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These individuals lack logic and accountability.
/r/MensRights12/10/18 02:55 PM
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So, if Kavanaugh is being falsely accused, then who is the victim here?
/r/MensRights01/10/18 03:09 PM
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Yeah, but they would surely discuss almost accidentally getting killed by two drunk teenagers when the only other female at the party who was a good friend noticed she was no longer at the party. And as for her being brave, I call bs. If this actually occurred, then Ford was a coward. According to her she was one of two girls and the other girl was her good friend. They got to a party with four drunk boys, and she leaves after she almost gets killed and raped (according to her) and leaves her go…
/r/MensRights01/10/18 03:07 PM
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Oh good! So, if a woman ever did that to my son and I killed her, then I wouldn’t be sentenced to any prison because my son needs me. Amiright?
/r/MensRights17/07/18 07:24 PM
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Much better that the child doesn’t find out that his mother is a lying, cheating whore, and that he be raised by a man who, if given timely and correct information, would have divorced her, and that the man who is actually responsible for the pregnancy escape any kind of financial liability. Otherwise, he might feel like he was a mistake and that’s really hard for a kid........../s/
/r/MensRights17/07/18 07:19 PM
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I agree. It’s in the best interest to never learn that his mother is a cheating, lying whore. That kind of information could really damage a young person’s psyche. Better to allow him to live in ignorance and be raised by a man who, if given the correct information, would most likely have filed for divorce, while also allowing the other man to escape financial responsibility for the child he created because you know: men are fungible like money.
/r/MensRights17/07/18 07:11 PM
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Under oath and the penalty of perjury, so if the woman lies about who the father is, then she goes to jail. And the policy is so that French families remain intact? How about passing a law that criminalizes adultery? Or spending beyond ones means?
/r/MensRights17/07/18 06:42 PM
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I stand corrected! lol
/r/MensRights06/07/18 06:57 PM
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Guess who will be paying this back? Women get married and the burden falls on men. You mean "stupid" men, right? Because if you are stupid enough to marry a woman with $150k in debt she incurred so that she could obtain a genders study degree where she makes only $25k a year, then you deserve her and the hell your life is about to become. Spaceghost.......
/r/MensRights05/07/18 07:53 PM
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I've always thought that a show about personal finance and economics that would be a hit, in the same vein as the Profit or Kitchen Nightmares with Gordon Ramsay. You take a family who is on food stamps and Government assistance and look at what they spend their money on, find them a job, fix their lives. For instance, find a redneck family where the Dad spends all the money on beer, hunting gear, a four wheeler, hunting lease, then when he says he hunts to put food on the table, show him how hi…
/r/MensRights05/07/18 07:47 PM
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I remember when I was watching Pulp Fiction at the theater where Vincent blasted Marvin in the face. I laughed out loud in the theater. I think everyone did. Because that scene was funny. I can't imagine how the audience's reaction would be if it were Uma Thurman's character who had a funny near death experience herself because Vincent left his heroin unattended.
/r/MensRights05/07/18 07:16 PM
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"People have affairs -- that happens -- but it's your obligation to find out who the father is." This statement is so full of stupid vagueness to deemphasize the reality of how bad a cheating woman's actions are. Notice they say "people" have affairs. Okay. But, in the case of a woman having an affair that results in an unwanted pregnancy, there is NO QUESTION WHO THE FREAKING MOTHER IS!!!!!! In fact, who is in the best place to know that the cucked party is not the actual father? Once again, th…
/r/MensRights05/07/18 07:08 PM
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I would send him a letter once a month certified, return receipt requested and make a copy to put into the folder. She will have to sign for said letter. If she doesn't sign for the letter, then the letter will be returned to him unclaimed. Put that in the folder. If she does sign for the letter, then he will receive a little green card (if in the United States). If he just sent the letter first class, it would be cheaper, but she could just throw the letter in the shredder, then tell the kid th…
/r/MensRights05/07/18 06:42 PM
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Bro, praying for you. She sounds like she is a Jedi master in diabalita loca logic.
/r/MensRights05/07/18 12:44 PM
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I agree with you that this change has resulted in women making more false allegations. But, recently there has been an increase in NMO's AFTER the government cut off funding for legal aid in family court, except for cases of abuse. So, if a woman went to an attorney who relied upon the Government to pay his fees, then they would be turned away, UNLESS she alleged abuse. And, all I'm saying is that when you put a condition in place that an attorney must meet before he is paid, in this case an all…
/r/MensRights03/07/18 08:48 PM
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A blog says that, you say? Not very credible. I've practiced family law and criminal defense and I've never seen a man falsely accuse a woman of domestic violence as leverage to gain custody of the kids. Come to think of it, I have only seen one man allege violence against a woman. (In ten years) It is always a woman accusing a man, with many allegations being false. I practice predominately in one county in my State, but I also do a fair amount of Court-martial work, and men are often falsely a…
/r/MensRights03/07/18 05:57 PM
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I read the article a bit differently. Because they cut the funding to pay for these women's attorneys, except in areas of abuse, the lawyers have begun pursuing non-molestation petitions (in some areas up to 900% increase and other areas a 150% increase), which has resulted in total orders increasing to 30%. It's not that it's more profitable for women, but rather the lawyers can get paid this way through legal aid paid for by the Government. And, the whole theory was that it would decease the n…
/r/MensRights03/07/18 04:53 PM
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So, lawyers were getting paid by the Government to provide legal representation or advice in divorce situations, but the UK cut the funding for the legal aid program, except for cases of abuse, and coincidentally, non-molestation petitions have increased by 30% because they believe that some lawyers are advising their clients to file false non-molestation petitions in order to qualify for legal aid, so the lawyers can get paid? No way! I would have never seen that coming........
/r/MensRights03/07/18 12:13 PM
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Sure. Send me a message.I can't do anything about it right now, but I can look at it on Monday.
/r/MensRights29/06/18 06:15 PM
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Consistency. I like that.
/r/MensRights29/06/18 05:03 PM
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It was just a post based on an observation. And, it is somewhat thought provoking. What really does this mean? And notice there are not any equivalents for making husband's happy, since 'A woman's place is in the home' and 'women should be seen and not heard' are no longer popular. I think it the idea that men should do everything possible to please women no matter what because if you make them unhappy, then you won't have a happy life shows how irrational women are.
/r/MensRights29/06/18 05:02 PM
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Reminds me of this scene from Liar, Liar: Fletcher's son: My teacher tells me that real beauty is on the inside. Fletcher: That's just something ugly people say. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LsTJPqMETOQ So, my response would be "That's just something crazy women say to get husbands to give them what they are asking for, no matter how much it lacks rationality, logic, and accountability."
/r/MensRights29/06/18 04:55 PM
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Means she is keeping her legs together to ensure that she is not assaulted because you know, rape culture; or She has to keep her legs together because there is no room to spread her legs since the male is manspreading.
/r/MensRights29/06/18 04:46 PM
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Awesome point. And, it is amazing how law enforcement, child protective services, and forensic psychologists who are called as experts at trial find it so difficult to admit that if the accused sitting in the defendant's chair is falsely accused, then HE is the actual victim. I always file motions in limine to prevent the prosecution and their witnesses from referring to the complaining witness as the "victim." The prosecutor never, or the witness never, heeds when the judge grants my motion. So…
/r/MensRights29/06/18 04:42 PM
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Good post. If you can translate the purpose of the mantra "Believe the Victim" then you will see that what they intend are for investigators and prosecutors to "Exercise confirmation bias in favor of the victim" because they believe, irrationally in my opinion, that investigators, prosecutors, and jurors believe that woman always lie. In reality, I think most people would take each allegation very seriously and be more inclined to believe that a woman when making such a horrible allegation is te…
/r/MensRights29/06/18 04:34 PM
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Yes, he is getting taken advantage off, but he invited it as a tactic to get close to her. He is creating this very tempting situation for her, so he can be closer. That sounds like someone saying that a woman shouldn't dress scantily if she doesn't want to get be ogled on the subway or groped at the club.......they shouldn't be creating this very tempting situation to be taken advantage of.....sheesh.....
/r/MensRights29/06/18 04:06 PM
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I don't know. The cynic in me believes that these prosecutions are intended to get the word out to women making false allegations that they should not recant them when their conscience is bothering them. But, I guess the subject of this article did not recant, so perhaps they are trying to discourage false reporting. But, this article is horrible with how they frame these liars.
/r/MensRights29/06/18 04:00 PM
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Fellow attorney here. Awesome post. Some men are stupid, like bucks during the rut. If they are tending a doe, then they will follow her wherever she goes even if it is them walking past me sitting on the ground. I shoot the does because they taste a lot better and let the bucks walk for the hunters who want the antlers. I've seen does who will run a buck past me, so I can shoot him. Your friend is like a buck during the rut. You are a good friend to him. And, I do think perhaps those arguments …
/r/MensRights29/06/18 03:24 PM
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Great comment. If an individual is unable to afford a Family Court attorney and is prohibited from representing themselves and confronting the complaining witness through cross examination, then the Court should appoint and pay for an attorney to represent them.
/r/MensRights28/06/18 02:12 PM
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It's hard to do that when you reason and accountability escapes you.
/r/MensRights26/06/18 07:07 PM
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All women are not liars. In this particular case, the female judge stated the woman's testimony was not credible enough to justify a conviction because her testimony had inconsistencies that this article did not expound upon. However, the point of this post, it appears is to comment on how feminists attempt to manipulate the system through criticism in the media to lower the burden of proof and right to due process by male accused in one are of criminal law, allegations of physical and/or sexual…
/r/MensRights26/06/18 07:04 PM
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This is the best response.
/r/MensRights25/06/18 06:11 PM
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In all seriousness, the best comeback for a woman's comment like this is: Pause. Tilt your head, look her in the eye, raise one eyebrow, then straighten your head, maintaining eye contact the whole time, and say: "You're a single mother, aren't you?" (emphasis on "single") If she is, she won't answer. If she isn't, then she will proudly say she is married, to which you simply say, "Please pass my condolences to your husband." The next best comeback is to look at her biggest physical imperfection…
/r/MensRights25/06/18 06:08 PM
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Look at her deadpan and say, "It rubs the lotion on its skin or it gets the hose again." When they respond to you, repeat what they say to you verbatim in a deadpan mocking way, while maintaining eye contact with them the whole time. For some reason this really freaks women out.
/r/MensRights25/06/18 05:52 PM
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Brilliant.
/r/MensRights25/06/18 05:40 PM
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I was thinking of something a bit more passive aggressive, like: "Hahahaha. You're right! At least you aren't one of those fucktarded feminists screeching hysterically about male privilege."
/r/MensRights25/06/18 05:39 PM
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I too was raised by a single mother impregnated by a married man who went back to his wife and two kids. Although my mother never married bringing in a stepfather to our home, I had several positive male role models growing up, i.e. uncles, friend's dads, and the US Army. And, I too had to deal with the hole left in my heart from not having a father. I sought counseling from a Christian counselor, and he immediately pinpointed the issue. And, the reality is that I have a heavenly Father who care…
/r/MensRights25/06/18 02:17 PM
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Exactly! The difference between human beings and human doings.
/r/MensRights20/06/18 02:27 PM
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Rape is no accident? Maybe for the guy who gets convicted of dragging a girl into the bushes and raping her as she is screaming, "No. Stop! Help me!" But what about the poor schlep who gets drunk at the pub and goes home with a drunk woman who then claims she doesn't remember because she was "blacked out," although she consented to sex and was on top? He gets charged with rape. Is it inappropriate to tell her that if she has a habit of blacking out when drinking too much that perhaps she should …
/r/MensRights19/06/18 03:54 PM
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Why doesn't the headline read "Over 90% of Alberta men agree that is is never acceptable to physically assault a woman"? I would be interested in a survey of 1000 men and 1000 women asking the answers to two questions: When Billy finds out that Susie is cheating on him with Chad, Billy slaps Susie across the face. Do you agree or disagree with what Billy did? When Betty finds out that Archie cheated on him with Veronica, Betty slaps Archie across the face. Do you agree that Archie deserved to be…
/r/MensRights18/06/18 08:01 PM
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He doesn't have 50/50 custody, but rather has them every other weekend. I had a sneaking suspicion that was the case when she made the appointment for 4:30 p.m. on a Friday afternoon. But, you probably missed that.
/r/MensRights18/06/18 06:44 PM
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Messages like these are awesome for those who are conducting child custody evaluations. In addition to the abject cruelty to the child which apparently occurred on Father's Day, they show a lack of desire by the primary custodian to facilitate a relationship with the non primary custodian, which is typically one of the statutory elements in determining who should be given primary physical custody. Sounds like she has already turned the daughter against him and is tormenting her male child. This …
/r/MensRights18/06/18 06:37 PM
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This is such a horrendously bad idea. So glad I'm not Australian.
/r/MensRights18/06/18 03:05 PM
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A real false accusation would have no physical evidence and not stand up in trial in 2018. I find it difficult to believe that any significant number of false accusations make it to trial. Have you ever sat through a sexual assault Court-martial in the United States since 2012? Plenty of cases with no physical evidence have made it to trial and resulted in convictions. I've represented to Soldiers in 2015 and 2017, respectively, where no physical evidence was present and the Article 32 Investiga…
/r/MensRights18/06/18 02:54 PM
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True.
/r/MensRights18/06/18 02:13 PM
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Yeah, jhodder85! I am living proof that a child raised by a single mother can be conservative......probably because most unmarried liberal women who get knocked up abort the child, amiright Skeletor6669?
/r/MensRights18/06/18 02:11 PM
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Perhaps his mother was a whore who slept around and didn't tell his father that she was pregnant, so he is not aware that he has a son. Or maybe his mother was a psychopath who caused him to be alienated him from his father after she filed for divorce through massive amounts of brainwashing. There are many reasons why a son does not have a relationship with his father that has nothing to do with the stereotype of a man being an abuser and his wife leaving him to escape abuse. As far as facts go,…
/r/MensRights18/06/18 02:07 PM
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She would make a fine replacement for Winston Smith's position after he was caught by the Thought Police. So, I guess after 40 years where no white men's pictures are on the wall, then their efforts to show diversity will actually show a lack of diversity?
/r/MensRights18/06/18 01:47 PM
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And, he only gets them every other weekend. JanuaryPizza, did you happen to notice that she scheduled the appointment for 4:30 on Friday? Edit add: And she let him know on the Wednesday before? Is this because of a cavity issue or is it merely a checkup? Sounds like a checkup because both of them have one scheduled.
/r/MensRights13/06/18 06:17 PM
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She does this, so she can continue to exercise control over you. Has she ever called you up and said, "The boys can't play in our yard because the grass is too high. Can you come over here and mow it?"
/r/MensRights13/06/18 06:13 PM
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You should have led with that, Bromigo!! Your ex is doing this on purpose. In fact, it is no coincidence that she schedules a dentist appointment at 4:30 on Friday. She sucks. My response to her comment "they should be going to appts during both our parenting times" would be: "Well, then agree to 50/50 custody with me, and I will do that. But, it is difficult to schedule a doctor's appointment on a Saturday or Sunday, and even if I could, it is unfair for me to be required to do that seeing how …
/r/MensRights13/06/18 06:11 PM
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That was awesome!
/r/MensRights13/06/18 04:36 PM
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Do you have 50/50 custody or are you every other weekend? This is important. Because if she has primary, then you have a great point and she should shut her mouth. I mean, who makes a dentist appointment for 4:30 on a Friday? And, by your reaction, I'm assuming that this isn't the first time she has done this? However, if you have 50/50, then she has a great point, IF in fact she has taken the lead for all doc appointments. And, your responses are such that it looks like you consider her to be y…
/r/MensRights13/06/18 04:29 PM
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Actually, a recent study indicated that nonreciprocal domestic violence was committed at a much higher rate by female perpetrators than male perpetrators, but the majority of domestic violence was reciprocal or mutual. https://www.health.harvard.edu/newsletter_article/In_Brief_Domestic_violence_Not_always_one_sided
/r/MensRights08/06/18 09:30 PM
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McFeely, There has been quite the paradigm shift since you were a CID agent 30 years ago. I was a Trial counsel at Benning between '02-'03. The agents I dealt with took sex crimes as seriously as you did with a thorough investigation on both sides. There was no sweeping rape cases under the carpet that I saw. However, since about '09 through '12, the Services started pushing cases for prosecution and I noticed a paradigm shift at Ft. Benning CID and the JAG office where the complaining witness w…
/r/MensRights07/06/18 05:57 PM
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Exactly! This is why these aren't "mistakes." A mistake is running into a car that was in your blind spot when you attempted to pass another car. This is the equivalent of intentionally trying to run the car off the road.
/r/MensRights06/06/18 05:09 PM
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In the military, you are immediately flagged if you are accused of a sexual crime and you will remain flagged for promotion until you are acquitted or convicted. Your case will go to trial because as the former TJAG of the Air Force who now consults colleges on Title IX put it: Every victim is to be believed and their case forwarded to trial absent a smoking gun. In many cases, there will be no smoking gun, since it is typically he said/she said. So, after a year of two of being flagged and not …
/r/MensRights06/06/18 04:01 PM
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Man, that's just plain evil!
/r/MensRights06/06/18 03:51 PM
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47 rape cases were stopped - 5 of which disclosure failures were the main reason and 42 where they were an issue. Of those 47 cases, 14 defendants were being held in jail pending their trial and had to be released. 33 of those 47 were out of jail awaiting trial.
/r/MensRights05/06/18 06:37 PM
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However, van Breen was quick to note that there’s “no evidence that feminists behave more negatively towards men” outside of a psychology research lab. No evidence? Well, did they look for evidence? How do the results play into a hypothesis that "Feminists would sacrifice innocent men going to prison for rape if that meant that more rape victims would come forward to report crimes and seek justice." I would imagine that the results of this test would support that hypothesis. Now, how many of the…
/r/MensRights05/06/18 05:59 PM
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Exactly! Women are well known for exercising discretion with their spending, particularly when they are using money derived from their husband's paycheck.
/r/MensRights05/06/18 05:52 PM
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Statements that I find interesting in this article: From Alison Saunders: "I recognise the huge impact on individuals involved, and deeply regret every case where mistakes have been made." Explaining to MPs on the Justice Select Committee how the situation could have come about, Ms Saunders said in some cases prosecutors had been bringing charges "very early" before seeking further evidence. She said this happened in situations where it was feared suspects might skip bail, commit further offence…
/r/MensRights05/06/18 05:45 PM
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No problem. Save any and all texts, emails, letters, notes, video, audio recordings, etc. of any discussion showing consensual BDSM. The BDSM conduct in the bedroom sounds a lot like "force" and it is not too much of a stretch for a woman to say she was in fear or that on that one particular occasion she was screaming the "safe word" and you just disregarded it. Any man who engages in BDSM and is accused by a sub really needs an attorney. Because the point you made in your OP is a recognition th…
/r/MensRights29/05/18 06:23 PM
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I represent Servicemembers at Court-martial for sex offenses. I get a lot of calls from potential clients. I have had quite a few calls from male doms who have engaged in relationships with female subs who I believe have personality disorders, i.e. fear of abandonment is a huge trait. So, if your sub is Borderline, then when you break up with her, then she is going to flip out because she perceives that you abandoned her. And, how difficult is it going to be for her to describe some of the rough…
/r/MensRights29/05/18 04:51 PM
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This article could have been written about the United States Army, it's Special Victim prosecutors, and it's CID agents.
/r/MensRights25/05/18 06:04 PM
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Great! Crime Prevention Agency that protects the apartment complex goes bankrupt, so now all the other security guards who have nothing to do with this get laid off. Also, all the apartments they serviced have to find other security, which will probably a few months, so women won't be protected from rapists. Also, who wants to own a company that gets a $1 Billion judgment for one tragedy of hiring a guy who rapes a woman? So, some people will get out of the security business possibly leaving les…
/r/MensRights25/05/18 05:41 PM
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I have always thought a show about an attorney who represents men who have been falsely accused of rape and has become so burned out that he goes around the country Dexter-style and kidnaps and kills the women who make the false allegations would be interesting. The only problem with this premise is that the men who have been falsely accused would most likely be the prime suspect of the murder in reality, so he really wouldn't be solving any problem for them. But, there is something really, real…
/r/MensRights23/05/18 04:33 PM
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You can meet a nice girl, not have sex with her, and marry her. I've been in a large array of sexual relationships with women, many of which were short term, and the healthiest one was with my wife. We waited until marriage. So, I don't agree that abstinence until marriage is unhealthy.
/r/MensRights23/05/18 03:13 PM
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I hope you are not still dating her. Any woman who on a first date shares with you her "rape story" needs to be on her last date with you.
/r/MensRights23/05/18 03:05 PM
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I agree. Find this guy. See if he has an attorney. Provide your evidence to the attorney.
/r/MensRights23/05/18 03:02 PM
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Women who falsely accuse men often do things that make no sense. And, the actions cops take based on these nonsensical women make no sense. And the prosecutors arguments at a trial often make no sense. But, that is a very expensive lesson to learn when you hire an attorney to defend yourself. Trust me. I'm a criminal defense attorney who represents Soldiers falsely accused of sex crimes at Court-martial.
/r/MensRights23/05/18 03:00 PM
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Sounds like the prosecutor cut a deal with an 8 year cap. The vic is unhappy with it. This is different than the Brock Turner case where the vic says she did not want his life ruined, yet the feminist machine railed against the low sentence. And, I am not a California attorney, but typically attempts have the same punishment as the crime, as if it had been completed. I have to imagine that murder carries a maximum life sentence. the notion that she got 5 years on an attempted murder charge is ri…
/r/MensRights23/05/18 02:51 PM
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Exactly! I think there is going to be a paradigm shift soon where males will be far more particular about whom they engage in sexual relations, as well as marriage. I tell young men in my office that the only reason I am where I am is because I never got a girl knocked up, or arrested based on a false accused of rape. Both are situations that can have devastating financial consequences. Celibacy before marriage and a solid marriage are two keys to success.
/r/MensRights23/05/18 02:41 PM
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This one is, and it holds essentially the same premise: Women commit more non-reciprocal domestic violence than men.
/r/MensRights22/05/18 07:35 PM
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Good plan. And, there's probably not a lot of competition because legal services marketed towards men who historically pay child support are not prevalent.
/r/MensRights21/05/18 07:37 PM
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Well, she is certainly younger and better looking than his previous two wives. And, I was trying to make a point of how that mindset is viewed not so positively.
/r/MensRights21/05/18 07:35 PM
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Why? Because strippers and porn stars are widely known for being extremely well-adjusted people?
/r/MensRights21/05/18 06:34 PM
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This woman sounds like she was probably borderline. The fact that she posed nude for Playboy kind of fits into that category of being sexually inappropriate. She sounds like she got around, too. Also, borderline. Then, she has this weird notion that she is LGBT, yet she's been married to men? I'm really not surprised she killed herself and her 7 year old son.
/r/MensRights21/05/18 06:26 PM
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Why not tackle the issue from a male point of view and she do it from a female point of view, then you two debate afterwards?
/r/MensRights21/05/18 06:17 PM
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All my Boys. If Donald Trump hadn't left his first and second marriages, respectively, then he wouldn't be married to Melania. There is always younger and more beautiful.
/r/MensRights21/05/18 06:14 PM
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This is a great idea. With a little bit of marketing, you could direct users to family law attorneys who would pay to be a sponsored attorney. The website name should get hits on search engines from people typing in "How do I reduce my child support?"
/r/MensRights21/05/18 03:01 PM
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Here's how my article would read: Charles Nicolai's 7 year old son Vincent was the victim of a murder suicide when his selfish estranged wife, Stephanie Adams, threw herself and Vincent off the 28th floor of the Gotham Hotel on Friday, May 18, 2018. Nicolai was merely exercising his right as a parent for visitation by preventing Ms. Adams from taking Vincent to Spain for the entire summer, leaving him without any visitation. A friend of the child killer who wished to remain anonymous stated that…
/r/MensRights18/05/18 08:16 PM
12

