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Bacon and eggs in the morning.
/r/seduction07/03/25 07:07 PM
0

Not for me. Unfortunately, it's easy to get laid and hard to get a relationship.
/r/seduction20/02/25 07:02 PM
2

Make the short kings proud and represent.
/r/seduction19/01/25 07:30 PM
0

Don't get into hobbies to meet women. Get into hobbies to explore your interests and make yourself more interesting. A well-rounded man attracts instead of chases.
/r/seduction12/01/25 11:33 PM
3

What purpose does it serve to give energy to this? You can be the tastiest peach and some people don't like peaches. It's a loss for them not me when they don't decide to choose me. I end up attracting what's right for me. My best advice for you is to work on your confidence so you aren't questioning your inadequacies.
/r/seduction09/01/25 04:02 PM
2

Gift of gab. Do you play well?
/r/seduction02/01/25 09:54 AM
1

Then they can do that with someone else. I'm the prize. My game is strong because I'm worth their time. I'm not interested in having mine wasted if I can spend it with someone else.
/r/seduction29/12/24 06:31 PM
1

Wouldn't trade my sex life with anyone. I feel like I just got back to back dominations, and I'm about to beast.
/r/seduction29/12/24 01:32 AM
3

No expectations. I've been friends with some of the baddest women on the planet when I wasn't trying to screw them. My life got easier when I got me a few cute women friends that were off limits.
/r/seduction27/12/24 03:54 AM
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I don't ask twice without good enough reason. Gotta keep that K/d ratio in the positive.
/r/seduction27/12/24 03:54 AM
4

Double entendre. "Thanks, she's shy at first, but once she gets to know you, she's all over you!"
/r/seduction14/12/24 02:24 PM
5

People become Rockstars, athletes, and famous to hunt like I've hunted post 35. Work on yourself, and work on your social skills with everyone. When it clicks, it will go hard.
/r/seduction20/11/24 03:21 PM
5

Just talk to everybody not just girls. Just mention something relevant to the situation. Escalate with people you are interested in, but just learning to have Banter with people is an easy fix.
/r/seduction08/11/24 05:36 PM
1

This week? Lost my phone, made dinner for the woman who found it. She spent the night. Ended up in 2 bedrooms. Tips? Be attractive. Know that looks aren't everything.
/r/seduction04/11/24 07:17 PM
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Loud and crowded usually means touch communication, which lets me escalate non verbally. If the comedian is good, she's laughing her ass off, but every time we talk, I'm touching her arm and moving in close. We go back to one of our places for the quiet and chill. Good luck to you though.
/r/seduction23/10/24 08:30 PM
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I create intimate moments differently from you, I suppose. Nonverbal communication can be great.
/r/seduction23/10/24 07:43 PM
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Don't get too needy. She showed up late, left early, and she's not responding to texts. I wouldn't buy someone a drink for that. You are teaching her how you want to be treated. With scheduling, can you close the gap on distance? Closer to her place where you can eliminate time constraints. I'm a fan of free to low cost themed dates. Coffee over alcohol. Something quick over a sit-down meal. Is there any live music, or improv in your area? I just got into archery, and it's cheaper to take a girl…
/r/seduction23/10/24 05:45 PM
2

I'm in therapy every week. Someone's gotta hear my stories. Bonus points when they, too, are attractive. We can't do it alone. You need reliable people in your corner.
/r/seduction14/09/24 05:26 PM
7

So your attractiveness is not purely physical. It's an aura built on by your accomplishments. You got the secret sauce already. Just keep owning it.
/r/seduction14/09/24 05:17 PM
5

Making your intentions known.
/r/seduction14/09/24 05:15 PM
58

Focus on achievements other than your relationships with women. I didn't become "attractive" until my mid 30's. You don't need game, you need to be interesting and direct. The real-world achievements will help you internalize who you are now, as opposed to the external validation, which can be up and down depending on the day.
/r/seduction14/09/24 05:02 PM
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I guess I'll be the oddball. 117 to 136kgs. 183cm. I'm sure I'd get more attention if I was smaller, but I don't need it.
/r/seduction21/03/24 09:27 PM
12

