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DiscussionKralee/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 03:23 AM
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I've been to do a seperate post on this myself but never get around it. The data is in; woman of any BMI generally don't have a problem getting laid. In fact for college aged women the higher the BMI the higher the number of sexual partners. Sexual partners fall way off after a BMI of 50 though. However there is a huge "relationship gap". Women and men with higher BMIs have trouble entering into and maintaining long term relationships vs. their thinner counterparts. References available.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 02:41 AM
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This is not a good faith "change my view."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:01 PM
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Yea, I dated one of those before. They're very good at publicly doing the "upsell" about how successful and ground breaking the company they are the founder and CEO of is. The part they gloss over is how they've never managed to support themselves and no company they owned has ever turned a profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:32 PM
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cool story
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:59 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:56 AM
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To assess someone's competency and intelligence based on their clothes, outward display, and earnings is not a perfect metric. You provided good exceptions; I'll even throw in actors, musicians, and athletes. Most people are not born rich (wealth only lasts a few generations anyhow), most people don't win the lottery or become crypt millionaires, and most people are not highly paid actors, musicians, and athletes. These are exceptions that prove the rule. IQ and lifetime earnings is highly corre…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 07:51 PM
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>Whereas men who party and are good for nothing get to meet a lot of women It's not intelligence and education that limit dating options. It's being boring that does. The people at parties aren't boring; they're fun. They're doing things that lower inhibitions and increase oxytocin and dopamine for everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:56 AM
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That's because women by and large think "If he's so smart why isn't he wealthy?". If you made money obviously you're pretty smart.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:50 AM
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Some of them do, go learn how to cut down the trees or how to join the wood together into something worth money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:30 PM
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The results
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:27 PM
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It's semantics. The term certainly lesbian bed death was not invented by me nor even defined by me. Dead bedroom is clinically defined as sex less than 10 times per year. The paper confirms that most lesbian couples over 30 are in clinical dead bedrooms. You personally defined it as 0 = death. I defined it as 6. Still semantics between us. Even still, this a sociology, a soft science. So hard literal definitions will never fit and inferential definitions will suit you better. It's fact that lesb…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 07:18 PM
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I guess it's semantics then. Because for me, less than 6 times a year is effectively dead in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:58 PM
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Eh, it's an anecdote. I'm sure most things are regionally different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:44 PM
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I took issue with you describing it as a myth. It's not. I wanted to reiterate that it's the most infrequent but longer, and provide more detail and a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:42 PM
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I don't think women are as interested in sex and much as they are interested in Male Attention. Male attention can be pretty addictive for lots of women. I've heard some girls say they have sex simply because they crave the 100% attention of the man during the moment and the cuddling and safety following the sex. I think it's in the lizard brain. Since back in hunter gatherer times male attention could potentially mean life or death for the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:21 PM
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This is not true. I've provided a link to an article from 2014 the updated and reassessed the sexual habits of same sex relationships. You probably can't access fully unless you have Jstor account. https://utpjournals.press/doi/10.3138/cjhs.2393 While the sexual frequency data replicated past findings, with female same-sex couples reporting the lowest sexual frequencies, sexual duration data painted a very different picture, with female same-sex couples reporting significantly longer durations s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:14 PM
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I agree, I suspect it's the medication side effects that put them over 300 lbs. Not so much that they are depressed because they are over 300 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 11:26 PM
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I have almost exclusively dated overweight women since it is my preference from as along as can remember. I have had sex with women of all shapes and sizes to try it out and still always preferred women in the 30 - 40 BMI range. However, as I get older I am progressively dating smaller women closer to the 25 to 30 BMI range simply because of the depression and mental illness that seems to run rampant amongst the overweight women crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 10:15 PM
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The blackmail can only happen in a situation where the purchase of sex is illegal but the selling of sex is legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 07:01 PM
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Enlighten me then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:42 PM
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I won't confirm or deny, but the brothels in Europe have good reviews.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 04:38 PM
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The poster above gave some pretty good advice. I didn't realize you wanted instant guaranteed sex. I thought you just wanted some advice to attract women. I provided advice specifically to the question "what is dress well?" Anyways, a hooker is instant sex, not guaranteed always but throw enough money at a problem and it'll go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 03:50 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/malefashionadvice/comments/5da1xt/building_a_basic_wardrobe_v60/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 02:54 PM
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I've been meaning to make a post on this for many months. I have charts and graphs all queued up ready to showcase then men very frequently choose the fat chick over the thin girl for sex. Based on dating profile messages and self reported n counts at colleges. Or reading the data differently fat women give sex up more easily as a strategy to secure a relationship. Where a thin women can maintain the attraction longer resulting in fewer n counts but similar amounts of long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 09:54 PM
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I hope so and they really should. Since automation, economic and social factors are turning the West into a service based economy. There will be more higher pay jobs that favour women and less that favour men. And the Internet is allowing great options for at home businesses and DIY learning videos making it all a perfect scenario for stay at home dads to become the norm. However the statistics still say women don't like being the breadwinner and they don't like stay at home dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/19 04:21 PM
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I think most men and women have had filler relationships, generally they're short term and intended for fun and sex. However, on a more darker side I do know 3 girls from my high school who dated and lived with older guys specifically for free rent during university and then broke off the relationship after graduation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 05:41 PM
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This comment I highlighted refered the correlation of a credit score before marriage and number of married years. Higher credit, longer marriage. As to your question. Most financial statistics focus on household earnings. The higher the household income, the lower the chance of divorce. This also applies to post secondary education. If men or women have post secondary education chance of divorce drops. Undoubtedly post secondary education can correlate to higher earnings and correlates to higher…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 05:32 PM
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Really bad article to make your case. Not only was their no cited statistics. This quote was even it. Those with the highest credit scores were most likely to form long-lasting committed relationships. And the better your financial footing and the higher your credit score when a committed relationship starts, the less likely you are to break up after the first few years, the study showed. Poor people divorce at a much higher rate than the wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 03:42 PM
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I tried it a few times. It blew up in my face every time as it should. The last blow up led me to TRP, mgtow and ultimately this place. I let myself get worse than the other options as you put it. Looking back on it I don't blame the women for be unhappy and wanting out of the relationship. It made me have to seriously look at myself in the mirror and improve myself. Which is better obviously. Now I actually have access to women who are socially higher up in the ladder than me and can even put o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 11:10 PM
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Some men want to be Captain Save-a-hoe. They see a hot women above their league and think they can be different than other assholes by being her hero. They will try to leverage their higher social hierarchical position and support; financial and emotional, over a desperate women to better appeal to her. This of course won't work since once she raises her spot in the social hierarchy from the "Hero's" support her hypergamy will no longer be met and she will look elsewhere to fulfill it. I don't k…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 09:52 PM
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responding with a what-a-boutism merely hammer home his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:43 PM
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cool data, I wish I could get access to the Duke one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 05:37 PM
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That is not the definition of a single parent. Single parent: A biological or adoptive parent or legal guardian aged 18–64 living in a family with children under age 18 in which there are no other adults in the household.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 11:18 PM
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I think that's a poor straw man. Dr. Oz is a non practicing surgeon giving bad diet advice. Peterson is an employed professor and clinical psychologist currently doing research at the University of Toronto. Peterson actually agrees with you that transgenderism is a biologicaly provable and innate condition. Looks the disagreement is on how much biology or culture affects your choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 08:05 PM
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Jordan Peterson is a tenured doctor of psychology specializing in the study of how people form beliefs. I don't see why he's less credible than the other scientists in this subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 07:40 PM
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I think a lot of young single men go through a quarter life crisis as they begin to determine what their life purpose is, their values, and which direction they want to follow in life. Of course you need to have had despair, health, shelter, and some spending money before you can start considering self actualization.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 08:40 PM
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The title is a bit misleading; the stats they are pulling from list the deadliest shooting from 2005 to 2015. Columbine happened in 1999. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_school_shootings_in_the_United_States#2000s There really wasn't any large shooting between 2000 and 2004. Does changing the list from "26 out of 27" to "26 out of 29" really bolster any point you're trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 11:10 PM
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There is a high amount of rape, yes. But it has more to do with economic hopelessness and terrible broken parents who came from the residential school system which all manifests itself into anger, isolation and substance abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 11:42 PM
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I'm not American, but I agree with your statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 09:37 PM
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I used to work up in the Yukon and Northwest Territories doing mining and pipe fitting. Trust me, there is a lot of Inuit prostitutes. Like a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 08:42 PM
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More than zero. LoL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 12:55 PM
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RIP Jams; I'll never forget that time you told me my value as a man was directly proportional to the amount of orgasms I can provide a woman in a single night.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 02:50 AM
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F
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 02:42 AM
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Anecdotally all the homeschooled people I know are doctors, lawyers and city planners. Their parents pulled them from public school because religion was being heavily pushed by all the teachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 06:29 PM
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One of the biggest correlations RP make, aside from cheating, is a women with a high N count has more problems Pair bonding. It does: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/08/21/more-sexual-partners-unhappy-marriage_n_5698440.html http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2540009/Women-sleep-university-likely-depressed.html http://public.psych.iastate.edu/ccutrona/psych592a/articles/Sexual%20infidelity%20in%20women.pdf http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2733220/Women-don-t-sleep-wedding-happie…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 01:42 AM
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Jesus Christ Marie, they're minerals!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 04:19 AM
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I'm basing this off the words that have been said to me. Unless you'd like to validate the TRP watch what they do mantra.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 03:56 AM
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-Anecdotes galore- Just recently a girl posted a picture that came up on my fb homefeed; "What do you call guys under 6 feet? Friends!" -This quote received 100s of upvotes. I myself am close to 5'6'' and it is the single biggest reason girls reject me. On the other end of the spectrum 50% of the girls I've dated have been taller than me by an inch or 3. I've literally had girls say to me "sorry I don't date short guys"despite me being taller than them on multiple occasions. Once I was sitting a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 12:12 AM
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If it makes you feel better; that statistic includes divorced women who have 50% custody and receive child support payments. Which aren't really single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 06:33 PM
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I know it's a red herring and not normal. But there is a tall drug addicted homeless guy from my highschool that apparently has a huge dick. I've met 7 girls now who have had him over, fed him, gave him a shower, sport fucked him, and sent him back into the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 04:26 PM
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I used to bring my girl flowers like 2-3 times a week and she loved it every time! It was easy for me though since there was a cemetery on my commute home from work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 07:20 PM
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I don't think he's revolutionary in anyway, just re-hashing old and forgotten ideas. I think he's not very articulate and that gets him in trouble. But you can't deny the plethora of men and women positively responding to his psychiatry and self help teachings. What do you mean by charlatan?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 09:27 PM
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I think there has been a big effect already from #metoo. But not the intended one. Right now I'm actually not sure what the intention was. The original purpose of "Me Too" as used by Tarana Burke in 2006, was to empower women through empathy, especially young and vulnerable women. In October 2017, Alyssa Milano encouraged using the phrase as a hashtag to help reveal the extent of problems with sexual harassment and assault by showing how many people have experienced these events themselves.[22][…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 05:59 PM
