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| 3 | How do I get a smart/nerdy guy to ask me outAsk the guy to invite you to his home or yours to Netflix and chill. | /r/seduction | 25/08/18 10:37 PM |
| 8 | Advice for hooking up, meeting people, partying while traveling alone?I just read your post and I’m actually going to Kraków. Looking good. I’m just going to explore the city but that’s a good added bonus. | /r/seduction | 23/07/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | New to tinder .. any help?Take really really really really good pictures and you’ll be forgiven with texts. Sometimes you feel your text is wrong. But it’s not it’s actually the picture. I just updated my tinder with new pictures and now I can simply say “Hi”, “How you doin” and get answers and numbers. My pictures are taken with a modern smartphone and few apps to touch. YouTube how to take a great picture of yourself. | /r/seduction | 09/05/18 06:53 AM |
| 1 | First cold approachesIt took me time to get a girlfriend from these approaches, honestly you need way more, but it’ll just keep getting easier | /r/seduction | 04/04/18 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Looking for an accountability buddyLook up RSD Facebook group for your city, let’s say you live in “London” on Facebook search for RSD London, you’ll find Wingman and people who keep you accountable, I met quit interesting people there. | /r/seduction | 04/04/18 07:58 AM |
| 1 | How to break up after moving in together for a month?I’m not worried about my financial situation, she is the one who doesn’t make enough to find a new place easily. Thank you and that makes sense, we already planned for her to move out Sept but I want to make sure she starts looking for a place ASAP and if possible move out earlier. Thank you for the time everyone. I have a date tonight I wish I can bring that girl home as well. | /r/seduction | 22/03/18 04:48 PM |
| 1 | How to break up after moving in together for a month?We pay rent together, as well, it is very hard to find a good price apartment, she just left her really good deal with her room mate for me. I defiantly can’t tell her “Get out” now. Needs time to find a new place for her. | /r/seduction | 22/03/18 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Extreme Approach Anxiety? ShakingListen to this, when you go to a beach, the temperature is warm enough, but the water is kind of colder. Many people chicken and have a hard time to jump into the water, but if you just jump into the water with your whole body, you'll feel a tiny bit of pressure, once your in for few seconds everything goes back to normal. That what you need to do when approaching women, just jump into talking to women, it is the same as jumping into the water beside the beach, once you do the jump it won't be a… | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 10:06 PM |
| 1 | I am a pussy from the inside and i chickened out.Any advice welcome.The harsher the better.If you want to date you have to do at least some texting, yes some girls will date you without much texting but you'll decrease your chances significantly. I'm not talking about tinder here! I have girls who go out with me on dates without sharing their number, by texting on social media, this way she actually doesn't want to share her number until we meet together and make sure we are compatible! So texting is essential, I move to Instagram/snapchat and start sending girls sometimes these short… | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 06:58 PM |
| 1 | I am a pussy from the inside and i chickened out.Any advice welcome.The harsher the better.So you having success online dating? How many matches on Tinder do you get? or whatever app you use? Are you able to get at least 1 match a week or more? Online dating today can defintly can help you, once you go on a few dates it will seem to you that's its very easy, it does not require you a lot. | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 05:59 PM |
| 2 | What can I do to build attraction to coworkers after not making a good social impression?What you can do is start an interesting life outside your social circle, and post super interesting things on your social media account whether it is Facebook or Instagram, People will start inviting you and being interested in you and you will slowly blend into the group. Assume a girl/guy see that you play an interesting sport/interesting activity whatever it is, guitar, volleyball, lifting weight, scuba diving, surfing or whatever achievements. They may start coming up to you and asking you q… | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approaching a waste of time?I'll let you know my story here, it is not a total waste of time, but if done the wrong way it can be a waste of time, and no I am not going to tell you to stop cold approaching, but cold approaching itself isn't going to get you results if you done it and did not get much. So what you need to do and focus on is work on yourself, your health, your body, your looks (Maximize your looks, every guy can maximize his looks to a degree of adding 2 up to 6 points to his attraction on a scale of 1 to 10… | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Does working out increase a guy's sex drive?It sure boost confidence and health, also some studies suggest it boost testosterone, which essentially boost sex drive, and confidence and everything. | /r/seduction | 13/07/17 08:37 PM |
