hot girl, sometimes with low self esteem, insecure, anxious and depressive. How to adjust game to that scenario?I really don't. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/16 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Hot girl, sometimes with low self esteem, insecure, anxious and depressive. How to adjust game to that scenario?She's really hot tho. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/16 03:27 PM |
| 1 | I honestly think there's something very wrong with how easy people are getting tired of each other.Done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/16 05:16 PM |
| 5 | Ever wondered why women act entitled and as if they were princesses? Rule 34, be royal in your own fashion.Bullshit, they just copy each other by observing its effects and (power talk) say whatever is expedient to get whatever result they want in that second. This is why they are such a mishmash of conflicting statements that changes one moment to the next and why none of it makes any sense compared to the moment before. They're just spouting soundbites. I agree and I see that I overlooked the hivemind behavior of women. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Don't Use TRP To Empower WomenThey think to themselves: "I'm worth X and she might theoretically get more than that, so I'll close the gap by throwing some time or resources in." He's screwing himself by thinking that she's more rational than she actually is and he's fucking with her heuristic. When he spends those resources, he's not sweetening the deal like he thinks he is. He's making her second guess him. She's not thinking that he's now worth "X plus time and resources". She's wondering what he's compensating for and hi… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/16 05:04 AM |
| 1 | [FR] After 6-8 Months of Monk Mode and Swallowing I Decided to Implement TRP at a PartyDid you actually read why I said he was wrong? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/16 02:14 PM |
| 15 | Comfort and familiarity are anti-seductive and kill the genuine desire.I'm curious. Care to give an example of conversation? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/16 12:19 AM |
| 1 | How Important is Social Media (Instagram)?I've got some girls through Instagram. I highly recommend have a profile with some interesting pictures. Stalk some girls, like one or two photos, and comment something. DON'T game through comments, though. Use it for genuine communication, otherwise it looks thirsty. Example: ask them if that's the bar across the street. "Is that Moe's bar?" | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/16 02:03 PM |
| 1 | [FR] After 6-8 Months of Monk Mode and Swallowing I Decided to Implement TRP at a PartyJesus motherfucking christ. This is golden. You should be granted a point from the mods. I'm going to say you're wrong, and it's a bad thing to do, and that also women fucking rule just to get their attention. Game on, mods. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/16 11:28 PM |
| 12 | [FR] Funny thing happened at a bar the other dayHe felt forced by the circumstances to put them on his tab. So, if he's paying for the drinks, they're both his, not hers. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/16 03:42 PM |
| 3 | Avoid high-energy impersonatorsNot all introverts are "good". High-energy fakers are introverts who don't cope well with their trait. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/16 04:53 PM |
| 1 | TRP's outlooks on open relationships, cuckoldry, etc.If your needs are met exceptionally, don't sweat it. Wrap on a condom and enjoy the ride, and if she starts failing your needs, replace her. This sums up everything. I tried the poly thing for a year. The women I plated that year were broken. They had major father issues. I thought daddy issues girls were the clingy ones. So, if I got it right, from your experience they're the bravest branch swingers in the jungle? | /r/askTRP | 31/01/16 04:18 PM |
| 2 | TRP's outlooks on open relationships, cuckoldry, etc.The downvotes you got show how much this place is getting filled by newbs. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/16 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Push/pull: girl couldn't take pulls.I respectfully disagree. Once, at a party in the club, a girl identified me because of an Instagram comment while I was playing the piano. I just asked in the picture if that was the bar across the street. She bought me beer and we made out furiously. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/16 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Trolls, concern trolls, and the way we weed you out.Why just not say: Guys, TRP has no goals or agenda. Use what you learn here to your own will. Every redpiller chooses its own path. It's pretty much clear, sums up everything and clears the confusion regarding the word "about". As for trolls and concern trolling, I've seen a lot of this lately. People telling me later "oh now that I actually read your comment in detail I see where you're coming from". Bullshit. Why even bother taking part in the discussion if you're not actually reading what you… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/16 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Push/pull: girl couldn't take pulls.The neg was through a public comment on instagram. The talk was done in private. Perhaps she was afraid of damage to her public image. Like being afraid of people thinking "oh my god, she's being negged!! she's not THAT perfect" or something like that. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/16 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Push/pull: girl couldn't take pulls.The neg was through a public comment on instagram. The talk was done in private. Perhaps she was afraid of damage to her public image. Like being afraid of people thinking "oh my god, she's being negged!! she's not THAT perfect" or something like that. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/16 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Push/pull: girl couldn't take pulls."You always want to put me down, you seem so insecure! Try talking to someone, perhaps even me." How would you answer that? | /r/askTRP | 30/01/16 02:25 AM |
| -3 | Push/pull: girl couldn't take pulls.It wasn't too hard. It was very, very light. But it still bothered her. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/16 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Push/pull: girl couldn't take pulls.How should I have reacted then? | /r/askTRP | 29/01/16 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Dark Triad Theory: The Machiavellian Trifectayou feel a sting of shame because you enjoy it The 'feeling bad' stuff only happened when I was a child. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Dark Triad Theory: The Machiavellian TrifectaI posted the comment after reading the article. Which archetype am I is not my question, but the importance of identifying it. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/16 11:52 AM |