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I did hire a women to buy clothes for me via Craigslist. Great investment, I'm not fashionable but now receive compliments on my outfits. It wasn't even expensive because there are tonnes of stay at home moms looking for a side income and getting paid to shop is a sweet gig for some.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/18 07:06 PM
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Nuh-uh, Asians too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 01:58 AM
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I can't speak about TRP too much since I never really read it. But I can say PUA between the years 2008 and 2012 were very, very helpful to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 07:07 PM
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https://www.bbc.com/news/world-28679020 In my country surrogacy is illegal. However abortion is legal. Because the government thinks women can only have bodily autonomy some of the time. Artificial wombs are more likely to happen in some countries than legalization of surrogacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 02:12 AM
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I agree. To do so is selfish at the expense of the child. If anyone wants to raise the idea of communal parenting, that's a different conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 02:08 AM
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Out of curiosity what would you say exactly to educate and warn young women about their own hypergamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 01:02 AM
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Nice guys don't finish last. Boring guys do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 09:41 PM
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Correct it's only available to the custodial parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 04:40 PM
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True. And a women has a say in whether she has unprotected sex too. Yet she is allowed to give up her parental obligations on not one but two occasions. This is a problem to me. Especially on an ethical and morale level. The slavery thing is hyperbole I can drop it. However if not paying child support would directly lead to jail time, I would most certainly consider it slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:41 AM
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the point being made is that to say you bear no responsibility in fathering a child and saying you had no choice and blaming “society” for you failing to use a condom is ridiculous. What a straw-man, nobody is blaming society for a lack of condom useage. Men don't have babies. Women do, they decide whether an abortion takes place or not. Men have no say in whether a child is born, they deserve a say whether they want to be parent. A father that doesn't want to be a parent will not make a good pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 03:17 AM
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Parenthood is never forced on anyone. It is the natural consequence of having unprotected sex. Everyone has agency to choose to not have unprotected sex if they wish to avoid the potential consequences. Why is it ok for couples to have abortions but not men to have financial abortions? You said yourself right here If you don't want a kid, then don't have unprotected sex. Goes for both men and women. Don't take the risk if you staunchly are so against being a parent. If you can't do the time don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 12:52 AM
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Can you elaborate? How in one breath can you say "If you don't want a kid don't have unprotected sex" And in another say "By the way, women who had unprotected sex and don't want a kid, go ahead and get an abortion"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 12:37 AM
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Parenthood is never forced on anyone. It is the natural consequence of having unprotected sex. Everyone has agency to choose to not have unprotected sex if they wish to avoid the potential consequences. If you don't want a kid, then don't have unprotected sex. Goes for both men and women. Don't take the risk if you staunchly are so against being a parent. If you can't do the time don't do the crime. All these justifications you said regarding men who want financial abortions are equally applicab…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 12:28 AM
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Do you disagree with legal maternal surrender? It's legal in most states for mothers to surrender their parental rights and make children wards of the state within the first 30 days of life. So if you missed out on the abortion time frame you still have a second chance to give up all financial and parental responsibilities as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 12:15 AM
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What exactly are you having trouble understanding? So I can better make my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 12:10 AM
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These two things are not mutually exclusive. If you are a pregnant women without an abortion clinic nearby and no money or means to travel to one in the next state over; do you have bodily autonomy? Not only that but finance is an extension of my body. I use my body to do work and make money. To say you have a right to my earned cash is to say you have a right to body. Within the context of forced, non-consensual child support you are enacting a kind of slavery. Luckily in my country to not pay …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 12:07 AM
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You've read too much into this. I never stated my opinion. I'm questioning the hypocrisy of saying financial abortions for men is reprehensible but the physical abortion is perfectly fine. Especially when the justification is "you had unprotected sex, you knew the consequences, now deal with them"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 11:27 PM
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Parenthood is never forced on anyone. It is the natural consequence of having unprotected sex. Everyone has agency to choose to not have unprotected sex if they wish to avoid the potential consequences. Why do you not feel men should not have personal responsibility here? If you don't want a kid, then don't have unprotected sex. Goes for both men and women. Don't take the risk if you staunchly are so against being a parent. If you can't do the time don't do the crime. These are good bullets poin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 08:40 PM
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Different from province to province and different rules for federal laws too. Generally "in marriage like relationship for 1 year" means you are now considered married in the eyes of the federal government for tax and separation purposes. "In marriage like relationship for 2 years and 1 day" means you are now considered married in the eyes of the provincial government for tax and separation purposes. You do not necessarily have to live together or have kids together for common law marriage to ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 07:44 PM
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Mennonite, Dutch Reformed, and 7th day Adventist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 12:51 AM
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It's not. I've been to 3 Christian singles mixer events put on by churches and the ratio of men to women is always about 4:1.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 09:10 PM
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I used to go to the casino about once a week with my ex-gf. I can count on two hands the amount of times some random guy at the black jack table DIDN'T buy her a drink or give her money when she lost a gutsy gamble.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 03:28 AM
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I can't help you then. It's not as if they had the democratic voting system America has today back then. To have land gave you power to make changes and vote within the feudal system. To vote on changes within the largest and most influential company since the East India Company is voting power.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 05:57 PM
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If you owned land or the ability to vote in a union within a large textile guild. You have voting power.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 05:50 PM
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I was wrong about Roman women having voting power and political office. But they still could own property, write contracts, buy and sell slaves, initiate divorce etc. In Saxon England (before the Norman Conquest in 1066) married women could own and inherit property. However after the Norman Conquest in 1066 the idea of coverture developed I specifically said unmarried women in the 1600s had voting power and could hold property. Its true that married women could not. The 1700s and 1800s were not …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 05:35 PM
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Women held political positions and voted in Egyptian and Roman societies thousands of years ago. Unmarried women had property and voting rights in England since the 1600s and only lost those rights in the laws of feme coverture. Women have always experienced physical domination from men and that will most likely never change.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 03:37 PM
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I recently have been getting into homebrewing. I made a pretty decent IPA, then a nice honey kolch. I started doing ciders and mead now and enjoy doing those slightly more. I'm starting to wonder if brewing was a job I should be doing more seriously. So I went to a nice local craft brewery and said I'd volunteer for them on the weekends to learn more about the craft in a commercial setting. They seemed very surprised in the interview that I'd like to work for free. I'll see how this all plays ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 09:42 PM
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My friend's wife has her master's degree fertility science and works at a large fertility clinic. She wrote a paper regarding how women's choice to have babies later is the cause for the large increase in mental disorders in North America. It's currently in the peer review stage and hasn't been published by any journal yet so we'll see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 04:16 PM
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Then you have to cross that morale conundrum of do you abort the downs baby and try again or do you have it and deal the consequences of an after 40 birth. If you abort and try again you just signed up for another 2 grand in surgeries and treatments as well as careful fertility planning for the next year.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/18 04:01 PM
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A SAHP is a fine career many people do for 10-20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 04:54 PM
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This sub, mgtow, TRP, and TBP should be constant reminders that men are extremely interested in pop feminism's dating preconceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 08:48 PM
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Nihilism is boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 01:05 PM
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I don't know what to tell you. Some of us have pride and personal agency; so we improve ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 04:09 AM
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[85% of men in prison grew up in fatherless homes 63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes 71% of highschool dropouts are from fatherless homes 90% of all homeless runaway kids are from fatherless homes 80% of all rapists are from fatherless homes 75% of all adolescents in drug abuse centers are from fatherless homes 70% of all juveniles in state prison institutions are from fatherless homes 72% of all adolescent murders come from fatherless homes](https://www.youngwarriors.org/fatherless…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/18 01:29 AM
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That's a good rebuttal. I always forget the US government stats include divorcees as single mothers even though they are objectively different.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 09:38 PM
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To add to this comment. During the 60s and 70s when the welfare state of America was formed. The single motherhood rate in the African American community jumped from less than 20%, in the 60s. To over 70% in the 80s.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 07:26 PM
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You're wrong about this. I'm going to dig for a source to prove it. But basically a study surfaced on this sub regarding N-counts for men and women on USA college campuses; it showed that the higher the BMI of a woman, the higher N-count she had. Also a woman with a higher BMI was more likely to have sex on the first date. Edit: Found it; 3rd graph you'll notice that women with BMI's over 40 have the most sexual partners out there
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 12:19 AM
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I think you just described a good amount of the female groupies from the 80s and 90s. Specifically it being intertwined with a type of culture and that they're basically crazy people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 06:26 PM
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Male groupies don't exist Take a look into Asia. Specifically countries like Korea and Japan. Young adult men lusting after and following along the tours of cute pop idols is a well recognized culture over there. This story is actually kind of funny. But it highlights how wide spread being a male groupie of female idols is in Asia. https://www.tokyoreporter.com/2017/12/06/male-fans-of-idol-groups-used-nationwide-fare-dodging-network-to-attend-events/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 06:19 PM
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Sure, do your thing. There's no one path to happiness and satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 05:08 PM
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Traditional fallacy. Just because it was done that way historically doesn't mean it's right. I'm not here to change your mind. It's just my opinion that if I have children it will be me and the mother that will provide the bulk majority of child rearing. I think it's a waste to have children and then have another raise your child. You miss out on all the major joys of being a parent, and allow another the satisfaction. I'll also add that nannys and au pairs come and go pretty rapidly. And then y…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 05:01 PM
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It's different for everyone. Hard to say what your experience will be. While I'm happy an intelligent person is procreating. My personal opinion is that there is no point in having kids if you're going to outsource the person who raises them, be that a nanny, daycare, or even if grandparents are the main carers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:41 PM
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I would try to change your mind to have your child before 30. After 30 it becomes much more difficult to get pregnant compared to when you're in your 20s. You'll probably be waiting longer and planning your fertility days more intensely. After 30 you greatly increase the chances of bearing a child with health defects. And after 30 your energy levels drops vs being in your 20s and for some people it's difficult to not just have the time, but have the energy to raise small children and work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:12 PM
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Baido is in Chinese. I don't read or speak Chinese. If there's an English version I never found it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 04:52 PM
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Well I had to work while I was there. There was lots google searches and information I tried to access that was denied to me. And whenever the internet cut out I called my boss and said I'm going home and he was cool with it. If you're just there to smoke, drink, fuck, and gamble. You'll have a good time with the Chinese.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 04:18 PM
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I also used Wechat. And I can also confirm that Chinese girls all want western boyfriends so it was pretty fun at the bars and pretty easy to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 04:05 PM
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No the credit system is not yet implemented and I'm unsure how it will be enforced in rural and upper class parts of the country. No the surveillance was the worst part. Armed Army members at every street corner, the senators now have no age out or vote out system, they opted to change that themselves. Xi Ping can now not be voted out or aged out so he's a dictator now with army support. The great firewall of China is the worst, such internet sensorship. The internet cuts out every 4 hours to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 03:15 PM
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My friend and I returned from China 4 weeks ago where we taught English to university students. AMA.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 03:06 PM
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Of course it matters. There is a great sense of pride and sexual gratification that comes with giving women orgasms.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 07:06 PM
