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| 0 | I [F] keep hearing men will cut off girls who don’t put out until the 3rd date, because their resources are wasted. But how do I make sure I won’t get played or ghosted?I mean this is going against the grain here, but I see a lot of girls with similar descriptions, and my immediate reaction is: "what a vapid capitalist bitch" Now I wouldnt claim that I myself, am the prize those women want, but I *do" claim that I hang out with such people more than the average, somewhat ironically because I am into art and philosophy. The thing is, its not that complicated, rather completely logical: The absolute epitome of alpha is always somebody who is pro-social!! How else… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/21 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Doesn't the Jordan Peterson-phenomenon refute the BP claim that "sanitized RP" would be totally uncontroversial and acceptable?I dont think thats making the point at all. The first clip he immediately he goes into "the problem of the alt right is that they play the game of identity politics" so immediately turning the blame back on the left. Its also a remarkably weak criticism regarding that the actual danger of a rising right is full blown fascism. The second video he goes off into some psychoanalytical bullshit about how the problem with nationalism is that "the goal of the father is to become the son", that I just d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/18 11:35 PM |
| 1 | [Q4RP] What was the "weakness" in the "I showed weakness one time and she lost her attraction" scenario?Hmm, I would say i dont doubt the stories here, but you also got the opposite, both in RL and in /r/relationships stories, women sticking with some deadbeat for years. Most women don't leave their SO just because they need meds for depression I think there is also still just social wide confusion about mental health. Some guy reframing his 'depression' as something more conventional 'struggling with life', might be dumped less. Men and women alike just dont have the capacity to stand above this,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/18 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Bipolar/BPD malesNo those are underestimations, mostly caused by academics being pretty Cluster B themselves, so they dont like to think about this too much. Also what I referred to here: I come from a Cluster B familiy background and I can tell you if you think you can just 'avoid' cluster B, you are focused on the blatant picturebook cases, which actually makes you vulnerable to the absolute hellhole cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Bipolar/BPD malesCluster B is the great sickness of our era. The ones who dont have it at all are ususally "boring sheep people". Its more constructive to look at it there being actualized/self-reflective NPD/BPD, who are not toxic. I come from a Cluster B familiy background and I can tell you if you think you can just 'avoid' cluster B, you are focused on the blatant picturebook cases, which actually makes you vulnerable to the absolute hellhole cases. The most foolproof way I have found till now is to not try … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/18 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Perseverance and masculinityRadfems are also usually radically leftists of some sort. This is important because a radfem can actually perceive or imagine something that is not-patriarchal. Libfems have the same model of the patriarchy but they can not think beyond capitalism so they are stuck in some bizarre modus of micromanaging or surgically removing the patriarchy from the patriarchy. Its insane, its taking for granted that we live in some sociopath, darwinistic system, built by and obviously favouring male strengths, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/18 08:26 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Its unproductive to care if the girl made you wait longer than the other guy.Hmm, interesting, yeah that makes it all make a bit more sense. Kind of this neutral sociopathy, maybe even more like "lawful good" in the Dnd diagramm? Wouldnt know what further advice to give then. I am propably close to neurodivergent myself, and its always the most explosive question whether you can make those kind of codependant relationships work, or if there are even other options. Like for me I just wouldnt want some normie chick, they are just boring and it seems by now just the reality… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/18 02:15 PM |
| 7 | The male penis is the most hated human body part in western cultures.Its not really that insane when you consider all this reaction of liberal feminism ala "but feminism is for boys toooo!!!" towards the founding of the manosphere. Now that mensrights is there and likely wont go away, its not a pragmatic outlook I agree. But as a lingering effect of the old system its very understandable imho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/18 05:43 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Its unproductive to care if the girl made you wait longer than the other guy.But you dont have to frame it in this sociopathic, cruel way? There are all kinds of people in similarly unbalanced relationships and they would frame it more as "we love each other and she is not a 4/10 to me" You might have had the lucky upper hand in the official game but now you are together and it will only hurt you further to devalue you both as humans like that. If her struggle is truly mental also it should be your goal to help her to a level where she can meet you eye to eye. Then you w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/18 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Why is making a guy wait longer than a month a bad thing to some?That guy has some knots in his brain for sure. Dont try to understand it too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/18 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Why is making a guy wait longer than a month a bad thing to some?I think you are just shooting yourself in the foot here. You are taking early-dating behaviour, where everyone is on edge and all kinds of fears and projecting it on the whole womans personality. Your frame makes more sense in e.g. sexual openness. But thats really something people often have to work and heal on. I think your reaction makes sense via woman who are really like "I have trauma