I was physically assaulted in my honors English class, and the teacher asked me what I SAID to my abuser to make her slap me pretty hard in the back of the head. Oh, and that time in the Army where I had to do a shit ton more pushups and situps and run two miles in far less time to max the PT test in relation to females. And PT test scores are part of the promotion point system. That time where I had to check a box indicating that I registered with the Selective Service in order to get my studen…
/r/MensRights18/05/18 08:13 PM
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Here's how my article would read: Charles Nicolai's 7 year old son Vincent was the victim of a murder suicide when his selfish estranged wife, Stephanie Adams, threw herself and Vincent off the 28th floor of the Gotham Hotel on Friday, May 18, 2018. Nicolai was merely exercising his right as a parent for visitation by preventing Ms. Adams from taking Vincent to Spain for the entire summer, leaving him without any visitation. A friend of the child killer who wished to remain anonymous stated that…
/r/MensRights18/05/18 07:58 PM
2

Having dealt with clients whose wives are so toxic that they have to meet in a public place, I would bet that some of his pleadings indicated that she had a mental issue which fell on deaf ears because she is a pretty female. That is a bittersweet "I told you so" to the Judge, but I would probably send the card to him with those words if I were the Dad.
/r/MensRights18/05/18 07:33 PM
2

Perhaps they are referring to the fact that women's PT standards are far less than the male standards. And, when your PT score is a basis for promotion, then women should have to do the same amount of push ups, sit ups, and run two miles in the same time as men do. But, the discrimination is from men having to register with the Selective Service in order to vote and receive federal financial aid for college. Registration with the Selective service is what will be used if the draft is reinstated.…
/r/MensRights18/05/18 05:35 PM
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I have a conspiracy theory that England is harder on false accusers than the United States because they are trying to keep false accusers from recanting. The CPS has gotten some really bad press lately for being very aggressive on sexual assault prosecutions, so what if they are prosecuting females who recant to discourage them from recanting. I really don't think they are concerned with actual justice and preventing an innocent man from going to jail. I think their yardstick measures how many c…
/r/MensRights09/05/18 04:49 PM
2

Nice way to explain responsibility and culpability. I like it!
/r/MensRights09/05/18 04:35 PM
3

Okay, sweetheart. I'll take the bait. Let's say I go to a club and get drunk. I get hit on by a woman, who is equally as drunk, who is dressed like a stripper/porn star, (think "Stormy Daniels" at the AVM's). We take an uber back to her place where we engage in what I believe to be consensual intercourse in various positions resulting in a one night stand. I wake up the next morning and leave before she wakes up. She sends me a Facebook friend's invite that I delete because I really don't want a…
/r/MensRights09/05/18 04:26 PM
0

The purpose of this law is so that a prosecutor doesn't get surprised by a text his witness has made and so that the witness can know what evidence is out there before she testifies, so that she is not surprised on the stand about a text she thought was deleted. The problem is that jury will not see that she lied in front of them under oath with their own eyes. The defense counsel will still be able to impeach the witness, somewhat, with the texts, but it won't be nearly as effective to destroy …
/r/MensRights03/05/18 05:00 PM
1

Thank you, BTFUB!!!!! You saw my point.
/r/MensRights30/04/18 04:26 PM
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Get an attorney!!!! If he is in Georgia, then he can file a petition for legitimation that will come with an order for a DNA test. If the kids not his, then he doesn't have to pay child support. If it is, then he can petition for visitation.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 09:27 PM
5

Feres Doctrine: A legal doctrine that prevents people who are injured as a result of military service from successfully suing the federal government under the Federal Tort Claims Act. ... Also known as the Feres-Stencel doctrine or the Feres rule. Also, the Federal Torts Claims Act waives sovereign immunity, but it has an exception for malicious prosecution.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 09:15 PM
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Too bad Special Victim Prosecutors in the US Army enjoy immunity under Feres.
/r/MensRights26/04/18 04:35 PM
1

Nailed it. The exact opposite of what was intended from #metoo is happening. Feminists forget that there are quite a few mothers of sons on juries who don't take kindly to manhating and presumption of guilt in sexual assault offenses.
/r/MensRights23/04/18 03:00 PM
1

I understand why the cops like this concept. It creates less work for them. They take a statement from her, look for evidence that corroborates what she says, accused lawyers up, so they then hand off the case to the prosecutors who can either look for additional evidence or drive on with what they got from the cops. All this is done with the attitude with, "Well, that's why they have defense attorneys who will certainly uncover evidence of their innocence, if they really are innocent." At the b…
/r/MensRights23/04/18 02:53 PM
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One of the most counterintuitive things about the #metoo/#time's up movement is that it has brought countless incidents that are not rape to the forefront. People hear these stories on the news, and they aren't buying what the media is trying to sell. For instance, James Franco's accusers say he "forced" them because of a power dynamic. Even Monica Lewinsky has jumped on the Metoo bandwagon to say that she was forced as an intern. All of these women could have easily said, "No" and left. People …
/r/MensRights19/04/18 01:48 PM
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A very simple question to ask feminists to determine if they are "good" or not is: If a man is falsely accused of sexual assault, then who is the victim? If a feminist can simply say: "The man who is falsely accused" without hesitation, or without qualifying the answer with the false "but, only 2% of rape accusations are actually false," then she is close to being a good feminist.
/r/MensRights19/04/18 01:38 PM
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One way to fix this is to add to a findings worksheet a finding of "Innocent Beyond a Reasonable Doubt." This way a jury could determine whether they believe the accuser is lying about being raped or mistaken about the identity of her rapist. This would result in a full exoneration of the Falsely Accused. But, I don't think that feminists would support this because it would give a jury two options to allow an accused to walk and only one option to convict.
/r/MensRights19/04/18 01:34 PM
2

She personifies the concept that "Women are human beings and men are human doings."
/r/MensRights17/04/18 07:54 PM
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The first comment was in jest because that is what many horrible people assume when a man makes any assistance to help a little kid. There should be a comma after "In all seriousness" indicating that the first comment was a farce. And, I do not know the hockey player, so I will take your word that all three kids would have gotten a puck. He definitely seems like a really good guy because he got three pucks to those kids.
/r/MensRights17/04/18 07:45 PM
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In the short run, attractive women might have more power because they can use their sexual prowess as an advantage for hookups. But, time is a bitter enemy for women. If they aren't getting married by 35, then good luck finding a man and having a family.
/r/MensRights17/04/18 05:49 PM
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Here are some snappy comebacks: "Speak for yourself, Professor Betacuckulus." "This kind of generalization is evidence of another generalization: those who can't do teach." "C'mon, Professor Betacuckulus. You know you are just saying that because academia has been infiltrated by third wave feminist, and you are just worried about keeping your job. I mean, you REALLY don't believe that, do you? And, if you do, can you teach us about Stockholm syndrome during your next lecture?"
/r/MensRights17/04/18 05:43 PM
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I modify my behavior to avoid women, not for their safety or emotional needs, but because I don't want to be falsely accused. In my old building, my office was on the second floor. We had three elevators. Around the corner from the elevator is a door to the stairs. If I walked into the lobby and an elevator opened going up and the elevator had one female in it, I would motion that I was taking the stairs and get some exercise. I left my door open when meeting with female clients. I never had lun…
/r/MensRights17/04/18 05:30 PM
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The Dad is white knighting for the girl because obviously that hockey player is a pedophile for wanting to give that little girl a hockey puck. In all seriousness. That guy got a hockey puck for all those kids because you know he would have skated away if the girl had gotten the puck. He should be applauded.
/r/MensRights17/04/18 05:23 PM
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Obviously this is a response to the Hot/Crazy Female matrix, which I have found is pretty accurate. But, this matrix is as funny as it is unoriginal.
/r/MensRights17/04/18 05:17 PM
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Wait a second.....a person can be convicted for controlling and coercive behavior? There will probably be a run of convictions against females, then this law will be repealed.
/r/MensRights16/04/18 07:59 PM
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That's fine if they are fat. The original point is that I shouldn't be judged because I'm not attracted to them or state that I don't want to date a fat person. And, quite frankly, women are the meanest shamers there are: poor shaming, fat shaming, short shaming, etc., but if one man says he doesn't date fat women, everyone is up in arms, like there aren't men in this world who like fat women. Go find one of them. Don't ask some guy why he doesn't find a woman attractive if you don't want to acc…
/r/MensRights13/04/18 07:57 PM
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If your brother came to me in Georgia, then I would charge him $3k up to the first hearing and would try like hell to make it go away. A trial would cost about $10k. This would be a flat fee. Another option if he is broke. Does he qualify for a public defender? See what the public defender can figure out, at least for his first appearance. Maybe the public defender can make it go away. If not, then hire an attorney. I only make this recommendation when money is at issue. But, I have found that i…
/r/MensRights13/04/18 07:48 PM
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$7.5k isn't unreasonable for a felony charge. I'm a Georgia attorney and I might be willing to break up the fee for pretrial representation and trial representation depending on the case. I would imagine that the California market is a little more pricey and this attorney is charging $7.5k for the first hearing, hoping he can make the charges go away and not charge anymore. What is he going to charge if it goes to trial?
/r/MensRights13/04/18 06:22 PM
1

The title of this article should be "Beware of Whores."
/r/MensRights09/04/18 04:18 PM
2

I am not an artist, but, my cartoon would actually be quite the opposite. The woman would be at the top of the elevator made up of the various legislation that favors them through funding single mothers, laws prohibiting violence against them, funding in education, and laws and regulation that promote affirmative action. I would also be at the top after climbing a rope where I had to start at the bottom as the son of a single mother who was a bartender. I began working at the age of 10 roofing h…
/r/MensRights09/04/18 03:16 PM
1

I think that an all woman's networking club is quite okay for providing a safe space for women who do not want to be sexually harrassed by men. It is the same as an all female gym or spa. And, by the same token, I think that an all male networking club would be appropriate for men to provide a safe space away from women who might falsely accuse them of rape or harrassment.
/r/MensRights06/04/18 02:50 PM
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Thoughtcrime.
/r/MensRights04/04/18 02:14 PM
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"Mommy was at the wheel." Which mommy? They were a lesbian couple who appeared to do a Thelma and Louise off a cliff. You read through the article and notice how they have a history of domestic violence and Child Services visits for neglect, yet you get someone who says this: “Jen and Sarah really were the kind of parents that I think the world desperately needs,” friend Zippy Lomax told KOIN. Either this guy is completely ignorant regarding the fact that they drove a truck with their children o…
/r/MensRights03/04/18 05:09 PM
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Exactly! Below are the transcripts from my last rape trial acquittal from three Government witnesses with whom I addressed this. First, is the Army Criminal Investigation Division (CID) Special Agent who did the most investigation into the allegations: Q. Did you presume that [the complaining witness] was telling the truth you began this investigation? A. It’s against federal law to lie to a federal law enforcement officer during the course of an investigation so, there is a presumption of truth…
/r/MensRights30/03/18 04:27 PM
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I've noticed that the rotund female ones get hangry when they don't get their sugary fat filled foods that keep them fat. I would dump her and say that he obviously doesn't deserve her. "I want you to find a man who is everything you want and can remember to buy things for you. I'm so sorry that I could not be him."
/r/MensRights30/03/18 12:04 PM
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At least you won't have venue problems. I would hire a Utah attorney, but realize that she could submit a counterclaim. And, the Statute of Limitations is usually longer for personal physical injury torts (2 years) than they are for defamation (1 year).
/r/MensRights28/03/18 06:41 PM
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Can't help you. I would google defamation libel attorney utah and find an attorney who will take the case on a contingency fee basis. Does she live in Florida or Georgia?
/r/MensRights28/03/18 06:22 PM
1

Where do you live?
/r/MensRights28/03/18 06:20 PM
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Very brilliant observation! I am going to plagiarize this, if you don't mind.
/r/MensRights27/03/18 05:13 PM
2

they did not divorce.
/r/MensRights26/03/18 06:55 PM
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You just admitted that you were fingering a girl who was so intoxicated that you had to administer water to her and have your friend walk her home. Walking her home was so important to you that you interrupted him having sex with her friend. If the new school finds out that you are expelled, then you are going to have some issues getting into a new school. You need to seek representation immediately, or in the very least consult a lawyer and stop posting on Reddit because you just made some admi…
/r/MensRights22/03/18 01:05 PM
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Very simple. Women are easily influenced, most likely because they lack reason and accountability. It's like when women's groups were outraged that Talking Barbie said, "Math Class is tough!" That's offensive? Really? Little girls are so easily influenced that they might not do well in math because talking Barbie talks about how tough math class is? In that case, why didn't Mattel make talking Barbie say things like, "I love giving Ken oral sex!" Or, "I love to go to work and give my husband my …
/r/MensRights21/03/18 04:14 PM
1

I think she is going to introduce a bill that prevents them from signing a non-disclosure agreement and arbitration clause in order to be a Congressional employee. Putting a (D) next to a female Senator from New York would be redundant, wouldn't it?
/r/MensRights21/03/18 03:27 PM
1

I've had several female bosses who were great. My best boss was a female boss. But, I've only been employed for the most part in restaurants and in legal offices.
/r/MensRights20/03/18 05:58 PM
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"If you don't believe the stories of a survivor, you're not listening to them," Gillibrand said. "You're not creating the possibility that justice could be there for them." The logic contained in Gillibrand's statement means that nobody could ever listen to the story of a complaining witness and doubt the veracity of their story. Which means that there are no false allegations and that women are always telling the truth. If you don't believe her, then you just aren't listening, now are you. And,…
/r/MensRights20/03/18 04:57 PM
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Close the entire lid. Make them to the same amount of work. If you forget, then tell them, "I'm sorry. I keep forgetting that you two idiots are too stupid to check and see if the toilet lid is down before sitting. I shouldn't assume, because you are women, that you would accept any responsibility for you failing to look down before you sat, so it really is completely up to me, a man, to ensure the toilet seat is down because you are incapable, as a woman, of doing so."
/r/MensRights20/03/18 04:37 PM
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Ask her if there is a Violence Against Men Act? Does she know the statistics regarding how many men suffer one-way domestic violence? Ask her how many domestic violence shelters in the United States will house a male domestic abuse victim? Ask her what post-conception rights do men have? She will say that a man can wear a condom. Tell her to stay on point because a condom prevents conception. What POST-conception rights do men have regarding the child? None. And, if the male doesn't want the chi…
/r/MensRights20/03/18 04:25 PM
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As a criminal defense attorney who has tried numerous sex offense cases, I file motions in limine to prevent the prosecution's witnesses from referring to the complaining witness as the "victim." It never works, and they always refer to her as the victim when being question on direct examination by the prosecution. So, on cross examination, I confront them when they call the complaining witness a "victim." Then, I ask them if the CW was falsely accusing the Defendant, then HE would be the victim…
/r/MensRights20/03/18 04:16 PM
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Still, she was convicted. So, if a guy pleads not guilty and gets convicted, should he be referred to as "Accused?"
/r/MensRights20/03/18 02:11 PM
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I know it's a little late, but great post!
/r/MensRights15/03/18 01:13 PM
1

Concur. Women who want to be penetrated in every orifice with a multitude of penises have a good chance of being crazy. I'd find a new group. Because your reputation in that one is done, unless you want to be the male sub.
/r/MensRights12/03/18 12:09 PM
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I met my lovely wife when she was 27 and employed by a college in their admissions department. She is beautiful, has conservative values, and is a Christian who walks the talk, i.e. she is a Proverbs 31 woman, not a Proverbs 5 or 7 woman. She loved me for being the man I am. I met her after I became an attorney and knew my value. Had she had green hair, face piercings, tattoos, and regaled me with her opinions about toxic masculinity, then there would not have been a second date. I knew her for …
/r/MensRights09/03/18 03:58 PM
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I realize that. But, my answer encompasses what you can do regardless if your family or friend is accuser or complaining witness. So the explanation that is applicable to your question is in the second paragraph, which I repeat below: If you know the complaining witness, then you can make the same credibility determinations. Does he or she constantly look for attention? Have a personality disorder? Refuse to accept responsibility for his or her actions? Does he or she have a motive to fabricate …
/r/MensRights09/03/18 03:27 PM
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I've always found that the court reporter to be one of the smartest, if not the smartest person, in the courtroom if he or she has been doing it for over 10 years. In the military, the judge will often hold a "bridge the gap" session after a trial to critique counsel's performance. Some of them know what they are talking about and some of them are so clueless that the only thing worthwhile of sitting there listening to them navel gaze is the conclusion that I do not want to go judge alone with t…
/r/MensRights09/03/18 03:22 PM
1

When it is a friend or family who has been accused and denied the accusation, then you know the person. You can analyze past statements he's made, relationships he's been in, and how honest he is. If he is constantly getting "falsely accused" of things and takes no responsibility for his actions that are known or witnessed by you, then that is a detractor to his credibility. If you know the complaining witness, then you can make the same credibility determinations. Does he or she constantly look…
/r/MensRights09/03/18 02:57 PM
1

No, I also find women have have shit pierced on the face pretty questionable, as well.
/r/MensRights08/03/18 02:00 AM
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Why do we have to carve out an exception for this one type of crime? It probably would be easier to prove if these cowardly women didn't wait four years to report they were raped when they could have gotten some forensic evidence to prove rape. Better yet, In fact why don't we test it with the crime of false swearing. In fact, why don't we have cross criminal claims and base it on 50.1 percent. So, if you think more likely than not the accuser is lying, then she goes to jail. Just one trial for …
/r/MensRights08/03/18 01:52 AM
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What exactly is a whore uniform? Like a Hooters waitress? Can you just walk into a Hooters and start banging your waitress because she is wearing her whore uniform?
/r/MensRights08/03/18 01:38 AM
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Because western women wear revealing clothing often and that does not affect their agency to say No to sexual intercourse. That has nothing to do with their intent to have sex. I think if a woman was wearing lingerie, then that would show intent to have sex. But they are talking about a girl wearing a mini skirt or no bra or something.
/r/MensRights08/03/18 01:36 AM
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Due process is actually being given the alleged Vic's statement, witnesses' statements, campus cop reports, and being permitted to cross examine witnesses, submit exculpatory evidence, and be given unbiased fact finders to determine culpability. As far as confronting a complaining witness with what she was wearing to say "she wanted it" I have NEVER made nor seen any attorney make that argument in the decade plus years I've been representing men falsely accused of rape. It is a stupid argument t…
/r/MensRights08/03/18 12:14 AM
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I sent an email yesterday to a friend of mine, former client, who is going through a divorce telling him what a great dad he is. He's a hero of mine. Falsely accused by wife, court martial'd, acquitted, just got temporary sole custody when wife volunteered for deployment while divorce was pending. I thought about all he did for his daughter and how I have my wife to help raise our son. I hold my manhood cheap as a Dad compared to the fight he's gone through. I've told a few military clients who …
/r/MensRights07/03/18 11:19 PM
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**Addressing some of the explicit text messages she sent immediately after the incidents and some of the behavior she exhibited, Platania asked the jury to remember what a traumatic experience could do to someone. “Victims have complicated reactions to traumatic events,” said Platania.** So, this "victim" sent explicit text messages to this cop after blowing him twice without saying "No" because he was a cop, which corroborates that she was flirting with him prior to hooking up with him? And the…
/r/MensRights07/03/18 04:51 PM
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Let me start with if you are cheating on a woman you are dating who has green hair, then don't be surprised that she is plotting to kill you with a Samurai sword in your sleep. That being said, she has been charged with attempted murder, which she appears to have confessed to. Although, I think that women have gotten such a pass at violence that she probably thought she would have gotten off with probation if she just admitted that she intended to kill him because he was cheating on her. She can…
/r/MensRights07/03/18 03:41 PM
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Depends on what jurisdiction in which you or she resides. 5 -10k would probably be correct. Don't forget that if you don't get primary or joint custody, then you would be on the hook for child support. You need to contact an attorney in the County where you and she resided and where the child was born. That is where you would prefer to file the action because it is your home county.
/r/MensRights05/03/18 09:59 PM
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The movement, in my opinion, is to jumpstart reporting of "sexual assault" which conflates harrassment, touching, abusive sexual contact, and rape. They have begun going after the male feminist-friendly, for which they typically provided cover because they are running out of nonfeminist male to accuse. Their spokesperson is Rose McGowan who after making the rounds on several talk shows appears quite unhinged. The actual effect this has had is a complete and utter fatigue of all sexual misconduct…
/r/MensRights05/03/18 09:42 PM
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You could find her and file a legitimation petition, or a petition to establish paternity, custody, and visitation. But, these actions are expensive. Are you sure the child is yours?
/r/MensRights05/03/18 09:33 PM
2

I have an American Soldier client who was falsely accused by his spouse of rape, faced a ridiculous court martial, got him acquitted, and finally got temporary custody of his daughter after divorce has drug for four years. She volunteered for a deployment and will be gone for a year. I have the audio from the Court martial. It would make a great story with a hopefully happy ending. He is a great person.
/r/MensRights03/03/18 02:14 PM
2

Nobody will listen to this particular argument? I beg to differ. These are statements made by 4 jurors in my last rape trial: “I think recently there’s a — especially quite recently there’s a lot of allegations coming to fruition, some of them are years and years in the past, and I just — in my opinion I raised some issues with that when there’s no — when they’re not bringing any evidence or anything to the forefront, I think sometimes the people do it for immediate media attention or other gend…
/r/MensRights02/03/18 06:15 PM
2

In Georgia, I have researched and drafted a complaint for defamation and tortious interference with an employment relationship based on false allegations against a Servicemember. You need a woman with deep pockets, which they don't have because of the wage gap, you know.
/r/MensRights02/03/18 06:04 PM
3

Eric, that is know as the femacular.
/r/MensRights01/03/18 04:55 PM
1

14 is pretty young and is illegal in Florida. What I don't like are the relationships that would be legal according to the State's age of consent, yet, are made illegal by the status of the party, i.e. schoolteachers. If a person is legal, then they are legal. And, I think the real purpose of the law is to prevent male schoolteachers from seducing their students. I don't think they gave one iota of thought about how females would do something like this.
/r/MensRights01/03/18 04:46 PM
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Flavius for the win! Good point! So, let me tell you. The Violence Against Women Act has given billions of dollars to state and local governments to prevent violence against women, rape counseling centers, special victim units, etc. If violence against women is seen as decreasing or being on par with men, then there is no need to fund the services provided under this act. Likewise, if there is a high rate of false allegations, manipulation of statistics, or a perception that this act is discrimi…
/r/MensRights01/03/18 04:37 PM
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Hagging: When a particularly unattractive female repeatedly complains about something trivial in a futile attempt to get a man to do something he neither intends nor will ever do. Ex/ Stop hagging me about the condescending tone of my voice. I'm sorry that you make less than a man and are crippled by $100k in student loan debt you incurred to attend your private liberal arts college, but you chose to major in women's studies. Femsponse: The female response to anything a man says where they feel …
/r/MensRights01/03/18 04:02 PM
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link to article about her disciplinary proceedings
/r/MensRights26/02/18 08:32 PM
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physicalsafetygap
/r/MensRights26/02/18 06:35 PM
1

And, it's even worse where the prosecutors reason that the women is crazy because she has been abused, notwithstanding her having no evidence of physical injuries.
/r/MensRights23/02/18 03:21 PM
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I represented a Ranger whose wife falsely accused him of a number of sexual and physical crimes, none of which were true or supported by any physical evidence where there should have been some. However, he had plenty of recordings of her abusing him that he played and attempted to play for the Army's family advocacy program counselor who was very dismissive. He was ultimately charged at a Court-martial, and during a preliminary hearing, the wife denied all the abusive things she did and said to …
/r/MensRights23/02/18 03:18 PM
1

Right. It seems like you are questioning how in Sweden feminism and Islam could coexist to where people categorize it as a feminist or Islamic country. This paradox exists in most Western Countries where the feminists rail against Christian men while the numbers of Muslim men are rising. You would think that they would protest against allowing the country to allow Muslims in. I don't know a whole lot about Sweden, but are the feminist organizations over there protesting Muslim immigration on a w…
/r/MensRights23/02/18 01:21 PM
1

Well, if all the men leave the planet and travel to Mars, then I think I'd be accused of mansplaining if I said that to women...... ; )
/r/MensRights21/02/18 09:50 PM
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There are so many divorce parallels in this article. It's almost as if the author is the borderline personality disorder spouse who has beat up on her husband for so long that he find has enough and files for divorce because being alone is better than being with her. So, now she's pissed because he has "abandoned" her and left her with a mess of a planet that he's not there to fix and work on. He's out there having a good time with his friends flying to Mars where she is left here to do somethin…
/r/MensRights21/02/18 06:49 PM
1

I think a 32 year sentence would be a great way to generally deter such behavior in society.
/r/MensRights21/02/18 05:01 PM
2

