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Summary of what you're saying: - blame this group (men) - but don't blame this group (humans) Even though there are innocent people in both groups. But don't blame the second group. Gee, I wonder why? Could it be it's because there are women in this group but we can't blame them! /s Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:56 PM
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It doesn’t matter if I define you or you define you or who defines who. I don’t even know what’s the purpose of saying something like that. But it’s very clearly have your own narratives to make yourself feel better. And as I mentioned you are drawing imaginary boundaries to absolve yourself of any responsibility while putting the blame entirely on another group. Where did I justify being a wife beater? You seem to be inventing things in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:46 PM
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Maybe you think it's the worst because you lack accountability. You seem to want to draw the lines at men/women because that is what suits your narrative. You want to draw the line at man/woman to put all the responsibility on men (even though most men are not murderers) because it directly puts you outside the line where you have to be responsible. The way I see it, murderers are humans. You're human. You are part of the same group as these murderers. As are all men and women. And as humans par…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:46 PM
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And what's my behavior? I didn't kill anyone and neither has most men. Most incels, for that matter, have also not killed people, so why do you pin responsibility on us then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:58 PM
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Keep up with your attitude and take no accountability. See how well it will turn out for everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:12 PM
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Maybe a large part is because femcels are treated significantly better than incels ? Incels are not just suffering from loneliness but also from constant bullying from people calling them incels (how many times have the term incel been used as an insult?), from being shamed for not landing a partner, from being mocked constantly for any criticism they have about certain female behaviors. And if you think femcels receive anywhere close to the amount of ridicule incels have, you’re not being hones…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:59 AM
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On Reddit, 90% of the people claim the woman makes more in their relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:09 PM
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I care about the behaviours of the people that I associate with. And it's on you if you want to define it and frame it like that. Hell of a way to live life thinking in such a hostile manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 02:15 AM
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I see you’re the type that is quick to label a misogynist and insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:53 AM
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I , as a man, absolutely judge other men on that. And I judge women as well. Lots of judging overall
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:41 PM
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The way to win is to not give it up too early and find a guy that’s okay or even prefers it that way. The women you say can’t win are the ones that give it up too early while being attracted to guys that just want an easy lay
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:39 PM
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I only got one sexual message after using a woman’s profile for three months.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:19 AM
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I did put up a profile as a woman for 3 months. Actually matched and had conversations with men. It’s nothing like what women on internet has described. I only got one outright sexual comment which was ‘I’ll let you sit on my face”. Everything else was a variation of ‘you’re beautiful’.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:18 AM
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I've never ghosted anybody because I don't match with anybody that I am not interested in. Simple as that. To hear women use the excuse that they have too many matches as the reason they're ghosting is nonsense. Nobody is forcing them to match with people they're not interested in. If you can't handle the volume, then don't match. Not a hard concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:17 AM
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That’s what I would say about the women who present themselves well on the internet because I have almost never met them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:23 PM
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I’ve been asked for some of these things in a month of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:21 PM
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Women's protection is blaming all wars on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:51 AM
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This is one of the most delusional takes I’ve heard. Even on dating apps and using a man and woman’s profile it’s blatantly obvious women put in significantly less effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:17 AM
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This is exactly why women get scammed and fall for liars. The dating phase is supposed to be where you seek the truth and learn about the other person and not what who appears the best in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:10 AM
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That is a very one sided comment. You seem to implying that putting in a lot of effort in initial stages signals how much effort will put into a relationship. But if a man is the one putting a lot of effort in the initial stages then it’s most likely because the woman is not. And if that’s the case then how is a man suppose to gauge how much effort the woman will put into the relationship. Most of the comments I hear from women about dating is about how a woman should judge a man but never takin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:07 AM
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I think it hilarious when liberal women talk like only them have empathy. They seem to have empathy for everything but men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 05:03 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:24 PM
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When women experience men who disappointed them, women raise their standards. But most of the time this only attracts more liars and con men. Women never seem to evaluate their own judging criteria is accurate or not. Perhaps they are using signals that are completely inaccurate in vetting a man. I often compare dating with the job market. Some of the prestigious companies that have rigorous vetting process do not simply just raise their standards but also spent millions of dollars researching o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:17 PM
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Women are victims of their own biology. Even though they live much easier lives, their neuroticism (constantly thinking and creating problems that don't exist). Their perpetual negativity and thinking everybody is out to get them makes them believe their life is actually much harder. It's a different type of hell but it's still hell. So tell me... which hell do you want? Men - who actually have harder lives? OR Women - who think their lives are harder ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 07:42 PM
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If you want to think of marriage of having an owner that’s on you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:07 PM
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Not true. Women were able get bank accounts. Only some women were not allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:54 PM
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Being good is an implication of a person's morality. None of the things that you mentioned - being educated, smart, ambitious, interesting hobbies, having lots of friends - is any indication of whether a person is good or not except for considerate-sort of. I don't know what kind of women you know but most women I know are only good on the surface. Most are gossipy, say bad things behind people's back. Most of them if you ask them what their hobbies are they would say shopping, eating, sleeping,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:32 AM
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A lot of violent crime that women want done are committed by men on women's behalf. I just wish men weren't stupid enough to be easily manipulated by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:50 PM
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Men make up most of the violent crime stats because when a woman wants violence to happen, they get a man to do it. What men are really guilty of is being stupid enough to be manipulated by women to do their dirty work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:48 PM
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There's no point in arguing with someone like OP. Any points you make, they will just say they're expected to like it's expected that people are good, so let's not give any credit to anyone that does what they're expected to do. There is no winning over someone like OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:46 PM
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Women are too secure. It would help them to have some humility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 04:50 AM
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On this Reddit , tons of women claim that the only value a man brings to a relationship is his money while simultaneously claiming women aren’t gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 10:29 PM
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Exactly. OP is basically saying if a woman can’t take money that was earned outside of the marriage , it leaves her vulnerable ? That’s a very dumb thing to say. And how is it unfair ? She didn’t earn the money. What’s unfair is that a man has to resort to these measures because the laws are so terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 04:07 PM
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I have made dating market comparisons to the job market only to be shouted down by other women saying those two things are not the same. No shit, they are not the same. If they are the same, then you don't need to compare. Say anything is not comparable is often an easy way out of an argument without any logical basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:15 PM
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You can leave yourself out of it. Unless they impact you directly, you're going to have a rough time if you keep engaging anytime anybody says anything bad about any group you belong to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:47 PM
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Yeah, users like that always forget there are plenty of women in West that are perfectly okay with exploiting a man financially. These women are not in short supply. And these users would never call these Western women prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:43 PM
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And just because there's a huge wealth disparity between the man and woman doesn't mean it's morally wrong for the man. That's like saying billionaire men doesn't deserve love because almost every single woman he dates will have a huge wealth disparity with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:41 PM
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There is subjectivity in beauty but not much. For the most part, beauty has a very narrow definition that a large portion of the population has agreed upon.. If someone is attracted to scat porn, or animals, or children, we call these people messed up in the head. We don't say really say, he's a right in the head but he just has peculiar tastes..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:16 AM
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No. Your point does not stand. You assume when you see couples that they are attracted to each other, which is big assumption to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:54 AM
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A lot of those ugly couples grew to become ugly people. A lot of them didn't start off that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 06:40 AM
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Women’s intuition
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:11 AM
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Attraction is negotiable. It'a also more likely women can develop attraction in a man than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:31 PM
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Therapy can often make someone even worse. Seen it plenty of times.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:09 PM
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Are you in Europe? Because in 2025 men are still paying for dates. And it doesn't matter statistically women do the majority of housework. You passing judgment onto the guy when you have no evidence of how he is going to act later on is sexist. In the United States, do you know also think black people should be arrested more for no reason because statistically they have the highest rate of committing murders?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:19 AM
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It's sexist for a woman to assume they'll be doing most of the housework when judging an individual man. If a man act in his role as the provider in the relationship, then does that mean a woman shouldn't complain when they are expected to do all the work that you say women do more of. But women have been complaining how their husband's don't contribute at all around the house. Why? It's entitled of women to expect free meals or things paid for her in the beginning stages of dating when she has …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 02:56 AM
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it means that no matter how delusional the things men say to women, it's not the women's responsibility to use better judgement and assess whether they are realistic or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 09:21 PM
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Not my experience. Plenty of women are plenty happy of letting me spend my money on them and not give anything back in return including a second date .
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:23 AM
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One woman I dated, I paid for the first date. After, she suggested the next date place for our next date. When we got there , she didn’t take out her wallet or nothing, so I paid. We discussed about it later. She said I should pay because I asked her out. I guess her suggesting the date place is not asking me out, which means because I asked her the first time, the burden of paying falls on me indefinitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:21 AM
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It’s sexist to assume a man will do less care work than her and it’s risky for the man to assume the woman will do more care work. And if a woman expects a man to be generous because she anticipates she will do more care work then that woman should not be complaining, which a lot of women do, when she actually does more house work. If I didn’t go on Reddit, I wouldn’t even know that women do more care work but that’s definitely not what I see in the people around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 06:13 AM
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What she’s saying is men should be grateful to take on emotional labor women impose on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:33 PM
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Point 8 also has nothing to do with standards being low or high. Just because somebody is right leaning or is conservative or has a different opinion than you doesn’t make you better than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/25 12:20 AM
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You seem to be unfamiliar with grammar. Did I use past tense ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:48 PM
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Again, it depends on the issue at hand. You have picked an issue that you think conservatives are advocating for less freedom. But you really can't name some issues that conservatives believe liberals are advocating for less freedom? And i don't know what you're talking about - no side is trying to make it legal or illegal for people to not have to be straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:40 PM
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Not true at all. Both sides advocate freedom of choice depending on the issue at hand. But for the past few decades, the left is more for having a bigger government.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:25 PM
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Assuming those are the only criteria (which they are not), you should realize all those terms are relative. How high is a paying career? How well is well educated? All those terms are designed to disqualify the vast majority of men no matter how well they do. That's why people say the goalposts shift with women's standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:16 PM
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You seriously asking to go through another round of this again?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:13 PM
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You are only selecting on dimensions that favor women. And even so, some of the stuff you mentioned is arguable at best. For example, you assume women pay attention to their appearance more - why? Because they have more fashion choices and styles of makeup to apply?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:12 PM
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You're coming from a place that's insinuating women are better than men. If you said there's a lack of compatible men for women, that would be more reasonable even though I still wouldn't fully agree with that statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:05 PM
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That comment from OP just shows misandry and sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:59 PM
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That is exactly what people from the extreme far right would say against people they don't like. Secondly, mediocre losers is a subjective term. It depends on how you see them. Another surprising thing is a lot of women seem to tout therapy but yet seem to have not learnt anything. Let's just say there was a person (man or woman) who is objectively a mediocre loser and goes to therapy to help with his esteem issues. Do you think a therapy would straight up tell them that they're a mediocre loser…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:56 PM
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It's interesting how many women claim they are left-leaning but when it comes to dating they are extremely far right by setting up near-impossible standards for people and then blame others for not meeting those standards without ever evaluating whether what they're asking for is reasonable or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 02:45 PM
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Manosphere would not have any influence on these men if what they are saying does not have any resonance with these men's actual experience. If women are complaining about these crazy men who are doing these insane things and as a man you think to yourself, 'Wait a minute. That doesn't sound like me at all. I've done none of that stuff and no men around me are like that' but yet they've experienced all the complaints about women, who do you think they are going to listen to?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:22 PM
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Do you realize women are capable of murders? Why do you think it will not escalate to a war?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:47 AM
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Let's say men went extinct. Do you think wars will stop happening?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:43 AM
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I would never look at somebody with lots of long term relationships and divorces as someone of long-term relationship material. Imagine somebody that keeps quitting on jobs or getting fired getting credited as a good employee because they have a series of jobs. Sorry, but some of the best employees are the ones that are the freshest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 06:48 PM
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You didn't answer my question at all. But with your question, you're probably the type that gets off by annoying men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:21 AM
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Why do women like you always sound smug and arrogant? Does using words like 'Oh wait' and carrying yourself in a sarcastic manner make you feel superior?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:06 AM
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Some these people were not ugly before they entered into relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 10:26 PM
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There might be other valid reasons to ghost but ‘I don’t owe you anything’ is never one of them. Whoever says that is basically outing themselves as an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:39 PM
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I have talked to women in person about their experience on dating apps. It’s almost nothing like what the women on Reddit portrays.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:58 PM
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You are delusional if you think you even have a chance of making meaningful contact with even a hundred million people. Even a million is barely possible. Just because you can message some random strangers on LinkedIn or Instagram doesn't mean it's meaningful contact. If that's what you're basing it on, you might as well just keep your estimates at billions because you could digitally reach billions of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:52 PM
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The billions of people argument is dumb. It doesn’t matter if there are billions or trillions. It’s how many people you can realistically come in contact with and have the means of developing a connection. Millions billions trillions gazillions doesn’t improve your odds one bit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:36 PM
