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| 5 | What are the biggest factors that stop you from cold approaching?They’re all already dating someone. 100% of the time. | /r/seduction | 12/06/26 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Men, how the hell do I know when to make a move while on a date with a woman?This is extremely unintuitive to the point I will give off the wrong signal on instinct if this were to be tried on me. Maybe I’m just over sensitive, but unless I’m expecting it physical touch is quite a jolt. Especially in a situation like that. For me the main issue would be not sending out the wrong vibe | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 06:48 PM |
| 3 | What do you talk about on first dates?Yes! My questions are a form of probing for commonalities, something I can jump on with enthusiasm and revel in the moment of unity we share when discussing something we’re both passionate about | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 06:29 PM |
| 9 | What do you talk about on first dates?I ask questions about their life and then use those answers as an indication of what they might enjoy talking about | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 04:29 PM |
| 2 | So, you messaged a girl after (you thought) a great first date and no reply. What now? Just give up?Funny, that’s the explanation I used internally to give myself fake closure last time I was ghosting. That’s just based on a set precedent of girls with shitty partners expressing interest in me when their boyfriends aren’t around, then change their tune once their relationships get better. Shit hurts. Made me feel used for entertainment like a birthday clown. | /r/seduction | 10/10/25 06:48 PM |
| 5 | Why some men are "romantically invisible" to women?I always say what I’m thinking and might even go so far as to make my interest known in some capacity but I’d say that physically escalating is outside my comfort zone, it just causes too much anxiety trying to figure out good touch vs bad touch, and since bad touch is BAD I just stay away from touching entirely. That being said, I am totally comfortable with replicating any set precedent, and can be unreservedly affectionate once I know it’s welcome. | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 05:01 PM |
| 19 | Why some men are "romantically invisible" to women?Exactly, I never ever want someone to feel unsafe around me, and that means I probably miss a lot of chances. That’s just the hill I’ve decided to die on, I guess. People will always be safe around me and I won’t do anything to jeopardize anyone’s sense of security in my presence. | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Is there any truth to the idea that too many consecutive rejections will damage your psyche and ultimately hurt you?The only thing that harms you long-term is the erosion of hope. If you can avoid that you have unlimited lives. | /r/seduction | 15/08/25 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Why is escalating to sex on dates so difficult?I’ll keep this in mind. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Why is escalating to sex on dates so difficult?I could use some examples. I’d more like to know about signs the other party is receptive | /r/seduction | 03/08/25 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Why is escalating to sex on dates so difficult?You’re probably right, but I’m too tone-deaf to toe that line effectively. I could definitely try, but at this point my heart can’t take the ups and downs of hope and rejection. My new strategy is to just pretend they’re all already dating someone. That way at least I can interact with them normally and go home at the end of the day thinking about stuff I want to think about rather than running statistical analysis on likelihood of success based on current events. | /r/seduction | 03/08/25 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Why is escalating to sex on dates so difficult?I don’t want them to feel unsafe around me. Expressing sexual interest will no doubt put them on guard and make them weary of me | /r/seduction | 02/08/25 02:04 PM |
| 6 | Why is escalating to sex on dates so difficult?On the other hand, my dates with girls have been so innocuous that they walk away wondering what it was and what my intentions are. At this point, it’s not even just an outward presentation of vagueness. My thoughts and emotions also seem to have become similarly protean and undecided. Mostly because I refuse to let myself develop interest in girls who haven’t expressed interest in me, as a defence mechanism. So I literally don’t have any intentions and I’m just enjoying the moment, but I’m also… | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Update: How to go from cuddling to sexThis guy sciences | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 09:36 PM |
| 2 | How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material?Be yourself as long as you want them around and when you’re tired of them message me and I’ll tell you how I’d act in any given situation and that will surely drive them away | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 03:27 PM |
