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| 12 | Help me process the last 5 years… Am I an ‘Alpha Widow’?You're trying to escape reality and a romanticized past memory is your choice. Happens to all of us. Better try to fix your present or change it. If you can't/won't deal with it, you will make your current bfs life hell. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/25 03:57 PM |
| 9 | Is being boring a big deal? If not, why do men never commit to me?Am I allowed to call this post satire? | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/24 09:48 PM |
| 14 | Men commit only when they're ready. Doesn't matter how great you are.I think we should mention some guys don't want to commit because they're unsure of where they stand in all this mess, so they don't want to disappoint the lady | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/24 03:56 PM |
| 12 | Men commit only when they're ready. Doesn't matter how great you are.Being a man, it was once unclear to me. Yes, girl and her state don't matter if I'm not in position to commit. I think it's universal for all men. Being in this state depends on many factors. Handling relationships in this state is more individual. Some will take a 'loan' from their future self, or make a 'bet' (on themselves - which is pretty common, who better to bet on than yourself, after all, if things go sideways, we're fucked anyway, can at least say we were 'trying' ). These moves are sp… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/24 12:50 PM |
| 8 | Boyfriend doesn't want to become a better person – only focus is his work.It seems like he might be channeling most of his energy into work at the moment, leaving little for personal growth in other areas. I prefer this approach to work-life balance as well—immersing in a single pursuit until achieving the goal, then gradually incorporating the new situation into the broader scope of life. Assert whether his decreased attention to other aspects of life is temporary. It's possible that he's feeling exhausted by work, which is a common challenge in maintaining work-life… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/03/24 06:59 PM |
| 3 | As an actual Man, and intelligent, it makes no sense to me how TRP theory was flawed from the beginning?Who the fuck is that guy | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/24 10:22 AM |
| -8 | My partner has told me to look at this page - He wants me to promise him that I will always look skinny for him and stay in shape. Am I in the wrong for saying that I shouldn’t have to promise that to him?I mean... I can prove dream chasing through people to literally anybody on this planet. Its not an argument | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/02/23 11:49 PM |
| 32 | Upset with lack of initiative of my boyfriendIs there any chance he doesn't actually care if the trip happens? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/22 01:06 PM |
| 8 | How to Please Husband in the Bedroom?Talking about sex beforehand also accomplishes a lot of OP's goals. Firstly contributes greatly as foreplay. Secondly opens up an 'erotic wishlist' conversation. OP manifesting desires indirectly communicates to SO he too is allowed to do that. Works with me. And thirdly, communicates desire, basic but still valuable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/22 03:22 PM |
| 3 | When do I need to start dressing “Mature”?I'd say never. Especially if you don't feel it. /male | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/22 09:05 PM |
| 0 | I still wasn't enoughfair enough, keep up the good work on the watch :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/22 04:05 PM |
| 2 | I still wasn't enoughI missed the blaming part, where is it? | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | I still wasn't enoughIf something happens out of the blue it usually means you're just uninformed. I wouldn't necessarily trust everything he says but 'it was a long time coming' doesn't sound like out of nowhere. I wouldn't judge him for not telling you what it was. Maybe he has some personal preferences you just don't meet and it's pointless to even tell you about it at this point, if he's already made up his mind. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/22 01:22 AM |
| 5 | Should you stay friends with someone who rejected you?What's in it for you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/22 05:52 PM |
| 2 | I went through my boyfriend’s YouTube history...and immediately regretted it. How can I get over these feelings I’m having?The message is: Are you his partner or his employer? Are you two partners, helping each other experience and grow. Or are you both policing each other to fit some archaic rules you follow but don't understand? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/22 07:59 PM |
| 3 | I went through my boyfriend’s YouTube history...and immediately regretted it. How can I get over these feelings I’m having?Why is this comment downvoted into the ground but VasiliyZaitzev's comment is not. Is it because he/she has a flair? Surely not! Why not downvote the mod? She said the exact same thing as me and Zaitzev: "Treating your partner like another human being who has agency and rights in his own life IS an RPW tactic. Browbeating a man into doing what you want is NOT an RPW tactic AND it is a good way to lose respect. " | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/22 07:29 PM |