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That's why people say women lack accountability. Women always want the man to pull the trigger. They reap the benefits when things goes well but when things don't, it's not their fault because it was the man who did it. Same thing with marriage - men are still the ones doing the majority of the proposing regardless of whether how much the woman wants to get married. But when the marriage falls apart, it's always the man's fault especially since he was the one who asked for the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 02:06 AM
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Also, a lot of women are delusional about the attention that they get. We had this trend of women filming themselves in gyms and trying to oust men for checking them out when in reality they were just minding their own business, but to these women, they had delusional fantasties in their minds that these men are hitting on them or peeping on them. And they were delusional in thinking that they were in the right because they expected most people will be on their side when they posted the videos o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:40 AM
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That's why generally, I don't like to use the word 'experience' to describe older women. Emotional baggage is what they have because like I said experience is suppose to make you better but baggage drags you down and unfortunately, most older women have baggage and not experience. All these angry bitter older women claim they hate negativity but ironically that's the one thing they have that make them think they are better than others because it's their negative energy that makes them enlightene…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 01:15 AM
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To a woman, being experienced and wise means being bitter, angry, arrogant and a pain in the ass to be around. They don't seem to realize that experience is supposed to be make you a better person. But to most women, it seems to be make them worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:54 AM
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Now that's just a man hating statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 12:51 AM
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Your definition of beautiful seems very confined to women who look like Instagram models.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 06:25 PM
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There are other lethal methods besides using guns...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 03:06 PM
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You realize high income and being broke/high debt are not mutually exclusive, right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 07:25 AM
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I have no idea what mobster back rooms even mean. But even if ti's some random guy a woman meets at a bar or some dude she encounters while backpacking, it's still pretty stupid for a woman to sleep with this guy that quickly. Even as a guy, if another guy I just met hours ago ask me to go to his house to play video games or whatever activity, I would still be suspicious. Like you said, people find whether the rewards offset the risks but what I'm saying the risks were never that high in the fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:21 PM
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Why should I count only count what they do? That's an arbitrary condition you imposed to fit your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:05 PM
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People tend to have less sympathy for those who travel to high crime rate countries and warzones and end up getting killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:03 PM
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Yes, they can do that. You are confusing 'preference' with being 'okay' with something. More than half the people in the US are okay with gay marriage. That doesn't mean most of them are engaged in gay marriages. It absolutely is relevant to know what people are okay with. We are talking about people's attitudes and beliefs. But you bring in this arbitrary condition that people have to be doing something for it to count.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:57 PM
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Plenty of people are okay but plenty of people are also in committed relationships which perclude them from engaging in casual sex. How is that hard to understand? And even for women, it is takes some effort for them to get casual sex albeit it's significantly less than a man. There are plenty of reasons to explain why people are okay with.casual sex but not in engaging in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:42 PM
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That article you posted is useless. It doesn’t say how many people are okay with casual sex. Just because a person might be a in committed relationship doesn’t mean they are against the idea of hooking up or that they haven’t done it in the past. What I’m trying to say is , if many woman are okay with the idea of casual sex and hook ups then you can’t take them seriously when they talk about safety. When women talk about ‘safety’ it’s often a code word to justify their terrible behavior like gho…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:17 PM
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Don’t even talk about how women cares about safety when so many of them are engaged in hookups, one night stands and casual sex. I don’t care how charming or smooth a man is. If a woman is putting themselves in such a vulnerable state, like having sex, with a person that’s practically a stranger, I can’t take them seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:02 PM
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Granted I never carried on outside of the app with anyone and you can’t send pics on Hinge. But in terms of sexual messages I got two. One was ‘you can sit on my face’ and the other was ‘you’re sexy and beautiful’ (I’m paraphrasing the last one). I matched with 200 something men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:28 AM
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Pay who? Pay the app or pay the woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:10 AM
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I really don't know if you're a troll or what because you keep coming with the most absurd and ludicrous statements. People were forced to watch a movie because it was a matter of survival? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:06 AM
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Because a lot of these guys that women are dismissing have the potential to be a good option but they can be dismissed for whatever arbitrary for BS reasons. Men are less picky than women not because women are inherently better but because men are not that hung up and triggered as easily as women. And if women were picky on the right qualities, that’s more understandable why they do that but they don’t that’s why they continue to pick crap guys. You asking straight man to go to Grindr because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:52 AM
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Well I wouldn’t go on Grindr because I’m not gay which means there are literally zero options for me there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:37 AM
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Okay? That risk exists irl too. Any stranger you date or hookup with could be a predator. That's what vetting is for. Only way to possibly avoid that is by only dating or sleeping with people you know well or have been vetted already by friends, family, etc. Having options means there will sometimes be bad options. There's no way to avoid that possibility, even outside of the apps. Thats why I have no empathy for women who talk about the risks of online dating and how they justify flaking and gh…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:53 PM
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You're a troll. What biological implications are you talking about? And biological implications is supposed to take precedence?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:07 PM
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Yes. I never said that doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:55 PM
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Not really. Men can name out all the facts and numbers why it's objectively worse for them. Then the woman will say... but but but... there's SA and trash men! You realize whenever women say they have a lot of options but most of the options are crap, it's a sexist statement right? It's basically stating that women are inherently better than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:51 PM
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And you can't get your money and dignity back once someone steals your money and takes advantage of you. What's absurd is your framing of the situation. You intentionally framed the woman's situation from the lens of the victim and the men's situation as a trivial loss that they can brush it off the next day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:49 PM
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You can't take pussy back, but you can always make more money after paying for a date. Such an absurd statement lol. What does take your pussy back even mean? You make it sound like men are physically ripping out vaginas and taking it with them. If you're going to say guys can make more money than you can also say women have go find another man or find more sex. The point is not about what you lose. It's the idea of being taken advantage of and getting used is what makes it so hurtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:28 PM
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You realize you still haven't explained why men are delusional?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:19 PM
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Saying there's too many bad options is like saying there's too many bad movies on Netflix. Or would they rather go back to the age of not having Netflix or video stores at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:12 PM
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It is objectively worse for men. Women are the delusional ones. You're already talking all delusional misintrepreting what I wrote in my first reply to your post. It seems like everybody else understood what I wrote but not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:09 PM
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That's why you should always be suspect whenever a woman complains about something or make accusations. It's very possible the only place those things happened was in her head. Since I've been using dating apps, I've encountered almost all the problems that men have posted on here. Luckily, I've never been stood up. But when I made a profile of a woman as an experiment and actually used it for 3 months and had some lengthy conversations with men, I encountered almost none of the issues that the …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:04 PM
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What is the objective fact you're referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:00 PM
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What did men say that is delusional? If there's 40 something % of men saying it's negative for them, that's still a pretty high number.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:52 PM
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Have you considered that women are just more susceptible to negativity? Modern dating is objectively worse for men, but subjectively, women feel like it's worse for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:22 PM
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business intelligence , data engineering
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:29 AM
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In tech, like a lot of folks that make that salary
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:19 AM
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I'm about 200k 5'10 and have trouble as well. I'm in my thirties and I've had some fun and relationships in my mid twenties but it has dried up ever since. I don't believe most of what women have said on Reddit. I have experienced almost every complaint men have with dating and dating apps except for getting stood up (closest I've experienced is getting unmatched on the day of the date) and I do not believe I've done any of the things that women are complaining about on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:07 PM
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Not saying you are wrong but i just want to add many women will taken advantage of men but a lot of women will not admit it and will even go as far as to shame men for even bringing it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 12:45 PM
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I didn’t pivot. I’m just curious. I can’t be curious without you being triggered ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:51 PM
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I said not much so thanks for misrepresenting what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:38 PM
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Complaining or disagreeing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:05 PM
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Quite frankly I haven’t seen much reacting from men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 04:37 PM
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If this was about misogyny, what you describe is what feminist called internalized misogyny. So what you’re describing about this dude is internalized misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:41 AM
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I’m in my thirties and all the women that I go out on first dates with are also in their thirties. I would say half of them are misandrist. The women that I encounter at work are okay but who knows what their political beliefs are. The women growing up for the most part are okay as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:39 AM
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I say both things can be true because a lot of the men feel women are not selective enough in the qualities that make a man a good partner or they use the wrong indicators to identify certain personality traits. A simple example would be selecting a man because he’s over 6’4 and disqualifying a lot of potentially good men because they’re shorter. And for the tall guy, these women overlooking a lot of the red flags in this person then later complaining about why he’s a terrible person, a cheater,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 04:59 PM
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Not just this thread but this whole subreddit is just a place for women to gaslight men. I’m not saying every debate posted here has the same merit but it’s very clear there are some women here whose sole purpose is to antagonize the posters. They would claim this subreddit is full of incels and misogyny but they continue to stick around and participate in the discussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:50 AM
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Both things can be true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:46 AM
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Of course not. They have a reputation of lacking accountability and they’re just living up their reputation as expected
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:08 PM
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Well even on the Democrats website under ‘Who We Serve’, they listed like every demographic but men, so it’s easy to see that they just don’t care about men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:07 PM
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These women fail to comprehend that there are issues other than abortion that people put higher on their list of priorities
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:04 PM
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That’s why I hate it when modern feminists claim feminism is about equal rights. Some go as far as to claim that there is no evidence that feminist hate men. I think this election’s results has put their misandry on full display. But at the same time, I do not doubt they will continue to gaslight and come up with excuses that they don’t hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 08:00 PM
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Well most white women also voted for Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 07:57 PM
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They do consider the percentages. They just think the women voting against them are voting against their own self interests
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 07:56 PM
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It’s liberal platform when it’s called to explain bad behavior from the left. But this disavow that label and then it’s called an incel cesspool when it’s called to explain why men are complaining about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:27 PM
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Add AskWomenOver30 to the list
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:31 AM
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Depends on the app.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 07:07 PM
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This has been one of the very few responses here from a woman about this topic that I find to be reasonable in a while. Lots of women confuse spending lots of money on a woman to mean he's not broke or that he's kind. Spending a lot of money doesn't even mean he's generous. How did those two things become synonymous? Generosity is giving to those in need, showing appreciation, not always keeping tabs on each other while being smart about it. If I outrageously overpaid for a car, nobody will say …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 04:35 PM
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can't keep saying something's a right when maybe it shouldn't even be a right
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:53 AM
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It’s funny how it’s possible for women as a whole to be oppressed but yet they are most likely the ones in a marriage to nag and complain. They even manipulated men into thinking ‘happy wife happy life’. If women were truly oppressed those things would not have been possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 12:47 AM
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You can ask yourself these questions but ultimately you have to make up your own mind and stop relying on the judgment of others to pick your partner. If you can't decide for yourself, you're not a functioning adult and are others your potential partner or are you? That's why I am not that bothered if I don't like some of my friends' wives or girlfriends. I don't tend to say anything because 1) I don't claim to be smarter than them 2) I'm not the one ultimately dating them so I don't need to lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 05:12 PM
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Then that is why you are completely wrong. Janice Fiamengo made some videos that talked about the dark history of feminism and she has sources to it. History has dictated otherwise. The internet also has proved you are wrong. Even Wikipedia has provided multiple definitions and even people have critiqued that it’s a man-hating movement. And even if you don’t want to trust WIkipedia, there’s tons of other resources that says you are wrong or lying. So don’t come here with your lies and BS that it…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:41 PM
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Says who? According to who? Based on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:34 PM
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Stop with the lies. It’s not overthinking. It’s based on what’s observed. Using your definition is putting a wolf in sheep’s clothing. If you can’t even acknowledge that a lot of feminists have taken your definition beyond that, then you are an extremely dishonest or naive individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:30 PM
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No, that is not what feminism means. It might be the definition in the dictionary and it might mean that to some people but for the most part it is a women’s supremacy movement. Dictionary definitions are not always the source the truth and definitions are often updated across time. But based on the actions and words espoused by feminist, it is anything but an equal rights movement. Then some people will say it’s these extreme feminists that hijacked the definition. Call it hijacking or whatever…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 02:23 PM
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Egalitarian
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 01:41 PM
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That’s the purpose of this sub. It’s for women to do mental gymnastics and to deny all reality and everything the poster says. This sub is becoming so pointless because that’s the gist of almost all posts here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 08:56 PM
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And the people with a million dollars will come out and gaslight everyone saying 'you don't know the struggles of having a million dollars. People are after your money. You don't know you're true friends are'. Sure, they're real problems but let's no pretend all problems are comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 03:22 AM
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I just told you. It’s about stopping those specific generalizations itself but not generalizing. Don’t you see a difference ?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:27 PM
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I don’t know what your point is. But OP did not say to stop generalizing men but rather those generalizations that were mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:54 PM
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Where did OP say to stop generalizing men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:32 PM
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These statistics do not indicate to me that men are more violent. I am not excusing men for bad behavior. That's the caveat. The reality is when women want to commit violence, they usually get a man to do it for them. As a result, the crime statistics do not accurately reflect who's is actually initiating the crimes. Also, it doesn't help men that the legal system is designed in a way that is in favor of women (although I don't think this is intentional but a byproduct). The unfortunate truth is…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:41 PM
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Women think they are good at non-verbal communication and picking up on details. They call it a woman's intuition. There are countless times when they misinterpret (sometimes probably intentionally), misportray, and misread what I am saying and what my intentions are. Of course, being a man, they would blame it on me by saying I didn't communicate properly even when I tell them straight up or when I explain things to them, they may say that 'you're just trying to talk yourself out of it'. I have…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:25 PM