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customize the bounds of the marriage contract, percentages of assets rewarded in case of dissolution, of fault, cause etc etc. also to include what assets shall be marriage assets and what assets shall not? Two of my friends have parents that did something like this; but they are middle eastern and it was an arranged marriage where the parents of the spouses helped negotiate the actual contract they have. And the contracts are huge and have strange items in them, off the top of my head one of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:41 PM
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Ok Of course there is a limit on my time, energy, and money. What is the correct amount to you? I keep a meticulous budget of my money and an organized day planner of everything I do and how long it took. I've observed other people's budgets and day planners as well. for me at least when I start talking to a girl and begin seeing her my costs of living increase by about 10-20% per week for dates, events, displays of romance, additional gas costs. My free time decreases by about 1-4 hours per day…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 02:22 AM
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You laid out lot of words for things most people won't argue against. Most people will agree that sex is inherently riskier for women. That's the reason why most women want to have sex with a man who has already had sex with other women; he is already pre-approved for pleasure and saftey so to speak. What do you mean specifically when you say "men should invest more"? They should invest more money into getting sex? They should invest more time and effort in the confines of a relationship? I'll a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 04:13 PM
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Forty-four percent of lesbian women, 61% of bisexual women, and 35% of heterosexual women experienced rape, physical violence, and/or stalking by an intimate partner in their lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 08:11 PM
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Noted.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 08:30 PM
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Why did she have children with a man who wasn't committed to the kids? Did he abandon the kids or did she chase him out? Maybe he was unemployed and by removing him from the house she could claim single status and collect additional funds from the welfare system - more funds than he was bringing in anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 08:28 PM
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Are colleges different from trade schools in the US? At least where I'm from colleges offer vocational training and you don't have to have an IQ over 100 to get into the welding or hair styling program at local college. Just gotta have the dough and the ability to delay gratification which is in even shorter supply in impoverished people than IQ points
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 08:22 PM
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Yes you are correct; the extremely, microscopically small sample of mentally ill men that shoot up schools are a bad thing. Creating life haphazardly and wrecklessly is far more destructive than shitposting. this statement still stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 07:34 PM
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-______- not everyone is a raging horn dog listing after random people in their life. Robbed of law many people would be murderers. -______- Not everyone is an immoral killer who only abstains because of the law. And not everyone is a horn dog who only abstains because of culture. I've now shown you that what you've said can be basically be summed up as "some people are moral and some aren't" Which is exactly the same as what /u/TheGreasyPole and /u/Reven311 have been saying with: In my book the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 07:25 PM
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-______- not everyone is a raging horn dog listing after random people in their life. Robbed of law many people would be murderers. -______- Not everyone is an immoral killer who only abstains because of the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 06:58 PM
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The comment you highlighted was prefaced with: I definitely agree that unless there is some sort of rules and regulations of when a guy can and cannot have his financial abortion; child abandonment will sky rocket. I know in Canada at least there is common-law marriage laws which states that if you have been in a marriage or marriage-like relationship for 2 years and 1 day any child your wife/girlfriend has is assumed to be yours unless you dispute it with a DNA test. I would speculate that if f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 03:43 AM
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The obvious answer to "If men were allowed to have financial abortions, what would be the consequences?" is out of wedlock births would drastically drop. I think abortion rates would stay the same though. I definitely agree that unless there is some sort of rules and regulations of when a guy can and cannot have his financial abortion; child abandonment will sky rocket. I recently traveled through South America and found out that child abandonment is a huge issue down there right now, to the poi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 03:22 AM
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she got all the things because she alleged abuse. I only know one case like this but to her credit she had 4 hospital visits and 4 police reports to back up her abuse claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 02:05 AM
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The post you replied to contains no opinions. It provided an example of what a divorce rape looks like as well as statistics that can speak to a women vs men dichotomy of financial payments post-divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 01:34 AM
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Equitable as in "if you give up the house you'll receive a reduction in alimony payments"? Courts aren’t like “nah you paid 70% of the mortgage but you fucked up so that all goes to her.” Why couldn't this be the case? Family courts also handle guardianship and incompetence hearings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 01:26 AM
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I don't know the statistics of how many couples decided to liquidate the marital properties vs. opting for a court to divide the assets However, a court will look at several factors to decide who gets the house. These factors may include, but aren’t limited to the following: -each spouse’s financial circumstances -each spouse’s contributions to the marital home -each spouse’s age and physical and mental health -which parent has custody of the couple’s minor children -source of funds for the mari…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 01:11 AM
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Julie and her husband James had been married for 10 years and had 3 children. Julie stopped having sex with James and then accused him of physically abusing her. She filed for divorce and hired an expensive lawyer using their shared bank account. Julie and her lawyer divorce raped James and took the house and all the money James had saved over the years, leaving James with nothing. He was also denied the right to visit his children. James was upset with the divorce rape that Julie had committed …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 12:03 AM
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You're doing the exact shitty thing that this post criticizes, radicalizing the romanceless. While I don't really understand what you mean by this sentence. I would say that TRP can stop weak men from reaching the 3 examples I stated simply because TRP says you are the problem. While my 3 examples all have different external enemies to combat. TRP is looking internally to shore up your own weaknesses, be more attractive, and find romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 11:53 PM
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Guys who were broken emotionally, who are angry, confused, and not finding acceptance elsewhere, are exactly the guys who visit TRP, and find the philosophy an armor to go back out and do battle with. These are the easiest guys to manipulate and mobilize. You're lucky that they found TRP, if not they might might have found their way to something worse like being a white nationalist socialist following Richard Spencer, joining Antifa to enact violence on their supposed oppressors, or ISIS.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 10:03 PM
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What if there was an algorithm that was developed from a theory and it demonstrably increased the chances of connecting one human being to another, as you put it. If the theory increased the positive outcome of connecting people, would you still say there is no room for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 09:51 PM
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I was also surprised to see that squid was correct about 26 of 27 worst school shootings coming from fatherless homes. Apparently the original assertion that shooters come from unstable fatherless homes was on article in 2015 As noted above, Roof’s parents divorced even before he was born. Not only were Adam Lanza’s parents divorced, but he hadn’t seen his father in the two years before the Sandy Hook shooting. Jeff Weise, the 16-year-old school shooter who killed ten people, came from a depress…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 12:28 PM
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This is a common misconception of value and is unfortunate impasse for a lot of people in capitalism vs socialism debate , it does not have a hard cap. If I write and record a song; sell it on itunes and make 100,000$ I have just created additional value out of thin air. If I create a piece of software that renders older versions obsolete and uses less electricity; I have created value out of thin air.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 02:52 AM
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1) List your Pill, Gender/Sex, Married or single Purple, Male, frequent short term relationships 2) What's your purpose in life? What defines your life/Makes you get out of bed? It's a balanced motivation between winning financially, hedonistically experiencing the world, and doing my part; pulling my weight to make the community I live in better. The ultimate endpoint being a farm and family in a rural town 3) Are you actively pursuing your purpose? Absolutely. Everyday. 4) If you couldn't purs…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 04:19 PM
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Good for you, happy to hear this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 03:36 AM
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Yes, maybe I'll try to dig up the old definition to see the wording. It assumed that only the owner of the penis could ever possibly be guilty non consensual penetration. Edit: Rape has previously been defined as “an act of sexual intercourse" under certain conditions of force, duress or lack of consent. Other types of sexual assault, like penetration by a foreign object, were categorized as separate offenses. It looks like I may have fallen victim to media hyperbole. I suppose under that defini…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 07:52 PM
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I suppose it could be. But not necessarily, I'd say there could also be non consensual acts that include anal, oral, and urethral penetration against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 07:46 PM
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I was under the impression the definition in California changed so that acts that don't involve penetration would now be included. But I suppose I was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 07:42 PM
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You'd know better than I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 07:33 PM
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So I'd agree with this statement normally, but not in this case. Until the recent Brock Turner case, by the California state law definition it was impossible for a woman to rape a man. The wording specified that penis had to enter vagina. Brock Turner was only charged with low level sexual assault because by California law that's what it was His penis did not enter the girl. Now the laws he been changed due to outrage the case generated. So although we can say Pfft happened 10 years ago. He actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 07:22 PM
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Of the men you have asked out, or did have a relationship with; how many were shorter than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 06:30 PM
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Your comment made me chuckle. I know you put kinda in twice for good measure. But this is now the 2nd time I've had a woman do a "men as shoes" analogy. The first was when I was much younger and I asked a friend why women do the whole branch swinging thing instead of just breaking up and she replied "You wouldn't go to the shoe store barefoot" So I do find your comment funny. But also very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 06:24 PM
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Therefore, men upset at the existence of hypergamy should embrace feminist mating principles You've come to this conclusion logically but the first two premises of your argument are wrong thus making the conclusion wrong. Premise #1 Hypergamy is a natural byproduct of Patriarchy. If women are restricted from the ability to provide for ourselves or feel safe in our communal environments, then women have no choice but to engage in hypergamy - it’s a matter of survival This premise is right in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 02:56 AM
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I can search for the statistics of you want. I do remember Ikea saying that 98% of all the purchases are either made by a woman or the purchase was advised by a woman. I also remember seeing a bunch of consumer data from the US that stayed women made 80% of all market purchases. So there is lots of data and reasons to target women for advertising since they by far are the majority of all market forces. Whether the spending is frivolous or not doesn't matter, the empirical fact is 9/10 times a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 06:33 PM
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That's a good one. Breastfeeding is very important but not everyone can do it and there definitely is some shame associated with not being able to do it. Luckily some women have extra.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 06:26 PM
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The above reply was unrefined but nonetheless correct. We evolved to eat meat due to an ice age were vegetables cold not be grown or harvested. As a farm girl I'm sure you're familiar with growing seasons and how some regions can't grow anything during the fall and winter. But now with our globalized economy and advances in agriculturural science someone can very successfully be a vegetarian in the developed world. Where even only 100 years ago in the same region it would have been nearly imposs…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 08:42 PM
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I see I see. You had a good life, will not pass the good life on to a next of kin. And will live comfortably on the backs of other people's children in your old age. (Assuming you get a pension in the first place).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 10:03 PM
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That's literally how most 1st world governments have legislated how pensions and old age security packages work. I pay into a government mandated pension plan that goes directly into a retired citizen's payout who payed into the same pension plan when they were young. If you're between 18 and 36 you will most likely not receive a pension you're currently paying into if you're country has a declining native birthrate. Also I'm sympathetic towards you. I'm sorry you had a bad life. For me at least…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 09:45 PM
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I appreciate the reply but I wasn't really asking these questions. They were mostly just to display to the Spanish guy that what he was saying is easier said than done. About 10 years ago I learned the mystery method and eventually developed a personalized way to pickup women so I've never examined any other material.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 10:09 AM
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Comparing the hookup and dating culture of Spain and America is pretty much impossible I'd say. Especially since American is highly conservative, 77% Christian, and you can't drink until you're 21. The socialization you described is such a foreign world to me. When I was 15 the most I had was youth group on Wednesdays where 10% of the attendees were my cousins. If you do live in Spain I can understand why PUA methods may seem rediculous to you. As for shaming I suppose you've said nothing direct…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 11:02 PM
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You've already proved how necessary his list was in addition to other PUA teachings. is she checking you out? How do I confirm she is checking me out? What does that look like? not fucking it up and being a social retard This is another thing that needs to be explained, what does this look like exactly. Is the behaviour different for certain situations? I'm happy all this came naturally to you. But for others it didn't. You should not shame people for trying to learn and better themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 10:45 PM
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To be fair though; Within the fat dating community, men trying to date and have sex with fat women in secret, hoping to not be see in public with said fatty is a real and widespread problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 12:28 AM
