| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | Advice after wife moved out | Krishna0902 | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/19 05:53 PM | |
| 2 | She is dragging her feet | Krishna0902 | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/20 08:44 PM | |
| 1 | Caught between two states amongst other things | Krishna0902 | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/09/19 11:10 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 8 | A windfall!Invest in Apple stocks when they fall further this week. May be your can take more than one women for vacation in a yr or so.. :) | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/20 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Take a deep breath....Lady friend coming is the Silver lining i would say. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/20 03:02 PM |
| 2 | The judge has ruledMay be you can ask her for a date :) | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/20 04:18 PM |
| 5 | The judge has ruledNo alimony, how did that happen? Tell us more.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/20 04:18 PM |
| 3 | My solicitor just called me with the STBXWs parenting proposal (UK).This is golden advice.. "articulate your position with a court, not your ex" | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/20 09:24 PM |
| 2 | When they blame you for everything and don't accept any for themselvesHey all your documents in place and go for litigation. The law does not care about the cry baby, they have a formula which does not accept emotions as input. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/20 08:03 PM |
| 0 | 8 more Years with a Narc/BorderlineYou need to find a gf who can beat yours ex at her own game.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/20 01:16 AM |
| 18 | A mess hereSo my question is, did you just take off with your new gf after 20 yrs of marriage? That will explain what’s going on with your wife currently. And your coldness regarding her condition also suggests something about you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/20 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Hello divorcees, what red flags never to ignore selecting a partner? Where did you go wrong?Like her other relationships(friends and family) and credit score. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/20 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Need adviceAll bets are off.. and remember if though she is guilty, don’t underestimate what she is capable of. Men tend to fall out of love slowly as compared to women, and so most of the time they are still in love while the wifey is planning weapons of mass destruction. All of us have been there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/20 04:39 PM |
| 1 | She is dragging her feetShe has definitely not been good to me or taken any responsibility of the fall out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/20 09:44 PM |
| 1 | She is dragging her feetAs much i know her, I think its mostly to avoid dealing with reality . | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/20 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Post divorce datingWe all have our own process of dealing with a sudden loss.. I went on like 30 dates before covid made me realize that I needed to spend time with myself and not repeat the same mistakes that I have in choosing my last partner. For that I needed to go through complete transformation in certain aspects of life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/20 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Everything feels ruinedMay be it’s time to get into new things, things your ex would have never appreciated with you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/20 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Just going to do the bachelor thing for a while.That would bring to you the joy of freedom. I had a similar moment when i went to by DC myself. Didn’t have to plan for the entire family, leaving the dog, making sure everyone's need is met during the trip.. I could just be myself and enjoy it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/20 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Just going to do the bachelor thing for a while.Same here, sucks!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/20 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Just going to do the bachelor thing for a while.My man!! I am going to do a solo trip through Europe once this is lock down is over. I am in NYC btw, so lots to do on regular non pandemic days.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/20 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Looking for advice for a guy in his 30s w/o kids.There were so many red flags that i ignored. Like her not having any relationship with immediate family, lack of a career and self esteem and a messy house. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/20 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Can life still be normal and enjoyable after divorce with kids?You will have to start peddling soon..That's the only way out. One of the way to do so is to set yourself a vision of yourself.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/04/20 06:24 PM |
| 1 | A quick rant. Stop playing victim.Ohh I have seen it all. After a point my ex’s social media posts only served her with embarrassment. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/20 05:41 PM |
| 6 | A quick rant. Stop playing victim.Regarding everyone reaching out to her, remember that the caravan will soon pass. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/04/20 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else stuck in the house with their cheating soon to be ex wife during lockdown, waiting for the divorce, with 2 kids... and it’s her birthday today.WTF...tell us more.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/03/20 08:56 PM |
| 1 | This is so frustratingGet on the dating apps and check your worth.. You are putting too much effort into a lost case.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/20 02:56 AM |
| 1 | I cheated. Wife and I now stuck.I am so glad there are people like you who wrote from experience and are able to present a very different view. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/03/20 04:47 PM |
| 2 | The shame I feelMan!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/20 08:56 PM |
| 1 | The shame I feelawesome, become the hunk and ask all the single ones out.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/20 08:56 PM |
| 1 | When does it stop hurting?This might be the best thing that happened to you. I have been in your position where I really cared for someone who didn’t. Adults learn through fear and shock mostly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/20 03:40 PM |
