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That’s not necessary true, I’ve had women change their minds. But it was also immediately after I turned down the friendship, so it could have very well been a test. Either way the best bet is to walk away.
/r/seduction06/08/22 04:02 AM
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I’d recommend checking out stores like Burlington, Ross, etc. They sell high end clothing at a discount so it doesn’t break the bank, I usually always find some nice polos whenever I go see what they have. If you’re going for a more mature look, high end polo shirts are definitely the way to go, it really just depends on your style ultimately. Also, GET A TAILOR! My style changed tremendously when I was able to buy things and take them to the tailor to get a “custom fit”, they really work wonder…
/r/seduction06/08/22 03:57 AM
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I agree, I’m definitely here for entertainment and to share advice when everyone else’s advice is horrible. Everything I’ve learned about female nature and game that actually got me results was from books, videos, and actual interactions with women and learning from my mistakes.
/r/seduction02/08/22 10:01 PM
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In any case talking on the phone to build rapport is much better than texting, you get the opportunity to show your personality over a call vs text.
/r/seduction01/08/22 05:08 AM
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I understand that you say you don’t care, but as someone who used to be a beta before I knew I was one, that thought process was the gateway to becoming needy. It seems harmless but it’s really deeper than that. If you’re bored and the first thing that comes to your mind is a woman who left you on read that’s neediness while using boredom as a catalyst.
/r/seduction31/07/22 11:45 PM
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I agree, it’s way too easy for things to get misinterpreted via text. It’s best to play it safe when it comes to jokes and use texting for logistics.
/r/seduction31/07/22 11:41 PM
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Exactly, people spend way too much time “texting” and trying to dissect the meaning instead of actually making plans and bonding in person. If you used texting for setting dates you wouldn’t have this issue, at the very least if she declines you could try once more then just move on. Not every woman is emotionally available or is that into you, it’s something that’s beyond your control. If more men accepted this they would have much better interactions with women and save a ton of time.
/r/seduction31/07/22 11:38 PM
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This is why texting should be mainly for setting dates, it’s hard to translate personality via texts. Some small talk is fine in the beginning, I’d recommend moving from text to calls outside of setting dates honestly. Save the talking for when you actually see each other in person.
/r/seduction28/07/22 04:17 AM
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Correct, looks just set you over the top. If you don’t understand women then it doesn’t matter if your a pretty boy, you may attraction women but you’ll never keep them.
/r/seduction25/07/22 01:13 AM
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I’ve said the same thing as well before, I also got down voted. Their argument was that it’s “valuable experience”, but it’s really a waste of time. The fact is that you’re not going to wow every woman you meet even if you are high value, I’d rather spend my time and money with a woman who has high attraction than with one that barely likes me.
/r/seduction28/06/22 08:49 PM
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Right 💯
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:42 AM
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I’d just like to say that the fact that you are a software engineer is awesome! As far as advice goes, it really depends on who your ideal man is and who you want to attract. If you could provide some context that would help. Also pay no mind to the negative comments, attraction is subjective. I would say I’m general men want a women submissive, as you are easy to get along with and willing to relax and let the man lead. Men will be more eager to approach you if they see that you are open to bei…
/r/seduction25/06/22 03:34 AM
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Stop with the height insecurities, it’s getting old. It’s all excuses, you can either improve yourself to be the best version and whoever is wise enough to to realize that chooses you or you can stay lonely and complain about your shortcomings. Unless you are a dwarf height doesn’t matter as much as you think, even small people find love.
/r/seduction24/06/22 11:31 PM
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😂 wow, that’s a little harsh.
/r/seduction20/06/22 10:25 PM
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For me I noticed that women started to approach me and have high interest. I also feel more confident now, as in I don’t care how attractive a woman is, I won’t crumble under pressure.
/r/seduction19/06/22 09:35 PM
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If you don’t escalate ASAP, you run the risk of being friend zoned bro. Women will take hesitation as a sign of lack of confidence and move on.
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:05 AM
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You must seriously be a troll.
/r/seduction15/06/22 04:24 PM
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I’m aware of what he said, his point is that if you are 5’5 or higher then you are taller than the average woman therefore height is typically irrelevant in that context.
/r/seduction15/06/22 04:23 PM
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Glad I could help.
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:12 AM
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The best advice I can give is self improvement man. I know it’s cliche but it’s valid. Working out and pursuing advancement in your career and finances does wonders for your confidence. After my self improvement women literally started approaching me. While I understand that my hood looks so help, I still believe that unless you are hideous you can attract women after self improvement. Being muscular alone will outweigh you having average looks.
