Kungfukenny1347 Archive

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1	Need to change my mentality, am I doing it right? What other way would you go? Fix your spine, fix your teeth, keep lifting, start building your career. Progress will come slowly, but progress is infinitely better than rotting away doing the same shit you've always done. But at the same time, just because you have a long road ahead, it doesn't mean that you can't stop and smell the flowers along the way. Celebrate your small victories, stop putting so much pressure on yourself to be perfect. It's a Friday.... You're in college. Do you have frie…	/r/askTRP	06/09/19 08:40 PM
1	Giving LTR validation over Snapchat There's a difference between drowning a girl in validation and throwing her a bone once in a while to satisfy her primal female need to feel desired. You say she's never sent you a sexy pic before, and you just ignored it completely? I would have encouraged her to keep going "would look better without the top half" She doesn't want to talk about her fucking job, she wants to know she looks sexy in a swimsuit If she was out shopping for purses and snaps you "red or black" then ya ignore that dumb…	/r/askTRP	06/09/19 07:25 PM
3	Mate gaurding in club with fwb. I answered the way I did because OP said this: "she knows that whenever she goes out with me, she's coming home with me" To me that's a different situation than if you go out and happen to run into a chick you fucked a couple times. In the latter situation, I agree entirely with your assessment - leave her be, have fun with your friends, flirt with other girls. If she wants you, she'll put herself in a position for you to easily have her. But if you walk into the bar together with the expectatio…	/r/askTRP	06/09/19 04:53 PM
1	Need to change my mentality, am I doing it right? You're making a lot of assumptions. You see a beta with a hot ass gf from high school, you don't see all the hoops she makes him jump through just to sleep in a dead bedroom with her. You see a loser who's fucking a girl for years, you don't see him jerking off alone in a basement for even longer when she branch swings, since he lucked into that situation and has no idea what do when he ends. Some people are born with a silver spoon in their mouth, some are born with a rusty spoon in their ass. …	/r/askTRP	06/09/19 03:46 PM
6	My friend invited me over to a bar, but his wingman skills are non-existent. Why are you relying on him for introductions? That's not a wingman's job. You have the sidebar, you have this vast RP toolbox.... Introduce yourself. Relying on your friend to introduce you is a crutch that's handicapping you. Stop thinking of yourself as an outsider who needs approval to be part of the group. You're a fucking man, you don't need him to hold your hand.	/r/askTRP	06/09/19 03:21 PM
12	My friend invited me over to a bar, but his wingman skills are non-existent. Sounds like you're projecting your inadequacies onto your friend. You say he's "quite good at getting women" and that he's "not a true alpha" in the same breath. Maybe he's not the one who's a bad wingman. If you think it will be like last time, you enter the environment as a defeated man, and women will sniff that shit out the moment you walk in the door. Go in with the attitude of "sweet a new bar with hot chicks everywhere, who knows what could happen this is gonna be a fun fucking night!" If…	/r/askTRP	06/09/19 02:48 PM
1	Need to change my mentality, am I doing it right? Listen man, life is fucking hard no matter what you do. Working your ass off to improve, grinding every day, denying yourself small pleasures to pursue loftier goals.... None of this guarantees success, but NOT doing it does guarantee a lack of success. What's the alternative? Being a beta bitch humpback who has to beg for scraps of pussy from some obese wife you married out of desperation, who will divorce rape you first chance she gets? Keep grinding. Take your lumps, appreciate the good days …	/r/askTRP	06/09/19 02:39 PM
4	Mate gaurding in club with fwb. Your friend was probably right, and putting yourself between them without acknowledging him was a good move. If you're fucking her, and you're out with her, it kind of IS your job to help her get rid of awkward/pushy guys, depending on situation. If you don't, you're either sending the message you don't care if she flirts, or that you're too scared to take what's yours. Not saying freak out, not saying be jealous, and you don't have to hover and mate guard either. Just play it cool like you did …	/r/askTRP	06/09/19 01:56 PM
12	Dumped by my all green flag gf last month (or so I thought) who went back with her ex. Question on n-count. Time is a small part of what makes an alpha widow. If you're a beta with weak dick game, you can fuck a girl for 10 years without making an impact. Meanwhile, that same girl can go to Europe for two weeks, have a fling with a local, and get fucked (physically and mentally) so good that she never recovers from it, she'll think about that fling even when she's having reluctant sex with her provider husband twenty years later And sure a girl can have a high n-count without being alpha widowed, but …	/r/askTRP	05/09/19 04:48 PM