I don't know that feminists (who are mostly liberal leaning) love Islam. I find that they are usually silent on the matter. But, feminists are cowards. They rail against Western conservative men because they know that they are safe. The reason they don't protest against Muslims communities who choose to oppress women is because they know that they will get a beat down or arrested and imprisoned. But, they know they have the freedom to protest and say the most horrible things about Christian male…
/r/MensRights21/02/18 04:48 PM
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In the middle eastern Muslim country where she obviously resides. Wait......She teaches at an American university and lives in California? Sorry, my bad.
/r/MensRights21/02/18 04:19 PM
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This is what Bill Burr would say: I look at this like a divorce. Because on a macro level feminists have essentially filed for divorce against men on this planet. So, basically, men lose the planet Earth, like a man on a micro level loses the house in the divorce. And, why are men looking to go to Mars? Well, I've always heard that Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus. So, basically, we are going back to live with our parents. What they call "patriarchy," is merely men who have become so d…
/r/MensRights21/02/18 03:57 PM
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Can someone be fired simply based on an allegation? Ask Matt Lauer. I suppose a man could file a claim with the EEOC that he was fired based on his gender when the allegation is false because the company who fired him ascribes to the mantra of "We believe women" like Jackie Speiers most recently said is the new mantra. For everyone. But, how do you think an EEOC attorney is going to react to that complaint?
/r/MensRights20/02/18 05:55 PM
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Victor's story plays out every day in US military bases across the globe where Detective DeCoster has been replicated in CID, NCIS, and AFOSI office where they look for inculpatory evidence and do little to nothing to find exculpatory evidence. This is quite similar to American universities' student misconduct hearings, and to the Crown Prosecution Service's cases that have fallen apart in recent times. This mindset is not an anomaly. It is trained. Look at "Start by Believing." The problem with…
/r/MensRights19/02/18 05:16 PM
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Without the comparison, there would be no awareness of the double standard. The problem is defining the purpose of the comparison because unless one understands the purpose of the comparison, then I agree with you that it's just annoying and, so vague, that it becomes irrelevant. Take a simple acronym: NAACP. Which description describes a hate group? National Association for the Advancement of Colored People or National Association for the Advancement of Caucasian People? They have the same goal…
/r/MensRights19/02/18 04:45 PM
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CNN also is confused about what constitutes an "offense," i.e. sending a picture of another person's penis and sexual assault.
/r/MensRights15/02/18 02:49 PM
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I recently represented a grenade instructor at a Court-martial. He was facing life in prison, but got convicted of two simple assaults and was facing 12 months confinement. During sentencing, we called his former Commander who testified about how being a grenade instructor was one of the most stressful duty positions because many of the trainees have never even thrown a baseball, let alone a one pound piece of metal an significant distance. I remembered when I did the live grenade range at Ft. D…
/r/MensRights15/02/18 02:45 PM
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WTF does that mean? Google 'tossing salad urban dictionary.' So, take for instance the Shaun White allegations with his former female bandmate. That would be considered "soft harassment." But, she made a lawsuit out of it. I think she should move on. I'm just tired of the constant victimization in America. It would be better if women had the attitude that I have.
/r/MensRights14/02/18 07:08 PM
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You both handled that situation really well. You could have said, "Look. I'm flattered, but if you think me and you are going to get together, don't. I won't do anything to hurt my girlfriend." But, you let your gf handle it, which is also very acceptable.
/r/MensRights14/02/18 04:42 PM
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I've had female bosses, and my promotion has never depended on sex or a relationship. However, I have had women make comments that would be considered harassment if I were a female and the one making the comment was a male. Topics like: Would I be willing to be in the all shirtless male Office Calendar? A female co-worker volunteered out of left field that she didn't toss the salad on the first date and what she'd do to me if I didn't have a girlfriend. How my professor dated all her male TA's (…
/r/MensRights14/02/18 04:39 PM
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I was born in 1971, and I can't recall being taught to ignore a woman saying "No." So, if individually, I was not taught to ignore "No," then does that mean I maintain the 'ability' to say no? And, nersen-me's use of the phrase 'ability to say no' is curious. Does she mean that boys physically cannot say no, or their ability to have women not ignore them saying no is what goes away. Because that would mean that a girl ignores the word no. but, rather than focus on her ignorance, she infers that …
/r/MensRights14/02/18 04:18 PM
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I noticed the same thing. I doubt he's ever been to Asia. This video is the best revenge.
/r/MensRights14/02/18 02:45 AM
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Stay away from women who are BPD. How do you know? She jumps into bed with you. She seems too good to be true. She tells you a bunch of stuff to seem like she has the same interests to relate to you but things just aren't quite right. She doesn't have any lifelong friends or any really good friends. She talks smack about every one of her exes. She is inappropriately jealous.
/r/MensRights14/02/18 02:39 AM
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You can tell in the recording that Hassan is (1) covering for her with some phony ass story, she concocted with his full knowledge after the cop asked her if she told any friends, or (2) he thinks the complaining witness is batshit crazy, he did pick her up after she was running and crying, and he doesn't want to be involved. He starts getting really squirrely when the cop starts asking him if he would be willing to testify, i.e. test-a-lie.
/r/MensRights13/02/18 10:46 PM
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it's pretty horrifying to think that women can so easily believe these stories that they conjured up in their delusional minds.. and put a man behind bars for decades I am not surprised by that. What I am surprised with is that a trained law enforcement officer who investigates sex crimes for a living is not conducting an investigation into her mental state or corroborating her story through physical evidence or credible witnesses prior to obtaining a warrant for an arrest where an innocent man …
/r/MensRights13/02/18 10:43 PM
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Actually, the correction should be "Borderlines are one of the most toxic people there are." "Borderline people are one of the most toxic people there are" is kind of redundant.
/r/MensRights13/02/18 10:34 PM
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Your comment is too logical....and truthful......and correct.....
/r/MensRights13/02/18 10:26 PM
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No responsibility. No acceptance of her role in any of this. No acknowledgement that maybe he's just talking about gear because people like to talk about gear (?). Thankfully, she is not drinking and hooking up with guys. Because she has 100% the mentality required to make a false allegation after regretting hooking up with a guy after having two glasses of Chardonnay.
/r/MensRights13/02/18 09:09 PM
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A few positive notes from reading this article: First, her lesbian ex-girlfriend back in NY really dodged a bullet. Second, I am confident that no man will be in danger of entering into an intimate relationship with this woman. Third, women (i.e. the cute blonde in the "boy's club") still exist who are able to coexist with men. These are the points she is trying to convey, right?
/r/MensRights13/02/18 08:15 PM
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Brilliant. (Beginning the slow clap)
/r/MensRights13/02/18 08:06 PM
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One might wonder why Tulane would release these numbers making their campus look so unsafe for women? Well, one reason is money. Universities get no federal money for victim services when there is no problem.
/r/MensRights13/02/18 06:05 PM
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EVERY MAN WHO HAS BEEN FALSELY ACCUSED NEEDS TO WATCH THIS!!!!!!! I used all caps because that's how emphatic I am. Victor Zheng is quite courageous. I can't wait for part 2. Please post it immediately when he releases it.
/r/MensRights13/02/18 05:37 PM
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I thought you were making an Archer reference: Zone of Danger
/r/MensRights12/02/18 06:40 PM
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I used that strategy between '93 and '02 until I met my wife through mutual friends, and she told them it would be okay for them to give me her number. I was going to post about how that should be the policy men have nowadays. And, by "zone of danger," you are referring to the "Danger Zone!?"
/r/MensRights12/02/18 05:34 PM
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Between 2010 and 2016, it was quite possible to get a conviction at a US Military Court-martial solely based on the word of the complaining witness. Panel members were indoctrined into the "believe the woman" mantra and forced to watch the Invisible War multiple times during sexual assault prevention classes. I know of one case where the CW was seen on top of the Accused by 4 witnesses in the next bed who testified that it sounded consensual. One of the witnesses was a friend the CW considered "…
/r/MensRights12/02/18 05:08 PM
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I like and agree with all the comments stating that he "dodged a bullet" with that one. Because if she had any kind of recognition of today's reality she would ponder how well the opposite action worked with James Franco and Asis Azari.
/r/MensRights12/02/18 03:31 PM
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I get guilt shamed all the time by not showing enough sympathy for woman who accuse men of rape. "Wow, way to be sympathetic to women who have been raped." I guess I don't have enough male guilt for the sins of others to instinctively believe women, no matter how absurd their claims are.
/r/MensRights09/02/18 07:22 PM
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Yes.
/r/MensRights09/02/18 02:40 PM
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She wasn't on trial and wasn't under the jurisdiction of the prosecutor. Of course, she denied coaching her daughter who actually committed the perjury. So, nothing happened to her.
/r/MensRights08/02/18 07:06 PM
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No, what awksomepenguin is saying is that broadcasting them would be a copyright infringement. That is a REALLY good point that I did not consider. Certainly, a prof has a copyright on slides. But, do they have a copyright on your questions and their answers to your questions? What about just doing an audio recording? And broadcasting it after you have graduated?
/r/MensRights08/02/18 06:38 PM
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My college roommate Ricky was hella drunk at the bar during closing hour hitting on a woman who looked like she was pushing 180 and batshit crazy. I walked up to him and said, "Hey, your girlfriend just called me and told me to tell you to answer her text." He's not married. He'll thank me in the morning after I show him the picture I stealthily took of them when he was chatting her up. He probably escaped a false allegation of sexual assault because he would've ghosted that Hog like Patrick Swa…
/r/MensRights08/02/18 06:27 PM
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It would be awesome if someone took a feminist driven agenda class and recorded each and every class. Then, they could put it on Youtube in it's entirety, so everyone could hear it. Of course, there could be a guide with time hacks for the important stuff along with transcripts. It would be a huge endeavor that would require a lot of time, but it would be nice to hear how men are discriminated against for voicing a view different than that of the professor and/or students. It's one thing to read…
/r/MensRights08/02/18 02:52 PM
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An allegation of sexual assault is many times complex. Some questions I would have for you is who is accusing him? Is it a family member? If so, is the family member an adult or a child? What are the inconsistencies? Did she tell someone that it occurred 100 times, yet she told someone else that it occurred at least 50 times? Or, are there text messages post allleged assault that indicates the sex was consensual or that they never had sex? I always look for smoking gun inconsistencies that prove…
/r/MensRights08/02/18 02:42 PM
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Here are a few links: Wakefield, H., & Underwager, R. (1990). Personality Characteristics of Parents Making False Accusations of Sexual Abuse in Custody Disputes. Issues In Child Abuse Accusations, 2(3), 121-136. https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/borderline-personality-disorder/index.shtml Since JarvisMusk is probably not a psychologist he made a mistake in the articulation of his claim. These eight ways are not definitive traits one might diagnose with a BPD, but they all are certainly tac…
/r/MensRights06/02/18 07:16 PM
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Perhaps my evidence is anecdotal from my experience an an attorney representing men who have been falsely accused of a variety of assaults by women who carry all the traits of one with a borderline personality disorder. Knowing that I am not a psychotherapist, I have worked with quite a few expert forensic psychologists who have educated me in all things Cluster B. Thus, based on my experience in the courtroom and consulting with experts in forensic psychology (all of whom have worked on the cli…
/r/MensRights06/02/18 06:45 PM
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Prior to the Court being "assembled," voire dire is conducted by the Military judge, the prosecution, and the defense, both as a group and individually. Each side can object to (challenge) a panel member serving "for cause" which I believe the defense counsel in this case did. After for challenges for cause are made, each side gets one free pre-emptory challenge for whatever reason they want (as long as it does not pertain to gender, race, religion, etc.)
/r/MensRights06/02/18 05:57 PM
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The lesson here is that any man should have known better than to trust a woman to drive a classic rear wheeled vehicle 35 mph down a pretty straight dirt road without wrecking it into a tree, particularly when she states that she is nervous about driving 35 miles an hour down a pretty straight road. He never should have attempted to talk her into it because she did not give enthusiastic consent to engage in the stunt. Men should know better than attempt to persuade, influence, or encourage a wom…
/r/MensRights06/02/18 03:58 PM
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The key to this is not only was the panel packed with female jurors, but four out of five of the panel members were former victim advocates with the only explanation that they illegally considered gender and chose women to be on the panel for a sexual assault case for "diversity." This case is on the heels of reported cases where the Navy TJAG advised a Convening Authority against dismissing a conviction because it would "paint a target on his back." [Likely from Senator Claire McCaskill who vet…
/r/MensRights05/02/18 04:37 PM
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So, if you read the article with an eye towards suspecting that Sally had the personality disorder, which explains why she cheated on her husband, was given demands to get back with her to include: That when we go out together, it means together. This constant talking to strangers is rude and inconsiderate. We will agree to items in the home together. To give up smoking. To give up your constant interruptions when I am speaking. So, she was flirtatious and cheated on him, she constantly nagged h…
/r/MensRights02/02/18 04:14 PM
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No. But, when I used to ask a woman out on a date I always paid because I was expected to pay. But I've been out of the game for 15 years now after meeting my lovely, conservative wife who has said on more than one occasion "what did she expect he wanted to do when he invited her to his room alone." Maybe women have started paying for their own stuff over the past 15 years. I've had sugar mommas before because I grew up poor, but generally I think if I asked a woman out on a date then spring it …
/r/MensRights31/01/18 01:28 PM
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If you read it in the voice of Bill Burr, then I think it adds something, y'Know?
/r/MensRights30/01/18 06:08 PM
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You know what I think? I think we need to apply the "James Franco/Power Dynamic/Enthusiastic consent" standard to theft and robbery. For example, paying for dinner. I ask a woman out for dinner and she agrees. We go to the restaurant. She's a big girl and orders for herself. When the check comes I decide I don't want to pay for her meal which is absolutely my right, and I ask the Server to split it. So, if she starts means shaming me after I express my desire not to pay for her meal that SHE ord…
/r/MensRights30/01/18 05:56 PM
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I never even thought about that progression, but you are spot on.
/r/MensRights30/01/18 05:03 PM
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You know what I think? I think we need to apply this standard to theft and robbery. For example, paying for dinner. I ask a woman out for dinner and she agrees. We go to the restaurant. She's a big girl and orders for herself. When the check comes I decide I don't want to pay for her meal which is absolutely my right, and I ask the Server to split it. So, if she starts means shaming me after I express my desire not to pay for her meal that SHE ordered and SHE ate, then I go ahead and pay for it,…
/r/MensRights30/01/18 04:57 PM
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Halafax, Military juries are called panels and jurors are called "panel members." In a General Court Court martial, there must be a minimum of five panel members, but typically you start the trial off with 10 potential panel members, with another 10 potential alternates. (Most of my experience has been with Ft. Benning, Georgia) Here's where it gets interesting. Panel members are hand-selected by the General Court Marital Convening Authority (GCMCA) who is usually a 2 star General Officer who is…
/r/MensRights29/01/18 07:12 PM
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Relevant portion begins at 40 seconds and ends at 1 minute 25 seconds.
/r/MensRights29/01/18 06:23 PM
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Yeah, I can see your point, which sounds like enthusiastic consent if not immediately given permanently disqualifies a women from engaging in any kind of intimate contact with a man. So, it's kind of like a rights warning where the perp says he wants a lawyer. Cops gotta let him go. But, if he comes back and says he wants to talk, then that is enthusiastic consent. So, when Aziz says, "Hey, let's get it on" and she says, "Oh....I don't know if I'm ready." His response should be, "Okay, you gotta…
/r/MensRights25/01/18 09:17 PM
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So, I had a client who was accused of a rape in a bathroom at a park. Bail got set at $50k, as it was a he said/she said. Family couldn't come up with the money. He remained in jail for another four months without an indictment, so I filed a motion to reduce bail to an affordable amount and got it down to $10k. Dude's out. This is Georgia. Don't know the facts of your case, but it sounds like a he said/she said where you were present in the home that was the alleged crime scene. Speedy trial dem…
/r/MensRights25/01/18 08:55 PM
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Let it be. This kind of statistic kind of defeats the whole wage gap thing, doesn't it?
/r/MensRights25/01/18 08:48 PM
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First time I've ever seen a male wearing a nose ring. I've got my opinions about women in general who have their noses pierced.
/r/MensRights16/01/18 04:09 PM
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Exactly! I am waiting for a woman to accuse a man of forcible oral sodomy because she was too drunk to consent when he is laying on his back with his hands behind his head the whole time and she conducted all the acts required to perform said act.
/r/MensRights16/01/18 03:34 PM
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You know. I realize that I am a victim of robbery. I asked a woman if she wanted to meet for dinner. We had a wonderful meal with a great discussion. She took a taxi, so she could drink a bunch of cocktails. I drove, so I had one beer. I was really into her. When the Server gave me the check, I asked her if she wanted to split the check down the middle, which I thought was a good deal because her drinks made what she ordered way more expensive. She took offense to it. And, after all those cockta…
/r/MensRights15/01/18 09:02 PM
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Men aren't allowed to wear a times up pin
/r/MensRights14/01/18 07:27 PM
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One thing we need to change is the application of a mistake of fact defense. In many States, an honest and reasonable mistake of fact as to someone's age is not a defense to carnal knowledge. So....hypothetically.....in a case where I lied to a 29 year old guest at a hotel where I worked as a room service waiter at the age of 16 and told her that I was 19, she would be technically guilty of forcible sodomy if she gave me a blow job and I turned her in. I would be considered a "victim" in that si…
/r/MensRights10/01/18 05:12 PM
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Not sure how this will survive as a class action lawsuit as it appears that it will be unmanageable to identify each specific claim and place a value upon that claim. The identities of conservative white males at Google is likely not to be ascertainable. However, it is a shocking eye opener for anyone who is looking to work for Google who is white, male, and is a free thinker. Is this company's HR handbook Orwell's 1984?
/r/MensRights09/01/18 04:57 PM
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Great article. And, when men don't take the bait, women start slapping or punching at them until the men grab the woman's wrist in self defense causing bruising. Then, the woman calls 911 and says that she was assaulted and shows the bruise on the wrist as evidence. Or she grabs an orange and puts in into a sock then beats herself in the face with it causing bruising.
/r/MensRights09/01/18 04:08 PM
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I am a man with sexual needs. And she robbed me by forcing me to pay for our date. I did not feel like I had a choice to say no. I don't have any bargaining power. I need sex. I need companionship. I need the company of a woman.
/r/MensRights09/01/18 02:42 PM
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By the same token, I was a victim of forced labor in an exploitative environment. TGIFridays and Steak and Ale made me work in their restaurant during college and law school. They paid me below minimum wage, but I got tips from horrible people who complained constantly about the food. I needed work. I needed to eat. I needed a career. I hated waiting on tables, and these places forced me to do it. They had all the bargaining power.
/r/MensRights09/01/18 02:17 PM
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We need to create an asterisk system for transgendered peoples. Kind of like when Roger Maris broke Babe Ruth's season home run record by one home run in 162 games where Babe Ruth only had 154 games to do it. Kind of like notice to the reader of the record books of the whole truth. M* or F* will at least provide notice because shouldn't cisgendered people know the truth up front?
/r/MensRights09/01/18 02:07 PM
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She's hot. She's emoting on social media. She shot her boyfriend twice in the chest. She probably has a Borderline Personality Disorder, which means she is evil.
/r/MensRights09/01/18 02:00 PM
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Well, I hope he files a counterclaim and sues her for slander. Someone will blink and settle the case.
/r/MensRights05/01/18 09:15 PM
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Great article. Another example of this is in the military, which is probably more conservative than the general public. Back in '09, Congress began its war on sexual assault in the military. I am a civilian court-martial defense attorney who has taken a fair share of sexual assault cases since '02 when I was an Army JAG. I've seen the evolution of sexual assault prosecutions in the military, particularly at Ft. Benning Georgia where I was stationed, and where I now I predominately practice. Back…
/r/MensRights04/01/18 05:10 PM
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I'm with you on this. There is a double standard. Men are supposed to suck it up. What I hate is how everyone nowadays is a "survivor." That term has been watered down in the same way "rape" has. I've read so many cases where some drunk woman has hooked up on night, then reported she was raped after she sobered up. Accused said that it was consensual. She says she doesn't remember any of it. Or she says that "froze" and couldn't say anything when he inserted his penis into her vagina after some …
/r/MensRights02/01/18 04:37 PM
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I recently read an article explaining that Canadian liberals are calling for an amendment to the rape shield law to include post-coitus texts. This would mean that defense counsel would have to disclose the messages to the prosecution prior to trial in order to have the texts admitted into evidence. Most US jurisdictions require reciprocal discovery on evidence the defense wishes to enter during trial in it's case in chief. But, there are ways to get around not providing those texts to the prose…
/r/MensRights02/01/18 04:25 PM
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In law school, I had a feminist legal writing professor. I got a B in the class, which was respectable. We had to write a legal brief, which made up the vast majority of our grade, i.e. what you got on the brief, you received as a grade for the class. I'd always received B's in my English and writing classes in college, which were all taught by females. But, then I tried out for Moot Court, where we all had to submit our legal writing briefs for the 3 person brief grading committee to grade. Aft…
/r/MensRights28/12/17 09:57 PM
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The problem is that many in law enforcement, particularly those in the US military, do not look for evidence to the contrary. They look only for evidence that would support the accuser's version of events and expect the accused's defense attorney to figure it out. It used to be that virtually all prosecutors understood their special responsibilities to ensure that an innocent man was not convicted of a crime he did not commit. In sex crime investigations, too many prosecutors have forgotten that…
/r/MensRights27/12/17 07:20 PM
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I've had more than one male client share with me their "she tried to push me down the stairs while I was holding our baby daughter/son" story. Both wives were suspected to have Borderline Personality Disorders.
/r/MensRights27/12/17 06:46 PM
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This meme reminds me of this clip: [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wse_hgca220]
/r/MensRights27/12/17 05:17 PM
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And, I suppose if she were giving him a BJ as he was lying on his back with his hands behind his head, that would be forcible sodomy.
/r/MensRights27/12/17 05:12 PM
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I've used "reverse cowgirl=consent" argument before successfully. Client was not charged.
/r/MensRights27/12/17 05:10 PM
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It's really a shame when law enforcement approach a case with a "victim" advocate mentality, aka "start by believing the victim." It causes them to lack objectivity regarding the possibility that she is lying. And, quite frankly, it weakens the system. Law enforcement get lazy and stop approaching the case with a view towards assisting the DA to prove guilt beyond a reasonable doubt. They don't need to look for exculpatory evidence, but instead find only evidence that points to guilt, and in the…
/r/MensRights26/12/17 06:11 PM
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Although I disagree with Matt Damon on many of his views, this article concerning one of them raises a good point. The more rape is conflated with other boorish behavior, the more it includes behaviors exhibited by women. So, take Al Franken's incident with Ms. Tweeden. So, he was castigated as a sexual abuser because a picture existed showing his hands hovering over a sleeping Ms. Tweeden. Also, she stated that he kissed her without her consent. And, she talked about how she had to go rinse the…
/r/MensRights19/12/17 08:16 PM
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There is going to be a paradigm shift where men gird their loins and maintain their virginity and, henceforth, their virtue the way women did before the sexual revolution. A virgin male will be more highly sought after. It's coming.
/r/MensRights12/12/17 04:55 PM
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Good points. I used to advise trainees at Ft. Benning to follow 3 simple rules: (1) make sure she's 18; (2) Make sure she is not drunk; and (3) let her start off on top. Pretty hard to get claim you are raped when you are on top enthusiastically riding your partner.
/r/MensRights12/12/17 04:50 PM
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Congress through the UCMJ (Article 120c) has already made the surreptitious recording of a person who is naked a violation of the UCMJ that brings with it sex offender registry, confinement and a DD. So, now when a Soldier gets falsely accused and says, "Hey! I have a video! It was consensual." they military can still crush his nuts at a Court-martial.
/r/MensRights12/12/17 04:48 PM
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TMM316, Yes, abstinence is the best way to avoid a false rape allegation, although you can still be falsely accused, i.e. Joseph and Potiphar's wife. But, here is a list I've compiled through experience on how to avoid a false rape allegation. Practice abstinence until marriage. In addition to minimize the chances you will be falsely accused, you won’t have to worry about STD’s or child support payments for 18 years. This is the best method of False Allegation Prevention or (“FAP”). There is not…
/r/MensRights12/12/17 04:43 PM
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He didn't even leak her name. He just said that it was a woman whom he was dating, so apparently those in her inner circle will now know that she made an allegation against him. So, according to the author, that is abuser behavior right there.
/r/MensRights12/12/17 04:35 PM
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I have defended and prosecuted those who have been accused of sexual assault. And there are a few things that I've noticed in many cases, there is a mental health component to either the accuser or the accused. False accusers typically have a mental health issue, as do legitimate rapists. And, if so, then there will other victims out there. So, for instance, if a wife with a borderline personality disorder falsely accuses her second husband of raping her when he files for divorce, there is a goo…
/r/MensRights12/12/17 04:31 PM
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It's pretty easy to get a fake pregnancy test online. Sounds like you are being set up. She will tell you that she needs money for the abortion. Tell her you do not believe in abortion and will not give her money for one. See how she reacts. If she is doing this for the money and the pregnancy test is fake, she will probably lose her mind on you. Men might be still be facing an uphill battle in the war against false allegations of sexual assault, but DNA is the nuclear option in a woman's weapon…
/r/MensRights12/12/17 04:16 PM
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The default regarding criminal investigations should be the same burden of proof as the presumption in the criminal justice system. Cops should gather facts and build their case presuming that the accused is innocent, or, to put it another way: being falsely accused. The Cop should look to see if the complaining witness's story is consistent and if it makes sense, while also seeking physical evidence to corroborate the complaining witness's story. If a cop fails to do so, then the entire investi…
/r/MensRights11/12/17 09:19 PM
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This is quite insane. Bill C-51 is proposing that communications such as “sexting,” texts, emails, photos or videos “of a sexual nature or for a sexual purpose” from before or after an alleged assault could not be used against a complainant. So, when the falsely accused says, "She sent me a text saying 'I want to bang you' and then sent a video of her touching herself and whispering 'get over here now' into the camera. So, I went over to her apartment and we had sex. Apparently, none of that wou…
/r/MensRights21/11/17 05:09 PM
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But, it does kind of explain why he might have thought at the time that it was okay to take a joking photo of his hands hovering over her flak jacket's breast area while she was asleep. And, for her to say that she TO THIS DAY clenches her fists whenever she sees him, it's not like she's a shrinking violet wearing a habit in a convent. That's one thing I hate about the "don't blame the victim" mantra is that to call someone out for over dramatizing the effect the bad actor's behavior had on them…
/r/MensRights20/11/17 03:55 PM
1