| 12 | A girl I banged in LATAM just asked me to buy her shoes as a giftNext date is a clog carving class | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 04:07 PM |
| 20 | No bond for woman accused of posing as 14-year-old, molesting studentsYeah same | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/01/25 04:54 PM |
| 1 | How do I make a move on my girlfriendYou can do the arm thing but also just tell her she might have to be the one to escalate because you don’t want to make her uncomfortable. It’s not like I know what I’m saying but it stands to reason that someone would appreciate the fact that you’re considering their feelings and comfort. | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 11:54 PM |
| 10 | What are the smoothest/witty lines you've said to girls?A vast ocean of chi | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 01:33 AM |
| 27 | What are the smoothest/witty lines you've said to girls?Maybe we they meet sometime | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Get woke go brokeIf I were you I’d go commit the crime I was jailed for | /r/PussyPassDenied | 16/09/22 02:24 PM |
| 8 | Model Esra Ersoy raped 13 years old boy in Turkey and sentenced to 10 years in prison.She says: "Tell them its a candid camera prank"There’s a sizeable portion of my brain whose sole function is to light up when there is a Family Guy reference to be made. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/03/22 03:11 PM |
| 1 | On tihi this has an nsfw tag and several highly upset individuals in the repliesIn my city we have the blue seats that you have to give up for handicapped/pregnant people | /r/PussyPassDenied | 24/01/22 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Have fun in jail.What did she do? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/07/20 12:41 PM |
| 17 | How do I respond to this?I rate this one | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 02:06 PM |
| 25 | Got my first date this weekendThe ol’ IMAX and Climax | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 06:35 PM |
| 1 | No one tries to put effort into me. And it kills my confidence. I see my friends getting attention from girls everyday and no one cared to say hello to me. Even my close friends dont care.Well, the last time was just me asking if I could take a photo with her at prom. I count that as the ½. | /r/seduction | 26/07/18 04:12 PM |
| 2 | No one tries to put effort into me. And it kills my confidence. I see my friends getting attention from girls everyday and no one cared to say hello to me. Even my close friends dont care.I gotta say a moment that really stung for me was when my high school crush said good morning to my best friend and totally ignored me, right next to him. She knew I was into her cuz I’d asked her out I think twice at that time. I proceeded to ask her out a further 7 ½ times that year and got rejected every single time. Point is, don’t let it get to you. I’m sure eventually someone will take notice of you if you make yourself noticeable. | /r/seduction | 26/07/18 01:37 PM |
| 121 | The fastest eye contact to makeout I have ever done [FR], and not a single word was saidExtra hard: being ugly | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 04:57 PM |
| 7 | How do I stop feeling down about my height?Ok so new game plan: become rich and famous, then height won't matter | /r/seduction | 24/01/18 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Not being a "nice guy" doesn't mean you can't be nice."Always try to be nice, but never fail to be kind." -The Doctor | /r/seduction | 21/01/18 10:12 PM |
| 1 | How to get laid in high schoolThat sounds fun, I'll totally do that! Thanks so much for your advice! | /r/seduction | 21/01/18 05:50 PM |
| 1 | How to get laid in high schoolI'm in a film program, so groups are an essential part of the process. We don't need study groups cuz there isn't really any studying (awesome) but yeah I'd be down to try that. Thing is, the groups we have to be in all of next term were decided and I got stuck with my one friend and some autistic kid. No girls. Like I said, there aren't that many girls in my class anyway and they're all the type of person I wouldn't really want to be friends with. Total snarky divas and two-faced type of people… | /r/seduction | 21/01/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | How to get laid in high schoolSorry if I'm making it sound that way, I really do appreciate your advice. It's just that paying a lot of money for dorm residence and living in a shithole seems quite a price to pay for marginally higher success rates with social interaction. I'm trying to push my boundaries here but if you look at the big picture it just isn't feasible in my situation. The most it seems I can logically do from your advice is try to befriend my actors and talk to even more people. My prof told me to keep work a… | /r/seduction | 21/01/18 05:37 PM |
| 1 | How to get laid in high schoolI've seen the dorms, they're shit. I live in an amazing house and have a room all to myself, why would I willing pay money to bunk with some random dude in a small room 20 minutes away from my school, when my house is only 30 minutes away? I'll try talking to the people I already know, but it seems like a lot of them live far away from school and have their own social circle apart from college | /r/seduction | 21/01/18 05:27 PM |
