Kueballphil Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Ex's lawyer is trying to hold me in contempt for not letting my ex back in the house. Have someone else there to supervise. That’s what I did.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/09/23 01:40 AM
1	What do I tell my kids? Yours are young and it’ll be difficult for them but you and the ex need to be on the same page and work together. Mine were over 18 but I still haven’t told them what their mother did. I’ve always told her if they come and ask I won’t lie but I also won’t tell them everything. Mine said they saw it coming but agsin they are older. No matter what you and the ex have to parent together.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/23 12:28 AM
4	What is the worst thing your ex did to you that hurt? In 2015 I had an abdominal aneurysm. Most don’t survive this surgery. The following year my kidneys failed and I have stage 5 kidney disease. I’m the bread winner as she had a part time job after both kids were able to drive. We had to take in her mother cause her health problems. Most of the time she went out while I took care of her mom. During the divorce proceedings she tells me. I don’t want to be a caretaker. Because I have always taken care of the family and the finances which to me means…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/09/23 03:56 PM
6	I miss my family Not sure of the age but always talk to them even if it’s only to say hi. My oldest went to live with his mom when he turned 16 and that’s what I did. His mom told him plenty of lies but I held my course. He’s come back to me after he realized what type of person she is and told me he was sorry. He said you never left me and I was an asshole to you. I get it now dad. That was the best feeling cause I stayed true to myself and always talked to him about being a good person that doesn’t lie or chea…	/r/Divorce_Men	24/09/23 01:08 AM
2	Need a divorce but can't survive financially. How to pull the trigger? What’s the reason for divorce? Mine cheated and didn’t want everything and everyone to know. Especially the wives of the men cause she works with them. I did wait till youngest was 18 which was 3 years from when I planned everything. Of course she tells her friends I’m the bad guy and I screwed her over on what I offered but she agreed to my terms. So the reason weighs heavy on what the courts will order. Whatever you do make sure the kids are taken care of and pay any bills associated with the …	/r/Divorce_Men	19/09/23 02:37 AM
1	Wife thinks she's coming in my house tomorrow to take inventory of things after not being here for 15 months. If you let her in to get some stuff have other people there as witnesses or ask the police to stay while she goes in the house. My house keeper was here and questioned everything she was looking at. BTW my house keeper was a close friend of hers.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/09/23 03:13 AM
7	They take all the money and demand more?! You need to keep everything and fight it. I kept the house and only paid her for 1 year.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/08/23 01:28 AM
2	Joining the club. Thanks for having me Welcome and now you can make a better life for yourself.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/08/23 07:44 PM
5	Prevalence of the Modern Walk Away Wife Yes agree with most everything here. 2 months before 25th anniversary I pulled the trigger after she suggested separation. I had given up hope for 3 years before hand as she put her needs before the family. I had everything planned and waited for the youngest to turn 18. Kids still don’t know the actual reason but they are smart and putting it all together. I believe I gave too much and the I came down with serious health conditions. I still worked and provided a great life for the family but th…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/08/23 10:34 PM
2	I don't have the courage You do have the courage. You need to take that first step then each step comes easier than the previous. Felt like that for a long time till I realized I deserve better. You can do it I promise.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/08/23 10:35 PM
5	Help pls Keep your head up and if you ever want to talk I’ll be here for you. My daughter just called a few days ago and said. Dad what do you think about me going for my PHD. I’ll be working till I die but we’ll worth it. Live for your kids and the rest will be worth it. I promise.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/23 10:35 PM
8	Help pls If you call and explain they will excuse you. I had to do it for medical reasons. Haven’t received anything since. Very happy to hear you have custody and know the kids will appreciate it later in life. Sorry for the divorce but it you have custody it was for good reason. Glad to know you’re a stand up dad cause there is not enough of us. Good luck	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/23 09:37 PM
2	The last photo So sorry. The only saving grace for is I waited for my youngest to turn 18.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/23 12:13 AM
1	Do I acknowledge her birthday? Always be the better person if kids are involved. I shopped for my kids to give her something for Mother’s Day even they are over 18. I got nothing in return but I figured as much as she only cares ability herself	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/23 12:11 AM
2	Gentlemen! How is Your Freedom After Divorce? Only a year as of today. Keep to myself a lot and work 10 hours a day. Only focus is making sure my kids are taken care of. I waited till the youngest was 18 before I divorced her. It was a plan for three years from all the lies and the cheating I said the ground rules of what she’s going to get she didn’t fair out too bad, but I kept the house that we just put $50,000 into a remodel. All her friends kept saying go for more but she knew it would get ugly and her true self would be shown to every…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/08/23 04:30 AM