| -2 | Dark Triad Theory: The Machiavellian Trifecta/u/IllimitableMan, is it important to know what kind of Machiavellian you are (king, general, advisor)? I see Dark Triad traits in myself ever since I was a teenager. I don't know how it was for me when I was a child, but I know for a fact I liked to hurt my classmates while I was hurting then and then I felt sad and sorry after someone stopped me and made me see them cry. I always wanted to know whether I'm a natural or not, but I don't know if it is important. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/16 10:34 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a girl asks for your SnapChat instead of getting her phone number?snapchat has a chat feature and you can game her through it. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/16 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Relationships redditor recognizes that feminist ideals are far from biologic reality. 277 upvotes.Just don't bother with a relationship if you're going to actively accept attention from other women. Oh god. You don't even know what dread game is. Do yourself a favor and read the sidebar. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/16 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Relationships redditor recognizes that feminist ideals are far from biologic reality. 277 upvotes.They are not losing control of their marriage. She is losing all influence she has over him. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Relationships redditor recognizes that feminist ideals are far from biologic reality. 277 upvotes.In your example it would be you seeking your exes. That's not the case. The ex is the one making all the effort to talk to him. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Relationships redditor recognizes that feminist ideals are far from biologic reality. 277 upvotes.Her cheating on him has nothing to do with the situation. If not, it only makes him more interesting and make her want him more as well, since the ex-gf makes him scarce to his wife. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Relationships redditor recognizes that feminist ideals are far from biologic reality. 277 upvotes.Then she would finally be playing with her power and things would get interesting. She won't do that. She is timid, insecure and submissive. She is being dominated by the ex like a goddamn sub. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/16 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Use less words.It shows you're emotionally invested into her, enough to put more thought and words in the interaction. In other words, it shows her how much you want her. See the difference? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Relationships redditor recognizes that feminist ideals are far from biologic reality. 277 upvotes.The ex is an orbiter waiting in the line. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 10:59 PM |
| 5 | Relationships redditor recognizes that feminist ideals are far from biologic reality. 277 upvotes.The one complaining is the wife. By cutting contact with his ex, the guy would bow to his wife's will and enter her frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Study the Dark Triad, do not be the Dark TriadHe's not just DT. He's also a megalomaniac. I think your analysis lacks the separation of it. DT // DT-M // M Being a megalomaniac out of control is what makes you break frame and brings your downfall. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/16 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Is it unattractive to just want some company?I wasn't even aware those exist. The idea seems like an efficient way to keep the emotional side under control. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/16 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Use less words.This comment is highly relevant. Deserves more upvotes. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/16 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Small town dynamics: "all valuable men are taken."Don't even bother talking to women. Talk to men and build rapport. Dudes love to meet another cool guy. Ignore the women, except as part of casual interactions. You CANNOT come across as "new due trying to steal the limited supply of pussy" and you are not going to game a chick at the bar when 90% of the people in the bar know her and 3 are exes without massive social proof with the MEN. You need to be one of the guys first. Jesus Christ. A date went wrong because of that last year. I was about … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/16 10:34 AM |
| 3 | Small town dynamics: "all valuable men are taken."What's a high value 20 yr old? Rock band member, heir to famous business in town, genetics that make one look like he's 25+. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/16 11:23 PM |
| 5 | Small town dynamics: "all valuable men are taken."This makes sense. It also explains why I only got my first girl after moving out to study in the big city. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/16 06:19 PM |
| 4 | Use less words.occasionally break that using elaborate story Only if it's called for. Uncalled elaborate talks gets pussies as dry as the Sahara. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/16 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Is it unattractive to just want some company?I skipped the gym today because I overslept. Maybe that had something to do with it. Ever since I started lifting and practicing boxing these emotional days got waay more rare. I actually was wishing my trainer would put me up on the ring to start fighting but I can see my body isn't ready yet. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/16 06:06 AM |
| 6 | Is it unattractive to just want some company?I see so many posts regarding frame, lifting, self-improvement, keeping a healthy behavior... But what about emotions? What do you do to keep your emotions in check? | /r/askTRP | 23/01/16 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Is it unattractive to just want some company?I get that. Problem is: I got emotional today. If you get emotional, they feel it, you have no game, and then you won't nut inside them. I'm considering finding something to drink to sweep these emotions away while my bros aren't there to back me up. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/16 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Two kinds of love?This one? | /r/askTRP | 17/01/16 12:47 PM |
| 1 | invited girl to bar last night. This is what she says. What next?If there's no bar closer to my house, then take her straight there? | /r/askTRP | 17/01/16 12:10 AM |
| 1 | If I straight out ask them out without validating them for a period of time, then I'll have no success. Why is that so?Do you feel the eyes of women on you when you are out on public? Do women notice you? In big city parties, yes. In the small town I'm currently at, no. Unless I'm running with my dog while wearing my gym clothes, or driving my car. Then I get women from small town looking at me plenty of times. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/16 06:11 AM |
| 0 | Bad calibration and now approaching Friendzone, how do I handle it?Your basically now agreeing to her demand which was never a fair precondition. Agree and amplify. Going "as friends" gives enough plausible deniability to "drink as friends", "hang out as friends", etc. If you say "friends" whilst delving deep into the realm of friendzone mentality, you're entering her frame. Great! see you then Also works, but doesn't set background for posterior interactions like "as friends" does. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/16 06:53 AM |
| 0 | Bad calibration and now approaching Friendzone, how do I handle it?Bite the bullet. Agree and amplify that shit. "Sure, as friends." And then you'll have some drinks there. Maybe some beer. Because, you know, friends drink together right? Escalate that shit up. Whenever asked, say that you see her as a friend. Escalate contact. If she denies your approach, go stone-cold, grab your phone and start messaging any other girl. Make it clear you lost interest. When her hamster comes over to you wanting to know what's up, you pounce. You tell her you're just talking t… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/16 03:15 AM |
| 0 | Two fat girls alongside a pretty one. You're alone, no wingman. How do you open that set without getting cockblocked by the two landwhales? Or is there no way?That pretty girl was the only one worth the while where I was. I decided to left the place instead. Why leave without trying? In this town, failed openings shut your SMV down. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/16 08:40 AM |
