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| 10 | She gave me her number but has a gf, whats the next stepAsk if she's non-monogamous / open / polyamorous If not, then up to you and your personal morale if you'd like to proceed or stop it | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 07:50 AM |
| 2 | how is an average man disadvantaged in dating?Being average is the normal advantage I'd say Only disadvantaged if they have shitty attitudes, low self esteem, negative mindsets, etc | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 11:04 PM |
| 1 | how is an average man disadvantaged in dating?Because serious relationships require more than just "good looks" They need to have an actual compatibility in personality, humor, life goals, etc. Good looks is only like 5-10+/-% of that depending on the individual | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Should I just focus on improving or still cold approach?Why can't he do both There's a lot of women who don't care about weight, how do you think fat guys get into relationships too lol If his personality is amazing, then there are plenty of women who would choose that over a fit body. Not everyone is a fitness nut | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Should I just focus on improving or still cold approach?If he gets rejected that many times and keeps getting rejected, then he's clearly not actually doing any self reflecting or actual improvement to think back to his dates What did he do? What could he have done differently? Was it something he said? How he said it? Gotta think back and improve those little things over time. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Should I just focus on improving or still cold approach?Think of it this way, you're applying for jobs that you feel underqualified for. But over time, as you improve your skills and make your resume look better, you also improve your communication skills after each failed interview/date. Eventually, through your process of improving yourself and going through dates, something may surprisingly stick! You're not wasting time, it's called practicing. If you feel like it's a waste of time, then your mindset is not ready to even try. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Guy at work i likeDude, I'm just gonna link the comment here https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/vzd1i4/guy_at_work_i_like/igamao3?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 The word "complimenting" is right in there If you still wanna argue with me that that one specific word isn't there, then I can't help you read bro That's your own fault at that point | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Guy at work i likeIt.... literally says "complimenting" right there lol | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Guy at work i likeThis was my comment that you first replied to Separately yes, but both combined + complimenting them was taught to me as a flirting tactic So you must have glossed over it or something | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Guy at work i likeBoth combined = someone being friendly Yes, I agree that is friendly But I was saying: eye contact + smiling + complimenting = flirting | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Guy at work i likeAge doesn't equate to wisdom. Only life experience can, which can vary from person to person. And in my life experience, that tactic has worked for me. I know an 18 year old that's accomplished so much and suffered a lot more than me, and I'm 28. It all looks differently from individual to individual | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Guy at work i likeSeparately yes, but both combined + complimenting them was taught to me as a flirting tactic | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 06:18 PM |
| 3 | Guy at work i likeIt's because maintaining eye contact and smiling is a common flirting tactic, but she's probably not realizing there needs to be more than that. She's just not in the right setting to do physical flirting because that would be too much | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 04:30 PM |
| 10 | I am going to go out on a limb with a question I probably shouldn’t ask for fear of being admonished. But why is it that some girls wear the most scantily clad outfits to the store when it’s not even warm outside?I saw at least one girl wearing a tube top and booty shorts. Like I said, it’s 60 degrees outside. Is this NOT to attract male attention? Or for their own sense of style and comfort? Well it's a pretty hot weather that's approaching in my area, and I'd absolutely wear that same outfit out of comfort. And also to feel sexy. Attracting female and male attention is literally just a side effect. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?For someone who claims to get laid enough, then ... Why are you arguing with someone when their argument was "well hey, if someone didn't like you, I'm sure there was a good reason" For someone who claims to get laid enough, then... Where's your carefree attitude of "eh, if it happens, it happens," and "go with the flow" mindset? You should already know it's a waste of time wondering over the what ifs when it's usually so easy to get laid. What exactly is your concern then? | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?Your explanation doesn't make sense considering that she was enthusiastic just before the meeting and literally nothing changed. She felt the chemistry after the first date, so the spark was there. And your assumption is almost certainly wrong. Lol she can still be enthusiastic but then found something about you she didn't like I never heard of a guy who would be enthusiastic after the first date, and then ghost a girl at the second for no reason. Lmao I've had plenty of guy friends be enthusias… | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?We go out a few days later, and then I'm hit with the "I don't think I'm really feeling this. Good luck out there." Even though I'm literally the same exact dude I was a few days prior. You're actually not the same exact dude. She got more information about you on the date, got to know your personality and mannerisms a little better on the second date. She probably found some kind of incompatibility, whether it be just the chemistry, or maybe she didn't like the kind of language you used, or som… | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 10:46 PM |
| 85 | [deleted by user]Some of my past fwbs were people I used to be friends with, then we just gradually talked about what ifs. Some others, we already had great chemistry, timing was just off until both of us were single at the same time. So maybe look to your casual friends and see which ones are you willing to risk lose through sex | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 02:41 PM |
