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Kroaz/r/askTRP28/05/15 11:05 AM
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Mostly yes and her use of alcohol. When she drank, she drank heavily. Though she never cheated on her then boyfriend, there were some borderline things that happened. Like falling asleep in the bed of the host(and friend of us) of a house party and sleeping there next to him all night. I know that nothing happened, but it's still something I wouldn't want my girlfriend to do. I made that clear to her and if she falls back into old habits with alcohol it's game over to me. And yes depression is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 05:31 PM
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It's not really important, also she already expressed that and she tells me how much she likes me almost everytime we meet. Followed by a 'I feel like I'm telling you too often', but I think it's cute. Also how much she enjoys being in a relationship with me and how happy she is to have met me. She is putting quite an effort into the relationship, especially considering how she normally acts and I think saying stuff like that didn't come too easy to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 05:12 PM
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She seems to be sure about me by now, but wasn't in the beginning, neither was I. I have no real longterm reference, but I feel like it would be hard to find another girl I have such a good chemistry with. She also told me that her psychologist asked her about us. He told her that the will butterflies go away (probably so she doesn't expect them to stay forever), that you should work on problems in your relationship and asked if she is in love. She didn't tell me verbatim what she said, but clea…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 04:51 PM
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She did pay lip service, that's why I don't really see a reason to break it up. Things have been going very smoothly for the last 2-3 months. She seems to be committed to the relationship, hence her even bringing up future plans. It feels like the drama in the beginning was just one big defense mechanism, which is now broken. She is giving herself to me and making herself very vulnerable. Starting to do 'housewife' like stuff like baking, cooking or doing the dishes. She used to despise that and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 03:34 PM
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She brought it up in the beginning and didn't really push for it. She likes the idea, but I'm pretty sure she couldn't handle the reality. But you're right it's on me and I shouldn't be surprised if shit happens. She had a string of bad relationships, which were restrictive and manipulative and probably thought an open relationship would eliminate that. She might realize that a relationship does not automatically equal restrictions and being manipulated into different views. And that you should …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 03:05 PM
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That's exactly what I have no issues with. As long as everything gets communicated, things are fine. If you are exclusive and want to fuck other people, just say so and end it. If you enjoyed your time together, but feel like it's coming to an end, just end it. IMO you can spend some good years with a person and don't have to force that it works for longer. Just be upfront about everything. What bugs me is the possibility of being lied to or cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 01:46 PM
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I won't make a long-term commitment, nor do I want to move in with her. I already am fairly cautious. My plan is to see how things work out in the next few months. If she stays on the road she is now, we'll see how it turns out. Also I think there is a chance of mff threesomes happening. That way I could experience other women and could satisfy her bi-curiosity. I don't see me staying with her for the long-term without a possibility of experiencing some other women. Its a bit fucked, because I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 01:40 PM
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Most definitely. I don't want to have spend my life with only one woman. I'll finish my studies in one year and then I'll reevaluate. She's bicurious though and recently told me about a dream, where we were about to have a threesome with a blond girl. I think that wasn't without pretense and I'm open to MFF threesomes. So if we should go down that route, I could see things working out. If not, shit happens, maybe we will have had a nice time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 01:33 PM
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What do you mean by that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 01:25 PM
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I agree that it's primarily an emotional reason. I think that people are able to change. People can overcome depression and other psychological hangups, so why not should they not change in that department as well? I found something on TRP that described my feeling pretty well "I now understand that the competition anxiety I felt wasn't truly thinking anyone fucked her better than me- the most I'll commit to is that maybe her other partners would be different flavors of the sex rainbow- but that…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 01:17 PM
