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| 5 | Has anyone tried being mean on purpose?Tbh the people that read No More Mr Nice Guy typically tend to be nice guys so now they're trying to overcompensate completely missing the whole point. | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 10:23 PM |
| 3 | What exactly is 'The Game' ?That's because Mystery relied on magic tricks and dressing like a gimp to get attention from Women | /r/seduction | 31/01/26 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Can reading fanfiction help with my flirting and executionIf you mean dirty talk then reading some erotica might help you get some inspiration. Just be aware Women read some weird shit lol | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 12:51 AM |
| 1 | You ever hire a dating coach? Is it worth it?2-3 years in Dagestan | /r/seduction | 15/01/26 11:30 PM |
| 11 | I get so fucking gassy stomach on dates/sleepover dates, i don't wanna fart up the bedroom. Do you guys have any tips??That will get rid of the gas but it won't get rid of the issue that's causing it. He needs to change his diet because he has a stomach imbalance and lay off soda and surgery processed foods for a bit as that irritates the stomach and causes fermenting. Stick to a bland diet for a few days (chicken, rice, toast). Eat the same things you would if you had an upset stomach. Your stomach will go back to normal. | /r/seduction | 08/01/26 02:54 PM |
| 3 | I need help to flirt with my supervisorIf you need to ask how, you definitely shouldn't be doing it. | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 09:36 PM |
| 1 | People says that i am scaryI'm guessing cause he doesn't know because he lacks social understanding. I have a friend who's autistic and he can come off quite arrogant and egotistical but he's not aware that's how he comes off to people | /r/seduction | 27/12/25 11:31 AM |
| 1 | I'm thinking of writing a book to help people.What like? Sex trafficking | /r/seduction | 20/12/25 12:49 PM |
| 3 | If you're a man you're always going to be perceived as a creep if you're a strangerI used to have this issue when I had low self-esteem (not saying you do). A lot of it comes down to the energy you're projecting out. I know it sounds "out there" but Women really do react to your energy. | /r/seduction | 18/12/25 03:54 PM |
| 1 | is it ever worth tolerating toxicity just for sex?Nah absaloutely not | /r/seduction | 17/12/25 09:38 PM |
| 3 | Anyone experience women coming up to you just to be mean/rude and then randomly being nice?Women can be weird around guys they like. As the other person said before, she was probably seeing if you'd stand up for yourself. | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 04:32 PM |
| 15 | Role playing in the bedroom kinda screws up your perception of womenSuch beautifully confusing creatures | /r/seduction | 11/12/25 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Learn behavior, don't memorize pick up linesThat sounds like masking though, which I think is an autistic trait. | /r/seduction | 06/12/25 09:56 PM |
| 0 | How to escalate with a girl with no intimacy past?You do you but it feels like it's more effort than it's worth | /r/seduction | 03/12/25 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Hey would you say instagram is a waste of time what are the chances a girl will reply to you back in instagram ?Honestly I'd say it's a waste of time. Women get so much attention online your message will just get lost in the either. Though if you have a good social media presence you'll be more likely to get a response. | /r/seduction | 01/12/25 09:40 PM |
| 163 | Your attractiveness is largely dependant on your social validation100% Its wild. A Woman sees another Woman being interested in you and it can have a snowball effect | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Putting Women on a Pedestal. How did you overcome it?Well yeah that's a given. You can only change your mindset with consistency and repitition | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Where do I go to be around women frequently.I don't get these questions. Women are literally everywhere outside. | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you have a “type” and how often do you go for your “type”?I don't even have a type tbh. If I like them and we have good chemistry that's all I care about | /r/seduction | 22/11/25 09:46 PM |
| 1 | This subreddit is full of creepsPeople give advice which works best for them | /r/seduction | 22/11/25 08:56 PM |
| 74 | Putting Women on a Pedestal. How did you overcome it?By valuing yourself more. Women can tell when you don't like yourself. | /r/seduction | 21/11/25 02:01 PM |
| 1 | How to become a good talkerTo be a good talker you have to talk to people. That's only way | /r/seduction | 13/11/25 09:08 PM |
| 1 | How to make someone comfortable with me ?Well said | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 10:22 PM |
| 3 | Girls are crazyyyy....Bro these are the people that give their bfs/husbands the cold shoulder when they dreamt they got cheated on | /r/seduction | 08/11/25 06:01 PM |
| 15 | How approach effect your reputationIt might effect your street cred | /r/seduction | 07/11/25 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Nightgame structureIt's all about your body language and confidence. Women don't go on the dance floor to have a conversation. They're there to dance. Feel the vibe and start dancing with them. | /r/seduction | 31/10/25 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Nightgame structureIt's cause they're naturals, they aren't robotically following a structure. Notice what they do compared to what you're doing. | /r/seduction | 31/10/25 01:11 AM |
