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| 3 | PSA: Remember ladies, men always think they’re WAY better looking then they actually are and ugly men WILL treat women more attractive then them badly.NO they DO NOT make better boyfriends and appreciate you more! They SHOULD, logically, but eh, they certainly don’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 08:26 PM |
| 4 | PSA: Remember ladies, men always think they’re WAY better looking then they actually are and ugly men WILL treat women more attractive then them badly.This is (part of) what that study incels have never read and are always misciting ACTUALLY says. You know the one: ”Women only want 20% of men!”. That men rate their own looks, and those of women, higher than women do, while women rate their own looks (and men’s) lower than men do. It’s them who rate themselves too highly and then whine that they can’t get the ones they’re after. As a bisexual I see this with ugly men constantly, whining about being given a chance when they’ve clearly only chose… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 08:23 PM |
| 5 | Hey gurl. I’m an intersectional feminist. I’m also a shaman. 🚨🚨🚨Hoho my friend sent me this a while ago with the caption ”Lol this is [those two LVM we know] exactly.” 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 10:35 PM |
| 11 | Let's start off the new year well queensCome as you are and Why does he do that are great! You have so much great new knowledge to look forward to! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 10:33 PM |
| 17 | Reminder...So much this. I’ve dated a few guys like this and they did a lot of this. I never knew if they’d be normal on any given day, or snarky and selfposessed or ignoring me. And they rationalized it as okay because they suffered so much themselves and they ”needed” the relationship to be exactly as they wanted it... I have female friends who are depressed and somehow they’re never like this 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 10:31 PM |
| 4 | Why therapy, self-care, and levelling up emotionally and mentally is so importantYup. I realized this after my first relationship (very abusive) and worked super hard to deal with what made me someone who ended up in that situation in the first place because otherwise I knew my next relationship would be the same, as would all subsequent ones. It worked! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 04:22 PM |
| 2 | She did not hesitate to put his ass down lolThis reminds me of the dude in the comments of a game review who complained that he never met any girls who where into video games. Another dude replied something like ”You’ve just not looked hard enough then.” And the first dude goes like ”No I’ve looked for 10 years! Well maybe there’s some where you live, but where I live, in NYC, there aren’t any!” Like... no, not a single gamer in NYC lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 08:29 AM |
| 16 | Most Stay-at-moms do not get the luxury of building a career, or even the luxury of a personal life This is how women end up in a financial trap with no support.I can recommend a good book about economics and gender and the devaluation of women’s unpaid labour, if anyone’s interested: https://www.amazon.com/Who-Cooked-Adam-Smiths-Dinner/dp/1681774445 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 08:24 AM |
| 13 | You shouldn't have to beg for respect. Never *love* a man who would disregard you like this.My sister had an ex like this. Except he didn’t even write, he had his friends reply instead and tell her to ”stop writing essays” and shit. I hope that dude trips and falls on a cactus with his butthole first one day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 11:32 PM |
| 20 | Woke Queen. The comments are gold.Came here to say that. Their problems never seem to be, like, The Actual Problem At Hand, it’s women’s refusal to push our own problems away in order to fix men’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 11:28 PM |
| 21 | What was the biggest/most shocking FDS revelation for you?^ This tbh. When men say they want to be approached, this is what they mean. For an easy hookup or just for the validation, sure, but not for anything serious. They aren’t even actually lying here, just not telling the important part of the truth 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 09:49 AM |
| 3 | This accurately describes our dating pool in 2020:I’ve been meaning to rewatch it as well! Where do you stream it? (If that’s what you do) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 10:03 AM |
| 7 | Better off single than with a LVM! (WGTOW - Women Going Their Own Way)Just came here to say OMG look at the fluff of that lovely cream kitty!!! 😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 08:48 AM |
| 10 | TeaThat’s certainly worthwhile to think about, and very true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 08:36 AM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020I’ve now been on my diet for two weeks, and have suceeded in keeping at least as much calorie deficiency as I want every day, usually 200-300 less. Haven’t even been hungry. I think I’ll be able to keep this up just fine 😊 pandemic time is perfect diet time! I was also asked to participate in a debate next month about current sustainability/environment priorities in my city as a representative from the city council board I’m on. I accepted, it’ll be my first proper debate, eeek! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 01:03 PM |
| 18 | Promoting a BDSM “test” to an app filled with teen girls. It must be so hard to develop a healthy attitude towards sex when things like this are thrown at you all the time!My mom used to work as a teen/youth counselor focused on sex/relationships up until around 3 years ago, and she said that she’d seen increasing numbers of young people (both girls and boys) affected by porn and wondering if you have to do and like all that degrading stuff. So I think many just believe it’s expected of them. Heartbreaking, regardless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 10:57 AM |