| -13 | I went through my boyfriend’s YouTube history...and immediately regretted it. How can I get over these feelings I’m having?Are you okay with your own feelings about this? Are you following a framework of thought or all these are your convictions? You can learn a lot about your bf that you'd never learn if you're both just blindly following the rules. Why would your bf not watch girls in lingerie? Are you actively hindering his development? He's constantly in a process of self discovery and calibration. I don't think imposing rules you don't understand helps any of you. The two of you don't need to be together after … | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/22 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Girl asks a question, I answer kindly and get downvoted.I see. So a good personality<hot ass.If a man's priority is a hot ass, then yes, ass > personality. Who are we to set other's priorities. Again, it depends what everyone is looking for. (...) Be discerning and choose wisely, ladies! All we know about the girl in OP's post is that she can't attract guys in a club. Why are producing an irrelevant abstract story that is not related to the topic? we also realize her personality has to be that way to make up for the faults that got her fatHow is this… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/22 10:50 PM |
| 1 | How can I stop myself from having a fight or flight response when a great guy expresses interest in me?As I see it, from the little information you provided, you're trying to marry early cause (enter reasons), but you don't actually feel it's the right guy, just some pieces are right (money). So you're thinking: "I'm gonna marry him for money (nothing wrong with that if you ask me, but apparently this isn't completely ok with you), but I'm not going to give him any real respect. He might or might not notice/care/complain in the future. My intentions are not sincere and I'm not telling him either.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/22 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Girl asks a question, I answer kindly and get downvoted.I guess how fat are we talking?We're talking as fat as the dude in question likes it. No ramifications to personal preferences. If it's a little chub, I don't see that as (...) Foodin the west is terrible and VERY prone to making people gain weight. I guess you're right, but how is this relevant? If you don't know the answer to the question you don't pass the test. You can provide a story explaining why you don't know the answer, but it will not pass you the test. It's just not relevant. Plus, l… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/22 10:12 PM |
| 10 | Girl asks a question, I answer kindly and get downvoted.Im not going to speak for all males but I believe some, lots or even all (unconsciously tho) of us may reason that: Not being fat shows character, being fat shows the lack of it. If you ask me, it's a pretty obvious personality flaw. Personality, intellect, other features are developed as an answer to a need. If your fat friend has great personality and you believe it's a positive quality, we might think so too, but we also realize her personality has to be that way to make up for the faults tha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/22 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Girl asks a question, I answer kindly and get downvoted.So you say you don't know why girls do this, even add genuinely, then proceed to explain exactly why you think they do this. I mean you're right but why write it that way :d | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/22 06:08 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, how can I be more patient with my partner's self improvement efforts?Reading this post like: 'Monkey trainers, my monkey is really nice does the dishes and groceries, the only problem is I can't get her to back flip on demand. I may be too demanding but honestly other monkeys do the flip when asked. What is wrong with my approach?' | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/22 09:42 PM |
| 8 | How do you learn to be happy caring for your husband?Solution 1: Don't do things you don't want to do. See what happens. Solution 2: Run a mental experiment of not doing what you don't want to do. See what happens. Decide if you want to face consequences of not doing these things. Who knows maybe consequences are pleasant and its a good deal. If the decision is yes 'do things for him', it means its now your choice and it's better than the alternative. Now every time you do those things you're happy because your doing what you chose to do and there… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/22 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Boyfriend told me he doesnt want to get married?Wait, wouldn't the spouse end up with what she earned before and during the marriage? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/12/21 08:56 PM |
| 1 | The result of my 20's with just escorts/prostitutesI've never hired an escort either, for anyone's information. Not that it actually matters here. I'm just curious about the genesis of your wisdom. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/21 10:02 PM |