House husband won't make you happy. The balance would be hollow compared to what you are after. Eventually, you will come across a dude that you are more than enough for. He will let you know every day, and that shit that's aching at your core will be erased, and in its place, he will see you in the way you've yearned to be seen. I'm not sure you will find your beau here, though.
/r/seduction15/08/23 04:01 AM
1

Are you ready to date? If so get to the point. If they are interested, they won't say no. To most of anything. Nut up and face the fear of rejection.
/r/seduction30/10/22 11:25 PM
117

She finds the third. You play it cool and don't act desperate.
/r/seduction24/10/22 09:34 PM
1

I can empathize with this. You just have to take the steps. How many times have you gone aloof when a woman shows signs? There will always be another one. You're probably not going to get rejected as much, but you will. It sucks, but it builds character if you can shake it off and keep going.
/r/seduction22/10/22 01:49 AM
1

On to the next one. Are you still thinking about it because it's a girl half your age? If you drop your standards, you could find yourself dealing with drama that comes along with that age group, as well as frustration. If you pursue at this point, you're desperate, and that stench will follow you. If you got the opportunity once, you can get it again. Just do better next time.
/r/seduction15/10/22 09:52 AM
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This sub is made up of different methods. Not all of them are going to work for you. Pick your poison and drown out the rest.
/r/seduction08/07/22 04:07 AM
3

No. The energy involved would be better used pursuing what best interests you. Are you comfortable providing the non romantic, non sexual, opposite sex duties in his life, while someone else provides and receives what you are looking for? I'm down to be cool, cordial, and friendly, but I'm not investing energy that could be better used elsewhere. You met on Tinder, not at work, church, or mutual social circles.
/r/seduction01/07/22 06:58 PM
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Sorry my dude, I thought this was r/eldenring. Your comment seemed out of place, so I was being snarky. However, I have seen both a therapist and a psychiatrist at some point. Meds could be good.
/r/seduction30/06/22 04:17 AM
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Time to see the psych and get the meds.
/r/seduction30/06/22 04:14 AM
12

If you can date two women at the same time, It's really not that hard to get up to five.
/r/seduction29/06/22 11:12 PM
11

Probationary period. She's nice to everyone because she's trying to keep her job. You should do the same. I'd advise against eating where you shit. You will get a reputation, and if it goes south, any skeletons in your closet she finds out about become company property.
/r/seduction29/06/22 03:10 AM
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These people are a treasure. They weed themselves out.
/r/seduction21/06/22 07:15 PM
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Belongs in a different sub where they will tell you what you already know. There are plenty of women that are down for nonmonogamy, but that takes honesty that you aren't displaying at the moment.
/r/seduction20/06/22 05:52 PM
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Go do some shit. Join the Army, see the world. There's no quick fix to being interesting and valuable, it is a lifetime investment. Actually, there are some things you can do that give back value right away. Go volunteer somewhere. Food bank, shelter, maybe even a pet shelter. You instantly add value to the world that way, and you automatically impress people that find this out about you. You automatically begin to get some self worth by being of service to others. What are your hobbies? What do…
/r/seduction28/05/22 03:39 AM
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A. Some men. B. Did you create a new account to spam this in other subreddits?
/r/seduction26/05/22 01:35 AM
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I wouldn't at her place. Homeboy might not know it's a wrap.
/r/seduction16/05/22 02:46 AM
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Like what?
/r/seduction12/05/22 08:56 PM
1

Go accomplish some shit. Give yourself a reason to be confident
/r/seduction12/05/22 07:20 PM
2