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:48 AM
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It’s just that simple, I’ve never had a woman reject me because of my height. I’m 5’7, most women I come in contact with are shorter than me. I also won the genetic lottery as far as skin completion and facial features goes, which I do believe DEFINITELY more than makes up for me not being tall. Among that I’ve done a ton of self improvement, I’ve literally just reached the peak of my career recently which is a blessing and life changing, on top of working out and improving my style. Literally i…
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:40 AM
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You’ve heard wrong man, holding hands is seeking affection which comes off as needy when a man initiates. Also why are you so concerned with holding hands?
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:31 AM
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You can’t compete against men when it comes to height, it’s literally the one thing you cannot control outside of getting limb surgery.
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:28 AM
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Bro, that’s a myth. Women are not built that way. Men’s attraction to women is solely based off physical attraction. Women are emotionally attracted to men, and how they make them feel. Which is why a woman will choose a lesser attractive man that is confident and makes her feel comfortable being submissive over a pretty boy who is needy and insecure. Any woman that thinks that way is shallow and it’s highly likely that their SMV is not the equivalent of what their dream man is anyways. At some …
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:27 AM
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I really wish this height insecurity thing would stop. You are insinuating that height outweighs looks, confidence, status, and success. It absolutely puts them in the top 20%, I’d say even higher. With that level of confidence and success they have what 90%+ men don’t have, and that’s pure confidence and resources, which is why they all have VERY attractive women. Idc what anyone says, height alone will never outweigh the other attributes of attraction. I myself am not a tall guy, and I’ve neve…
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:19 AM
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I’d recommend letting her initiate holding hands.
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:05 AM
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It’s actually quite the opposite, a woman in her late 20s early 30s would typically be more fast tracked to forming a relationship. At that age range their biological time clock is ticking. It’s just a nice way for a woman to say they are not interested.
/r/seduction12/06/22 11:18 PM
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Anywhere man, I was literally running errands the other day and a woman approached me and complimented me. I’d recommend the mall or somewhere where women go to spend their free time.
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:37 PM
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Can we please stop this stigma of height being the reason men aren’t attracting women? I’m 5’7 and I’ve never had an issue attracting women. Most women are shorter than me anyways, I’ve also had women who were significantly taller than me attracted to me. Women say they want a tall man, women also say they want a man who puts them on a pedestal and you know that they don’t REALLY want that. If you’re not attracting women it’s likely because of your confidence, behaviors, and how you carry yourse…
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:23 PM
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This, just show interest, that’s all it takes for a man to get the hint. Most men won’t approach if you don’t welcome them to by showing signs of interest. It’s really simple.
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:18 PM
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I agree, my success with women greatly increased when I stopped overthinking my actions and words, the interaction was that much smoother when I was just being natural. Women can sense hesitation, as it communicates a lack of confidence. OP is right on the money by taking the initiative to correct his actions.
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:07 PM
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I’ve never cheated, but I know from past experiences that people who get caught cheating will still continue to cheat. Not saying they all do but catching them won’t ultimately stop them.
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:03 PM
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IMHO, if I invite a woman to join me doing anything I’m definitely paying.
/r/seduction08/06/22 07:39 PM
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I actually agree with this. I’m 5’7 and I’ve never had a problem attracting women, all the women I’ve been attracted to were always shorter than me or close to equal height. I’m also good looking and fit, so I’m sure that boosts me somehow. But even back when I was skinny and had nothing going for myself I’ve never had an issue attracting the women I wanted.
/r/seduction08/06/22 07:35 PM
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I wholeheartedly agree with this. If you don’t escalate in some way physically they will write you off even if they are attracted. It’s a sign of confidence. Just playfully touching while joking around or even randomly is tried and true for me, they then begin to initiate touch themselves soon after.
/r/seduction08/06/22 07:21 PM
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I would honestly tell her that you are going to take her out when she gets back home, don’t ask, tell her, then go from there. If she asks where you will be going then tell her it’s a surprise. If she’s receptive then you know where you stand, if not then move on as far as expecting a romantic relationship.
/r/seduction08/06/22 07:01 PM
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It’s called validation, women like men to validate them via compliments and attention. Some women even lead men on for free validation alone to give them the confidence to go after the man they really want.
/r/seduction08/06/22 05:30 PM
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You’re right on the money bro. You got this.
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:04 PM
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Absolutely, attraction grows in space.
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:28 AM
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Do some research on “how to keep a masculine frame” there’s plenty of resources out there, I suggest YouTube.