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I'm waiting for a reason to run. I enjoy our time together and think she's a cool girl and caring. But one misstep and I'm gone. There's two ways this can go: She continues her process of self-improvement and stays devoted or she fucks up hurts me and I have good internal reason to go full TRP for some time. Both outcomes seem fine to me. If I run now, seemingly without reason, I feel like I wouldn't learn as much. I want to go through that shit myself, I want to experience that pain, if I have …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 12:49 PM
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She does want it, but she didn't want to want it, if you know what I mean. Otherwise she would have slutted around after her breakup. She admires me and tells me so often. She tells me how happy she is to be with me and stuff like that way more than I tell her. She said she has no end in mind when it comes to the time span she wants to spend with me and that for the first time she feels like she isn't missing out on stuff, because of a relationship. I'm not the type to say blue pill stuff or pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 12:41 PM
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So I guess you're always an animal and never have any doubts? How did your first time go? Good if that works for you, but life isn't one size fits all.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 02:20 PM
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So are you actually able to block out all performance anxiety during sex? Are you not worried about not satisfying the girl? I think this might actually be a better mindset to have. How quickly do you normally skip from making out in your room to actual sex? I just want a rough time frame to kind of know what to expect. I started meditating again to help with turning my overthinking off. But expecting a virgin to fuck the soul out of her set the bar quite high. I will try to rely on my instincts…
/r/askTRP30/06/17 10:06 AM
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Yeah, I mean she already saw that I'm unexperienced, no reason to go even lower and tell her I'm a virgin. I need concrete example to know what "works" or is "allowed". What's your state of mind when having sex? Do you just rip her clothes of? How long do you normally foreplay? How forgiving have your girl been, when you fucked up?
/r/askTRP30/06/17 09:54 AM
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Yep I think that is a big hang up for me. Though it might sound fucked up, during my early adolescence, I found my mother a little attractive. Like not full on "I want to fuck her", but the odd dream here and there. I guess that's been my measure for what I'm looking in a woman ever since: Motherly love.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 10:24 PM
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Nope she is not my only option, there is another girl I went out with last week, should have worked harder to close after having a beer in a bar, but didn't, because I overthought and felt performance anxiety again. Another girl from work, but she is psycho, it would be dumb to start anything with her. She would be down for it, but I'm not considering it in the least. There is a girl in my social circle, whom I get along with pretty well as well and I'll see how things go, once the exams are ove…
/r/askTRP26/03/17 12:45 PM
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Thanks! I guess I'm waiting for that special patient girl, with whom I get along perfectly, is patient and does not expect much. It would probably be better to just man up and see what happens, instead of waiting for the perfect opportunity.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 12:38 PM
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If it were full time and my career I would never consider it
/r/askTRP26/03/17 12:36 PM
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Did you even read what followed? It's a wage slave dead end side job. I only work 12 hours a week and she 8 hours. If shit hits the fan it would be no trouble for me to just quit that job.
/r/askTRP26/03/17 12:35 PM
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Thanks, that's very helpful. I somehow expect them to magically lose all attraction for me, when I have issues in the bedroom. But I guess to a certain extent most girls will be understanding and try to help. In case of your example, my mind would tell me that after you weren't able to keep it up the first time she would most likely lose interest, which is normally bullshit and me just stressing out too much in advance.
/r/askTRP05/03/17 11:49 PM
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How did you get over your first bad bedroom experiences?
/r/askTRP05/03/17 11:19 PM
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Why should I join a local fascist organization?