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You mean the generation of people who are the most susceptible to government persuasion and coercion never had father figures?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 11:02 AM
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Part of that reason is because the definitions vary from state to state and country to country.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 12:42 AM
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While I do agree. OP's question was in relation to the TRP use of AWALT. Which is heavily (unhealthily IMO) focused on the discussion of women and their behaviours so there isn't really any point in bringing up "men do it too" since the discussion is exclusively focused on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 05:44 PM
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I know many with the opposite story. So what do we do about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 05:30 PM
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I'm on mobile so I can't pull it up. However we have lots of threads in this sub with statistics and studies regarding how the average women: Initiates the bulk majority of break up's and divorces 80 percent of post secondary educated women marry a man with a higher income than her. Over 90 percent of women prefer to date a man taller than her. The average height difference preference being 6 inches. This is hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 12:06 PM
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I'm sorry you're the exception, and not the rule. Also I don't want to discuss your personal life, if that's all you have to refute hypergamy; your own personal relationship once upon a time. Sample size of one with a side of bias. Then you can move on to the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 12:01 PM
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It's not even a gendered claim to say women want what's best for themselves, all people want what's best for themselves. Paramours included. AWALT and hypergamy as you and I are discussing, just claims women are generally more selective of what they want and are generally more opportunistic than men when it comes to dating. I'm not sure how your 5 explanations would refute the idea women want what's best for themselves and other men's own lived experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 11:35 AM
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If you're a heterosexual man that has experience with dating and relationships then you have a plethora of lived evidence regarding women's innate hypergamic tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 11:22 AM
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The Pareto principle, or 80/20 rule is very well researched and understood and predates the ok cupid study . It originally was discovered through economics in Italy and business management data that 20 percent of inputs create 80 of the outputs. Or 20 percent of workers create 80 percent of value for example. Later it was found that this was also observed in other areas, like medicine, computer science and nature. Where 20% of male birds of a few species were creating 80% of the offspring. I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 11:29 PM
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There was an incel black girl who made a bunch of threads saying that phrase during a purge week.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 05:28 PM
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To pay my way through vocational school I worked at a University as a janitor. In the summer I deep cleaned the dorm rooms for the next year's students to move in. I'm now very quick at cleaning my home and very good at it. I know exactly the most efficient way to clean several types of rooms and keep them clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 09:37 PM
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JP has been accused of alot of things but not misogyny. Why do you say this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 07:26 PM
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In this subreddit we all know that unless you found your girlfriend attractive her personality would not be of much consequence to you. I digress; I am roughly the same size as you and also prefer overweight women. I only asked as to make a point and further my claim that the demographic of men that like overweight women is much higher than what this sub gives credence to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 10:11 PM
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Do you like overweight girls or do you think she's just the best you could get?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 09:46 PM
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I don't understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 11:53 PM
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Well, sometimes. Men don't have children, women do. So generally a single father is a single parent not by choice, most likely a death of the mother or something. In the event that the man is a single father because he stuck his dick in crazy without protection or any thought of if this women will be a good mother that will stick around or not. Then he is just as contemptible as the rest of them and I will treat him as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 05:06 PM
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Never. I advocate to all other men and women not to enter into relationships with single parents. I also advocate people to shame by-choice single parents since it's a strain on a country's welfare system; and all single parents really do is raise maladjusted criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 03:43 PM
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Interesting article. So it confirmed everything I said the except for only difference being that you could drop the child off so long as it is 30 days old or younger. Seems reasonable, good for Nebraska.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 11:59 PM
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Once your child is older than that they can pretty much take care of themselves so you can effectively stop being a parent really and just live selfishly. I know I see this all the time in poverty level homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 09:31 PM
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Sure you can. The custodial parent can relinquish their parental rights if they think they cannot provide a safe home or have a safe relationship between child and parent. Go down to the police station, sign the forms, leave the kid. And done, the kids are now wards of The State.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 09:27 PM
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I know of 3 cases in my own life of single mothers who voluntarily gave up their parental rights of their child who were over the age of 10. In one, the claim was that the child was a violent, disobedient boy and she did not believe she had the resources to care for him and that he would grow up to be a danger to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 09:23 PM
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Yea. I know you're going to say that it can only be done in certain circumstances. But generally if you say a safe relationship between child and parent or a safe home can't be provided for the child that's enough to voluntarily relinquish parental rights and make the children wards of The State.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 09:16 PM
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I'd argue the opposite, atleast in the US and Canada. Since the mother is the custodial parent 95% of the time and the custodial parent always has the right to go to a police station and sign away their parental rights and give their children up to the State for care. Non - custodial parents are almost always men and by law non custodial parents cannot relinquish their parental duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 07:16 PM
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"Deep Masculinity" is a term I've never heard. I'm interested to learn about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 01:52 AM
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As a young man in the dating sphere I do kind of agree with you OP. The bulk majority of girls I've dated and engaged in casual sex with highly desired DD/Lg and BDSM lifestyle. I just always thought it was me attracting weirdos though and not a general trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 05:01 PM
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Regardless if overweight young females are average or not. The demand for them outstrip the supply. Last I checked the data for plus size dating websites the male to female ratio was 5:1
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 04:09 AM
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You're right more people are not having kids. But it's not helping because for ever 2 couples of middle class people going childfree there is a pair of rednecks having 6 kids living in a trailer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 03:40 PM
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N count should matter to people looking for a long term relationship. Here is why: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/08/21/more-sexual-partners-unhappy-marriage_n_5698440.html http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2540009/Women-sleep-university-likely-depressed.html http://public.psych.iastate.edu/ccutrona/psych592a/articles/Sexual%20infidelity%20in%20women.pdf http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2733220/Women-don-t-sleep-wedding-happier-marriages-men-play-field-without-worry-study-find…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:24 AM
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In my country if you miss 2 months of child support your driver's license gets suspended. This is a terrible practice since most men miss the child support payments simply because they aren't earning enough money to both support themselves in their home as well as the mother and the children in a completely separate home. When you remove their ability to drive you massively limit their earning potential too. Totally regressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 04:38 AM
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Red Pareto Principle 80/20 rule of attraction is real and applies to many other faucets of life. Traditional Gender roles are generally best, probably for 80% of people. Dread Game works PUA tactics work so long as you find a a routine that fits your own personal frame. Physical attraction is more important than we all want to admit Blue Respect and Verbal Communication is important in relationships Feminism has a few good points and reasons to exist While generally the man should lead there are…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 05:11 AM
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IUDs are pretty cool in theory. I have had sex with 2 ladies with IUDs and for one of them it was great. The other one had it tilt internally inside her which resulted in her going to the emergency room for surgery leaving a permanent scar in pelvic region.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 12:10 AM
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I've had far too many women in my life miss a dose one day or forget to go to the doctor and get another depo shot to ever take that claim seriously. Though I think a calculating person like yourself won't have that problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 09:29 PM
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I hear it fails alot. I guess to be fair the the guy doing the cumming into a women he just believes in good faith to be on birth control is truly the one living dangerously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 09:06 PM
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That's some dangerous living for a person intending to be child free.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 08:39 PM
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Not only does this have nothing to do with PPD. Muhammad isn't the supreme leader, he's just a profit. The God is Allah. And part of me thinks you're talking about the Islamic State, not the religion of Islam.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 08:44 PM
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I'd say a strong majority of interpersonal relationships are transactional. If you've ever dumped someone it's because you perceived the costs of dating that person was too great or the reward from the relationship was too small.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 06:42 PM
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In your weird example you described something known as cost vs. benefit or risk vs. reward. There are several risks associated with marriage and relationships. Some people believe the rewards out-weight the risks. Some people believe the cost of a potential divorce is greater than the perceived reward of a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 05:28 AM
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What is the Atlas_be_Shruggin advice for a young millennial man to become a "husband a woman can turn herself over to"? Just stop watching porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 12:21 AM
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If you're a man and you get married you've already signed a contract that says your wife and family court will control a huge portion of your destiny whether you're a stay-at-home-dad or not. I personally don't see the attitudes ever changing and would never be a stay-at-home-dad myself despite acknowledging that it sounds attractive to me. For fear of the reasons listed above resulting in my wife losing attraction to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 06:04 AM
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If you are divorced you can't be a stay-at-home-dad. In the case of stay-at-home-dads women initiate more than 70% of the divorces against them. As of now the majority of women do not see the realty of a stay-at-home-dad to be attractive. If attitudes of attraction and respect from women towards stay-at-home-dads change then more men will opt into this lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 05:29 AM
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I personally think stay-at-home-dads are great and this is the ultimate time to be a stay-at-home-dad. Women have broken through the glass ceiling and can easily be the breadwinner of the household. With access to the internet a dad with the kids at school can learn to do basically any odd job around the house with cooking, cleaning, gardening, auto-repair, appliance repair, electrical work and solar paneling just to name a few. However, the general population of women do not yet share this opin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 03:39 AM
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I agree, context is important and Israel is weirdly hypergamous to a high degree. If you saw my post from awhile back you'd learn that in Israel it's considered rape to lie about your profession or religion to obtain sex from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 03:23 AM
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I just stated the linguistic history. I thought Electra's post was a pretty good definition of all the kinds of hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 03:17 AM
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Not likely the term hypergamy is derived from the caste system. hyper - the greek root word to mean "over" or "in excess" gamy - root word in greek is "gamos" to describe when a human woman performs a sexual ritual with a god.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 02:22 AM
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Do Blue Pill men get laid regularly? Some do and some don't. I'd imagine probably 20-30% of blue pill men do extremely well with the ladies and 70-80% don't. It's probably a similar distribution for red pill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 09:40 PM
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That was not a refutation at all. That was plain old whataboutism. It's not helpful and I wish both MRA groups and Feminist groups would cut it out. The initial list contained all valid descriptors of what can make men's life difficult and even put a precursor saying this was not to highlight the abundance of support or the ease of life a woman has but to underscore the challenges of the male lived experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 01:59 AM
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Honestly I think that is the best way to do it. I've organized finances in 2 different relationships and what I'm about to describe was by far my favourite. Do a budget together of the all the joint costs or necessary items you need for living; food, phones, rent/mortgage, toilet paper etc. Add together both of your monthly take home pay and split the costs of the joint expenses by percentage. I made more than my gf so I contributed more to the pot than her and even after contributing more than …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/17 12:22 AM
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I like putting my ideas out there and having the people here critisize and examine them. I've really appreciated the honesty from the feminists and the progressives on here. It's given me good info about things I didn't understand ( like the difference between sex gender, it was explained well on this sub). I'm much less critical of women in general and feel as though I understand their perspective more since joining this sub. It makes me more empathetic and better at conflict resolution in my d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 07:23 PM
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It's not a black or white answer for this person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 03:43 AM
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Whatever happened to Love8death? He'd have some great insight for this subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 04:31 AM