| 0 | Gaylubeoil's Guide to Avoiding Snap City and Making GainsGLO, Started lifting and taking boxing lessons this week. Am 1.65m tall and weighing 53kg. People on asktrp told me to eat more meat and less salad and rice. Should I eat more rice instead? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/16 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Lifting 3x a week and taking boxing lessons (with some lifting included) 2x a week. Should I quit drinking?How much is excessively? I'm used to one cup~one long neck per day. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/16 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Just started lifting and taking box lessons this week. I'm very lightweight (~55kg). Is it a good idea to start taking some multivitamin pills?It's a good supplement, but it's not going to help you gain muscle or body weight. But is it at least going to help me endure both lifting three times a week and taking boxing lessons twice a week? I just want my body to be able to keep up with all that effort. Ditch salad. Why? I don't know how high you are 1.65~1.67 | /r/askTRP | 07/01/16 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill Stance On MGTOW Philosophy?Valuable explanation. This should be put somewhere, maybe in the glossary within the main sub. Someone, someone, /u/MachiavellianRed ...? | /r/askTRP | 04/01/16 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Should you ever AMOG a guy that has way more influence than you and may even afford you some social support in the future?The girl I was talking to. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/16 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Should you ever AMOG a guy that has way more influence than you and may even afford you some social support in the future?48 laws? | /r/askTRP | 04/01/16 07:49 AM |
| 1 | If your dick doesn't get wet, it doesn't countThough I'm still confused how someone could even possibly think that they're coming out on top when a girl makes it clear that she's sending it to other guys, and just asking for male perspective. What if she didn't made it clear? How would the context change? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/16 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Visiting family. Local culture is strongly against people who hang out alone. Care to help me find a solution?One month seems fucking long. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/16 11:01 PM |
| 1 | I got invited to a party tomorrow. My social skills suck. Should I still go?Just keep outcome independence in mind and don't go nuts. Actually, learning to get outcome independence will be one of your first lessons, alongside beating approach anxiety. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Should I fuck Munters?What you need to do is figure out what is that gives you such an attitude, which almost certainly is the root of your lack of game, and address it. I am curious. What would be your guess, CWM? | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 04:37 PM |
| 5 | As a response to kino escalation, the girl went with this shit test: "So what are you trying to get at here?""Let me show you some paintings I bought at the Renaissance Fair." | /r/askTRP | 31/12/15 04:34 PM |
| 0 | The BP mindset keeps us plugged because we want to be the "best server" / "best service in town"See how that person can be useful for you and immediately request your "payment". "Oh, you're a car expert? Take a look at mine later today." | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 05:36 PM |
| 1 | The BP mindset keeps us plugged because we want to be the "best server" / "best service in town"Was the point supposed to be that you were providing value but not necessarily getting anything in return? This is the BP mindset. In the BP mindset you provide services, not only that but a vast array of options - a la personalized service - and don't charge for them. In the machiavellian mindset, you provide ONE option, the best of them all under your own pick, and then you charge for it. Be it a coffee/beer later, or a 'sure, just help me on that other matter you're an expert'. Treat them lik… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/15 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Girl I'm gaming got sick pretty bad. Should I show concern? If yes, to which extent?Or suicide attempt. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Girl I'm gaming got sick pretty bad. Should I show concern? If yes, to which extent?Can't. Setting up a LDR plate. Lots of travels. She said she threw herself. I'm heavily skeptical about the whole situation. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Girl I'm gaming got sick pretty bad. Should I show concern? If yes, to which extent?I don't know what the fuck this even means. General advice in TRP is to not get surprised ever. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Girl I'm gaming got sick pretty bad. Should I show concern? If yes, to which extent?Fell off of a balcony and then was put on a drip. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/15 03:23 AM |
| 0 | [Mod Warning: Temp Ban Policy] Posting Shit That Belongs in /r/askTRP in the main /r/TheRedPill SubredditQuestion, sir. No questions at all? I always thought that general questions (eg. answers to shit tests, work posture, amused mastery, etc) could be posted in the main sub and personal questions went to askTRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/15 01:59 AM |
| 2 | "That's not the point"Aaaand there's your problem. It's very hard to input the use of amuse mastery and emulate voice tones and shit-eating grins in texting. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/15 02:37 PM |
| 2 | "That's not the point"Is "that was not the question" way too direct? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 02:23 PM |
| 4 | "That's not the point"Hijacking. Do you and /u/mozeiny think "That doesn't matter" could work as an alternative? Got some language barriers here and "that's not the point" gets extremely formal when translated. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/15 12:11 PM |
| 1 | How much does it matter for how long you go no contact?Taking notes. I am the one who matters. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/15 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Losing interest on the conversationWhy is the frame being lost when I ignore her while she's making fun of me? | /r/askTRP | 28/11/15 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Girls that AMOG you?Thinking on hard nexting because whenever I give her my attention, and she sees the game, she doesn't give in. I was talking to my friends at the bar and they were saying it's normal for her to act like that (not giving in), especially when she drinks. I guess that's why my bro didn't want to commit to her (she was asking for commitment) and instead kept spinning plates. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/15 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Girls that AMOG you?But why did she do that? | /r/askTRP | 20/11/15 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Girls that AMOG you?Not when she was single.. And she only cockblocks me when she's single. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/15 10:52 AM |
| 3 | "Don't Be Afraid to Dominate"Question: did you manipulate her emotions? Have you intentionally instilled empathy and inspired jealousy? Let's not talk just dread game, it's kinda obvious you applied it. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/15 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Inner Game and Outcome Independence: Expect to Go Out and Meet Real PeopleBut when an Alpha tries to manipulate others doesn't that make him a Beta? No. Read on dark triad behavior. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/15 01:17 PM |
| 1 | "Too bad you're a Taurus, because my last boyfriend was one and it was terrible and abusive". What to say to this?Maybe alcohol makes me come off as needy as well. I'll try drinking less next time. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/15 08:28 PM |
| 1 | "Too bad you're a Taurus, because my last boyfriend was one and it was terrible and abusive". What to say to this?It's very easy for me to neg and be playful with them in day game, however in parties it seems so automatic for me to go beta/self-validation way. Even more if I had a few drinks or so. Any tips on how to translate day game mentality to parties? | /r/askTRP | 08/11/15 08:09 PM |
| -1 | "The Machiavellian Approach" Part 2Jesus, my experience says otherwise. Whenever my kino was on-point, they would let me touch them wherever I wanted. When they weren't interested, they would give me a body language sign to stop touching them. I don't remember being responded with iois or their own kino. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/15 01:28 AM |