/r/askTRP05/03/17 11:19 PM
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I didn´t take it as life advice, I just think that it is not too far from the truth in today´s world. I think for most people it´s only a question of how long they can uphold their naivete about the world and there is only a few, who stay truely happy and positive, while getting older. So many get disillusioned along the way, for some it won´t happen till their 30s or 40s, but I feel like there´s not much humanity could do that would surprise me. I believe there are a few people that really care…
/r/askTRP14/12/16 05:48 PM
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Dude, looks like we´re pretty similar. I´m currently on NoFap again, streak is about 9 days or something and I´m flatlining, I normally feel pretty dominant around day 3-6, but then it drops, but I think I´ll just keep at it till 2017 to see if it goes uphill again. Otherwise I might return to a fap every 4-7 days. I didn´t fap for over 1 year when I was 17/18, which I think is absolutely retarted, since it didn´t really change much. Well dude, if you´re in a city where you don´t know anyone jus…
/r/askTRP14/12/16 05:18 PM
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I don´t care about the woman in particular, I care about my reputation. I don´t want to be known for being a loser in the sack, since this would make future sexual endeavours more difficult and I would lose respect from my peers. How would you feel about a friend that can´t get it up in bed? How do you think your social circle would treat him? I think I wouldn´t get bullied, aside from a few jabs here and there, but I would probably lose my standing in the group. I agree, but I don´t know if a w…
/r/seduction14/12/16 05:10 PM
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Thanks, but that´s what I tried, when I noticed my erection going away the first time. It didn´t really come back afterwards. She was over at my place to more times, but I blocked everything after heavy petting, since I started to get anxious, when got near my dick. Part of the problem was that I didn´t really know her and found her to be quite shallow ( met her on tinder ). I heard that she was quite slutty and her pussy smelled like tuna, which was quite of putting. Nevertheless this has scarr…
/r/askTRP14/12/16 05:04 PM
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Great read, but things like this push me back into the anger phase. Do you really enjoy it, knowing it´s all so predictable and with the woman being so seemingly unaware of this script? I feel like so much in your social life is predictable and most people are ignorant of it and it drives me nuts. For example if someone´s being successful in their career I know that from now on they´ll be considered more attractive by women, most people won´t be aware of this. They´ll just accept that he got mag…
/r/askTRP14/12/16 04:07 PM
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Yeah I thought about that as well, hookers are legal in my country. But I do not know how having fucked a hooker would affect me for the rest of my life. Since I would have to live with having lost my virginity to a hooker and probably lying to my future girlfriends about it. I´m coming from a very sexually conservative background, so I do not know how to bring myself to go through with it.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 02:58 PM
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Yeah that´s partly due to my deeper lying self esteem issues. I´m worried about offending her by saying that. Like, how do you go about it? "Please shower and brush your teeth because you smell badly"? I hate making people uncomfortable. I feel like I am not worthy of attraction and don´t want to discomfort people. That´s how my parents and grandparents are (big people pleasers) and I definitely want to change that. Do you have any ideas on how to change that?
/r/askTRP22/07/16 02:49 PM
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Thank you, that helped a lot! The past two days I´ve been focusing on my dick too much, worrying that I´ll have issues, should I try again. And I´m somehow not as easily aroused as before anymore, for example when I see tits in a tv show or models on the news. Also no/not as many random boners during the day. I have a tendency to overanalyze things, while still being very self aware, so I guess I´ll have to try to let it flow and let things be how they´ll come.
/r/askTRP15/05/16 05:01 PM
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Yeah it sounds insecure, the thing is, my confidence in general is good, but when it comes to girls I deep down feel like I do not deserve the interest of them. I think that is the assumption I´m unconsciously working on, unless she is making her intent obvious. I don´t fucking know what has to happen for me to start taking action. I see that it´s really bugging me, my virginity is hanging like a big shadow over my whole life. I´ve been reading Pick-Up related material for 5 years and never got …
/r/askTRP05/03/16 11:40 AM
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This is what I needed, this really struck home with me, damn. Thank you so fucking much for this text, I´ll read this whenever I feel down, maybe even every morning, because this the mindset I want to get. Have a great day my friend!
