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What’s wrong with dating a best friend you like to have sex with? That’s the dream lol. You have a girl who you like to spend time with, have a lovely friendship with and enjoy having a physical relationship with? I don’t know how to put it, but that’s something amazing. You’re never going to get an all in one, everyone is flawed. So pick your shot sandwich if you want a committed relationship. Falling in love takes time, you need to actually spend time building a friendship and respect. Again, …
/r/seduction27/02/26 11:38 AM
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Bruh you’ll never know unless you try, like why does this feel wrong? You’re literally catching feelings for someone. Are you both compatible? All relationships get dry, but it’s the respect and friendship that keeps it going, the list and chemistry goes and comes. Just my 2 cents, but obviously this is reddit and I don’t have enough context, wish you the best nonetheless 💪🏽
/r/seduction25/02/26 09:12 AM
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What’s “Romantic Love” to you dawg? Also how old are you? Just curious tbh
/r/seduction24/02/26 10:20 AM
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You tell them how you feel and ask them to be your girlfriend. Then go through the highs and lows of being in a relationship and eventually you learn their patterns and they learn yours. Love kicks and and shit feels amazing and warm, with the occasional conflict :)
/r/seduction23/02/26 07:48 PM
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I think in terms of girls, they pick up on this and most of the time would not have any interest. Think of it from the perspective of dealing with a salesperson or customer service representative who doesn’t really show interest or is pushy. In reference to OP’s question though, basically taking an interest in people and putting yourself in a room full of single people will work wonders for you :)
/r/seduction06/02/26 11:20 AM
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Travel, and not give a fk that you’re late in life. Just be open, have realistic standards. Before girls, just start talking to everyone and take genuine interest in them. Once you clock this level, you’ll find it easier to talk to girls and finally escalate :)
/r/seduction05/02/26 09:07 AM
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Bruh Melbourne and Sydney absolutely suck, but I guess more people in Sydney and beachy outdoorsy vibes
/r/seduction04/02/26 09:10 AM
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Go on a vacation to a tourist hot spot. Convince a bro to go with you. Stay in a hostel and make friends. In the months prior to going, get used to the idea of just building rapport with people and not get anything in return. Once you get good at this, talk to women. Go on vacation with no expectation and the opportunity will come up if you put yourself out there :)
/r/seduction07/09/25 01:30 PM
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That’s fine, Europeans are a bit more friendlier as well. Also, if you want to meet people in Aus, probably touristy parts of Sydney, Gold Coast and Byron Bay are your best bets :)
/r/seduction03/07/25 08:19 AM
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A few factors: Indian guys here fare well with other brown gyals but apart from that we’re really not fancied as much. Not many people go out here, the weather sucks and Australia is very cliquey, so everyone only likes to hang out with their group and don’t usually open to new people. Good place for family life if you have a good job but Melbourne is not a fast and fun city for young people unless you’re in the arts or a hipster which I doubt the average dude in this subreddit is
/r/seduction03/07/25 08:18 AM
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Melbourne is horrible for dating, but getting in the gym and looking great on Instagram and on Online dating apps is the best. Also, if you’re under 25, go to uni parties
/r/seduction02/07/25 01:22 PM
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There’s also no harm in hiring a professional to help you where it’s legal and regulated. I know this is a bit taboo but it might help keep the monkey off your back and you won’t be showcasing desperation in your approach. Another tip is to go on a contiki tour and meet other travellers. If you do this, you might connect with women, you could also stay at hostels and make friends and things could go your way. I wish you the best, shit will work out for you ❤️
/r/seduction29/06/25 10:11 AM
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Just keep your job and go on holidays King
/r/seduction29/04/25 11:38 AM
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I just turned 30, I’m tired of this and have surrendered my ego and am looking for a lovely person to settle down with.