from my past and now you have to deal with my bullshit forever" But the thing is people with baggage like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/18 03:29 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Male sexuality is Predatory, Opportunistic, and Exploitative. AMALT.Hahaha!! Just keep doing you, I am almost sure you will land somewhere good at some point!:) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/18 05:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Male sexuality is Predatory, Opportunistic, and Exploitative. AMALT.But it definitely seems like most men are either/or. Heart on their sleeve and stage 5 clingy or aloof assholes Yeah, but there you have it! You are totally admitting that there are a lot of guys out there not falling into the rapist category, but that is just not your "type". You have to understand that the man who solves the dialectic and is 'neither' of those poles indeed exists, but that is just more "george clooney" territory. In your case, with the level of self confidence and humour you a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/18 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Do you know any men with unreasonably high standards? If so what are they like?I dont even get why you are here at all. You are to cool to even be on this sub. Alpha schizoid types unite! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/18 08:59 AM |
| 2 | [Discussion]Young Feminists Rejecting Sex with Nu-Males, going for broke old guys instead.He tells them in no uncertain terms he is no sugar daddy. His ex wife pays him alimony. He is jobless. Basically, he's a financial loser. But the young girls don't care. They just want someone who isn't a shrinking violet 'nu-male' (his words) in bed. I believe that guy, or that that type exists, but never try to extrapolate from such solipsistic reports to a general trend. That guy might really score, and continously with the same type of chick, who really hates soy-boys, but he is just not tel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/18 02:17 PM |
| 1 | How often do you see exceptions to hypergamy?Its total bullshit as in an AWALT sense. There are counterexamples all around us, in all kinds of ways. In stories on the net, in my RL experiences. Just look at /r/deadbedrooms for an easiest example. Almost every second female there is some hyper/lowfunctional codependeny thing, meaning a fit, sexual, jobhaving woman sticking with some dysfunctional loser "because she loves him" or "for the kids". Just to be clear, in deadbedrooms sub you also have a lot of financially dependent stay at home t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/18 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Why are older women so much more forward and direct with men they wanna hook up with compared to younger girls?Haha, it was totally not meant against you. I like your shtick, keep doing you!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/18 01:57 PM |
| 1 | How can so many people be entering romantic relationships if only a fraction of the population is physically attractive?I would say that subjectively about 70% of the female population I would describe as to me "base attractive". Not head-turning in itself but if she had great character and we were together I would just be happy, not even consider it some loss. Its tricky, because I am not saying I am not picky, just that I think humans in reality are not that stupid-superficial. There imho are really effects where people become more beautiful or more ugly as we get to know them better, or people having 'types', … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/18 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Why are older women so much more forward and direct with men they wanna hook up with compared to younger girls?Also why force it when you dont have to? Okcupid is working well enough for me, and I also like the people there. If your type are the kind of sporty or librarian girl who would never be on those sites, well... But if you are introvert/intellectual anyway online just works great! Why torture yourself with something that just doesnt make sense for you? I also just noticed how narrow those things are. Like, only in hindsight I got that what I perceived as "general confidence" in other men, is just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/18 08:55 AM |
| 6 | Why are older women so much more forward and direct with men they wanna hook up with compared to younger girls?well, it depends. I can say I meet not so few women 35+ who actualized the way men did, confidence, carreer, humour, etc.., and if they are indeed "easy" its often just a confident choice. Yes, self confidence for woman is an intricate thing when single and older, but I would really say a lot of those women meet me with a self confidence where they know they can also bag some 'alpha' succesful, charming photographer or something. The weird thing is that there is indeed a kind of "grown up" crowd… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/18 08:48 AM |
| 3 | [Q4All] what is Toxic feminity to you?Yeah, absolutely, and not even only in a hamfisted intellectual way, but also in a deepfelt, emotional way, like the 21 year old chick sitting before your really personally suffered through 2000 years of cruel oppression. Its bizarre shit! I can even accept this route to dampen current male ressentiment. Like, I think feminism had a point until the 70s, 80s, even, so if now there is a bit of over spill making things really a bit unfair for the male side even, its maybe really fair to just swallo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/18 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Why do ya'll think Roosh is a misogynist?Yeah, you are right. I might just say that this is also just my own polemic style, where I balance the dialectic by using emotional charged language of all directions. I neither complain about the reactions I then get of this kind, but I also still think its valid, and I just dont know any much better yet. Props to your general posts btw, I remember your username from years ago even, but what I recently came across really seems like you are building yourself up to a real authority! Keep on untan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/18 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Why do ya'll think Roosh is a misogynist?Hmm, ok, conceded. I was maybe trying to make a more psychological point on why people hate roosh so much. I would concede totally that roosh is not a mysoginist in a way, you can totally see this in my other comments already, in that his rationalisation is more like "men and women are equally horrible to each other, so just learn to play the game", and I would say that is authentic even. What I am saying here is more that I think its just not a good path to follow. Edit: To follow your line of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/18 10:16 AM |