| 1 | No reaction after great first date ?Wait, she made you dinner as the first date? Damn that's pretty intimate for a first date! A date could still be enjoyable but not much to continue if the chemistry wasn't right or maybe you said something that she didn't feel like arguing about. | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Social proof is all that mattersThen make more friends or try to grow and enhance your existing acquaintances and work on improving those into actual friendships | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Social proof is all that mattersI'd say just posting about your favorite hobbies and letting your passion show through your smiles. Little by little, you can grow your connections. Oh and be sure to find a local community in that hobby as there's always plenty of others in your area, albeit depending on the hobby too. | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Asked out the hottest girl in my gym... (first time trying pickup)Well said but you replied to the wrong person 😅 but maybe reply to his thread and give him the link or maybe copy and paste and try again? | /r/seduction | 09/02/21 04:30 AM |
| 26 | Asked out the hottest girl in my gym... (first time trying pickup)In her eyes, you just admitted you were watching her workout and she probably feels super self conscious about that, hence her avoiding you. It's nothing against you, it's just the timing of it and if that was your very first interaction with her, I don't blame her 😅 you kind of need to build up repertoire | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 06:26 PM |
| 11 | This entire subreddit seems to be about seducing women, what about seducing men?Only do this after confirming that his love language is touch. Everyone's love language is different but all of these are super helpful for a man with physical touch as his #1 LL | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 07:39 AM |
| 2 | They have standards that can’t even attain themselvesPathetic or not, it's still pretty impressive that it's a more personal and interactive session with the OF account. That's what separates it from normal porn, and it earns money off of lonely men who want to not just nut but also actually talk to that hot/sexy girl so they can feel special. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/02/21 12:33 AM |
| 0 | Men say I’m “too good” for them, and I’m confused....And the “chemistry” nowadays to a woman (in terms of potentially wanting marriage) is to live up to media hype and to be “madly” in love with someone or it won’t work. Period. Gone are the days of actually getting to know someone for longer than a couple weeks. Some of the best relationships take time to grow and develop and this is something many women in your age group and younger simply did not learn due to technology taking off Why are you generalizing when you can actually ask me what chemi… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/11/19 06:40 PM |
| 1 | 😂 Good luck with that attitude...If she's lesbian, then no loss on either end lol | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/11/19 06:29 PM |
| 0 | Men say I’m “too good” for them, and I’m confused....Hm, interesting take but you forgot to consider a few other things: I'm bisexual and childfree. Even if I was as presumably straight in your eyes, I would have never assumed any guy would think like that in terms of what's appropriate just because of my age. Sometimes it's literally just if there's chemistry and common interests, that should be what prompts into the creation of a relationship. And the whole concept of "fresh fruit" is applicable if both parties have a desire to have children, so… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/11/19 11:47 AM |
| -1 | Men say I’m “too good” for them, and I’m confused....well I just turned 26. So if I'm still single by next year, I'm immediately "defective"? whut? that's ageist | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/11/19 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Listen up, you majestic fucks. This is a public service announcement.That's not even how that works.... But go off I guess | /r/PussyPassDenied | 27/07/19 08:08 AM |
| 2 | Listen up, you majestic fucks. This is a public service announcement.https://www.reddit.com/r/pussypassdenied/comments/bbefpt/play_stupid_games_win_stupid_prizes/ekpp3rf/?context=3 I hope this actually leads you to one of my arguments on there. but yeah, people were downvoting me just because I was defending against transphobic mindsets Edit: I found the parent comment thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/pussypassdenied/comments/bbefpt/play_stupid_games_win_stupid_prizes/ekizbti/?context=8&depth=9 | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/07/19 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Listen up, you majestic fucks. This is a public service announcement.You can sort of see me argue against someone if you look at my comments history back to 2 months ago. If you reply to me again, I'll try to check again later on my laptop | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/07/19 03:37 AM |
| 6 | Listen up, you majestic fucks. This is a public service announcement.I once got hella downvoted just for asking that people be respectful of transgender women. Like sure, it was about a woman being stupid in proving she's a woman but people kept insisting she was "still a man." Seemed like it's normal to be a LGBT bigot here, unless you're going to mod that too. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/06/19 03:13 PM |
| -1 | Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.You're telling me that I'm brainwashed for acknowledging that there are doctors who help put transgender people through transition so that the transgender person can feel more comfortable with their gender dysmorphia? You're telling me that I'm brainwashed... Just because there's so many cosmetic doctors who do all that for legal and legitimate work? So... I'm brainwashed just because I won't disrespect all that research and work that was put into those doctors work, that would help with that tr… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/04/19 01:24 PM |
| -1 | Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.You do realize that there are people who look like men but by scientific logic, they're still women because they were born women. So by that same logic, it's a woman with periods that have already gone through the transition and look like a buff bearded man. But they can still have periods. They physically look like a man due to the transition and testorone but because they were born with a uterus, they can have periods. It's literally just science dude. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/04/19 06:05 AM |