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If you're an average dude, you can go to more school, get more certifications, or learn entrepreneurial skills and earn $$$. You can read all the self help books, go to therapy, and have a few starter relationships to learn how to listen, validate, and generally co-exist with a woman. Lol, if you're an average dude, you can't really do most of those things if you tried. You have the naivety to think that effort translates to significant results for most people when they really don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 01:06 AM
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Why don’t men just avoid this women? Well, I would if I could but most of the women in my area are extremely materialist and have the expectation to be provided for. So you kinda have to play ball if you want to be partnered up. The only thing you can really do is mitigate the financial damage. The problem with the dating market is people think there’s always somebody out there that meets your criteria. I live in a big city and I realized the few years ago that the dating market is actually a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 08:51 PM
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Thanks for being honest. I look at the situation in Japan. Marriage rate is declining and people are getting partnered up less and less. They all say they're not interested in marriage and relationships are too much of a hassle. But yet their actions have all indicated they are lonely. They are constantly watching porn, visiting prostitutes, or paying lots of money at host/hostess clubs just so to talk to someone they're attracted to. A lot of women make it sound like partnering up with a man is…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:49 AM
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Your post is pretty much spot on. I have a best friend that I keep in touch regularly and we say I love you to each other. There's one thing that there's no ambiguity about and that is I am not above his wife and kids. They take priority. Nothing replaces having a partner and an actual family. I do believe that both men and women lie to each other about their happiness being single. If I look at all of my single friends around me, not one, not a single one will admit that they are lonely and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:49 PM
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Some men obviously are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:35 PM
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That’s not a man or woman issue. In the corporate world, important issues have to be constantly escalated until it is heard by who it needs and is taken seriously. There’s just too many fires that need to be taken care of and it’s unreasonable to consider all of them to be of equal importance. At some point, if you’re constantly escalating and your man is not listening, it could possibly be because he’s stupid; that’s your judgement call to make as to where to draw that line. But my observation …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:18 PM
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Good men that know men would never pick those men for their daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:50 PM
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It's already humiliating enough that men have to pay more than women to attend these events and the women are not attractive at all!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:01 AM
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I didn't say I have low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:53 PM
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Women don't realize that everytime I get older and date women close to my age, I'm lowering my standards
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:22 PM
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My experience is the same. Most women I've met want the man to pay for everything. Some verbalize it more than others. The ones that don't verbalize express it in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:01 AM
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Yes, men lie about cheating and men cheat. But I'm not talking men in my post. I'm just referring to the comment about plenty of women leaving cheating assholes. It's very believable to me that a large number of those women are lying about the circumstances of their breakup. I've been personally experienced my exes completely lied about or they were delusional stuff about some of the stuff that I did or what happened. And I don't even think they were doing it out of malice because we don't have …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 04:16 PM
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Many women lie about men cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:18 PM
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Why? Because on the third date, she expected me to get a mortgage and put her name on the title while she contributes nothing. She bought another property with her parents and said all her money will be going towards that. When I said I wouldn't do that, she said it's unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 12:41 AM
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You’re gaslighting calling it an old wives tale when it’s a pervasive understanding across many many cultures that is what women do. There are also studies on this. But I know you’re one of those people who will dismiss whatever I say by denying what’s considered nagging by moving the goalposts and redefining what it means. Trafficking is a crime. You know crimes mean they’re not supported by most people right? Once again, this is not an example of oppression. If this was, then what about the me…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 12:14 PM
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Nope, not a myth. The myth is you think it’s a myth. So tell me how it come about that women are allowed to nag and pester men and get away with it if they are always at the threat of getting raped and beaten ? Violence has always been used as a form of punishment. Whether you think it’s an acceptable form of punishment is another debate, but because it was used as a form of punishment, men were also subjected to it. But it doesn’t mean these men were oppressed. Oppressed would mean these behavi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 11:33 AM
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And when women wants to commit violence. She usually gets the men to do it. That's why I don't really buy the argument that men are more violent than women. There was a study that came out this year that reveals there are a lot more female psychopaths than we think. The revised numbers are that females are almost as likely as men to be psychopaths. Many female psychopaths before went under the radar because the way they act out their psychopathy is not as overt as men. When I encounter news abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:36 AM
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It is superior but women don’t want to play that game because it doesn’t benefit them. And it’s nothing much gaslighting, delusion, and mental gymnastics to act like it’s fair in any way for men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 08:52 PM
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Her reasoning is basically any rule that benefits women is the right rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:50 AM
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If they're both useless then get off of both. Why are you asking for opinions here? And, I would say the comments would be useless if people were just making statements without explanation but they explained it, you refused to listen to it and essentially called them worthless. I'm starting to think the guy didn't go far enough. He should've asked for money so that they're split down the middle on costs because somebody like you don't even seem to grasp what fairness and equality even means.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:41 AM
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I think you should read the comments in that youtube video before you come back and post with your nonsense logic. The only one scamming for meals is the woman because it seems like he took a bigger hit financially than she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:33 AM
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Yes, it's only 3 dates and the woman is extremely cheap to not even want to pay for one date when the guy paid for 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:31 AM
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Besides the two women in the video and yourself, I don't see anybody being on your side for this. Why would you call the guy childish and not the woman? He wouldn't have sent the receipts if she didn't send him her receipt. He's reacting to her. And it's likely that she's sending the receipt out of spite. But you're only calling the guy petty and childish?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 05:27 AM
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There's plenty of women who expect men to not only cover the first dates but many dates afterwards and sometimes indefinitely. That's essentially asking the employee to work for free. Then there's plenty of people who justify this arrangement saying women do all the emotional labor, household work later in the relationship. But it's all talk until they do it. If an employer is asking an employee to work for free, most people would think that's a scam unless there's some kind of written contract …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:17 AM
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People underestimate the pressure to just pay. To just say don't date these women is like a form of gaslighting of some of issues men encounter in dating, when almost all the women around you expect you to pay. Even the ones that offer to split are still expecting the guy to pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:09 PM
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Fairness doesn't turn on most people but I think it's extremely important that people value it in relationships. If people don't think it's important, then they really shouldn't be complaining later in a relationship when one person isn't pulling their weight. People seem to not understand that it is not reasonable to expect others to treat you one way if you won't treat them the same way yourself. Being fair to others is not only to the benefit to others but also to yourself. You cannot expect …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:09 AM
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I don't deny women hold all the cards but I'm just arguing from the perspective of fairness. A lot of men don't simp not because they are cheap, broke, unkind, unromantic. They don't think it's fair compared to the amount of effort women have to put in. Not only that, women are allowed to end all interactions at any time even the man is clearly the one doing more giving than taking. And because women hold all the cards, most of the modern dating problems are the fault of women. Are there good wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:34 AM
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I really hate that line 'don't owe you anything' to justify bad behavior. Society don't owe you safety, rights, courtesy, decency. Is it really the way to live if you don't do something because you don't owe somebody something? Now, I equate most people that use that line as trash and scum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:19 AM
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Even if it's low effort, so what? It's not like the woman is putting that much effort in the first place. Low effort on both sides - sounds pretty fair to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 02:16 AM
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I used to be a childfree man but now I want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 08:26 PM
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Men are kinda forced to live with their delusion. We're told we don't understand what they're going through. There's some truth to that, men aren't women so can't truly understand everything. But some delusions should really be put to an end especially it's used to manipulate and control others.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 07:05 PM
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A decade is almost nothing when it comes to changing people’s behaviours and mindsets
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:54 PM
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Just because some people don't align with your ideology doesn't mean they refuse to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:35 PM
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I expect women to not match with anybody if they are not going to put any effort in conversations on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:59 PM
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Some men are obviously desperate. But some aren’t. There was this 40 something virgin on Dr. Phil. I didn’t find him to be necessarily desperate but because he was on the show to get help and tell his story, everybody labelled him as desperate. A man that’s has a high body count and willing to sleep with practically anything , I see that as way more desperate than somebody holding out for the right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 03:57 PM
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Have you talked to women? Most of them when you ask for the type of guy they’re looking for usually they say the same generic stuff - kind, has a job, funny It’s through their actions and Freudian slips that they reveal basically any small thing can turn them off. Red pill list a few traits that women look for and I agree that those aren’t the only traits. It’s a very simplified list and sometimes what a woman want is very specific. But let’s not pretend that those traits don’t matter. You often…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:22 PM
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Almost everyone has access to some kind of credit and can splurge regardless of how broke they are. Some people are willing to get payday loans for this. Payday loans do well because not just because need some emergency funds to pay bills but also because lots of people are willing to borrow money at ridiculous rates to go out party and have fun over the weekend. A quarter of people have dating-related debt. To splurge on first dates has almost zero correlation to their financial status. It's on…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 01:02 AM
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Willing to pay hardily correlates to whether ability to pay. Seeing how much a man is willing to spend is a poor test to see whether he can spend. That's why I laugh at some of the posts on some of the women subreddits when they ask for others opinions and moan about how their bf/husband is so loving and generous but he's broke as hell or chronically unemployed. And she would compare her partner to some of the other very successful men who she has dated (doctors, lawyers, professionals) but are …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:56 AM
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I've never taken a woman out to fine dining on a first date. But I find dating when I was younger around my college years to be easier because women were okay splitting bills and acting like equals. Maybe it's because they recognize that neither of us had a lot of money and we don't owe each other everything. Now that I'm in my late thirties, all these women that I've dated expect me to pay for this and that. Sure, I have more money than I was younger but it doesn't mean they are entitled to my …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:44 AM
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How I spend money on a woman does not indicate the level of my interest. If it's a girl that I met on a dating app, I don't know her as a person at all, so I recognize that even if I'm super interested in her, it's mostly because of her looks and it's not real interest, so I don't want to spend that much on her. I don't want to overly invest in something if she doesn't reciprocate. So would I drop all my money on her if I don't know if she will be appreciative or reciprocate I don't want to guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:39 AM
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What a joke. First dates absolutely do not set the tone of the rest of the relationship. Some people put out their best self first even though it's not the most honest portrayal of them but there are those that do not want to show their hand right off the bat. There are plenty of men and women who do want to reveal how much money they make or have out of worry of being taken advantage of and as a result, they may not want to overspend for dates and material gifts. These people need to be warmed …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:41 AM
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Are we still using the ridiculous argument that men should pay for dates because women can get pregnant? Until sex and pregnancy is an actuality, why is that even considered in the beginning stages of dating? During this time, it's an opportunity to get to know each other and not to impregnate other women. Sex doesn't even have be a factor that early on and if it happens, it's because a woman allows it to happen. Unless you're going to use the SA argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:33 AM
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Yes, that's why when it comes to simps, women only make fun of them, but the ones who truly hate them are going to be the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:30 PM
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I agree that men can get too thirsty and over accommodate women's desires and as a result, inflate women's egos. At the same time, men do these actions because they are expected to initiate and lead. That's just nature. That's why it's equally stupid for women to be complaining about being approached by guys they're not attracted to. It comes with the territory of being the pursued instead of the pursuer and if woman only want guys that they're attracted to to approach, they're asking for a utop…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:28 PM
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As I said, finding women that want to split and contribute financially equally is almost impossible to find where I am at. And that's the story with nearly every guy friend that I know. I don't have only one guy friend whose wife makes more than him and I think that's because they met in school where it's not clear who would be making more in the future. And, every guy friend has issues with their wife spending too much money. I'm not even a 50/50 guy. I'm willing to do 60/40 give or take but ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 05:20 PM
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First off, yes, it is that difficult to find women that don't expect guys to pay. Second, THEN DONT attitude is childish. I'm not even just taking about paying for dates. If you're going to get into a relationship with somebody, you are going to have to make some compromises sooner or later. Your attitude is basically take it or leave it attitude. A man should not simp and a man should have boundaries. But at the same time, we also recognize the dating environment. In some places and cultures, m…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:59 PM
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It's not the sole metric but it's one of the biggest if not the only metric especially in the earliest stages of dating. There isn't much to go by in evaluating whether somebody is a good partner in the early stages, so in my eyes, it's already kind of a bad start if a woman doesn't even want to offer to pay in the beginning. I don't know what environment you are in. But plenty of women have gotten mad at me because I asked them to split or I didn't want to spend as much money as they did. And, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:50 PM
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They should be treated as equals. No doubt men should also be also be contributing as housework. But it's sexist to assume a man is incompetent in housework and will put less effort in it. Housework is often used a justification by women to get men to pay for dates but it's also sexist and risky to assume that a woman will take care of the house well. And to get men to make a financial investment in a woman (and it could be a large financial investment) on the assumption that she's going to be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:45 PM
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Yes there's a difference but you use the word 'partner'. If the man is keeps on paying for dates, then how is she treating him as a partner? You don't deserve to be treated as a partner if you don't the other person as their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:39 PM
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It's not wrong to treat women nicely. But at the same time, if a woman is a self-functioning independent adult, then why is there a need to pay for dates? And, why treat someone nicely if they don't reciprocate? A man should take the lead, so I won't deny that paying for the first date perhaps make sense as a sign of leading but afterwards why should the man continue to pay for someone if they are perfectly capable themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:37 PM
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Only a few admit it. Have you not seen some of these women-oriented subreddits? All they do is lie to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 05:58 PM
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It could happen but probably not in our lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:29 AM
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If they don't want a dinner date what do they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:42 AM
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I've had women openly get very angry at me when I wasn't generous at the level that they'd expect. They're basically sending me the message that they're for sale and there's only one currency they accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 04:41 AM
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A lot of advice women give to other women is not the same advice they give to their own daughters. If a woman gets assaulted by a man and her provocative dress had something to do with it, the man is fully responsible for perpetrating the crime. But women are too busy in assigning blame in saying 'this is all your fault and I have no responsibility.' At the end of the day, a woman got assaulted and if anything can be done to minimize her risks, precautions should've taken. A woman can tell other…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 07:13 PM