| 2 | Why do ya'll think Roosh is a misogynist?Hey! We were having some decent conversation here already. Is this really necessary? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/18 10:03 AM |
| 2 | Why do ya'll think Roosh is a misogynist?No, I am trying to say something like: Roosh is not something like an ideological redpiller, who I think is more likely to act ethical towards woman who also show some ethics, but more something like a complete sociopath. He is mysoginist in that its obvious that he leaves great mental damage in the wake of women he leaves behind, but its kind of vindicated that I say there is just as much "female roosh" out there, so you cant even frame this as a pro-feminist fact. More like: We live in "nihili… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/18 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Why do ya'll think Roosh is a misogynist?I'm not really camp SJW even if it might sound a bit like this here. Feminism has indeed overstepped its purpose, become toxic, but "feminism" is not the smart and reflected women I meet out there, who I dont even have to explain this shit to. And I am saying all women are "smart and reflective", its maybe more the 20% I orient myself towards to. You can choose to orient yourself towards the lowest common denominator, that I would say vindicates both red and blue camp, a bunch of men and women b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/18 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do ya'll think Roosh is a misogynist?Well, do they though? And don't men then have enough agency to not be humilitated and emotionally crippled by the game women are playing, and that they are complaining about here? "Agency" is in my frame a human quality synonymous to "self actualisation". People have it in varying degrees, full agency means being some actualized, charismatic george clooney type, less agency means being a confused and vulnerable girl or boy, ready to be mistreated by the sociopaths around you. What I am saying is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/18 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Why do ya'll think Roosh is a misogynist?Would actually love to hear your take on the guy! Just what comes to mind most generally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/18 09:18 AM |
| 4 | Why do ya'll think Roosh is a misogynist?I think Roosh is a misogynist in the sense of more "anti-humane". The irony is that there is a female equivalent to the guy that really follows a similar nihilist ethos, so its not even that unfair or unbalanced even. Or you could say that when your goal is to bang "portland club sluts", its really all fair and game, and those are really the women propably immune to sociopathy of that kind. Note that this kind of really means "immune to date rape", as that is the game roosh is playing. So the co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/18 09:02 AM |
| 1 | [Debate] This is how female attraction actually worksLook man, I personally am just not one of the people arguing against you. I know the drill, and I was trying to give you some helpful input. According to my dating experience, "my league" appears to be 300 lbs obese women without a college degree and working minimum wage jobs. Or ugly broke single mothers looking for a payday. Am I being entitled and unreasonable for wanting more than that and being frustrated at all of you guys telling me ALL the other women are out of my league? No that is not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 06:39 PM |
| 2 | [Debate] This is how female attraction actually worksHmmm, the way you are phrasing this, the point is exactly something like: The difference to my game is that you are describing those woman as "average", while I really describe those woman as "the best". Its less coping than it sounds because there really is a kind of dialectic where the intellectual wallflower type really loses out first but then blooms later in their 30s, just as my own type. What you get rewarded for is then maybe just resolving your own ressentiment to the degree where you d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 05:31 PM |
| 3 | [Debate] This is how female attraction actually worksExactly, so guys stop looking at the blonde cheerleader and go bone that fat chick in you guys league, and don't bother saying obese women are fucking fit men because that shit only happens in the imaginations of men who are 2/10 and think of themselves as average Exactly indeed. You dont even have to be demeaning about it, as in "that fat chick". For me, my okcupid experiences have been positive that I feel like awkward bragging here, but its really not because I am "chad" now, or if I really a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/18 11:51 AM |
| 2 | Men who sleep with a plethora of women, are they ever negatively affected by sleeping around, or is it always a win-win?Amazing comment! This doesn't happen to most guys with good game, of course. I'm talking about the ones who coasted by on their lucky hand for too long, without developing themselves into someone well-rounded and multi-dimensional, because they misinterpreted sexual success for contentment and self-competence. I feel like this might really be a bit the coming zeitgeist even, a bit of a "first will be the last". The passing era was one of decadence, where irresponsible narcissism was rewarded eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/18 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Is there information that exists out there about connections between Dark Triad personality traits and above average intelligence?From everything I have heard in that sense, which was admitedly a lot true crime tv stuff but at least some actual psychologists from the field: Its the very opposite. The hannibal lecter type may exist as some niche but the average sociopath/dark triad person is stupid. You can still argue about selection bias and how the statistics are the people stupid enough to land in jail but still... It also just matches my personal experience. I can even say I understand where the mystification comes fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/18 11:40 PM |
