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Yeah it is going really well. It’s an insecurity based on me doubting myself. I struggle with intimacy and letting someone get this close to me takes a lot of time and opening up from me. So over time I have an irrational fear I’m not who she thinks I am, or she’ll become bored with me, etc. because of this. I’m not projecting this on the relationship, but when I’m not with her often I get anxious about it. Could just be me missing her, or lonely and dreading that feeling being permanent. I know…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 05:26 PM
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Sounds like a shit test. She wants to see if you’ll go beta when she talks about moving. Definitely. She’s stopped bringing it up because I just didn’t respond to it every time. But this past week she’s introduced me to her mom/sister who both liked me. She doesn’t communicate feelings overtly but she sort of got a bit gushy Saturday and confessed just how much she likes me in bed and told me “she’s not going anywhere” and “this is where she belongs”. Then the next day at an event she was tellin…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:46 PM
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It’s not great yeah, I’m just not at the point where I’m meeting people who are driven. Not to make excuses but I haven’t gotten the gears turning with work, gym, eat, sleep, grad school. My current girlfriend is most likely moving away too so I’m pretty crushed by feelings of being totally fucking isolated for the first time in my life and it’s hard. Guess I need to join a yoga class or find a new job and see what happens for me— at least to mix it up.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 01:02 AM
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What a treat to get this today. Thanks as always.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 08:55 PM
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She pretty much has never turned me down in 6 months or acted uninterested. Spent Thursday night-Sunday morning with her and had an incredible time. Only thing I’d question is she never pushed for commitment from but that’s likely because she could move away from me soon and is scared. Not really sure what to do with that.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 08:09 PM
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How did you get out of it?
/r/askTRP09/04/18 05:41 PM
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Hamstering her feelings? Not sure I understand totally but are you saying she’s basically verbalizing “love” in a covert way?
/r/askTRP09/04/18 05:37 PM
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I don’t mind it, just curious if she’s sub-communicating something.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 05:36 PM
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Yes AWALT- I am perfectly this girl is capable of branch swinging, she will/has get/gotten tingles from high smv men, and she has left me for an opportunity before. I previously was not a priority in her life and that definitely taught me a lesson about putting myself first. I got burned from investing in her to make me happy at the time. However none of that meant she wasn't a good quality individual or featured a lot of great attributes. Your belief systems are your own, if you read the sideba…
/r/askTRP08/04/18 04:09 PM
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Well... she surely isn't going to be your gurl anymore, after she returns, is she? I would have no evidence to suggest she isn't trustworthy. Sure call me a naive beta if you like, but I just employ 'trust but verify'. Yeah I know there's a million horror stories of spring break gone wrong, but I have no reason to just hard next. I am curious, what would you say of a snap of a strange dick in her mouth? "Oh wow! Shit-testing level over 9000!" or what? I would block her and find new girls.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 09:17 PM
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Haha good line
/r/askTRP27/02/18 04:41 PM
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I knew typing this out I would come across like that. And deep down you’re right it is my insecurity; I’m subconsciously letting this girl screen me instead of the other way around because I don’t truly believe in my value. Time to flip it on her ass.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 06:12 PM
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You don't necessarily have to have an impressive social life; she just has to believe that you do. Yeah she’s been impressed by me more than disappointed just by my reputation. I can just tell she is trying to get her claws into what I’m doing when I’m not with her, which honestly is just doing me, chores, school, gym, and work. She just is a slice of the pie. I don’t have insane yacht parties or a crew I go out drinking with on Thursdays and Saturdays right now like I did at one point. If you r…
/r/askTRP26/02/18 06:09 PM
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Stopped going out and drinking as much, started focusing on me, work, and school at the end. That helped to create less opportunities for sex. Honestly, I think I can come across as cold mainly due to anxiety. It has made it harder to meet people and women even when I know I’ll be successful. That being said, I still had some opportunities during my senior year, just didn’t execute on them. Too bad, better luck next time.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 02:43 AM
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Genius.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 08:07 PM
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Personal experience for you OP. One time during my blindest beta days in my sophomore year of college this hb8 with a ridiculously tight body, who I thought was showing a lot of interest told me “you’re so tall, you remind me of my brother.” I assumed that meant in some weird way I was attractive, some weird comfort/attraction rapport built up by familiarity. She was set-up with my roommate at the time by my ex-gf so I let it slide to calm the waters (giant plate of drama) Months later we matche…
/r/askTRP23/02/18 05:50 PM
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I’m so confused, your game has to be way off course if you got her to block you. Need more details about how you got from point A to blocked to figure out where all you fucked it up. As far as oneitis, no forget about this girl. She’s a nobody now capiche?