| 1 | The importance of online presence (Instagram, Tinder ... etc)I use the timer feature of iPhone if nobody was to take a picture of me or ask people if I really want to! Text me your picture yes! | /r/seduction | 12/07/17 11:19 PM |
| 1 | The importance of online presence (Instagram, Tinder ... etc)I think being good looking and not good looking have a lot to do with yourself, you can take multiple actions to become a good looking person, let's repeat them again Start lifting weights Take care of your style, make sure to get the best hair cut, the best style that fits you, trump your beard to suit you best Having pictures while doing great things make you look instantly more attractive There's a lot of content here as well as on google how to become more attractive, just start working on y… | /r/seduction | 12/07/17 10:46 PM |
| 2 | The importance of online presence (Instagram, Tinder ... etc)Just try to remember videos or pictures! It's your personality it's like handing your resume to an interviewer, instead your handing your personality to the girl/women! | /r/seduction | 12/07/17 02:29 AM |
| 4 | The importance of online presence (Instagram, Tinder ... etc)Yes there's enough advice about that and I did not want to repeat it. Just approach women once your done following the above steps. If you apply the steps Going to gym, joining an interesting hobby or being an interesting passionate person, improve your work/job and become a professional, learn to how take better pictures, have an interesting lifestyle, improve your style! And then go over online presence. These will boost your attractiveness level, I have my guy friends told me that I become mo… | /r/seduction | 11/07/17 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Is this how women troll on Tinder?I got you but he can always talk to her and then invite her over to a bar close to his place and then within an hour or two invite her back home! | /r/seduction | 10/06/17 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Is this how women troll on Tinder?Dude the person is getting 0 dates! And I will not lose my chances, take the least riskier path buddy. I had that experience myself and I'm talking from experience, I asked the girl to go home with me and I got unmatched! My tinder game is on point and I do now not so much cold approaches as before, and I'm getting better results. Always have something interesting to ask the girl home when she's in front of you in real life, do not ask her on tinder or text! This is a huge mistake. Assuming the … | /r/seduction | 10/06/17 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Is this how women troll on Tinder?He's not getting dates, I would go with a safest path! Girl wouldn't mind if he skip answering this questions and ignore her neediness! He can always bring back the discussion when he meet her in real life! | /r/seduction | 10/06/17 07:59 AM |
| 4 | Is this how women troll on Tinder?Dude, when she says she's horney this is a shit text you failed that! You should've maybe just not respond to her sexual desire comments and move along, like "So what is it in life that you enjoy the most?" And just totally ignore that she's horney! She's testing if your that horney dude. I used to be like you, I would also suggest if your not getting enough matches, reset your account or take better pictures and try again, do not take things sexual before date 2, don't stress about date one, to… | /r/seduction | 10/06/17 05:17 AM |
| 1 | why i cant daygame without a wingman?Me too so you just try harder! I still go out for an hour or two approaching 1-2 girls maybe get a number one day. That's as far as I go. I wish with time I can do more to get faster results but for now it's ok. One advice is first start talking to strangers about directions and the ask "are you from blah blah .. etc" 2 minutes and leave, just for warming up, if you feel you want to take these 2 minutes more go for it and then genuinely ask the girl to come with you to the place (Starbucks or so… | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Vancouver YaletownPeople pretending to be happy or are actually happy make me happy myself lol! | /r/seduction | 09/04/17 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Vancouver YaletownThank you! That's an awesome write! | /r/seduction | 09/04/17 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Vancouver YaletownWhat about morning/afternoon? | /r/seduction | 09/04/17 06:29 PM |
| 2 | So I approached a few girls in the day.Wise words! Well done. | /r/seduction | 09/04/17 03:29 AM |
| 5 | So I approached a few girls in the day.Don't stress about things and enjoy it, stop thinking about things as sets and hard fact rules, take it easy man just go and don't expect things to happen, enjoy the chat, it's not only about the sex! | /r/seduction | 09/04/17 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Ladies and Gents, Can the wrong clothing style make me a creep?Maybe that person have lots of approach experience, so he can take it to that level! | /r/seduction | 05/01/17 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Ladies and Gents, Can the wrong clothing style make me a creep?I am not sure why people down voting me, it's a valid question/concern lol, thanks I figured and I am working on it! | /r/seduction | 04/01/17 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Beginner ,approached 2 girls todayI am on 35+ approaches now and I never closed any one of them, 0 out of 35 of my approaches haven't gone right! | /r/seduction | 28/12/16 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Miami pickupSoftware development | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Miami pickupThank you I will do | /r/seduction | 27/12/16 07:16 PM |