But, he wasn't a Senator when this photo was taken in 2006. He was elected in 2008. So, Article 1, Section 6 wouldn't apply to prevent the arrest of Mr. Franken in 2006. But, this isn't even my point in my OP. I made the very simple point that Al Franken was a hyprocrite for voting yea to pass a law in 2012 that would have criminalized the act he committed if it was committed by a PFC and called for 37 years in prison. Then you told me I was wrong because he wasn't active duty and the UCMJ only …
/r/MensRights17/11/17 08:44 PM
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Wrong - the UCMJ ONLY applies to service members on Active Duty (with the caveat that it can apply to inactive members under special circumstances). Wrong! The UCMJ applies to "In time of declared war or contingency operation, persons serving with or accompanying an armed force in the field." See Article 2(a)(10), UCMJ. See also this link at page 39 indicating that military jurisdiction was exercised during WWII over USO entertainers: http://scholarship.law.unc.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=18…
/r/MensRights17/11/17 03:14 PM
1

Sorry. This was an inartful attempt of me showing the hypocrisy of our Legislators who pass laws criminalizing Servicemember conduct while committing the same kind of misconduct. And, I think that should have been a little more clear when I stated "So, PFC Franken would be facing a DD and 37 years confinement." So, the point I was trying to make is that Senator Al Franken voted yea to pass a law in 2012 that would allow a Servicemember to serve a maximum of 37 years in prison for conduct that he…
/r/MensRights17/11/17 02:52 PM
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What I find interesting is that Al Franken was elected in 2008, and Article 120 of the UCMJ was amended in 2012 to make what he did in the picture the crime of Abusive Sexual Contact where he would be facing a dishonorable discharge and seven years confinement. She was wearing a flak jacket, so she might not have felt him touching her if he was. The incident where he used a script as subterfuge to penetrate her mouth with his tongue is a sexual assault under fraudulent representation and/or ille…
/r/MensRights16/11/17 10:31 PM
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And don't forget, had he not had the entire incident recorded, then he probably would have been hauled off in handcuffs. But, I agree on people backlashing against Uber for being recorded while they are drunk. There are a lot of people in this world who don't want to take accountability for their actions.
/r/MensRights16/11/17 04:31 PM
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I notice that she said NOTHING about him being a predator in her mea culpa affidavit everyone can read here: (https://www.dallasnews.com/news/courts/2017/11/15/uber-drive-ended-block-fired-prosecutors-home-felt-drunk-get) On the Inside Edition story, they show her looking at the camera and she just looks evil. Someone should report on cases that she prosecuted because I would bet money there are some wrongful convictions.
/r/MensRights16/11/17 04:26 PM
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No doubt! I'm dealing with a case where a female banged a Soldier, then three days later brought him a positive pregnancy test. He told her that he wanted to go to her next doctor's appointment because he doesn't think that's how it works (pretty smart for a PFC) and she flips out and gets a Violence Protective Order against him. He comes to me because I represent military guys against false allegations, and we get the VPO dismissed. Within my investigation of her, I find that she has been invol…
/r/MensRights16/11/17 03:44 PM
1

Awesome result MidWestMind! If your ex is living in Section 8 housing, then your children are way better off.
/r/MensRights16/11/17 03:36 PM
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I can't count the number of women with whom I broke up or told I didn't want to date them after hooking up with them who harrassed me by stalking me, leaving notes on my truck, cornering me in an office, showing up at my house uninvited, spreading rumors about me, egging my house, leaving unwanted voicemails, etc. All because I wouldn't date them.
/r/MensRights14/11/17 05:05 PM
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No, not full stop. What if a guy is asleep and a woman blows him to erection, whereupon he wakes up and shortly thereafter ejaculates? That would be forcible sodomy, right? Should she have to register as a sex offender because of her crime?
/r/MensRights31/10/17 07:21 PM
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We'll know they've jumped the shark when porn stars begin coming forward complaining of sexual harrassment.
/r/MensRights27/10/17 09:21 PM
1

I hate it when women say they were "too drunk to really move or so anything" and they "just let it happen." And they continue the relationship, then decide to cry rape when he breaks up with them. That's completely different than some naive girl drinking a spiked drink and passing out to have a guy rape her.
/r/MensRights27/10/17 09:10 PM
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until women experience a few convictions for something like this, they will never, NEVER acknowledge the absurdity of what they pass off on men. THIS is something we both can agree on wholeheartedly!
/r/MensRights24/10/17 04:20 PM
2

Same here. I really hate when women lament how they were raped under this scenario. It blurs the definition of rape to include non-rape. If this happened a handful of times, then you should probably stop drinking because you allow people to do things that you regret. Also, you need to speak up for yourself. The first time it happened, you should have said something like, "Hey, that's pretty freaking unacceptable for you to have sex with me when I am passed out."
/r/MensRights23/10/17 03:50 PM
2

She told me they had talked about having separate days for men and women to come because there have been instances of split families fighting with each other when both parents were invited together but the wording on the invitation was certainly exclusionary. Oh, I see. It's the mens' fault when split families argue?
/r/MensRights20/10/17 04:56 PM
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That was the best, most Dwight Shrutest, response I have ever read. Kudos to you, casmuff, whoever you are!
/r/MensRights20/10/17 04:53 PM
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Great point. Instead of marching and waxing poetic against Donald Trump, a powerful man who I assume never assaulted her, why didn't Ashley Judd use her platform to take down Harvey Weinstein who actually did assault, or in the very least sexually harass, her?
/r/MensRights20/10/17 04:50 PM
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The problem is when "believe the victim" has been adopted by Law Enforcement as well and has infiltrated their investigatory process. In the military, particularly at Ft. Benning, this policy excuses CID from looking for exculpatory evidence.
/r/MensRights18/10/17 04:26 PM
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I think if a female teacher molested a boy from age 6 until the age of 12, then she would probably go to jail for at least a year.
/r/MensRights18/10/17 04:22 PM
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Manslaughter is one type of homicide, which is simply defined as death of one human being caused by another human being.
/r/MensRights16/10/17 05:56 PM
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She's got a Borderline PD, bromigo. You need to cut sling load riki- tik. I'd advise you to make some recordings of her losing her mind on you, but that's illegal in your state. But, save all your e-mails, voicemails, etc. and any evidence that shows she was the abusive one. Because she is probably going to falsely accuse you of some stuff when you leave her.
/r/MensRights12/10/17 04:19 PM
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How 'bout that little organization called the Selective Service? Oh, wait.....we are talking about them belonging to an organization THEY WANT to belong to regardless of gender.
/r/MensRights12/10/17 03:19 PM
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Maybe your daughter majored in psychology because she realizes what her mother did to her. Maybe, she will use the hell she was put through to write a book or thesis on how evil parents with cluster B personality disorder can be. I think that if my wife ever went nuts and alienated me from my son and the Courts were against me, then I would send him letters by certified mail. I would make copies of them and put them in a folder. I would record every conversation I had with her about custody. I w…
/r/MensRights12/10/17 03:01 PM
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Okay. What I said in my post was wrong. I realize that any forced act can be debilitating no matter how much the person previously did it. Plus, this guy was bleeding from his rectum, so it had to hurt pretty bad, thereby adding to his anxiety.
/r/MensRights12/10/17 02:43 PM
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See above response to bufedad. I'm not saying it's their fault. I'm saying that some people's lifestyle would not support the assertion that they were traumatized. Maybe I'm burnt out from all the victim "impact" statements and sentencing testimony I have read or seen. The military gets these women up on the stand who talk about how traumatized they are and I just want to call bs in my cross examination, but panel's might hold it against me if I do. For instance, I had one alleged vic who testif…
/r/MensRights11/10/17 04:58 PM
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I agree. She certainly should be jailed for her crime. However, I was addressing the point being made by Nekrosis in how debilitating her crime was. I was thinking about a woman who goes out, gets drunk, and screws a different guy every night. One night, she passes out and the bartender takes her back to his place and has sex with her while she is unconscious. She calls the cops when he tells her they had sex. He admits she was unconscious and could not give consent. He gets convicted and on sen…
/r/MensRights11/10/17 04:50 PM
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I've always thought that feminists who discourage the communication of practical ways to prevent rape did so because a lack of rape would hurt their cause.
/r/MensRights11/10/17 04:34 PM
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What if this "house" party was a swinging sex orgy where everyone was naked. Perhaps, she and all the party goers were nude and she was really offended that he wouldn't have sex with her. If those were the facts and his lifestyle, then I would really question how debilitating her crime was. But, there is a good lesson in this story. Notice all of the selfies in this article that looks like they were taken from her social media page. Men, that is a good indication that the woman is psycho. Stay a…
/r/MensRights11/10/17 02:10 PM
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Excellent answer, NebulousASK. A false sexual assault allegation typically is not made with malice aforethought prior to the consensual sexual contact, although I have seen a couple of cases where it really appeared that a woman was seducing a guy with the intent of making a false allegation later. But, in the context of where the allegation is made with the sole purpose of ruining someone, as opposed to the "better he be convicted than it be found that I engaged in consensual sex," planting dru…
/r/MensRights10/10/17 07:56 PM
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You are also making a point that these women would never approach or be interested in these unattractive men. Perhaps, it is because her looks surpasses his looks, i.e. she appears to be out of his league. As a criminal defense attorney who specializes in the defense of Servicemen and civilian men against false sexual assault allegations, I have noticed a trend in my false allegation cases. Most of the women are quite attractive and they are all crazy. For a better explanation, watch this video:…
/r/MensRights10/10/17 03:41 PM
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Two things: In the 7th grade, I heard my mom tell her boyfriend that she wishes she "never had [me], but how can you get rid of your kid." That will mess with you a little bit. I told a lib female at my gym with whom I thought I got along with pretty well that my wife was pregnant, and when I answered her question that it was a boy, she looked disappointed and said, "Awe, too bad. There's too many penises in the world." Hopefully, this little boy will never find out his mother's true feelings. I…
/r/MensRights05/10/17 08:06 PM
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Why do they think it's okay to post the picture of her cuck husband?
/r/MensRights05/10/17 07:44 PM
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I'm with you. I think ultimately the daughter has a right to defend herself, as would any child being groped. But, as the adult in the room, Scary Mommy could have gone to the principal and/or the boys parents. I think the advice she gave to her daughter could have caused her daughter more harm.
/r/MensRights05/10/17 07:21 PM
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Mine wasn't deleted.
/r/MensRights05/10/17 07:15 PM
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If you go on right now it is posted on page 6, October 5, 2017 under Kyle. Also, there is one story from a male Brian about a female telling him he needed to wax his back.
/r/MensRights05/10/17 07:15 PM
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Absolutely. She is so angered by her 6 yo daughter being sexually assaulted by two boys who are ganging up on her, that she tells her daughter to defend herself. While there is some accountability in that statement, it is missing the component of logic. Scary Mommy, why don't you go down to the school and ask the teacher WTF she didn't do something about it? Or, how about call the boys parents who you infer are teaching their sons to behave like this?
/r/MensRights04/10/17 09:25 PM
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So, if girls are grabbing her 6 yo son's junk on the playground, then I suppose she would be justified in telling him to kick them in the twat?
/r/MensRights04/10/17 09:20 PM
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I submitted a story about when I was a Senior in high school a girl slapped the crap out of me and my English teacher asked, "Kyle, what did you say to Lynn to make her slap you?" My next post will be, "I submitted a story to everydaysexism.com, but I'm a man and the sexist was my female English teacher, so it was not posted."
/r/MensRights04/10/17 08:54 PM
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A little outside the box thinking here. We can identify men as the main category of abuser because: (1) men don't report women who abuse; (2) the physical superiority and strength of men means generally means that marks will be left on a woman, whereas the abuse inflicted by women do not generally leave the same marks or people assume the man was injured on the job or playing sports. For instance, a man could be kicked, pinched, punched, or squeezed many times over a long period of time, then on…
/r/MensRights04/10/17 03:43 PM
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Usually I let it slide, reminding myself that I’m lucky to have a partner who willingly complies to any task I decide to assign to him. I know compared to many women, including female family members and friends, I have it so easy. My husband does a lot. He does dishes every night habitually. He often makes dinner. He will handle bedtime for the kids when I am working. If I ask him to take on extra chores, he will, without complaint. It feels greedy, at times, to want more from him. Sounds like t…
/r/MensRights28/09/17 09:18 PM
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Seems like you could call 911 and have her arrested for all of her weed and illegal unprescribed drugs.
/r/MensRights27/09/17 04:32 PM
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I don't know about the sexual ability of a 10 year old 5th grader. But, I can remember my first time with Rosey Palm in the 8th grade, and I don't think anything shot out. So, at 10 years old, how much cum can really come out of your penis and onto her face? Sounds like an easily provable false allegation.
/r/MensRights27/09/17 02:00 PM
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Brilliant! Pure Brilliance!!!!! Very well done.
/r/MensRights27/09/17 01:53 PM
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Get a new girlfriend.
/r/MensRights27/09/17 01:52 PM
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That's the thing with what defines rape nowadays. Rape can completely lack trauma based on how broadly it is defined that rape victims can actually have the attitude of "chill out, I was only raped." Although the action that she described sounds pretty brutal. He deceives her by saying he is going to get her a cab, but then pushes her into an alley and rapes her. Doesn't sound like anything to be too flippant about, which strongly suggests she is doing this for attention. She seems giddy that he…
/r/MensRights27/09/17 01:47 PM
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I was a server at a Country Club I'll refer to as "John's Island" in Vero Beach, Florida. I had two women [female members] walk past me lamenting whether Andre Agassi was going to comply with the rules of Wimbledon, and they were audibly upset at the thought of him wearing a white do-rag. I remember thinking to myself as I put fluid in the table candles, "I hope that my life is so carefree one day that I actually get upset over such a trivial matter as if it were the worst thing that could happe…
/r/MensRights26/09/17 05:33 PM
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Why don't they find 9 college men, or how about 9 mothers of college aged men since this is Glamour who speak for the rolling back of the Dear Colleague letter? Or are mother's of young men not Glamorous?
/r/MensRights25/09/17 08:07 PM
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Anybody else think all these new nomenclatures for human beings, like "cisgender," "heteronormative," and "non-Black Asian Americans with socio-economic privilege," indicate that the people who use them are suffering from an identity crisis? It's like the Borderlines have taken over and now we have to adopt their issues and placate them with their insanity. Who comes up with this crap???
/r/MensRights25/09/17 03:42 PM
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What I don't see in this article is any reference about this child's father. Where is he? What is he doing? Maybe the kids all f*&'d up because he's being raised by a single mother. Or maybe he's just a normal boy who is over-medicated and is a little f(&*'d up because his father is not in the home.
/r/MensRights21/09/17 03:49 PM
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This article has flipped the argument to focus on how the burden of proof of a preponderance of evidence is okay for due process. This is not the main problem!!!!!!! The problem is when colleges don't allow the accused to have evidence, or decides that in spite of the alleged victim saying she wasn't victimized, kicks the accused out of school anyways, or where the accused is not permitted to have an attorney, or where the accused is not permitted to even attend a hearing, or where the accused i…
/r/MensRights21/09/17 02:39 PM
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According to Ms. Jackson’s incorrect logic, almost any college man facing disciplinary proceedings would be falsely accused. And yet there is plenty of evidence that false accusations of rape are rare. (link to Lisak article omitted) Funny how the two studies actual of false allegations undertaken for demographics that mimic a college campus that place the false allegation rate above 20% based on recantations are always discounted, i.e. Kanin from small midwestern college town and McDowell's Air…
/r/MensRights21/09/17 02:18 PM
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They clearly need to train these female teachers not to rape little boys.
/r/MensRights21/09/17 01:49 PM
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Anybody know if female prisoners will treat these two with the same disdain that male prisoners treat inmates who have been convicted of child molestation?
/r/MensRights21/09/17 01:35 PM
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That is bollocks. Riiiiiigggghhht. It's perfectly normal for a man and woman to go out drinking, go back to her flat, and cuddle in her bed without there being any sexual tension between the two. I tell you, communication and signals would be a lot clearer if every woman treated every man as if the man wanted to sleep with them.
/r/MensRights20/09/17 09:20 PM
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Obviously, "don't rape" training for men didn't work for this guy (sarcasm font). So, perhaps we should go into some training on how not to get raped. Don't drink. Don't invite a man who you don't want to have sex with into your room to watch "Lady and the Tramp" whilst in bed. Whilst viewing "Lady and the Tramp" in bed after drinking, don't cuddle with a man who you do not want to have sex with because he might think it's okay to have sex with you if you somehow find yourself on top of him. Sou…
/r/MensRights20/09/17 04:52 PM
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She looks crazy. Poses naked for Playboy. Short relationship. She won't leave his house. She gets an ex parte violence protective order that terminates automatically. Sounds like a BPD who doesn't like to be ignored. She tells press that he left a party because she was ignoring him when it sounds like she was miffed because he was ignoring her. So was her female witness Amber Heard?
/r/MensRights19/09/17 05:45 PM
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What kind of idiot is he? Why not hire a driver? And what kind of selfish twit is she? Drive the kid to preschool. It's your freaking job when you are "staying at home."
/r/MensRights19/09/17 02:24 PM
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The caption in the textbook picture stated that he "raped" an unconscious "female student." First, he wasn't convicted of rape. The rape charge was dismissed. And the "female student" had actually graduated from college and was 22 years old, so it was a grown ass woman and not some 18 year old college freshman. I wonder if those who are surprised he got any time at all would still be surprised if they knew that the actual victim in this case told his probation officer that she did not believe he…
/r/MensRights12/09/17 04:23 PM
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If you live in a one-party consent state such as Georgia or Alabama, then it would be legal. If you live in a two-party consent state, such as Florida, then you would have to have their consent to record a conversation between you and them. But, that is a great idea, and it is one that I highly recommend if you live in a one-party consent state. If you are in the military, video recording a sex act surreptitiously is a violation of Article 120c, UCMJ.
/r/MensRights07/09/17 07:50 PM
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My answer would have been: Dear Big Mistake, You do understand that the "Big Mistake" was the failure to use a condom..........on the night YOU were conceived!!!!! Had your father just engaged in safe sex, then this train wreck of a life you have created would not have occurred. Just like he is a piece of shit, you are a piece of shit. You should ask your baby daddy to accompany you on a car ride on the coast, so you can drive off a cliff ridding this world of your existences. ps, I hope your lo…
/r/MensRights07/09/17 02:29 PM
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I want to apologize if it sounded like I was doubting you, but sometimes men can be hysterical and embellish the abuse they suffer. The rage she displays in those e-mails hit you like the smell of 3 day old rotting fish. I believe you. There is a difference between a conciliator and a judge. I would hope that a judge would read those e-mails and agree that family wizard is appropriate in this high conflict co-parenting situation. And, if the conciliator's recommendation is that you two speak on …
/r/MensRights07/09/17 02:15 PM
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I met with her, and she completely acted like her story was true. She talked about how what I did violated her, how she doesnt feel safe around me, etc. Oh, she's a smart one. She probably thought you were recording her, or maybe she is Borderline and actually believes her lies. I think an interesting spin-off from Dexter would be a serial killer who had a code regarding women who lie about rape.
/r/MensRights07/09/17 02:06 PM
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Wow! So, basically your ex doesn't understand that when you divorce, you don't get to continue bossing your ex-spouse around and berating him when he doesn't do chores for you. That conciliator is a man-hater. Family Wizard is an easy solution and really solves the berating you receive on the phone. Because logic dictates that if she is that bitchy in writing, then she is insane when she is screaming at you. I would get a recorder, and record everything that she says. And, she is just pissed tha…
/r/MensRights07/09/17 01:38 PM
1

Any help or resource available, you ask? you are waiting on your lawyer right now. Listen to him or her. But, just reading between the lines on your post, it sounds like you want your son and your ex-wife to communicate by e-mail and not by telephone because she sends you abusive and profane messages. If the order says telephonic communications, then your son needs to use the telephone. You cannot set a strict email only protocol of communications if it violates the court order. And, this "legal…
/r/MensRights06/09/17 09:13 PM
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The solution is a paradigm shift where men guard their virginity in a throwback to the Victorian era. They are the ones who can suyffer adverse consequences such as 18 years worth of child support, an STD, or a false allegation of rape. Why make any effort at all? Just let women seduce men, let them be on top, and let men pick and choose with whom they want to have sexual intercourse. And, men should wait until they are married before intercourse. Pretty simple, really.
/r/MensRights06/09/17 06:39 PM
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Before you confront your Mom, then you should probably ask him for a list of presents he sent to you without you telling him what you got for Christmas. Also, if he "fought for [you all] every chance he could," then there are going to be Court records or some indicia supporting that he fought for you. When you get those records, then ask your mom about them. Did he ever file anything in Court? Did he ever send gifts during Christmas? If she denies it, then hit her with the docs. Hit her with any…
/r/MensRights05/09/17 07:53 PM
2

It's weird because there are plenty of black men who are and have been accused of rape. But, Jordan didn't mention that as a risk group because I have a hunch that she might think it to be too un-PC to advise a black man that he could be accused of rape as to fit into a stereotype. As if black men don't go out drinking and hooking up. I think being male is a significant risk factor. But, I really don't think race has anything to do with a risk factor.
/r/MensRights05/09/17 05:42 PM
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Of course, she did not deserve what happened. My point is whether she deserves sympathy for what happened. So, if the safari goer gets eaten by a lion, then I'm going to think that she deserved it for bathing in ox blood.
/r/MensRights05/09/17 05:36 PM
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Dodo Bird Jordan, I left my comments on the youtube comment section. You need to speed things up a bit on the video, I found myself wondering why so much time elapsed between slides. Were you giving the intended audience time for bathroom breaks? Also, I agree with pinuspalustris. You are teaching men how not to rape, which ultimately should lead to less rape accusations, in theory. There are some good tips in here, but they are so dry that nobody will remember them. You need to add some humor a…
/r/MensRights05/09/17 05:15 PM
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It amazes me how some dipstick male might respond to that ad. When a woman posts on social media that she is a psychopath, then she is a psychopath. I have a lot of female friends from high school and the ones who say they are psychopaths were crazy in high school. Now typically, these psychos have a good heart and understand their psychosis. The really dangerous ones don't provide a full disclosure. You have to investigate them a bit more thoroughly.
/r/MensRights05/09/17 04:33 PM
1