/r/askTRP22/02/18 07:24 PM
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Yeah that’s a good mindset. Honestly with this girl I think I could barely do anything and she’d cream from my dick. That being said, I’m just going to start doing what I want to her in bed and see what happens.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 07:19 PM
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Yeah I’d cut my losses. You already hit both anyways so that makes it a much easier choice.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 02:59 AM
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When you’re not getting what you want.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 02:48 AM
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Yes hard next both unless you find out which one. Person who texted is probably a jealous beta but if not you don’t have a choice.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 02:47 AM
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You shouldn’t even be paying attention. Reacting at all shows you’re overinvested. If she asks you anything, respond you want to see her with a time and a place. If she accepts great, if she doesn’t that’s okay too. If she doesn’t give a counter offer you’re more than happy to walk away.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 04:38 PM
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She was the one who brought it up, two different times actually. See, you’ve pinpointed where it went wrong. The “what are we” talk popped up and you tripped and fell on it. See below from the sidebar for exactly what to do in the future and you won’t see this shit anymore. https://www.trp.red/p/mattyanon/274
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:42 PM
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Why you would actually bring up "the talk" is beyond me. You nailed it. OP learned this lesson the hard way. Sometimes you need to just let your dick talk for you.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:29 PM
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You’re way over-invested in this girl, and you’re the game player not her. You all of a sudden started this by bringing up “the talk” instead of her. Want some advice?- Shut up next time instead. You’ve been seeing her for a month, and you say you see her every other week, so you’ve seen her what, 2-3 times total? Yeah so you’re not the only guys she’s fucking. You know she isn’t relationship material so stop hoping for it. Two options bud. Keep your mouth shut and keep hitting it, or drop her n…
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:22 PM
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Start planning your exit before you totally resent them. Make sure it’s 100% feasible and you won’t be fucked over.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:14 PM
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Friend was trying to convince me to buy a place. I get the mindset behind rent feeling like money down the drain, but felt like so long as I am investing in myself, the market, AND able to save conservatively I am still making a good move.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 08:14 PM
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Moving out this week. I saved money for about a year which will be spent on finishing my masters and invested. I have enough cash left over for a very comfortable emergency fund in addition to what I save from my income for a solid lifestyle where I’ll save a good enough percentage for 22. I have a good job with good benefits right now and am actively looking for new opportunities as well. I lasted roughly year with my parents. I am not independent and I recognized I had to make a lot of sacrifi…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 08:11 PM
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Be better at controlling your emotions and this situation will be irrelevant. Thanks for the advice man. Regardless you’re right I’ve been letting my anxiety get the best of me when the best thing I can do is let go.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 02:48 AM
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Why?
/r/askTRP14/02/18 02:47 AM
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Because I want to learn from my mistakes from guys who have been in this situation more than I have. Just because we’ve had sex doesn’t mean I’m doing everything perfectly, it’s still trial and error.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 04:17 PM
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she’s already chasing you Well she isn’t chasing my ass if I haven’t heard from her in a couple days right? As of now I’ll wait a while before I’ll give her a call but I don’t see how I’m crushing her with attention if I do so per /u/vandaalen - it’s been plenty of time with healthy no contact.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 03:49 PM
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Thanks, I‘ll go give her a call tonight. Honestly I felt like giving her some space after having spent so much time together this past weekend was the smartest move so she didn’t feel smothered or like I had too little going on. I got no signs low-interest was the case so I have to assume she’s on pins and needles waiting for me to call and doesn’t want to come across as needy or over-interested. Probably because she actually initiated the last time we hung out and thinks it’s my turn.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 03:09 PM
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This. It’s the easiest test in the world. You sit back and kick your feet up and you pass. You move a muscle and you lose.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 02:45 PM
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You have to let go. Your exams are more important. If you back off and stop being so insecure she’ll start wondering about you more and stop worrying about other guys. Then that music festival becomes not as fun as you. Any girl worth dating would understand those priorities so if she doesn’t you know what to do.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 02:43 PM
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Watch the Corey Wayne videos on this for your answer. In summary until she texts you you’re radio silent for at least few days. Then if you’ve been dating for longer than a month give her a call to say hey sweetheart let’s go out and have fun- if she reacts in a way other than definite interest in a time and place back off completely until she sets a date.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 02:40 PM
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Lol truthfully the guy had a spot on comment. I’m thinking about how to retain one girl not about how to make myself better. Nothing positive there. Just gotta work as hard as I can to be a badass not weasel my way through.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 11:34 PM
