Kurukuruchan Archive

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11	All my problems in my life comes from a woman. "Even my mother abused me psychologically" I say this with the utmost sincerity and sympathy, have you thought about/accessed therapy? It sounds like you're falling into a pattern of who you are actively seeking as a partner, and then getting burnt over and over again. There are many great women out there who won't be the source of all your problems, but it's likely problems will still be there regardless. I'm not saying all women are good, but maybe there's something inside you that you need to…	/r/MensRights	02/05/26 02:09 PM
5	Abusive ex-wife is weaponizing our children after I rejected her attempt to get back together U.K. Social worker even said, "You don't have to do this test, I won't force you. But if you pass it then this particular issue she's making can be dropped." So I took it. For context , we both used drugs prior to children. I ended up in rehab and came out clean, and stayed clean for many years. I relapsed in January 2025. My relapse is the only real ammunition she has. Everything else is false allegations. No one knew or suspected it - family, friends, work, etc.. We're talking pure self-medica…	/r/MensRights	06/02/26 10:03 PM
6	Abusive ex-wife is weaponizing our children after I rejected her attempt to get back together I totally agree with you and have taken this step only for my own safety. It's something I never thought I would even consider; but in December, I took an overdose of my prescription benzo supplied by my psychiatrist, and then yesterday, my thoughts on the tracks. My children need a father, but the psychological torture I've been suffering for years (and continue to suffer, post separation) has finally made me crack. Believe me, I feel like a failure. I recognise that what I'm about to do will c…	/r/MensRights	06/02/26 08:06 PM
19	Abusive ex-wife is weaponizing our children after I rejected her attempt to get back together I've provided 2. One, a home kit I sourced and willingly did with no prior orders in October , a second that was sprung on me as a surprise during a social worker meeting 22nd Jan. Both negative. Judge still saying I'm a danger and agreed with the other side that I need to have a segmented hair strand test, and further tests for a year (at my own expense of course).	/r/MensRights	06/02/26 06:57 PM
8	Abusive ex-wife is weaponizing our children after I rejected her attempt to get back together The most fucked part is I still love, and am grieving, the person I loved and was planning the rest of my life with. The person who, in reality, never existed. But me? I am a mortal enemy, or at times (even worse), don't even exist.	/r/MensRights	06/02/26 06:53 PM
19	Abusive ex-wife is weaponizing our children after I rejected her attempt to get back together A taste of her statements to court. Interestingly she submitted two, the second after reading my statment. Her statements conflict eachother- In attempt to get to "shake up" and realise just how serious things had gotten, I did tell him " you do not understand what I mean when I say I will take the children", and I wholeheartedly meant it. I would not allow him to be left alone with the children as he could not be trusted to care for them On this particular occasion, I did put my foot at the doo…	/r/MensRights	06/02/26 05:49 PM
75	Abusive ex-wife is weaponizing our children after I rejected her attempt to get back together Jesus Christ, I could reply with almost identical screenshots. It's been going on now for coming up to 5 months. I was actually at court yesterday; the judge and social services have taken everything she has said at face value and, with only (at best) 10 minutes on the phone or meeting me in person, have decided I am such a threat to my children I shouldn't even be granted the right to do a 10 minute walk school run as, "I may cause them emotional harm." Evidence of abuse towards me (years of wr…	/r/MensRights	06/02/26 05:01 PM
1	On police bail following a domestic abuse allegation — struggling with months of limbo So sorry to hear this mate. I'm UK also, and I've swerved some hassle but not all. I went to police to make them aware I was leaving an emotionally abusive woman and I was concerned about potential revenge. Told them I didn't want anything to happen, just noting in case. 3 weeks later police at the door, when I asked if it was regarding my report they looked at me odd and asked "what report?" Turns out there to arrest me on sexual abuse charges, though they left me and said it may be a voluntary…	/r/MensRights	12/01/26 06:11 PM
10	Did any of your sexual partners try to revoke consent AFTER sex? What happened? My ex withheld sex for about 4 years. I would be "allowed" physical intimacy, maybe twice a year (and only initiated by her). She gave all sorts of excuses; it was her, it was me, it was being touched out by our kids. Immediately after each time, she would say how much she was going to try harder and change, and would be flirty for a few days (getting my hopes up). Last summer, during one of these few days after glows and my hope getting up again, we were mildly flirting, and I touched her intim…	/r/MensRights	08/01/26 03:16 PM
3	Normalized Female Abuse Diagnosed literally a few hours ago by a psychiatrist with Acute Stress Disorder (potential PTSD) following years of spousal abuse, whilst being accused in court of bullying/harassment/sexual asssult/coercive abuse 👍	/r/MensRights	15/11/25 09:57 PM