He wasn't convicted of rape. You are likely confused because of the hysterical narrative that overwhelmed the news cycle for at least a week branding him a "rapist." The lenient sentence might be a product of the victim herself who stated to the probation officer compiling a sentencing report that turner didn't need to be behind bars. What's funny is how the media and feminists lost their ever-loving minds and called for the judge's head, instead of calling for the female probation officer's hea…
/r/MensRights05/09/17 04:26 PM
1

But, it can be mitigation for sentencing.
/r/MensRights05/09/17 04:17 PM
2

Lenient sentence that was more than what the alleged vic was asking for. She said that he did not need to be behind bars.
/r/MensRights05/09/17 04:16 PM
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No, you left out the probation officer's report requesting a county jail sentence with credits based on the alleged vic's statement that she did not want his life ruined and that " he doesn't need to be behind bars." Instead, the media made you think that the prosecutor and the alleged vic wanted Turner to go to jail for a number of years, but the woman-hating judge overruled them. https://www.documentcloud.org/documents/2858997-Probation-officer-s-report-in-Brock-Turner-case.html +
/r/MensRights05/09/17 04:13 PM
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He broke off the engagement, so even under the 1926 law she would be able to keep the ring. Sounds pretty reasonable.
/r/MensRights01/09/17 02:24 PM
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This Article shows the propensity of a female prosecutor to believe the woman and jail the man for doing the same thing that the woman did. Wife took daughter from school in Mississippi and brought her to Valdosta. Husband goes to Valdosta and attempts to check daughter out of school to bring her back because a custody hearing was scheduled the next month. They charged this AF pilot with simple assault against three people when he picked his daughter from school, but the cops "lost" the video sh…
/r/MensRights01/09/17 02:19 PM
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The author of this article hones in on simple one point. That everyone's skepticism is based on this one person's false allegation, and she is only one person. That's wrong because there are plenty of examples of false allegations. It's not like this one woman made a false allegation and she is the only one, so we don't need to be skeptical. False allegations happen all the freaking time for many different reasons. I think the main thrust of this story should be that this woman made how many fal…
/r/MensRights01/09/17 01:34 PM
1

Metaphorically, I have found that women like to have nails in their head. They like to have something to complain about because it makes them feel better in that the "nail in their head" isn't their fault. They allow themselves to be victims to explain away their failures in life. Drunk sex! Perfect example: Oh, Billy doesn't want to continue dating me after our one-night stand, mutually alcohol fueled, hook up. Drunk Billy regrets sleeping with me because I suck and took advantage of his drunke…
/r/MensRights25/08/17 04:50 PM
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Those eyebrows on Thompson are going to keep me up at night....
/r/MensRights21/08/17 05:07 PM
2

My two takeaways from this article: 1. It would have been a far more opportune time to share with him the inappropriateness of mothers and sons touching each other's genitalia with or without consent, as well how she was prohibited from touching his penis by law even with consent because she is too old and he is too young. 2. CPS should visit the home to find out exactly what "wrong-way whale" is because if it is what it sounds like, then I'd be thrashing around a lot in the tub, too.
/r/MensRights21/08/17 05:02 PM
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I'm with you. What 3 year old kid uses the term "vulva" or feels comfortable enough to talk to his mother about touching her vulva? Then again, maybe it's the one who baths with his mother nekked in the bathtub. She needs to start saving for his future therapy if this is actually real.
/r/MensRights21/08/17 04:56 PM
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They don't mature faster. They are weak. They need to be protected. A fifteen year old girl is no different than a person who is retarded or drunk to the point of unconsciousness. And, I'm being ironical. I think feminists would take offense at this kind of defense for older women molesting younger men.
/r/MensRights16/08/17 05:44 PM
-2

I think this kind of bias shows that 15 year old boys are far more mature and intelligent than their female counterparts. They are able to not be mentally stigmatized by having a sexual relationship with an older female because they are far more mentally tough. 15 year old girls, on the other hand, are mentally fragile beings who are too easily influenced and must be protected at all cost because they, like all woman, are truly the weaker sex. This is why all this gender equality nonsense is non…
/r/MensRights16/08/17 03:56 PM
1

It depends on the Judge. Things in my jurisdiction has changed rather remarkably over the past 20 years. I've heard we had a judge who was famous for saying after giving the mother primary custody, "The baby ducks don't follow the daddy duck. They follow the momma duck." Nowadays, the presumption is 50/50 unless there are exceptional circumstances.
/r/MensRights16/08/17 03:52 PM
3

I'm not sure about this case. In that photo, it does not appear that his hand is anywhere near her rib cage. He destroyed some evidence and got sanctioned by the Court. And, his boss said that he had changed his story a few times. I would need some specifics. And, if somebody else grabbed her ass, then why not get that guy to admit it or name the other dude? And, what is her motive to complain about the guy? Every false rape allegation case I've had was assisted by me explaining the motive to fa…
/r/MensRights11/08/17 03:39 PM
1

Thanks haikubot!!!!!
/r/MensRights11/08/17 03:26 PM
1

And, why do we mark out people's names if we are posting what they wrote?
/r/MensRights11/08/17 03:20 PM
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A woman saying she was assaulted is NOT usually met with skepticism. The only way people exhibit skepticism is when the facts begin to come out showing that the person very well is innocent, at which point feminists scream "victim blamer!"
/r/MensRights11/08/17 03:19 PM
3

This is a civil case, so nobody will be convicted. One of them possibly will most likely be held liable, unless they find that it is 50/50 he said/she said and nobody has the preponderance. I completely agree with you regarding having females on the jury. I represent Soldiers at Court-martial and my worst panels are all male. They get brainwashed with all that "Start by believing the victim" bullcrap, and go into the trial ready to convict. Having a woman who will quickly call bs is actually goo…
/r/MensRights09/08/17 07:48 PM
1

Also, your daughter is married to your son-in-law who you really like. He's a good kid who treats your daughter and your granddaughter really well, and you have a good relationship with him to the point that he is like the son you never had. One day he comes to you and shows you e-mails showing you that your daughter has been cheating on him with her boss who is a friend of yours and owner of the business where you got her the job. Who do you blame and what do you do? I would confront my daughte…
/r/MensRights08/08/17 04:26 PM
1

If I had a daughter, then I'd probably tell her not to be such a drunk whore because (1) you will do stuff that you regret, and (2) you'll be too drunk to prevent people from doing stuff that you regret. But, I do recognize that there are men who would engage in the cognitive dissonance of blaming the boy for having sex with their daughters to deflect the fact that they raised a whore, and would actually go so far as to kill or use their financial power to ruin the boy's life. But, I have a son.…
/r/MensRights08/08/17 04:17 PM
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No, it was not rape. However, in some jurisdictions, a jury could use the Judge's instructions to convict someone of rape under these circumstances. There are some things you can do with a drunk female to decrease your odds of being accused of rape. First, allow her to be on top. Let her do all the work. If she can't perform without you holding her up, then don't have sex with her. Second, record the sex with a voice recorder if you live in a one party consent state. If you don't want to because…
/r/MensRights08/08/17 04:07 PM
1

How old is your son? What does your son say? If your son says he doesn't want a relationship that is not based on your influence, then have him speak to the Judge. I've always had my best results when the child told the judge who they wanted to live with or wanted to happen. Depending on your jurisdiction, this could happen in the privacy of the judge's chambers. Sometimes, a kid will want to have a relationship for reasons that are bad for him. So, say Aunt's boyfriend lets him smoke weed, whic…
/r/MensRights08/08/17 03:55 PM
1

Yeah, he really wasn't that bright. My favorite birth control that 100% prevents pregnancy is RU-469.
/r/MensRights08/08/17 02:14 PM
3

Awesome point. Always follow the money with these cowards. And, really nice of Dad to teach his daughter logic and accountability. She said at the time, she consented, but after she sobered up, she complains that she did not have the capacity to consent. Dad's probably too afraid of being a victim blamer to tell her to stop drinking if she does things when she is drunk that she wouldn't do sober. But, it's people like her that creates rapists in this world.
/r/MensRights08/08/17 02:10 PM
1

Great point!
/r/MensRights08/08/17 01:51 PM
2

The world is a-changin'. I was riding in a car with a guy who showed me a picture of this girl he was dating back home. I said, "She's pretty hot, bro." He said, "Yeah, she's wicked smart. Going to the [an Ivy league school]." I said, "How can she afford it?" He said, "Her family has money. I need to knock her up quick." I laughed like he was joking. But, he wasn't joking.
/r/MensRights08/08/17 01:50 PM
2

This is De'Andre Johnson who was FSU's top prospect for the QB position. He pleaded guilty to misdemeanor battery and was represented by Jose Baez, of Casey Anthony fame. I would have liked to have seen what the DA would have done had Jameis Winston not tainted the perception of FSU. It certainly looked like self defense to me. But, a Tallahassee jury probably would have wanted to get him after seeing him on video, nothwithstanding the fact that she hit him.
/r/MensRights07/08/17 08:32 PM
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This is pretty old, but useful in showing the importance of men recording abuse by their female significant other or ex. I had a client who was falsely accused by his wife of raping her after he filed for divorce. The day after she was served, she went to the Army and filed an unrestricted report that he raped her before they were married and while they were married. They had a 1 year old daughter together. She was seeking sole custody. When he initially retained me, I told him that when he got …
/r/MensRights07/08/17 03:52 PM
2

The DA recognizes that drunk sex is not rape, but I wonder if USC will.
/r/MensRights07/08/17 10:04 AM
2

That's part of the larger problem here: a lack of accountability for females and the double standards when a young male vs a young female engages in sexual contact with a legal adult. There are ways to hold both males and females accountable without convicting them of child sex crimes that they should not be convicted of. Fired and never be permitted to teach again making their degree virtually worthless? Pretty good accountability there. I don't think the way to deal with the unequal results in…
/r/MensRights04/08/17 03:22 PM
1

The authors focus on the burden of proof is a red herring. Due process takes many forms other than merely the burden of proof. In some of the cases that have made the news, Judges have cited the colleges' failure to follow their own rules for due process, failure to allow the complaining witness to be cross examined, failure to provide evidence to the accused, failure to allow the accused to call witness on his behalf, or failure to have legal counsel present. https://www.insidehighered.com/news…
/r/MensRights04/08/17 03:11 PM
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The author of this article makes a fatal flaw by leaving out a third option of the right/evil dichotomy, and that is the responsibility born from the right, aka the necessary evil. Essentially, the authors article can be broken down like this: Example 3. Only citizens have the right to vote. I want to vote even though I'm not a citizen, yet I don't want to be a citizen because I will be responsible for paying taxes. Therefore, nobody should pay taxes.
/r/MensRights04/08/17 02:54 PM
7

Feminists: We can serve in combat. Make combat roles open for all women! We are just as good as men! Equality: If women can serve in combat because they are just as good as men, then they should be required to register with the Selective Service in case there is ever a draft. Feminists: But, we don't want to force all women to possibly serve in combat. We just want women to have the same opportunities as men, but opt out as we see fit. So, in order to stay consistent, we should end selective ser…
/r/MensRights04/08/17 02:45 PM
2

I don't think this kid is a victim, just like I don't think a girl who orchestrates the seduction of her male teacher is a victim. In the US, many states' age of consent is 16 years old. They probably do that, so that an 18 year old Senior doesn't go to jail for having sex with 16 year old sophomore. But, that really doesn't address the problems with teachers using their position to have sex with their students. I am not sure that this should be a crime. Should it be a firing offense that prohib…
/r/MensRights04/08/17 01:59 PM
1

Bro, Don't waste your time responding to this idiot. "bufedad" is a troll, or one really, really ignorant man.....or woman. I've reviewed his/her posts and they are filled with gaslighting, goal post moving when being called out on a point so s/he is never wrong, and statements that are clearly contradicted by the evidence s/he cites.
/r/MensRights04/08/17 01:41 PM
1

Listen, you stupid motherfucker! I read your stupid article. Not only does the neurologist cited in it fail to state "a blackout can occur with one drink," but the article goes on to state that fragmentary blackouts begin at .14 BAC. Apparently, the English language is not your strongest quality. Learn how to read, or cite a different article that states that a blackout can occur with only one drink. Because the article you cited quoting the neurologist supports what I have been saying based on …
/r/MensRights04/08/17 01:31 PM
1

Neurologist > toxicologist. You do realize that right? Well, for purposes of my point which started this argument where you accused me of being ignorant or a liar, who is higher in credibility is quite irrelevant. What is relevant is the article to which you cited says that fragmentary blackouts begin around .14 BAC. This is greater than one drink. Nowhere does your bloody neurologist state that a blackout can occur with one drink. That's the point I am stating. It is supported by my toxicologis…
/r/MensRights04/08/17 01:21 PM
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Listen. The article from the link you provided states that blackouts start at .14 BAC. It takes more than one drink to get to a .14, unless of course you are talking about a 30 pound toddler. Please show me where in the article you linked Dr. Raza says one drink can cause a blackout. You can't. Because it doesn't say that. Is there some other neurologist that says one drink causes a blackout? Because the one you provided doesn't say that.
/r/MensRights03/08/17 09:00 PM
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Bufedad, I'm not a liar, nor am I wrong. I spoke to Jon Jemiomek, a toxicology expert, at a Court-martial. You can't black out from one drink. Typically, a 90 pound woman would have to drink 3 drinks to register a .15, and a 100 pound woman would have to drink 3 drinks to register a .14, which is the BAC where fragmentary blackouts typically begin. And, I read your article and nowhere in it does it state that you can black out from one drink.
/r/MensRights03/08/17 07:04 PM
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He was given a choice to not have sex. The pros of having sex was that his bros would also be able to have sex. The cons of not have sex would be that his bros would not be able to have sex. So, he took one for the team and consented by saying "Fuck it, okay."
/r/MensRights03/08/17 05:01 PM
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Yes, you would argue from ignorance. Bro, I've prosecuted and defended sexual assault cases involving alcohol and incapacitation. I would say that I am far from being ignorant. The experts with whom I have spoken would strenuously disagree that an adult woman or man can black out from having one unadulterated 2 oz shot of liquor, 12 oz beer, or 5 oz glass of wine. Is it possible? Maybe, but highly, highly unlikely, which means that it would rarely, if ever, occur. So, if someone is in a blackout…
/r/MensRights02/08/17 04:53 PM
1

Black outs and being incapacitated are not related in any way whatsoever. Really? I would argue that in practice they are. It's because females get blacked out drunk and they can't remember all the stuff they did to make the male believe that he had their consent. So, the next morning, they wake up putting the pieces back together through fragmented memory or they simply ask the male, "Hey? did we have sex." When they have a fragmented memory of sex or the male tells them they had sex, then they…
/r/MensRights02/08/17 03:28 PM
1

It sounds like his distress is more from the fact that if the genders were reversed, then the man would be arrested. And, this is true. The man would probably be arrested. But, I would disagree in the arrest of a man where the women got drunk and had regret sex. And, I would say that any distress she "feels" was self-imposed and she could probably avoid it in the future by not drinking to the point of blacking out and committing acts she would later regret. I recognize that he is distressed, but…
/r/MensRights02/08/17 03:21 PM
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He does recall deciding that it would be a good idea to start making out with this girl. So, he made a decision to engage in a sexual act, and she obliged. Then, he recalls having sex with her before she left. I don't see where he was incapacitated, seeing how he could recall these things happening. He doesn't even sound like he was black out drunk.
/r/MensRights01/08/17 03:55 PM
1

Exactly what this guy [funcuz] said up here ^ | |
/r/MensRights01/08/17 03:21 PM
3

Short answer: Neither the drunk woman or the drunk man were raped in that scenario. The fact that a woman would be given victimhood status should not justify you having victimhood status. But, then again, giving you victimhood status in the name of equality might help to show how absurd it is for women to be considered victims in the above described scenario. Because basically you broke up with a girl, then got drunk and had sex with another girl that you started making out with. Happens all the…
/r/MensRights01/08/17 03:17 PM
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These are very good points. But, I don't think it is a choose one and only one scenario. I think that in today's society there is a healthy need to teach men how not "to rape" by teaching them how to avoid false rape allegations. And, women need to be taught how to avoid placing themselves into situations to be raped. I used to teach a class on the UCMJ for all incoming basic trainees at Ft. Benning. Trust me. There are some young men who need to be told that if they have sex with an unconscious…
/r/MensRights31/07/17 02:32 PM
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"Teach women to say 'no'" campaigns cut the incidence of rape by a whole 50%. Why wouldn't universities implement that immediately? Feminists would shriek that it is "victim blaming." The reason they would shriek it is victim blaming is because feminists who make money off of being feminists want as many rapes to occur. Once the problem goes away or is manageable, then the classes they teach, the articles they write, the trials where they testify, and the laws that they lobby to pass become far …
/r/MensRights31/07/17 02:09 PM
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Bro, When you are paying the rent and your girlfriend who moved in a couple of months ago starts sending sexy messages to her ex, it is time to cut sling load and throw her out of your apartment. Don't go halfsies on the cat. Nicely tell her to grab her stuff and her cat and get the f*#$ out. Generally, the only thing guano crazier than a woman with a cat is a man with a cat. Dog people are a little more sane. There are exceptions to the rule. But, this is not the case for your woman. Plus, she …
/r/MensRights27/07/17 08:22 PM
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I agree with this analogy. If man is going to rape a woman, then telling him not to is not going to help. A more effective way of deterring rape is to train women how to fight, shoot, and avoid being raped. Unfortunately, when you do that, then you are a "victim blamer." It makes me think that these feminists actually want women to be raped, so they have victims they can indoctrinate with their hate. If women took steps to avoid rapists like the way homeowners lock their doors to prevent theft, …
/r/MensRights26/07/17 05:08 PM
1

Morally bankrupt because I believe that mothers should exercise discretion by not getting pregnant if they can't afford to raise the child? I also believe that men should not go around knocking up women if they can't afford to pay child support, as well, if that helps. I am a product of a single mother who did not obtain financial assistance to raise me. I never received free lunch at school, nor am I aware that my mom received food stamps or welfare, although I do believe that she probably coul…
/r/MensRights26/07/17 04:51 PM
2

Is this in Georgia near the Ft. Benning area?
/r/MensRights25/07/17 08:23 PM
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Get an attorney ASAP, if you can afford one.
/r/MensRights25/07/17 08:19 PM
1

If we place the blame on the person who is responsible, i.e. the mother, then she will be encouraged to find the biological father, rather than making the not the father pay for a child who is not his. I've always thought that if you have a vagina and you need a village to raise your child, then you should keep your legs shut.
/r/MensRights25/07/17 05:11 PM
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Both of you are stupid for hooking up with people who beat on you. Have some dignity and stop having sex with crazy, dumbasses!! There. That is a strong and consistent position without regard to gender.
/r/MensRights25/07/17 03:35 PM
1

I agree with your description, except I would change the word "father" with "man who is not the father." The possible harm to the man who is not the father is a lesser evil than the societal harm to the child, thus the man who is not the father already having a lower parental status than the mother, which he should because he is not the father, gets the short end of the stick. Really, somewhere and at some point, favoring whorish women and their illegitimate children over innocent men got really…
/r/MensRights25/07/17 03:21 PM
3

Pass a law that states that a man is not required to financially support a child who has been determined by DNA not to be his. Texas law needs to change. Can anyone explain why a man should be required to pay child support to a woman for a child that she had through adultery if he was not aware of it?
/r/MensRights24/07/17 06:33 PM
2

Bro, That was brilliant. If I ever meet a "woe is me" broad who can't find any good men after she has divorced her husband because all the men are going after younger women, then I will use the blackjack casino and banana analogy.
/r/MensRights24/07/17 05:48 PM
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This is kind of a problem and it probably happens more than we realize. It should be a very simple rule. If a man is not the biological child of the mother and has not adopted the child, then that man should not have to pay child support to the woman. For those who shriek, "What about the child?" tell them to go after the mother. Why can't the mother raise the child who lied to the man about being the child's father? Where is her accountability in this problem? This will place the burden on the …
/r/MensRights24/07/17 04:58 PM
1

I've called it the "You can't win game" and have dated many game show hosts. However, it only took one round before I realized that I should probably start looking for signs of cray cray, which ultimately ended said relationships. A person who places another in a situation in which there are no right answers and no chance of success is a sign of a serious psychopath.
/r/MensRights24/07/17 02:43 PM
1

Women are seen as weaker because, on average, they are physically weaker. If anyone questions this fact, then explain why women have lower min/max standards on physical fitness tests in every Armed Service?
/r/MensRights24/07/17 02:38 PM
2

Because men don't complain about it like women do. Also, it is the psychology of men who are typically thick skinned. When a man sees a male actor playing a bumbling idiot, the male viewer (who typically has a sense of humor) laughs at the male actor's idiotic ventures and understands that it is supposed to be entertainment. Also, men probably think, "I'm glad I haven't done anything stupid like that retard!" Women, on the other hand when viewing an actress acting like an idiot, internalize the …
/r/MensRights21/07/17 05:04 PM
6

Seems like this would be a just cause for MRA's. Every state should pass a law that says if a child is proven by a DNA test not to be his child and was not adopted by him, then a man is relieved from paying child support for the child to whom he is the purported father. Any sums paid by the man to the child's mother shall be refunded to the man who shall also be entitled to any and all attorney's fees. Sounds pretty easy and logical. Who could make a good argument that a Man should support a chi…
/r/MensRights21/07/17 03:24 PM
1

In the particular woman revoking consent, it is possible because she lacks reason and accountability. Under the law, this should be an impossibility in jurisdictions that provide that a conviction should be had where the proof of guilt is beyond a reasonable doubt AND where the woman actually tells the truth. However, these cases usually find themselves in a courtroom because the woman privately revokes her consent in her mind, then lies about it and says that she never consented in the first pl…
/r/MensRights20/07/17 06:44 PM
1

I know what condescending means, thank you /u/Kyle_Fischer. I wasn't referring to you, ee4m. Of course you know what condescending means, seeing how you know more than me. I was defining it for all the brainless idiots who collectively know less than I do. Bygones.
/r/MensRights20/07/17 06:16 PM
2

That was really the big thing with me. It's arguable that what he did was morally wrong. But, since she was not a student, his grading of the letter did not affect UCF in the least bit.
/r/MensRights20/07/17 06:08 PM
1

The disparity in sentencing between female teachers and male teachers recognizes that generally females are intellectually inferior to males their own age. Either, women who have sex with students don't know what they are doing similar to their male counterparts who commit the same acts, or the female students who have sex with their male teachers lack the competence as their male counterparts who always know what they are doing when they have sex with their female teachers. Therefore, female te…
/r/MensRights20/07/17 05:39 PM
1

"You do know you should be mindful of talking down to people, you never know whether of not that person knows more than you." Indeed, your point is well taken. They are also doing this in the US military. And, I think a better descriptor of their agenda would be "long term" vice "real." Had you used that term, then I would not have been so condescending, ee4m. ("Condescending" means "talking down to people," which I prefer to use because its only one word.)
/r/MensRights20/07/17 05:00 PM
7

Anyone else see the irony in the state's chief law enforcement officer asking the Federal Government to maintain limits to due process provided to College students facing a disciplinary board? My simple response would be: If these boys are really rapists, then why aren't they being arrested and thrown in jail where they can await their trial? Why, as your State's chief law enforcement officer, are you relying on a College's administrative board to punish with expulsion a male student who is accu…
/r/MensRights20/07/17 04:51 PM
1

You do know that students don't go to jail when they lose their disciplinary board at College, right?
/r/MensRights20/07/17 03:04 PM
1

Bro, That's why I limited my statement to the situation of a drunken hookup and stated that it was "particularly true" in that situation. I wasn't saying that it was canon to be adapted to every situation involving a sexual assault.
/r/MensRights19/07/17 08:21 PM
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This is true particularly when it is a drunken hook up where both parties are not saying "No" or "stop" and there is a technical lack of consent (if you believe that a drunk, yet awake, person is unable to consent) due to intoxication. Very much like the Brock Turner case. He wasn't going to kill her. She was making out with him prior to leaving with him. In fact, any man who has been convicted and sentenced to prison for a sexual assault based on a drunken hookup is more of a survivor than the …
/r/MensRights19/07/17 02:05 PM
4

She sees her biological daughter as competition and wants to turn her into a boy.
/r/MensRights18/07/17 01:43 PM
1