/r/askTRP21/02/16 12:25 AM
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It depends on the woman, some enjoy it if you don´t get too whiney, I know a guy for whom it works fairly well. It´s mostly about getting THEM to talk about their feelings, morals and stuff, so they basically invest heavily into you, because they feel like you really know them. Yeah just keep lifting... that´s the issue, I can´t train properly atm and it has been that way for over 8 months, I cannot do any pushing movements, nor Curls or Pull and Chin Ups. I see how it is extremely beneficial, b…
/r/askTRP21/02/16 12:20 AM
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I´m not from the states, where I´m from your are legally allowed to do anything you want from the age of 18 on. I do not feel like I need a woman in my life, though it would improve my quality of life in a way. What I am basically missing is the knowledge that I can attract women and sleep with them. I don´t think that after getting with a woman all my problems will vanish and I´m not after a LTR, I just want to feel sexually desirable. I have issues accepting that another person will find me de…
/r/askTRP21/02/16 12:03 AM
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It´s impossible to not attach your self-worth to women. We are biologically hardwired for sex. I´m 20 years now and not having experienced sex is detrimental to your self worth, no matter how hard you try. You know that there is something missing, your instincts are acting up all day around women, yet you have never experience how it feels to live them out fully. I´m living my life for me, it is not getting me anywhere. I am at ease with myself, content with my traits, proud of some accomplishme…
/r/askTRP20/02/16 11:26 PM
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Because there is hardly any advice on that on here. It´s mostly "workout, read and work on your career", but that won´t fix you psychologically. It is not like the skills to hold a relationship will suddenly pop up out of nowhere. For some it might be enough, but there are many out there that need specific advice. Maybe we should think about going to a psychologist, because the problem seems to be deeply burrowed inside or brains. :D I think for me the problem stems from the emotional absence of…
/r/askTRP23/01/16 07:18 PM
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Good advice, thanks. How do you go about giving compliments and making your intentions clear during the date?
/r/askTRP23/01/16 06:39 PM
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Cheers, I´ll give it a read. How old are you? And how do you define being more into the party scene? Just ONSs?
/r/askTRP23/01/16 06:36 PM
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How do you show interest? Touching? Telling her she is hot? How do you go about it?
/r/askTRP23/01/16 06:24 PM
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What´s holding me back the most is my frame control.I think the more ignorant you are, the easier it is to be confident in your views. I tend to thinking and analyzing stuff alot, so I am not all that polarizing. I am 20 now and I still think I do not deserve it. I don´t know why. It started when I was about 12/13 years old and a girl asked me to be her boyfriend, I felt I was not ready for it and got really scared of the thought. I then had a girl come over to my place when I was 16 or so, she …
/r/askTRP23/01/16 06:23 PM
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So what are you doing here on this sub posting hate comments? Is this the goal you set yourself? Either try to help and tell us how to simply "go get pussy" or do something useful.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 05:33 PM
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Yeah, you´re right, your´s is better, it makes me come off as not needy and I could still contradict that text by escalating during the movie
/r/askTRP11/01/16 12:05 AM
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I still think the question is relevant, since it DOES seem logic, but as we all know, you can´t always treat women logically. And this is where experience comes in handy, because the more you have, the easier you can distinguish when to apply logic and when not. In theory your advice sounds like the way to go that´s why im favoring it at the moment, but I wanted to know if you have practical knowledge to back your theory up. (Looking into your post history, you seem to be "bluer" than many here …
/r/askTRP11/01/16 12:02 AM
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I´m 100% sure I won´t fall into orbit, since I haven´t invested anything into her yet. What do you think of responding with something like "Shit, I was already set on Netflix&Chill" ?