| 0 | Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.I've had a friend already tell me something similar when I said I'm genderfluid. And it's all valid, the society's definition of a woman or man shouldn't help define an individuals identity, and yet, there aren't any other sources of information on what exactly makes someone a woman or man or anything else. Because of all these constructs, it's just easier to not identify at all and just say that it's very fluid. A label is nothing without meaning This is actually a legitimate argument that's be… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/04/19 03:55 AM |
| 0 | Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.Finally, you're someone who sounds like who actually seems more rational. I don't think your comment is hate speech because you do have a valid perspective, but what LGBT is trying to preach is that both the definition of "sex" and "gender" can coexist. Sex is the technical and biological birth definition while gender is the social construction definition how that individual sees themselves as. You don't have to change your mind, it's just more if you accept this additional information or not. E… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/04/19 11:11 PM |
| 0 | Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.Biologically and technically, a human that has the capability to give birth to another human if they choose to. Socially, I honestly have no idea anymore. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/04/19 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.I'm trying to have a civil discussion where I'm asking for you to listen and acknowledge my perspective. It's amusing because not only are you refusing to at least acknowledge a different perspective, you're proving my point that only close minded people wouldn't be able to learn more about how transgender people work. You're the one that's completely unaware. Think of it like a TCP Handshake. I'm sending a request for you to acknowledge that I am trying to give information, and you're literally… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/04/19 06:27 PM |
| -1 | Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.You're making it sound like I brought this up though lol If anything, this post about a transgender person brought this "bullshit" up to our front door, being this subreddit lol But yes, agree to disagree | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/04/19 04:28 PM |
| 0 | Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.I'm not trying to go against science lol I'm just saying that science and social constructs can coexist together in understanding transgender people. You're just only trying to focus on your scientific perspective and refuse to add any others. I'm not going against reason, because it's reasonable to try to look at all the factors that play into the concept of what exactly is transgender and how to understand it. You're showing me that you are refusing to acknowledge the different perspective and… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/04/19 04:01 PM |
| 0 | Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.No one is forcing anything. If you refuse to acknowledge or try to understand that there's a social perspective to this while only focusing on the scientific aspect of it, that's just you allowing yourself to be at a stalemate. Which isn't wrong or right. And that's absolutely okay. You see it as pretend, which is actually the best case scenario. You don't have to agree fully that there are people who do see trans men as actual men, but so long as you're respectful of how they want to be address… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/04/19 03:06 PM |
| -1 | Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.Acknowledging and knowing how transgender people work... Requires me to get help? Do you even know how that would sound like if I actually talked to a therapist? Hi, I'm in today because I'm sick. In order to accept and respect my friends that are trans, I wanted to learn more about it so I can properly respect them without accidentally being an asshole about it. But someone on the internet told me that that's sick and I need help. Why is it sick that I want to learn how to respect trans people?… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/04/19 02:52 PM |
| -1 | Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.Wow, I was really surprised to see so many downvote you when you're literally asking for people to not be so hateful against transgender people. Like seriously? Then I double checked which subreddit I was in and... it actually makes sense that pussypassdenied would actually be a place where it's normal to be transphobic | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/04/19 02:40 PM |
| -2 | Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.You're arguing with me about all the scientific differences between what makes a woman vs a man. You're not necessarily wrong, but we're just trying say that gender in the social construct is different. Yes, a ftm trans will still have periods, that's as far as we'll acknowledge their physical differences, because the person identifies as a man in the end. You disagree because you refuse to acknowledge the social side of it and only want to focus on the scientific aspect. And that's okay, so lon… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/04/19 02:29 PM |
| -6 | Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.F2M trannies don't have a uterus. Actually, yes they do. F2M = female to male If you wanna use science, basically they were born female with female parts, which includes the uterus. A female to male trans man will have periods because their birth sex and genitals have women parts but every other part of their body is male after the final transition. So a transman with a beard and buff shoulders can definitely still have periods because the only thing that can't be completely changed in the surge… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/04/19 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.It was a spot of period blood | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/04/19 04:37 AM |
| -11 | Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.A female to male trans man will have periods because their birth sex and genitals have women parts but every other part of their body is male after the final transition. So a transman with a beard and buff shoulders can definitely still have periods. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 10/04/19 04:37 AM |
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