| 3 | 26 M, never had a GF - Wondering if anxiety may not be the real issue...Plz bare with me - tried professional counsel, hasn't worked and can't afford...Have you tried that yourself? | /r/seduction | 26/12/16 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Approach only attractive girls?I am PMing you | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Approach only attractive girls?Thank you for the response! Very cool. | /r/seduction | 21/12/16 05:17 PM |
| 1 | I need to learn social skills,how to get friends, im 15.One of the best things is to learn about things you notice other people talk about in your school, it will make it easier to talk to your school mates if you know what they're talking about. I consider myself good socially, But when I set with people that talk about 80s movies I got frozen and doesn't know what to say. So learning about some topics to start discussing then with people. Also I found out lifting weights really helped me, try to start lifting weights, I suggest you start by reading… | /r/seduction | 20/12/16 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Who is your favorite pickup artist?True words, well said! | /r/seduction | 20/12/16 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Does rejection don't bother you guys at all anymore?I'm a noob/beginner so I look at rejection as a way for me to improve my conversation skills, I go back home and analyze the conversation and try again the next day! | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Women and men: which is better? Day gaming solo vs with a wingman?Well I'm not sure I am a noob at this pick up stuff, I think solo is great actually I'm loving it. | /r/seduction | 14/12/16 05:01 AM |
| 3 | Observation after dressing nicelyThat's not shallow, we're visual livin beings and I'm ok with the that, I love things that looks good including not only humans but, buildings, nature, art and everything else. | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Lose motivation after leaving homeToday I went out with a wingman, he approached 3 girls first and then I started, I did a total of 8 approaches I think I'll continue going out with the wingmen I knew from facebook now for few times until I get more comfortable to do it solo! | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 12:46 AM |
| 17 | [FR] First approach ever. I never felt so proud of myself.Congrats man that's awesome! I think you should approach more women, and keep in touch with this women as well, otherwise you may act too needy! I don't know about waiting a day, I would've texted her almost the same time with my name and setup a date maybe later after a day. | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Lose motivation after leaving homeOk I talk to an old man sitting beside me in Starbucks for few minutes, that's one step. I learned something about him he's a primary school teacher, 55 years. | /r/seduction | 10/12/16 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Help. Unique version of approach anxietyGot same problem, I even can talk to girls I'm attracted to easily if I ask about the time or where Starbucks is, but when I think I'm gonna try pick her up it builds up, i approached few girls earlier and I feel more relaxed if the girl doesn't look much in a hurry. | /r/seduction | 09/12/16 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Lose motivation after leaving homeOk I'll do that after office hours and my workout and get back with results if any. | /r/seduction | 09/12/16 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Lose motivation after leaving homeI went out with my friends one day, approached 5 women on that day, and agreed we will do this for 2 weeks straight, but the next day they didn't want to continue so they know nothing about this, and I'm stuck. (As it was about rejection, even though the deal was to get reject by 140 girls, my friends rejected to do this anymore) As well, they always think that I take care of my looks is a bad attitude, I don't know if you understand this but they're totally not my type, maybe they'll be interes… | /r/seduction | 09/12/16 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Lose motivation after leaving homeHonestly I have friends but I do not préfère to go out with them, I really wanna learn this solo, I get very motivated before leaving the house, and when I come back in bed, but when I step out the house I lose interest it's windy and freezing outside! I just moved here so I know very little people which I work with. | /r/seduction | 09/12/16 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Lose motivation after leaving homeI think you missed the point I need motivation to do it, not force it, I'm fine with chit chatting asking asking directions, do you think I should do these as warm ups? But I don't know if these will increase my motivation level as they are normal to me. | /r/seduction | 09/12/16 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Trying to do daygame everywhereI just got rejected, my first solo approach at Starbucks with a girl! The other girl keep looking at me but it'll be very creepy jumping from one girl to another in Starbucks so I leave it at one only! Edit: I'm laughing about it! | /r/seduction | 05/12/16 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Any tips on improving charisma/begin more charismatic?There's a podcast called Art of charm They are great start listing to them! Good luck! My friends tell me that I have funny/good jokes nowadays, it never been like this, but since I started hanging out with a black friend of mine (he have that attractive personality especially at first impression), I picked up things from him naturally! | /r/seduction | 04/12/16 01:55 PM |