And for this reason, most of my closest friends are women. Too many dudes see this as a competition where it's not.
/r/seduction16/04/22 09:17 PM
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No. I like this version of myself more than the old version. I'm thankful I leveled up.
/r/seduction15/04/22 06:42 PM
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First time sex is like the first pancake in the batch, is can be a little wonky. I bring that up when I'm having the not so sexy, sexy talk. Usually I take the first few times to focus on learning her needs. That takes the stress off of me until I'm comfortable.
/r/seduction15/04/22 06:41 PM
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Tell me you are lying on your dick without telling me you lie on your dick. Such a cringe worthy post, with incels coming out to support it.
/r/seduction03/04/22 04:53 PM
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Stop trying to have sex or intimacy with her and get to know her. She knows how you feel. She didn't run you off. Put her first listen to what she says, and see how it goes. She gave you the roadmap.
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:17 PM
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I return the energy I get, but at the end of the day you don't want to eat and shit in the same place. Especially if this is your career.
/r/seduction29/03/22 11:54 PM
1

Yeah dude, lose the relationship part. Or even better, ask yourself if you are really ready to date if you are still using it. The past has passed. You need to get over it because it's behind you. As far as honest, I'm honest about what they will expect in a relationship. I do alright 😏
/r/seduction25/03/22 03:01 PM
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Lucky dude. I've dated amazing women around that age range and gap. Don't be insecure. If the dude has his stuff together I can understand and empathize with the gap. Enjoy yourself, enjoy the relationship.
/r/seduction25/03/22 02:55 PM
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As far as reciprocating, I do have people/partners that take interest in my hobbies, but I have people in that world that will be more authentic and engaging that I rely on that for. I have my video game friends, my bike riding people, the people that I play music with, political and historical people to chat with as well. The trick is that I only take from them what they want to give me as I've expanded my network to have enough people collectively to meet my needs. As far as if it's worth it, …
/r/seduction24/03/22 06:34 PM
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This is really good advice. I think a lot of guys here only talk to women when they are trying to get something from them, and it's obvious to the person they are trying to attract. Even without the prospect of being hooked up with one of her friends, you get used to talking to and being around attractive women in general. At that point you are no longer awkward and your game will naturally improve.
/r/seduction24/03/22 03:14 PM
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You're soooo close. It's ok to be a nerd. Have all of those things, you don't have to abandon them, you do need to fully own them. It's a part of you and it will awkward to not let it be. You also need to be more like an onion and less like an apple. An apple is what it is to it's core, while onions have layers. You are smart to add fitness routines to your layers, I do cycling, boxing (at home, heavy bag), and walking. I also picked up guitar as a new hobby. Music in itself is something that yo…
/r/seduction24/03/22 03:05 PM
1

You need to find some spots man. I got a lunch spot with great food for $20 for both of us with tip. I'm not buying alcohol on the first date unless we got cheap to free tickets to a comedy club and there's a 2 drink minimum.
/r/seduction23/03/22 01:29 AM
1

I pay the first few times, almost all will start to pick up the check in an alternating way. If I'm asking someone out, I put the responsibility of the date on me.
/r/seduction23/03/22 01:22 AM
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Hey bro, looking through your history, I can see that you are hurting. That energy is effecting your game, perhaps more than your deformity. You need to work on truly loving yourself, and seeing the value in yourself. Getting passionate about a cause, or throwing yourself into a hobby that gives you confidence that will radiate off of you. You don't chase women, you attract them. You attract them, by being attractive. Attraction, is more than looks, (looks help), but a self assured dude that can…
/r/seduction22/02/22 06:54 PM
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You understand that you are putting yourself in the friend zone right? If she told you that she was not going to hook up with you, but she was going to hook up with someone else before and or after, would you still want her there? The way you are talking right now is why she's running game on you.
/r/seduction26/01/22 12:08 AM
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Buy her a box of Trix because that shit is for kids. Sounds like she has a little hobosexual in her, or she just likes renting space in people's heads. Anyway, I wouldn't have time for that, and I'd move on.
/r/seduction25/01/22 11:58 PM
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If you can friends with an attractive girl without secretly pining for her, then it can be a great thing.
/r/seduction24/01/22 02:21 PM
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If you can get two, it's not hard to get to five. Congratulations. I feel like it's diminishing returns after 3. Very hard to give everyone the proper attention while working on being the person that attracted them in the first place. Ride the wave as things will change when the novelty wears off.
/r/seduction23/01/22 10:40 PM
1