/r/seduction03/06/22 07:02 AM
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From what you’ve described she is a high interest woman, which are the best. My advice would be to be mindful of how much time you spend on the phone, you don’t want to drain the excitement and anticipation of seeing each other in person because you talk all the time. You have way more leeway with a high interest woman, it’s very hard to mess up with them but it still happens, because she’s high interest you can communicate with her more frequently than a woman who wasn’t as into you. Just make …
/r/seduction02/06/22 07:04 PM
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I agree, frame control is a major key. It’s one thing to have game and understand how women think, the real test is applying it naturally. I’ve always developed from just being present in the moment and reflecting later. Then I correct whatever ever was out of frame. It’s like updating your self after you find a glitch, for me at this point it’s small things. It’s typically more of a challenge in a group setting because you can let loose around you male friends, but when they are around and so i…
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:59 PM
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Yes, she wants a relationship. She’s dropping hints, if you would like to be in a relationship with her then next time she brings it up, tell her to elaborate. Basically get her to the point where she’s outright says it, then ask if that is what she wants then it’s on you to make it official.
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:50 PM
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No, I’d suggest ending it respectfully with him. Leading him on will only hurt him more when he has to deal with the reality of you being with someone else. The sooner he can begin to heal the better, I’d also suggest giving him some space afterwards to clear his head.
/r/seduction31/05/22 10:49 PM
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They know your intentions, they typically do this when they just want your validation so they avoid your advances while keeping you around. I’d recommend not responding to anything other than the text conversation.
/r/seduction30/05/22 12:26 AM
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I understand your karma trauma, I had a similar situation myself where I used a woman out of loneliness and broke her heart. When finally I realized I actually cared for her, she was already at the point of being subliminally heartless towards me because of how I treated her. She eventually cheated on me, which most likely was caused by me being insecure and needy at the time. It was a situation of “if I’m constantly being accused of cheating, I might as well cheat” so she did. My honest opinion…
/r/seduction29/05/22 11:32 PM
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I definitely agree with the point about women being more attracted to men in a well rounded way. As men, if we aren’t physically attracted to a woman then that’s the end of it, while a woman would still be attracted to a man that isn’t necessarily her type if he appeals to her emotionally.
/r/seduction29/05/22 03:06 AM
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Keep us updated bro! We’re holding you accountable now.
/r/seduction29/05/22 01:59 AM
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Something I live by is continuously self improving. For me that’s all areas, my career, body, and mind. We never know when we will cross paths with someone who we are compatible with. If you are already the best version of yourself or at least ALMOST the best version of yourself it greatly increases your odds. If you meet that person and you still have things you need to work on, you put yourself in a position of trying to measure up rapidly and it breeds insecurity. I also highly recommend educ…
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:34 PM
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My point is, “not ready to settle down” is something we decide on our own, so many people miss out on someone they are compatible with for no good reason. By the time they are ready, then that person has moved on and the pool of matches may have become smaller because as time goes on so do other potential matches, whether it’s with someone they aren’t compatible with or vice versa. I’ve actually seen multiple live streams where people who are still single after accomplishing everything they want…
/r/seduction28/05/22 07:52 PM
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As far as increasing your odds, actively developing relationships will definitely increase your odds. We’ve all heard the saying “they’re not just gonna come know on your door”. Faith without works is dead. As far as the right person wrong time, I honestly don’t agree with that, because personally if I met the person that was compatible then I’d do what’s necessary to make it work. The only exception I’d say is if the other person is already genuinely committed to someone else.
/r/seduction28/05/22 01:52 AM
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This is why it’s always recommended to just make a move. If not you end up in situations like this wondering “what could have been”. Which makes sense why women lose attraction when a guy they are interested in doesn’t make a move, I can imagine they feel let down and or frustrated. At least then you’d know where you stand and can put your mind at ease. I’d say yes, that was her intentions, going forward don’t hesitate, make the move.
/r/seduction28/05/22 01:24 AM
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I agree within the appropriate context. Yes, I do believe there is more than one person that would be compatible with someone, but “the one” really comes down to the circumstances. While you could indeed have many others who would be compatible, the chances that you would actually meet them especially at the right time and place in life is a rarity. Which is why someone people refer to their spouse as “the one”, because they could have met another match but they ended up together despite the odd…
/r/seduction28/05/22 01:18 AM
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No problem, feel free to hit me up for advice. I’m an open book and happy to help.