| 5 | Inviting a guy to spend the weekend?You win 0% of the chances you don't take, take the chance and then only you can know. | /r/seduction | 04/12/16 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Trying to do daygame everywhereTry new places, less busy women, like shopping places I would believe are one of the best, also bookstores. At least you are confident now congrats! | /r/seduction | 04/12/16 01:04 PM |
| 5 | Girls texting/responding at 3 AM = always a booty call?Ask her to visit your place or go to a bar at 3 am and you'll know for sure | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 08:09 PM |
| 3 | I have read about AA but still have a hard time approaching. Any help would be appreciated.Go to YouTube and watch Limitless Exp He doesn't show steps but he's fun to watch and I find it motivational to me actually | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 06:45 PM |
| 15 | She confirmed it, the truth in one sentence.Excuse me Tai Lopez | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Studying seduction fucked my up my life. How do I fix this?Look up a podcast called "Art of charm", it helped me a ton, listen to it. | /r/seduction | 02/12/16 04:16 AM |
| 3 | I do well with girls I have a reason to talk with, but I'm terribly unconfident at cold-opening.What do you mean you have no reason? If you find a women attractive, that's the reason to approach her, if you don't find a women attractive, don't approach her. Don't lie to us that you have no reason, you think your reason is not good enough, but it is good enough. Go to a women, and tell her the reason you approaching her is because she is attractive. | /r/seduction | 28/08/16 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Still can't maintain eye contactThat's exactly it, no body is born ever even knowing how to speak, they carefully pay attention to their parent when their kids or people around them once they grow up to go to school, and if they're lucky to have very good social circle they become naturally better at picking up women. | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Still can't maintain eye contactMost people learn these social skills when they're pretty young, but key is they "learn" those skills, I even haven't read anything online, but I changed a lot of myself a bit late, at age 23, the way I changed myself is by closely monitoring my friends who are better than me. I had a good black friend who was extremely not shy, he was my best friend for some time and I learned a lot from him. | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 02:16 PM |
| 1 | [FT] Lied to my friends that I'm pro at picking up women, and it forced me to approach 5 women on my first day in front of them16 ... Your doing great thank you! | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 11:45 AM |
| 1 | [FT] Lied to my friends that I'm pro at picking up women, and it forced me to approach 5 women on my first day in front of themAll right thank you a lot for the nice words, so the advice now is to continue and keep on going? I think this is my average look, easy and not over the top, shirt and jeans or shirt and short pants. | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 11:27 AM |
| 8 | Finally did itDon't stop doing it! | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 03:18 AM |
| 1 | [FT] Lied to my friends that I'm pro at picking up women, and it forced me to approach 5 women on my first day in front of themLet me know your advice for pick up locations that doesn't necessary involve alcohol! (Hey I'm new) If you need someone to push your confident level let me know | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 02:58 AM |
| 1 | [FT] Lied to my friends that I'm pro at picking up women, and it forced me to approach 5 women on my first day in front of themAll right guys here you go a GIF, moving image (hit direct download) Edit: for safety reasons the picture is now deleted, if anyone is still interested in giving out advice PM me, thank you. Now you tell me the secret ingredient and let's see how far we can go with this lol | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 02:56 AM |
| 2 | [FT] Lied to my friends that I'm pro at picking up women, and it forced me to approach 5 women on my first day in front of themIn this pic http://static.fashionbeans.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/outfitcombos-shirt-shorts-1.jpg The guy with blue shirt and being short pants is almost how I dress in summer, not very fit clothing but not baggy either | /r/seduction | 26/08/16 10:49 PM |
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