She's already let you know she was interested, just inviting her over to watch a movie, is probably going to lead to something. Just be chill. If you are talking, ask about her and expand on those questions. In the bedroom, find out what she's into and do it for her. She's probably not looking for anything serious with the age gap and she only being 33. The situation seems convenient for the both of you, so just go do it. You'll probably end up banging until one of you gets into something seriou…
/r/seduction06/01/22 04:36 PM
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Hey my dude. I think you'll need to work on a couple things. 1st you may want to look for a therapist to talk about the past trauma. Having someone to help you work through that shit will lift a fog you didn't think could be lifted. You answer your question, you need to see yourself like that before they can. That comes with having real life experiences that help you to see yourself like that. Learn to box, work on self improvement, see yourself as you want the world to see you.
/r/seduction18/12/21 11:59 AM
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If you don't take advantage of this golden scripture, then you are missing the point of this sub. When you are that dude, then your words matter less and your energy matters more. You don't chase, you attract. What's meant to be yours will be yours. If it's not, then it wasn't yours in the first place.
/r/seduction10/12/21 02:56 PM
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Usually a hug or a kiss. But then again, I have a type, and this usually isn't a problem.
/r/seduction16/11/21 09:33 PM
3

If she puts in effort, acknowledge it.
/r/seduction14/11/21 04:52 AM
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Don't go in with any expectations. That will take some pressure off. Spend time getting to know her. Let her do most of the talking while you connect with the things you have in common with her. You've already had a conversation with this person, so you know how to interact.
/r/seduction07/11/21 06:08 PM
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The ratio to actual self improvement vs BS incel crap is way off. I wish there was a subreddit for people that are actually good at this stuff that focused more on managing relationships.
/r/seduction06/11/21 09:40 PM
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This is not a stupid question and something you should have answered in your intro. The answer can't be anything about her physically. If she's attractive, she's known all her life. Take a moment to read the profile and find something you genuinely like.
/r/seduction06/11/21 09:25 PM
10

It's very simple, and so many will miss it. It's a nice life when you figure it out.
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:17 PM
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Yes and no. You should definitely level up, and it will help you with finding women that meet your standards. More importantly, it's about knowing who you are, and being comfortable in who you are. People are naturally attracted to people like that, so dating isn't hard anymore. So, work on yourself, and work on non sexual relationships with women as well. As you level up, you need to be comfortable talking to them as well. A lot of people here don't consider that, so their intent is obvious whe…
/r/seduction02/11/21 01:04 PM
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Are you the best version of yourself? Work on that first. The closer you are to that person, the easier it will be to attract people to you
/r/seduction02/11/21 12:48 PM
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On to the next one. This ain't baseball, and I'm not giving three chances.
/r/seduction01/11/21 07:21 PM
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Nope, I know how to fight, so I don't settle for sketchy bitches 😂. In all seriousness, women fear the same thing. The trick that never gets told around here is that you always give a woman a comfortable way out. She doesn't owe you anything, so don't get desperate. Once you master that, your needs will be met, as well as for your partner(s). Good luck to you sir. Tldr: meet in public so you can have an out.
/r/seduction29/10/21 03:50 AM
2

Pancake sex. This happens to me as well. I normally tell my partners that first time sex is like the first pancake. It might not come out right, but it's still good and the rest get better. I think I'm nervous because I don't know what to do with this particularly person yet. As we spend more time together, that quickly goes away.
/r/seduction26/10/21 08:26 PM
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Are you social with other people? Start there. Do you talk to girls that you are not interested in/can't be interested in? Get super cool with them. You've got nothing to gain relationship wise, but you do have something to lose if you don't. 1st off, if you are a solid dude, they will hook you up. Second it overcomes the barrier that most of that a lot of people seem to have, talking to the opposite sex in a comfortable way. Game for women you are interested in shouldn't be different than game …
/r/seduction07/08/21 02:31 AM
1