/r/seduction27/05/22 09:56 PM
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That’s the thing about taking the lead bro, you make small advances, be slightly flirtatious and see how she responds. When I say flirtatious I don’t mean compliments, playfully teasing is flirting and is a non needy way. I suggest watching “Kevin Samuels” on YT, his videos really break down female nature and he had streams where women came on and he proved their nature and brought it to their attention. He also has tons of videos specifically where guys call in and he gives some advice on how t…
/r/seduction27/05/22 07:32 AM
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Stop complying with men you aren’t interested in, you don’t owe them anything, most women are pretty good at curving guys that give weird vibes. On another note: This honestly should be labeled as a rant. You should also add a tldr. That’s my advice.
/r/seduction27/05/22 12:28 AM
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I agree, this is definitely treading dark territory. At this point you’d literally be intentionally playing with someone’s emotions for validation. It’s no fun when women do it to us, I personally wouldn’t want that kind of karma.
/r/seduction27/05/22 12:22 AM
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Yup, that’s exactly what she’s doing. Women like this in particular are looking to keep you around for validation and lead you on just enough to where you don’t give up and talk to someone else.
/r/seduction27/05/22 12:11 AM
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I can co-sign this, it definitely works, but it is dark if you’re intentionally pulling the strings. I did this once without knowing it at the time, I literally had this chick who always flaked text me mad, and in her feelings because I went with someone else. Only difference is that I moved on at that point, I was out with a woman who actually showed up, figured why bother with someone who is wishy washy.
/r/seduction27/05/22 12:09 AM
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In this case I’d say wait it out bro. Texting is pointless unless it will lead to meeting in person, you will push yourself into a friendly vibe area. If she reaches out, respond keep it brief though. Also from what you’ve said, your issue seems to be strictly with your confidence bro. You disqualified yourself without even showing up to the game, it’s no coincidence that when you were high and loose that you weren’t in a state of overthinking it and it worked. Now I’m not saying use being intox…
/r/seduction26/05/22 11:54 PM
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Usually it’s them who cycle back around, it’s typically after you’ve done some self improvement and have made some major noticeable changes. In your situation I would reconstruct myself while she’s away, and when she gets back, meet up with her in person. You’ll know the answer without asking if you see a change in her behavior towards you. You also would have to change your behavior, be playful and fun, the rest will fall into place. Asking straight out would come off as needy at this point. Ju…
/r/seduction26/05/22 11:46 PM
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OP, honestly it’s completely up to you, it could really go either way honestly. If you don’t have anything else better to do then go, if your looking for a relationship then this is definitely a red flag and you should save yourself some time. I know from experience that when you tend to be hesitant to attend something, it’s usually not as bad as what you’d imagine.
/r/seduction26/05/22 11:40 PM
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I agree, these are all solid points for building attraction. Just to clarify when you say “escalating physically”, you’re referring to being the initiator of a hug, handshake, etc. right?
/r/seduction26/05/22 11:37 PM
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I agree, it’s not that deep bro. 😂 Stop overthinking it and ask her out, this is why you should not waste time texting, you tend to overthink things.
/r/seduction25/05/22 09:29 PM
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Cool story.
/r/seduction25/05/22 08:26 PM
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She didn’t read it all bro lol, she’s covering.
/r/seduction25/05/22 06:59 PM
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You had us in the first half, not gonna lie. 😂
/r/seduction25/05/22 06:58 PM
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Are you seeking to get into another relationship or just dating?
/r/seduction25/05/22 04:53 PM
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u/CompetitionFair7686 summoning jutsu
/r/seduction25/05/22 08:50 AM
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Either don’t respond or say “Cool, lmk know when your schedule frees up.” and leave it at that.
/r/seduction23/05/22 09:57 PM
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I do agree with not settling, but what happens too often is that men and women will have too high of expectations that don’t match their SMV. So they always end up looking for something better then facepalm themselves later when they realize they passed up the best they were going to get so to speak. It really just depends on where they are in life. It also requires you to really reflect on what your SMV value actually is.
/r/seduction23/05/22 07:35 PM
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Yeah I’d agree if he said she had an amazing personality, that would easily take her up to a 7, especially if she is fit. OP my advice is to think it over, because if you are considering settling down in the future you don’t want to pass up someone who is submissive and willing to actually commit. The higher the woman’s attractiveness typically comes with high maintenance unless you have HMV yourself. Just some food for thought.
/r/seduction23/05/22 07:31 PM
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The fact that you are co-signing that a delusional mindset is acceptable in either format in the first place leads me to believe that you yourself are delusional. Good Luck 👍🏽
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:54 PM
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This is a delusional mindset. The problem is they are thinking negatively when they should be thinking REALISTICALLY. When you tell someone to think positively about every encounter with a woman they become delusional when a woman is just not simply into you. You are not everyone’s cup of tea. Saying “assume everything is positive” is the equivalent of saying “every woman wants you, they are just playing hard to get” when that’s not true and it’s how guys become stalkers.
