Kylar26 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Child support and alimony What do you do for work? Unfortunately as you already know, you are in one of the worst states for divorce. Definitely try for a one time settlement if possible.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/07/24 07:34 PM
2	Is my wife cheating? Tunnel buddies.....lmao.... Thanks for the laugh.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/07/24 05:53 PM
3	Is my wife cheating? More likely he just wanted her as a side piece....so now shes crawling back.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/07/24 05:50 PM
1	There is always someone else Honestly there is no point in asking, and it doesn't even matter at this point. You don't want to be with someone who doesn't want you or value you. Don't be 2nd choice, or a safety net if she tries to crawl back. Take this time to work on yourself. Diet and exercise, enjoy your hobbies, read 3% man by Corey Wayne and watch his videos. Don't bother with trying to get her back, this one is lost. Prepare for the future.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/24 10:16 PM
1	What happens if you just stop complying altogether? Yeah absolutely false about the imprisonment... This study estimated that 14% of child support debtors were jailed for nonpayment of child support. Extrapolating this figure to the full population of child support debtors (11 million individuals in 2014), this means as many as 1.5 million parents could be getting sent to jail for unpaid child support. https://sites.utexas.edu/contemporaryfamilies/2018/06/19/who-goes-to-jail-for-child-support-debt/#:\~:text=This%20study%20estimated%20that%2014,ja…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/24 06:24 PM
1	What happens if you just stop complying altogether? Prison is definitely possible. I know someone that was laid off and had a very hard time finding work, around 2008 i believe. He almost went to prison over back child support, in some states if you miss a few months payments they will pull you into court. When he did get a job they took his whole first paycheck for arrears. The judge said he didnt need any of it because he moved in with his mother and the judge assumed he didnt have to pay her rent. Also not true about just the assets from the m…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/24 05:55 PM
1	There is always someone else More like what are you doing... "step bros"...lol	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/24 05:36 PM
2	There is always someone else What a catch! Definitely sounds like a good reason to ruin a marriage and split up the kids ! /S In all seriousness, what a selfish asshole she is.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/24 04:40 PM
2	There is always someone else "She did tell me she wanted to get a divorce after a trip out of town. She went to the same place the next weekend. And she she has gone out of town almost every weekend through this entire process. " Are you really that dense? It almost feels like trolling at this point...lol I mean unless she just comes out and tells you, it doesnt get any more clear than that....	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/24 01:18 PM
2	Spousal support + living with new partner So basically she's a lifelong "like a child" dependent you have to pay support for... Absolutely ridiculous	/r/Divorce_Men	01/07/24 04:44 PM
1	How do you manage the anger of a 50/50 financial split? Not always true, depends on the state. Some states even pre marital assets can be split 50/50.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/06/24 07:55 PM
5	Equity Payout Yeah absolutely not. She needs to get it refinanced in her own name. Don't do her any favors, especially one this big. She wouldn't do it for you if the situation was reversed.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/24 04:03 PM
4	Funny Moment Calling you controlling, is just her gaslighting you because youre trying to put a boundary in place. Cheaters love to use the word controlling as deflection to you catching on to their unfaithful behavior.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/05/24 04:26 PM
3	How do you cope with the lack of affection? Easy, this should be noticed before it get to marriage by proper vetting. If her affection level doesn't meet your needs you should have ended the relationship before marriage. If it changes during marriage try and resolve the issue. If its not resolved after your best efforts, leave. Life is to short to waste years in a loveless affectionless relationship.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/04/24 01:58 PM