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Kryptic_20/r/Divorce_Men19/07/24 11:25 PM
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Yeah she had even suggested an open relationship before I found out about all of this. I told her I’m not a cuck, and if that’s what she wants, then we are done. I won’t look back. I can’t wait until the divorce process is final so I can pick up the pieces and move on with my life.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/24 05:23 PM
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Once the divorce is final and we have nothing to communicate about, her number is gone. Already blocked her on all social media. Thanks for the advice!
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/24 02:05 AM
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Exactly. I went back to visit the place I proposed last week. It’s a very special place to me, even before her and I won’t let her ruin it. I did believe she was different. I did believe we would always work through our problems together. I didn’t expect the life I’ve built with her to crumble. I’m just thankful I saw her true colors relatively early in my life. I’m sorry you had to go through something similar.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/24 01:28 AM
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Well, I know that our relationship had not been the best lately and I know the blame can’t all be on her. It takes two. I do know I didn’t deserve this though. I had been making efforts to save us. Nothing was ever enough. She didn’t want it to be enough. I guess she knew that cheating was a red line for me and she didn’t know how to end it another way? Oh well.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/24 01:21 AM
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This is exactly why I feared getting married. We had many conversations about this and I only wanted to do this once. I will stay true to that. I won’t find myself in this position again. Thank you!!
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/24 01:16 AM
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Funny enough I had actually called her a monster after that. The behavior I saw from her was something I’ve not seen ever. The whole time we’ve been together. I just don’t understand it and I may never will. That’s okay, I will move on either way. I appreciate you.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/24 01:05 AM
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Because she had receipts of taking the vehicle to the mechanic and wanted to fight over me giving her the vehicle. My lawyer told me it wasn’t her property but she acquired partial interest by having her name on the receipts so it would complicate things. I would like to avoid going to court.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/24 12:57 AM
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Yeah, I plan on still using my lawyer even though she filed herself. I don’t want to sign anything that’s going to screw me over. She drained all of her savings and drained mine afterwards before I found out about what she’s done. I’m still in a much better financial situation than she is, so I’m not too worried about that. Still sucks!
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/24 12:52 AM
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Thank you. I continue to be surprised every day by her actions but I am doing my best to just let it go. I don’t make contact. When she openly started chatting with people, it felt like I suddenly never mattered at all and that was the most difficult part before leaving the house. I would never have disrespected her that way. If I wanted to end things, I would’ve been honest from the beginning. I will rebuild however I need to. It’s a daunting task considering I’ve been with her since I was 17. …
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/24 12:44 AM
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Nope, no kids. Thankfully. I know it could be so much worse. She always told me she’s too selfish to have kids lol. The majority of the stuff is mine from before we were married. Almost all of it is in a storage unit. I probably shouldn’t have but I told her she can use my van (1 of 2 vehicles I own) until the divorce is finalized or until she finds a vehicle, whichever comes first and we signed a written agreement over that. It’s mainly because otherwise, everything is amicable. You take your t…
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/24 12:28 AM
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Thank you. It was a home we were renting actually. Neither of us qualified to stay there on our own so I just had to get out as quickly as I could to stop re opening the wound going home after work to see her every day. Thank you for your kind words!
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/24 11:51 PM
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