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:44 PM
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Why would anyone waste their time with a woman who does not have high interest? You’d rather spend your time trying to win the affections of a woman who barely likes you?
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:39 PM
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Then why are you here asking for advice? If that’s what works for you then more power to you. Guys come and ask for advice, and whenever we tell you to change your behavior that is getting you negative results, y’all generate every excuse in the book because you are stuck in your ways. The fact is this: you CANNOT seduce a woman via text alone, seduction happens in person. If you got laid off of text game alone I’d recommend you start your own sub and share the knowledge or those women just have…
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:33 PM
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Agreed, women naturally pick up on body language. Women are more observant than most men think, and non confident behavior turns them off every time.
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:24 PM
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Then you should not be dating, you are looking for a female friend, not a female companion. You will be friend zoned every time bro.
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:04 PM
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Yes.
/r/seduction23/05/22 03:58 AM
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He definitely likes you from my experience.
/r/seduction23/05/22 03:18 AM
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💀
/r/seduction23/05/22 02:59 AM
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Walk away. Also stop texting girls all day, use the the phone for setting dates. If they decline or give some bogus excuse then tell them to contact you when their schedule frees up and move on. Trust me do not waste your time.
/r/seduction23/05/22 02:23 AM
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I agree, to be fair it does get exhausting answering the same questions over and over. Very few people seem to do the research, 9/10 the question has already been answered recently or in the past.
/r/seduction23/05/22 02:18 AM
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Yeah bro, you’re headed to friend zone city. Pull the string and hop off now. You didn’t escalate, and your conversation was way too platonic.
/r/seduction23/05/22 02:01 AM
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summoning jutsu 😂💀💯
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:59 AM
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You really reposted this? The real question is : what is your obsession with it? This is the wrong subreddit bro.
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:57 AM
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Yes.
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:54 AM
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Bro, you’re making textbook mistakes. Does no one actually read the FAQ or look over the subreddit anymore. Not lashing out on you it just seems like it’s repetitive seeing the same situations daily, if people actually took the time to research whether this situation has already been resolved it would save you a ton of time. (Enough with my rant.) 😂 To keep it simple, you are being needy. You are talking on the phone for hours and texting all day, none of that builds attraction. In fact it actua…
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:51 AM
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Thats great bro, I would advise that you keep the same energy when leading women. Believe it or not it’s actually more intimidating leading a woman you really like versus taking initiative amongst you friends, it’s just a different dynamic.
/r/seduction23/05/22 01:42 AM
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Good take. Another thing to note is that women don’t think logically when it comes to attraction, it’s more emotionally based on how you make them feel. Which is why even if on paper you are the best option, she will choose who she FEELS more attracted to. One thing I’ve learned when it came to women is this, even if they are a modest religious woman, all women are wired the same, they still want you to lead and be confident. I’ve almost made this mistake before with a “good girl” me acting frie…
/r/seduction23/05/22 12:39 AM
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I was just going to say the same thing…
/r/seduction23/05/22 12:04 AM
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You’re right in respect to the unnecessary hesitation to cold approaching, but the T.I. comparison isn’t the best. For one T.I. has been famous for decades, celebrities who have been in the industry that long are vetted when it comes to hecklers. Also when you are already successful rejection in anything that isn’t your passion isn’t going to bother you as much as if it’s something you truly love. Now if this was a concert I can guarantee you he’d have some kind of emotional reaction.
/r/seduction22/05/22 05:40 AM
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Sure
/r/seduction21/05/22 06:50 AM
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I asked because (no offense) Snapchat love is some middle school behavior. If you’re both adults you should be communicating via a phone not an app. If he’s a grown man, and he hasn’t asked you out on a date in 3 months, then you should move on. A real man will pursue a women correctly and not play these silly games. Don’t you think your time is more valuable than a guy on social media?
/r/seduction21/05/22 06:29 AM
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How old are you? (for context)
/r/seduction21/05/22 06:25 AM
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I agree, mental health is far more important than seduction.
/r/seduction21/05/22 05:58 AM
1

I honestly at a lost for words rn….
/r/seduction21/05/22 05:57 AM
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Dude, it is a big deal. Don’t listen to these guys, if you have that conversation you won’t have to worry about “lowering her expectations” because she won’t sleep with you at all. There’s always another option: don’t have sex at all, or get married to someone who this doesn’t matter to, then you spare yourself having to explain.
/r/seduction21/05/22 02:43 AM
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DM me bro.