If I was in front of you, it would be the closest you've ever been to God. Your response reinforces your immaturity and the reasons why you will get shot down. Enjoy
/r/seduction22/03/21 01:56 PM
1

That was dumb. You tried to make her feel bad about herself to get laid and it backfired. At least that's how it comes off. You don't need to comment on a woman's weight. If you are there, you are into that shit, and words don't need to be said.
/r/seduction22/03/21 06:17 AM
1

It's a little more about humor. It's about telling a good story about who you are and what you want. What are you passionate about? I know a lot of people focus on photos, but I don't actually use my photos for dating apps and I still average a person a week if I put the effort in. Furthermore, after creating an interesting profile, if you are on a dating app that allows you to message, you need to be able to convey that you have read her profile, and you are able to articulate why you think you…
/r/seduction21/03/21 08:03 PM
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Dating Apps. I average 3 people a week with no pictures and the first thing they know about me is that I have a partner. It's easy mode at this point.
/r/seduction11/03/21 03:24 AM
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No, not really.
/r/seduction02/03/21 03:45 AM
3

This threads going places...
/r/seduction02/03/21 03:41 AM
2

Women like confident, self assured, purposeful men. If you can't be the end result, show the potential.
/r/seduction21/02/21 01:16 AM
2

I feel like if it is, it will be a private community. There are gems on this subreddit, but omg the repetitive ness. I end up pilfering other spots like r/polyamory, r/nonmonagamy, r/datingadvice, as well as a few improvement subreddits to get some of the content I'm looking for. It would be nice to have something that focused more on maintaining relationships, actual personal improvement, and learning to have women chase you instead of the other way around.
/r/seduction19/02/21 03:04 PM
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Simple, become friends with a really attractive woman. Seriously, just be her friend. Don't try and check her out, don't shoot your shot, just be her friend. You will eventually get over being socially awkward. Most of us are not rich, and an ugly mug can be overcame with style, confidence, and attitude.
/r/seduction15/02/21 12:25 PM
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TLDR: Be authentic and make emotional connections. Active listening and tapping into your own personal passions will give you an energy that attracts other people. Pretty good advice, and it works.
/r/seduction26/11/20 02:31 PM
1

Just go talk to her. Ask her out. You'll know.
/r/seduction21/10/20 08:14 PM
12

She wanted a booty call, you didn't answer, she moved on. She will call you when she's bored, but she's not looking at you as relationship material...
/r/seduction04/10/20 12:17 AM
4

You get that girls can pick up on this right? Women are human, just like you man. Your conversation with the girl in the bookstore worked because you had common ground. 10 will get me 20 she didn't have a boyfriend. Sometimes a boyfriend means she thinks you will respect her unavailability over her decision making. In that situation I would have maybe alluded to a couple spots on campus that I frequent, and then I would have broken contact. If she was interested, she would have given me her numb…
/r/seduction16/01/20 07:07 AM
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I dropped out of highschool when I was 16 as well. I ended up joining the military when I was 18. It and my wife both taught me a valuable lesson that I'll share with you. Making friends and meeting girls should not be two separate things. So many people that browse this subreddit seem to do that and it ends up screwing up the way they approach/treat women, which ends up making it harder than it should be. You should focus on yourself for a bit. You admitted that you have a lot of other issues a…
/r/seduction16/01/20 06:31 AM
1

Ask her out. Make sure she knows it's a date, say it with your chest and let the chips fall.
/r/seduction05/07/19 06:42 AM
1

You know what you need to do. You're just here for courage. If she digs you, it's harder to mess up than you think.
/r/seduction05/07/19 06:39 AM
2

Why would anyone want to fuck you? Seriously ask yourself that. If you don't have any good answers, work on yourself until you do. The verbal and the nonverbal cues you give off play a role in your success with anyone. When you work on yourself and see improvement, the vibe you give off changes and it makes the process easier. It's easy to be interesting when you have something you're passionate about. It's easy to attract people when your mood is elevated because you've improved on yourself. Wh…
/r/seduction04/04/19 10:29 PM
2

