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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | How I Got Over Social Anxiety - Jesse from SimplePickup | Ksanti | /r/seduction | 07/11/13 02:14 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | How To Text A Girl So She Messages Back (3 Examples You Can Copy)Hehe I just found this maymay while browsing 9gag and thought of you xd | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Asking a girl out tomorrowI don't even have ovaries and I just felt them shrivel up and cringe | /r/seduction | 01/12/16 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with girls labeling you as a "player"My game nowadays is very up front so I tend to just own it. Most of the girls I'm looking for casual things with are in it for casual things so it's a positive label more than anything. | /r/seduction | 02/11/15 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Snapchat Game1, it allows you to see who's consistently following you. If a girl is watching all of your stories then she's interested. That's only true to an extent, I know plenty of people who literally watch ever story on their feed (not the most productive people) and heck I've got girl friends who will consciously avoid looking stories from people they like precisely because they want to look hard to get. | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 12:14 PM |
| 19 | Seduction is God's WorkLmao I'm all for not being selfish about it and making people happy but this seems delusional as fuck | /r/seduction | 08/08/15 01:45 PM |
| 1 | All you kids out there under 18. Stop reading this subreddit and go out and play.I'm not sure man. I came out of a real fuckin weak relationship where I was full nice-guy mode, complete doormat with zero confidence beyond that gained from "Well I'm confident enough to be a nice guy to women" etc. when I was about 15/16, if it weren't for a period of basically just bossing it at every house party I went to and every holiday I went on (can't remember if I was on this sub back then) I wouldn't be anywhere near as confident or well rounded today. Granted I don't really do pickup… | /r/seduction | 30/07/15 12:07 AM |
| 25 | Just Been Shunned after Trying to Talk to Girl :-(I mean... I get the whole positive mindset approach to this sort of stuff, I really do... But a guy hitting on you at a cafe could well have been really awkward and it's perfectly believable that he was making her really uncomfortable and being like "No you're lying to me" could come off as accusatory and isn't a great introduction. We don't have anywhere near enough information or context to know whether she sounded like 'a lying idiot' or if OP was 'hilarious'. We shouldn't have to lie to ours… | /r/seduction | 20/07/15 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Interesting paragraphThere's a huge difference between wanting to provide for your family and trying to throw money at a girl to get her to like you. They come from completely different places and are received completely differently. | /r/seduction | 14/07/14 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Nonverbal escalation - this guy is a f**king master. Great social modeling for noobs. Take notespiqued is the word your looking for, just for future reference, not to be that guy or anything | /r/seduction | 10/07/14 10:32 PM |
| 3 | DAE lose interest after getting the girl?It's because you're getting a rush off of the validation that getting girls gives you. You need to get over that because it still gives them the power. It's still that feeling of "Omg a girl actually likes me" which is fine to start with but it's indicative that you're still in a position where you're trying to get them to give you value by affirming that yes you can be an attractive individual. Try to have more fun with it than coming at it from an "I need to get laid" sense of outcome dependen… | /r/seduction | 15/05/14 12:35 PM |
| 8 | How I got a kiss close when she said "but we just met"Thing 1: Bellini's are a girls' drink and are far from classy. Delicious as they may be. Thing 2: From the way you describe her I'm almost certain I know the girl... Blonde? | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Amping yourself up for the approach - techniques?AFC? | /r/seduction | 20/02/14 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Example of max level PUA. Worth the read. No seriously I can't stress this enough, fucking read it.The author is a guy called Brandon that's just a girl in the photo. | /r/seduction | 07/02/14 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, please help me out. I‘m overly sensitive and it has been ruining my chances with women for all of my life.Being in a dance class could be used as an excuse to grind my cock in a girl's back, and I could do that confidently. I think you've got a slightly false dichotomy there of "either no touching, or I have to assault the girl". There's a difference between physical contact with a girl to establish and express closeness, which is basically what kino is, and physical contact because you want to put your dick inside her and want to go as far as is socially acceptable at any point. | /r/seduction | 26/12/13 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Don't let your interest get noticed Vs. Stating your intentions from the beginning.There's a difference between a guy being straightforward and saying "Hey I think you're really cute so I came over to get to know you" which also conveys confidence, and being straightforward and saying "please love me or I'll cry myself to sleep. I'm going to text you every minute of every day because I love you. Btw what's your name?" which conveys nothing but desperation. | /r/seduction | 29/11/13 02:52 PM |
| 1 | How I Got Over Social Anxiety - Jesse from SimplePickupYou mean in-vivo. In-vitro desensitisation would get you a few weird looks... | /r/seduction | 07/11/13 06:31 PM |
| 2 | What do YOU say right after you kiss a HB?"What's your name again?" or "Meh" | /r/seduction | 24/09/13 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Some of you will hate me, but this is how I defeated my AANOW EVERYONE REPORT TO THE DANCE FLOOR | /r/seduction | 12/09/13 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Rookie here. When is the most "receptive" time to approach girls in a club? Also, I feel unnatrual going from canned lines to small talkI don't even smoke (well literally once a year) but that works for me as well you can just say the music's too loud or you wanted some air (smoky air is better than sweaty recycled air) | /r/seduction | 01/08/13 12:50 AM |
| 13 | Rookie here. When is the most "receptive" time to approach girls in a club? Also, I feel unnatrual going from canned lines to small talkThe "have you seen my friend" is never going to be an effective opener. It doesn't really have any lead into a conversation other than basically going back on it and saying "Oh he'll probably show up eventually" which just defeats the point of opening with it in the first place. Either she says no and the conversation is dead, or she says yes and the conversation is dead, because you've created an expectation that whatever her answer you will leave and then go on to keep looking for your friend.… | /r/seduction | 31/07/13 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Why are girls more prone to reject guys if said guys approach them when the girl is with a group of friends.It's entirely on how you approach it, but peer pressure is a huge part of it. I can't claim to have any real sort of experience with the game though I enjoy hitting on girls as much as the next guy. My experience may not translate into most normal flirting situations, particularly in the states, but I'll chime in anyway. Firstly, let's deal with the situation in which it's your fault. If you go in with some players' mentalities of "Ignore everyone but the target" then quite often, if you play it… | /r/seduction | 29/07/13 12:14 AM |
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