| 10 | I’m giving up on flirting and being seductiveBeing seductive is a way of life | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 08:41 AM |
| 1 | How to get my autistic friends girlfriendsYour hearts in the right place, but honestly it's more effort than it's worth | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 06:26 PM |
| – | How to get my autistic friends girlfriendsWomen can be brutal towards guys that aren't socially savvy | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 06:14 PM |
| 5 | What Does It Mean if a Woman Says That She Doesn’t Feel A Connection?Better bring your spark plug next time | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 12:44 AM |
| 4 | What were the dumbest "hints" you got from a woman?This is so true. I've lost count of the amount of times a Woman's tried to emasculate me or called me gay just because I wasn't interested. It's funny because their reaction just confirms why I'm not interested in them. It's always the really mid ones too. I swear they have the biggest egos of the lot. Like I get no one wants to feel rejected, but stop embarrassing yourself and move on. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 08:35 PM |
| 3 | No-Gos when you make fun of her in a flirty way?Just don't mention her eyebrows | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 05:36 PM |
| 218 | What were the dumbest "hints" you got from a woman?She looked at me with annoyance and expected me to know she wanted me to approach her (I'd never met her before, she was a friend of a friend). Edit* We were at a house party, only once I left she told my friend she was into me. That's how I know she was interested. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Men’s careerVery good response. It's all about your vibes | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 11:25 PM |
| 1 | I need help practicing the fundamentalsIronically the more present and connected you are, the less pressure you put on yourself which makes a better connection. The only way to get more present is to start meditating 🤷 | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 11:18 PM |
| – | I need help practicing the fundamentalsYou're way over-complicating a simple interaction and you're putting so much unnecessary pressure on yourself. | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Rasputin from "the game"Agreed. It's just more mental fluff to learn to overcomplicate a simple interaction. | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Guys who went from anxious to players, what book/course helped you the most?No book, buts Ars Amorata by Zan Perrion | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 07:51 PM |
| 3 | What needs to change to stop “radiating” insecurity?It really is a daily practice. Can't stress that enough. Most people tend to stop when they start to feel good, but you need to make it a daily habit otherwise on days when you're feeling like crap you'll quickly get a deafeatist attitude back. | /r/seduction | 18/10/25 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Girl gave me her number but said something that threw me off.Bro she gave you her number didn't she? If she thought you was a weirdo she wouldn't have given you the time of day. You're definitely overthinking it and this is coming from an overthinker. | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 11:11 PM |
| 30 | Juggling various women and I don’t feel anythingIt's hard to feel sympathy 😂 | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Social Experiment that I madeHe still uses magic in his openers | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 11:22 AM |
| 3 | Social Experiment that I madeWell said. I like Mystery but I feel like he relies too much on gimmicks. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 09:21 PM |
| 0 | Good shows/movies to watch?Watch Cheers, particularly Sam the bartender. Yeah I know it's a show but WATCH how he interacts with Women. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 08:21 PM |
| 35 | Do you think “confidence” is overrated in seduction?Actually studies show being loud and obnoxious isn't actually confidence, it's insecurity. They need to be center of attention. It's draining to be around someone like that. I have a couple of friends like that and whenever some girls are nearby on a night out, they suddenly start acting up and getting loud. But yet Women show interest in me rather than them cause I'm not trying to prove something, not being needy for validation and my friends get jealous. | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 01:53 PM |
| 44 | The Best Book You Have Read About SeductionI copied these two paragraphs from Google Gemini The Alabaster Girl is a philosophical novel by Zan Perrion, structured around a conversation between a man described as the "world's greatest seducer" and a female journalist who is interviewing him on a train. The book is less of a traditional narrative and more of an exploration of the author's philosophy on seduction, relationships, and the appreciation of women. The narrator shares his insights and life experiences, arguing that true seductio… | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Do you think reading novels about men written by women would be beneficialNot really. Weirdly a lot of erotic books aimed at Women involve a lot of forced sex by a handsome wealthy tall Man. Sometimes it's werewolfs, vampires, ghosts, aliens, the list goes on. The main gist of most erotic books for Women is that the Womans getting dominated | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 08:42 AM |