| 4 | I recently found out my wife has been unfaithful to be for the past few months, and I can't be with someone who'd do that to me. Looking for any advice on where to start.Above all, do not underestimate her lack of guilt and propensity for vengeance.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/02/20 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Lurking for a while, need some help post V day and divorce. Ex already datingYou can go and date as well. I was in this rabbit hole as well till i had to be legally forced to be away from her. In hindsight it was the best thing that happened to me. I got into shape and found out there was some lovely women who would want to meet me.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/20 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Red FlagsI agree.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/20 08:24 PM |
| 2 | New hereI am filling for divorce today and now she is someone else’s pain.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/19 02:18 PM |
| 4 | New hereBut many of them are deeply depressed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/19 02:36 AM |
| 3 | New hereThese women are quitters for life. They are the same who would quit a job when they are being pushed to do better, will quit the graduate program they were so passionate about. Quit raising disciplined kids because it's so much work.. They end up regretting a lot in life in general. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/19 10:25 PM |
| 1 | No will to live (need to vent) 38MEvery time I think my situation is worst, I see someone like you who is going through hell and still at least trying to keep afloat. My advice is to have a stoic frame of mind for now. Don’t react to what she is doing. You have gone through a lot, you don’t want to invite more chaos right now unless it’s really unavoidable. Give it some time and then file for a divorce/seek counseling. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/12/19 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Probably heading towards the divorce I never wanted and can't afford.My hats off to you for sticking to the marriage for so long for your kids. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/12/19 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Did you ever get back before divorce?I think there are better chances of finding them the in the r/marriage subreddit | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/19 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Discovered my (36M) wife (39F) of 11 years was cheating on me.I did not have a job when my wife left me and sent police after me. Get a job first after doing everything to restrict your wife from taking your daughter to Japan. Getting a job will help by Increasing your self esteem. More finances for legal stuff. Keeping your mind occupied. Helping meet more people to share stuff with. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/19 08:59 PM |
| 1 | About to loose my mind!!!!!Lame question, Have you taken screenshots and other proof..? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/19 03:39 PM |
| 5 | Growing up in a single mother household and gaining the the brutal redpillThis is quite an honest and deep thought. | /r/MGTOW | 11/11/19 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Almost Ex-HusbandI totally agree. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/10/19 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Wife moved outThe things a vengeful woman can do to her husband.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/19 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Immigrant wife blindsided me with divorceWhat did USCIS exactly ask you? | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/19 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Looking at Losing it AllI am sure that you can build everything again from scratch. You are a strong man and this experience has made you stronger. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/19 03:55 AM |
| 0 | Caught between two states amongst other thingsi don't have a kid with her, but are you saying this is going to reflect on my record in future. My attorney said it won't. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/19 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Be prepared for fake allegationsThis is an eye opening account. My sbtx and I don’t have a kid together but I am afraid she is going to use my stepson for getting back to me. Doesn’t all this cost them money also? | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/09/19 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Men have no friends, women most affectedAnd women have friends they hate.. | /r/MensRights | 08/09/19 11:07 PM |
| 1 | No longer getting divorced. I want to thank each and everyone in this group for the advice that helped me become who I am now.I have been separated for 3 weeks now. i have been responsible mostly since in the fear of my own safety , i did something i should not have done during the fight. She planned and moved out after a week. I have sent apology emails many time, seen a therapist, met her in person and gave her flowers. She said she needs 3 months to sort things out, and i have given her the space since then. She said she will try couples therapy after that. But she has been talking really bad behind my back and i do… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/19 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Divorce: Paralyzed then Grief then Depression then Major Depression. It's a Slippery Slope.I have lost my job as well amongst all this.. and i have a hard time going through interviews with an unmotivated state. I have started hosting travelers though couchsurfing to avoid social isolation. That part is fun.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/19 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Advice after wife moved outMy wife suffered some extreme trauma as a kid at the hands of her family members. Life threatening if she is to be believed. She also grew in a very sexist home/state of utah. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/08/19 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Advice after wife moved outWow this totally makes sense. When we were dating one of the times , when my then gf try to make a mountain of a mole , her son said “ She is playing victim”. Somehow she is also trying to encourage the same behavior in him which I am against. Yes you are correct. I have shown her my love and if she does not make an attempt to repair this relationship, it’s a sign she will not make any attempts to keep this relationship going. It’s a thankless job for me after that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/08/19 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Advice after wife moved outNo it was not. My Wife is American. Recently i went to her work place and gave her some flowers, I also told her i was going to personal therapy. She was still angry but i could also see she felt emotional in my presence. She has asked me to give her space for 3 months..I think she is under stress about a new job and finding a new place to settle (she is living with her cousin right now). Then she is willing to attend couple's counseling with me.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/19 01:19 AM |
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