2	Oneitis came back to fuck, I screwed up big time. I need help That's something you'll ultimately have to answer on your own. Just keep in mind that fun at 28 is probably different than fun at 21. You don't need to be a high energy PUA clown to entertain girls... Just find new things to do and ways to challenge yourself that take you out of your comfort zone and put a smile on your face. Recognize that a night by the campfire with your guitar and buddies might not seem like much, but if you can appreciate the moment for what it is, you'll be able to derive …	/r/askTRP	04/09/19 09:51 PM
1	Oneitis came back to fuck, I screwed up big time. I need help The game changes a bit in your late 20s..but one thing that never changes is this: "girls just wanna have fun" Ya looks matter, but you're blowing it out of proportion. For women, how you make her feel is way more important. If you're having fun, she's having fun. If you feel like you're the man, she'll think you're the man. Likewise, if you think you're a boring piece of shit... Well.... If you've never read it before, I'd check out the Book of Pook. Some of it is basic game stuff, but it's the…	/r/askTRP	04/09/19 07:54 PM
2	Oneitis came back to fuck, I screwed up big time. I need help I already hate myself for saying this, but you gotta love yourself first. That's why I said do something for you. You already lift, that's great. what else do you do that you enjoy? That you look forward to? What it boils down to is that you have to find things BESIDES PUSSY that make you happy. Maybe you dive into your career. Maybe you dust off that old guitar. Maybe you take up pottery. Burn through hobbies until you find one that sticks, or just keep going until you're experienced a bunch of…	/r/askTRP	04/09/19 07:25 PM
75	LTR She stopped making future plans. How to respond? Who fucking cares that you met her family? 10 months should still be the honeymoon period, if this shit had ANY hope of working in your favor, her reply to your xmas question would have been " do you prefer naughty elf or naughty Mrs clause lingerie" Not the bullshit "Im gonna taste some other dick and get back to you" comment she made If you're 30 and want something that will last, you're gonna have to be more ruthless and honest with yourself. a girl who bitches at you and is already having do…	/r/askTRP	04/09/19 07:16 PM
2	Setting up 2nd date Strike while the iron is hot. A week is a lifetime and a mile of dick for most Tinder girls. Sounds like it's been a few days... Tell her you're craving moldy leftovers and where/when she should deliver them to you	/r/askTRP	04/09/19 07:10 PM
4	Oneitis came back to fuck, I screwed up big time. I need help You had your turn fucking the thot next door, and instead of just etching that notch in your bedpost you caught the feels. Shit happens, you're aware of how you fucked up, time to move on. As far as you're concerned, this girl went swimming in the Bahamas last weekend. I'm a big fan of monk mode, but not when you're using it to run away. If you think your life is boring now, monk mode will only make it worse. Don't wallow in self pity and justify it by calling it monk mode. Go out and be social,…	/r/askTRP	04/09/19 07:04 PM
4	What exactly does "abundance" mean? plenty of pussy in the sea	/r/askTRP	04/09/19 05:56 PM
29	How do you boys find the strength after the breakup she wants to talk so she can pull you into her frame and neuter you in her mind, which will allow her hypergamy to see whatever dick she slides on next as an upgrade -- therefore making her feeel good about the whole thing. Don't fall for it. you made your choice -- stick to it. if you give in to this shit she will (consciously or not) fucking destroy you and make it that much harder for you to move on, and that much easier for her	/r/askTRP	22/11/17 04:39 PM
4	Feel like the whole world is against me Depression happens when the pretty lies you've been told growing up lose their power to distract you from the cold, bitter truths of the universe. You're right - nobody cares. you've self assessed properly that your life is not a success right now and there's a long road ahead to change that. you know how you do that? You wake up each morning, strap on your boots, and take care of shit one day at a time. progress will be slow at first, but if the alternative is wallowing in self pity what do you…	/r/askTRP	21/11/17 09:23 PM
4	How do you break up with a gf. Make the decision, commit to sticking to it no matter what, go to her place (or a privateish place in public if she's crazy) and make it the first thing out of your mouth after you say hello -- this way you have zero time to rationalize your way out of it, and you prevent the "God she looks cute, one last fuck" situation that prolongs things. Once the words leave your lips you're done. don't back down, don't bargain, let her cry or tell you she hates you, then leave. Rip the fucking bandaid off.…	/r/askTRP	21/11/17 05:46 PM