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There are other ways of proclaiming you are smart without loudly proclaiming and telling everyone. You picked the worst extreme example to prove what I said is wrong when you’re just a person with a smug attitude who wants to argue in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:55 PM
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It's laughable that some women would say their instinct has never failed them. When it comes to safety, it's better to be more cautious than sorry. Meaning- it's safer to create false positives and wrongly attribute a perfectly safe man as a creep and dangerous than to believe a dangerous violent man is safe. Which means, it's somewhat understandable if women rely a quite on their instinct. BUT, at the the same time, let's not delude ourselves into thinking that a woman's instinct is anywhere ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:06 AM
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The last statement is laughably incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 04:48 AM
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There was a fertility doctor on the Diary of a CEO podcast a few weeks ago. Look in the comments - most of the women posting did not seem to hear any of the facts and warnings out fertility past 30. Most of the comments are feel good stories from women or their friends who got pregnant in their late thirties.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 06:58 PM
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Is he studying finance ? Does he have blue eyes ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 11:42 PM
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You think the influence social media and dating apps just stop within social media and dating apps ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:41 PM
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Depends on the app
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:55 AM
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90%? More like 99%.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:05 AM
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I can’t say with certainty whether younger women are dumb or not. But my observation of older women is they’re not any better. So if older women think younger women are dumb, they’re dumb themselves .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 05:37 PM
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One of the mindsets that women adopt is over identifying who is desperate. No woman has ever called me desperate for my face and I’ve never been desperate in the sense that I just want a girlfriend for the sake of having a girlfriend. For me it’s either I like you or I don’t. And if I like you I try to express to them that I like them by communicating consistently, compliment them. I don’t love bomb by saying I love you right off the bat or shower them with gifts. But I wouldn’t be surprised if …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 08:39 PM
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JustACog - I have to agree with you. Most women don't seem to like men. Just looking at how women behave on dating apps show me that. 90% of the women I've met on apps are late on a first date, and I mean by 10 minutes or more and it shows how little respect they have for me. Also, whatever matches I get, women are overwhelmingly the ones doing the ghosting. Then there are simps out there that say they do it because of the sheer volume of matches they have. But if truly have that many options, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:56 AM
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I don’t even know what you’re talking about. I’m just making fun of the fact we have to put up all these caveats to make a simple point just because some people take the points as literal and find minor exceptions to invalidate an argument. So you getting all pissed off and worked up just means you support stupid people who make bad arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 12:22 PM
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Maybe women can like a lot in a man if they focus on the positives and stop being so negative and hateful all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:18 AM
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This is also why a lot of women are considered delusional because they do want a guy that has all those traits in a meme but this guy also has tons of time to spend with them. Even God can’t make such a man exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:15 AM
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Why shouldn't men care? Don't we all live in the same society? Asking why men should care is another double standard and bolsters OP's point. Women want men to care about the issues that they face. But when women don't men to examine certain behaviors that don't seem to make much sense, then men are told they shouldn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:14 AM
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It's ridiculous that you even have to stress that it's not all and it's just most. Bad faith debators will always try to find one or two exceptions to invalid your argument as if you meant to say all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:10 AM
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The married people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:06 PM
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Yeah they can do that. But even in cases where one party wants to leave it to the government, the government shouldn’t have a say
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 05:59 PM
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If the government shouldn’t be deciding whether a marriage get dissolved or not, then it also shouldn’t be in the business of deciding how assets are split
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 02:39 PM
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Because it sometimes works
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 11:40 PM
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Yup. They use examples of women not dating high status men as proof that status doesn’t matter. But that’s like saying men don’t like beautiful women because there are men dating ugly girls out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 04:53 AM
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I am vetting them. I didn’t spend a lot on them, just some. I’m not spending that much and that’s why some of them are getting pissed off. It’s tiring every time I tell this story, some men are telling me to ‘vet better’. If vet better you mean, don’t spend money at all, that’s not very realistic. I spend some to see how they are. I’m not spending money to win them over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 12:07 AM
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Although I think the divorce rate is too high. I also think banning divorces altogether is too stringent. What if people change for whatever reason? If one person becomes an absolutely terrible person and refuses to improve, should one person just take it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:55 PM
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Yup, OP's points 2 and 3 is about alleviating any responsibility of the women and passing it onto the man even if it means deceiving the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:04 PM
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long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:16 PM
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Not only are some women unwilling to spend money but I've had women get pissed off mad because I didn't want to spend money on some things. I've never asked them for money but them getting pissed off just makes them super entitled and cheap. They are free at any point to step up to the plate and pay their own share but nope, they want me to pay as if I owe them something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 09:16 PM
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This is not a consistently shared belief by those in red pill. Most of the time I hear them explain why it's more detrimental if a woman cheats but that's just an explanation. It's not often I hear them say men 'should' cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:13 PM
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These beliefs are not consistently shared among those in the red pill community.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:11 PM
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A lot of red pill advice is telling women to be okay with settling for average men that can treat them well even if they’re not more than six feet, six figures etc. if that constitutes as abusive advice, there’s not much to say about how dumb OP’s post is
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:39 PM
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I see being vocal and being honest as two separate things. I can see guys saying they wish women were honest but at the same time acknowledging they are more vocal. You can be extremely loud and vocal but be completely dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:34 PM
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Women are more vocal about their preferences than men. I don’t know what’s the point of OPs post
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:11 PM
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A lot of women say that themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 03:36 AM
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I didn’t say I want to date these women and neither did most of these guys. But just like most homeless people or druggies and other people making terrible choices in society - most people are upset that these people exist even if they don’t have a direct impact on their lives. So men still don’t want to date terrible women. Not ironic at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:21 PM
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Men reward results as well but at least we’re open about it. Women pretend they don’t do this and gaslight. It’s like them saying ‘any girl is lucky to have you’ while rejecting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 04:24 AM
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It's not just you. I just think most women don't like men. What I'm about to say is my experience. I think the behaviors of women vary a lot from place to place. Also, their age and culture plays a lot into how they act as well. But from what I've seen - I really can't say women like men. On dating apps, women don't make an effort to make conversation and they often ghost. They don't ask questions and showed no interest in me. People online would say it's because she had better options and she l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:47 AM
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In terms of dating standards, women think in very linear terms. When men say women's standards are too high, some women say their standards are too low because there are women who get impregnated by murderers and unemployed bums. That's part of the reason why they can't comprehend how an average person can struggle with dating because they see all these loser men who can still have success with women. Speaking of men's resent towards women. My belief is that many of the men who are angry towards…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:21 AM
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You started working out and you started getting their attention. But after you got their attention, did they try to learn more about you? What made you feel your personality meant very little?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:04 AM
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I've seen many posts from women saying it's all of men's fault because all a man has to do is improve their personality if they're not having much luck in dating. Change personality? Personality can only be changed in minute degrees. Saying 'Change your personality' is like telling a dumb person to be smarter. Sure, a dumb person can do some studying and learn a few things but there's a limit to their abilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:01 AM
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You have to be a pretty worthless human being with no self esteem if you think a person’s mere presence is that valuable. Basically what you said about leeches means theres are almost no legitimate cases of abuses. Okay, if that’s your stance. There’s almost never a happy arrangement with one sided relationships. It almost never fails that one side will eventually build enough resentment over time unless like I said , one side considers the other side to less than a functional adult. But there’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:02 PM
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Some people are perfectly happy being leeches. If that’s your mentality then there’s nothing more to say. It’s okay for him to remove stress from her life but she never indicated how she makes his life better. I’m not saying he has to keep tabs but if he doesn’t get anything in return except for her ‘presence’ then that’s just simping. And you’re right, most people wouldn’t take on more responsibilities if they don’t have to but she doesn’t put in her fair share then she doesn’t really care abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:48 PM
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Doesn't sound like. His behavior very much indicates that he thinks of you as his pet or somebody lesser than him. I'm not sure what he being successful has anything to do with it. Successful people don't have pets? And people don't love their pets? He may very well love you but he definitely doesn't think you're his equal. Otherwise why would he do these things? People don't give money to rich people for no reason. Also you, as an adult, feel comfortable being a taker and let him carry this bur…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:21 PM
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Thats not a useful argument. Almost every single male behaviour have been done by some women. Vice versa is also true. Almost every female behaviour has been done by men. But some behaviours are clearly more dominant in one sex over the other that’s what needs to be understood. Not whether if the other sex is capable of doing it or not .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:03 PM
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It sounds like he thinks of you as his pet. If you're a functional adult human being, then you should be acting like an adult and have the responsibilities of one. He's basically saying you're incapable of taking on some stress and some unhappiness because you're not mature enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:25 PM
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It's both sexist and extremely naive that women will do all these things until she becomes a man's wife. That's why it's nonsense whenever women use that excuse as to why men are expected to pay for everything in dating especially in the early stages. You can't tell if she's going to be doing all that especially in the early stages of dating. If a women is saying she's going to be doing all that, it's equivalent to an employer saying to an employee 'I expect you to work for free for the first fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:21 PM
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Serial killers don’t even have to manipulate or fool anyone. They are straight up killers and they still have women flocking to them .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:58 PM
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Nobody cares about elderly men too unless you are of substantial means and personality, which is still a small number of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:42 AM
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It's not a monopoly because you don't have to use it and there are other options out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:52 AM
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The single childless women I know look miserable even if the words coming out of their mouths are saying they are okay with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 07:22 PM
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No, I didn’t know them beforehand. They were from the apps. They were just coffee dates but very very few offered to pay their share. I’ve even been asked out and I still end up paying. Some of them even ordered the largest size coffees even though they were only there for like 40 something minutes. Upping the size doesn’t cost me that much more but it just makes them look really greedy. One woman also ordered a pastry on top of the coffee and didn’t even bother to share it with me even though I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:56 PM
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They say that but I’ve not seen it in reality. Granted I’m not American. I’m in Canada but i suspect most of the women on Reddit have very different experiences or they are lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:16 PM
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Correct me if I'm wrong, but it sounds like you think a man should contribute more in the beginning because most likely repay it back later. I very much disagree with this notion. I also hear from women very often that a woman later will most likely do all the household chores, cook and that's why a man needs to do all these things in the beginning. The reasons why I disagree: - Women that say that are similar to employers that say 'work for me for free and you'll be repaid in dividends down the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:08 AM
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A woman is only spending a bit more time than a man if she’s putting on makeup. And, most makeup doesn’t take too long. The one in the TikTok has waaay too much makeup on. Nobody is saying you should be dating women for their wallets. The point is men and women should be somewhat equal (and it doesn’t just have to be about money). You might date her for her looks but you shouldn’t doubt that she’s probably dating for your looks as well amongst other things. The point of this debate is men contri…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:21 PM
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I think there are many comparable similarities
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:55 PM
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Doesn’t sound very different than an unemployed bum with no work experience and qualifications and refuses to work any job unless it’s for CEO
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:01 PM
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Yes. nightsofthesunkissed’s response is just man hating. If you look at the comments in the TikTok video, there are tons of women who support the video. So are men the ones getting terrible ideas from TikTok? No, it seems like a lot more women are though. And just like a lot of terrible ideas on dating are floating around TikTok and on the internet, I’ve met women IRL who subscribe to that crap. So yeah, these ideas are alive and well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 02:34 PM
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It’s only a few times. Not something that happened everyday. It’s just a way of showing appreciation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:10 PM
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My ex actually did this a few times. She was actually from Japan.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:22 PM
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He might added some context to why 'I am not happy being single'. But did he write something misogynistic? I don't know. But I also have a feeling that you're the type of person who is very quick to label things as misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:02 PM
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Did I say it will? Everybody has issues and everybody is faking things at some level especially in the beginning. If people were perfect mind readers can see perfectly through a person's veneer and into another person's mindset, then there wouldn't be so many relationship problems where a person feels blindsided. So it's absolutely is possible for someone to be unhappy but is able to convince everybody else that they are confident and happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 08:51 PM
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I don't see why that's impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:05 PM
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The people attacking you are morons. Just because you honestly state your unhappiness with your current situation does not mean you believe you are entitled to anybody's affection. Speaking of entitlement, the people that keep on saying 'you're not entitled to ....' this and that are the most entitled. These people are usually the ones who think it's perfectly okay to act like an ass in this world because nobody is entitled to good behavior from other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:03 PM
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I won't go as far as to say a therapist is doing a shitty job for doing that because I do believe therapists sometimes should step in, draw the line, and say what's right and wrong. Of course, it's a delicate matter in determining where the line is drawn. I also think it's possible (and I'm just saying it's possible. Not that it actually happened) that therapist didn't say any of that but your coworkers completely misinterpreted or misheard. It has happened to me so many times where women comple…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 05:04 AM
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To play devil's advocate - is it possible that your coworkers problems are actually made up? Don't get me wrong, I see a therapist from time to time and it has helped me... from time to time. But I also recognize the dangers of it. It can actually reinforce very toxic beliefs held by the client. Therapists are not supposed to tell their clients what's right and wrong and they are supposed to help their clients gain clarity with their thought processes but in doing so it can actually affirm these…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:33 AM
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On a similar note about what you said about people who scream 'empathy'. I find a lot of the women on dating apps who writes about looking for kindness in someone is often someone who lacks kindness in themselves. In this world, nobody should expect kindness from anyone if they are unwilling to give kindness to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:05 AM
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It's so refreshing to hear from a woman to hear that therapy is not the magic answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:02 AM
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Unfortunately with a lot of women, they rather see the negatives in a man than the positives. That's why in dating, if men are asked whether they will go on a date with a girl, they often ask 'why not?' whereas women ask 'why should i?'