| 1 | What happens in real life when you try and date an Alpha...and why I’ll never date one again.Excellent post, as the last. Please keep it coming and don't be discouraged by the cretins. Polemics is a valid style and in a high traffic forum like this just getting a persistent reaction does indeed prove you right in some way. (At least in the sense that you have something to say.) They have an Explosive temper in response to small challenges. Remember, this guy has had no real obstacles in life so he has no coping skills. Minor challenges are an outrage to him. He is a man who only has one… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/18 09:03 AM |
| 3 | Is the term sex-negative biased?I actually found the "prolife" and "prochoice" an intriguing, uniquely american phenomenon. I only know for my country germany, but I imagine at least a lot of western europe having this similar. So here the nomenclature is very groundedly "anti-abortion" and "pro-abortion", even if that phrasement makes you a bit uncomfortable. The complete naturalness with which your population adopts phrasing that has embedded marketing purposes, such as no side wanting to be "anti-", really stands out to me.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/18 02:27 PM |
| 2 | What is a High Value Male?Yeah, it is, and a lot of times this leads to outlooks that seem very paradoxical at first. I am this loser artist-intellectual type, so I have certain qualities like being sensitive and good at psychology, etc.. which make me very attractive to some people, but to others, maybe most, I am just a loser. Now if some redpillers saw me with one of the hotter girls I have shots with they might go crazy with conspiracy theories, trying to squeeze this into some universal framework, but they are just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/18 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Hypergamy, or the hyper-inflation of male attractiveness, is not caused by feminism, but by America's fixation on hyper-masculinity.Yeah, I mean everybody gets that. I have never met an american I didnt like, but then I had to remind myself that those are all the ones that have the means to travel to europe. What I was trying to get at, I dont think sensible americans are even that much a minority, its just that there is a strong pole that basically insists on clinging to completely irrational worldviews, and that shapes the whole of the discussion to the extent that I feel even sensible americans are drawn into this malstro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/17 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Hypergamy, or the hyper-inflation of male attractiveness, is not caused by feminism, but by America's fixation on hyper-masculinity.I mean, come the fuck on, you for once have to read this obsession about alpha-males as a kind of social dysfunction, something like collective delusion. Is it really that hard to fathom that outsiders have those problems less? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/17 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy, or the hyper-inflation of male attractiveness, is not caused by feminism, but by America's fixation on hyper-masculinity.HAHAHAHA!!! Its like stepping into the brain of some 14 year old, raised in fanatical christianity, and now they see everything only through that lens: "Well, if you not always disrespected the fairies, and always carried the rosecrux, then you might not have those problems. Also jesus died for your sins, don't you get that?!?" There was never an attempt at an "you vs. us" in this for me. Germany is still just part of the cancerous shit that is eating this planet, and the only hope is something … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/17 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Hypergamy, or the hyper-inflation of male attractiveness, is not caused by feminism, but by America's fixation on hyper-masculinity.Yeah, I mean I am pretty cynical about germans too and any nation state for that. I mean this is already what I am talking about, that this is somehow immediately took as some kind of patriotism thing. I was just referring to the question in the OP and saying down here there is a strong vibe of "yeah, capitalism is dead", in the sense that you nobody is even trying to really defend it anymore. That has far reaching consequences in terms of value systems and gender relations. I mean let me put it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/17 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Hypergamy, or the hyper-inflation of male attractiveness, is not caused by feminism, but by America's fixation on hyper-masculinity.Its amazing, the people coming out here and playing it up to the highest stereotype, seemingly sincere. From anybody on the outside, this empty rhetoric of "freedom", while your people wallow in economic slavery is such a transparent effect of propaganda, and here you are all, leaping at the buzzwords like pawlows dogs. Magnificient, really! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/17 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy, or the hyper-inflation of male attractiveness, is not caused by feminism, but by America's fixation on hyper-masculinity.? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/17 01:29 PM |
| 6 | Hypergamy, or the hyper-inflation of male attractiveness, is not caused by feminism, but by America's fixation on hyper-masculinity.As a german I have to just say that americans really do not get how insane their country seems like or just basically is. And not in some kind of "goofy yeeha" way, but if you read those discussions on the internet around various hot topics you can actually feel the psychosis, the desperate attempt to rationalize irrational worldviews. Let me put it this way: Everybody around me, that I talk to, is just very casually accepting that the system/capitalism is broken in its core and something needs … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/17 12:21 PM |
| 3 | Chad is not real, and why this means that 4chan has been trolling you [CMV]I laughed and it was clear the way you described. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/17 07:18 PM |
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