/r/seduction20/05/22 11:16 PM
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I told you man, she wants that validation. Now how you turn the tables is use this opportunity to set a date with her. If she declines tell her to get in contact with you when she changes her mind and leave it at that.
/r/seduction20/05/22 10:56 PM
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I don’t mind at all, feel free.
/r/seduction19/05/22 11:51 PM
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It’d help if you provided context bro.
/r/seduction19/05/22 11:22 PM
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There’s an easy solution, stop using wingmen to begin with. You shouldn’t need a wingman if you’re confident and have game. It’s one thing to have a friend that lines it up for you to knock it out the park, but it should end there. I personally believe that the whole “wingman” thing is outdated. It also causes problems when more than one of you is interested in the same women it becomes a ego contest. If they aren’t assisting you by (for example) distracting the woman’s friends or co-signing you…
/r/seduction19/05/22 11:08 PM
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Do you mind sharing how you got out of the friend zone for context? I shared a few stories myself, I feel as though that it’s such a controversial topic. Most people say that it’s over with, which honestly is MOSTLY the case. No one ever hears of the stories of guys who turned it around, by changing their approach.
/r/seduction19/05/22 10:47 PM
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Yeah bro, this is why context is so important. Your behavior is what turned her off. If you want to salvage this you HAVE to withdraw your attention. Let her put in the effort, and stop acting like her friend if you want to be her man. I see this time and time again, if you act like her friend you shouldn’t be surprised if she only sees you as a FRIEND. Guys we have to start stating you intentions early on and be a man and act on it. If you wait and you’ve been acting like her best friend for mo…
/r/seduction19/05/22 08:35 PM
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You aren’t in the “friend zone” until she tells you that she doesn’t feel the same way. How you proceed is to act less like a “friend” and more like she’s already your woman. This scares a ton of guys because they think “what if she doesn’t like me?”. If that’s true then she’d turn down your advances. You should focus on not being needy. I’ll tell you right now that texting frequently without it directly leading to her seeing you in person will land you right in the friend zone. Also the informa…
/r/seduction19/05/22 06:54 PM
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No I’m serious.
/r/seduction18/05/22 03:03 PM
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The don’t have to understand women, you just have to understand how women think. When think emotionally while men think logically, which is why so many guys can’t wrap their head around why a woman would choose a “bum” over them, and it’s because women don’t think logically like men do with everything.
/r/seduction18/05/22 05:57 AM
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I’d just like to say S/O to you for being a woman and breaking this down so precise! If I had an award to give, you’d have one. It’s rare for women to actually be conscious of their nature, further more give real insight to help these guys out. Edit: Just presented you a helpful award. 🤝
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:22 AM
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I’m gonna give you a serious answer that’s the most logical. Like someone else said, this scenario is very rare is would likely never happen. Let’s say it does happen, the best way to deal with that situation if it did turn into an altercation would be to have been prepared in advance. If you take up any form of martial arts you will be able to defend yourself in a situation like this. BJJ is specifically catered to situations like this, you’d be able to evade someone bigger than you, and like m…
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:17 AM
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Church.
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:06 AM
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I get it, but as you know, the best result would have been to walk away. You’d hurt worse if you chased after this woman and you find out that she’s moved on in her new town.
/r/seduction17/05/22 11:42 PM
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Study, read books on female nature. Eventually it’ll be second nature.
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:26 PM
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I’m telling you man, if she’s interested in you she WILL be in touch. It never fails, and if she reaches out she’s interested. If they aren’t interested in you then they won’t be in your orbit, unless of course they are using you.
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:55 PM
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I agree, it’s a mental thing. I let the woman I am pursuing now do all the initiating. It just easier that that dynamic of sending a text and waiting for a response, you eliminate all that anxiety with high interest women. I tend to be “radio silent” unless I’m setting up the next time we will meet, not to say we don’t talk in between, she initiates and I respond. Occasionally I will send a text that is a statement like “Goodmorning, have a good day” and keep it pushing, it’s not needy because y…
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:53 PM
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I’d say start with understanding female nature. If you run in head first with cold approaching you will be discouraged. And even if you did get a woman’s attention you would lose her shortly after due to not understanding women. Once you begin to understand that how we were programmed to think about women was wrong, and you start to have those moments where light bulbs go off when you realize that you can think back to multiple encounters with women that align with the theory of female nature, y…
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:48 PM
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Exactly, women with high interest make things so easy man. This is why I preach that men should be dealing with women who already have high interest, this would eliminate so much stress and self doubt.
