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| 1 | Is there dating advice for Men that all (Blue/Red/Black/Purple) pills agree on?Plenty bro, I used to play in a band. I enjoyed playing music a lot, and it got me around tons of girls, I hooked up plenty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 10:11 PM |
| 0 | Is there dating advice for Men that all (Blue/Red/Black/Purple) pills agree on?Yeah then you got to think of something else to do that's both exciting and not expensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 07:27 PM |
| 0 | Is there dating advice for Men that all (Blue/Red/Black/Purple) pills agree on?Then keep doing the exciting stuff like skiing and boating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:55 PM |
| 0 | Is there dating advice for Men that all (Blue/Red/Black/Purple) pills agree on?you actually have to make an effort to live a life where you do interesting things and can meet people/women. Yoga is a good start. sports leagues, trivia nights, community events, clubs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 06:18 PM |
| 23 | Is there dating advice for Men that all (Blue/Red/Black/Purple) pills agree on?Yes, there is. Its the no-overthinking approach. Be around women where you have to socialize with them as much as humanly possible. Just doing that alone will give you opportunities to have sex. Now add dressing well, good hygiene, good haircut, acting like a mature man with ambition. Asking girls out on normal traditional dates (Drink, coffee, walk in the park, ice skating, ice cream), and NOT spouting off pickup redpill shit will have girls want to have sex with you. I spent a decade doing pic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 10:42 PM |
| – | Women have been brainwashed by society to identify with the Bourgeoisie, and it’s getting worse by the dayWhat you see on social media is not reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/24 09:16 PM |
| 2 | There are so many single girls who are great catches!I live in manhattan. Own my apartment. Doing well, over 6 feet tall, fairly good looking, well groomed. Despite all that its an incredibly competitive dating environment. If youre not top 98 percentile male you will have a hard time. Not surprised most men check out and just float through their NYC life with their airpods in while working out, on the train, grocery shopping. Wake up, go to work, go to the gym, go home. Once in a blue moon go out with a friend. Welcome to the life of most men in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 11:17 PM |
| 27 | [deleted by user]Because eventually you meet someone truly amazing and there's a moment where you're laying next to her in bed and you just look at her and think "wow, she's amazing" and in that moment its all worth it. That moment right there is awesome. | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 01:27 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]I was like this too. It took me decades to fix. | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 01:25 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]As a 36 year old male who's slept with his fair share. This is pretty accurate. | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 01:24 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yup absolutely. Girls are not logical. It sucks but once you accept that they dont make sense you handle it better. Its going to sound cliche as fuck. But if an awesome girls ghosts you after an amazing date. She was not the one for you. You left it all on the field. You did your best. It didnt work. You have nothing to be upset about. Thats just life. Shit just doesn't work out sometimes. Live happy knowing you tried. Thats what it means to be a man. | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 01:23 AM |
| 15 | Do you think it's harder to attract women if you wank reguarly?Im 36 and have been thinking about this for decades and I still dont have a conclusive answer. I will say that if I wank daily i tend to feel more pathetic than if I only wank once a week. There's something about knowing you just spent 40 min wanking to the perfect clip on youtube or pornhub that makes you feel like a loser. | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 01:21 AM |
| 4 | How and where do you meet women?Ive lived in NYC my entire life. 1) use dating apps 2) join a club or sports league 3) take a class like an improve or storytelling class 4) make a point to take a walk somewhere in the city once a week like the union sqr farmers market or chelsea market 5) wine tastings 6) go to a museum with the intention of learning something 7) cold approach I made cold approach last because I did it a shit ton with modest results. My best results have been from online dating and taking classes like an actin… | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with flakes am I the problem?This basically. Also OP you're probably coming off too eager or needy somehow. Hard to say without know exactly what you're saying to them, and how. Read Corey Wayns book 3% Male. Follow those fundamentals. It teaches you to stop chasing women and being needy. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 10:50 PM |
| 3 | What should I message herDont get hung up on one girl. Text her or call her "hey it's Name" invite her out for a drink. Keep it simple. If she likes you she'll follow your lead. If not, she wont. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Can’t get hard (28M>What is air? | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 08:40 PM |
| 6 | TextingShes twice your age. Be direct "lets grab a drink this night" If she says she's busy reply with "no problem" and ask her out again in a week. If she turns you down twice in a row cut her loose and let her come back to you. Its simple dude. Dont overthink this teasing stuff. Women can smell that overthinking desperation shit like nothing else. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 07:06 PM |
| 25 | Can’t get hard (28M>Its nerves and probably the porn. Get the pill, docs give them out like nothing. You'll rock her world. Get into a long term relationship and you'll not need it because you'll become comfortable eventually. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 07:03 PM |
| 1 | women having all the power to selectThats fine. FL is more right leaning so people are probably more open to meeting up despite covid. Def not the case in NY right now. | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | women having all the power to selectWhat city are you in? Since omicron cases skyrocketed and holiday travel i barely get any traction with Online Dating. Im in NYC. | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 11:37 PM |
| 2 | women having all the power to selectYou cant think like this. Do yourself a favor and stop. You yourself are the selector AND the prize. | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Did anyone else actually have a great childhood with loving parents but still struggle with dating and relationships?I had a great childhood. The difference is that i dont want to settle for just anyone. I can only be with someone im sexually attracted to. And the girls I want dont want just any old guy. Hence self improvement. | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Guys who have "closed" or taken home women you met that very day and night, how did you do it?Find a girl who is single and sexually healthy and open to sex Take her out. Talk to her, show her you a normal human being. Casually touch her in a not creepy or forced way. Lead the date so it ends in your place. Chill at your place. Have a drink, act casual. Be chill. Kiss her. Gauge her interest in kissing back. Physically escalate. Gauge response. If its green lights so far, keep escalating until clothes are off. If she hesitates then stop, maybe she does t want to have sex on the first dat… | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 10:33 PM |
| 1 | What actually helped you overcome Approach Anxiety?I did thousands of approaches. I still have approach anxiety. The trick is that you approach her even if you have AA. My AA is as bad today as it was when I started. I just push myself through it. Also once you get 2 approaches under your belt the following ones become easier. At that point its fun and theres a rush. Dude dont get obsessed with killing AA. You will always have it. Just accept it. | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Sex is like a play. Intercourse is the final act, not the entire show. The preceding acts are talking, touching, building tension, and foreplayLately I've been been seeing the process of dating as foreplay as well. Flirting, eye contact, subtle touching, this is all foreplay that leads to sex if she is emotionally and sexually healthy and mature. | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 09:56 PM |
| 2 | On average, how many women do you sleep with in a year?Its averaging about 1 a year. And covid is really hurting that. If it wasn't for covid I would be doing 2 or 3 a year. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 03:41 PM |
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