/r/seduction26/03/25 07:29 AM
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King, you need to let this one go for your sake and your future self’s sake. I know you have deep feelings for this girl and this will sting for a while. I’ve been there, trust me, you’ll find better and one day you’ll look back and be grateful that she wasn’t the one. Also, limit your interactions with her for a bit, or at least till you fully move on. Trust me, this is good for you! You got this!!! 💪🏽
/r/seduction25/03/25 08:20 AM
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By starting to speak to other women
/r/seduction15/03/25 08:33 AM
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You don’t touch them sexually straight away, you slowly amp it up. Start off subtly, like whilst laughing about something, gently touch her forearm. Or when asking her how she’s going/if she needs another drink or something to eat, put your arm gently on her middle back or forearm. As the flirting gets more intense, gently caress her arm to shoulder whilst flirting with her, see how she reciprocates and if she doesn’t stop you, work your way to her neck. Or even observe her body language and pot…
/r/seduction12/03/25 01:06 PM
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My friend recently was being thirsted on by the Hot married HR lady at the work Christmas party, and she’s the one who “writes the rules”
/r/seduction13/01/25 04:42 AM
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For a few years, I was scared AF of feminism and had serious approach anxiety. I became a nice guy and it was tough. Last few years I’ve become a flirtier and more direct kinda guy again.
/r/seduction13/01/25 04:33 AM
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The best way to get out of the friend zone is to start spending time with other girls instead of
/r/seduction11/12/24 09:36 PM
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If you need to make her jealous for her to see how amazing a dude you are, you’re better off moving on and meeting the next girl. The right girl won’t make excuses and will make the effort to spend time with you or properly communicate why she has to reschedule
/r/seduction28/11/24 09:30 PM
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Because you think of outcome brother and that they pick up on. If you focus solely on having banter and a great conversation with a woman i.e. a fun experience with you, she’d actually want to be around you more. For me, the interaction with women is the cake, irrespective of their approval or rejection, I enjoy talking to them. Anything more, is the cherry on top of the cake. It’s great but the cake on its own is also quite nice 👍
/r/seduction27/11/24 01:30 AM
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I would respectfully disagree. Go have the conversation in person, we need to be able to have difficult conversations respectfully and be able to deal with their consequences. It’s the mature thing to do. Also, please don’t mention “it’s okay if she doesn’t like you back”. Just tell her how you feel and leave the ball in her court. It’s her choice, but trust me when I say this, don’t put those words in her head, let her decide what she wants to do, just show her that you’re eager to be with her.…
/r/seduction27/11/24 01:24 AM
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Just go for it man, just start a conversation with her at the end of year event, have a drink and tell her how you feel! Fk it, these chances don’t come that often and trust me, if you’d never tell her you’ll regret it! Go for it King, you got this!!! 💪🏽
/r/seduction26/11/24 12:58 PM
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I started at 29, you got this! 💪🏽
/r/seduction22/11/24 12:13 AM
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Reduce the amount of porn you watch and stop spending time on Instagram looking at IG models’ profiles if you do. Try to have normal conversations with all types of women, with no agenda… soon you’ll find chemistry and banter with some and you’d be surprised what can get you attracted to someone other than looks :)
/r/seduction20/11/24 03:48 AM
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“Well green was a boring option for me, and since you’re still here, I’m sure it was boring for you as well…”
/r/seduction10/11/24 11:57 AM
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Lol I was on vacation dawg. Haha I've been in LTRs before so for comparison I still feel the initial struggle you meant was worth it. For instance there's so much more than just sex that you share with your gf. At least for me, that makes any kind of intimacy so much better. Don't takem y word for it, but I have friends who pulled very attractive women and they themselves told me they prefer relationship sex over casual but everyone's different so I get it :)
/r/seduction24/10/24 03:18 AM
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Or maybe I just didn’t enjoy it as much as ai thought I would? The sex was actually good, it just missed something. I guess you’d know when you actually got it…