2	If a girl suggests meeting for a drink, how would I suggest just going to her place straight instead? You don't have to "date" them so much as spend a bit of time with them to warm them up to the idea of spreading their legs for you. you're severely limiting your options (and increasing your chances of herpes) by limiting yourself to the girls that go straight from tinder match to fucking. Don't worry about sperging out, don't worry about how bad your game has gotten -- the only way you'll get more comfortable with this and get better at dating is by doing it! learning how to transition from hap…	/r/askTRP	21/11/17 04:08 PM
1	Where to go from here, stuck for time and unsure how to progress Punching above his weight class is what a man should be doing every day of his life -- you don't grow without pushing your limits. without further detail it sounds like you're doing fine -- stay on track and keep improving, results will get better over time. you have to sort through a lot of trash to find any treasure. Keep improving, meet enough women, and eventually one will meet most of your standards Imo tinder is a total fucking waste of time if you're not model hot or rich -- the time you …	/r/askTRP	21/11/17 03:33 PM
10	If a girl suggests meeting for a drink, how would I suggest just going to her place straight instead? Just meet her for a fucking drink. Not every slut is cool with just letting a random dude she's never actually met walk into her apartment and stick it in. this isn't even an AWALT vs unicorn thing -- this girl could be a total fucking slut that wants to gargle your balls, but just wants to loosen up with a Margarita and make sure you're not a serial killer before she invites you to her bedroom. The problem here isn't wasting your time, the problem here is your unwillingness to challenge yoursel…	/r/askTRP	21/11/17 03:24 PM
13	Men cheats = good / women cheats = bad? This is a false dichotomy -- the dudes on here that "get it" don't villify women for cheating, we just have a self interest in not getting cucked and are realistic about how prone women are to cheating. I would say a man is far less likely to cheat on his 5 with a 10 than a woman would be, but that's a different discussion. Then there's also the fact that when a man cheats, a lot of times its a one time incident to get his rocks off and he can go back to his wife the next day and still be attent…	/r/askTRP	21/11/17 03:04 PM
1	Am I behaving like a thirsty freak? You're on the right path, bro. Use this awareness as a launch point -- you see the problems, you now know they're fixable, but now comes the hardest part -- maintaining this brutal honesty with yourself that's necessary to push to the next level. By just folding and trying to "cope" with your depression, you only make it stronger. You feel pathetic, which makes you do pathetic things, which only re-affirms how pathetic you are. The way to break out of this cycle, is to force yourself to do produ…	/r/askTRP	19/11/17 12:03 AM
2	Should I breakup with my girlfriend? I feel like an asshole cause she is a great girl but theres something that makes me want to breakup with her. Im really not sure what it is, maybe Im still to much of a fuckboy to be in a relationship Ignore your BP conditioning. you both sound young -- you want to sow your wild oats and she has a ton of growing up to do. don't waste your youth on a needy drama queen -- plenty of pussy in the sea. When you find a girl that's actually worth giving gf status to, you won't need to post here asking …	/r/askTRP	17/11/17 09:11 PM
1	Am I behaving like a thirsty freak? So you can admit the issues are there, and even trace back why they're there. now what are you going to do about it? If you were 20 I'd give different advice, but at 30 you need to do some serious reflecting. What do you really want out of life? (DON'T SAY WOMEN) how are you gonna get it? Talk to a therapist, read books that expand your mind, accept that its NEVER too late to turn your life around. Confront your issues head on, as painful as it is to do so. You'll have good days and bad. keep pu…	/r/askTRP	17/11/17 09:01 PM
4	Male shit testing at office It's a fucking cup. who cares? I wordlessly and slowly started pushing the cup out of the table. At the moment when the cup was almost falling from the table the guy catched it and walk away. How old are you bro? Cuz if you say a number greater than 12 you outta punch yourself in the dick. The more you show its easy to get a rise out of you, the more people are going to try to get a rise out of you. They use your table cuz it's convenient -- they don't need to shit test you cuz you've already pr…	/r/askTRP	17/11/17 08:24 PM
3	What was she looking for here? I dunno, I may be over-thinking it. She was a bi-polar bag of >crazy(genuinely diagnosed with BPD, not just hyperbole) This. Some girls just thrive on drama. ya she probably hamstered it as "he never shows me any passion he doesn't love me enough" but that's because she was a ratchet nutcase who will never be satisfied with any amount of cock in her life (and there will be PLENTY of cock in her life) Thanks the gods you dodged a bullet, never waste another minute of your mental energy on her	/r/askTRP	17/11/17 07:19 PM