/r/askTRP10/01/16 11:38 PM
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You dodged my question, are you experienced with women? Many LTRs, ONSs, whatever floats your boat? Since I agree with you, I thought this could be, because we both are still too unexperienced.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 11:35 PM
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What do you think is bad, about letting the meet up happen and see how it goes? After that I could still soft next her, it´s not like I suddenly would be in love with her, just because she was over at my place. The thing is, I feel like it was too soon to invite her over, since watching a movie together equals sex nowadays. We only had one date, which was not under good circumstances. I realize I am hamstering again, but I still feel like letting her come over once and seeing how things go is th…
/r/askTRP10/01/16 11:31 PM
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That´s what I thought as well, but I wanted to hear other opinions as well. How experienced/good are you in terms of women? To me it seems that you might be similarly unexperienced like me, but I might be mistaking.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 11:23 PM
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No I didn´t, I offered her to come over on monday at 7.30pm and then she shot me the text above. And her peer group is partly one of my peer groups as well, if I had no connections to her social circles I would definitely cancel and next. But since she already knows place and time and agreed to it, I feel like it might come off as butthurt to just flat out cancel the date. I think that telling her that I wanted to be more than friends and then seeing how she responds might be the way. But I do n…
/r/askTRP10/01/16 11:18 PM
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So you are suggesting I should "cancel" the date and thereby she´ll regret the friend zoning? I doubt that this would work. Since by friend zoning me she is basically doing the female version of a soft next, even with benefits and by agreeing her I don´t think i would provoke the reaction you drew out.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 11:15 PM
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So how should I best go about cancelling the date?
/r/askTRP10/01/16 11:05 PM
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Take a step back and ask yourself, if she was a guy and had a dick, would you still enjoy her company as much? For me personally, most of the enjoyment I got from spending time with her was the thought that there might be a chance that we would hook up. Looking at it rationally made me realize that my vision of her was distorted by my feelings towards her. It is hard, but I´m pretty much over her. If we should ever drunkenly hook up in the future - fine by me, but I´m not spending anymore fucks …
/r/seduction20/11/15 06:47 PM
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I was in a very similar situation, you have to realize that she is just playing with you, she probably acts similarly with other guys and has at least on that she is fucking at the moment. One of my friends is very similar, does your girl also preferably befriend guys and only has few female friends? Start caring less about her, go into shotgun mode, hit up Tinder, clubs and talk to as many women as possible, arrange dates every week, create abundance and then see if you are still as attracted t…
/r/seduction20/11/15 06:30 PM
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You´re right, thanks for pointing that out. "as if your way is the best option and everyone should want to be like it." That hits close to home, that´s something I do too often, most of the time I don´t even notice. Do you have any advice on how to combat this? I have that problems in both directions. On one hand I often think that my way of thinking in terms of philosophy and conflict resolving is one of the best, on the other hand I also assume that everybody is as knowledgable as I am and the…
/r/askTRP15/11/15 06:17 PM
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My points are on topic. He said he "used to enjoy flirting, chasing women, finding/making connections, seducing them and moving on." and to me it seemed like his mindset started to change, after he started putting labels on women´s behavior (shit tests, AWALT, etc.). This happens to me as well, whenever I was spending too much time on TRP. He said he´s no longer interested in connecting with women AFTER exposure to RP truths. TRP makes it easy to slip into a mindset, where all women have no self…
/r/askTRP15/11/15 05:51 PM
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Women don't behave like that on purpose, it´s simply in their nature, so there should be no need to feel upset by it. Just acknowledge and make the best out of it. I think too many people in the TRP subreddit are keyboard warriors and that they tend to circle jerk the same answers to the top of every thread, while having no experience to back it up. So it is hard to get good advice. I personally unsubbed from TRP, but I still check it for the weekly top threads, since they tend to be good and no…
/r/askTRP15/11/15 11:41 AM
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Models is all you need. After that just start practicing and don't make the same mistake I made and become a theory junkie. After that I would start reading stuff that interests you and build a wide base of knowledge. Read business books, psychology books, physiology books, philosophy books, whatever floats your boat. You´ll find advice that is relatable to pick up in there as well. I´m reading "Thinking fast and slow" at the moment, it gives some really good insights into the workings of the br…
/r/seduction14/11/15 03:46 PM