/r/seduction23/10/24 11:56 AM
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u/SplashGodNate don't listen to these guys, there's dudes who bang 8's-11's and still feel the way you do. They think this is because of how attractive you find your casual partner, until that partner leaves the next day and you still feel that void. Your post is spot on and I' glad you learned :)
/r/seduction23/10/24 11:22 AM
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Yeah haha, some experiences aren't what they're built up to be. I hooked up a few timed with this girl and honestly she was cool and stuff but I just felt the whole experience was dry as there was no relationship, feelings or commitment but yeah each to their own. You boys carry on with whatever gives you fulfilment, I'm just glad OP has made a point that resonates with me
/r/seduction23/10/24 11:13 AM
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Not really, we both were on holiday and knew what's up. I just think it's a bit empty, the sex wasn't all too bad, but something was missing and it was a bond or a connection which I think would make things much better so I guess I'mma persue a LTR as there's more to it and sex is a plus. On the contrary a few of my friends have been massive players and they too agree that the shit's overrated P.S. When I've stated that "I'm so over casual sex" what I meant was this was not the peak of Mt. Evere…
/r/seduction23/10/24 11:10 AM
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lol let's go with that, let's say I'm fkn 2s. But I'm confident there are people like OPs who are doing a whole lot better. The thing with dudes like you is, you're dumb enough to think ugly people are bad at sex and hot people are always good. As you get older, I hope you realise there's more to life then chasing pussy, that shit seems to get real old real quick for a lot of people... It just happened to get old for me much quicker
/r/seduction23/10/24 11:07 AM
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Trust me dawg, it’s dry af. Like this was what it’s all about? Nah it surely is better to invest this much time and energy into meeting a girl who I actually have feelings for… But don’t take my word for it, just look at what OP has said…
/r/seduction22/10/24 02:06 PM
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I disagree to the last point as I fell into the category of sexless men until I recently had my first hook up and boy am I so over sex for fun. Like it’s fun and stuff but it’s also so dry. This person’s not gunna stay and neither are you. You just naked wrestle for a bit and then the post nut clarity kicks in. I genuinely miss having a girlfriend that I’m into and who’s into me. I swear persuing casual shit is also a big waste of time, and whilst you’re young and it’s widely available knock you…
/r/seduction22/10/24 09:33 AM
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Take a few condoms, sometimes they roll off if you go soft or if she wants to go again in the morning you can :) There’s no moves, just go with the flow. She’ll give you a hint or you can gradually flirt with her and ask her an indirect question that clearly implies something else. If she responds positively, try and go for the kiss (after escalating through touch etc.)
/r/seduction19/10/24 02:01 AM
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The right girl won’t ghost you dawg! Just get a girlfriend and you’ll be fine. You’re not gunna enjoy casual. The right girl will be back to talk to you and enjoy that bond. The sex will automatically come when it has to! You’re on track King!
/r/seduction16/10/24 02:11 PM
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This + a good workout and draining my balls before heading out.
/r/seduction29/08/24 10:34 AM
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Basically no girl’s gunna like a guy who doesn’t like himself. And a guy who likes himself, doesn’t worry about attracting women but about being in a zone where he’s enjoying his interests and the attention of a woman is a bonus. It’s also a bit of a “Not what I have to do to get a woman, more like what does she bring to the table by getting me?” Vibe
/r/seduction18/08/24 06:28 AM
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First and foremost. Be the person who attracts yourself. Then watch how women automatically attract themselves to you.
/r/seduction17/08/24 10:22 PM
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And a good night’s sleep is that cheat code X10
/r/seduction17/06/24 06:54 AM
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Have you tried another therapist? Also if every suggestion people make here is going to be met with you saying nothing will work, then nothing will work. My friend, conquer yourself, you’re much more than getting girls and being whatever you think you are right now. Please do yourself a favour and fight against your current state. I believe in you!