3	Performance help? Take a deep breath, and try to take your time. Next time, go about things differently with her. don't just stick it in as soon as your pants are off -- tease her some. Kiss up and down, savor her body, then give her the tip. when you're getting close pull out and use your hands on her while you calm down, then the tip again and a few full strokes. before you blow, pull out and give her some oral. then go to town as long as you can. You may not last long still, but it won't matter cuz she'll be g…	/r/askTRP	17/11/17 07:11 PM
2	Am I behaving like a thirsty freak? It was a shitty metaphor to illustrate how ridiculous your situation is --- you played paintball with her, her friend talked to you after, and you already caught a case of oneitis? How the fuck are you going to get girls to see you as a worthy dating option if you're ready to bend the knee and sacrifice your dignity for a girl you've briefly met once? I assumed you were college age, totally get slowing down on partying around 30. But shit dude, for a 29 year old you're sure investing a lot of em…	/r/askTRP	17/11/17 07:01 PM
10	Am I behaving like a thirsty freak? You know how pathetic you're being, none of us need to tell you. ABSOFUCKINLUTLEY forget about this girl, and take a step back to ask yourself why a whiff of a girl's fart is enough to make you fall in love. You need to focus on the self improvement parts of this sub, including lifting to get your body right and some serious reading and contemplation to get your mind right. And just go to a fucking party. trust me. you're young -- just fucking party sometimes. when I was a total fucking loser my…	/r/askTRP	17/11/17 03:23 PM
2	Does abundance mentality work when all you want is a normal relationship? Again, you're basing your entire self worth on feminine approval. You felt validated when you were getting some, giving you an artificial confidence boost -- but because it was entirely dependent on another's approval, once they were gone so was your confidence. that's why you need to take a step back and deal with your issues + find another source of fulfillment that has nothing to do with them Red pill is a toolbox -- you can use it build a harem or find a wife. if slaying sluts isn't for you …	/r/askTRP	16/11/17 11:39 PM
3	How do I start putting myself out there? I feel like I'm at a dead end I'm at a point in my life where I can see the good on everyone, and even empathize with whatever struggles they have dealt with in their lives. Doesn't make me like them more or make me any less annoyed by their presence though	/r/askTRP	16/11/17 09:56 PM
3	How do I start putting myself out there? I feel like I'm at a dead end When I was a bit younger and first discovered RP I made an effort to do solo game -- and while it could be plenty awkward the main thing I took away from it was that you can't know what's gonna happen unless you put yourself out there. I've had nights where I went out feeling like the fucking man only to get blown out by sets of fat 4's, but also a night where I forced myself to go out tired and ending up blacking out but woke up with a girl in my bed and a different girls' new number in my phon…	/r/askTRP	16/11/17 09:53 PM
2	Does abundance mentality work when all you want is a normal relationship? I see you basically arguing against every bit of advice you've received on this thread and your other one just like it. If you want to improve your life, you have to let go of your preconceived notions and accept maybe you're going about this shit all wrong -- if you can't do that no amount of advice will help you. Bottom line dude, is that you're making pussy, or the illusory possession of it, your main mission in life. you are essentially putting all of your happiness eggs in one basket -- a f…	/r/askTRP	16/11/17 09:38 PM
3	Struggling to accept women's nature? This might not be popular advice, but you should embrace this experience. don't run from it -- accept those feelings of inadequacy and use them as fuel going forward. if this brings up other deep seated shit you haven't dealt with from your past -- EVEN BETTER Each time you dive head first into your pain you become stronger and the pain's power over you weakens. do it enough times, and you start to wonder you ever gave that pain so much power in the first place. If you find yourself having a bre…	/r/askTRP	16/11/17 09:08 PM
3	Does abundance mentality work when all you want is a normal relationship? You don't see these guys' relationships behind closed doors. if it's standard blue pill it's ALL keeping up appearances -- that's what the matrix is for. most of them are slaves to their wives in exchange for crumbs of intimacy -- if that's the dream to you, you're in the wrong place. You want a woman who holds you, tucks you in, makes you breakfast and rides to school with you in the morning? Sounds an awful lot like a mommy to me. exaggeration aside, we all want the warm comfort of a woman, bu…	/r/askTRP	16/11/17 09:00 PM