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 03:53 AM
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Never said bullies don't deserve any of the blame. Also, how much blame is hard to determine and they may not deserve any blame at all depending on the circumstances. So, I don't know where you got the idea that I said bullies never deserve blame ever. But from what you said about the manosphere, it has been unconvincing. You make far fetched attributions to the manosphere and gross mischaracterizations of their positions. It seems its for the purpose to solely attribute blame to them. And you h…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:54 AM
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Uh... saying 'I didn't tell him to do it' is a valid defense if you really didn't tell them to do it. You just sound like you want to attribute all the blame to the manosphere no matter what because you don't like them. The manosphere has not come close to advocating for violence at all and they do not imply it. You just seem hellbent on saying it's all their fault. You know what's one group of people who constantly get away with violence by using their words? Women. There's so much violence com…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 02:03 AM
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They are if you read properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:54 AM
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Criticism against certain female mindsets, culture, ideologies is not an attack on women. Just like supporting MeToo movement is not necessary an attack on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:44 AM
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And what toxic ideology is that? The mainstream manosphere community which are still on Youtube or social media platforms do not promote violence. The ones that promote violence are practically all banned. As I said, if you're looking for a catalyst, then feminism is even more of a catalyst because incels will often cite it's the toxicity of feminist mindsets that inspired them to do what they did. You think you're smart you called it? Just cuz you called it doesn't mean you're right. You think …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:16 AM
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It's not blaming women for male violence. When they literally tell you what the problem is and your solution is to just say 'no it's out' and point your fingers at something else, that's just being in denial and delusional. Did Minassian say Rodger told him to kill women? Who radicalized Elliot Rodger? As far as I recall, both of them told you exactly what the source of their problem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:02 AM
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If they don't promote mass violence or violence at all, then why are you putting the responsibility on the manosphere? You say the manosphere is radicalizing them, but how? If there's one force that's radicalizing these men, it's the women themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:49 AM
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Ask yourself - why do women need to make these types of post?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:51 AM
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Women wouldn't know that unless they actually spend time to find out and most women don't even want to bother. You're the type that immediately labels a man as being awful partners or not a good man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 01:48 AM
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It’s hard to say what the men really want. Lot of them are just reacting instead of acting. A lot of men are told to immediately set up dates before the women ghosts them or lose interest. Women also often say that men are acting like penpals if they prolong the chat. So if men are reacting to, it doesn’t mean that’s what they want when they act a certain way. They are responding to what they think boost their chances
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 10:34 PM
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Sure but women can blame the men because they are the ones who technically asked them. The thing about the 'whoever asks out - pays' attitude is that when women say that, they make it sound like they don't even want to go out with the men in the first place and they are only going out because they were asked, as if they were doing the men a favor. And because they didn't want to go out, the man has to pay. But we know that when a date happens, both the man and the woman wants to see each other r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 05:46 PM
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If going by the logic of 'whoever asks out - pays', then 'whoever asks for marriage - pays'. And guess whether it's usually the man or the woman who proposes? So if a marriage (or divorce) costs too much money, guess which side believes the other should pay for everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 04:39 PM
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Why did you get involved with them in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 03:36 PM
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yup. that's why equality from the beginning in important. I think it ridiculous for women to talk about pregnancy and providing a family and all that stuff as an excuse why men should pay. Those thiings are wwwaaaayyyyy down the line. Why should that even be part of the conversation in the beginning. And paying for dates does not indicate anything about a man's willingness to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 07:01 PM
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It may last years but only if a relationship reaches that stage. Until then, a man can be investing in many women and failing. Think of it as an early investor in the company - they carry the most risks but if the company succeeds, their investment can pay multiple times for decades to come. This is the fair scenario and carries on in dating. Now, that doesn't mean I like that scenario. I like it much better if there's some semblance of equality from beginning to end and both partners are doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:46 PM
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Women shouldn't have the right to complain about men not putting that much effort in the later stages of a relationship if he's putting in most of the effort in the beginning stages. That's why I always advocate for equality right from the beginning even with paying for dates. I don't mind if men pay for the first couple of dates, I'll concede that but anything more creates an imbalance in the relationship and that's already not a good way to start things off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 06:59 AM
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When a person gets dumped, our intuition tells us that the dumpee must have done something wrong or there's something lacking in this person that caused them to be dump. Reality is - both dumpers and dumpees are both equally problematic. A person that is constantly dumping can mean they lack accountability to see the problems in the relationship that stems from them and they end up blaming their partner. It could also mean they are not tolerant, lack resilience, and are extremely averse to any t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:49 AM
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Yes, a woman can contribute in non-financial ways but they only don't show this until way down the line. They still expect men to pay for dates, plan dates, impress her in the beginning. And men are expected to take on the risk all by himself and hope for the best that she doesn't dump him first and she will eventually contribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:37 AM
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Yeah, I was even asked to pay a women's mortgage by the 4th date.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 01:34 AM
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Paying for dates has almost a zero correlation to whether a man is able to provide. 20% of people have dating-related debt. Payday loans exist so people can get quick cash to spend on the weekend for dates. Men who are willing to pay for dates are just men who are willing to dates, and this unfortunately, includes a lot of financially irresponsible men. Because let’s be honest, no matter how poor you are, how many men truly can’t pay for a few dates? What women need to understand is men who are …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 06:18 PM
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So you’re saying … you’re a leech , until a relationship is established. And you think it’s okay to be a leech until then ? And you know it’s women who ends things more often before a relationship happens ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:22 PM
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Her lack of self awareness is too funny
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:16 PM
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Providers are human beings too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 02:15 PM
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What am I ignorant of? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3VFFDRdiAc&t=29s https://reproductive-health-journal.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12978-017-0352-z My friend's wife is a gynaecologist and she agrees with me that most women are not that knowledgable and overestimate their fertility window. But, I can't take the credit because I've seen many reports that does say what I'm saying and that's where I got it from. There was a news segment I saw last year that asked these doctors why ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 01:39 AM
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Rates of loneliness is increasing. Generally, studies have shown married women are happier but there a few studies that contradict this. Also, increasing rates of singlehood is basically the only thing that is constant in analysis of happiness over decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 09:44 PM
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Increasing rates of depression. Increasing rates of suicide. Increasing rates of anti-depressant use. Yeah, that sounds perfectly fine to me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:16 PM
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Nobody truly believes 35 is a fixed number and that things come to a full stop at that age. It's a number that's used as a reference. Just as 18 is used a reference to signal adulthood. You don't biologically become an adult at age 18 overnight. With that being said, it would be a lie to deny the existence of the wall and fertility window. The ability to get pregnant decreases quite significantly after 35. Nobody said it's impossible. Doctors say the same thing and doctors will also often say wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:14 PM
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Is asking to split the same as refusing to pay. If a man is looking for a partner and not a mooch, it doesn’t mean he’s unwilling to provide for his family. Men are weary of being used just as much as women are. Just because a man is willing to pay for dates has almost no relevance to whether he is a provider or whether he is capable of providing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:41 PM
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Yes, there is such a thing as standards are too high. Because some of the standards (criteria) that some people have are in contradiction to each other. When that happens, even god can't produce a perfect enough specimen that will satisfy these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 04:42 PM
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Yes, that's why I don't know why some people think the most popular guys are the ones with big dicks considering most guys don't even have the opportunity to show their dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:53 PM
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What you wrote is just not reflective of the real world. It doesn't matter what size the company is, there will always be unresolved issues. Tell me what companies do not have unresolved issues. I am not the saying these mid to big companies are apathetic. I am saying they prioritize your resources based on what they think is important because resources are limited. And some low level employees may disagree on what's important or not, but they are not the ones calling the shots. And, you think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:00 AM
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Because not every issue is serious. And truth be told, most issues are bullshit. You must live in some utopia fantasyland if you think all issues carry the same weight or at least the enough weight to be addressed. Thinking every issue needs to be addressed if the fastest way to the destruction of your mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 11:34 PM
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I do not agree. I've worked in mid-size to some of the biggest companies in the world. And, I've worked with some extremely competent people. No matter how competent an organization or a person is, there are always issues. Not all of them can be resolved. Some don't need to be resolved. If an issue is important, it needs to be escalated, often many many many times. And even with that, there are still issues that goes under the radar until it blows up. It's very easy for people at the bottom thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 09:04 PM
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Women often think they are superior at communicating but they often misread and misinterpret people's words and intention. I can't even count how many times a woman has completely misintrepret what I am trying to say and then pin it back on me for miscommunicating. Now, there are all these tiktok gym videos of women accusing men of being creeps when the men were just minding their own business.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:28 PM
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What if a woman is wrong? Woman often don't want to discuss solutions or how to fix something. They only care about how they feel. Men are often happy to fix problems, find solutions but it's often the women who don't want to hear none of that at all. If someone's wrong, nobody should go along with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:23 PM
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And just because the woman expresses her grievances, is a man supposed to expect a divorce is on the way if he doesn't change? Every marriage has problems, arguments, complaints. Is a man supposed to take every one of those instances as a threat to their marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:16 PM
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Which partially explains why a lot of women are willing to go get crazy amounts of student loan debt because she's hoping some guy will pick up the slack afterwards. I used to know a lot of artists. Most of the women in the industry have boyfriends with stable jobs. These women were barely making any money at all but at least they got a man while they 'figure things out'.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 05:09 PM
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I am not sure where you get the idea that self-hatred is a constant thing. It sounds like you believe it can't be change. If that's the case, what's the point in preaching all this self-love stuff if it can't be changed. Happiness can be from external or internal. If you can't derive it from external sources, the next best thing you can do is try to get it from the internal. If happiness or emotions is purely from internal then there is no such thing as being mistreated or abused because the oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:38 PM
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That's assuming their self-hatred is constant. People can have less hatred for themselves if they get more validation from the places that they seek. And one of those places is from romantic relationships. I truly do not believe that nobody can give you happiness but yourself. If people can make you miserable, then people can make you happy. If people cannot make you miserable, then all the people who decides to end divorces are the sole reason for the dissolution of a marriage. People that have…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 07:18 PM
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Yup. There are a lot of a people who are super positive and seemingly love themselves but I don't like them at all. In the same vein, if somebody doesn't like themselves, why would it be impossible that I like them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:40 PM
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Are you for real? You really need me to explain why men aren't advocating against the abuse they suffer at the hands of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:54 AM
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It's not controversial but I'm just writing what I observe in reality. Your question about how is it controversial should not be directed at me but towards society. Too often have I read and heard that when a woman cheats, it's always something the man did like he doesn't spend enough time with her, he doesn't meet her emotional needs. If a woman beats a man, it's because he disappointed her or he did something to upset her. Heck, even if a woman beats a man and he fights back, often people make…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:28 AM
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Yes, I notice the downvotes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:20 AM
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How is that misogynistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 01:47 AM
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Your gf sounds like a prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:44 AM
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I keep on hearing rape statistics thrown around whenever there's men vs female debates. Like whenever it's a discussion about whether something is easier for men or for women, somebody usually says it's always women who have it harder because of the amount of rape. If the rape statistics are actually accurate and representative of reality, then women are not behaving at all that aligns with reality. If there are predators and murderers out there, no women should be having one night stands or goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:42 AM
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What's considered misogynistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 12:37 AM
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It's not that men think a good relationship is not worth it. It's that they don't think all the BS and hoops that they have to jump through should be in place to achieve that. They think that dating is unnecessary difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 01:13 AM
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The term misogyny is so over used and misused it basically has not meaning and relevance in a conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 11:02 PM
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That's why I think it's important to establish balance right from the beginning. None of that 'men should pay because men are expected to put in more effort in the beginning' or 'women don't have to put in effort in the beginning because they are expected to do housework later'. Just establish balance right from the beginning. Exceptions should only be given for extraordinary circumstances like job loss or sickness. This way either side doesn't feel like they are being taken advantage of and ris…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 08:28 PM
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I think they walk away and ghost much more than men do. I just know... despite my best efforts to empathize with the female experience. I can't. I even tried doing my own experiment to see what's it like to use dating apps as a woman - I still can't. Almost all the complaints men have about dating - I've experienced before (except getting stood up. Good thing it has never happened to me. The closest is getting cancelled last minute) but all the things that women have complained about on dating a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:23 AM
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One thing I always say about men and women (and once again my friends agree). As we get older: women take less shit men give less shit My experience is men mellow out as we age. Women seems to get more bitter and angry. On dates with women in their thirties, they would even straight up say, I am not going to take anybody's shit at this age. I don't really hear men say this. It doesn't mean men tolerate more shit, it's just that they care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 05:17 AM
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Maybe I'm picking the wrong ones. But all my exes except my first gf had pretty bad tempers. Anything could set them off. Till this day, I still don't understand some of the stuff they are mad about. I ask my friends about this and many seem to share my experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 04:58 AM
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How is it made up when red pillers say custody decisions favour women? There are lawyers and judges that say there’s a bias to favour women. At best you find some lawyers who say there is no bias. And basically you will never find lawyers who say the courts favour men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:44 PM
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Risky behavior is often considered risky because a lot of people do not know the outcome. So what may seem stupid to you at that moment may not seem that stupid if the payoff is amazing. Also, people that tend to make risky bets tend to also make risky bets in other areas of their life. It's not something that most people that can turn on and off like a switch for some activities and not others. I do not consider binge drinking and drugs are not really risky behaviors. The outcomes of these acti…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:37 PM
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You said made up stats. I'm saying most of the stats are not made up. And the examples you gave just gives a layer of ambiguity to the stats but they do not really refute what red pillers say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:18 PM
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Men often do reckless and risky behavior - to impress women. Whether it's the feat itself that's impressive or the outcome is impressive (Eg. Making extremely risky and sometimes illegal acts to earn money to impress women). A lot of traits that woman value, they don't see the downsides to it. They only see the results. If a man is throwing money at them, most of them don't care where the money comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:14 PM
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The facts that red pillers present is correct for the most part but their interpretation and analysis may be incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:10 PM
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Not only do they ignore facts but when bluepillers address arguments that disagree with them, they play semantics, misinterpret, insist their interpretation of what you said is correct even as you explain. Most of them are not arguing in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 08:09 PM
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Women think men hate women more than what is actually true. They think a large number of men are actual misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:07 AM
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Experience with what? Dating other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:15 PM
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I am not surprised by that but they expect me to pay. The saying 'her money is her money. my money is also her money' has been true in my experience is not some internet meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:01 PM
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'Emotional needs' just sounds like a euphemism for whether she likes a guy. Which doesn't say much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:12 PM
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Are we going to pretend that women in general don't prefer guys that make more money than them? How does that man's salary have anything to do with whether he meets her emotional needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:51 PM
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Depends on who you ask. A lot of women seem to want to do that soon. Me, personally, I don't feel like doing it with someone outside of a relationship. I even tell women not to put out that quickly but apparently those are misogynist comments and I'm making demands on women when I have no right to.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:32 PM
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Maybe later in the relationship but in the beginning the women I've encountered almost always want me to pay for dinner and dates. I've been offered to split less times than the fingers on my hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:29 PM
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She thinks the AI are better than real men because she has higher expectations on real men. Does AI pay for her dates? Does AI do anything for better besides paying lipservice? It's because she completely neglects what real men can do and that's why she can say AI is better than real men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:05 PM
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If a woman offers and she follows through, I'm down with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:43 AM
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What does it have to do with whether the woman is passive? My reading of what you're writing is you seem to be saying men's interest in a woman grows the more passive she in?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 02:07 AM
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If you say so. His attraction increases if she openly and explicitly appreciates his efforts and accepts his advances Yes. That's just means he appreciates being appreciated. Same as women. That's far from you saying 'When men really like a woman they do the most for her'.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 01:45 AM
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If he’s offended it’s because he’s insecure. And men want to put on bravado by insisting strongly that they want to pay even if the woman offers because there are many women who say they lose attraction in a man if the man takes her up on her offer. So just cuz a guy puts on a face that he really wants to pay, deep down he may not really want to. If a woman really wants to split the bill, she has to insist it’s not that she’s not attracted to him, but just she wants to start off things as equals
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:54 AM
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Why does whether one wants to sleep with the other even factor in ? If both are consenting to go out and have a date or to have sex, there should be equal footing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:49 AM
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Like women, men want to be pursued by those they find attractive. A lot of attractive women do not pursue men because they do not need to. You may think men’s attraction increases towards those he’s pursuing but that is far from the truth. There may be a correlation but there is no causation effect between a man’s attraction and the effort he is putting in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:47 AM
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Yup. I was invited by a woman for a coffee date. Not only did she not offer to pay, she ordered a venti, which is the largest size at Starbucks, and she didn't even finish. Good thing it was only a coffee but I was so turned off by her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:37 PM
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Isn’t this the women who got rejected by her matchmaker ? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:24 PM
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Because men have a built-in Apple Vision Pro in their brain and they can immediately picture having sex with a better girl than the person they’re actually with