/r/seduction12/06/24 02:33 PM
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Go to therapy and go to the gym consistently for 6-12 months and watch how you change. I’m not joking when I say this, once you change your view about yourself, watch the magic unfold in your dating life
/r/seduction12/06/24 02:30 PM
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OP’s problem isn’t that those women aren’t attracted to him, the point is that they are attracted to him for something long term
/r/seduction08/06/24 08:34 AM
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This! All the girls I attract want something serious and I have to have integrity and tell them that I’m not looking for anything serious 😅 All the naughty ones are not interested
/r/seduction07/06/24 04:07 AM
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Did you say out loud “FIESTY ONE YOU ARE!” Nah brav this one was really drunk and loved the attention and you probs were too drunk and she may have realised. Hit her up and see if she’s keen. If she plays games, fk it there’s a lot of other gyals out there
/r/seduction13/05/24 01:40 PM
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It depends. If I am satisfied with my numbers and she’s overall a good mate, sure. But if I’m gunna be insecure and she shows signs of no loyalty, maybe not.
/r/seduction07/05/24 02:56 PM
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Which uni are you at dawg? I’m in Melbourne and there’s heaps of societies to be a part of. Also, consider doing a semester overseas, you’ll love it! Maybe be a leader and get a group going and head out to the bars/pubs
/r/seduction07/05/24 01:00 PM
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What if you want a girlfriend and hook ups don’t turn you on?
/r/seduction12/04/24 05:50 PM
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Bullshit, some do and some don’t. It’s not that deep, if you get rejected and move on to the next one
/r/seduction20/03/24 01:37 AM
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King, a few people will disagree with me here, but just tell her how you feel. Take a little bit of time, but don’t delay it. Here’s what will happen if you don’t, she’ll find another guy and you’ll be friendzoned + will contemplate telling her how you feel forever. You’ll always question why she moved on with another guy so quickly and how it could’ve potentially been you. I know you’re risking the friendship here, but I’m sure if she turns you down eventually you’ll be friends again if you bot…
/r/seduction20/03/24 01:31 AM
1

That’s a reflection of her character and not yours. Definitely, someone, somewhere is making her feel that way so she had to project
/r/seduction12/03/24 09:46 AM
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Go meet a fe others
/r/seduction04/03/24 11:02 AM
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Seduce someone else (Edit) not to get this girl, but to let her go
/r/seduction19/02/24 10:29 PM
4

When you live past a 100 years and finally leave this planet, you sir deserve a special place in heaven with unlimited drinks made just for you! ❤️
/r/seduction18/02/24 01:12 AM
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And if you’re late 20’s with a high paying job, go to bars and talk to bartenders and build rapport with them. They become a bridge between you and other patrons who are potentially going to get with you
/r/seduction17/02/24 05:38 AM
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I would strongly suggest never sending or asking for nudes. Once something’s on the internet, it’s always on there. It’s entirely up to you. All the best
/r/seduction09/02/24 01:58 AM
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Your problem is that you've based your entire self-worth on the basis of getting women. You even earned money to get women, and unfortunately this cycle will never stop because you have a mindset of "not enough". Tomorrow, some girls will bang you, then you'll feel that other guys in your economic profile bang hotter girls. After you bang hotter girls, you'll think it's only because you're rich. Dude, stop being your own enemy. If you have casual sex, have it for the sake of it, not because you …
/r/seduction11/09/23 12:18 AM
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At clubs, if a girl asks you to buybher a drink, just playfully say, "It's 2023, you're supposed to buy me a drink" If she's interested, she'll actually initiate it and then you can insist on paying, otherwise she's just in it for free drinks. I went out with a group of girls once and this really evil one revealed that she'd make out with guys just to get free drinks 🤔
/r/seduction12/07/23 01:40 AM
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By spending 95% of their internet usage for commercial and productive purposes and 5% for entertainment and self improvement porn. I'm going back to work now, this was part of my 5% for the day. All the best fellas ❤
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 02:46 AM
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Let's not bullshit ourselves, whilst there's a subset of us who are quite happy to live single for the rest of their lives, a lareg majority of us have lost faith in relationships because of being repeatedly disappointed (men and women) yet if we work on ourselves and keep going, qe can love again. But that's harder the older you get and the bigger the wall you put around you.
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