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:42 PM
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It’s a good idea, you save yourself a ton of time especially if they seem flaky, you can just tell based off their enthusiasm that they will likely flake. This is why I prefer to deal with women who have high interest, you skip a lot of the games and you actually get the company of someone who is genuinely interested in you.
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:39 PM
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Great take, it aligns perfectly with the point I made about how a man’s financial situation typically correlates with his confidence, and women notice that whether the man expresses it or not. As men we are providers and when we feel like we cannot provide it feels like we are not meeting our purpose as a man.
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:10 PM
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My advice is that you shouldn’t be dating at all. You should working on improving your life. You said yourself that you that only have so much, what could you as a man who is supposed to be a protector and provider offer a woman if it did turn monogamous with 15k a year bro? This may sound blunt, but you are young, enroll in college or get a trade at a technical school, that’s a fast track to tripling your income. I’d recommend tech if you are tech savvy and more white collar. Your confidence le…
/r/seduction17/05/22 09:07 PM
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I understand how you feel man, I went through this before I got on more purpose. The solution is to spend more time on self improvement. I know it sounds cliché but it will solve both of your issues, for one, when you are busy doing other things (working out, guitar lessons, mma, hanging with friends) you have less time to think about these things or most importantly what she’s doing. You build attraction via the date give her an experience that’s fun and memorable, then she will pursue you MORE…
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:49 PM
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She’s only being nice, unfortunately. Nurses tend to be friendly because it’s their job to be sociable. The only way you can know for sure is to ask her out, that’s the quickest way to know and put your mind at rest bro. Trust me, pondering on what’s what will make talking to her more of a challenge, not to mention it’s not healthy for mental clarity.
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:37 PM
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I don’t necessarily do cold approach, in my experience women have offered me their number after being around me in group setting, or they give hints that they want to get in contact. I don’t do pick up so I won’t pretend to be an expert. But it general if a woman has high interest she will give you her number, I only deal with high interest women UNLESS they are a unicorn, and even then they’d still need to show moderate interest in me, anything else isn’t worth my time. Why spend weeks or month…
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:31 PM
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You should be getting a woman’s number, not her instagram. Anyone would gladly give out their social media to gain another follower, if they don’t then they have an extremely low interest level and it’s not even worth your time.
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:02 PM
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I’d say let it go, you’ve only known her for 2 months. The question you need to ask yourself is “what can you realistically do?”. It’s not like you would move with her, at 2 months you don’t even know her. While there are few unicorn women out there, chances are you will find someone else. If your under the age of 18 then I can tell you from experience that many of the women we think are “the one” at that age, typically are not the one. Break it off with her but not on bad terms, it will greatly…
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:59 PM
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Not in one comment. I’d recommend reading books on female nature. I recommend some recently if you check my comment history.
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:55 PM
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*wife
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:51 PM
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Exactly 💯
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:43 PM
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Those are all personal issues to be fair. Self improvement can resolve all of that, people have to be determined to make a change to get new results. How many times will it take you to fail before you decide to take a new approach and seek to understand? While I wouldn’t go as far as calling people “retarded”, I will be fair in saying that it’s simple but it’s not. It takes a ton of determination to elevate, it’s not for the faint hearted, which is why there will always be a small percentage of …
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:41 PM
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Exactly, once you understand the theory and the facts of how women think, it’s really cut dry. Roughly 97% of men are clueless when it comes yo female nature, that doesn’t mean they can’t get women, it just means that they could be far more successful in relationships if they understood women. I’ve literally witnessed marriages in my family where the husband didn’t have a clue, meanwhile the wife was frustrated most of the time because the husband is clueless.
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:21 PM
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To answer your question, in general historically relationships do tend the fail when a woman is in her masculine, which is typical of most successful women (not all) because they are independent which makes being submissive a challenge, especially if she is leading the relationship. So it varies on your personal preference honestly, if you want a submissive women then be in a position to where she feels comfortable submitting.
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:17 PM
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Maybe because your account is new possibility bro
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:59 AM
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I’d suggest cutting your workouts down to a few days a week, an hour each day, maybe even make them full body workouts 3 days a week for 2 hours. That alone will save you 8 hours a week and some energy. I do 3-4 days a week, an hour each day, I work 60 hours a week, and keep my weekends for free time to relax and go out with friends.