| 1 | "The Machiavellian Approach" Part 2he used too much kino I always thought you should kino the most, as long as you followed the pace of your own escalation. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/15 10:27 PM |
| 2 | 22 years old, 20 menI'll break it down for you and hopefully you'll understand: I've met this coworker and she is tiny, innocent girl, which i would rate 5/10 maybe. I started liking her, because of the ways of her speech, and we have quite a lot in common. She is a biology student, and I am science freak so attraction grew. Sounds like oneitis. You're valuing her too much and it seems that she is the only one in your life. Moving on... 2 months later, I really started feeling for her. Emotional attachment. Scarcit… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/15 07:36 AM |
| 1 | It's true... Women trade sex for a Mans commitment.Caught her off guard and she bailed. Non-native English speaker here. What do you mean by that phrase? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/15 06:53 AM |
| 0 | Is there a manly way to show that you miss someone?what about "thought of you right now"? | /r/askTRP | 27/10/15 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Some girls have been asking about past serious relationships. Is this a 'beta provider' test?I've told two of them that the relationships didn't kick off because we had some fights/struggles' early when we were establishing commitment. How much of a red flag was that? ':forgot the right word | /r/askTRP | 25/10/15 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Some girls have been asking about past serious relationships. Is this a 'beta provider' test?early in the relationship It happened in the first or second time we talked lol | /r/askTRP | 24/10/15 05:59 PM |
| 1 | How does TRP call this kind of women?Not so much. It takes some good time building up to get to see her. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/15 04:41 PM |
| 1 | How does TRP call this kind of women?That sounds interesting. What points made you see her as insecure? | /r/askTRP | 20/10/15 04:40 PM |
| 2 | How does TRP call this kind of women?Yeah, she's very smart. Ruining things with her and acting beta was what brought me to TRP. The best kind of thing we can have right now is a LDR plate thing (port), and I'm working towards it. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/15 04:55 AM |
| 1 | How does TRP call this kind of women?Sarcasm? | /r/askTRP | 20/10/15 03:50 AM |
| 1 | How does TRP call this kind of women?With locals abundance is real and happens. I'd need some ports to not be alone in my house for some time and am starting to gather them now, but it's hard. The problem is: when you travel to a different place, all your social proof, connections and network are gone. Back to square zero. And sometimes you won't spend enough time to build things back up, which is why I'm hunting for ports right now. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/15 03:24 AM |
| 2 | How does TRP call this kind of women?I'm trying to turn her into a long-distance plate (port), but I don't know if I'm holding frame very well. She seems to be testing me to see if I'm going to go full beta again, with short responses and pretty low investment. Apparently she got mad/upset over a month of radio silence. Dread hardly works with her, she knows when it's just dread game. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/15 02:52 AM |
| 1 | How does TRP call this kind of women?Yup, her dad ruined his marriage by cheating on his wife and even was sent to jail once for not sending money to her mom (forgot the english word for that). | /r/askTRP | 20/10/15 02:43 AM |
| 1 | How does TRP call this kind of women?She NEVER brings the feminism/SIW subject up. Never ever. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/15 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Apparently she got mad over a month of radio silence and now is testing me... Next?You seem to have an experience with ports. Any advices to my situation? | /r/askTRP | 19/10/15 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Apparently she got mad over a month of radio silence and now is testing me... Next?So it depends on the kind of shit test. k. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/15 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Apparently she got mad over a month of radio silence and now is testing me... Next?Whereas being indifferent is TRP Not always. Read: https://archive.is/VjNTw | /r/askTRP | 18/10/15 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Apparently she got mad over a month of radio silence and now is testing me... Next?If that's the case, I agree with you. But knowing her, there's the possibility she's just testing me to see if I'm going to go full beta. If that's true, then she's just waiting for me to act manly, like calling her out on her behavior. Somebody once said in TRP that while men hit women through force, they had learned to hit us in the head, making it a mess. It's her thing and it seems to be what she's doing right now. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/15 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Apparently she got mad over a month of radio silence and now is testing me... Next?or tries to shit test you Wouldn't a shit test be a good sign? | /r/askTRP | 18/10/15 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Apparently she got mad over a month of radio silence and now is testing me... Next?Port is usually an LDR plate that's just around for sex in towns you visit for work or play. A local port is a bootycall. Like I said in another comment, the dynamics with ports are entirely different. Your local social proof doesn't matter at all when getting them. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/15 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Apparently she got mad over a month of radio silence and now is testing me... Next?Port. I don't have to chase after girls who live close by, but with ports dynamics are completely different for me. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/15 06:11 PM |
| 0 | Apparently she got mad over a month of radio silence and now is testing me... Next?We had a friendship and she went to my house back in feb, but like I said, there's the distance thing and I want to make her a port. Also, her knowledge is valuable for me for the time being, so a "just friends" relationship would also benefit me for now. The problem is we aren't even friends right now, since she's barely answering me. I don't see any other way of gathering ports without through social media. It's how you connect to people who are far away. I don't do social media on girls who a… | /r/askTRP | 18/10/15 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Man who found out his girlfriend gives happy ending massages decides to stay with her.Funny thing is beta fags think "Oh great I'm going to get that shit at home for free all the time". HA HA HA. No dude you're not. Girls like that live to trick men out of cash. That's their entire existence. If you expect that treatment at home - then the realization of the fact that they are prostitutes overwhelms them. It's OK if they do it in a secret double life, because they can still live a lie by living out this good girl persona, but if beta bux fag boy expects an oiled up massage and ha… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 10:47 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Pajama party5'10.1" to 5'5.4" feels strange even to KC | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/15 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Girl sent me this emoji, what does it mean?but why should she feel butthurt over a month of radio silence, I mean, they should be used to that lol | /r/askTRP | 15/10/15 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Girl sent me this emoji, what does it mean?One guy said 'excited face', and the other said she seems 'butthurt' I also got the 'butthurt' message when I first saw it but it tumbled me into confusion Is she playing mind games, perhaps? | /r/askTRP | 15/10/15 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Girl sent me this emoji, what does it mean?YEAH it looks like she's butthurt, but that makes no sense to me lol | /r/askTRP | 15/10/15 09:19 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Pajama partyI had ballroom dance classes. Waltz, tango, bolero, etc. We occasionally had some samba classes from time to time. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do I need to start validating the girls to get their attention, and only then they will be open to my game, most often?In that specific case, validation happened in social media, but game happened in real life. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/15 06:39 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Pajama partythis is a favorite for the whores, to call you to her in club, especially after a few drinks. you should have yelled NO, i'm fine, get over here. Oh, she couldn't get where I was. I was between two groups of people dancing and there was no room for her. She had just chosen a place where the three of us (me, her and another girl who was with her) could dance without bumping into anyone and with lots of people watching. Attention whoring at its finest. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 06:38 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Pajama partyI had ballroom dance classes. Waltz, tango, bolero, etc. We occasionally had some samba classes from time to time. From the point in which you learn to dance according to the rythm, you can dance nearly anything, especially those pop/electro songs they love to play in night clubs. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/15 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Why do I need to start validating the girls to get their attention, and only then they will be open to my game, most often?No, I mean really beta validation. eg. photo on instagram, posting a comment about the place she went | /r/askTRP | 13/10/15 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Is it Dark Triad to intentionally orbit around and validate a girl just so she does what you need?You're either going to have to take her out to a ton of fancy and expensive dinners in exchange for a little bit of work in return We must live in different realities if it would take that much to get favors like those I mentioned in the submission. because it's never going to happen If it happened before, it can happen again. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/15 10:09 AM |
| 2 | What's the community's precise definition on orbiting?This is the point of my other submission. What if what you want from that specific girl is not sex, but her skills/connections/network/grades she can get you/free coffee every morning? You still are getting what you want, IMO. "but why not sex" Because some of these girls who can provide favours (and willingly do so) have been nexted. lol | /r/askTRP | 10/10/15 11:29 PM |
| 0 | any way of asking a girl you met in the library out for a date?If you add her out of nowhere, she will feel stalked. Luckily some girls bring that up and you can agree and amplify that shit to shrug it off, but it's still way too risky. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/15 10:31 PM |
| 0 | Is it Dark Triad to intentionally orbit around and validate a girl just so she does what you need?Even on the off chance she does help you after you become her beta orbiter, what she does for you will only be worth a fraction of the amount of effort you put in to orbiting her. What's your definition of the situation in the cases in which they do the "favors" after very little - but still existent - effort/investment in orbiting? Unless you act like you orbit to validate them but it's for just a so short time that they don't see you as beta - thinking within your own concept. But in my opinio… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/15 10:27 PM |
| -5 | Is it Dark Triad to intentionally orbit around and validate a girl just so she does what you need?How adorable | /r/askTRP | 10/10/15 05:52 PM |
| -1 | Is it Dark Triad to intentionally orbit around and validate a girl just so she does what you need?Does this help me? Yes or no? Yes What does this cost me? Is it worth how much it helps me? Just a little time and patience. Yes. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/15 05:11 PM |
| -3 | Is it Dark Triad to intentionally orbit around and validate a girl just so she does what you need?Basically you're saying they won't do these "favors". Not for an orbiter. So what do you call someone who uses his non-sexual relationships (sometimes also known as friendships among certain social circles) just to get what he wants and then drops them off? A manipulative guy? | /r/askTRP | 10/10/15 05:06 PM |
| -1 | Is it Dark Triad to intentionally orbit around and validate a girl just so she does what you need?Picture a situation where in which the mentioned things are more important than sex, and you are still getting sex elsewhere. For example, talk to the girl and be extra-nice to her until she gets you that college grade or job interview, then forget she even exists as soon as you get what you wanted. "but dude you should just fuck her and chill" Plenty of pussy out there to be just fucked. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/15 04:25 PM |
| 3 | She left but she's still cleaning the house. WTF?I think you're the idiot because you apparently can't see the I am benefiting from this. WHAT. THE. FUCK. The hamster is out of control. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/15 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: The results of walking around with a bite mark on my neckOP thinks his SMV was off the roof when other people gave him attention. I can bet that those women weren't even remotely attracted to him just because of that. Read: At the next party, a SMV whore¹ saw it as a challenge and came to bite/suck on my neck twice in an attempt to leave an even 'worse' bruise on me. I could've KCed her at any given time. HB8-9 who never gave a shit to me before. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/15 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Field Report: The results of walking around with a bite mark on my neckYeah, in middle school, Context in case was college. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/15 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: The results of walking around with a bite mark on my neckearly high school game Context in case was college. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/15 10:00 PM |
| 4 | Friend Zone or Go Zone Shit Test?Jesus Christ you talk like a girl. Man up. Relevant: https://archive.is/Rzf9Q | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 09:06 AM |
| 4 | Friend Zone or Go Zone Shit Test?Commitment rape should be sidebar material, seriously. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 08:54 AM |
| 0 | I'm relying on women to be happy.I just posted something about this subject yesterday on the main subreddit. Check my submissions. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/15 05:27 AM |
| 3 | Change your actions, and your thoughts will follow.Never waste time asking the question of how well you are doing. Mirrors are for people without a distant horizon to focus on. Only ask yourself what you want, and plan how you're going to get it. But it is useful to ask what you're doing wrong so you can acknowledge it and fix it. EDIT: Also, Gran Torino is a film that shows very well the meaning of this post. It should be recommended to every redpiller. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/09/15 05:23 AM |
| 0 | Tell me if i was a scumbag or notI thought he was being delusional and didn't get the joke. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/15 11:09 AM |
| 0 | When you make the mistake of scheduling the first date way too far ahead (one week, for example), should you keep texting the girl to keep her interested?Booty calls are not happening yet, so I'm relying on slow escalation. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/15 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Tell me if i was a scumbag or notShe was probably tingling like mad. Sarcasm? I often hear people here saying to NOT call women out on their behavior. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/15 08:26 AM |