6	I asked a girl out today, but she hasn't replied. Your FIRST text should have been "let's get drinks, #place and #time" Never never never ask in these situations, always be leading the interaction.... You're offering her the passenger seat in the ride called your life, you're not pulling the car over and begging her to take the wheel for you. If the girl replies to you, try again. by the time she does though I expect you to have three new chicks numbers in your phone for you to run game on, soldier. fuck oneitis before it fucks you	/r/askTRP	16/11/17 08:51 PM
2	How do I start putting myself out there? I feel like I'm at a dead end If you have a desire to meet people, all you can do is put yourself in situations where people will be and then force yourself to interact with them -- easier said than done, sure, but still a pretty simple change to make on your life. I don't connect with most people for shit, never have. red pill only made it worse since i could relate to even fewer people after ingesting. but you know what? Most people fucking suck and you'll know that within minutes of meeting them. If that's the case give t…	/r/askTRP	16/11/17 08:44 PM
6	Does abundance mentality work when all you want is a normal relationship? You're not looking for a girlfriend, you're looking for a surrogate mommy. your "need" to have someone "care about you" is the result of some childhood shit you'll need to deal with on your own or with a therapist. Why should a woman care for you if you can't care for yourself? How are you gonna get a woman to believe in you if you don't believe in yourself? You're rationalizing your chronic oneitis by saying 'but this is how I want it' No it fucking isn't -- if your life was what you wanted alr…	/r/askTRP	16/11/17 08:37 PM
1	Why do I feel so low in value all the time? Don't get me wrong -- the job mission is great, I'm just cautioning against making that EVERYTHING or falling into a trap where your happiness is something you see as always just out of reach. And with the therapy -- you don't necessarily need to lock on with a therapist and spend months /years working out issues... But it does help to bounce the thoughts you're having off of another person even if it's just to recognize how silly some of your self loathing is when you hear it out loud. i know f…	/r/askTRP	20/10/17 05:56 PM
1	How did I deal with oneitis? [fr +questions] Agree with the other guy, it's not always something you did wrong -- even the most alpha Chad gets flaked on or nexted out of nowhere. Maybe she's on her period, maybe an ex contacted her out of nowhere, maybe she really likes you and backed off cuz she thought she was coming on too strong.... Who fucking knows Stay the course, keep building that pussy pipeline.... And next time that oneitis creeps in remember that she's a 32 year old carousel rider who boned you the same day she met you at a be…	/r/askTRP	20/10/17 05:44 PM
5	Why do I feel so low in value all the time? You are wrong about not being able to start your mission until your degree is complete -- your mission is bigger than a single job in a given field. If that's the basket you're putting all your happiness eggs in, what happens if it isn't as much of a dream as you thought? Or if you end up in the position again with a toxic boss that sabotaged your success? Boom, one way ticket back to depression city, and every time you visit it's harder to leave. Your mission should not be one glorious moment i…	/r/askTRP	20/10/17 05:34 PM
3	Monk Mode? Work, lift, mission. These should be your only concerns during monk mode. You schedule around whatever earns you your paycheck -- go to the gym right before or after work so it's one seamless transition and you have no excuse to skip. If you're not working or lifting, you're on your mission or on a mission to find your mission. no fuckarounditis -- it's not monk mode if you're slacking off, it's lazy beta hermit mode If you see every hour, every minute of your life as opportunity to grow, then e…	/r/askTRP	26/09/17 06:04 PM
14	Can men with the INTP personality become Alphas? First step is to stop limiting yourself with all of these bullshit labels. the fact you're an "INTP" matters about as much as your astrological sign. All of the shortcomings can be overcome by deciding you want to change and taking steps to make said changes. Even aiming for some Alpha ideal is futile. my brand of alpha is not your brand of alpha is not other guys brand..... It's about becoming the best version of yourself possible and cutting the fat from your life that gets in the way of that.…	/r/askTRP	14/09/17 07:20 PM
1	Not sure how to handle situation / what or if I did something wrong Sometimes making friends with her friends (even on a Machiavellian level) is part of process of getting in her pants	/r/askTRP	14/09/17 06:05 PM
4	How should I react to LTR wearing revealing clothing when we go out? Why the fuck are you in an LTR in college to begin with? Unless you get rich, you will never have access to such an abundance of easy pussy again in your life, why limit yourself to just one? She dresses like that because she likes the attention and she knows her pussy power is at its peak. If she dressed and acts like that when you're around, imagine what it's like on grrrrls night. She doesn't respect you, and given that you're both in college trying to change that dynamic is not even remotely…	/r/askTRP	14/09/17 04:44 PM