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:54 AM
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Wow that’s crazy, I thought it was a valid conversation 😂
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:49 AM
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I don’t think that height outweighs game, I’ve seen plenty of tall people share experiences about how their shorter friends attract way more women than they do. SMV isn’t that cut dry, as men we are logical but women tend to have a “let’s wait and see approach” meaning women determine your SMV over time via tests and what not. Which is why women subconsciously test in the first place, in order to see if the outer aligns with the inner. At the end of the day, women will most likely choose the con…
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:34 AM
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My person opinion from experience is that attraction is a 2 sided coin. There’s physical attraction and there’s behavioral attraction. You can definitely have one without the other and attract women but if you have both you are practically a unicorn. Physical attraction typically gets your foot in the door while behavioral attraction allows you to stay. Think of it as an attribute scale in a video game, if you are maxed out on one side of the spectrum then you are considered a glass cannon (powe…
/r/seduction14/05/22 05:05 PM
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I personally cringe at pick up lines in general, I just feel like we have evolved past pick up line days. Most modern women would likely laugh and walk off unless they have high initial interest then it’s very little you can say to mess that up.
/r/seduction13/05/22 07:09 PM
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You can kill the friendly vibe by turning your confidence on and being witty. That’s literally all I did on that second date, I moved like I owned the place and she immediately started to follow my lead.
/r/seduction13/05/22 01:08 PM
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Bro….. you literally lost a 9 year relationship for a women that is using you as a beta male provider. You wanna stop simping? Cut up your debit card and cut her off as well. I pray that you are trolling man, because if not you got it bad bro.
/r/seduction13/05/22 03:14 AM
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You should be making definite dates bro, and your dates should be in the evening doing something that inspires romance. Going to the park gives off friendly vibes (trust me I’ve made that mistake before and was almost friend-zoned). Also verifying if she’s free the day of comes off as needy, it’s like saying “I’m just checking to see if you didn’t change your mind about hanging out with me because I don’t feel good enough”. Also you need to be more confident in yourself or all of this is pointle…
/r/seduction13/05/22 02:46 AM
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I definitely agree. You have to be direct and decisive with women, you have to take the lead if you want it to go anywhere. You should make a definite date ALWAYS.
/r/seduction13/05/22 12:30 AM
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ABORT ABORT ABORT! This is not a drill! She’s pegging you as a beta male provider, this a major red flag. Any further attention you give this women is a waste of time bro and money.
/r/seduction13/05/22 12:23 AM
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Just be honest with her bro, tell her straight up that your not interested. Women do it all the time to men. You’d hurt her feelings more if you led her on instead of being honest. What were the red flags if you don’t mind sharing?
/r/seduction13/05/22 12:21 AM
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I understand that with you being a woman you don’t want to feel like you are “throwing yourself” at a man. My honest advice as cliche as it sounds would be to tell him directly, yeah you could seduce him so to speak but then you tread the territory of playing games. Be upfront with him if a relationship is what you want, otherwise he may take it as friends with benefits if you choose to be passive about it. As a man, I’d highly appreciate a woman that just straight up told me that she wanted a r…
/r/seduction13/05/22 12:18 AM
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I’d say they is to not flood her with compliments, it instantly comes off as though you are trying to please her which lowers a woman’s attraction because you’d come off as if she’s on a higher level than you. Like others have mentioned, the go to is to be witty, it takes confidence to pull it off and social awareness to not say something that is out of pocket. Think playful teasing.
/r/seduction13/05/22 12:12 AM
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I actually briefly shared a similar situation in a comment earlier today. From my experience, it has been the issue of not making your intentions know. I had a similar conversation where we had a deep conversation on the date and it gave off a friendly vibe and she tried to friend zone me. Ultimately I turned it around during our next interaction by killing the friendly vibe. When we have deep conversation when a women we just met we remove all the mystery. They have no incentive to get to know …
/r/seduction13/05/22 12:00 AM
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I completely understand, but the fact of the matter is that if you were highly interested in these guys you’d be more open to sharing your number. You can easily block a number, it’s not like you’re giving them your address. I also understand not every situation is cut dry and everyone has their own preferences.
/r/seduction12/05/22 11:42 PM
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I think the common issue that arises is that most guys don’t understand how to balance it. Texting can only do so much to build attraction, the end goal should be to get her on a date in person. Guys typically go to the extreme with advice as you mentioned, they either text for hours on end and then freak out when she’s lost interest. Or they don’t show any personality at all in the text leading up to getting her out on a date and come off as boring. It’s a balance, you should show enough person…
/r/seduction12/05/22 11:36 PM
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My advice would be to walk away. She’s showing signs of low interest and nothing you say will raise it at this point, the only solution is to take action by walking away. For future reference you should ask for a women’s number instead of social media. Asking for social media seems like a passive way of not being confident enough to get her number. Asking for social media instead of number is like asking to be her fan so to speak. I’m personally an advocate for only investing time into a women w…
/r/seduction12/05/22 11:10 PM
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