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:21 PM
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I didn’t say it’s the only thing. All you do is misinterpret yet you keep on saying that’s what others do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:38 PM
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The way you describe your friend is someone that I encounter once in a blue moon or in movies or in fiction. But I do have a ton of single guy friends. That's why it's so foreign to me whenever I hear women even pointing out the hygiene ever. For me, it's not even worth mentioning and as I said, you need to be in better company if these are the people you surround yourself with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 10:00 PM
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Sounds like you're the one moving the goal posts. No one is saying women will flock to you if you shower. That's your own interpretation. What I have seen is a lot of blaming and shaming from women that men don't meet their 'low' bar because one of the reasons is they don't shower. That might not be the only reason but they mention enough that they legit think it's an actual issue. That's laughable. Like I said, if they keep on encountering men with hygiene issues, that sounds like they are the …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 09:12 PM
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What the hell are you talking about? There are lots of posts of women directly naming hygiene and showers. People aren't twisting it like the examples you give. There are even comments in this post alone not denying that this happens but continue to defend that women do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:52 PM
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It's irrelevant whether women are more or less hygenic than men. Unhygenic men are not that high in numbers. Even if they are higher in numbers than women, it's probably only by a bit. They're are so low that it's completely irrelevant to the conversation. And if you think they are high, perhaps the problem is with the people you associate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:36 PM
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You think some women don't have hygiene issues? Men don't go around telling women that they're failing at dating because they need to take a shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:26 PM
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Yeah, it is assumed and supposed, so that's why OP is saying it's gaslighting because a lot of women here are making it seem like taking a shower is all it took. It's condescending that women even mention it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:23 PM
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You are also presuming that advice was solicited.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:22 PM
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That's exactly what it is. Presuming.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:14 PM
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I think your anger should be directed at women trying to womansplain that you need to be nice and take a shower. Men are not the ones that are asking to be told such obvious things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:08 PM
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There are plenty of women on Reddit that say that. I have been a victim of this kind of gaslighting multiple times.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 08:06 PM
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The point is how people perceive the statements. Not whether they are told that or not. You’re just taking his statement at face value. What’s the point of that? Men and women are told all kinds of things ? So? That’s not the point. It’s how society views the statements
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:58 AM
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People say that to women but it is always met with backlash
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:45 AM
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Patriarchy kind of exists in name only in many instances. Saying patriarchy is what rules households, tribes, countries is like saying King Joffrey was the most powerful when everybody knew who actually held most of the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:20 PM
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Besides AMD, I've lost money on every stock that had a woman as their CEO!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:05 PM
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So who defines feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 09:04 PM
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True, yeah I agree. Feminists are pretty hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:50 PM
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If hate is your cup of tea, keep thinking that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:39 PM
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Those are negligible factors to some people. That's why I said it depends on how you define 'independent'
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:16 PM
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That depends on the housing market in the area that you're in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:15 PM
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Governments do that to humans to both sexes every single day. I cannot say their ultimate goal to make everyone miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:56 PM
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No they do not cancel each other out. Having access does not equal I care about what you can do for you. I don’t even know how you can jump to that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:50 PM
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You can’t do that while renting ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:48 PM
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I think that’s where a lot of women have issues with. Just because some people don’t agree with their opinions, they think they are against them and that also includes other women. Learn to embrace differences sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:48 PM
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Caring about women and caring about access to women are not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:35 PM
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Depends on how you define independent. To a lot of people, having a mortgage is the complete opposite of being independent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:27 PM
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Yes. And as I said, approach to certain issues might be different but does not mean they didn’t believe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:25 PM
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I’m not surprised you don’t care. Most women just don’t care about men at all. Contrarily to popular belief but men care a lot about women. Men and women might disagree on how to approach certain issues but that doesn’t mean men don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:19 PM
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What he’s saying is higher rates of home ownership among women is not an accomplishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 07:17 PM
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So maybe that's why women don't think of you as a creep. It's because you don't pose as a sexual threat AT ALL, and I don't mean that as a compliment. It just means they view you as completely harmless, which is not a good masculine trait. For women to view a man as a creep, she has to think that he's a sexual threat and also that he's not attractive. Type of guys women want to date are guys that are sexual threats and they're attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:12 PM
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Some of them are okay in conversation once you actually get to meet them in person. But on the apps, they are just garbage. And I don't care about all the crap excuses people give for this behavior. Explaining 'They have too many matches or options on OLD is why they don't put effort'. That might be the case but if they are still on the apps after years, it means they don't actually have as many options as they think and their behavior is only self-destructive because it doesn't benefit them at …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:09 PM
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lol, maybe they were calling you a creep. Just not to your face
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:39 PM
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It’s already too much to ask for a ‘how are you?’ from women. At best I get is a ‘hi’
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:29 PM
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It's definitely possible a lot of women are not asking for a free ride but their behavior is projecting that they are. I've known enough men in my life that are suffering because of their wives spending habits and their lack of financial contribution to the marriage. I'm not saying all women are like that but it's definitely something to consider when selecting a partner and it's not enough for men to just blindly trust women. I was mostly raised by my mother and my mother has seen many women in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:15 AM
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Yes, my ideal scenario is what you and your husband did. I don't believe in 50/50. It's too hard to keep track of what I owe and what you owe. But at least there should be some semblance of balance. Taking turns makes sense or one pays for dinner and the one pays for something else. In the end, I just want to feel like I'm being taken advantaged of. I would love to be able to feel like I can trust you but that trust has to be earned and a lot of women that I have encountered are not patient enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:26 PM
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Some men definitely know they paid for the relationship and they're okay with it. Basically any men on seeking arrangement knows that. Even if a man doesn't believe in paying for a girl's presence straight up with cash, a lot of men have convinced themselves their role in a relationship is to provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:06 PM
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I don't mind paying for the first few dates but it really bothers if the other side doesn't contribute soon. It's not about the money. It's about seeing whether they are interested in being a partner with me. This is how I weed them out. I also have a big problem with men that simp and insist on paying for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:01 PM
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What do you mean? Are you asking if men believe they paid for the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:43 PM
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It's part of playing the game of dating and finding a partner. Unless you just don't want to play at all. Only very few individuals can play the game and not have the rules apply to them. Think about this way - you have to work to make money and for most people, their position in society is hardly fair and unbalanced. But, if you want to survive and put food on the table, you have to play the game, no matter how imbalanced it is. People are free to not play and starve but most people still choos…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:41 PM
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Scarcity mindset exists for a reason because the dating pool is actually not that big. It's nonsense when I hear there are 4 billion men/women around the world. No one is ever going to come in contact with that many men/women in their life. A scarcity mindset needs to be balanced out with an abundance mindset. A pure abundance mindset is equally toxic as a scarcity mindset. A lot of women operate on an abundance mindset but yet they complain where are the good men at? How does that even make sen…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:35 PM
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Because most men still believe in love, romance, and the goodness of women (contrary to what most women believe). If men only truly cared about getting sex from a women, then yes, logically it makes sense to only use sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:30 PM
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The entire ritual of dating is built on gold digging since it involves men paying for dinners and dates. (I don't need to hear about the exceptions where the woman pays). So, unless the entire culture of dating changes, men will always be dating gold diggers to some degree. Then there are women who gaslight men into thinking they aren't gold digging.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 10:27 PM
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So basically prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 04:16 PM
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You implied that sex is not a benefit that women get from relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:58 AM
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so I suggest that rapists are not showing empathy to women. I don't know why you had to immediately jump to rape statistics. There are certain terrible behaviors where women outnumber men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:26 AM
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Average men shouldn't need to be some expert on female attraction to attract women. They are by definition 'average'. And 'average' should be average enough to get average women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:22 AM
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I think not caring is a very short sighted view. It's like kindness. Why should people be kind? Because it can potentially repay you in a hundred fold. What women gain by caring is: - Better relationships with men - Identify areas in their own life that they can improve upon - Mitigates their expectations I would say the same thing for men. Men should also care for issues that women face. In the end, I do think men and women need to coexist and work together. Otherwise, one side will cause probl…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:19 AM
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Why you think women are higher in compassion? I'm not saying you're wrong. I think they are better at feigning compassion but I don't see much evidence that they are actually more compassionate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:09 AM
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It's not enough to experience the experience. It's also how you interpret your experience and large part of that is based on your biology. So even if a man lives as a woman or a woman as a man, they still cannot truly comprehend what the other gender experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 07:07 AM
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What do you think will improve if the apps disappeared ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 05:58 PM
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Not all women who date online are exploitative, so why would you shame all these women? And, if you want to reduce the already low number of women on these apps, doing what you suggested is the fastest way to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 03:52 PM
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25 is a bit too early to be done , no?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:09 AM
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Right, it matters less for women. On top of all men are expected to do in the beginning stages or dating , they are expected to be funny, charming, and lead. From the sounds of it, it does not seem the strengths of women is attributable to their social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:06 AM
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I’m not saying it’s a problem. I’m saying the likelihood of women being in a relationship seems irrelevant to their social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:41 AM
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There are fewer young women who are single because they are sharing the same man or dating older men. Do these reasons sound like it’s linked to better social skills ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 02:31 AM
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Im curious why you OP put all the responsibility on men that are single? Do women not play a part too?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:45 AM
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To add to the list, all men need to get a girlfriend is to fix their hygiene and take a shower!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 08:50 AM
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Still not a demand. Telling someone what they should or shouldn't do doesn't necessarily make it a demand. I can say to someone they shouldn't go to the most dangerous part of town but it doesn't mean it's a demand. And, you seem hung up on the word and playing with semantics. Your entire posts are basically just criticisms about what he should or shouldn't do. As I said, your posts are not any less 'demands' than his and it's hypocritical for you to write what you wrote. You can play all the me…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:09 PM
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Yes but it's not a demand. If you don't think he is allowed to share his opinions then neither are you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:55 PM
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Nobody is making demands on anybody. OP is stating what his opinion is and couples are free to not follow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 08:36 PM
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but this is not meant to diminish your experience. Out of every 1000 instances of rape, only 13 cases get referred to a prosecutor, and only 7 cases will lead to a felony conviction.1 No matter the final outcome, reporting increases the likelihood that the perpetrator will face consequences.” It's interesting that RAINN uses numbers from more than 25 years ago. And the definition of what they are actually surveying keeps on changing. The 1 in 5 women in college that experienced in SA is already …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 06:06 AM
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I know someone similar. Me and my friend one time said we’re grossed out by her but she still managed to snatch a normal looking guy and have two kids lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:32 AM
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Too much arguments to read but among the ones I read from the feminists are a complete load of rubbish and some of the dumbest things I’ve read. If there is truly oppression on females, I think men perhaps should oppress them some more and take away their speech because allowing them to speak such nonsense isn’t doing men any good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:30 AM
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To balance that out, women get divorces after thirty to take what she thinks she’s owed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:23 AM
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To balance that out, women get divorces after thirty to take what she thinks she’s owed
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:22 AM
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That’s a nepotism problem and not a gender problem. You don’t think there are woman CEOs who bring in crappy woman friends into their company who have no business being there ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:20 AM
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That’s a nepotism problem and not a gender problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:17 AM
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Yeah, lonely men with no romantic prospects are called incels and losers. Women are called independent and empowered
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:13 AM
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Because a lot of CEOs founded their own companies or were the very early stages of its founding, which means they don’t really have a corporate ladder to climb or corporate politics to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:06 AM
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Yes, it only became illegal in Japan until recently
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:59 AM
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CDC numbers are wildly inflated compared to other sources
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:58 AM
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Yup. A lot of rape stats cited by women are bogus.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:55 AM
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When Anthony Bourdain died, put just say he should’ve reached out and talked to someone. The truth is that he did do that many times when he was depressed. People who commit suicide often just feel hopeless regardless of the amount of talking
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:54 AM
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When someone that commits suicide, everybody keeps on saying they reached they reached out to a friend or asked for help. The truth is , they probably did … many times and they got tired of trying and decided to end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:53 AM
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Stress is not the only thing that kills you. And you think there's no stress in being alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:13 PM
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Yes, the stats in the US are better. But as I said, these are just nuances between countries. Overall, all these countries are facing the same trends that go in the same direction. I'm not sure what your point about hidden cameras is. Again, that's just a nuanced difference Japan has but overall, the trends are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 10:31 PM
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Not now but I used to. I still maintain some connections to my friends there and from time to time, I follow up on the trends there and in the news.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:32 PM
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That's what they say but what's the reality? If they are asked, 'Are you looking for a girlfriend?' or 'Are you looking to date?' they may say no but if you ask 'Do you want a girlfriend', they might say 'Yes'. I've seen quite a few people answer this way during street interviews. It's not much different than men in the West who are increasingly retreating into video games and less interested in putting in the effort to get a relationship but the majority of them do want to find long lasting rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:29 PM
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AFAIK, they don't have this stat in Western countries.While the exact numbers varies country by country, they basically all share the same trends like decreasing marriage rates, decreasing birth rates, later marriages, people dating less. Japan is not some mythical place where they can be isolated and considered an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:17 PM
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A lot of incompatibilities are perceived and not true incompatibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 06:15 PM
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The thing about rejection and heartbreak is that it heals to a certain degree. Like a wound, it heals and might turn into callouses but it never heals completely. It leaves behind a reminder that will remain with you forever. Once you have enough scars and callouses all over your body, you realize you're ugly and old and you start to question why you put yourself through the gauntlet anymore. The ones that stay in the game are still holding onto hope that they will meet somebody that's right for…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:57 PM
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It's not entirely accurate to say dating a numbers game. That's like saying the more choices you get, the better your outcomes which is not necessarily proving to be true in dating. It's the paradox of choice, the abundance mentality, the idea there's always something better out there that's preventing people from locking in a long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:49 PM
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In Japan, ~40% of men in their twenties have never been on a date in their life. It's ~35% for men in their thirties. And, that's just the numbers for going on a date. It's not even % of virgins or % of people in relationships. It wouldn't be surprising if virgins is higher than 50% and people who haven't been in a relationship to be higher than that. Average means people around the 50% mark, so if you are saying the average guy do not have trouble, the numbers do not bear out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:45 PM
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Some people here have pointed out that when a woman loses interest, it's never over a frivolous reason but it's the accumulation of several reasons or the lack of the interest. With that being said, it still doesn't dispel the idea that women are losing interest over frivolous reasons - it just means women are rejecting men over many frivolous reasons instead of one. Women reject men at a much higher frequency and are quicker to lose interest. People who are trying to explain away OP's post are …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 05:14 PM
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Maybe the losers were attractive when they hooked up in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:31 AM
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you mean happy wife happy life?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:50 PM
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Do some Google searches and you will find plenty of references as woman as a minority group. I don't agree at all but just saying that's what's out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:04 PM
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Just the fact some women refer to themselves as a minority group shows their victimhood mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 08:28 AM
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What kind of a question is that ? I don’t even know how to answer it because it seems so rhetorical . If there are comments or opinions about women then the comments should be about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:42 PM
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For me, anybody that's willing to have a FWB is already disgusting enough. Doesn't matter if they are not seeing anybody seriously but if they are, it just makes it worse. I'm probably gonna get downvoted for this take.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:23 PM
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Given the current environment, anybody that doesn't have much luck with women and if they make any comments about women, they are automatically labelled as a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 10:19 PM
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No woman has outright say that to me. At most there was this one woman, I asked her to coffee. She didn't say no but she said it feels like an interview. I told her coffee dates are quite common. She says she knows but still feels like an interview. We didn't end up meeting up. She's still consistently on Hinge after more than a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 06:24 AM
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I don’t mind if they vet extensively if they do a good job at vetting but they don’t seem to. I think it’s because they rely too much on their emotions instead of reason. Most women still prefer men to pay for dates but why? The reason why it’s still heavily debated is because there is very little sense to it but one side still wants to maintain this tradition.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:16 PM
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Tell that to the Nazi leadership who went on trial that they didn't really do the actual shooting and gassing lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 07:24 PM
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Attraction is 100% subjective ????