| 39 | The Best Book You Have Read About SeductionThe Alabaster Girl by Zan Perrion. It's not a seduction book per se, but it is about seduction. It's brilliant. If you're open minded i highly recommend. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 07:22 AM |
| 8 | I think I am becoming a "Bad Boy"! 31Msorry it reminds me of this | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 09:19 PM |
| 1 | How many times a week should you go out with girls?Yeah but OP is asking how many times should you go out with girls, implying more than one. | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 05:21 PM |
| 9 | How many times a week should you go out with girls?You're gonna get a burnout if you go 5-7 times a week | /r/seduction | 11/10/25 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Books on seduction?What are your thoughts about him? I'm quite skeptical he got laid that much. | /r/seduction | 09/10/25 04:16 PM |
| 6 | What are your tips for “talking with the eyes”?Imagine she's giving you the most intense body shaking bj of your life | /r/seduction | 09/10/25 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Books on seduction?Have you read his book series? | /r/seduction | 09/10/25 12:34 AM |
| 64 | Guys who went through a glow up. What are some signs you are attractive as a guy?Women acting weird/awkward is a big one | /r/seduction | 08/10/25 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Im getting puzzled at women.God bless their crazy chaotic souls | /r/seduction | 07/10/25 01:33 PM |
| 3 | Don’t find myself attractive, but keep getting “looks” in publicOwen Cook is good | /r/seduction | 05/10/25 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Being physically attractive makes life easier but it’s not the only advantageBrilliant advice What could you ask instead of the time? Cause everyone's got a mobile | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Tips for dealing with rejection?The thing about rejection is, unless you're acting weird or creepy, the majority of the time it's not even you, it's them. Not excusing her bad behaviour but maybe she was having a bad day. | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 07:30 PM |
| 5 | What are some signs that you are an attractive man?Women act weird around you | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 11:51 PM |
| 7 | Why do women lose interest when I start actively pursuing them?Cause you're showing too much interest and it might be unconsciously coming off as neediness. | /r/seduction | 29/09/25 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Anybody else Use ChatGPT?I've never used chatGPT before. I'm intrigued, how do you ask it for profile ideas? | /r/seduction | 28/09/25 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Will reading classics novels help you with flirting?No. I reccomend watching Sam from the TV show Cheers. I know it's scripted but watch how he interacts with the Women. It's all about confidence in your sexuality as a Man. He's not shy of showing interest. | /r/seduction | 28/09/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Tired of the game, I want to go back in timeI feel like i'll never be satisfied, like money i'll always want more. I don't think there's anything wrong with it, it's just a part of being a Man. | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Best thing a woman has said/did to you that made you feel extremely desired?A Woman we went on a night out with kept loudly telling her friend she wanted to suck my soul out. She was drunk but i thought she didn't like me judging by how she was acting | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 04:13 PM |
| 0 | Pro Tip: Make friends with womenGreat advice - if you're struggling right now, forget getting laid and make friends with Women | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 06:34 PM |
| 1 | I cannot spark interest in womenbro is going to be chasing after them with a spark plug | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 01:12 PM |
| 4 | Do you think porn hinders men from becoming what they need to get women?I can't speak for anyone, but for me it definitely does. When I'm on a porn addiction i really can't be bothered doing anything. The fiery desire goes away | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 12:43 PM |
| 1 | I’ve realized I hate the process of trying to find women to date, and I hate the process of maintaining romantic relationships. Anyone else? What is your dating life like? How do you navigate this?But you could end up with STDs | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 04:39 PM |
| 23 | Women on this sub - Why if you go on a first date with a guy and there is no spark. Its over and there's nothing the guy can do about itGuys will be bringing their battery packs to create a spark | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 11:21 AM |
| 0 | How to respond when girls compliment you?Curtesy and say thank you m'lady | /r/seduction | 17/09/25 10:23 AM |