| 6 | The result of my 20's with just escorts/prostitutesMay I ask how old are you and what is your situation/deal with women? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/21 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Please help, my ex is mad at me because I slept with someone else when we weren’t together?I love how this is a RedPill Reddit and still most commenters here jump on the 'conclusion' wagon having no regards for the fact that OP's story is a typical one sided story. She told you what she wanted to tell you so she could hear the answers she wanted to hear. Not trying to accuse OP, just wanted to make things clear. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 09:54 PM |
| 3 | Please help, my ex is mad at me because I slept with someone else when we weren’t together?Damn that's actually a pretty good comment. It could have been more precise and to the point if you put some effort into It, but I get what you're saying. And you're saying it cause you're feeling it so it's all good. Nice read, hope it helps our OP | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/08/21 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Redpill tactics don't work in my country, what can I do?So what is it exactly that you want? What do you think is the reason you're not getting it? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | 27. Never Dated Before. How to find a man who's husband material?Well that is how I go about explaining things. Obviously higher perspective is more complicated and involves things like childhood environment, social constructs, personal bias, emotions, spirituality and other metaphysical, mystical areas. Obviously I left those aside. Reason: following the basic model would ignite a spark that would shed light on basics and lead to more advanced concepts. Like it does for me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/21 02:10 PM |
| 0 | 27. Never Dated Before. How to find a man who's husband material?Well I was thinking something along: I. Start here ("Try becoming a wife material"): you want a husband, one that you'd be happy to be a wife of, for it to work you want your husband to be happy with you as a wife, for it to last Satisfy step 1: To achieve this you'd have to imagine what kind of characteristics your future husband would have to represent, so you'd be at least on an "ok" level of interest. That would be your basic model of a husband Satisfy step 2: Your "ok" model of a husband, a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/21 03:33 AM |
| -4 | 27. Never Dated Before. How to find a man who's husband material?Try becoming a wife material and market it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/21 09:33 AM |
| 2 | Confidence & Self-ImageDude when I read this I see Eckhart Tolle: The Power of Now and Dao De Jing. Pretty nice read thank you for adding some Dao flavour to my daily does of Red Pill :) | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/21 11:07 PM |
| 2 | My boyfriend deleted all pictures of mehe might have another GF and she might be checking his phone | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/21 12:01 PM |
| 5 | FinessedHow is the theft, she asked him to give her money. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/02/21 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Talking with Girls isn’t “Making Progress”I'd say you can't truly know a person you play games with, or who plays games with you. Sex might be the end of that game, or just a different stage of the same game. I believe OP's end stage of the game is sex, since he's not interested in a relationship, and the girls he's banging know it. Correct me if I'm wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/21 12:45 AM |
| 1 | trying to spitout the redpill yet concerned it may be accurateWe eat the same food, we have the same brain structure, we're a part of the same day/night/season cycle. Those rules do not apply? Sir I think I'm don't until you do some basic existential check. Too much first world for you. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/21 12:54 AM |
| 1 | trying to spitout the redpill yet concerned it may be accurateWe are superior. I didn't state otherwise. We're Windows 10 to our ancestry's win 95 and animal's dos, mushrooms would be machine code. Same rules apply. Just more complicated solutions. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/21 12:28 AM |
| 1 | trying to spitout the redpill yet concerned it may be accurateThis doesn't apply to animals just because animals don't think far ahead, because they don't form complex concepts. Just because we do form them, doesn't mean the rules of the game are different for them and us. The process of rationalization exists because we've learned the concept of self and past, so we rationalize "self's" actions in the past. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/21 10:33 PM |
| -1 | trying to spitout the redpill yet concerned it may be accurateIm not sure you're getting the point you're making | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/21 09:05 PM |
| 2 | How industrial PUA ruined my teenage dating lifeI removed my comments. I realize my own understanding is flawed. I'm in no position to give any advice or perspective. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/01/21 07:58 PM |
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