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| 5 | Something to sayEven if she didn't mean it, she's feeling it. | /r/seduction | 24/05/12 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Why "Be Yourself" is the Best AdviceI disagree. It may confuse but it is a very real and different message, or so I belive. Be a better version of yourself gets people trying to define what that better version is and trying to act like it. This is exactly what most people trying to find a brave face are attempting to do and the problem is it usually comes over cheesy and over done. Be yourself means let all of that go. Stop acting based upon wished for response. Don't define yourself and don't give yourself a stereotype to live an… | /r/seduction | 17/05/12 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Why "Be Yourself" is the worst advice.This is not a seduction thing. This is life in every aspect. If you're not improving yourself then you shouldn't want anything to do with you either. | /r/seduction | 11/05/12 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Followup: Advice from a 68-year-old natural whose wife is still dreamy-eyed for him.Well she's an awesome women for one. Honestly I worked hard to be honest, forthcoming and caring and to not be irrational myself. So she give me the benefit of the doubt and doesn't feel real comfortible herself belittling me. Or I her. I think one of the big things is that neither of us entered the relationship with the attitude that it's going to take a lot of work. Actually we both entered it thinking we were plenty ready to just be forever alone as dealing with bullshit wasn't worth it and w… | /r/seduction | 19/04/12 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Followup: Advice from a 68-year-old natural whose wife is still dreamy-eyed for him.I have a Yes - Yes relationship with my wife. This guy is dead on from my experience. | /r/seduction | 19/04/12 12:25 PM |
| 5 | Followup: Advice from a 68-year-old natural whose wife is still dreamy-eyed for him.You can't be like this though until you are confident with yourself enough to actually let things slide by. When you lack confidence and are full of doubt about your worth, then these little accusations can really feel much larger than they are. Most of the rehearsed material I've read on Seddit is getting you into the mix so you can experience success so you can build the confidence to just be yourself so then you can be this yes person. Someone who can give and care, being a rock for the other… | /r/seduction | 19/04/12 12:24 PM |
| 5 | Followup: Advice from a 68-year-old natural whose wife is still dreamy-eyed for him.Not only that, but expectation takes much of the joy of giving away. Expectations of each other dillute the kind things you do. | /r/seduction | 19/04/12 12:20 PM |
| 2 | I don't think I can do this.How about just act confident, not a prick. Act like you believe in yourself, not better than everybody. Lots of groups have alphas doesn't mean everybody else is not equal or less than. It's about being singly individual in your thinking and an initiator who takes responsibility for leading when needed. Did I miss the articles about being a dick and not respecting women? | /r/seduction | 17/01/12 03:19 PM |
| 10 | Girl here: Things I learned this week in the realm of seduction.Probably best not to tell the troll how you can tell he's the troll. | /r/seduction | 21/11/11 01:28 PM |
| 0 | The Oneitis DilemmaIt may be a natural tendancy. What is also a natural tendancy is to just accept something as invevitable because it's a natural tendancy. Just keep working at it, when you catch it, make sure you know what your doing and then stop doing it. Allow your self to fail and then do it all over again. You can change your thought patterns with effort and tenacity. Everybody can you just have to not give up on yourself and not kid yoruself about your helplessness. Willpower is like a muscle and grows str… | /r/seduction | 04/11/11 05:53 PM |
| 2 | What Would You Like Us to Do?Improvements are important and steering these people do some getting started type posting would be great. As much as it rubs the more experienced guys wrong, alienating the new guys for such a natural tendancy is just not very friendly, or helpful. I think it would be a sad state of affiars. | /r/seduction | 13/10/11 04:50 PM |
| 3 | My opinion on Seduction Material.Thing is you knew the material by time you went out on your own. This is a distinct advantage in using your experience to breakdown the problems and the victories. Sometimes experience does nothing without good information to comprehend what just happened. Certainly experience is the only way, but I haven't read anything real in these discussions that didn't stress that over everything else. It's like people thinking you can take a karate lesson and use the information without practice and pract… | /r/seduction | 10/10/11 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Just got rejected... but god damn if I didn't try!More posts like this guys! I'm all settled in but more guys posting these things to let those others in the same condition know they have a group that can talk about it and know it's as common bad microwave dinners. This is the fucking road, gentleman, walk it and eventually live free. I think there is an actual hook up in someones future. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Just got rejected... but god damn if I didn't try!No but it's a classy illusion to leave the conversation with. No need to call her out, she's doing her best too. | /r/seduction | 23/09/11 01:42 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Gaining an understanding on the psychology of PUA.I was in an 8 year established relationship when I started applying PUA techniques to my now wife. She went from being loving and adoring to falling over herself to make me feel the way I make her feel. There is no reason not to apply these techniques to a current or burgeoning long term relationship. All women want to feel that way. That's why it works. That's why it keeps working. | /r/seduction | 13/09/11 06:19 PM |
| 10 | What's a good response to, "I can't believe we did that, I never have sex on the first date!"?See, now we have a problem cause I don't have anything against sluts, but liars piss me off. | /r/seduction | 12/09/11 07:07 PM |
| 3 | Is porn really affecting us?If you can't control and motivate yourself without that primal hormone screwing with your brain and driving you crazy, get a hold of yourself. And then yank it. If that makes it so you can't get out and meet people then stop smoking so much weed. | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Beta behavior to avoidJust do it. You are who you are, and that will be fine, I assure you. It's when you are trying to be who you want it get's all clusterd and confusing. Be who you are, accept your lumps and just say your piece, most likely the lumps won't come, or won't come for long. | /r/seduction | 14/07/11 07:37 PM |
| 5 | How to sexualize your datesI guess everybody has different names for it. | /r/seduction | 14/06/11 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Nice Guys Don't Always Finish Last (A helpful kind-of iconographic) X-Post from fffffuuuuuu. Your thought?People change dramatically according to their setting. Lots of study to show the changes from group dynamics. Maybe not day or night, but setting to setting, yes. | /r/seduction | 30/03/11 04:53 PM |
| 5 | Relationship game: be desire-less when it comes to sex.I think desiring sex is a masculine trait and not sure about this. However don't be looking for favors, expect it to be as much for her as yourself. She's as lucky as you to be having the sex. If there is a legitimate reason why she isn't interested, then yes be flip of nonconcerned about it. It's just today. However if you aren't taking the time to encourage her mood, in a manner that is depending on her starting mood, I think you're not working it right anyway. Man up, take lead and bring her … | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 09:29 PM |
| 11 | Moment of realisation while chatting to an afc.|"If you treat a woman like she's better than you, she'll end up thinking that she's better than you".| Man that's like a zen Koan. Enlightenment to seemingly huge complications unwravelled in a brief comprehensible statement. Brilliant. | /r/seduction | 12/01/11 06:48 PM |
| 3 | So...why did she flake?Yea, that's the problem, she wanted a manly push for the goods. | /r/seduction | 20/10/10 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Using a wedding ring to pick up chicksI think quite a few will hit on you with the ring hoping to assert some sense of quality when they can grab his attention but they never plan on following through. Well rarely. The married cheating ones may be interested. | /r/seduction | 19/10/10 08:29 PM |
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