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I agree with you, the circle jerk of being a good listener has gotten out of hand. While it´s important to be a good listener, it´s just as important to be a good talker and especially to know when to talk. From my experience it depends on the girl a lot, while some like to talk about themselves for hours, others prefer to listen to you telling stories and making jokes. And I still don´t really think that How to win friends and influence people is a good book, when it comes to pick up. It is goo…
/r/seduction14/11/15 03:39 PM
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In a society obsessed with sex, this is hard to do. I mean after all sex is our biggest drive in life, unless you asexual. You probably are no virgin, as far as I can tell by the way you write. I don´t expect reach enlightenment through sex, but it´s one big part of growing up. And denying this drive inside of us is wrong, we want to reproduce and it is important to us and our mental health and never having fulfilled the thing you're here on earth for, which is to reproduce, sucks.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 11:06 AM
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Yeah, the PUA stuff´s reputation is probably worse than it should be. Canned lines or routines are shit, I agree, but they give you stuff to work with, they give you inspiration. If you never were any good with women, you simply lack the skill set of talking to them. There are people, to whom it might just comes naturally after working on themselves a bit, but I personally have to see how other people do it and learn from them, which I think is quicker than finding it all out by yourself.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 11:01 AM
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I´m considering it, since prostitution is legal anyways here in Germany. Maybe I´ll do it when I´m gone for a weekend in a bigger city. Although I´m not sure how much it would help me, since I have trouble accepting that women can be attracted to me (mommy/daddy issues) and if I pay them to act like they are, I don´t really see that helping me much. If I´m still a virgin by 2016, I´ll get it over with.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 10:56 AM
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Yeah, you are right, I feel like the self improvement train will only get me so far. Getting laid is a skill that needs to be trained as well, but I feel it is neglected a bit around here. Gym culture is not as big here in Germany and there are many scrawny kids pulling like crazy. So while i definitely see the point in lifting and will get back to it as soon as my body allows it, I don´t think its a necessity to be good with women and that there are many other skills to be trained as well.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 10:52 AM
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Thanks for your post. Lifting is part of the reason I feel uncontent. I´ve had problems with my ulnar nerve for the last 4 months, took 4 weeks off, started working out again for 6 weeks, my hand started tingling, I stopped and I have been on a break for the last 5 weeks. It´s slowly getting better and I will hit up a physio as soon as my cold is gone, but still it sucks big time, since I was hoping to at least hit a 100kg squat by the end of this year. I had a lot of bad luck while lifting, was…
/r/askTRP13/10/15 10:46 AM
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It´s because I am. I was so fucking BP as a child, always did what i was told, never got into trouble, never tested out the rules, I had some very boring teenage years. But yeah I guess you´re right I´ll just ignore it and if anything should ever come of this, I´ll consider my options then. Thanks for your advice.
/r/askTRP16/06/15 11:10 AM
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Yeah, I need some at the moment. I really appreciate the brutal honesty of this subreddit, it´s hard to find anywhere else.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 03:24 PM
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Thanks man, that is what I need at the moment, someone kicking my ass! I just read your post "Are you really improving - or just treading water?" - good stuff, really brought me back into reality. I will get swole, but I also know that it´ll take at least 6-12 months of working out consistently to get visible results and I will definitely not work out while I´m sick, I have made some bad experiences with pushing myself, while sick. So like I said, as soon as I'm fit again I´ll get back to it. So…
/r/askTRP28/05/15 03:22 PM
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Guys I am active and neither fat nor ultra skinny. I started going to the gym again two weeks ago, but have been battling a cold since and will get back to the gym ASAP. But I feel like we are drifting away from the topic. It will take a couple of months anyways to get decent gains and this won´t magically solve all my problems. Btw holy shit 100 miles at 85 is really impressive, big props to him, I hope he is still alive and kicking :)
/r/askTRP28/05/15 02:23 PM
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We were talking about getting jacked and you can't get jacked when your shoulder is fucked and you're out for 4-5 weeks or when you're sick. I play soccer once a week and ride my bike for at least 30 minutes a day to uni and back, but this won't get me jacked :) Ill get back into to the gym as soon as my cold is gone, so hopefully by sunday. I´ve always been active and athletic so thats never really been a problem. Anyways that is not really what this thread is about. I see how MMA and getting b…
/r/askTRP28/05/15 02:15 PM
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Thanks for your input. That´s totally true concerning the girls, but in terms of working out, there's not much I can do, when I´m on a string of bad luck with injuries/sicknesses.