B: Wanna have sex? G: No. B: You never want to have sex anymore. I'm breaking up with you. G: Wait, I love you. I'll have sex with you. B: Sorry. Too late. You should have said "Yes" initially to the sex. Because you did not, you are now saying "Yes" to rape, and I'm not getting kicked out of school.
/r/MensRights17/07/17 08:47 PM
1

They look fake....which is another indicator of crazy. I have never met a woman with fake tits who was not crazy.
/r/MensRights17/07/17 07:08 PM
1

"Don't blame your mom." I agree with empriorisnaked7. I did the same thing, until I figured out that I was just trying to save my mom. I finally found a sweet beautiful woman who was raised by a loving couple with a strong marriage.
/r/MensRights17/07/17 07:02 PM
7

So, this 54 year old woman is saying that she got duped by a 17 year old into taking her clothes off and allowing him to stick his penis in her vagina?
/r/MensRights17/07/17 06:29 PM
2

Exactly. Late reporting happens all the time. Perfectly normal. The fact that she only reported after she learned about the pregnancy is that she had suppressed the memories of the rape, which manifested after she learned that her rape child's father was not her husband. Dr. Veronique Valliere testified in Cosby's trial. I cross examined her during a court-martial. I'm sure it was something along those lines.
/r/MensRights10/07/17 09:45 PM
1

So, the reason you wish people would stop conflating false allegations involving mistaken identity with those involving knowing and malicious false statements is because you are focused on the mens rea of the complaining witness in making a statement and whether or not they should be prosecuted. My point is that I don't mind the conflation because my focus is keeping innocent men out of jail. Whether women falsely state that a man has raped her because she hates him or because she was so drunk, …
/r/MensRights10/07/17 05:25 PM
2

Of course, feminists want the rate to be below 10% because the standard is "better that ten guilty men go free, than one innocent man be imprisoned." So, its okay if only one innocent man goes to jail to get 50 guilty guys, right? (2% rate) If the actual false allegation rate is 40%, then we shouldn't "start by believing" the victim and actually do some investigating. And, does the fact that the false allegation is mistaken or knowing and malicious change the residence of the innocent man sittin…
/r/MensRights10/07/17 03:03 PM
0

Exactly. So, in order to buttress the narrative that refugees aren't violent, they are now toting the 30-50% reported cases are false, which is probably a true statistic.
/r/MensRights10/07/17 02:43 PM
1

At some point Anonymous posted a video saying they were going to hack the judge, mom and stepfather. I don't know if that had anything to do with it.
/r/MensRights10/07/17 02:32 PM
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Watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rYFY3POHk2k. At 49:30 the cops arrive, and you can see the switch from her being the aggressor to her being the crying victim. After coming to grips with the fact that the cops aren't going along with her at 1:07:00, she then decides to attempt to file a false allegation of assault against the son who she is attempting to get back into her house. She says, "Anything to get him back with me and away from that man." The cops responds with logic and…
/r/MensRights10/07/17 02:13 PM
1

I think that most of the musicians were women. But, I was using the term "women" very loosely, because the festival was open to men. If the chose to attend, then I sua sponte identified them as women.
/r/MensRights10/07/17 01:17 PM
1

Well, it's not an affirmative defense in Florida or Georgia where I am licensed to practice law. But, it is under the UCMJ at Courts-martial.
/r/MensRights07/07/17 09:45 PM
0

Lillith Fair had the most revenue for a musical festival back in the 90's. That was attended by all women.
/r/MensRights07/07/17 07:45 PM
4

The assault she suffered seems so traumatic. From the pictures she has posted on social medial, she looks borderline.
/r/MensRights07/07/17 07:41 PM
6

Problem is that in many states the mistake of fact defense does not apply. I don't really know about Canada's criminal code. But, imagine if I asserted this defense: According to documents filed by the appellant with the Supreme Court, George assumed C.D. was over the age of 16 because she had large breasts, a mature demeanour and apparent sexual experience. She also smoked and took care of her younger siblings. Would they reverse for my client?
/r/MensRights07/07/17 07:37 PM
1