| 2 | Don't try to keep the spark alive or mantain her interest because it's performative and rooted in neediness.I absolutely adore Women, but sometimes they can be weird af | /r/seduction | 17/09/25 07:10 AM |
| 4 | Don't try to keep the spark alive or mantain her interest because it's performative and rooted in neediness.Lord i wish this wasn't true lol | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 06:59 PM |
| 1 | What Do You Talk About When Being Charismatic?Anything. Charisma is all about your energy. | /r/seduction | 14/09/25 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Women who dress in revealing/sexy clothing motivations?And a Mans pee pee | /r/seduction | 14/09/25 03:50 PM |
| 4 | Do we really have any control over if they message us after we get socials?Yeah that's normal. Women live in the moment so take it for what it was, a fun moment. Don't take it personally, it's just how Women are. It's like my friend, one day we have sex and have a great time, then in a couple of days when i see her again she's moody and irritable cause of her hormones. | /r/seduction | 13/09/25 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Do we really have any control over if they message us after we get socials?Yeah that's normal. Women live in the moment so take it for what it was, a fun moment. | /r/seduction | 13/09/25 06:39 PM |
| 0 | Why doesn't Mystery appreciate direct gameCause he uses magic tricks to impress them | /r/seduction | 12/09/25 07:51 PM |
| 1 | The Right Kind of VibeIt's all about your energy and the eyes are the doorway to the soul. | /r/seduction | 12/09/25 09:20 AM |
| 14 | Girls are being approached less than you might thinkNot really surprising tbh. The Male loneliness epidemic is growing because they aren't going out and meeting Women anymore. They'd just rather get their needs from porn. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 10:26 PM |
| 3 | How to have seductive face?100% this Your vibe is everything | /r/seduction | 07/09/25 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Places to meet new womenSilly question | /r/seduction | 07/09/25 07:23 PM |
| 5 | How to tell if a girl is looking at you with a interest or just looking aroundBut how though do they do that though? | /r/seduction | 06/09/25 02:54 PM |
| -1 | Avoiding dinner first date — how would you guys handle this?But i love food | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 07:42 PM |
| 1 | There is no such thing as "out of your league"Strongly agree with this | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Looking 4 helpThere isn't a quick fix. You need to put the work in to change your mental health. | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 08:27 PM |
| 19 | Shouldn’t we have evolved to be able to naturally do this shit?You just need to believe in yourself more, view yourself as equal to her rather than putting her on a pedestal out of reach. When you put her on a pedestal you unconsciously give out needy energy cause you want her to validate you. Women can feel this a mile away. Sounds cringy as fuck, but start loving yourself more. Be your own hypeman. When you're in a good mood you give off good energy and that's the energy Women want to be around. | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 07:19 PM |
| 40 | Should you date with a girl who you don't find physically attractive in her pictures?Pictures don't do a lot of people justice. My friend is really attractive irl, but for some reason her photos look quite unflattering | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach locationsCoffee shops are good cause people are relaxed and not in a rush to be anywere | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 07:18 PM |
| 2 | I wanna be a gym rat and date gym womenOneitis cripples a Man | /r/seduction | 29/08/25 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Stop trying to have mass appeal / know your type that you succeed with!But i don't really have a type. If i like someone it doesn't really matter. | /r/seduction | 29/08/25 07:36 PM |
| 2 | It all catches up to you!This post should be pinned at the top of the subreddit. As a Man no one is coming to save you. Your comfort zone is the thing that's slowly killing your ambitions and is ironically fueling your anxiety even more. The more you face your fears (no matter how little), the more confidence and self-belief you'll gain. Small wins = confidence | /r/seduction | 24/08/25 08:22 PM |
| 25 | Here is the deal: I can’t imagine myself with a hot girlChampion mindset | /r/seduction | 24/08/25 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Anyone try pulling a stripper?They have to be down to earth and sweet bro, that's how they get guys to spend money. I personally wouldn't try to pull a stripper. I remeber when i turned 18 and i got a lapdance. It was hot until i smelled her breath when she got up close 💦🤢 | /r/seduction | 23/08/25 07:17 PM |
| 4 | How do you get women to feel "the spark"Shock her with a hand zapper | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather date a woman who’s guarded or one who’s open and friendly?Open and friendly. I don't have the energy to deal with someone closed-off regardless of how they look. | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 05:17 PM |