| 29 | "On How Women Listen"The hijab<->frame metaphor is sidebar material. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/15 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Girl at the club asked us if we go there to just stay at the piano. How to agree and amplify this test?How to agree and amplify this test? Agree: "yeah, we always play the piano all night." Amplify: "we even sleep over it"? The amplifying part it's what gets me quite lost when I think on it. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/15 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Men fail their relationships by treating women like their motherBriffault's Law | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/15 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Non-reasoned guilt - when girls feel like that, how do you turn that to your favor?<!> | /r/askTRP | 22/09/15 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Non-reasoned guilt - when girls feel like that, how do you turn that to your favor?<!> | /r/askTRP | 22/09/15 03:30 PM |
| -1 | Field Report: Leading and GuiltYeah, you are totally right. No one was happy and laughing, it looked like a funeral. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/15 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Non-reasoned guilt - when girls feel like that, how do you turn that to your favor?<!> | /r/askTRP | 22/09/15 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Non-reasoned guilt - when girls feel like that, how do you turn that to your favor?<!> | /r/askTRP | 22/09/15 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Non-reasoned guilt - when girls feel like that, how do you turn that to your favor?<!> | /r/askTRP | 22/09/15 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Non-reasoned guilt - when girls feel like that, how do you turn that to your favor?That's very helpful! | /r/askTRP | 22/09/15 03:31 AM |
| 0 | Non-reasoned guilt - when girls feel like that, how do you turn that to your favor?<!> | /r/askTRP | 22/09/15 02:53 AM |
| 0 | Non-reasoned guilt - when girls feel like that, how do you turn that to your favor?<!> | /r/askTRP | 22/09/15 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Girls that only "get going" after lots of alcohol. Otherwise, they're very shy. But when they get drunk, they go whore-crazy. Red flag?Makes sense. Thanks for the guidances. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/15 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Girls that only "get going" after lots of alcohol. Otherwise, they're very shy. But when they get drunk, they go whore-crazy. Red flag?realizing that the hottest women rarely went home with the best guys. They'd cling to a hot dude from 10-1 but when hot dude bailed the women would end up with a 7 or even a 6. This hits home. I'm starting to think that girls that frequent these clubs are material for that single night at best. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/15 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Girls that only "get going" after lots of alcohol. Otherwise, they're very shy. But when they get drunk, they go whore-crazy. Red flag?I remember you saying you had a bar once. How long has it been since you came to the conclusion that alcoholic girls are huge red flags? No exception for age ranges? Bugs me when you say they're not even plate material. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/15 07:37 PM |
| -7 | A few eating habits for you young men who are starting on and still beginning the changeIf you're in need for evidence that says why soda and coke are bad for your health, you're in the wrong place. I'm not here to kill your god. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/15 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Why party girls rarely want to stick to just one guy?Southern Brazil. Relevant: https://archive.is/ePXRk | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Why party girls rarely want to stick to just one guy?Host your own parties. They don't happen unless you make them happen. You don't know the right people yet, that changes as you host more parties. Don't have a place yet. Also, violence problems in the region. Would have to hire some security service. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 03:00 AM |
| 1 | "...You're Not My Type"Question: when you say all she was doing was talking and shit-testing, what were you doing? Trying to build up comfort/sexual tension? She was denying attempts of kissing/sex and just wanted to talk instead? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/15 02:44 AM |
| 1 | How do you call them out?Thanks for sharing your experience. What about when a bro fails you? Sit down and talk? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 01:44 AM |
| 1 | How do you call them out?For b: go do something else and go radio silent for three days. Then re-engage like nothing happened. I always thought that re-engaging like nothing happened was a bp attitude. Why is it 'wrong' (read: not-trp) to call her out in this scenario? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 01:20 AM |
| 1 | How do you call them out?When she bites your lips, for example. Or fails an appointment. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/15 12:57 AM |
| 0 | Lets talk about text game.OmLaLa wrote something good about texting in here: https://archive.is/qRXm2 | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Am I getting the idea of rewarding wrong? (self LMR involved)I got hugely confused when that happened, which is why I rethink every step to find all possible mistakes I'm overlooking. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/15 12:57 AM |
| -2 | I feel very little pleasure when kissing girls, unless I go hardcore and go pull their hair, bite their neck or somethingTRP regards men's happiness. I can take care of that need by satisfying it and finding means to do so. Also, I believe there's some game and body language into this, making it somewhat different from standard seduction - more physical tension, less passion and feelings. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/15 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Orbiters give women the energy they need to ride the CCThe hamster is strong in this one. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/15 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Women can't fucking stand quietI disagree. Apparently he thinks TRP is just for seducing women. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/15 07:20 AM |
| 9 | Women can't fucking stand quietSure, sure, and validation, and self-delusion. If you don't lead your family how are you going to be able to lead your own life? If you want to take the lead, eventually you'll have to stop being mamma's boy. Most men nowadays never do that, and instead project their expectations of their mothers in the girls they meet. While they provide and don't lead, those girls ride the CC at their expenses. Education begins at home. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/15 07:36 PM |
| 10 | Women can't fucking stand quietFrame. You should have just said "She is not", and when she argued it further, you just should have ignored her. If it became a nuisance, at max you should show her some wikipedia article proving your point. But the whole point is: you don't need to prove yourself. Who fucking cares if she owed him his career and whoever was her father. Some mothers are very good frame sandbagging material. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/15 07:29 PM |
| 1 | When you see a guy with a bunch of girls, what's the first impression: gay or alpha?Thanks for your reply. By the way, were you actively leading those groups and knowingly portraying alpha traits, or were you just going with the flow? | /r/askTRP | 06/09/15 01:58 AM |
