| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 27 | Funny how life works… | KrazyEi8ht | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 06:45 PM | |
| 20 | I’m ready for this to end | KrazyEi8ht | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 01:46 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | I’m ready for this to endI do not. Nor do I have the guts to sit there and scour thru someone’s phone looking for things to attack her about. The context of the messaging can be taken however the reader receives it. Perhaps thats how I was so careless to leave the text in my phone in the first place; thinking #1 I’ve given her no reason to check on my phone, so why worry about what she could perceive incorrectly taking place in my phone. And there is never a time when she isn’t without her phone tucked in her shirt or b… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/24 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Funny how life works…Just ordered it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/24 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Funny how life works…She is 12 | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/24 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Funny how life works…Doesn’t appear filing has taken place | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/24 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Funny how life works…Did your child end up residing with mom? | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/24 05:51 AM |
| 2 | Funny how life works…No paperwork yet. Waiting til Monday. Getting the lawyer search | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/24 05:51 AM |
| 2 | I’m ready for this to endYes, I can’t put her out | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/24 02:59 AM |
| 2 | I’m ready for this to endVery much so. I’ve been researching it and came up with BPD and cognitive distortions. Mon stop weed smoke and the occasional Percocet or anything else of that sort, muscle relaxers. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 11:20 PM |
| 1 | I can't believe my 4 years of life savings are gone just like that...That’s my issue, not sure how any of that works. I’m filing for divorce first thing Monday morning if she doesn’t beat me to it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 11:04 PM |
| 4 | I can't believe my 4 years of life savings are gone just like that...I lose the house equity? She contributed nothing to it. My down payment, I make the monthly payment, and and her car which we joint own she is constant late on. So my credit is shit! | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 11:02 PM |
| 2 | I’m ready for this to endYea she just did it recently with some guest of ours who decided to stay after drinking and the long ride back to Maryland. A ln adult conversation turned into an embarrassment for the ages with her and the other wife. The other wife quickly deescalted and said it’s not that serious let’s have a drink and before i know my wife has her finger in the ladies face questioning “what kind of women is she” I begged her to stop. Begged that she treat our guest with some respect and let’s not turn this i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 10:42 PM |
| 3 | I’m ready for this to endNon stop accusations. A friends mom who is over 65. I wasn’t even 40 at the time. Her best friend, because she has Invisalign and when I started the processes knew how many weeks of treatment I would have. So she accused me of taking to her and trying to be with her. My best friend of thirties years, has a younger sister who I hadn’t seen since she was 4 thanked me for some advise I gave her on the military since I had recently retired and she flipped. Grab my arm, pulled me outside and start ac… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 10:37 PM |
| 3 | I’m ready for this to endI believe this wholeheartedly. It’s just not adding up. The punishment don’t match the crime. My daughter commented (after i had to clear the lie she told to my daughter that cheated) talking to me in private that it seems blown out of proportion and that doesn’t seem like anything to cause this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 10:28 PM |
| 4 | Funny how life works…Can I make a non-emergency call to document things she has said to me in the past about ruining my life? I really do feel she is spiralling and acting a litttle out of wack, stepping outside taking phone calls keeps trying to entice my daughter to go places with her like the mall, the store, saying she has been having a taste for ice cream. I still can track her on my iPhone and she just left an apt complex to which we know no one… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 10:24 PM |
| 2 | I’m ready for this to endThat’s exactly how this is. Falsely accuses me of being the most random people and at home and on vacations. Recently in Vegas I was have an attack of cluster headaches. I was able to get oxygen and keep them at bay enough to enjoy the trip. On night 2 of 5, I laid down trying to make sure I’d be ready to party and me and the other couple we traveled with fell asleep and we all woke up around around midnight. We all apologize because she is visibly upset and are bending over backwards trying to … | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Funny how life works…Thank you, I look forward to hearing how I can arm myself | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Funny how life works…Will I have a leg to stand on for custody? Or does it just automatically default to mom? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Funny how life works…Checking now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Funny how life works…I’m trying to get a lawyer now and because of the weekend everywhere is closed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 09:02 PM |
| 5 | Funny how life works…I’m asking her not to. No she is 12 | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Funny how life works…I need help on what to do to prepare myself. This is very new to me and base her spiraling out of control. I’m a sitting duck, is there anything I can do to take offense instead of sitting around waiting for her next trick. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 08:04 PM |
| 3 | I’m ready for this to endThat’s my problem bro…I’ve never gone thru her phone. Questioned her coming and going. Who she spoke to on the phone or anything. I am 45 yr old a retired vet senior executive in the pentagon. I know what I have to lose and I would never jeopardize that for an “online” fling with a woman I have no intentions of pursuing from 25 years ago. That behavior always seemed petty and childish. Plus, I was never seeking another woman- online or otherwise. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 06:53 PM |
| 2 | I’m ready for this to endIt’s really bad. It’s now turned into taking my daughter as a we separate - to a state unknown to as early as next month but hasn’t decided where. And continuing to degrade me in front of of my daughter. Update: now has taken my daughter in the room with the door closed. Pretty sure she is slandering me to no end and filling her with all kinds of hate toward me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 05:55 PM |
| 2 | I’m ready for this to endSorry everybody, this is a lot for me. It’s extremely toxic and spiralling out of control. She thinks telling my daughter “the truth” is the right thing to despite me advising her the opposite. She is 12, plus with you are alleging isnt the truth. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 04:45 PM |
| 1 | I’m ready for this to endOver a text message…alleging someone from my past I am having an affair with. Insane….if I called my daughter’s mom and had a conversation, how is that an affair? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 04:39 PM |
| 3 | I’m ready for this to endHowever, I’m so ready. I will be filing first thing Monday morning. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 02:45 PM |
| 2 | I’m ready for this to endMeaning I can record? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 02:37 PM |
| 2 | I’m ready for this to endResearching now, don’t think I can do that in Virginia. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 02:37 PM |
| 1 | I’m ready for this to endNot sure, I’ve done no research for the state of Virginia so I don’t know what lies ahead. I just downloaded voice recording hoping to capture the awful shit she spews and how dismissive and combative she is at every single attempt to communicate like adults | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 02:27 PM |
| 3 | I’m ready for this to endIt’s killing me because this isn’t what I was seeking. This is not me “getting caught” and now I want to downplay the situation. Man, if I showed you the depths to which I’ve tried to explain it was just two people being civil and cordial for my daughters sake with someone I haven’t said a single word to in over 25 years…it’s crazy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 02:23 PM |
| 3 | I’m ready for this to endThank you, I’ve also acknowledged the same thing to her. “ i disnt see it that way at the time but I understand what I did hurt and betrayed your trust.” | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 02:08 PM |
| 2 | I’m ready for this to endTried that the last 3 accusations. Mentioned it again this time and she assured me she doesn’t need reply, it’s me who needs therapy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 02:03 PM |
| 1 | I’m ready for this to endTried that the last 3 accusations. Mentioned it again this time and she assured me she doesn’t need reply, it’s me who needs therapy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/24 02:02 PM |
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