/r/askTRP28/05/15 12:59 PM
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I´m not jacked yet, but am planning to get jacked soon. Just signed up for my uni´s gym, but I´ve been sick for the last two weeks. Prior to that I was unlucky in terms of injuries (shoulder, knee) Life has been fucking with me this year, I wasn´t able to work out more than 4 weeks in a row so far. Might have to start seeing a physio regularly for injury prevention and fixing my body. I will look into MMA as soon as I get a little more lifting and flexibility work under my belt, always liked the…
/r/askTRP28/05/15 11:28 AM
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Yes I didn't take into consideration that she was just playing with me. It seemed that she was kinda annoyed by me not taking action and was like "I have other options as well" But your perspective is just as possible, I like it. I think I'll be better tomorrow, I'm travelling to the next city anyways and will try again there. Thanks for your advice I actually continued reading Models today and the chapter I read today about Honest Action would have helped me tremendously in the situation above,…
/r/seduction22/11/14 01:04 PM
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Yes and No, for me it's too easy to slip away to time waisting sites, just after I read something informative. I'll be like:" I'll just check the frontpage, nah cmon next page... ok lets make it 3 etc." And there I go, lost in the world of procrastination. It takes alot of discipline to use the internet only productively, for me it takes too much discipline, because instant gratification is only one click away. The internet is mostly a huge waste of time, sure it also has alot of informative stu…
/r/seduction13/02/13 05:53 PM
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I absolutely see your point. I have an Internet addiction. I check my two favorite News-Sites, of course I´ll check reddit´s front page and finally I´ll check stuff like Facebook, my Youtube-Subscriptions or my School-Network and when I´ve once finished, I´ll likely start this cycle again. So far I´ve cut out Masturbation (around 145 days) and 95% of all sweets and sugary food besides fruits, but the fucking Internet seems to hold back the big benefits, because I´ll still get my daily dose of do…
/r/seduction12/02/13 09:13 PM
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Well some of it was posted via the University´s wifi, in which you log in with your name and a password, so if they hunt that down, I could be fucked. :/
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I´ve been "trying" for five years, which seems so ridiculous when I spell it out. I do not know why nothing is doing it for me, why I didn´t come across anything that pushed me over the edge. I´m decent at light escalation, but I rarely transition into more sexual stages of escalation, because I don´t really know how and feel like girls wouldn´t want it (which is bullshit, I´m decently attractive, it is an issue I have with myself). I start with some touching and stuff, but often break it off af…
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Deep down I feel the urge to be liked by everyone, to always be on top and comfortable in every social situation (otherwise I tend to become quieter), to attract every girl I´m attracted to, I don´t like showing weakness, though perfectionism is not attractive. And I know that most of these traits are unhealthy. I know my weak points quite well, but I don´t really know how to smash them. I envy people like you that seem to be content with what they have, but I too often think about what could be…
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I want to have a frame like you do. How did you get it? Have you always had tendencies to act this way or did you just work on yourself? I have always been afraid to offend, cared too much about what other people thought, though it has gotten better, it is still deeply ingrained in my psyche. I got it from my parents and grandparents since they too are always eager to please other people, while neglecting themselves. And yeah like I said it my elbow is annoying the fuck out of me, I´m seeing a n…
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Thank you, I´ll read this in the near future. How much experience do you have with women? (first girlfriend, how many plates etc.) I just wanna know to be able to evaluate your advice better :)
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How did you learn it? I am trying to touch more, but on first dates it is oftentimes too forced. Do you have any moves to fall back on, if the date is not going so well?
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Yeah you're probably right. Any advice on how to let go mentally, since I still feel attracted to her?
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