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 05:47 PM
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Umm no. Tragedies have comic events but they do not double as comedies. Just like most dramas, even the most serious types, have comic events but they are not comedies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 03:54 AM
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sickle cell anaemia It must be a luxury for you to think the world and the universe is such a nice and friendly place with no hostilities without men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:42 AM
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Make fun? I don't remember anybody thinking Macbeth was a comedy or anybody think Lady Macbeth was a comedic character.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:41 AM
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Men are the ones committing the actual act of murder but you don't really know how many are actually impacted by women. When it comes to divorce rates, it's not disputed that women file the majority of divorces by a large margin. Yet, when this is brought up, a lot of women and simps would blame a lot of men for causing the divorce even if they don't file it themselves. For why in the case of divorce are women so quick to blame men for the indirect cause of divorce, but when it comes to violence…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:37 AM
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Men have always had a tendency to obedient to women in some facets of life. Only feminism keeps on teaching the falsehood that women were under the constant oppression of men. Even hundreds of years ago Shakespeare understood this and that's why it was never far-fetched that Lady Macbeth was able to able Macbeth to kill the king and go on a murderous rampage. And then there is the trope of husbands fearing the nagging wife - well, there's some truth to that too. I also think you underestimate th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:08 AM
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Most men will not reach depths where they are capable of violence but I do not think it's considered mental illness because it's this violence that has ensured the survival of the families, tribes, nations, species which led to this trait to propagate against time. Women should consider it a luxury that they were spared from committing violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 02:03 AM
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This us versus them language is divisive and only makes things worse for everybody. If the problem becomes really bad for one side, they will make it a problem for the other side. When that happens, it won't be pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 01:50 AM
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You are talking about definitions under the eyes of the law. I’m not talking about that. Yes, those men should be punished. But it’s very much disputable whether women are less violent. I guess to you dictators are also not very violent people because some of them probably never killed anybody with their own hands, right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 08:04 PM
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Not really sure if that’s true. When a women wants the dirty work done, she often gets a man to do it. Unfortunately, some dumb men oblige
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 07:19 PM
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. But nobody forces you to get a higher mate value partner. It's your own interest and therefore your own bill to pay. Well, with OP's post she's basically asking for all the men to pay for her birth control. It seems like she's saying she's promiscuous or she's just trying to get some random dude to pay for her yearly supply of birth control. Imagine as a guy, I ask a girl I went out with a few times to buy me a box of 200 condoms. Just mentioning the pill in the post laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:31 PM
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I have posted on here that men should not pay for dates. But the full story is, I don't think it's unreasonable for men to pay for the first couple of dates. With that being said, I don't think OP points are reasonable. - OP is listing out the monthly costs of her supplies. But why is she listing them out like a man is responsible for paying for her monthly supply? He's just going out with her for 1 or 2 dates. It doesn't seem unreasonable to split the costs like that - Some men have skincare ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:24 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 10:49 PM
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I agree with you. People often like to muddle up definitions to fit their own agenda. Dating is made more complicated because of this. That’s how nonsense words like situationships get created.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:13 PM
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The word monogamous means different things to different people now. Some people think if you are haven’t had that exclusive talk with anyone, you’re free to sleep with anyone you want
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:57 PM
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3 dates or 4 is usually enough to get a vibe on a person. That’s not say it’s an accurate vibe but enough to know if you can get along with this person. If someone needs longer than that then they are unsure or they are just looking for faults in you and you will constantly be playing catch up with this person. I also don’t know why people make such a huge deal about commitment especially since it’s not even marriage we’re talking about. Even if you turn bf/gf, people are still free to leave for…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:55 PM
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Because I do not believe people should be sleeping with those they barely know. People will say they are not committing to another person because they barely know them but at the same time, they feel comfortable enough to sleep with them? Seems the order is all messed up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:11 PM
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Yeah. If the date is from online dating, I don’t even know how she looks. I’ve met enough women that looked different from their photos and I knew there was no physical attraction. If I ask them on a dinner date, I feel like I have to walk out literally seconds after seeing them in person if I am not attracted to their looks and I don’t want to be paying a big bill. I think that would be a lot more insulting to a woman. At least with a coffee date, I could sit and talk to them for a while withou…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 04:06 PM
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In general, I'm against multi-dating. If a girl is seeing multiple people during the coffee date stage, I'm okay with that. If she's seeing someone 3 dates or more, she should already decide on one. At any point if she's sleeping with others I am done with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:18 AM
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Hard to say. I'm not rich. I do have a six figure job. I don't think I do anything to make them think I'm loaded. I usually don't wear brand name clothes and even if I do, it has no logos on it. There were a couple women that I told early on that I drive a Toyota. Salary-wise, the women I date are similar or slightly lower than me. I am not sure how much savings they have. These women do not seem to be struggling but they still expect the guy to pay for everything. I'm not redpill but redpill of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:52 AM
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My experience is completely opposite. When I was in my twenties and I was dating twenties women, they were more agreeable. We could have fun just talking, laughing, going on cheap dates. We enjoyed each other's company without much expectations from each other. Now that I'm in my thirties and I date thirties women, they expect me to spoil them, pay for dates, put their name on the title of a mortgage. All because I make decent enough money. They have all these expectations on me but they never s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 05:26 AM
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Even the most desperate of people have boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 12:02 AM
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It's not really for you to say when someone should pull the plug on their marriage. Just because a marriage is going through rough times (and it may appear to you that it's dead) doesn't mean people should call it quits. So if one person wants to end it, it's still this person that caused the divorce. The reason that I will concede why men do not want to end a marriage is because of custody and men generally have a lot more to lose financially than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 10:35 PM
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Yes but you can’t use that as a reason anyway because women cheat just as much as men, commit abuse just as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:21 PM
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Why do they make stupid poses with those stupid faces?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:38 AM
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Filing the paperwork literally means they caused the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:27 AM
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Sure there are men like that in the tweet but I cannot say this type of man is in any significant number. I will concede that men will consciously stay in unhappy relationships but just saying the marriage is unhappy is not enough for me to say it's grounds for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:26 AM
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When you take away somebody's livelihood in such a brutal manner, it's almost kind of naive to not expect consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:54 AM
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Most people who divorce amicably are people who would find a fair settlement on their own. If they need to get lawyers involved, then both sides have to be aggressive. Because that's what an adverserial system dictates. But women are the ones causing the majority of divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:50 AM
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Maybe if the other side isn't as vindictive, there wouldn't be as much familicide
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 04:49 AM
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I find this to be a very weird take. Most of the time with guy friends everybody pays for their share regardless of who ask. There is absolutely no expectation for the asker to pay. Because who in their right minds want to organize and pay everything. Organizing, in and of itself, takes effort and everybody thanks the organizer for bringing everybody together. It's hard to believe my take is exclusive to guys. My female friends pay amongst themselves when they go out and so do my mom. Your take …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 12:08 AM
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Even those situations with friends. There’s always strings attached. Because if there wasn’t , then you wouldn’t feel bad if you are buying their lunches over and over and over again without them reciprocating. Reciprocation doesn’t have to come right away but it needs to be done at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:00 PM
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Yup I agree. People should pay for their own things. I think it’s delusional to expect a man to pay for things and not expect there to be strings attached. There’s no free lunch
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:38 PM
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Yeah, it’s such a dishonest take to say majority of women want 50-50. Neither their actions nor their words have demonstrated they want 50-50. And that’s with women I’ve encountered IRL and online. I have never went out with a woman and been offered to pay unless we were in a relationship already
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:31 PM
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Nobody is saying going out on dates is not enjoyable but let’s be honest about where the majority of the effort is coming from
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:26 PM
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I think 50-50 is an overstatement. The women I went out with might believe in 50-50 in household chores but everything else, especially when it comes to money, the burden is primarily placed on men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:24 PM
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I love spending time with someone who loves me. Even just hanging out, cuddling, handing hands, kissing is fun. Doesn't need to be sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 04:09 AM
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You are assuming he doesn’t anything for her
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:10 AM
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I think woman care less about the actual number of your net worth and they enjoy more in the status from material things. Saying you are a 'homeowner' to them is more impressive than saying you own 'AAPL stock'. It doesn't matter if you have 1 share or 10,000 shares - they care more about whether you are a 'homeowner' or not. Another example is women care more about having a university degree. Having that degree makes them feel there's a certain prestigious to it even if it cannot be monetized a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:06 PM
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Yeah, what a dumb take by previous poster. Selecting the worst type of women and saying men don’t respect women because they don’t respect these types of women. Sorry if a lot of women like to pick bad boys and criminals but men have their boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 07:43 PM
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That's a far leap from what I said but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:29 AM
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They shouldn't even be considered options in the first place. And why do you only have 20 options? Are you in a hamlet?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:11 AM
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You shouldn’t settle if you don’t like options but I’m saying you don’t like your options because most likely you’re arrogant and conceited
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:29 PM
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I think there is a certain level of arrogance if you think none of your options are appealing or you're just a really bad judge of character.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:09 PM
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Deadbeats don't deserve partners. Broke men - maybe, maybe not they deserve partners. I also didn't say women's standards are too low. I said it's horribly calibrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:44 PM
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Sure you can be pickier if you have options. But if you have more options than the average person and you are still single after a long time, then perhaps you’re the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:02 PM
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Women with broke dead beats is not evidence they are more forgiving. It’s a sign that their barometer for good partners is horribly calibrated
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 09:01 PM
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Physically unattractive women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:31 PM
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Yeah, I've been out with women who thinks I will just settle with anybody or that I don't care about them. There are several reasons why I am not as expressive as them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:45 PM
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It's not just about the quantity of women. At least with dating apps, I am only asking out the ones that I am interested in but at speed dating events, I meet maybe 0-2 women that I would maybe like to get to know a bit more outside of these events. So, it's actually less expensive to meet women on dating apps than speed dating events.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:20 PM
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Not only that but the speed dating events I went to , the men had to pay more than twice as much as the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:22 AM
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I just want things to be fair. But dating is muddled by rules that only serve one side's self interest and not both parties. An example is paying for dates - no matter how it's spun, it's never fair for the man to be paying for dates after the first date or the first few dates. It doesn't matter if there's a biological explanation or what woman thinks a man should do, what's fair is fair. It's not that hard. I've heard almost every explanation, excuse and it just confuses everyone. There's no re…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 05:39 PM
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‘you put out to fast’ - yeah, that’s exactly why they’re promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:45 AM
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Of all the guys friends I know - gambling/crypto/stocks are the only thing I would say they are guilty of. The gambling part is not good but the crypto/stocks is part of their drive to acquire more resources albeit it's n. the bot always successful and sometimes it seems like borderline gambling. The big ticket items you're talking about - the friends I have get nice cars but I wouldn't be surprised if that's also partially their wives' idea. It's not like she doesn't benefit from that at all. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:31 PM
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Sucks for her cuz I'm not. If I understand her logically, thinking about what your partner can provide is logical. So when a lot of men are asking themselves 'why is she not offering to pay for dates? why is she not contributing?', he's only being logical. He wants things to be fair. And, he's not necessarily thinking 50/50 every single time on every single thing, but he wants it to be fair. Yet there's so much pushback from women who call these men cheap and all sorts of nasty names.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:39 PM
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What investment? Women barely put anything in the beginning stages of dating? You are wrong about men just picking men indiscriminately based on lust/sex. That type of thinking is more in line with red pill. What I mean to say is a man assesses himself first and then assesses whether a woman is in line with him. That's why I said, he'll look at his own level and consider whether she's passable or not. Whereas a lot of woman come up with a lot of standards (and a lot of those standards are just s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 09:23 PM
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That is not what I got from OP's post. What I got is - men can logically assess the woman and say 'she's not that bad' or 'she's not perfect. may not necessarily meet my standards. but she's at my level, so she'll do'. Whereas a woman seems to often only ask about what a man can do for her or if she meets her standards, irregardless of how delusional they are. And, she does all this without often asking what she brings to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:40 PM
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My observation is marketing tactics work more effectively on women. This is anecdotal but a lot of my guy friends have no problems buying stuff online including their clothes. Whereas a lot of women I know, they like to go to the mall and buy clothes. It's an experience for women. They can go to a store with nice decor and music and somehow they entices them to buy there. My guy friends understand that when you buy online whether you buy from a high end store or a lower end store, it's coming in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:23 PM
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??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:19 PM
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Weirdos exist because mostly because it’s a man’s responsibility in the beginning stages of dating to initiate, to be funny, to make moves. They have a more active role. Unfortunately, there might’ve been some stuff that misfired in their brain. A miscalculation or nervousness. Doesn’t mean they are necessarily bad people. So while it’s easy for women to criticize from a passive role, try to see it from a man’s point of view