It gets easier the more you do it
/r/seduction15/12/18 09:44 PM
2

Whether she says yes or no, asking for what you want will make you better.
/r/seduction15/12/18 09:38 PM
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You know what you need to do, you're just here searching for confidence to do it. Just do it. And keep doing it. Even if it's hard, even if you hate rejection.
/r/seduction15/12/18 09:27 PM
1

Well you have your pic in your history. I don't think it's your looks. You are"drunk redditting" so you may be making bad choices in your approach. Have any of your friends offered a critique?
/r/seduction25/11/18 04:50 AM
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You need to be back on OKC. She told you what she wanted, it's time to move on. Quick question? How often do you date? Like before her, when was the last time you were at least getting some? I'm reading your post and I'm asking myself where your self esteem is at? If you're devastated now, was there a vibe being given off while you were on the dates? Let me reiterate, you should be back on OKC. If you let rejection keep you off your game, everytime you do go out you may reek of desperation. Chat…
/r/seduction23/11/18 08:32 AM
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It's up to you whether you are in the friend zone. Women don't put guys there; Guys too scared to act and too scared to lose put themselves there. If she's worth it, go after it. If she says no, it's your choice to be her friend. It's ok to walk away. It's better to walk away than to become a "nice guy" that gets bitter when she moves on and it turns out you didn't.
/r/seduction23/11/18 07:42 AM
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She might be dating someone else and they are further along?
/r/seduction23/11/18 06:48 AM
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If this post is serious, then you need to take your focus away from women and focus on yourself. Go back and re-read your post. Would any woman want that? Now what's the one thing in your power to change to make your life better? You. So, work on yourself for a bit. If you're unattractive, hit the gym and learn to dress better. Get some interesting things about you. People are attracted to confident people and you don't sound confident. You damn well won't give off confidence in your body langua…
/r/seduction20/11/18 05:34 AM
1

It doesn't work, and at some point if there was any respect for you it will be lost. The best way out is to not put yourself in. The second best way out is to cut your losses and move on.
/r/seduction21/09/18 10:20 AM
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This post is gospel. Trying to approach with no confidence and no game might be great for reps, but your success rate will go up if you've worked on yourself first.
/r/seduction22/02/18 07:26 AM
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Because she thinks she still has something you want. People like attention, especially when they don't have to put effort into it. Don't be mean, but if you're not getting what you want, move on.
/r/seduction21/11/17 03:19 PM
2

The best response I've seen to the "Nice guy" mindset. So much better than the abuse normally hurled at them.
/r/seduction25/08/17 10:17 PM
5

Hah, you just need the effort. I was taking Spanish in college, and for extra credit we were told to go to salsa lessons on campus. This led to tons of ladies and hardly no guys. They were all excited to have me there, and I was always welcomed back
/r/seduction20/07/17 09:37 PM
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Basically it says let on that you're not perfect, able to have self awareness, recognize the other person is not perfect, and you're willing to accept their flaws.
/r/seduction08/05/17 11:24 PM
12

Not in southern California. I cleaned up back in the day.
/r/seduction11/02/17 01:11 AM
1

Currently working in a law office
/r/seduction06/02/17 06:26 PM
4

Thankfully I already work in a law office, so I have tons of people to draw from. I will pick up those books you recommended, and get started. I'm pretty sure there will be a job waiting for me when I'm done. As far as scholarships if race, poverty, and veteran status can get me in the door, then I have a chance, if not I didn't rack up much debt getting my undergrad. I appreciate it
/r/seduction06/02/17 05:34 AM
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I'm actually looking at taking the lsat. I already don't have a social life, any other advice?
/r/seduction06/02/17 04:44 AM
2

I'll check it out.
/r/seduction24/01/17 03:25 AM
6

Heh, I've done 11 of those things, and I feel like I'm bragging when I bring it up. Especially the volunteer work.
/r/seduction24/01/17 01:04 AM
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