| 2 | When you see a guy with a bunch of girls, what's the first impression: gay or alpha?Let's twist the question a bit: how is that guy seen by other women? | /r/askTRP | 06/09/15 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Orbiters give women the energy they need to ride the CCGolden material. Is there any post in this subreddit analyzing it under a TRP lens? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/15 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Okay, time to admit it. I royally fucked up. I need some advice.Stop feeding people your attention - thus, your own energy - and get them to feed you their energy instead. Be the goddamn fucking center of your own universe. Don't let a bitch, a feeling, a problem, or even a goddamn video game be that in your place. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/15 11:35 PM |
| 7 | Orbiters give women the energy they need to ride the CCYet another Social Psychology example. This guy obviously hasn't read anything other than Cialdini and can therefore explain all human endeavours as struggle for power in a darwinistic society where the strong prosper and the weak get eaten. Watch your terms. You just described predatory behavior. Struggle for power is strong in politics, for example. Women look for power in men, while like to hang around with less powerful women to make themselves seem more powerful. A darwinistic society would… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/15 07:00 PM |
| 7 | Orbiters give women the energy they need to ride the CCIn a world without beta orbiters, women would pay attention to their values and nurture them. In a world without alphas, women wouldn't give a single fuck to their own values or being valuable. I just described a very 'patriarchal' (BIG COUGH, read: standard 1900-1950s conservative) world and an ideal feminist world. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/15 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Orbiters give women the energy they need to ride the CCThanks for the contribution, added to the main post. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/15 06:15 PM |
| 14 | Orbiters give women the energy they need to ride the CCThanks for your validation. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/15 06:12 PM |
| 11 | Orbiters give women the energy they need to ride the CCIt feels good to be acknowledged. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/15 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Any short stories writer out here?It's weird, in my mind. Basic standard female validation wouldn't be a thing for me in this case, but hot bookworm validation surely would. Sounds like hamstering, I know. Perhaps I should understand why I want some hot bookworms to validate my works and work on that instead. I will look for some writing communities focused on my language. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/15 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Any short stories writer out here?I'm doing it mostly as a hobby thing, and while it would be cool to have girls chasing after me because of my works, it's not what I'm focused at the moment. I want to have some 'book-plates', you know? Girls which I would be able to send a link of my short stories and read their critics because it makes me feel good. I mostly describe my works as short stories of fantasy and mystery, and a good indicator of a good reader is when they like LOTR or ASOIAF. What I write could be considered as insp… | /r/askTRP | 05/09/15 03:31 PM |
| 1 | You can't escape validationTheorize less, observe samples, appeal to occam's razor and fucking stop hamstering. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/15 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Girl says my comments are the best ones. Does this indicate I can use it as currency?Which is what I started to think when posting here: perhaps stop commenting on her photos and only get back to doing so when she's good to me again would make things better for me. I think I need to work on my English. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/15 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Girl says my comments are the best ones. Does this indicate I can use it as currency?I will keep that in mind. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/15 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Girl says my comments are the best ones. Does this indicate I can use it as currency?With that plane ticket I could also visit a dozen friends in the same city she's right now - that city is out of my annual travel routine. I understand I'm putting her in first place and should treat her as a bonus. If she goes back to our hometown, then I could meet her when we're both there, since I actually have to go solve some issues, just have to decide when. If we arranged a meeting, I would set up my travels to be on the same date, solve my issues back there and also bang the girl. I hav… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/15 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Girl says my comments are the best ones. Does this indicate I can use it as currency?Didn't read your reply thoroughly or maybe you edited. Anyway, I never thought of using it as leverage, but rather as a stimulant reward, to keep stimulating her to be good to me. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/15 09:02 PM |
| 0 | Girl says my comments are the best ones. Does this indicate I can use it as currency?Made out savagely with her in the past, three times at one night in my house. Didn't want to have sex because that was the first time we were meeting in life, and her past boyfriend had showed up the last week and... Hamstering. My mother was downstairs and I couldn't get her out because of a multitude of reasons. Then, distance kicked in and I kept talking to her through facebook and instagram interactions. I wanna fuck her and she's closer now, just a plane flight away. Advice? | /r/askTRP | 03/09/15 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Girl says my comments are the best ones. Does this indicate I can use it as currency?Want to. Let me guess, stop orbiting and cut contact? | /r/askTRP | 03/09/15 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Girl says my comments are the best ones. Does this indicate I can use it as currency?I think I worded it wrong. She sucks my dick, I comment on the next photo she posts. She flakes? No comments for a week. If she liked it so much it could be a "stimulus", it's what I thought. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/15 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Does it kill attraction when a girl sees you playing piano?I don't understand what you mean. Explain. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/15 07:20 PM |
| 1 | I need some reading material, tips and advices regarding shy girls. Got any?Details? | /r/askTRP | 03/09/15 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Vent: Party days are good, SMV is high and better than ever, but I deeply miss movie nightsIt depends. Do you want to party hard? Go live in Curitiba (PR), Florianópolis (SC) or Porto Alegre (RS). Do you want some LTR material? Any state between those three, but live in the country towns, become friends with everyone - literally everyone, you'll need to be friends in common with every girl you want to meet - and then go talk to the "hard" girls, the ones who are kinda shy and are somewhat hard to open up. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/15 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Vent: Party days are good, SMV is high and better than ever, but I deeply miss movie nightsBut mostly the way you speak English. Damn. From a shitty town in the middle of Santa Catarina to the capital, Florianópolis. Therefore, bear in mind that I speak from a southern point of view. Depending on where you're from, you may encounter a dissonance between what I say and your reality. Inner Paraná to Porto Alegre. Harder chicks, if not because of their SMV, have a higher chance of coming from traditional households and, therefore, disdaining sluttiness (that's why they're hard to get). Y… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 10:40 AM |