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:38 PM
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Yeah. How would most guys know they can attract an average looking girl ? The average looking girls are not necessarily kinder or more forgiving. And they almost never express interest in the beginning, so how would any of the guys know
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:33 PM
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I’m not confused. I didn’t say the women I dated said that’s why the guy should pay. It’s hard to go against societal norms when simps keep on reinforcing that culture. I will pay for the first few dates but never indefinitely. But like most issues, it’s not just men or just women who are at fault. Women shouldn’t be setting these non sensible expectations and men should stop pandering.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:06 AM
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I would like my dates to offer to pay. Even if a guy shoots you down, it doesn't mean he doesn't appreciate the gesture. It might be a little bit of a show and dance but have you ever seen any guy complain about a girl who offered to pay? Have you ever seen any guy insinuate their masculinity was attacked because of that? The best I've gotten from a woman is when I asked for the check, she decides to go to the bathroom. Then the check comes while she was still in there. Of course, I'm just going…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:19 PM
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I’m not confrontational like that in real life. I’m not going to ask why my date never offers to pay. And so far, no one has offered despite all the women on Reddit say they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:31 PM
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I don’t go around debating this with women in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:15 PM
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It’s an excuse that many women on YouTube, TikTok, and Reddit post about
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 09:00 AM
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You also realize you can cut your internet if you can't even take a question right? You just sound unnecessarily angry. Have fun giving yourself high blood pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:43 PM
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I never said it’s against the rules. I just asked if it was necessary. If you’re trying to make a point or convince people of anything, it seems to work against you than for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:38 PM
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Why do a lot of women use more profanity than men online ? Is it really necessary ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:35 PM
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The manosphere is not entirely wrong and they always speak in generalities but it doesn't mean the generalities are completely wrong. And Lauren Sanchez is far from the typical single mom - her children were in their teens when they started dating and are somewhat grown, so they need less attention from her. Also, she has the means to hire nannies and whatever help she needs. The common complaint the manosphere has against single moms is that the children is the mom's entire priority which often…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:51 PM
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Are you for real? If Harvey Weinstein can get married, you think Bezos can't do better?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:48 PM
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I guess it depends on how to define way hot and how many there are. It is certainly possible to pull hot girls as an average man but you have to have something else to offer besides looks. So if you combine (good looking men) + (average men with other qualities) ~ hot men. It's rough math but maybe it rounds out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:16 PM
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I’m not sure I’m following your logic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:43 PM
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I stated a fact. Not a point. See the difference ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:22 PM
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I have no particular point. I think men, in an overwhelming majority of cases, should not date single mothers but sometimes some women are good and so is their kid and the mom just made a bad decision when they were younger. A lot of successful men were not raised by their biological father and all they need is the proper male figure in their life. The issue I have with modern dating now is it often glorified single motherhood or shaming men for being insecure for not wanting to raise another ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:21 PM
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He’s one of the first investors in Amazon and mega rich
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:23 PM
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While I too am afraid of the risks of marriage, at the same time, I don’t know what to do with my money by myself. Material things and vacations don’t really make me happy unless it’s done with another person
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:35 AM
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One of the guys that dated a single mom back in the day ended up raising Jeff Bezos as his own
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:29 AM
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I think you give men more credit than they deserve. A lot of men are definitely not aware. Just looking at men paying cam girls or OnlyFans thinking they either have a shot with the girl or the model cares about them in any way. I also do not understand your last paragraph at all. Manipulation is a method and one of the most powerful if done correctly. Why does using manipulation consider to be lesser than? Society actually places more value and praise on people who are able to manipulate and af…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:39 PM
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I don't see farmers having the most leverage in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:31 PM
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That might be true in theory but if you look at the ways women are able to manipulate and control a man's emotions tells you otherwise even if the woman is objectively in a worse position. On paper and objectively, there's no way somebody like Jada Pickett, who is not even five foot tall and lower in finances and status, is able to bully and embarrass someone like Will Smith who is physically stronger, wealthier, and more respected.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:26 PM
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This is a complex issue. They could be saying that because grass is greener on the other side or they suffered abuse or they realized their husbands were losers. People need to have better judgment in general, both men and women. Obviously that's easier said than done. At the same time, it's hard to trust people to make the right choices for themselves given how poor our judgment is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:21 PM
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If in a traditional marriage, the man is handing over this paycheque to his wife, who is subservient to who?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:09 PM
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Too bad I don't know how to trigger these emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:44 AM
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I really wonder if women do less physical harm than men, or rather if they actually do less is it significantly less? Because if a woman is going to do harm, she probably gets another guy to do it and sometimes these guys are just not around.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:43 AM
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I tend to agree with you. I have been in bad relationships with tons of arguing and often times arguing over ridiculous and small issues. I’ve never been abused or abused anyone. I still prefer being in those bad relationships than being lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:49 AM
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Men need to look just as good and it might even be harder to look good as a men because there aren’t too many ways to make themselves look better. Fashion choices are limited, don’t use makeup. Men can go to the gym but that takes effort and time
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:45 AM
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I think therapy is actually harmful to a lot of women because most therapists do not tell their clients straight up what is right and wrong. Therapists are there to help clients self-discover and often times that just leads them to reinforce their already dangerous thinking and behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:29 AM
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I prefer Brian over F&F because F&F is too confrontational. What is F&F trying to do? If they are trying to convince other to their side, they need to practice more empathy and have a softer approach instead of just trying to sound like they are trying to win a debate for the sake of winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:27 AM
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I am not entirely against no-fault divorce. If somebody wants to end the marriage, they should. But the government shouldn't determine alimony. The left are overwhelmingly in support of no-fault divorce and their argument is the divorce decisions shouldn't be determined by the government but at the same time, these same people think the government should have a hand in determining alimony? Seems very hypocritical but I can't say I am surprised. These laws were defined to benefit women and that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 12:23 AM
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If depression is slowly getting recognized then so should loneliness especially since loneliness is such a huge contributor to depression. So yes, people should talk about it and people should also be less judgmental.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:55 PM
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I am sick of hearing people say they are happy and alone. Those two terms is almost an oxymoron for me. Sure, there might be some people who are happier by themselves but that’s a rare minority. Lots of single people in Japan say they are happy alone, don’t care if they married, relationships are too much hassle, there’s enough entertainment in Japan so social interaction is no longer needed. That’s what they tell everyone publicly but yet many Japanese men are going to prostitutes, people going…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 08:36 AM
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They all met in school. They were in similar social circles. As a result, they saw each other often before even dating. They were forced in situations where encounter each other often. The problem with modern dating is not all dating apps fault. People just don’t want to invest time in each other unless there are sparks right from the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:13 PM
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The phrase 'common denominator' is often used to point fingers at people to show they are the problem. While, it's likely true if you are the common denominator in all your failed relationships, there might be something wrong with you. Technically, it's possible that there's just something seriously wrong with the other side. That's the tyranny of the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:29 PM
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This is like a Cathy Newman and Jordan Peterson debate where one side keeps on misinterpreting the other
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:19 AM
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Was it worth the sacrifice?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:08 AM
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Exactly. Because I have many guy friends and according to them they are financial drained because their spouses spent too much, quit their jobs after marriage and refuse to work, or the guy pays the majority of the down payment on the house and then they split. With my guy friends, if there is a party that is benefitting financial, it's almost always the woman and not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:07 AM
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Read what he wrote. He said the most attractive. And he didn't write his preferences change as he ages. I'm in my thirties and I've seen attractive women from 20-60s. So even when I am in my fifties, I can still find some women in their fifties attractive. But I don't think I will ever say they are objectively more physically attractive than an attractive woman in their twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:42 AM
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I go after women my own age too. I'm in my thirties but I would never say the women in their thirties look better than the ones in their twenties. The way you put it is easily interpreted as 40s women is the demographic that you find objectively them most attractive despite what age you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:57 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:39 PM
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I like women that are physically attractive and it just so happens other men also think these women are physically attractive. It has nothing to do with what other men think about them. In fact, I kinda prefer a woman who is not chased by guys and doesn't have too many friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:05 PM
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The truth is... women are very terrible at assessing anything accurately. Part of the reason is because people assess wealth and generosity based on those incorrect markers that you have listed. There is no reason why Bernard Arnault is one the richest men in the world. He got rich by marketing luxury goods to middle class people, which is in a way an oxymoron. My question to you is - do you want a woman to assess you based on your wealth? or your personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:55 PM
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Yeah I agree. But how many of us completely live virtuous lives? I think there are many industries in the world that are pretty awful whether it's hedge funds, tech companies, oil companies but unless we are willing to completely disconnect ourselves from society, we are all supporting to some degree industries that are not the most ethical. All I can say is we should try our best to actively not support certain industries and systems. And, this is where the grey area is. What does actively mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:29 PM
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I would say you have a fetish for 40 year old women. Not that I'm saying there is anything wrong. But it's definitely not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:34 PM
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When I see on dating apps mid-thirties women and under children they write 'Not sure' or 'Undecided', I always wonder to myself 'Well, if there's a time to make a decision. it's Now!'.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:34 PM
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he was one of those very clingy girls who had to know exactly where her boyfriend was at all times and he was not allowed to talk to women. Any girl was a threat. Yup, we definitely need to stop pretending. There are exceptions but never allow those to be defined as the norm. I find quite a few women who I talked to have very little knowledge of their fertility window and the stats behind it. I find my male friends are actually more knowledgable than these women. Women also can get very defensiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:31 PM
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To add to your list, women who say 'I'm very picky' or 'I have extremely high standards' turn me off instantly and those are red flags in and of themselves. The problem with dating women who say that they're still single because they're 'picky' is just because I satisfy her conditions on day 1, does not mean I will be able to satisfy her on day 2. These people have an extremely low tolerance. Their goal posts are extremely narrow and not only is it narrow, it's constantly moving depending on how…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:17 PM
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Given all the risks that OF girls have, why do it? If they can't think of the long term consequences, I don't see why society has to acquiescene to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:18 PM
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I think women who do these things are disgusting but I wouldn't go as far as to say they are worthless. Disgusting people can still have value. I am actually also very disgusted at the men who pay for pornography, OF, cam girls. I really don't get what they are doing. Are they trying to support the industry or they think they can win the love of these women? I think it's one thing to consume the material but why pay for it and continue bankrolling this machine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:15 PM
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In the context of dating how she feels reigns supreme but I don't know if a relationship be healthy and last if just runs on emotions and lack logic. Because if an argument breaks up, there's no mechanism to resolve anything if one side is debating purely on emotions and feelings. Walking away and deescalating are ways to alleviate the tension in those conversations but ultimately it solves nothing and resolves nothing. Emotions and feelings are important in many situations. That's why it still …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:17 AM
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Yeah, the logic is so confusing. Most of the time, men have a hard time finding somebody they like that likes them back. It's not necessarily about putting the other person on a pedestal, yet it turns them off. Also, a lot of women expect men to pay for dates (at least in the beginning). That's already a signal that the man likes the woman and is putting effort and resources into winning her over, which means he's starting off from a losing position. But yet with this women don't think this is w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:53 AM
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Sometimes it might just be culture of people where I’m at. Even most of my friends (the male ones) act extremely differently than the guys on Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:01 AM
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There seems to tons of 50-50 women on Reddit but I've encountered less than 10% in real life. Either it's BSing or they have a very selective memory. There was this woman that I was interested in about 10 years ago. We were kinda friends and I expressed my interest in her. She wasn't interested but we stayed friends for a while until we lost contact. Last year I reached out to her (as friends) to see if wanted to catch up. She's still unmarried and we talked about our lives. She said nobody has …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:37 PM
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Yes I agree with you. In modern times, the different reasons I hear of disqualifying a potential partner is so ridiculous sometimes. Then I watch the news and I see couples surviving in war or through tough times. They are really going through a rough time but they stick together and help each other out - I find that to be quite lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:31 PM
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OP I agree with you. If a woman picks me, she's settling because there lots of amazing guys out there that by an objective measure are better than me. I'm okay if she's settling as long as she doesn't treat me like she's settling which means I don't want to something like 'John was so awesome and if I stayed with him, my life would be so much better than with you'.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:28 PM
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Yeah, Jada Pickett has nothing to offer but yet she keeps comparing Will Smith to some god-like image of Tupac.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:26 PM
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