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Very true I am hamstering hard. I’ll just do my best to stop resisting and what will be will be.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 09:52 PM
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Good response thanks for putting it in a better perspective.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 09:52 PM
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I’d rather cultivate something great with someone and strategize how best to do that. If I found she’s fucking other dudes, too bad I’d move on. My goal is having the best sexual strategy to retain and develop my partner. So yeah I want to figure how I can not have her boning other dudes.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 09:36 PM
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I guess if a woman is literally investing in you, you’re doing something right lmao
/r/askTRP11/01/18 02:16 AM
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Not necessarily his exact build but I think there are definitely women who go nuts for that bald savage Stone Cold Steve Austin look. I agree 4C is definitely a little over the top in comparison.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 02:14 AM
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4C is obviously polarizing but it is a fucking awesome look.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 12:55 AM
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Lol got me again. I get why you say I’m a chump- I’m silly beta bucks who wants to buy her everything. I haven’t taken her on any dates since we got coffee a couple months ago when she paid for herself explicitly because I don’t want to be in that position, I’ve read/heard the horror stories and don’t want that shame. I’m not a chivalrous fucking neckbeard but I just have a hard time believing a woman wants to pay for me no strings attached...maybe this is a milestone where I really am the prize…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 12:48 AM
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That's possible. It's more so when I am looking forward to crushing a girls pussy the next night and a close friend has something else up. I just feel like wow my priorities are fucked choosing pussy over that from time to time.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 02:55 AM
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Totally in the same boat right now. I can't stand using a rubber and lost a hard on trying to put one on because of it. I couldn't care less about what she thinks, it's frustrating for me because I want to fuck her but better luck next time. I think it's just about building comfort with her and after a while you can take it off if that's where you're looking to go. Like others have said I would be very cautious about who she is, and when you do it because you just never fucking know who has what…
/r/askTRP08/12/17 12:54 AM
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It was really common for girls to want to be exclusive with me. I would never agree and many times they would come out with, "well, I want to be exclusive with you." How does this typically get brought up and how are they getting to this point emotionally? For instance if you're just fucking her and leaving 1-2 times a week how is she getting brought to that point of need? Do you think eventually a woman in a fuck buddy situation inherently is going to look for commitment?
/r/askTRP06/12/17 06:11 PM
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Yeah it's cool if she does I'm just trying to understand why I didn't get that vibe at all from her. She's thinking I'm over here trying to be her boyfriend after two lowkey dates. I wasn't even thinking that far ahead, so either she's projecting or I'm not being clear with my intentions. Whatever it is I don't really like getting a ceiling put on me like that. "I hope he doesn't think I would want to be his girlfriend" - makes me feel like I'm not good enough. Could just be overthinking it or m…
/r/askTRP30/11/17 01:53 AM
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Don't do this. If you want to give her a perfect excuse to say you're controlling, and push her away at the same time, then do this. Otherwise OP, I wouldn't be worried. She told you he did all of that, she's still in your pocket. Do not give her an excuse like this to jump out. And good riddance to your 'brother'. "Loss ain't a loss it's a lesson" - Hov
/r/askTRP21/08/17 01:38 PM
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Great remark. There was a really popular post the other day where a girl was going out with her friends for the first time, and the guy immediately dumped her. Some argued it was a little bit robotic lol. I understand taking things with a grain of salt but that was a popular post and many said he did the right thing. Obviously there are different degrees to this shit. If she's going on a family trip, no problem. If she's going on vacation with one of her longtime gal pals, badass have fun! If sh…
/r/askTRP10/08/17 12:21 PM
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Exactly right. I would literally only use them to keep my rent cheap and fuck their friends. If you're not getting one they're a burden imo.
/r/askTRP10/08/17 02:42 AM
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Seen this first hand, one of my best friends in college did exactly this but minus one girl and it went bad but not terribly. You already made your bed and you have to sleep in it. Obviously do not fuck one of them. I repeat: do not fuck one of them. You will grow to be disgusted by them like a sister. You get to not only see, hear, etc. all of their horrible activities, but also seeing them everyday takes a toll like any roommate. Live with someone long enough you will hate them. Advice: Be out…
/r/askTRP09/08/17 11:51 PM
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Busted again.
/r/askTRP09/08/17 01:33 AM
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Seeing her smile and laughing and cheerful when I'm trying to be cold to her fucks with my resolve even more. Look in a different direction. I'm contemplating changing jobs whenever the opportunity arises but it could be a year down the road and I'm seriously afraid. Fuck. That. You need to conquer this bullshit. It's holding you back from getting money? IT DOESN'T NEED TO EXIST. She's not even fucking you and you're spinning out man. Regain perspective of your life. I
/r/askTRP08/08/17 10:35 PM
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You ( translated) : "I want you to be my girlfriend."2 Fuck me lol. Again the issue wasn't what you said feel free to let her know you had a good time but how you said it was pretty poor and of course her response was essentially a backlash against that context . I think you nailed it man. I made her feel cornered and communicated my intentions poorly. All water under the bridge though now, just going to have to go ghost. Just saying "hey i really just meant I want you to fuck me!" at some point…
/r/askTRP05/08/17 04:38 PM
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