| 7 | When it comes to sex, make your specific needs clear from the start and if he fails when the time comes, dump him IMMEDIATELYExactly. I dated someone once who asked during foreplay of first sex if I had a IUD or similar. I was like ”We know nothing of each other’s sexual histories, go get a condom”. And he did and nothing unprotected happened. Then it struck me that if he tried to do it condomless with me, he’d likely done it with others too. So I asked him when he last got tested for STDs, which was never! So I ordered him to go get tested. Turned out he had chlamydia hahaha. He started always using condoms after tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Serious question about meds, plz helpHere is a paper about it btw: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2989833/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 03:06 PM |
| 4 | Serious question about meds, plz helpI’ve had 6 boyfriends or long-term dates with affective disorders (depression/bipolar, sometimes PTSD and ADHD as well), as well as several shorter relationships, and also been in therapy to learn how to handle being with someone like that, so if you or anyone else are wondering about dating mentally ill men in general, I hope I can help out by sharing some of what I’ve learnt from my experiences. First, them being aware of their disorder AND how it affects their lives and other people in it is … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 03:04 PM |
| 30 | How FDS has changed my lifeSpot on! Especially #6, which I found out before finding FDS, through a bunch of guys who’d blame various issues of theirs for why they kept hurting me and leaving me unfulfilled. If somebody does that, it doesn’t matter why they do it; what matters is that both people in the relationship are happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.Has anyone here read ”The End of Men” by Hanna Rosin? It’s basically about how the economic changes of the 20th century has affected gender roles, and what the author concluded is basically this. Women have evolved and learned how to do the ”man parts” of relationships but men have not wanted to learn how to do the ”women parts”, and also often fail at the man parts, so now we have a situation where women can fulfill all their needs and men can fulfill none of women’s needs and not the women par… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Dating, sex and expectations have changed so much. You cannot expect the rules and vibes that existed 15, 10 or even 5 years ago. Remaining celibate and leveling up in all other areas of my life is making me feel so strong right now.It actually is true that they teach some skills though, I know the government agency for public employment in my country has some sort of project going on right now about how to turn the skills gained from gaming into marketable skills for the labour market. Not sure what skills it’s actually about though, haven’t read that much about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 09:22 AM |
| 19 | Almost 100% of our cultural sexual terminology is centered around men’s pleasure and we should be outraged.My type of man has a name and I can look them up... in gay porn. Only 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Woke up this morning wanting to tell my ex about my most recent exciting news, thought I would tell yall instead!That is great, congratulations! I’m sure you’ll do well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Many pickmeisha traits are nothing more than repackaged narcissism. Reject this in yourself before it is too late, and keep it gone.I just wanted to add a link tothis other story by the same author who wrote Cat Person, if anyone want to read. https://humanparts.medium.com/amp/p/59e5bfe9322f | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 06:27 PM |
| 5 | Why is the (supposed) feminist media so invested in making women pay for dates?In my culture, splitting the check is the norm. I’ve had a few hugely desperate dudes way below my league and some much older well-paid ones (when I was a student) offer to pay for my meals or date activities, but other than that, we’ve both paid for our own. And I see American articles like this, claiming splitting bills leads to equality, and American men in their idiot subreddits claiming that the bill-paying is why they’re shit. But seriously, from all I’ve seen, the men are just as shit her… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 05:54 PM |
| 14 | Junior HVM asks his blind girlfriend to the prom in braille, using Hershey’s kisses. 💕That’s super cute! I hope they had the best prom ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 10:20 AM |
| 39 | Ladies, if you feel uneasy around or distrust a male, THERE IS A REASON.Reminds me of an old lady I met a while ago, she told me about the time in the 80’s when she met Donald Trump. She said ”you know as a woman you can get the feeling around some men like ”this is danger, this is not a good man, I want to escape” and he triggered that full-on.” This must be what she meant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 09:06 PM |
| 19 | PSA: BPD men are perpetually the victim, and they will *never* change.This is every mentally ill dude that ever dragged his sorry ass across my path. Depression, anxiety, bipolar, PTSD, they had all kinds of problems, and would write to me like this every time I grew too much of a backbone. Then they’d be off setting up accounts on every dating app 2 days after 🙄 Or they’d ”crash” and milk as much sympathy as they can while they mess their lives up for 5 extra minutes of crying in bed, but when they are in a better place, do they take actions for that not to happe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 10:53 AM |
| 12 | Definitive List of PER SE LVM behaviors that require a hard nextI’d like to add ”Does not let you be a true part of his life; hiding your relationahip status, doesn’t let you meet his friends, never let’s you come to his house, etc.” I’d also like to add bad and not properly treated affective disorders (that means both therapy/medication to make him healther as well as actively learning to live with it in ways that do not negatively affect others in his life or inhibit his possibility to lead a somewhat normal life. Others should never suffer because HE is m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 02:04 PM |