| 15 | What are the smoothest lines which you have ever said on the spur of the moment?I knew a Woman was feeling me out and she asked if i was gay, i said "sit on my face and find out" she giggled. | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 05:02 PM |
| 1 | What are the smoothest lines which you have ever said on the spur of the moment?Sit on my face and I'll eat my way to your heart | /r/seduction | 20/08/25 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Cocky vs boastfulCocky means you're confident and self-assured. Women love that. Boasting means you're insecure cause you're trying to impress her. Women hate that. | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 09:03 PM |
| 21 | Don't try to get a girl to like you, try to get a girl to feel somethingThis is one of the best posts and should be pinned | /r/seduction | 18/08/25 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Confidence boosters are holding me backAren't clothes supposed to be an extension of you? That's how I see it anyway. There's absolutely nothing wrong with taking pride in your appearance. Women appreciate a Man who takes pride in himself. | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 04:26 PM |
| 41 | Why men obsessed with analysing women's signals keep failing with them and why men just need to follow their desiresGuys that struggle the most with Women are the ones who can’t switch off their logical brain. This is why they over analyse everything. That’s why there’s so many over-complicated theories in PUA cause it’s main target is autistic Men. | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Which book worked for you the most?The Alabaster Girl by Zan Perrion. It's not a pick-up book per say, but it is about seduction. Highly recommend giving it a read if you're open minded.. | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 04:42 PM |
| 63 | Sexual vs Romantic Attraction is a Game Changer in SeductionYeah well said. Couldn't have said it better. | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Trigger Emotions! How ?Interesting i'll definitely give Love Island a watch. Women seem to love that show. | /r/seduction | 08/08/25 07:12 AM |
| 4 | Stop “Chasing” Women. Start Connecting.Yes definitely | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Is “quiet dominance” a real thing? Tried it and got surprising resultsYoi'll find that if you're in a group of people, Women will tend to gravitate towards the quiet one (as long as you're confident in yourself) because you're not trying to be center of attention. My friends get irritated on nights out cause they're trying to be loud to get attention from Women, whilst i'm just vibing and Women seem more interested in m | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 09:39 AM |
| 3 | Guitar: I have been playing and singing for years. What can I do within the 1st date to bring her home without making her uncomfortable?Play wonderwall | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 05:57 PM |
| 3 | How do I begin becoming the ladies man?He means he wants to be good with Women | /r/seduction | 02/08/25 06:03 PM |
| 19 | What does this fist-shaking gesture mean? (Nonverbal behavior on public bus)I think he called you a wanker | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 10:29 PM |
| 1 | How to flirt?💯 | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 03:54 PM |
| 9 | How to flirt?It's more about your vibe than what you say and it's more about HOW you say it than what you actually say. It's all about the emotional aspect. | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 11:20 PM |
| 1 | How to be more seductive?How to be more seductive? Start loving yourself and your energy. You'll be naturally magnetic. | /r/seduction | 30/07/25 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Stop asking if intimacy is “on the table” before the date happens. Attraction is spontaneousOkay but how do you get from eating a meal to her riding your face like a rodeo | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 05:25 PM |
| 3 | I Made Duolingo for SeductionAh damn that sucks. I woulr definitely get if it was on android | /r/seduction | 29/07/25 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Why Would Someone Get No Matches on Dating Apps Despite Having a Solid Profile in a Major Metropolitan Area....That's wild i always thought New York would be one of the easiest places to get matches cause of how much foot traffic there is. | /r/seduction | 27/07/25 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Why Would Someone Get No Matches on Dating Apps Despite Having a Solid Profile in a Major Metropolitan Area....Really wish i tried Tinder when it first came out | /r/seduction | 27/07/25 07:59 PM |
| 4 | Good fiction novels for seduction?One of my favourites - The Alabaster Girl by Zan Perrion | /r/seduction | 27/07/25 06:58 PM |
| 4 | How come for some guys dating and relationships are easy while others struggle ?Desperation. Women can smell it a mile away. | /r/seduction | 27/07/25 06:55 PM |
| 7 | In your opinion, where is all the focus in pickup? What do people focus too much on studying/improving and what doesn't get attention that should?I think people focus too much on theories rather than focusing on improving their innergame. When you have a solid frame you can take on the world. I'm currently working on my innergame, it's something you need to work on every single day otherwise you're old mindset will come back. | /r/seduction | 27/07/25 06:07 PM |
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