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I don't have issue with your descriptor or outlook. A girl wanting to go to the ghetto to get herself raped is what is uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/17 02:07 AM
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Please know that she is an outlier and an extreme case.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 09:16 PM
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Question #1: Why exactly is it a big deal if your wife has a high N-count? Is it because you think that she is incapable of bonding, and if so is there science to back that up? Is it because you think that you will not be the best sex she's ever had and therefore she will be fantasizing about past dick while you're fucking her and so on? You be the judge if the data is sufficient. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/08/21/more-sexual-partners-unhappy-marriage_n_5698440.html http://www.dailymail.c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 05:26 AM
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It wasn't easy, but I found one name for the contraption is "The Satisfyer Pro 2"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 12:31 AM
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Yea I never once refuted that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 10:46 PM
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Well I did not claim fat women are attractive to most men. I claimed most women are attractive to most men. User ahead of me claimed fatties are not attractive to most men. This is true. I suggested evidence that there is a large enough population of men for these fat women, in fact the population of men with fat fetishes online outscale the online presence of fat women. This was to solidify the claim that most women are attractive to most men, even with obesity in America factored in.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 09:19 PM
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Astounding counter argument. Bravo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 08:51 PM
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In some sense all women are attractive to most men is true though. Even fat women. I think the amount of men unwilling to date fat women in America is small. Since most women in America are fat, but they keep having kids, somebody is having sex with them. And the fact that men on a fat dating website way outdemand the supply of fat women on the website indicates to me a trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 07:42 PM
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As a rebuttal to that. I went on a dating website specifically for fat people dating and found there is 5 times more male users than female users.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 07:27 PM
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It's hard to say what their intentions really are. But I think these guys mean female led relationship as a whole. Which would include household and marriage, in addition to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 05:14 PM
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They exsist; at any given moment I see tonnes of online dating profiles and craigslist ads of men "looking for a female-led relationship"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 04:53 PM
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You must be an American. The bulk majority of countries in the world don't have that kind of prison system. Canada and Japan for example already prioritize rehabilitation to a fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 10:54 PM
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Law breakers don't give a shit what the laws are. My country has had a shortage of police officers for several years because not enough people can pass the psych test. We can have more law enforcement if we loosen the parameters of the psych test, but I guarantee more power abusing police officers will be the only result.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/17 10:17 PM
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So you disagree with your own posted source?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 05:51 PM
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Your sources are really bad. The Forbes one was a poll of 5000 people on match.com. Hardly an accurate view of what the average man and woman want. The article from Canada that showed men have lower metabolic syndromes in marriages. That's things like obesity, diabetes, and high cholesterol btw. You know what happens when you're a married man and you get fat and unhealthy? Your wife cheats on you and then divorce rapes you. Previously I'd agree women had a bad deal in marriage prior to the 1900s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 05:15 PM
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They say your brain fully develops at around 23-25 and that's when a person begins really thinking critically. Up until 18-20 you are completely taken care of by someone else so generally you don't bite the hand that feeds you. I'll also there has been cases where a young person was acquitted for violent crimes due to their parents not teaching them right and wrong. Edit: http://newsfeed.time.com/2013/12/12/the-affluenza-defense-judge-rules-rich-kids-rich-kid-ness-makes-him-not-liable-for-deadly…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 08:38 PM
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If you bought 100$ worth in 2010 today you'd have 8 million dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 08:36 PM
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I'm actually embarrassed that there is a MGTOW wikia.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/17 06:29 PM
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I'm not extremely close or involved with her so my understanding is vague. I can confirm that she does have a lawyer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 03:44 AM
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I'll save you the trouble since I looked into it. New York does not have a crime of rape by fraud, deception, or impersonation. In fact, 27 states do not criminalize sexual intercourse obtained by fraudulent means. Furthermore, such a case has not been decided in a New York courtroom since 1994. Nevertheless, this paper argues that it is time for the New York legislature to act.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 03:40 AM
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I know you're only speaking to the first link which in my opinion is one of the weaker sources. The study was done in America, religion is well controlled for as it is the strong majority and would therefore be the control group in any other case. 70% of Americans are Christian and 17.3% are non religious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 04:58 AM
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I'd stop spending time with that person. But it's still not clear how 3 guys getting a meal overlaps with one of us getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/17 04:19 PM
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How does me paying for a friend's dinner overlap with him trying to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/17 03:59 PM
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Well that's good to know. Thanks for the link.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/17 02:20 AM
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Here's some light reading http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/08/21/more-sexual-partners-unhappy-marriage_n_5698440.html http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2540009/Women-sleep-university-likely-depressed.html http://public.psych.iastate.edu/ccutrona/psych592a/articles/Sexual%20infidelity%20in%20women.pdf http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2733220/Women-don-t-sleep-wedding-happier-marriages-men-play-field-without-worry-study-finds.html https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sex-murder-an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/17 12:03 AM
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What second part? I'm not a RP man. I quoted what I was speaking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 06:03 PM
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And where, pray tell, are the statistics on premarital sex and how it affects men? Um, in the first link? But, for men, the number of partners a man they appeared to have no bearing on how satisfied they felt within a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 05:59 PM
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I don't like the whole true MGTOW not true MGTOW thing. I consider myself MGTOW but I still like to date and bang. Just stay away from marriage. However, the point is when women cheat on men the response is typically "what did HE do for this to happen". Usually, all of the responsibility and accusations land on the man. "He didn't treat her right", "he must have beat her", are more examples. You know, I've been in that position before, so you've changed my view. However if you follow TRP code of…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 05:28 PM
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No one bats an eye when women have children out of wedlock True, but this also has to do with marriage being a raw deal for a lot of people. I do shame people who have babies who are not in a long term committed relationship though if it makes you feel better. no one bats an eye when a woman cheats on her husband because "you go gurl he didn't deserve you anyway" That's not true. No one bats an eye when a woman tricks her husband/bf into getting her pregnant (in fact the government supports it).…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 04:50 PM
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"women's ability to pair bond is damaged by having sex with multiple partners (but not men somehow)" You'll notice most of the men that claim this have zero ability to pair bond. It's weird that they bring this up so often even though it's counterproductive to their sexual strategy (banging multiple women without commitments). I can provide studies that are removed from my emotion. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2733220/Women-don-t-sleep-wedding-happier-marriages-men-play-field-without-…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 04:34 PM
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I'd argue the explosion of single motherhood in the 70s, 80s, and 90s was less of a result women's sexual liberation and more from the fact that the government's welfare state incentivized the lifestyle. Even now there is a pretty good chance that a single mother will lose her government benefits if she moves in with a working fella.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 04:27 PM
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Generally, as a rule, I believe more freedom is always better. But freedom is personal responsibility and sometimes with freedom comes indulgence and hedonism in harmful things. There are a great many positives to women's sexual freedom but many negatives as well. The same can be said for men. "women's ability to pair bond is damaged by having sex with multiple partners (but not men somehow)" There is lot's of evidence this and it is very harmful to women. If you need links to studies I can prov…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/17 04:22 PM
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Putting ourselves in a position to be victimized (to me) is part of the reason we are victimized in the first place. Agree. So wear a seatbelt.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 12:25 AM
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I also have a true scenario that I witnessed and I'd like you to tell me if I victim blamed. I worked for a bit in Colombia in a suburb that had a poor side and a middle class side. The school where all the white people flew in to teach Colombians was in the middle. The school administrators told us do not got to the poor side alone especially at night and especially, especially if you're a woman; there is a high chance you'll be mugged and assaulted. So one girl said it's my right to have mobil…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/17 07:40 PM
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It seems I'm not the only one here who doesn't comprehend this word salad of an OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 03:11 PM
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I'm not talking about good vs bad service. I'm talking about "different" service. I'm talking about up-selling different things to different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 02:09 AM
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You treated everyone the same as a waitress? Why? Don't you like tips? I see waitresses treat people very differently depending on their sex and group demographic. A group of men that look to be wealthy or have disposable income receive very different service than the guy out with his girlfriend for a drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 11:41 PM
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Antifa's OPs are always based on fallacies. I remember the last one was an obvious appeal to authority fallacy that even some BP agreed with me on. This is one is definitely an agrument to the people fallacy. Your premises is wrong and it leads to a questionable conclusion. If what you're saying is only things with popular opinion is true then the Earth would be the center of the universe since Galileo was a minority and all other scientists thought he was wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 07:56 PM
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Never thought I'd see a BP plug Tucker Max.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 02:25 AM
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OP did you pay the 9 dollars?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/17 02:22 AM
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The single best dating advice I recieved was " she's not into you man, move on" It lead to less anger and more sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 06:22 PM
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This opinion piece seems to want to normalize and confirm the view of their readers that multi-partner relationships are ok. I guess it's kinda shitty?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 02:59 AM
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I agree, I'm simply trying to neutrally answer "Why people cheat".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 02:48 AM
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And who normally gets dick or pussy from someone other than your husband or wife? Answer: A "different person" I'll go into more detail. - A stay at home wife who becomes bored and disappointed with herself and her life will sleep with the tattooed delivery guy because then she no longer a boring stay at home wife, she is crazy cool woman who was desired by this dangerous looking tattooed man. -A familyman feels in a rutt, it's not that he hates his wife or kids, it's just the same boring job an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 02:40 AM
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I didn't read the whole OP but the reason for cheating in most marriages is normally not because you dislike your partner; it's normally because you dislike yourself and want to change, even if just for a night. Esther Perel for more info.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 02:15 AM
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I dunno man, Trump is over 70 years old; personally I think he's looking pretty good for his age. Hell, he even continues to play tennis into his seventies, I hope I can play tennis when I'm seventy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/17 03:48 AM
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Things men do to become success objects: Work long hours at dangerous jobs that ultimately result in work place death, lack of social life, no time for hobbies or family. Things you've complained about as a sex object: You'd make money that wasn't from your own merit. Or if you were successful you'd still not be treated with the appropriate level of respect you think a man in your position would get. Yea, I'll take combo number 2 thanks. I'll also say that successful men generally don't choose t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/17 06:23 PM
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It sounds more like you're describing a publicly owned corporation that pays it's employees wih shares in addition to a salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/17 05:32 PM
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I was referring to the Pareto principle itself, it is well proven. I suppose it is more your burden to persuade me that for some reason it doesn't manifest in human relations. The Pareto Principle is an observation, not a law of nature. That 80% of women want 20% of men is something I've observed in my life and thought critically as to why? The point of the Pareto principle is to recognize that most things in life are not distributed evenly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 01:58 AM
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I think that's fair, studying humans comes with lots of errors and unique outliers. The 80/20 application to mate selection is based on critical thinking. ie: Women want the most valuable man for their offspring. 80% of the wealth or in this case "value of a man in SMP/RMP" is concentrated in 20% of men. As you can see even with that statement potential errors arise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 04:13 PM
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Which part? The Pareto Principle itself or its application to mate selection?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 03:45 PM
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I don't care about the 80/20 dichotomy either and so don't they, because we don't believe in it. 80/20 rule also known as the Pareto Principle is a very well understood and well proven theory so I'm surprised when you say you don't believe in it. I can understand people being ignorant of it or not conscious of it, but you being on this sub and saying you don't believe 80% of women target 20% of men in similar to saying you don't believe in algebra or wind resistance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 03:29 PM