| 73 | Why are guys so obsessed with sex?It’s the only kind of physical intimacy they’re allowed (by society/other men) to have, and female sexual partners are the only ones they’re allowed to have emotional intimacy with. And wanting a lot of sex, as well as having a lot of sex partners, is how men are raised to believe you perform masculinity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Men Crave Sex cause it's the only way we dont get shamed for admitting we want physical affectionGreat post! Men should not have to feel like they have to limit themselves to not seem ”gay”, they deserve all the cuddles they need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 05:48 PM |
| 5 | A lot of women don’t enjoy hookup culture—so why do we force ourselves to participate?I agree with you! Also, the answer to your first paragraph is lesbianism 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 04:09 PM |
| 8 | Men think dating apps are free prostitution apps.Oh that happened to me, I added a profile photo and suddenly got a bunch of friend request from old men in other countries 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 01:01 PM |
| 7 | Study Finds Older Women Who Date Younger Men Are More SatisfiedI asked a 45-year old woman about this and she said that while the majority of the younger men only want sex, still about a third of her friends around her own age are dating men significantly younger. Not sure where they met though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 11:29 PM |
| 70 | Men who string women along for sex are a special kind of evil.Reminds me of that mf I dated once, for like 1-2 months, everything was nice, and then when I invite him home and finally try to have sex... his conscience got the better of him or something, and he tells me that he was only stringing me along so that I would take his virginity so that it wouldn’t be so awkward once he ~got to do it with the girl he actually likes~ 😒 So no sex happened. Instead I yelled at him for like an hour while he cried in my bed and then I threw him out (middle of the nigh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/20 10:41 PM |
| 9 | Found on Facebook. You tell it sisThis! I used to be a camgirl, and it is amazing how men will spend an hour trying to nag/plead/manipulate you into something like showing your boobs (literally costed $2). They could've googled and found some free porn pic/video of a similar girl with similar boobs in 5 seconds flat. Or, I dunno, just pay the damn $2. But nooo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 09:32 PM |
| 5 | Found on Facebook. You tell it sisI think you're on to something here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 09:29 PM |
| 31 | NSFW: List of LVM fetish red flagsIf he isn't about to get pegged The ones who do nag incessantly about wanting to get pegged should almost be up there as well. Rarely have I met LVMs as low as those. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 09:22 PM |
| 51 | Another Man lying on the internet that he “accidentally” found out about his girlfriend being an FDS member. These revenge fantasies about dumping a girl after “discovering” her FDS usage are getting less creative.I showed FDS to mine, he agreed with almost everything 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 10:34 PM |
| 12 | Dating as a high value Black women is harder than I thoughtI remember seeing one of those OkCupid statistics things about race and preference, and it said black women were the least wanted of all groups 😞 it is so sad, you deserve better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 12:58 AM |
| 2 | If I learn anything from my two years of swiping, it is that if a guy ever list his height (usually >6.0') in his profile opening, just runI swiped right on one guy once because he listed his height as 5’2” and I thought that indicated he was really brave and must’ve known it would deter many so obviously he’d have a lot more to offer. No, hahahaha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 12:50 AM |
| 3 | If I learn anything from my two years of swiping, it is that if a guy ever list his height (usually >6.0') in his profile opening, just runYou just basically summed up incel ideology in one paragraph. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 12:46 AM |
| 27 | Your male friends aren't your friendsI pulled a Han Solo like this on a dude once when he told me he’d had a crush on me for the past 6 years we’d known each other. He proceeded to start a huge whiny thread about me on a big online community we both frequented (I still wonder if he really didn’t think I’d see it?). I kinda regret not going in there like ”Hi this is the girl the post is about, OP can go fuck himself”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 12:35 AM |
| 18 | Men who justify their double standards with "finding sex is easy for women, but requires tons of work from men, so women with a high body count are bad but men admirable":So much this! You’re only following their own logic, after all. Also, men in general being cheap&easy doesn’t have anything to do with us really, it’s their choice, it should be them it reflects badly on if anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 12:28 AM |
| 18 | One of my proudest moments: my ex threw a temper tantrum when I told him the full extent of my sexual historyThey are so up their own bums, with their dumb little temper tantrums over stuff like this. He had it coming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 12:14 AM |
| 15 | To the women that find themselves chasing after men...This is called codependency! There is r/Codependency about this where you can find lots of info about it as well as book recommendations and the like. I went through this and it sucks as hell but it gets so much better once you consciously work through it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 12:29 AM |
| 5 | I feel like this is how they thinkGreetings from Sweden where splitting the bill is the norm among millenials yet dudes still think like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 12:25 AM |
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