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a year i guess, and it was about she suddenly acting like I ment nothing to her etc while a week before she sended me the complete opposite Nah I have female friends enough but I won't start relations with them, sadly enough they don't have friends either on which I could be attracted to, but that isn't really one of my concerns atm since I'm too busy anyways lately
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 05:05 AM
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yeah i know lol, that's why I just wanted to say to her fuck off in the beginning, but then she talked about how she left home etc. I have enough self respect to value myself over her, thanks tho :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 05:02 AM
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I don't spend much time helping her, only responding to her messages lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 05:01 AM
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Nothing, she ment something in my life when I loved her (and thought that we were going to have a relation) but now nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 04:59 AM
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At first I'd like to apologize for my late comments, was busy with work. I asked but she didn't want to talk about it, it's typical her, she never wants to talk about something immediately (although she mentions it) yet if I'd ask it again the other day she will tell a whole story, the only thing I know is that according to herself she got mad for something small. "Can you draw her out, at all? Bad cop, good cop, whatever cop?" How do you mean ? (English isn't my first language)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 04:58 AM
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lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/16 04:53 AM
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Agree, hope that she will get better but I can't afford risking myself for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 06:10 PM
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agree
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 05:34 PM
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yeah that's something I've learned a long time ago, never attach yourself to one girl
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 04:43 PM
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nah I was pretty much serious about a balanced perspective, and at the end of the day I would agree that she just uses me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 04:41 PM
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yeah i know, i'd rather judge people on their actions aswell
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 04:36 PM
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yeah hence the reason I don't want to invest much of my time in her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 04:34 PM
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No offense but she's a great girl leaving her depression and the moments she hugely get's mad over small things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 04:33 PM
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She is 19, and the things are that her parents treated her like shit, her school, her fights with her bf, her mother getting raped when she was little (she witnessed it) etc. Yet I don't think she will go for a suicide or something like that, I mean she is dead in the sense that she doesn't have hope at all, only wants to stay in bed for days.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 09:08 AM
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according to her it does :/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 08:43 AM
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Her situation is getting worse, she doesn't care about anything yet everything blows her up, the only thing that she wants to do now is crying while listening depressing music or doing the things she always wanted to do and afterwards killing herself. She has completely dried out, even from the beginning that I started to know her. Atleast in the beginning she had her problems and her periods that she got depressed, yet now it feels like she is dying for months now. All her interests have died o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 08:41 AM
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studying her illness and her situation, in-depth. You can't just give her random meaningless advice and expect it to actually help anyone. That's the kind of thing that ultimately creates some of the most bitter men and women I know her situation better than anybody else, even her bf/best friends. But yeah I'll consider some of the things you said, sadly enough the best answers aren't risk free but then again better tried it atleast, can always now just hop on getting another girl since I won't …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 08:15 AM
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Thanks alot for your informative responses, what would you recommend me to do from your perspective ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 07:50 AM
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the second one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 07:48 AM
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Her therapist acted like a robot it seems
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 07:25 AM
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So, your big fight with her, led her to do whatever it took to avoid being alone. Unfortunately, she still sounds like she's determined to prevent her boyfriend from seeing the real her, and worrying about hurting you isn't exactly a top priority. Could you give some more information on this part ? And you're giving her the most generic advice possible, while worrying about that pain? Do I have all of this right? Yeah Are you two still attracted to each other? Can't speak for her but I'm pretty …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 07:21 AM
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therapist She already tried the therapist thingy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 07:13 AM
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You have every right to distance yourself a little bit due to the circumstances and set up some boundaries. You, afterall, have to take care of your own well-being too. However, please don't end up being an asshole about it by just ghosting her or telling her to fuck off. There's enough assholes out there and mental illness has enough of a stigma. She's clearly struggling and understandably looking for emotional support. Great advice, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 07:12 AM
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nah it's pretty serious
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 07:10 AM
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Yeah that's thing aswell but I keep myself out of it, I mean I'm pretty much trying to help getting her back on good terms with her boyfriend. Thing is, she trusted me with so much I feel bad if I don't help her, but at the same time I don't want to help her since it's not my job and I fear starting thinking like you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 07:10 AM
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She did get professional support but doesn't go to her psychiatrist anymore because she acted like a robot. That's the thing, her friends help her but it's hard for them to understand her problems, aswell she lives with her grandmother now (ran away from home/parents divorced).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 07:08 AM
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lol better a little bit subtile tho then like: you should figure out these kind of problems with your bf and not me :s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 06:57 AM
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Well currently I'm just responding to her texts and listening to her problems and solely helping her with those issues (everytime when she tries talking as I'm her friends [like before] I back off*). Others than that I won't send her like 'hey is it going' or something similar and meeting with her is completely a no go for me. *We had a pretty big fight and both would let's say stay out of each others life. (ignoring we had ever know each other in the first place)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 06:48 AM
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My advice as a subwayworker: try flirting with her by laughing or try make jokes towards her father or something so that she will see that you are a confident guy. After done this some times just try hold a short conversation with the family, then suddenly look to the girl and ask if she is in to do something sometimes. Be confident, I know a fat guy who worked in a dönershop and fucked the hottest chicks by giving his number on a paper with their kebab they ordered. Besides that, nothing to be …
/r/seduction27/06/16 09:11 PM
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Not joking but I've met a black dude from Ghana who was fucking everyday with Serbian girls, after I told him how he did it his Serbian friend said that they just fuck with him because he has alot of money (from drugs).
/r/seduction26/05/16 09:38 AM
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The most ugly thing I find about you is the fact that you look that you need to vomit while looking at your phone when you take a picture. For the rest you are an okey looking dude, and I've seen horribly ugly and fat nerd dudes getting the hottest girls in my school, you know how ? He works at a dönershop and always puts his number inside their bag full of pitas.
/r/seduction19/05/16 06:46 PM
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Well it doesn't need to be expensive, go to another state, I always loosen up when im not in my homeplace, hope the same will apply to you :)
/r/seduction19/05/16 10:04 AM
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Well I live in Belgium, Ghent and Paris is around 2.5 hours away with and costs around 150 euro, transport, hostel and food included and seen that I need to work only 2 days for that I can pretty much afford it I suppose.
/r/seduction18/05/16 10:30 PM
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Go the Manga cafe, hottest girl you'll ever see .
/r/seduction15/05/16 08:53 PM
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I'm literally the same guy, except that I'm 19, I'm not sure if this will helps you but I usually go out abroad but never at home, infact I approach shitloads of girls and make news friends far more abroad then in my own country for a reason, maybe this will help ? Just go and you'll be forced to talk to people.
/r/seduction15/05/16 08:51 PM
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