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In my country hormonal birth control is considered a pharmaceutical like most other pills. Nearly all the health insurance in my country, employer supplied and otherwise, covers pharmaceuticals. On mine if I went out and bought birth control I'd get an 80% refund from my insurance; viagra too. We currently now have feminists protesting that this isn't enough because IUDs are not covered by any health insurance anywhere. With the surgery I think an IUD costs about $200. I don't think that's alot.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 01:55 AM
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Ah makes sense, the exotic thrill of danger when safety is only one word away.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 10:34 PM
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In the case of BDSM porn does in fact cater to women. BDSM porn accounts for less than 2% of porn content online (the very highest amount of content is gay porn, which I will agree porn is ruthlessly catered to gay men) According these pornhub stats, women are consuming the very bulk majority of BDSM porn I don't know how BDSM serves the female imperative, I just know most women like being sub or at least like fantasizing about being a sub to a sexually dominant man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/17 09:31 PM
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Despite not being very sexuay dominant myself I seem to attract women that want to be tied up and fucked halfway to death. Though I'm starting to see the appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/17 09:13 PM
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All. If you take any of the class levels you described; Low, middle, upper. And pit the social aptitude of the average black man vs. the social aptitude of a man of any other race the black man will win.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 08:49 PM
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Yo it's common knowledge within MGTOW; the black community is socially ahead about 10 years compared to everyone else. Your coworker is right, everyone else will eventually figure it out. The black community just got there first.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/17 06:20 PM
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One time when I was in my first year of college; my friend upset at seeing some young women's behaviour within a co-ed dormitory asked a strange question. He asked to a group of girls "why do girls wait until they find another guy they're interested in before breaking up with a guy they're dating?" To which all the girls kinda looked at each other, their eyes saying "should we tell him?" And one girl finally spoke up. She said "you wouldn't go to the shoe store barefoot would you?" Makes sense t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 11:25 PM
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Uh Jenovah was a woman you bigot. Oh JEHOVAH, sorry nvm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/17 08:40 PM
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Agree, I've been with a size queen. I found her to be arrogant both in and outside the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 01:18 PM
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You should probably take identity, out of your definition of hate speech. That one is too easy to contradict or form a paradox with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 03:40 PM
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Another interesting stat I noticed was oral sex given. Up until 25-29 women give alot more oral sex to men than men give to women. At 25-29 is evens out but after that men give out way more oral sex than they receive. two notable demographics are: 30-39 69% of men gave oral to women while only 59% of women gave oral to men. 70+ 24% of men gave women oral while only 7% of women gave men oral. Not sure if more oral sex for older women is required because their sex drive goes away as they age, or i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 03:17 PM
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Well the study did only control for "sex within the past year". So amount of sex within the year is anyone's guess. Both scenarios depicted above would fall into the study as the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 02:59 PM
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Now I'm even more lost in the weeds. I was hoping you were going to speak about how feminism was not paradoxical in it's ideology. ""the concept of ''women are capable of anything'' is an intellectually dishonest strawman is"" is a good point. How is the rest relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 10:14 PM
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Lex Luthor
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 09:54 PM
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i agree with most of the principles and getting laid it's all well and good but surely it gets to a point where banging the next chick or mentally manipulating them is morally reprehensible. Women are strong enough and smart enough (in fact women are on average smarter than men) to recognize when they are being manipulated and have lots of societal support to walk away from what they perceive as a manipulative man. I don't buy any of this benevolent sexism that women have no agency and are simpl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 09:42 PM
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Feminism is paradoxical in that its ideology says women are capable of anything while at the same time women are victims. That's a somewhat simplistic and un-nuanced view, which I'm sure that you picked up from internet communities, rather than the real world. Can you explain it better if you don't think it's correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 09:29 PM
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You're not wrong mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 09:15 PM
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Now all you gotta do is explain to a girl how your low self esteem is good and high self esteem is for criminals, thus making you more trustworthy and loyal. That should logic her right into a relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 08:44 PM
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I stated this in the last thread. Work still has to be done whether it be at the office or at the home. That part isn't a choice anyone has to make. The choice comes down to finding work that is rewarding and having a good life/work balance that works for the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 08:29 PM
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Absolutely, I see tonnes of guys nowadays actively searching for a "female-lead relationship" and I bet there a lot of girls who want the to be that leader of the family and would be compatible with the aforementioned men. But I think there are more women who want to be lead, maybe it's my bias and the vibes I'm sending out, but I have met WAYYY more girls who want a big/little relationship or who want a sub/dom relationship where they can kick their feet up and let a man be their leader in life…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 05:52 PM
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Household chores are work. Work is not very fun , especially when it's mundane and repetitive. It should be a "water is wet" type conclusion that when you receive free money and then pay people to do your chores your own happiness will increase. Of course work will always have to be done, full stop. Work is necessary for sanitation standards, agriculture, and drinking water. So just by contracting out work to other people around the house I think you'd only shift the burden from yourself to anot…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/17 05:22 PM
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A man's gotta eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 08:51 PM
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Maslows hierarchy Maslows Hierarchy of needs was reviewd and updated in the 1960s to a 7 and 8 stage model in which they moved sex to the first tier. Biological and Physiological needs - air, food, drink, shelter, warmth, sex, sleep, etc. it's name was also changed to Maslow's Motiviation model. Science is just a theory, it get's reviewed and changed based on new findings. While it's true the "original" hierarchy of needs put sex at the 3rd tier. It was peer reviewed and agreed upon that sex was…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/17 12:57 AM
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There seems to be some misunderstanding so I'll.try to clear it up. I'm not arguing for or against alpha/beta dichotomy. I'm not saying asking for studies is fallicious. I'm saying that when the OP states " in the absence credible studies can you point to a PhD in a relevant field to confirm alpha/beta male dichotomy" is a waste of time because it's an appeal to an authority. I'll say again whether a PhD in a relevant field uses the lingo or not does not make something any more or less true. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/17 12:34 AM
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There seems to be some misunderstanding so I'll.try to clear it up. I'm not arguing for or against alpha/beta dichotomy. I'm not saying asking for studies is fallicious. I'm saying that when the OP states " in the absence credible studies can you point to a PhD in a relevant field to confirm alpha/beta male dichotomy" is a waste of time because it's an appeal to an authority. I'll say again whether a PhD in a relevant field uses the lingo or not does not make something any more or less true. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 07:24 PM
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But OP is saying that alpha/beta male dichotomy in humans is untrue because no one credibile said it. If in fact someone "credible" to the OP used the lingo it would not make it any more or less true, that's the fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 06:33 PM
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This question is an actual fallacy called appeal to authority. Just because some writings was published by some magazine by a person from some school that put letters behind their name does anything become fact or not fact. Especially in the soft sciences like psychology and sociology.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/17 05:47 PM
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A huge portion of the MGTOW movement is black men. It's theorized that the black community essentially started MGTOW with they're extremely misogynistic song lyrics and "bitches ain't shit" attitude. There is LITERALLY NOTHING in common between wanting to live your life without being married and white supremacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/17 03:46 PM
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Are the mods sleeping? This post wasn't flagged as a discussion, question or CMV. There was no evidence or examples of anything in their op and it most certainly not posted on good faith. But it remains without a hitch. I'm happy people here seem to unanimously disagree with the assertion of hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 08:41 PM
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I had a gf who's family was fairly broken and it resulted in her having a half sister she was 12 years older than who was being raised by a single father. My experience is just as you said; at age 12 she still had no interest in boys, focused on school work that to help lead to a lucrative job (her own words), and if you brought up buying a training bra she left the room. One interesting thing was that while staying with us my gf asked her sister if she wanted to cuddle on the couch and she said…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 04:16 PM
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That scene is hilarious and this sub could easily have a whole discussion about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/17 03:37 PM
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Wow 3 against 1 I don't see what the downside here was. Dishwasher specs aside and it was a nice one (80 decibels) If he bought the dishwasher and his "boss" as he referred to his wife as, liked it then happy ending. If his boss did not like it he could have easily flipped a profit since I offered him such a good price in a show of capitalistic kindness and comradery.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 05:53 PM
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I'd agree with you on big purchases but this was 50 bucks... You'd consult your SO on home purchases under $50?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 05:24 PM
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All the men I work with refer to their wife as the boss and it makes me throw up in my mouth when I hear it. I tried to sell a guy at work my old dishwasher when I got a new one, because I know he doesn't have one, for like 50 bucks and he replied "let me check in the boss and I'll get back to you tomorrow" Anyway I sold it for 200 that night on Craigslist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 03:50 PM
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So is this you're reason not to have children?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/17 02:20 PM
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I think there is a conflation between "not wanting kids" and "not wanting too many kids" You seem to be saying "families are getting smaller ergo kids aren't deseriable to most people" I'm saying " families are getting smaller ergo cost of living is getting more expensive" It very well could be one is a result of the other as in "cost of living is increasing ergo child rearing is no longer viable for me"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 08:38 PM
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I think families are shrinking because cost of having and caring for children is increasing but wages remain stagnant. Larger list of necessities ie: most families want two cars, cellphones for everyone, dine out once a week or so, children not share a bedroom. And the biggest one; birth control is more effective, reliable, and more accesble than ever before. Guys going out and getting a vasectomy after kid number 2 is so common it should be a meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 08:00 PM
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Well no those benefits apply to 2nd and 3rd world countries too. They too have better healthcare, more wealth and more luxury today vs 100 years ago too. I just visited Colombia and Panama and most people there read, go to hospitals, and have washing machines. That's a big improvement. And no one ever said that this is as good as it gets. Just saying it's better than it was. And in the past people thought the world was good enough to bring children into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 07:27 PM
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Ok I think I understand. My point still stands that the world is not suffering but simply your existence is suffering and you don't want you're children to have the same fate. My experience and world view is different than you as I have more joy than suffering. In which case you've presented an excellent argument as to why you'd make a terrible parent and I salute your noble sacrifice to live for yourself. Me and my kin will be happy to receive a share of the resources you're leaving for everyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 06:14 PM
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I'll counter the point on the world being full and suffering and misery. This day and age contrary to the news has the most worldly peace, most people living in luxury, best health care, highest newborn survival rate, and least amount of voilent crime. All on a global scale compared to 100 or any number of years ago. So I don't buy the world sucks, don't have kids because they'll only suffer narrative. I'd also ask if you're grateful for your own life? If you are I'd bet your child would also be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 05:01 PM
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There are women all around you in the outside world, not even to mention that there are a ton of women who post online as well. You can meet them by talking to them like a normal person and then become friends with them. Sure many of them will have boyfriends already but the point of making friends with them is because you like being their friend. Then you can hangout with them and continue to make more friends. Eventually you make friends with a woman who is single and after you get to know the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/17 03:25 PM
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You are correct. It's the people who feel they aren't strong enough to enter into the human dominance hierarchy that push for afirmitive action and protected class laws. I agree with you that the free market and social fabric would automatically select the best people for jobs and destroy entrepreneurs who attempts to unjustly enrich themselves or deliberately attempt to harm a class of people they deem below themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 04:15 PM
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It's gotta be slow and gradual but I already see it happening. Sub-divisions that supply their own water, sewer, power, and garbage/recycling program are popping up around where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 12:42 AM
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Now it could just be my social circle and not a representation of the population at large, but I know 2 girls who have been sexually assaulted and went to the police. I know more than 5 men who have been falsely accused of sexual assault; again just through spreading rumors only one of them actually had the police called on him and was released after a 3 days in holding. He lost his job though. So yea I say the risk is there. MGTOW already advocates defenses against false accusation -Always keep…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 12:29 AM