1	How to overcome social anxiety? You just fucking do it. I know it seems a lot easier said than done, but it's easily done too once you make the decision to live in such a way. I used to have the same problem as you - trying to think my way into action. You need to reverse this -- act your way into your thoughts. take action first, your thoughts will follow Taking an improv class is fantastic practice for this -- plus a great way to meet and interact with a few girls	/r/askTRP	13/09/17 09:01 PM
2	On STDs and Pregnancy It's 2017, if you're playing the game you're taking the risk. ALWAYS use a condom, avoid girls that you suspect raw dog dudes in exchange for drugs, and keep your fingers crossed. if it makes you feel better, peek under the hood and check for visible herpes before you stick it in	/r/askTRP	29/07/17 06:45 PM
5	How do I finally murder what's left of my inner beta The problem here isn't cuddling up and having a deep talk with your ho, if you have a strong frame that can actually be a really enjoyable way to build a deep connection with a plate. But why the fuck do you mention talking about your problems? Yeah, maybe your inner beta wants to get things off your chest, but what is the benefit? What is this random slam piece gonna do about it? Console you like she's your mother? Give you a brilliant analysis of various strategies to improve your life? Fall i…	/r/askTRP	29/07/17 02:49 PM
12	Best thing to do in an unfamiliar social circle? You're creating imaginary roadblocks for yourself. It's not your responsibility to determine if a girl has a bf, if one of the guys in the group has oneitis for her and would get jealous of you got her number , etc. You can only control you, and if your desire is to flirt with a girl and ask for her number, just fucking go for it. Let the obstacles to your success come to you, and overcome them as they do. Stop creating imaginary hurdles in your head that keep you from even trying	/r/askTRP	29/07/17 02:29 PM
2	Need to find my chill Having goals and a mission is crucial as a man -- without a clear direction for life we have a hard time justifying all the bullshit we deal with day to day. The problem arises when we get too attached to the outcome. The world is a crazy place and we're always subject to unforeseen circumstances. You can have a goal to deadlift 300 pounds in 3 months or whatever, but all it takes is one silly injury to throw a wrench in all that and throw you off course. If you're 100% outcome dependent you wil…	/r/askTRP	29/07/17 02:04 PM
3	How Do I Shutup The Inner Voice Reminding Me of All My Past Mistakes? You're 21, you're not in prison and you don't have a kid. the world is your fucking oyster. All we have is the present moment. that's all we ever have. Make the choice to change your life NOW and nothing before matters. Would you rather start building that awesome life you've always wanted now, or feel sorry for yourself and look back in ten years and wonder what could have been? you've reached the fork in the road, it doesn't matter how you got there, it only matters how you move forward	/r/askTRP	28/07/17 06:47 PM
1	Approach anxiety lingers not because of what my target may think of me, but everyone around us Fuck the coworkers. you probably won't even have this same job in a few couple years, and if you do you probably won't be working with the same people If they want to bust your balls for doing something they want to but are too scared to, is that really the end of the world? They give you shit, you give them shit back, then you hit on the next girl that comes through and get a number while they go in the backroom to jerk off to the same girl. Best way to get over it? Go for it with a girl you th…	/r/askTRP	28/07/17 06:00 PM
1	Have any of you overcome codependency issues? It's possible, but it's a long, brutal process. Really it's something that most dudes on this sub should work on (not properly dealing with it is a huge reason for beta backsliding), but it's a million times harder than getting over shit like approach anxiety. Codependency is the result of early childhood conditioning, we're talking shit that has been ingrained in you since you were sucking the tit. so undoing it means uncovering years and years, layers and layers of repression and fucked up tho…	/r/askTRP	28/07/17 05:17 PM
1	Meet with her friends? I can't believe anyone actually suggested you pass this up. imo this is an ideal second date and if you have any social skills at all and play it right you'll have this girl in the bag by the end of the day. I suggest playing one of my favorite games -- ignore the shit out of her. Maintain whatever flirty aura you had on first date, but keep her at a distance in the early part of the day. Make your focus getting to know the group. Bond with the guys, make the girls laugh, and just focus on getti…	/r/askTRP	28/07/17 04:49 PM