I had a girl in law school tell me that there was so much she could do for me that we couldn't break up, when I said I just wanted to be friends. So, I pretty much turned into a ghost and stopped calling her. The thing with borderlines is that they have a huge sexual appetite, so she went looking for another guy and found him. Then, she broke up with me, which I just stared at her agreeing when she tried to let me down gently, "I understand. I'm a really bad boyfriend by not calling you. I'd bre…
/r/MensRights07/07/17 07:11 PM
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I'm a lawyer who represents American Servicemembers who have been falsely accused of sexual crimes by crazy women. And, quite frankly, when you've seen one borderline woman, you've seen most, if not all, of them. Very hot, weird left eye, inordinate amount of selfies on Facebook, few female friends, few male friends who used to be boyfriends, insane jealousy, but when you first met her, oh how awesome and perfect she was. And, when you figure out a woman is borderline based on all the craziness …
/r/MensRights07/07/17 07:06 PM
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When you are in a relationship with something like this, you need to do exactly what this guy did and film it. Some people might tell him to tone down his language, but it's pretty clear he is acting like he normally acts by calling her so many derogatory names. Takes away the "he was on his best behavior argument."
/r/MensRights06/07/17 02:34 PM
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When compared to the outburst by Mika from "Morning Joe" regarding Donald Trump's Twitter response, I find this has a lot to do with Men's rights to freedom of speech and the double standard on what constitutes sexism. This guy in the OP was tweeting something that was pretty crass, she called him on it, and it made national news. Morning Joe reported that Donald Trump had framed Time Magazine covers that were fake on the walls of many of his Country Clubs. Mika commented that his arms were cros…
/r/MensRights06/07/17 01:58 PM
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She probably gaslit him into thinking that her outbursts were his fault. She didn't treat him like this from the beginning. There was a lot of grooming to get him to fall in love with her. And, it is a gradual weekly or daily nudge, so small that he doesn't even know it, that makes him feel worthless. Plus, when she crossed the line, he probably threatened to leave, so she turned on the waterworks and feigned taking responsibility for her actions, which delayed his departure and gave her a secon…
/r/MensRights06/07/17 01:31 PM
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She was definitely borderline. It's good that your friend got away alive. If any of you are dating a woman like this, then you need to protect yourself for the inevitable breakup that will occur. You first need to make sure you are in a one party consent jurisdiction for recording voices. You can voice record her outbursts and crazy talk. You will know when she is getting ramped up and you just need to put turn your voice recorder on, so you can preserve evidence. Because you will need it when s…
/r/MensRights06/07/17 01:25 PM
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Feminism has changed. That's why it is separated into different waves, where the higher number waves correlate with some guano crazy ideas, such as gender being a social construct or that Jackie lying about being raped was good for society. The only way to defeat it is to contain it through responding to it directly in a way that no sane person will agree with it lest they desire to look crazy. Yes, the crazies will entrench, but we want sane women to refrain from joining their ranks.
/r/MensRights03/07/17 02:57 PM
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Record a few conversations of her acting crazy and keeping your daughter away from you or threatening to do so. Hire a lawyer, sue for legitimation of your daughter, take a DNA test to make sure she is yours, and, if she is, then sue for primary custody using your ex leaving her daughter with you and her bipolar disorder against her. Trying to make an agreement with a woman who has bipolar disorder is, well,......a little crazy.
/r/MensRights28/06/17 01:24 PM
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I have a client who I defended against a false allegation by his wife after he served her with divorce papers. It went to a trial and I have the audio from the trial. I have the surreptitious recordings that he made based on the advice of a marital counselor who told him she was a previous court reporter for a family law judge and said that she would falsely accuse him one day and that he should protect himself by recording her abusive outbursts. With regards to a custody battle, I would be very…
/r/MensRights21/06/17 05:39 PM
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Well, give me a better analogy for a situation where person A was lied to by Person B about a financial obligation Person A really did not have, then was a POS for not continuing to pay Person B for the benefit of person C who did not have a choice in the matter. I'm not denying that there is a POS in the scenario above, and I would posit it is Person B. But, instead, you call Person A a POS. Talk about victim blaming!
/r/MensRights14/06/17 04:43 PM
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Then, he is in a catch 22 because she will argue that he's not really the father, so she is the better parent to have the child. So, he is going to spend a ton of money to be financial liable to her and the child? And, he isn't punishing the child. She punished the child a long time ago by lying. Had the mother told the truth immediately, then the purported father could have decided then and there to break it off and the child would not have known about him. Instead, you want to call the victim …
/r/MensRights14/06/17 04:26 PM
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Because you don't have to register as a murderer when you get out of jail and you aren't limited in where you can live because you murdered someone when you get out of jail. Also, when was the last false allegation for possession of weed story you read about?
/r/MensRights13/06/17 03:52 PM
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The planting of illegal drugs scenario you described would necessitate a woman obtaining the illegal drug, then transporting the illegal drug to the man's domain to plant on him. If she got caught, then she would be arrested. And, your example of false allegations of abuse? There are a whole bunch of false domestic violence allegations. They typically start with her beating the crap out of him, then when he grabs her wrists to prevent further abuse, she stops and calls 911. When they get there, …
/r/MensRights13/06/17 03:48 PM
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Leavenworth is filled with Servicemembers convicted on similar facts asserted in your last paragraph.
/r/MensRights13/06/17 03:43 PM
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Because men are the vast majority of people who are falsely accused of rape and suffer its consequences. And, feminists have pushed to violate men's rights constitutional rights to a fair trial for the past 50 years in cases involving sexual assault. False rape allegations weaponize a justice system against men to allow women to effectuate their agenda.
/r/MensRights13/06/17 03:40 PM
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The only sexual move that can ruin a man's life is unprotected sex resulting in an STD or unwanted pregnancy, wherein the man is as much to blame as the female. Ruining a man's life with a false allegation has nothing to do with sex or the man, but everything to do with some psycho female falsely accusing a man after consensual intercourse. It is her lack of veracity that ruin's the man's life, not her sexuality. I have found in my experience that whores who get drunk and screw a guy within hour…
/r/MensRights13/06/17 03:33 PM
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This article quotes a source who says that she is saying she was blackout drunk and could not consent. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-4597130/Corinne-Olympios-blackout-drunk-DeMario-incident.html
/r/MensRights12/06/17 09:33 PM
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I wonder if this is her: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christine-gillum-461363a2/ Because if she is (or hopefully was) working for Catholic Child and Family Services, then she should be sentenced more harshly. It appears that she was also a volunteer for a crime victim support group. (Do an edit/find/"catholic" or "gillum"): http://www.supportadvocacyresourcecenter.org/uploads/3/4/6/3/34637913/2013-2014_annual_report_1_1.pdf So, if this is the same Christine Gillum, she used all of what she learne…
/r/MensRights12/06/17 07:53 PM
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This girl is guano crazy, and guano crazy girls make false allegations.
/r/MensRights12/06/17 05:58 PM
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The fact that you have to ask this says a lot about you. I think you should stay with her because she most likely is a lot smarter and stronger than you are.
/r/MensRights09/06/17 08:22 PM
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This story would be so much more satisfying if Seinfeld didn't give her a hug because he was afraid that she would falsely accuse him of sexual harassment based on her bs lawsuit against Dr. Luke where she alleges that he sexually abused her to the point where it almost cost her life, or words to that effect.".
/r/MensRights09/06/17 03:48 PM
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I'd respond with a picture of Christy Mack post-War Machine.
/r/MensRights09/06/17 03:13 PM
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Pm'd you.
/r/MensRights08/06/17 05:27 PM
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Mmmmmm. Negative ghostrider. Chicks can withdraw consent at any time and you look like a kook videotaping consent before intercourse. She'll say you threatened her to say "Yes" before turning off the camera and raping her. Client meets girl on weekend. Week later girl accused him of violently raping her. She was violently raped, but not by him. He had cell phone pings that showed he was in another state at the time (20 minutes away from her), but they said that he "could have left his cell phone…
/r/MensRights07/06/17 04:53 PM
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Sometimes females are harder on females than males will be. They are quick to call bs. Then again, some of them stick together like sisters.
/r/MensRights07/06/17 04:13 PM
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Not me, but a client of mine did with a female counselor. She was extremely neutral, and got the wife to admit that she hit my client and my client has never hit her. The therapist told wife that it was never okay to hit their spouse, and wife screamed and stormed out of the session. Therapist was a former court reporter for a family law judge who saw and transcribed hundreds of divorce trials in Florida. She told my client: your marriage will soon be over; your wife is going to falsely accuse y…
/r/MensRights07/06/17 04:10 PM
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Allowing Chrome to track his whereabouts would have saved one of my clients who was falsely accused by misidentification. To combat false allegations where intercourse occurred, but the issue is consent, carrying a body camera is not necessarily "simple." Most women don't want to be filmed while having sex. It would also get in the way. So you would have to surreptitiously video record the act by placing the camera somewhere in the room, which also might be illegal. It is under the UCMJ. I would…
/r/MensRights07/06/17 03:10 PM
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Apparently, a dyslexic Steven Tyler stays friends with her rapist. Lady looks like a dude.
/r/MensRights06/06/17 09:08 PM
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I have a hard time believing anyone standing next to Gloria Allred.
/r/MensRights06/06/17 09:07 PM
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Judge Mark Williams labelled the prosecution case into the rape and assault charges as “most unsatisfactory” and lashed them for ignoring “cogent and consistent objective evidence” that supported the man’s evidence the sex was consensual. This happens every day in the military.
/r/MensRights02/06/17 07:45 PM
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So basically teen boys have joined the club previously consisting of male Servicemembers and male college students.
/r/MensRights01/06/17 02:03 PM
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This book should be on every 1SG's desk to give Joe when he brings his stripper girlfriend to the Regimental Ball.
/r/MensRights25/05/17 03:28 PM
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First of all, start reading this blog: bookofbrother.com/ Stay away from women like this. Keep doing your job. Pray. Things will turn for you.
/r/MensRights25/05/17 03:16 PM
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Let's agree with the premise of this post. Why again are feminists and liberals so against suspending immigration of those individuals from certain countries? Because it appears to be inconsistent.
/r/MensRights23/05/17 06:23 PM
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And a male janitor will probably have to clean it up. Take the stuff down and pee in the toilet.
/r/MensRights17/05/17 06:12 PM
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"I understand that people of colour and women face barriers that, all things being equal, don't exist for white men." Another piece of advice: you should probably clarify to which "white men" you are referring. If you are referring to "rich" white men, then I'm with you. But, you brought up an interesting phrase "all things being equal." So, "all things being equal" such as financial status when applying to law school, who do you think will have the least scholarship opportunities when the appli…
/r/MensRights16/05/17 03:45 PM
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So, what you are saying is that now the shoe is on the other foot, you don't like how it looks or fits? You aren't just being a pussy. I'd say that you are being a hypocrite, as well. But, you might be coming around, so here is my advice: Sounds like you work for some kind of organization that capitalizes off the victim grievance industry. Why don't you expose the hypocrisy in the "liberal networks" that you run? Make recordings of some of your so called liberal friends and discuss this false al…
/r/MensRights16/05/17 03:24 PM
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I would gladly have my wife come to work, so I can stay home and feed, change, and entertain the child. Of course, she would have to go to law school, pass the bar exam, and open up her own firm. Or, we could live off of the salary of her job and be poor. But, this pretty much summed up the article for me. After bitching about all the employment possibilities she had to give up to procreate, she writes: "The truth is, I don’t want to work full time at this stage of my life." But, she demands tha…
/r/MensRights16/05/17 03:06 PM
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That's what I was thinking. Or, if it were my wife at the grocery store, then I would tell her she did the right thing by asking an employee to accompany her to her vehicle. Better to be safe than to be in the bottom of a pit being told that "it rubs the lotion on its skin, or else it gets the hose again."
/r/MensRights15/05/17 04:05 PM
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And, as for marketing, this is a great article by the law firm. Everything that they said in the article about the ease in which females can file a false restraining order with virtually no adverse consequences is true. So, if a woman is reading HuffPo one day and sees it, then she might file a false allegation. So, when the husband googles "false allegation restraining order attorney," whose website pops up? I'm not saying that this is the law firm's intent, either. This firm is meeting a need …
/r/MensRights15/05/17 02:09 PM
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EricAllonde, HuffPo is probably publishing an article like this because it explains how easy it is to get a violence protective order in a divorce. "Little evidence needed/quick advantage in gaining custody/long lasting effects on jobs and appearance of a criminal record" are all key phrases to catch a scorned woman's attention. If you think about it, would somebody be able to print, without criticism, an article that gives a woman a template on how to file a false allegation? Of course not. So,…
/r/MensRights15/05/17 01:35 PM
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I agree. This is most certainly possible. But, as imnotmrabut pointed out above, she said that "this guy COULD be out there; he could be doing this to somebody else." Sounds like when Scott Peterson said his wife "was" a nice person. And, when I read how she hired an attorney and she is deeply involved in PAVE, a victim advocate group, and how she is excited about being on TV, I just raised an eyebrow. It doesn't sound like it is all that difficult to find a guy who is an accountant with his bro…
/r/MensRights12/05/17 08:41 PM
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To answer your question. If you haven't talked to your father about this and shared this post with him, then it might be a good thing to do with Father's day coming up. He might feel like a failure for having his marriage fall apart and leaving you with her. He could have easily remarried, started new, and had minimal contact with her and, collaterally, you. But, he didn't. Your father is harder than woodpecker lips and a good man. Talk to him about it. Thank him for everything he did and contin…
/r/MensRights12/05/17 01:46 PM
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If I were an identical twin, would the toxic masculinity with which I have been indoctrinated force me to feel jealous that my wife has effectively seen my brother naked?
/r/MensRights09/05/17 05:49 PM
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Not too bad. I told some adults to look out for grown adults that shouldn't be around us at football games. My friends knew about the threat. And, quite frankly, when I look back on it, the woman who told me about it could have been lying to me. But, I heard that she became a bartender and told someone that I and another guy she was screwing ruined her life. Sounds like your typical BPD/cluster B distortion campaign.
/r/MensRights09/05/17 04:53 PM
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Also, I can attest to what happens in the US military when a Servicemember is falsely accused. First, he (the falsely accused will always be a "he" in the military) is flagged for any type of positive action like promotion, training, transfer, etc. Second, he will be allowed to see a military defense attorney who will advise him to not say anything at all when questioned by NCIS, AFOSI, or CID, then come see them when he is charged. The false accuser will immediately be detailed a lawyer to repr…
/r/MensRights08/05/17 08:30 PM
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When I was 16, a sophomore called me up and asked me if she could come over to my house. We hooked up, she was on top, it was totally consensual. We hooked up 3 more times, once at her friend's house, once where she snuck out of her house and I picked her up, then once at a party we attended. Later I heard that her father was looking for me because she told him that I was her first and that I forced her. His plan was to have me kidnapped at a football game, have the crap beat out of me, then lea…
/r/MensRights08/05/17 08:15 PM
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Bro, your luck with women is pretty bad. Stop dating whores. Keep any communications you have with her in a safe place. Print them out and put them in a filing cabinet. If the cops want to talk to you, then call an attorney. Chances are her family friend or brother isn't going to do anything to you because they know she is crazy.
/r/MensRights04/05/17 07:14 PM
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More like I married a woman with a Borderline Personality Disorder and this is what happened. The fact that she was divorced was a symptom, not the problem. This story provides a very good lesson. If you are going to marry a divorced woman, then I highly recommend that you find her ex-husband and ask him what it was like being married to her. Many of my clients who have suffered false claims of abuse from divorced women would have done well to call the ex-husband. The ones I have spoken to alway…
/r/MensRights03/05/17 04:38 PM
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Sounds like the US Army is on par with the Crown in prosecuting sexual assault. Everything you wrote is being experienced on a US military post somewhere from the lacking criminal investigation by law enforcement, to the prosecutors taking horrible cases, to the only thing that prevents them from sticking a gun in their mouth is their friends, their family, or their attorney. There is a push to stop calling complaining witnesses "victims" but instead call them "Survivors." You sir, are a survivo…
/r/MensRights01/05/17 04:11 PM
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When you break up with her, record it using a Voice Recorder on her app if you live in a one party consent state. In fact, record every subsequent conversation with her. Explain to her that she physically abused you. Explain to her that you never, and would never, abuse her, then ask her what she would do if you dug your nails into her chest, or screamed at her, or made fun of her. She will likely agree that you have never abused her. If she starts gaslighting you, then immediately deny the fals…
/r/MensRights01/05/17 03:51 PM
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When a potential client calls me and says that he has been falsely accused of sexual assault, I always ask if she has a Facebook page. You can tell a lot about a person's Facebook page. For instance, in every false allegation case I've dealt with, there is always an inordinate amount of selfies posted by the complaining witness on her personal page. And, if you search "Kayla Hunt Lumberton" in Facebook, I think you will probably understand what I am talking about. There are articles that indicat…
/r/MensRights01/05/17 02:44 PM
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Sex is probably pretty important to him; Her too, if she is trash talking him to her friend. Pretty easy to find a woman who doesn't fake it, or will at least show him how to diddle her during intercourse, so they can both orgasm without her deception. He was considering proposing to her. If she lies about her orgasm and also talks trash about him to her friend, then she probably needs to go find another man who satisfies her.
/r/MensRights25/04/17 04:22 PM
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Good point. Just like they have a habit of putting their hand over their mouth when they smile and smile when they are caught in a blatant lie. If he was tried by a bunch of round eyes, though, they might not buy the cultural difference, as discrimination against Asians has not appeared to be as discouraged as other races. On a side note, when I was a Legal Assistance I met with a Soldier in South Korea who said he was being stalked by a Korean girl who he was teaching English. He adamantly deni…
/r/MensRights25/04/17 02:30 PM
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Is your father an attorney?
/r/MensRights24/04/17 07:54 PM
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I wouldn't block contact for long because even not calling her back could be used against you by a prosecutor. Complaining witness gets on the stand and says that she attempted to call accused on numerous occasions to discuss what he did to her, in order to seek closure, but he refused to return any of her calls, shows that he had something to hide. I would imagine that the most natural response would be to take or return her call and when confronted with the pretextual false allegation express …
/r/MensRights24/04/17 07:13 PM
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Keep all communications you had with her, i.e. e-mails, texts, social media messages. Keep all evidence that you had that shows you were in a consensual relationship, i.e. movie ticket receipts, hotel receipts, dinner receipts, etc. You should seek an attorney who specializes in education disciplinary board appeals who has handled a case involving sexual allegations. If you can't find one, then find a sexual assault defense attorney. It would be helpful if you were notified of why you were suspe…
/r/MensRights24/04/17 05:29 PM
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Here is a good tip. Nowadays, complaining witnesses are typically advised by law enforcement or assault advocates to seek a pretextual confession from the accused. So, when you are contacted by a female who is claiming that you did something to her that you actually did not, then the last thing you want to do is apologize to her no matter how badly you want to get back with her. Your statements will be used against you. And for there to be a second hung jury in this case must mean that this alle…
/r/MensRights24/04/17 05:19 PM
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She should have gone to prison longer. Read this Article: http://www.nbcsandiego.com/news/local/Darla-Jacksons-Ex-Happy-She-Filed-Restraining-Order-306077101.html Sounds like she has a Borderline Personality Disorder. It's only a matter of time before she kills again.
/r/MensRights18/04/17 05:12 PM
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I am not a Washington lawyer, but your situation sounds like it would be the same in any jurisdiction. File a motion to amend the temporary order, or if close to a final hearing, go the final hearing and argue for 50/50 custody and make her explain why she did not want to continue with the 8/6. If it was in the best interests of the kids for her to amend the order on a handshake, then it is not in the best interest of the children for her to take it back. Establish that the children have grown u…
/r/MensRights17/04/17 06:43 PM
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I take civilian cases, as well in the states of Georgia and Florida. I've had good success in civilian courts, who quite frankly are a bit more reasonable, in getting cases unfounded prior to my client being charged. I've had three no charges in the past two years when my client got to me before they made a statement. I vet them and the accuser and make sure that I believe beyond a reasonable doubt that the client has been falsely accused. I have not had a civilian trial, though, for a sexual as…
/r/MensRights13/04/17 01:26 PM
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I agree with her. You have to have priorities. He got baby momma pregnant, then went to basic training. He knew she would not be a good wife, so he did not marry her. Then, he met his wife on a deployment with whom he had four kids. It's a tough decision, but once a child has been put through the system after being coached to make a false allegation, at any point in the future if she doesn't like discipline, she knows that she can fabricate another false allegation to get out of the house. His p…
/r/MensRights13/04/17 01:15 PM
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DO NOT DO THIS!!!!! You used to be able to do this about ten years ago, and the charges would probably go away. They give complaining witnesses attorneys nowadays and a kool aid drinking Special Victim Prosecutor will take the case and explain all the good evidence that you have away. Also, a surreptitiously recorded video is a violation of Article 120c (sex offender offense), so if they don't get you for rape, then they will get you for making the video that proves you are innocent. The chain o…
/r/MensRights12/04/17 07:31 PM
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I recently represented a Soldier whose baby momma coached her daughter into saying that her father had been sticking his tongue in her mouth and licking her vagina (and only those things without any escalation) for the past 3 years. The alleged victim said it started the weekend or two after her 5th birthday in Texas. Baby momma lost custody of her daughter when daughter was 4, attempted to get custody back when my client PCS'd to Germany, but failed because she is a bad mother. She did not know…
/r/MensRights12/04/17 07:22 PM
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Don't delete any communications you've had with her. If she calls you to "discuss" your sexual relations, tell her that you heard that she was reporting you sexually assaulted her, which she knows is not true, then hang up. Record the convo on a voice recorder app. Lawyer up immediately. Google "Kyle Fischer Court-martial attorney" (me) for a free consultation or any other civilian attorney who does Courts-martial. If you surreptitiously made a video of your sexual relations, do not show the vid…
/r/MensRights12/04/17 07:04 PM
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Look at the statute of limitations and venue provisions for a defamation or libel lawsuit. In Georgia, you cannot sue someone for libel if they do not live in Georgia, as the long arm statute excludes those types of lawsuit. If they do live in Georgia, then you must sue within 1 year of the statement being made that is libelous. Also, if she has no money, then good luck finding a lawyer who will take your case on a contingency fee basis. If you find one who wants to charge you by the hour, be wa…
/r/MensRights11/04/17 03:18 PM
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Awesome point.
/r/MensRights11/04/17 02:46 PM
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Veritas Quod, Fratris..... What I hate is when a woman asks a stupid question, and you answer it, then realizing that she just asked a stupid question, she asks, 'Well, I know that, but my question is [different stupid question]." Then, you answer that question, ad infinitum. The poor unsub hubby who is married to the woman who asked the mansplaining question probably goes through this scenario a few hundred times a week.
/r/MensRights11/04/17 02:37 PM
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Real proud of you, there, Sizzlechest. Be thankful you have some tough junk.
/r/MensRights11/04/17 02:16 PM
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Typically, a rape kit cannot provide evidence of consent. It can only provide serological evidence indicating sexual contact. For instance, if I lick a woman's areole, then a protein called amylase will be left. A chemical will show the presence of amylase, and a DNA forensic analyst could lift a DNA profile from the amylase showing that I licked her areole if it matches my DNA profile. DNA is quite useful when identity is at issue in cases, for example, where it is a jump out of the bushes stra…
/r/MensRights10/04/17 09:34 PM
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As a Court-martial defense attorney, I have found that people, both military and civilian, are quick to assume that our Servicemen are violent abusers without any investigation into the matter. Maybe, it is because of "documentaries" like "The Invisible War" that was shown repeatedly in April during Sexual Assault awareness month in military posts across the globe, or maybe it is because of our Congressional Representatives like Senator Claire McCaskill who hold up promotions when Convening Auth…
/r/MensRights10/04/17 02:38 PM
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The entire US military is trained on sexual assault annually each April, which is sexual assault awareness month. In the past, they have learned that if a female has had one drink, then she is too drunk to consent, that victims are always to be believed, that false allegations of sexual assault rarely happen, etc. I think that many males question those concepts, but find it difficult to argue against them out fear they will be accused of supporting sexual assault and victimization of the victim.…
/r/MensRights06/04/17 01:57 PM
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Tooracyforfb, I represent a lot of men who are falsely accused of assault at Courts-martial. I rarely kick a female off of a panel, as most females who join the military are conservatives, who do not want an innocent man to go to jail for something he did not do. Also, I have found that all male panels will white knight for a complaining witness, unless a female is there to let them know it's okay to question the veracity of her story. Although there are exceptions. What are some questions that …
/r/MensRights04/04/17 04:44 PM
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Bro, I represent Soldiers for a living. I had a case like this with a married Ranger Officer. It went to a Court-martial. The only thing that saved him was the recordings he made of her abusing him. When you make recordings, put them on your e-mail, or on Google Drive or someplace other than just your phone. So, you need to get more evidence. Sounds like you are stationed in California or the DC area if your rent is $2k per month. If you live in California, Connecticut, Florida, Illinois, Maryla…
/r/MensRights04/04/17 03:47 PM
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I defend men accused of sexual assault. When I do, I place the woman in the man's shoes and ask if the situation was reversed, would there be a case. Many times, the facts wind up being completely absurd. And, I don't shy away from "victim-blaming" and don't really care if people call me a victim blamer. It's a phrase feminist society uses to establish that a complaining witness is automatically a "victim" and to stifle any question as to them being a victim notwithstanding their agency, actions…
/r/MensRights04/04/17 02:04 PM
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I was a senior in high school. There was a big boned, freckle faced redhead who I was crushing on, but I surmised that she did not like me because I was poor. When I figured that out, I was no longer crushing on her and we had verbal disagreements. One time, she smacked me in the back of the head and my female English teacher who hated life asked me, "What did you say to Lynn to make her hit you?" I responded, "Oh, that's great! I suppose if Lynn took out a gun and shot me, the last thing I woul…
/r/MensRights04/04/17 01:41 PM
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But, it's funny how feminists and feminist legislators will say that's victim blaming. For instance, telling a female not to go home with a strange man when they are drunk or not to drink to excess is victim blaming because men should just control themselves. It's almost like they want women to engage in risky behavior because then they become a statistic that drives funding for their legislation to solve the problem that is never solved thereby requiring more funding, ad infinitum....
/r/MensRights23/03/17 07:59 PM
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I don't think many women are going to show up to that class, Bromigo. I'm still laughing as I type this imaging what this class would be like.
/r/MensRights23/03/17 05:47 PM
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Hell, if I were running the class, I would want males to be there. In fact, I would let you be the aggressor and put you up against the toughest female in the bunch, so she could beat the living crap out of you and teach you to not show up for these classes. But, that's too logical, which is a trait many females, particularly those who identify as feminists, lack. I've found these self defense classes involve a bunch of weak females battling weak females. I remember a friend of mine was on her w…
/r/MensRights23/03/17 05:18 PM
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Two people who don't know each other are inclined to say she is a BPD. If you don't do everything on the list above, then you are an idiot.
/r/MensRights23/03/17 05:04 PM
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Are you in the United States? If you live in the United States and a divorce case is pending, then I would recommend that you have the court appoint a guardian ad litem or a family evaluator to conduct an investigation and make a recommendation to the Courts who should be primary custodian. Also, a couple of things. I am an attorney who read your loooong post during my lunch break. I'm always honest, which means I usually represent good people because the bad ones don't hire me because I'm prett…
/r/MensRights23/03/17 04:53 PM
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His Facebook page does not show anything on it about her. Her's however, shows a huge difference in that she has many pictures of him on her page. He looks military. He needs to cut sling load on her quickly and stay away from the cray cray. Good tip here: when a woman has numerous photos, the vast majority of which are selfies, there is a good chance that your life with her is going to be a living hell. But, I figured that was why she did it because she was trying to get him back. But, he was t…
/r/MensRights23/03/17 02:40 PM
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Your grandmother sounds like a good conservative woman who was too busy working and raising your father and uncle to be going out, getting drunk, and going home with strange men. In fact, I find that most of those people from that generation feel the same way about some of these absurd rape cases nowadays, i.e. "Well, what did expect to happen when you went home with a guy you met at the club with whom you were dirty dancing with? You say you were too drunk to consent? Well, then missy, you need…
/r/MensRights22/03/17 07:04 PM
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This is simply truth in advertising. Within this advert is the recognition that Mom's engage in parental alienation so badly that a Father would rarely be permitted to take his kids to a movie.
/r/MensRights22/03/17 04:17 PM
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I think a better example of this point would be "If you don't want to be raped, then don't get incoherently drunk and go home with strange men." I've always found the "Oh, she was asking for it because of what she was wearing" argument to be an argument that feminists attribute to defense attorneys to make men look stupid. The only time I will ask a complaining witness what she was wearing is to show the extreme difficulty any person would have removing clothing with one hand while holding down …
/r/MensRights22/03/17 04:14 PM
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I would really like to know what the overwhelming evidence of Varney being innocent that he says the police had was. This case was to go to trial in four days. The allegation had been made for the past two years. Then, suddenly, the CPS who has prosecuted some of the most absurd cases, short of Mike Nifong and the US Army that I've seen, drops the case? And, the parents aren't upset with the CPS, but they blame the university for not supporting their daughter and causing her death because she ha…
/r/MensRights22/03/17 02:01 PM
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This is just another way to force defense counsel to show their hand. I don't know if the UK has the same rape shield laws or rules of evidence regarding mental health records that the US has, but those laws require defense counsel to file a motion to explain why other sexual misconduct is relevant or why mental health records are needed. So, prior to trial, defense counsel has to show all of its cards and explain its theory of the case to the Government. So, the Prosecutors have that inside kno…
/r/MensRights21/03/17 01:52 PM
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The facts sound pretty bad, but we are only hearing the facts that the news wants us to hear. The narrative for which is "Police's failure to believe victim and charging her with wasting their time resulted in her death." If the defendant did in fact have intercourse with her two nights before, then it strongly appears that she was playing both of them. Where was Mr. Cooke during the murder?
/r/MensRights20/03/17 02:35 PM
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But the reasonable belief aka "mistake of fact" defense is only applicable if the child is between the ages of 13 and 15. 12 or under is strict liability with no defense, except that she's lying. In Georgia, Florida, and Alabama, there is no mistake of fact defense. So, if a Soldier goes to a bar and chats up a 15 year old who is drinking a glass of wine, then goes home with her, he has no defense if she later reports sexual intercourse. In the military, there would be a mistake of fact defense …
/r/MensRights17/03/17 03:33 PM
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Here is a list of tips to avoid False Allegations. They are based on appellate opinions and my personal experience as a trial and defense counsel: Practice abstinence until marriage. In addition to minimize the chances you will be falsely accused, you won’t have to worry about STD’s or child support payments for 18 years. This is the best method of False Allegation Prevention or (“FAP”). There is nothing wrong with a little FAP. Rosey Palm doesn’t mind if you submerge her in beer to get her drun…
/r/MensRights16/03/17 03:16 PM
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What the heck kind of 10th grade class are you in where the subject matter is whether a man can be raped or not? Do you know what the pythagorean theorem is? Do you know which number in our long of presidents Benjamin Franklin was? Do you know the symbol on the Periodic Table for Sodium? Who wrote "The Sun Also Rises?" If you can answer those four questions without googlling it, then I guess its okay for the taxpayers to fund your teacher's salary to take the time out of teaching stuff you shoul…
/r/MensRights16/03/17 03:09 PM
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I'm a civilian Court-martial defense attorney and agree with fungo_bat on how bad it is in the military now. When I walk into Court, my client is up against a senior ranking Special Victim Prosecutor who only prosecutes sex crimes, the unit's prosecutor (Trial Counsel), a team of sexual assault investigators at CID, NCIS, or AFOSI who merely take an alleged vic's statement and do nothing to find exculpatory evidence in favor of the falsely accused, a panel who has been trained to believe the all…
/r/MensRights15/03/17 05:20 PM
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I agree with cymrich. That's exactly what happened.
/r/MensRights14/03/17 03:10 PM
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As with due process for college men accused of sexual assault, the Georgia legislature has a focus on protecting men in this regard. Child support is calculated based on the non-locality rate, or the BAHII amount.
/r/MensRights13/03/17 09:29 PM
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First, what is a "dinner lady." Second, that dinner lady looks like she has had 35 years of hard livin'.
/r/MensRights09/03/17 06:07 PM
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Good point. Sounds pretty bad, i.e. racist, when you put a racial spin on it. But, it's okay to be sexist, unless you are a man. if you are a man, then don't be sexist.
/r/MensRights08/03/17 08:24 PM
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Yeah, tell her to read about this poor AF schlep: http://afcca.law.af.mil/content/afcca_opinions/cp/cook_-_misc_dkt_no_2016-18.u.pdf
/r/MensRights07/03/17 08:57 PM
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Bro, file for a restraining order against her. Get her out of your house. Don't ever go back to her. Move on. She sounds like she could be a female predator, and it won't stop. She probably has a Borderline Personality Disorder, and if she does, then she will come back all weepy and sugary sweet. But, if she has a BPD, it will happen again. It will be like the beginning of many Dexter episodes, "Tonight's the night. And, it's going to happen, again and again."
/r/MensRights02/03/17 03:11 PM
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He's probably queer and making sales calls to see who will take him up on his offer. I would politely tell him that I don't swing from his side of the plate and he should stop. If he grabbed my ass after that, then I would lock the arm connected to the hand that grabbed my ass with my opposite arm, then grab the back of his hand with my other hand and push it as hard as I could against his wrist with his palm facing his wrist. After a good 5 seconds of him screaming like a bitch, I would ease th…
/r/MensRights01/03/17 04:17 PM
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Bro, don't delete any evidence that you have with her such as texts, facebook chats, e-mails, surreptitiously recorded videos, etc. Also, I recommend that you don't upset current GF, i.e. you cannot break up with her. Hell hath no fury, and current GF will team up with booty call girl to falsely accuse you the way mattress girl and her team of hooahs ganged up on the German exchange student at NYU. The only way this relationship will end well is if she breaks up with you and feels guilty about b…
/r/MensRights27/02/17 07:17 PM
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I watched with interest because I defend the falsely accused at Courts-martial as a civilian defense counsel. There was also a tone during the episode of the Army trying to sweep the sexual assault under the rug to make her a Jane Doe, which is farthest from the truth. The military has taken some cases since 2010 that would give Mike Nifong a run for his money. As far as the MRA guy was concerned, he was actually a good guy. He shook her hand and told her, "Nice fight" notwithstanding the stuff …