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Second this. Freedom is responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 05:09 PM
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He died a hero and she never took another lover lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/17 06:14 PM
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Don't hate the players, hate the game. I didn't choose the rules of engagement. I'm just trying to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 03:56 PM
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I once heard a girl tell me her life is pretty boring. She said I'm a nurse, I play by the rules, I don't do anything too dangerous or exciting because I'm genuinely afriad of the consequences. But then I see this guy with tattoos riding a motorcycle, he looks like he lives an exhilarating life. If I start a relationship with him maybe I'll have the same exciting life he has but with an element of safety. And even if it's a short term fling maybe I can roleplay to myself that I'm his exciting bi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 02:59 PM
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I never thought of it until now and it's a fascinating thought. I mean yes you are right; Straight = x+y and Gay = x+x But also, simultaneously gay and straight ≈ (x+y) ⇌ (x+x) Simultaneously gay and straight is maybe too long to say; Just call em bisexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 03:04 AM
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You've raised a philosoraptor question. Is a bisexual person both gay and straight simultaneously? That seems like a logical breakdown to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 02:35 AM
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the effects and challenges are the same regardless the solo parent's gender. There is no division of labour; you cannot hope to be both provider and caregiver all at once. Some aspects of your parenting will suffer since you simply cannot do it all alone. No, they're the same. Or I suppose I mean yes they are inherently bad. Just at the same level. Sex of the parent is inconsequential. The details are different but generally the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/17 08:32 PM
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I always see on here debates break out between definitions of terms rather than debates on concepts. I would agree with Atlas in that unless a guy's mother of his child died or simply ghosted her own flesh and blood for whatever reason, he isn't a single father. I don't think a divorced woman is a single mother either. That being said I always specifically use the term "single-parent household" because the effects and challenges are the same regardless the solo parent's gender. There is no divis…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/17 08:20 PM
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I'm attracted to fat chicks and specifically date overweight women. I've never hid this fact or ran from it. I've never received any shaming or insults from men I have received several comments from women including: -You have a sick fetish -That's an unhealthy lifestyle for her and you're perpetuating it -That's because you can only get fat chicks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/17 04:31 PM
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My spanish is pretty good so I'd happily meet a Hispanic women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 09:03 PM
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Thanks for the PSA I was planning on going to the South to eat enough BBQ to force a heart attack and find a sweet Southern Belle to live my days out with. Perhaps I'll just go for the BBQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 06:13 PM
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I agree assimilation and integration classes are necessary for most immigrants to another country. This is a politically incorrect opinion though. I bet if immigrants assimilated better into western countries we'd see a population drop over at the TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 04:42 PM
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In all fairness, Dead Poets Society is a great movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 01:24 AM
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I am not an American nor do I live there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 01:17 AM
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When all humans are dead we'll finally achieve equality!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 08:38 PM
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My last LTR A girl I had purchased an engagement ring for no less. I found she was having FaceTime sex with some of her co-workers ( not physically cheating mind you). After I broke up with her and was moving out she stole my PlayStation 4 and when I threatened to call the police for theft she threatened to take me to court for half my savings account since we were common law married. And a PlayStation 4 is way less than half my savings plus court fees so I let it go.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 04:13 PM
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Nice pro-tip! I make my own soap and the ladies certainly do love it. On the rare occasions I do indulge in casual sex I make sure to send her home with an almond scented goat's milk bar or 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 04:35 AM
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I tried to link it but I'm on mobile. They addressed the concerns you have sexual strategy now vs then. The study made the assumption that even though women have a more practical sexual strategy now they're brains will perceive sex as having the same consequences as the ancient environment. They based this assumption on the studies that showed being afraid of snakes and spiders was an evolutionary advantage in the ancient environment as well as eating high fat and high sugar diets. Today people …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 06:36 PM
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It has worked, I've seen it work. He'll it's worked for me. Some conditions apply. We were all young. Under 23 to be exact. It was summer, we lived in a vacation hotspot near the beach. We sat at the beach on a bench and yelled things like "nice bum where you from" No one got mad, most girls smiled. A few walked over and asked if we were locals and if we knew of any parties going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 07:57 PM
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This already happened with Fallon Fox in the UFC. MtF trans was just literally "manhandling" women in the octagon. I'm talking just hip throwing these girls across the mat; take downs with no technique or skill, just straight brute overpowering strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 04:25 AM
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This is really weird. There are 3 users just reviewing and criticizing the quality of an analogy you used ( I thought it was bad too to be fair) and not even a real debate about any concept. But I understood the concept you were trying to get across. It reads like everyone understands and it's just personal attacks at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 03:59 AM
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I'd go as far as to call it Broscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 02:52 AM
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And I said not exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 09:52 PM
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That's not exactly true Women overtake men in U.S. obesity rates Obesity: Rates Are Increasing in American Women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 09:47 PM
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Most MGTOW have already gotten women before. That's why they're MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 12:22 PM
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The halo effect increases a PCs charm skill and is a passive aura that affects the diplomacy skill of other NPCs It requires line of sight to the to the PC. Can be gained in different ways but almost always requires a natural 20 to be rolled.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 09:42 PM
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Meh OK, you do you. Back to the original argument though and I think we can both agree based the rabbit hole we went down. PUA =/= TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 01:37 PM
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Be a fake douche bro and you'll get laid That doesn't work, it takes more than that. If that's your understanding of TRP do you think their tactics work to get laid? If you think no; then why bother with TRP just let them be sad sexless losers. dread,captain/first mate,ordering her around, demanding respect and giving none, amused mastery. Can potentially work in a relationship. just check out married red pill and the red pill women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 01:26 PM
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Now I could be wrong, but I believe a shit test is simply a test to see how much shit you can get away with. This is not specific to women and is certainly done by all sexes towards all sexes. We learn to administer shit tests against authority figures when we are children simply to see how bad we can be before the consequences fall upon us. As children if the shit test is stopped quickly before the envelope is pushed too far and punishment it received promptly there is less of a chance that shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 03:12 AM
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I'm not even a supporter of TRP but your statement is just simply not true. being disingenuous The red pill is literally about accepting reality and improving yourself to succeed in said reality. treating women like crap. I don't know about you but I've never gotten laid by treating a woman like crap. I'd imagine the same goes for PUA guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 02:43 AM
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There has actually been several discussions on this sub-reddit of PUA vs TRP and it has been determined that PUA = LARPing, and TRP = actually becoming a person women can be attracted to in the long term. We can open the debate again if you like, maybe in a different thread though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 11:54 PM
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Maybe we should stop bagging on them, telling them their sick, and having manger tantrums over kids shows that have gay characters. Just a guess but I think that might be a major reason why they get depressed Our society is trying that experiment right now, we'll see the results in a few years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 02:25 AM
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I'm not sure either. I guess they just assumed their girl was on birth control without ever having a proper dialog about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 06:01 PM
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I'm not arguing that at all. GridReXX said I honestly don't understand why men are ejaculating in vaginas and being shocked about what happens when sperm meets egg. I answered the question. This is my take on why men do such an idiotic thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 11:05 PM
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Oops I should have replied under the mod. I'm not a women/feminist. And there is no reason for you to care. It's my issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 08:30 PM
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The issues of benevolent sexism that bother me are The feminist agenda to have more women in STEM jobs. In countries that are the most "feminist" (Canada, Sweden, Denmark, Norway for example) The majority of women choose jobs in teaching, and nursing. So just let women have freedom and do the jobs they want, don't coerce them to pursue a less satisfying existence in the name of equality. Buying a sex is illegal. Selling sex is legal. That's completely sexist. It's benevolent because it's suppose…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 08:24 PM
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It most certainly is a lack of common sense. You asked why are men and women having unprotected sex that leads to unplanned children. It's lust and emotions in the heat of the moment overwhelming common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 04:14 PM
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I honestly don't understand why men are ejaculating in vaginas I have never had a pregnancy scare because I understand how babies are made and take the necessary precautions. But I'm going to tell you why men are ejaculating into women. Every girl I've ever had sex with have all said this same phrase "I hate the feeling of condoms, I like the feeling of being ejaculated inside of" I'd bet there are a lot of dumb guys that fall for this line and all they wanted to do was sexually please their par…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 01:17 PM
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I did write mostly three times. the man isn't doing his critical androgen-controlled rough-and-tumble play or facilitating the male (and female) toddler’s aggression regulation, then it doesn't matter if he's in the house or not, only whether he pays child support. What you're saying is true for the situation you're describing where the live-in father contributes nothing to child rearing but a pay-cheque to the family (even if that sometimes). But this situation is not the norm. I'm more incline…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 05:26 AM
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low quality people give birth to low quality offspring = true (mostly) 2 parent household with low quality parents still has some degree of division of labour which can potentially allow a parent to succeed in a category of child rearing (mostly) 1 parent household with a good or bad parent has no division of labour and will fail or at least under-perform at most if not all categories of child rearing (mostly)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 05:10 AM
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OK you're right. I'll specify, what I meant was generalized hatred. It is acceptable for a man gutted by his ex-wife to show hatred towards her, the family court system (especially the family court system), and I would say that expression of hatred is only more than necessary when someone else's rights are being infringed upon. Just like how it's silly for feminists who hate men in government to express that hatred towards me and other regular joes; it's silly for a man wronged by his ex-wife to…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 09:50 PM
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I ask myself this same question about sausages. It seems like every culture independent of each other came up with the idea to stuff minced meat into an intestine then cure it or roast it. Apparently the ancient greeks, indus river tribes, and mongols all had sausages before even meeting each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 08:34 PM
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I've never understood the rhetoric against it. Hate women? Have nothing to do with them. Don't have kids, don't teach hatred to children. Just live and die in a way that makes you feel happy and does not spread to others. I'm happy you brought this up. This is a very good point and wish more people shared this view. I too don't understand why women who marry themselves are celebrated in magazines and newspapers. Yet, men who focus on themselves in MGTOW style are attacked by left media and are b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 07:59 PM
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False equivalency. A person cannot control how much they bleed at an accident. A person can control their reactions and behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 07:37 PM
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I momentarily paused when I read that sentence, because it suddenly made me consider that maybe all that venting does have a purpose. Once a week or so there is a thread made about people being tired of all the complaining about women that goes on in r/MGTOW and it is always answered with "This is a free space for men to voice their feelings to help get them over the anger phase" I don't buy it. Or at least I think there is more hatred than necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 05:29 PM
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Me! I left the MGTOW subreddit abd came here precisely because of the rampant misogyny and stubborn whining. I also still date women and apparently that's breaking the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 05:13 PM
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Probably goes on a case by case basis. I know one girl from my highschool who was honest about it. She went to school in one of the most expensive cities in the world and lived with a guy 8 years older than her who worked out of town on a 3 on 1 off shift free of charge. She just had to act like a girl friend one week every month. After she graduated she said thanks for the free rent, I never cared for you and moved away. Never contacted him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 05:30 PM
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I agree with your view. I know several cases of girls using guys for living arrangements but having no attraction. I had a very similar situation to the posted saga. Granted, we had been living together for more than a year so there was initially genuine love and attraction in the beginning. I also snooped a phone and found texts to another guy she was sending nudes to and telling him she was only still with me because it was convenient but she loved him. The sex never stopped though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/17 05:18 PM