| 2 | How to get laid in high schoolI live at home, not in a dorm. College is only about half an hour away so I didn't bother. I do talk to girls when they walk by and shit, it's how I met all the actors for the film I'm making (my classrooms are near the acting studios). Sat next to the hottest girl in class, turns out she's a 20-something year old Russian who speaks enough English to get by but has a scary Michael Fassbender-looking boyfriend. Not a lot of fun to talk to, and I've never once seen her smile. I don't care to host … | /r/seduction | 21/01/18 04:59 PM |
| 7 | How to get laid in high schoolReally curious how things work in college too cuz it's a totally different environment. I'm a first year in college and I realized that aside from my classmates (with whom I'll be spending all four terms) I won't see anyone on a regular basis. Everyone has class at different times on different days and they aren't in school if they don't have class. There's 4 buildings in my campus alone and within the one building I occupy I never leave the second floor. Likewise, the people on the first floor … | /r/seduction | 21/01/18 03:26 AM |
| 3 | What are some funny ways to insinuate sex through text?The dance with no pants | /r/seduction | 10/01/18 03:32 PM |
| 497 | Approached a girl at the gymPlayed it off real smooth, I'm gonna use that "fan" line | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 08:09 PM |
| 8 | Eye contact tips while talking to a girl in casual situationsI mean, maybe? This might work but it might also call her out on social anxiety and make it worse | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Why do I seem to attract girls who were raped?They sure did "open up" to him ...I'm sorry I had to | /r/seduction | 06/12/17 05:52 PM |
| 30 | How to kiss a girl for the first timeStroke her hair and whisper in her ear "hail Hydra" | /r/seduction | 29/11/17 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Wtf happened here? (Text convo)Confirming never hurts, I just got burned twice today for not confirming meetings well in advance. | /r/seduction | 24/11/17 04:45 AM |
| 5 | I realized I have some sex anxiety . Need helpJerrod, is that you? | /r/seduction | 18/11/17 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Stop Putting So Much Pressure Around Sex"Live" | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 04:35 PM |
| 3 | [Need Advice] A girl I have been seeing and really like just intentionally blue balled me and not sure how to handle.Just do the same thing to her, go down on her, get her close, and then say the exact same things she said. I'm not being serious here but it's fun to imagine, isn't it? | /r/seduction | 11/11/17 05:53 PM |
| 3 | [Need Advice] A girl I have been seeing and really like just intentionally blue balled me and not sure how to handle."Blow it off" | /r/seduction | 11/11/17 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Will turn 18 soon, first ever night out. Tips?No he doesn't approve of things like seddit, he's such a square | /r/seduction | 09/11/17 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Will turn 18 soon, first ever night out. Tips?Lol my friend lives in Montreal and loves clubs, maybe he could join lol | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 10:07 PM |
| 15 | First date sober. Learn from my mistake.I appreciate your sentiment and will definitely take this into account but the title was a bit misleading, lol. It sounding like you're saying its a mistake to be sober on the first date. | /r/seduction | 25/09/17 03:58 AM |
| 1 | I need an advice with a troublesome girl I like. Please read!!!Sorry about that, I guess I wasn't clear either. Thanks for the clarification | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 07:10 PM |
| 1 | I need an advice with a troublesome girl I like. Please read!!!Dude. You got laid. Our job here is done. Go ask r/relationship_advice because they'll probably give better advice. | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 12:43 PM |
| 65 | Have really good game, but suck at sexI feel bad but I actually laughed when I read that part of the post and again when I read this comment. All I can think about is you cunt-punting a chick aggressively with your knee and saying "MMM YOU LIKE THAT BABE?" | /r/seduction | 03/09/17 03:32 PM |
| 14 | "Just to be clear it's not a date haha"Yeah basically don't make it seem like she has all the control | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 02:31 PM |
| 4 | Good replies to "You're too young for me".Or ask her what it was like to live before sliced bread | /r/seduction | 30/08/17 12:39 AM |
| 8 | Good replies to "You're too young for me".I saw something on the internet once, I can't for the life of me remember exactly what it was. But since I saw it every time someone says "age is just a number" I feel obligated to say "jail is just a room". I think it's a pedo joke... | /r/seduction | 30/08/17 12:37 AM |
| 0 | Good replies to "You're too young for me".Totally underrated comment, have my upvote | /r/seduction | 30/08/17 12:35 AM |
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