| 2 | Vent: Party days are good, SMV is high and better than ever, but I deeply miss movie nightsYou're Brazilian, aren't you? Good news: LTR-material girls are everywhere in our country. Bad news: you're unlikely to find those in your situation. Big city + college + young girls = they all ride the CC (the ones who can) and don't care about relationships. Yeah. What gave me in? I've done the same thing you're doing right now: moved from a shithole town to the capital, for college. College parties are wild and everyone makes out and all that, but you'll never find LTR-material girls in those… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/09/15 02:38 AM |
| 3 | Vent: Party days are good, SMV is high and better than ever, but I deeply miss movie nightsForgot to mention, can't drive in the capital. Car is back at hometown. My country's fees and tributes are too high for me to go to college, live away from home and also have my own car. A LTR would be nice, but I'm craving on oneitis. Nexted that fucking girl but I still compare every single one I meet to her. Props to the creativity, though. Makes me think on some viable alternative solutions. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/15 05:14 PM |
| 2 | 3 Rules to Live ByKeep your emotions to yourself. What about positive emotions? Thrill, excitement, happiness? Don't they show high self-esteem and therefore high personal value? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/15 01:18 PM |
| 2 | 610 cold approaches. Personal PostTwo questions: Are there any words or subject you noticed that you should never mention anymore because they would ruin everything? What about words or subjects that almost always make everything go smoother? | /r/seduction | 25/08/15 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Does it kill attraction when a girl sees you playing piano?I was with a few friends in a party club with a piano room. They were also there, made out with them moments before. The moment they saw me sitting on the chair they got out of the piano room. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/15 09:18 PM |
| 1 | When women are asking for validation, in which situations should you validate them?So no things such as "saw your Instagram photos, liked your style"? | /r/askTRP | 21/08/15 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Is "I'm a terrible person" an example of hamstering?"bitch you make Hitler look like a preschool teacher" Jesus Christ I'm going to recite this one until I get asleep every night so I get this quote at the back of my head for whenever I need it. It's golden. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/15 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Texting, IMing and Whatsapp: is the 5-minute rule still real?May I ask for an example? It's often hard to judge when people are being sensitive and jealous of someone who's merely confident and whatnot, versus when you might actually have something to work on. I think it's a bit of both. I've received feedback that confirms that sometimes I seem to "always wanting to be the right one" (because I express myself firmly and that's a personality trait of mine) and also some that said that people with low self-esteem avoid me or think that I'm pretentious beca… | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Texting, IMing and Whatsapp: is the 5-minute rule still real?People read them through the phone notifications. | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Texting, IMing and Whatsapp: is the 5-minute rule still real?In what way? People often think that I'm full of myself. The worst piece of advice I've received from a guy around my age was "there are no mindgames, they don't exist". | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Texting, IMing and Whatsapp: is the 5-minute rule still real?Overall, you should have a life that makes it difficult to be just sitting with your phone texting all day. I mean really, you have a life and it should be lived, which is impossible if you're on a damn phone. I'll quote myself on this one: This concept seems outdated to me. Nowadays everybody is constantly talking to everyone through their phones even in the middle of work. The need to fake yourself as being busy seems stupid these days. And in my particular case, I'm a college student during h… | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Texting, IMing and Whatsapp: is the 5-minute rule still real?If they take long to answer you - because they are playing their unavailability/fake business games -, do you promptly reply them or do you also take 5-10min to reply? The girls around 17-19 seem to expect that kind of behavior from guys, for me it's like what you said - complete BS, absolute complete horseshit. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Texting, IMing and Whatsapp: is the 5-minute rule still real?Doing this would indicate that you have no social contact whatsoever, because when you text your friends, you might aswell text that girl you're into, and who the fuck texts their friends only 2-3 times a day? This is exactly what I think. These sidebar guidelines must be updated to today's needs. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 01:51 PM |
| 4 | Texting, IMing and Whatsapp: is the 5-minute rule still real?This concept seems outdated to me. Nowadays everybody is constantly talking to everyone through their phones even in the middle of work. The need to fake yourself as being busy seems stupid these days. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Texting, IMing and Whatsapp: is the 5-minute rule still real?Consider the fact of meeting them online, which you would if you had payed attention to the OP. When you first meet them, you're not going to outright set up a date, you have to build comfort first. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Should you try your chances with a lesbian girl?Thanks! Any idea on to why she avoided me (them both ran away) later? That's the part that bugs me the most. | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Should you try your chances with a lesbian girl?We grinded our legs like half an hour later, but anytime she wouldn't want me there or like removed my hand from her back I would immediately back off, excuse myself and go party somewhere else. She didn't do that, and that really confuses me when looking at the whole context. Especially what she said, I mean, in that place I was the only guy she'd be with or pick up or whatever. The hell. I'm still confused about it. | /r/seduction | 25/05/15 07:15 PM |
| 0 | Should you try your chances with a lesbian girl?What blue-screened my brain was when she said that I would also be the only one. I mean, what the fuck man?! All my friends said I should've gone for it because sometimes lesbian girls kiss guys. Go figure. | /r/seduction | 25/05/15 10:14 AM |
| 1 | I arranged a meeting and now we've kinda run out of conversation subjects... should I worry about it?Update: she agreed to go out sunday, and since she was traveling we set it up for today. Today I asked her if 6:30pm would be okay for me to show up there and.... no answer :( Guess that's it, boys. | /r/seduction | 23/12/14 07:54 PM |
| 1 | I arranged a meeting and now we've kinda run out of conversation subjects... should I worry about it?Alright, thanks! | /r/seduction | 23/12/14 03:36 AM |
| 1 | I arranged a meeting and now we've kinda run out of conversation subjects... should I worry about it?Because I was traveling and so was she | /r/seduction | 23/12/14 03:19 AM |
| 1 | I arranged a meeting and now we've kinda run out of conversation subjects... should I worry about it?Yeah, about the same stuff. I don't like talking about me first because it sounds like "me, me, me and me" to them, so I always ask something about her, make a comment and then say about myself. Today I ended up asking her what she did today, because I had literally no other thing to say lol (I'm bad at texting) | /r/seduction | 23/12/14 03:12 AM |
| 1 | I arranged a meeting and now we've kinda run out of conversation subjects... should I worry about it?We've already talked about where she wants to go, what she wants to study, the movies, books and music she likes... Should I just wait? | /r/seduction | 23/12/14 02:59 AM |
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