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I agree with the OP on this one. Rape is pretty much always about power and trying to regain it in some way, with a dash of sexual frustration thrown in. I'm​ going to do something I'm normally against and make an argument from authority. Every psychology prof I've ever had has said "rape is about power". I actually went to school with and know a regular guy turned serial rapist. Newspapers gave him the name "Rutland Rapist". He was studying to be a mechanical engineer and of course was awkward,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 02:59 PM
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MGTOW subreddit got a bit too complainy/stubborn/misogynistic for my likes. I stumbled across PPD fact checking a guy, read some threads; liked the discussion and thought to myself " you know, I should really listen to the blue pill/feminist side more and give them a chance". So far I haven't been disappointed and the discussions have been pretty good IMO and I've learned alot.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 01:39 AM
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I'd say this is a fairly accurate breakdown. Like I said, MM did help with a few things but I certainly wouldn't wear a top hat or do magic at nightclub.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 04:01 AM
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According to the guys that wrote the stuff and all the forums it worked excellent in the 90s. I was too young to be interested in girls in the 90s so I don't know how true it is. I think it was always stupid to be fair. Could be increased awareness too, in the book the The Game, Neil Strauss goes on to say at one point he realized their group has basically hit on every attractive women in L.A. so their canned openers and tried and true lines no longer worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 02:24 AM
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He is correct though. The Mystery method is just full of mostly bullshit that would get you laughed at these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 12:33 AM
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My story is similar to yours, and I agree the Mystery Method is bullshit. I never used any of the shitty canned openers they had, though I liked the cologne on the wrist gag and that did work once. But it did give me confidence around women, the ability to recognize social cues of attraction and interest, and a general idea of what to say and when to say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 12:25 AM
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No mentor Never discussed dating or sex with my family. Did not do well with girls in high school and could not figure out why. Got even worse in 1st year uni when I realized I actually have no idea how to talk to or attract women. Had many Chad friends who were hooking up with tonnes of girls and I was so jealous but was too proud to ask for how it's done. I'm certain they couldn't explain it all though. Went to the internet and found "The Game" by Neil Strauss. Read the whole book in a night; …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 12:15 AM
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I have two that come to mind. You can be the judge whether you consider this screwing someone over. I stand by the decisions I made but I still felt remorse in the moment. In college, seeing a girl in a town about 1 hour drive away. We meet a few weekends some at her place some at my place, relationship was maybe 2 months. Sex is good, she's really into me. I had no intent to date her and had even accepted a job in a city 4 hours away, that would start after my program break and I knew all this …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 11:44 PM
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befriending women because he enjoys spending time with them more than with men would be considered objectifying by feminists He's worried that feminists will accuse him of using these women as nothing more than entertainment for himself. And I don't think belief is all wrong either. Objectification is to reduce a person to nothing more than an object or service. All people engage in objectification in temporary moments of time and it's no big deal if you ask me. It partly makes reciprocal relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 06:47 PM
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Family is important; They provide love, support, belonging and safety. I consider my family to be a dynasty in the making and that requires children on my part for it to continue to flourish. No matter where I travel to, no matter how much success I achieve in business; I would still consider the act of raising children to be the most intellectual and physical challenge possible as well as the most rewarding experience that could possibly exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 06:23 PM
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Even in that situation, while it is better than being with an abusive spouse, it still is a situation where a child is put at a disadvantage vs. a child with 2 parents. As well as a drain of resources on society as government has to shore up the gap left by a 1 parent household.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 03:13 AM
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Can red, blue, purple and everything else agree that single parents are bad for children and society as a whole?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 07:35 PM
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I acknowledge the existence of the mental load, anyone who has worked in a management position will. Regardless of task or gender the onus is on the spouse who feels they are doing more than their fair share of work within the relationship. They must be able to communicate this feeling and find a compromise/solution. Not just expect their partner to read their mind and do work to the uncommunicated standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 12:01 AM
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That's a silly line drawn in the sand. But if it makes you'd feel better, lable cryptocurrency as the act of bartering then. I bought my last two cellphones with Bitcoin. Sorry I bartered Bitcoin for my last two cellphones.
/r/MGTOW31/05/17 08:17 PM
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I like ether and ripple for investment only. I don't see them as a day to day currency. I like DASH, Monero, and NEM(XEM) for the use of day to day transactions.
/r/MGTOW31/05/17 06:38 PM
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Technically if you trade your shoes for another product or service, they are in fact being used as a currency.
/r/MGTOW31/05/17 06:35 PM
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Dated 2 girls at once once. Reason: Wanted to see if I could pull off the double life like those guys with 2 families you hear about from time to time. Answer: I could not. Surprisingly, one of the girls did take me back after I came clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 05:07 AM
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So why did you bother asking this question and making it a CMV? You've seen it, you already have your mind made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 07:26 PM
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Could yourself, or the mods, change this from a CMV to a discussion. Even after several people have said they tried and failed or succeeded for a short time, and eventually failed at the 1-2 women/month metric simply from population logistics of towns and cities as well as time management issues. Your view can't be changed, you did not approach this with an open mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 03:51 PM
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My argument wasn't "it can't be done". My argument was that it can't be done consistently and sustainably. Notice that I even did it but it required some special circumstances. In the previous thread future_space_boobs asserted that it is completely average for a guy sleep with with 2 women a month all the time. Can't be done, especially if you don't live in a city.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 01:18 PM
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I meant to comment this in the other thread It is a ridiculous metric to expect a guy to have sex with two different women a month. I don't even understand how this is a debate, the overwhelming majority of guys are saying it can't be done. There was one time in my life where I managed to have sex with 2 girls a month and it required some very special circumstances and it only lasted 4 months. 1) I just moved to a new large city for a temporary job 2) Online dating wasn't as ruthless as it is no…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 03:47 AM
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TIL if you visit a consenting prostitute and don't try to save them for their own terrible life choices and incentivize their own bad behavior you are not a human. You call yourself a feminist but you don't seem to think women are capable of doing much themselves which I find pretty misogynistic. A prostitute (or any woman) is more than capable of changing her ways without the help of you or me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 12:11 PM
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She is selling sex and we agreed on a time, location, price and sex acts. It's business? Why is it our job (or even yours for that matter) to save someone who put themselves in a possibly maybe* abusive situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 01:34 AM
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Feminism ensures women are independent This is the best part of feminism imo too. It's also the same reason why I have huge problem with socialist feminism. Are you against the "state provided birth control" concept and the billion dollars of Federal taxes feminist groups receive?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 01:09 AM
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Where he can use all his leverage to be controlling or abusive. Where she doesn't have enough of her own spending money and he thinks all the things she wants are trivial. If that is your argument for why a woman shouldn't be a SAHM then it doesn't hold any water. the reasons outlined above is precisely why alimony, child support payments and no fault divorce laws came into effect. You can't use the above argument since steps have been taken to help protect stay-at-home-mothers and immigrant mot…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 12:58 AM
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I thought I was having rough sex with my previous gf. It involved hard ass slapping, hair pulling, tit slapping, and violent thrusting. She later informed me that that was not rough at all as I never even made her bleed or left a bruise...I excused myself from that relationship shortly after.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 04:36 AM
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I think TRP puts too much value on female approval and sexual validation. To state it crudely, they put the pussy on a pedestal. But I do like their lessons in confidence, self-respect, and health.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 12:12 PM
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https://i.redd.it/5hssf1stv7ly.jpg I think this picture is worth a thousand words It's a picture from the women's rally in early March protesting for more rights on top of a homeless camp.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 08:27 PM
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Came here to say exactly this. The MGTOW subreddit was actually the first place I came across this kind of solution. They advocated: -If you can help it never be in a room alone with a woman, if you must, record the audio from with your phone or make sure cameras are watching. While it's never happened to me I accept the fact that a false rape accusation is a very real possibility these days and I have read several legal cases across the world where recorded audio saved a man's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 08:15 PM
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Where I work entire process is 98% automated and we still require a crew of 15 people and constantly have contractors, roofers, and tele-communications technicians coming and going. We're still many decades away from complete robot take-over.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 05:39 PM
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It is? Do you mean the working class, like landscapers and factory workers, is dying? I'm blue collar; my friends are electricians, welders, auto-mechanics and we are buried in work requests and job offers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 05:31 PM
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I see, thank you for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 05:22 PM
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Off topic but I'm liking the dialogue. Can you explain more why liberal capitalism and nationalism cannot coexist?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 05:11 PM
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this is a bit tedious now. Exactly as it sounds; walking, hiking, climbing, traversing the elements, nomadic and exploratory tendencies etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 04:46 PM
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Fair point, I have no issue with people supporting things for selfish reasons. This is an aspect of personal autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 02:39 PM
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You're interested in curtailing my freedom and I see that as an evil threat to me. I would very much agree with this statement and believe that any attempt to maximize autonomy and personal responsibility is fantastic. For this reason I was initially very supportive of feminism because it was women voluntarily wanting to take on more responsibility and maximize their own autonomy. Now-a-days one of the goals of feminism is "to get more women in STEM jobs". I would argue that this is a subtle att…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 02:34 PM
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Exactly what it means, nothing veiled. Guys are hairy, have bigger muscles, and smell bad. They're good for doing work and getting around. Those things aren't really beautiful to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 03:01 AM
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I'm fascinated by it too and am also totally straight. I certainly agree feminine beauty is more common since guys are mostly meant for doing work and getting around. So not crazy IMO. I think attraction has too many variables to ever really understand so it's not worth asking why. There are cultural influences, psychological influences, socio-economic influences, and weird personal preferences that are completely random.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 12:05 AM
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These experiments have been studied and peer reviewed and have definitive answers already. 1 - Here is what the experiment means: Unless you are a really hot guy; you are wasting your time with online dating. Tinder's data: https://archive.is/mCmMT Okcupids data: https://archive.is/wDxuW The results of the above surveys are as such: Women rated 80% of men using OK Cupid to be "below average attractiveness" "it was determined that a man of average attractiveness would be “liked” by approximately …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 11:38 PM
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Admittedly the documentary took the worst case scenarios and presented them as true for all cases and that is dishonest. However, I do have a person in my life who works as a divorce lawyer and they have expressed to me that their experience is exactly as I said. The goal of the Family Court is to extract as much resources as possible from the pair of them by whatever means necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 03:39 AM
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Most certainly; Divorce Corp. did an excellent job show-casing the collusion that takes place between Divorce Lawyers and Family Court Judges with the ultimate goal being to make as much money as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 03:21 AM
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I think I saw a few from TFM but nothing he said was really memorable to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 01:30 AM
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You must understand that it is not the goal of the Family Court to do what is best for the children or the people separating. The goal of the Family Court is extract as much resources as possible from the pair of them by whatever means necessary. Prenuptial agreements stand in the way of this goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 01:26 AM
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Thanks Bud. I don't recommend the MGTOW subreddit though, too much anger and whining for my liking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 01:23 AM
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Staying away from marriage and focusing on your own happiness, personal growth, and success
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 01:18 AM
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Absolutely I do. I believe the only reason they are still together is because my mother is very religious and was raised in a very poor, very religious/traditional small town.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 01:13 AM
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Purple-ish MGTOW Parents are happily married for 27 years, no divorce in sight.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 01:01 AM
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Not to hijack his thread and go on a crypro tangent, it's a really good list. I'm a big supporter of DASH it's my number 1 pick for future online money. But it should be known that DASH is a centralized cryptocurrency and is therefore trackable. I think this is a strength because this way it can be used by main stream society. If you value anonymity most of all in cryptocurrency I would suggest Monero(XMR). It's my number 3 pick for future online money.
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