/r/MensRights27/02/17 06:36 PM
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This woman is the worst of the worst. It's not like she got a bit of liquid courage in her and wanting two guys to treat her like a Chinese finger cuff. She seduced these two men with premeditated intent to file a false allegation, so some guy would White Knight for her. And, it sounds like the investigation was finished pretty quickly. Nice of the College to move so quickly on this before the police investigation was finished and she confessed to making a false allegation.
/r/MensRights22/02/17 09:52 PM
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I had a Court-martial exactly like this in May of 2015. My client's wife abused him for two years, then filed a false allegation with the US Army when he filed for divorce and had the audacity to request joint visitation with his daughter; she wanted sole custody. Upon the advice of a marital counselor who told him his marriage would soon end and he needed documentation of the abuse, he recorded a mere six months of her abusing him or admitting to abusing him by almost hitting him with her car i…
/r/MensRights21/02/17 02:34 PM
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Just spit balling here, but was there any evidence put forth by the man or the Crown about her having a Borderline Personality Disorder or her having Bipolar disorder. He did say that they argued about the custody of their daughter, which normally does not result in a man's intestines being ripped out. Reminds me of the scene in "Gone Girl" where Doogie Howser buys the farm. I wonder if she watched it recently before that night.
/r/MensRights17/02/17 04:15 PM
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Borderline. Guarantee it. Fear of abandonment after being caught engaging in sexual inappropriate acts.
/r/MensRights14/02/17 05:30 PM
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If she grabbed your nuts without your consent, then she sexually assaulted you. You pushing her was merely self defense. Your attorney should file a motion under the rape shield law to be permitted to ask her and her witness friends what their professions are. I can't believe that a district attorney would actually bring an indictment in this case, but it appears that you have a defense, i.e. self defense. Once the jury hears what she does for a living and the other girls testify that they are o…
/r/MensRights06/02/17 08:58 PM
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Exactly, so all the casinos that give away free booze in Vegas are committing theft. And, better yet, how about strip clubs? They serve alcohol, men get drunk, then the men tip the strippers. They were too drunk to give away their money, so it should be a crime when the strippers take their money.
/r/MensRights13/01/17 09:24 PM
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He could have done so much worse to her. I like how he swept the leg, Cobra Kai style.
/r/MensRights28/11/16 02:46 PM
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Some pretty key tips that I've learned from women I dated until I met my wife who is a treasure: 1. If she doesn't want you hanging out with your family, she's probably borderline. 2. If she doesn't want you hanging out with your friends who are perfectly respectable people, she's probably borderline. 3. If she has no long term friends, she's probably borderline. 4. If she has not worked a job for more than two years, she's probably borderline. 5. When you first meet her, she does everything you…
/r/MensRights16/11/16 02:47 PM
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NY is a one party consent state according to Google. I am not a NY attorney. If it is, then it would be legal to make such a recording. I had a military client who did that and I destroyed his Borderline wife on the stand. She threatened to kill his dog, make a false report of abuse if he didn't come back to the house, ran him down with her car, threw a glass at him that shattered, and punched him in the back of the head. Every time, it was recorded. And she denied doing those things under oath.…
/r/MensRights16/11/16 02:41 PM
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They sound like a bunch of selfish grifters.
/r/MensRights16/11/16 02:32 PM
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People do this all the time on both sides of the innie/outtie continuum. Just because she is a woman doesn't make her any more or less of a bad person. It's her actions that make her less of a good person. She doesn't fail to treat men well because she thinks women's feelings are more important than men's feelings. She does it simply because she is a selfish person.
/r/MensRights15/11/16 07:21 PM
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It's probably a tactic to get him to drop his lawsuit, so the embryos can be destroyed. Can't say I'd blame her. If I had an ex-wife, then I wouldn't want a child with our DNA running around in the world.
/r/MensRights15/11/16 04:27 PM
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Your ex-girlfriend sounds like she might have a borderline personality disorder. Key factors are fear of abandonment, alienation of friends, controlling behavior, violent behavior, inappropriate jealousy. Don't go back. Don't delete any messages that she sent to you by text, e-mail, facebook, etc. If she falsely accuses you of a sex crime, you are going to need it. If you get contacted by police, make sure that you see an attorney and provide the attorney with all of your evidence before you mak…
/r/MensRights15/11/16 04:19 PM
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I agree with this sentiment for most millenials sporting the skinny jeans and a man-bun. However, I would take out the words "parents are too afraid of them" and replace it with the words "most Single mothers are incapable to teach a man how to exercise reason and accountability."
/r/MensRights14/11/16 10:55 PM
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That's exactly what I was thinking!!!! This post doesn't make any sense. If a man doesn't have a backbone, then what's there to be afraid of? If he has no morals or values and lacks a backbone, as well, then he's not going to stand up for himself, so why would the parents have to be afraid?
/r/MensRights14/11/16 10:48 PM
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Not so sure about that, but maybe. I think if Joe Biden had run, then the DNC would still have done everything it did for Hillary for Joe, and when the average voter would have heard about it, there would have been a revolt.
/r/MensRights09/11/16 09:04 PM
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She lost because the American people voted against what Donald Trump referred to as a rigged system, evidenced by (1) the DNC rigging the primary for Hillary against Bernie Sanders, (2) the DOJ rigging the FBI's investigation for Hillary, and (3) the media rigging the coverage for Hillary by focusing on the negative attributes of Donald Trump and completely ignoring the issues with the Clinton Foundation, Benghazi, and the classified material on her private server. Her loss had nothing to do wit…
/r/MensRights09/11/16 08:47 PM
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Sounded like a weak case to begin with. The guy passed a polygraph, which would be pretty hard to do if you were lying. So, it might be that Hillary had a completely innocent man plead guilty to a crime he did not commit because she thought he was guilty of penis.
/r/MensRights04/11/16 02:22 PM
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And don't forget: TIL that false rape allegations are rare, once in a lifetime things that nobody can protect themselves from......notwithstanding the large numbers of reported false allegations of rape that have been reported on in various media.....
/r/MensRights01/11/16 02:20 PM
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Had a similar thing happen to me. I was waiting tables and was going to be considered for a shift leader's spot, which meant I would get paid extra to collect each server's bank. Then, one day my manager came up to me and said that Lindy made a complaint about me, and I asked him what the complaint was. He never told me, but said it was bad. So, I wasn't shift leader. In fact, she became a shift leader, until she graduated from college and left, at which point, I became a shift leader. I don't k…
/r/MensRights27/10/16 05:47 PM
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Exactly!
/r/MensRights27/10/16 04:31 PM
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The way I read it, under this law, the cops wouldn't be able to inform the accused who his accuser is. So, if the accused brought the name up of who accused him in a consent case because she is the only woman who he had sex with in the past week, month, year, or lifetime, then that could show consciousness of guilt. If he doesn't know the woman's identity, then he also cannot obtain any information about her to rebut her allegation, other than a general denial of "I didn't rape anybody, ever." W…
/r/MensRights27/10/16 04:29 PM
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There has been a slow march towards taking away all men's ways of defending themselves of a false allegation of rape. First, they started with "Rape Shield" laws. Too many defendants were able to show that the accuser was not the chaste women that prosecutors wanted them to be. So, they took away the ability to show a jury what she is really like. Then, in the ultimate hypocrisy, they added Rule 413 which allowed the jury to hear of other acts of sexual assault allegedly committed by the accused…
/r/MensRights27/10/16 04:16 PM
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Well played. That is how watered down the word "rape" has become since anything can become rape. So, you have to say it twice to ensure that it is legiti......wait.....that's what got Todd Akin in trouble......
/r/MensRights27/10/16 03:39 PM
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That's fine, but don't be surprised if the Judge tells you, "I cannot do that with this contempt proceeding. I can only do that if you file a motion to modify the Court's order."
/r/MensRights24/10/16 03:21 PM
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How old were you when they divorced? If you were a minor, then did she seek primary or sole physical custody of you? Did she have custody of you after the divorce? She sounds a little borderline.
/r/MensRights24/10/16 01:44 PM
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I know that Hillary doesn't have a son. This is why I said that the statement shows her hypocrisy in that she defended her husband. Not her son. Then, I brought up two Senators who have sons who have been very integral in colleges and the military to be more aggressive and decrease due process in academic boards and Courts-martial. You know there are two types of people in this world: those who can ascertain someone's point even though it has missing information.
/r/MensRights13/10/16 07:33 PM
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The United States press will ensure that Trump doesn't go to far to screw up America. Can't say they will do the same for Hillary.
/r/MensRights13/10/16 07:29 PM
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Took the words right out of my hands. Contempt seems to be a waste of time, unless you want the Judge to tell her that if she doesn't watch her step, then she is going to get 50/50 custody. I don't know where you live, but in Georgia, one of the considerations of custody is who is willing to foster a relationship with the non-custodial parent better. Sounds like she is not if she is playing those kinds of games. You need to ask for some firm holidays. Alternate Thanksgiving, Spring Break, Christ…
/r/MensRights13/10/16 07:17 PM
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I find her statement shows her hypocrisy in that she defended her husband, just as Senator McCaskill would defend her son Austin, or Senator Gillibrand would defend her sons Theodore and Henry, if they were ever accused of sexual assault under very sketchy circumstances. I guarantee that they would (1) demand that cops investigate the veracity of the complaining witnesses; (2) hire the best lawyer money could buy; and (3) demand that the attorney engage in what they would consider "victim blamin…
/r/MensRights12/10/16 04:51 PM
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The cynic in me says: Why is she victim blaming her fiancé? She should start an awareness campaign to place the focus on the muggers. If we are going to stop mugging, then we need to change the behavior of muggers, not victims. The realist in me says: Why are you walking around an area that is known for mugging couples? This is what happens when society engineers the feminism of men.
/r/MensRights11/10/16 04:11 PM
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I haven't seen any MRM activist flaunting their hardware. I think this South Park is showing the idiocy of slut walks using white males.
/r/MensRights11/10/16 02:38 PM
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I once represented a young man who was falsely accused of raping a female after her parents found out a small portion of her sex life. The investigator found quite interesting the time in the bed of his truck when she was reverse cowgirl. Kind of hard to be forced when the guy is lying on his back and she is doing all the work. In the future, when you are in doubt--wait. Drunk females in the opinion of many prosecutors are considered to be the equivalent to 10 year olds. They cannot consent or m…
/r/MensRights11/10/16 02:24 PM
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Helping Men get their ball rolling? That's not condescending, now is it? In all actuality, my ball rolls just fine. I am exactly where I want to be. I'm an attorney who is married to a beautiful conservative God fearing woman and we have our first son on the way. I have not been kicked out of school for some trumped up rape charge, arrested for some false allegation, nor have I been physically maligned by some crazy women with a BPD. But, I have plenty of clients who fit that bill. I think there…
/r/MensRights05/10/16 03:58 PM
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Was she ever on top? Did she puke? Because if she is in college, she will have a flock of hens clucking about how she was raped because, while you both sound as if you were equally inebriated, she was just too drunk to consent. If she puked, they might have a point. Who wants to have sex with a girl who was so sloppy drunk she puked. If she didn't puke and was on top, then anybody with a double digit IQ should be able to see that she was in control, and there was no force.
/r/MensRights05/10/16 03:23 PM
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Didn't say I agreed with it. Or excused it. Just that I understand. Kind of like Chris Rock talking about OJ killing Ron and Nicole in 'Bring the Pain.'
/r/MensRights05/10/16 03:16 PM
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Why wouldn't you want to post the video? Will you get in trouble? Why would you get in trouble? If the video is unbiased, then the presenters should be proud of their product. Kind of like Scientology not wanting anyone to see what goes on in their organization. Obviously, they are ashamed of something or worried that others will think they're crazy. Propoganda works the same way. Post the video. Let's see what it shows.
/r/MensRights05/10/16 03:14 PM
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In 1989 when I was a Senior in honors English, a rich girl named Lynn slapped me in the back of the head. My teacher, Ms. Reynolds, saw it happen. If she had been in on some of our conversations, she would know that Lynn used to make fun of me for being poor white trash. So, she looks at me and says, "Kyle, what did you say to Lynn to make her slap you?" I respond, "I called her 'Double-Chin Lynn,' which is no excuse for her hitting me. So, I guess if she pulled out a gun and shot me the last th…
/r/MensRights05/10/16 02:45 PM
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Typed the words right out of my fingers.
/r/MensRights04/10/16 06:28 PM
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Nothing happened to her. She was a Major in the Army Reserves who testified in uniform. She got caught lying, yet she will continue to serve. My Forensic Psychologist was Dr. Kevin Richards out of Marietta Georgia. He pretty much testifies at Courts-martial full time, although he is a civilian. The Army pays these defense experts between $20k and $40k to assist the defense. I kind of figured you were a professional. Looks like the British Army is going through the same thing the American Army is…
/r/MensRights04/10/16 04:56 PM
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I defended a Soldier at Court-martial where one of the Government's witness's was named Janice Jemison who never returned my calls for an interview. So, every time I spoke to the military prosecutor I made sure to ask why "Jenna Jamison" is dodging me/I really want to take to Jenna Jamison/What's Jenna Jamison's problem, etc. Janice testified at trial, but in closing arguments the prosecutor brought her name up while I was pouring a glass of water at the Defense counsel's table. So, I look over …
/r/MensRights04/10/16 03:14 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ad9mlvyA84E Well, maybe not that line verbatim, but you get the point. You have learned a very difficult lesson, Bromigo. I do feel for you. Just don't ever let a woman take your power like that again. That power is the power to walk away and not subject yourself to her drama. Here is a list of some of the things a BPD might do: She likes EVERYTHING you do; she screws on the first date; she tells you about all the men who have abused her. Then, once the relationsh…
/r/MensRights23/09/16 05:19 PM
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"This leads to a contradictory cycle of "You're disgusting, I hate you! I never want to see you again! Wait, you're leaving? Please don't leave! I can't be without you!"" You are preaching the truth. My Court-martial client recorded, among other things, the night that made him leave the home and file divorce papers. The recording starts because he won't talk to her because it is 12 a.m. and he is trying to sleep. She screams, "If you're not going to talk to me, then you can just leave! Leave!!! …
/r/MensRights23/09/16 05:05 PM
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Actually, I feel for sarujam. She was gaslighting him, and BPD's are very clever. They will be the woman of your dreams and do everything you like to do, but when they feel like they have you, then the chaos and turmoil begins. So, the advice not to go back or when you call your the cops on your girlfriend once, then the next time you should be calling the cops on your ex-girlfriend is just an after action review. He didn't know any better because he hadn't experienced a woman like this. And, he…
/r/MensRights23/09/16 04:42 PM
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I'll say it's his fault, just like I'd tell a woman who got beat every night by her husband, called the cops, then two weeks later went back to him that it is her fault for getting beat. You know, "fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me?"
/r/MensRights23/09/16 03:37 PM
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Why is it that every time someone gives good advice, they get called a "victim blamer." That's what feminists do. If a woman says that everytime she gets drunk, some guy takes advantage of her, then I think it would probably be good advice that she stops drinking. But, some people would call that victim blaming. My fiancé cheated on me, came home late the next afternoon, and told me. I told her that we were not getting married. Had I stayed with her and she cheated on me again, then whose fault …
/r/MensRights23/09/16 03:33 PM
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Reminds me of a line from Joe Piscopo in Johnny Dangerously: I called the cops on my gf once........once. That should be a litmus test. If you call the cops on your girlfriend, then she should no longer be your girlfriend. You said that you called the cops on her a few times and you probably said that it's over, but her fear of abandonment made her cry and profusely apologize and tell you that it will never happen again, and you got sucked back in. She was good for about a week or two or maybe e…
/r/MensRights23/09/16 03:27 PM
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Sarujam, Is her name Ilana? Because that sounds a lot like a woman I know named Ilana. If not, then you need to stay away from her. You have escaped. Don't go putting the sour milk back in the fridge no matter how good the sex is. And, recording conversations is the only way to document a BPD's antics because they are so unbelievable, especially coming from such a beautiful woman. That cop is like a couple of Army prosecutors I dealt with a year ago who jumped into a false allegation case with a…
/r/MensRights23/09/16 03:19 PM
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That's true. So, if the state is Florida, then that would be an illegal wiretap because Florida is a two party consent state. Georgia and Alabama are one party states, so as long as the person making a recording is a party to a conversation, then it's legal.
/r/MensRights21/09/16 09:24 PM
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If you live in a one party consent state for recording conversations, then I would start a recorder on a smart phone or buy a digital recorder and place it in a front jacket or hoodie pocket. I would approach her after class and ask her if your laughing at Family Guy is going to affect your grade. Tell her that you feel like you potentially could be a victim of discrimination because you are a straight white male. The key is to let her talk and do not interrupt her. And, do not let her or anyone…
/r/MensRights19/09/16 05:19 PM
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Lauber and Souma (1982) were the first to introduce research in this new technique. Recognizing that the technique required very little skill to apply the dye or detect microtrauma of the genitalia, they noted a significant difference between those that reported sexual assault and those that had consensual intercourse in regards to injury “positive” with TBD application. Regardless of the ability to determine consent, the most important benefit from TBD is the ability to identify the microtrauma…
/r/MensRights16/09/16 08:01 PM
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The Accused is a black male, so, are you surprised that she has blunt force genital trauma? On average a black man's penis is much larger. Just saying. And, therefore this observation has no impact on the issue of consent.
/r/MensRights16/09/16 04:28 PM
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Anybody know the particulars on the details of this case? Because the statement, "If there was sex when there was an abundance of alcohol, there is no consent" is not the legal standard for sexual assault that I have heard. And, just her attitude and demeanor makes it seem like she has an agenda to ruin a man's life and become the next victim who is fawned over. And, if you are thinking, what woman wants to be fawned over by making a false allegation? Jackie Coakley, Porn Star E. Sulkoweicz, and…
/r/MensRights16/09/16 04:15 PM
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I think that all porn is wrong, magaftw. All of it, as well as you taking the Lord's name in vain. But, I find it a bit strange that a book about a man who clearly abuses a woman, whether she consented or not, appeals to women in such great numbers to where they are 80% of the book's purchasers. And, so I offer you an alternative to the rhetorical question you asked, which you clearly do not want to address without resorting to calling me scum. This is the point where I know that I have struck a…
/r/MensRights02/09/16 04:11 PM
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Get a barrister/lawyer to represent you. If you cannot afford one, then you are going to have to cross examine her. Get a video of her driving past your house each and every time she does. Get a video of her shopping at the grocery store near your home. Some of these businesses who you frequent might wonder why you don't come around anymore. Ask them to testify on your behalf as to how many times she came in before the order and after the order. They have an interest in getting you back in to sp…
/r/MensRights02/09/16 03:57 PM
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If there is a "rape culture," perhaps it is because women perpetuate it. Your statement assumes that men are the viewers of rape porn. It very well could be a high or higher percentage of women who is viewing it because they might enjoy the fantasy of being dominated. Take, for example, 50 Shades of Grey, a sexually graphic novel written by a woman. Guess the percentage of men who bought the novel? 20% in the US and 30% in the UK. So, that means women make up between 70 and 80% of the purchasers…
/r/MensRights02/09/16 01:34 PM
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The Government may comment on this to the jury or a military panel, as well. I'm not saying that you have to engage in a detailed conversation with a woman who is falsely accusing you of sexual assault, but exclaiming "Woman, you've done lost your mind" before hanging up would probably be all that is necessary to suffice as a denial. If you pause then say nothing, or immediately hang up, then it can "go against you" when the prosecutor argues that any reasonable person would deny such a horrific…
/r/MensRights25/08/16 08:05 PM
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I'm sorry, but you are incorrect. "The government may comment on a defendant's silence if it occurred prior to the time that he is arrested and given his Miranda warnings." U.S. v. Rivera, 944 F.2d 1563, 1568 (11th Cir. 1991) "Common law traditionally has allowed witnesses to be impeached by their previous failure to state a fact in circumstances in which that fact naturally would have been asserted." Jenkins v. Anderson, 447 U.S. 231, 239 (1980) It also can be used against a Soldier in a Court-…
/r/MensRights25/08/16 06:24 PM
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Bro, not rape. It wouldn't be rape if the situations were reversed, and it is not rape in your situation.
/r/MensRights25/08/16 05:40 PM
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At some point, I'd like to see some consistent logic. Rather than MRA's pointing out that Lochte would be treated differently if he was a woman who made a false accusation of rape, we should denounce false allegations when a man does it. He should be extradited down to Brazil to stand trial if there is a warrant out for his arrest because false accusations should be dealt with quickly and harshly. Now that this point is established, we can talk about how this policy of a quick and harsh prosecut…
/r/MensRights23/08/16 04:20 PM
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This is a big issue. Sounds like she has been married thrice and has a child from two relationships. Does the 13 year old's father live in the same County? If so, then you might want to team up with her father. Considering she is moving away from her 3d husband to move in with another, a judge would likely question her decision making. I had a similar case with similar facts. Client (husband #3) had twin boys with wife who had a daughter with Husband #2. She took daughter to Northeast with her t…
/r/MensRights22/08/16 05:40 PM
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Hire an attorney. Save social media, such as post encounter communications that show she initiated positive contact, i.e. I enjoyed myself on our date, Can't wait to see you again, etc. If she contacts you, deny the allegation, as not answering her could be used against you in some courts in the United States. It could be a pretext phone call to get you to say something incriminating. Create a timeline of all the contact you have had with her. Find evidence that would support it, like receipts, …
/r/MensRights16/08/16 07:12 PM
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So, basically, you are the opposite of Liam Neeson. Speaking of which: I wish they could have worked the line "Do you see why I wanted you to stay home, Dummy?" into the boat scene.
/r/MensRights15/08/16 09:51 PM
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RunawayGrain, I also keyed in on Mekeel's flippant statement "Innocence is in vogue now." If Mekeel was in a jail cell for 28 years for a crime he did not commit, I highly doubt he would be defending the stability and reliability of our justice system. If innocence is in vogue now, perhaps it is because of prosecutors like Mekeel who appear to be okay with an innocent person sitting in jail, so the system can appear to be stable and reliable.
/r/MensRights10/08/16 02:32 PM
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She's abusive. Like Chris Rock says, "There is nothing worse than a woman who 100% knows her man ain't gonna hit her." You need to record her berating you in front of your son, hitting you, slamming things around, getting in your face like she isn't afraid of you. Because it sounds like she has a Borderline Personality Disorder. When you leave her, she will feel abandoned, then the really bad stuff will start. Like a false violence protective order. You need to sit down with her and while record…
/r/MensRights04/08/16 09:16 PM
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Thanks for that! I'm cleaning coffee off my computer screen. To continue in your brilliance: "Help! I've lost my reason and accountability."
/r/MensRights29/07/16 05:26 PM
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Incredibly sharp, precise, correct, and not a wasted word. Bravo! Or......should I say, Brava!
/r/MensRights29/07/16 02:36 PM
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Her argument clearly describes theft without paralleling the issues involved with drunken sex. A better analogy would be: I go to a strip bar dressed in a suit and flashing a stack of $20's. I proceed to get fubar drunk. I sit next to the stage and start throwing $20's on the stage. I get a lap dance from a stripper and tip her $1,000.00. I end up spending $10,000.00 that night. The next morning I wake up with a raging hangover and an empty wallet. I remember bits and pieces of the evening, but …
/r/MensRights29/07/16 02:01 PM
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I don't think it should be encouraged, but I think that the law on the books regarding age would be the most appropriate way to prosecute an illegal relationship, even if made nonconsensual due to one of the party's age by statute. I think that it should be handled by contract with the school and the person should be fired for cause if that is against the policies of the school. But, when we are talking about requiring a teacher to register as a sex offender for 10 years and limit their resident…
/r/MensRights28/07/16 07:10 PM
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Women never make false allegations. Ever......... Well, except for this time.
/r/MensRights28/07/16 05:09 PM
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Yeah, I understand that point, and, who knows, if I had a 17 year old daughter, I might have a different opinion. But, there are a lot of people who are in a position of "power," but is it enough to supplant a person's agency? A lot of time, the person's power has an aphrodisiac effect that actually increases the person's consent. I am all for firing someone and making them lose their pension when they don't follow the rules, but we are talking about a sex offense that requires registry. And, ra…
/r/MensRights28/07/16 02:43 PM
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But for the fact that if she were a man she would be thrown in jail, I really don't think she should go to jail for consensual activity with a 17 year old. When I was 16 and 17, I engaged in consensual activity with older females consisting of a 19 year old, a 23 year old, and a 29 year-old. I was by no means a victim. And, I don't think a 17 year old female would be a victim if she engaged in consensual sexual activity with a male teacher. But, I agree that her statements do lack logic and acco…
/r/MensRights28/07/16 01:01 PM
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"it looks like he may have been attacking her when she shot him" What did you read from the article that supports that assertion other than the statement of a woman who initially said she shot who she thought was an intruder, then flipped and stated that she shot her boyfriend....who was abusive.......who was breaking up with her when he got shot........
/r/MensRights26/07/16 09:06 PM
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Story written in the most sympathetic way for the female who shot a male cop. If the shooter was male, would the writer have included as relevant the fact that he is a teacher; was asking how the victim was doing; was kept in interrogation for 13 hours; withheld information that the vic died, etc? (Effect on MRA: media bias) It appears that the shooter made two false allegations. First, she says that she shot an intruder who she believed was breaking into her house and she wasn't expecting any v…
/r/MensRights26/07/16 04:42 PM
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Yeah, those bruises on her arms really show that he was attacking her. That's how most men inflict the most pain: they punch women in the arms. (sarcasm font) Seriously, most cases of false allegations I see, the woman shows the cops the bruises on her arms or wrists resulting from him grabbing her arms or wrists while she is beating, slapping, or scratching the crap out of him. Meanwhile, he has marks all over him and she has no other marks on her.
/r/MensRights26/07/16 04:17 PM
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Got it. Thanks for taking my post the right way. I give a lot of free consultations and have learned to cut to the chase pretty quickly and bluntly. Get an attorney ASAP. I don't know if you have enough for an emergency order right now, but only an attorney in your jurisdiction would know. You seem to be using the less expensive Government provided CYS to get the child out of the home, but, you have every right to file a modification of custody and go to a judge for a Court order. Good luck, bro…
/r/MensRights22/07/16 08:29 PM
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I'm not a Canadian attorney, nor am I knowledgeable in Criminal procedure in Canada, but if there is any way to choose a jury and not a bench trial in front of this judge in Canada, then I would highly recommend a jury of his peers. Is there a beyond a reasonable doubt standard in Canada because I have no idea how any factfinder could be convinced beyond a reasonable doubt based on her testimony against his testimony where she sent him a text inviting him out for hot sex, was going to engage in …
/r/MensRights22/07/16 08:21 PM
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I concur with all the above, i.e. hire an attorney, keep all written communications, record all oral communication if you live in a one party consent state, and make a list of the boyfriends with whom she has lived to provide an attorney if you retain one. Also, obtain an affidavit from your mother in law ASAP before she flips on you. Also, be wary of the mother-in-law who might be able to petition for custody herself if you are not fit for primary custody. However, what concerns me is that you …
/r/MensRights21/07/16 05:34 PM
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I had a client awarded primary physical custody of his twin boys. It was a very expensive endeavor in the "short" two year term. Basically, she won temporary primary custody pending the final divorce, and he was awarded temporary visitation, which he exercised religiously, notwithstanding his position as an Infantry Officer in the US Army. That was key. Also, he was able to show that she was bringing strange men into the home who stayed overnight against the directive of the judge and guardian a…
/r/MensRights14/07/16 03:09 PM
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This guy needs to stay in the relationship for about three months and record the abuse using a voice recorder app on his smartphone. While recording, he needs to threaten to see a divorce lawyer or discuss the possibility of getting a divorce. And he needs to allow her to talk. If he suffers injuries, then he needs to take pictures of them. He needs to put a keystroke recording software on his the home computer if she uses it to search the internet. Once he has about four or five good recordings…
/r/MensRights20/06/16 06:26 PM
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Call me at 706-256-5257. I am a military attorney who has dealt with divorce and false allegations of sexual abuse. I can tell you what you are looking at and give you advice on what to look out for in hiring an attorney.
/r/MensRights09/06/16 07:36 PM
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Oh, and the IFC is doing the same thing as the military did. They have acquiesced to the victim advocate industry and apologized, thereby giving them a foothold. It is only a matter of time when they become indoctrinated into the notion that a woman should be believed, no matter how absurd her allegation, 1 drink=lack of consent, and false allegations rarely occur.
/r/MensRights09/05/16 03:24 PM
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Why is it that the victim grievance industry comes out against any attempts by men or conservative women to prevent sexual assault? Make a product that prevents sexual assault? Victim blamer! Make a recommendation that helps women to not become victims? Victim blamer! Simply state that you are stand with survivors and stand against sexual violence? You are insensitive! There is an irrational need for victim advocate lobby to control the message, which decries anything that attempts to prevent se…
/r/MensRights09/05/16 03:20 PM
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Yes, women get combat pay when deployed. When I was in Desert Storm, we jumped FOB's at least 8 times, which required us to break down and set up our GP medium tents. We had one female in our platoon. She didn't do a whole lot of the heavy lifting. Nateybobo makes a good point regarding PT standards, as well.
/r/MensRights05/05/16 07:05 PM
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I think this is great advice. Of course, I'm a criminal defense attorney who practices in Florida, Georgia, and in US Courts-martial worldwide. Don't forget to set aside $50k to pay your attorney for the next false allegation.
/r/MensRights27/04/16 04:26 PM
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Read Proverbs 5 and Proverbs 31 and ask yourself which type of woman you want. Then, consider all the pitfalls that "getting laid" presents today: (1) STD's like HPV, the clap, herpes, or HIV; (2) an unplanned pregnancy, 18 years of support, and a lifetime connection with a woman you barely know who very well might have a Borderline Personality Disorder; or (3) a false allegation of abuse. So, how do you go about being with a woman again after this? Hold yourself out for the right one; don't mee…
/r/MensRights27/04/16 04:22 PM
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Absolutely true. She sounds like she might have a BPD. These types of girls know 100% that he isn't going to hit her and these predators search for men like this to abuse. Chris Rock spoke about this here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aVb6VHvCupw
/r/MensRights29/03/16 03:20 PM
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The Father was awarded $192k in legal fees and primary legal custody with the mother getting visitation every other week. Sounds like he was the winner, notwithstanding the Judge's statements lambasting both parties. I suppose rather than fight for mere visitation with his daughter unfettered by Wife's meddling, he should have just extricated himself from his daughter's life and dealt with it when she turned 18, hoping that the absence of her father doesn't screw with her mind so much that her l…
/r/MensRights18/03/16 03:15 PM
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Sounds like many of my clients' wives.
/r/MensRights08/03/16 10:19 PM
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If you are in a one party consent state for recording conversations, then ask to meet with her to discuss the terms of your separation. Record the conversation. Discuss how abusive she is. If she threatens to tell the cops you abused her, then tell her that she knows that is not true. Hopefully her response will be "I know, but who do you think they'll believe?" Start making a list of her mental health providers, if she has any. You will need to petition the court to access these records, which …
/r/MensRights29/02/16 06:48 PM
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Thanks for this. Maybe that detective wasn't so dumb, and I'm not as smart, as I thought. I'd never heard of chimera.
/r/MensRights12/02/16 09:49 PM
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Histeralogic=feminist logic based purely on emotion, with an utter lack of reason or accountability. Accountafemity=lack of accountability for your actions because you are a female. Fequality=Feminist's notion of equality, which is largely based on histeralogic. Using Histeralogic, an example of Fequality is the notion that women should be allowed permitted into Ranger School, but should not have to register for the selective service, or have the same Physical fitness standards as men. Or, that …
/r/MensRights11/02/16 07:12 PM
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Below are some good tips I give to Servicemen, but they are also applicable to College life. I guess I could add, "If a woman wants you to act like a woman to text the man she's crushing on to gather information about her, then you should probably distance yourself from her because she has fabricated and is really the man you are texting while you are acting like the girl to get the made up man to she fabric...... **head just exploded** 1. Practice abstinence until marriage. In addition to minim…
/r/MensRights10/02/16 06:59 PM
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You know what they do to those who have been convicted of child molestation in prison, don't you?
/r/MensRights02/02/16 04:18 PM
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In what state does the daughter reside? If it is a one party consent state like Georgia, and not a two party consent state like Florida, then why don't you talk to the daughter while you have your phone on some sort of voice recorder app and talk about her false allegation while surreptitiously recording her answers. Once you have a clear admission that she fabricated the sexual assault, then take the recording to your uncle's attorney, so he can file a motion for a new trial. Ask her why she ma…
/r/MensRights02/02/16 04:16 PM
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I'm okay with this. Ever see an auto mechanic's pricing list?
/r/MensRights01/02/16 04:37 PM
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Kirby Dick and Amy Zierning also were responsible for a similar film about the military "An Invisible War." One of the actresses.....I mean "victims,".......in this film was Ariana Klay who claims that she was raped and the military did little about it. Except that the military prosecuted the man she accused at a General Court Martial where Klay testified. Read the transcripts of her testimony and tell me if she is really a victim. http://farajlaw.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/Klay-s-Trial-Test…
/r/MensRights20/01/16 04:09 PM
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No, the title of this post is my personal opinion as a former prosecutor.
/r/MensRights20/01/16 03:03 PM
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I agree that false allegations are sometimes difficult to prove. But, in this particular case, Banks had a recorded statement where the complaining witness admitted there was no rape or kidnapping.
/r/MensRights20/01/16 03:02 PM
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Mr. Harlan did not write this article. I did. I'm Barney Greenwald.
/r/MensRights19/01/16 10:02 PM
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I believe she sued Los Angeles County for failing to protect her.
/r/MensRights19/01/16 10:01 PM
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Many feminists are confounded when a defense attorney asks the complaining witness, "What were you wearing that evening?" They say that the attorney might be implying by that question that the complaining witness was asking to be raped because of the way they were raped. Only an idiot would make such an argument. However, many times the complaining witness in a consent case where there is a clear motive to fabricate says that the accused held her down with one hand and took her pants off with th…
/r/MensRights19/01/16 07:17 PM
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Voice recorder app. Record every abusive argument, threats made, and confront any threats to make false allegations. Don't let her know about recordings. File for divorce. Give recordings to barrister after he deposed her and gets her to deny the things under oath that occurred on the recordings.
/r/MensRights17/01/16 04:12 AM
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I've noticed that when a woman complains about how she was abused by her ex boyfriends, then that is a big yellow light indicating you should proceed with caution into the intersection of your lives with a relationship.
/r/MensRights17/01/16 03:53 AM
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