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LogisticsKylearean/r/seduction13/05/25 06:03 PM
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1

agree, but "by the right guy". Just have to be the right guy.
/r/seduction28/07/26 01:40 AM
4

he best dates she’s ever had Why would she jeopardize good dates for bad sex? Don't take her on good dates, take her on exciting dates -- where you're feeding her emotional needs and matching that with physical affection.
/r/seduction18/07/26 08:06 PM
17

The criteria is that you're escalating and things are progressing. Sometimes it takes a few more. Keep escalating respectfully and she'll feel more comfortable.
/r/seduction18/07/26 06:11 PM
5

Almost every single woman I ever hooked up with asked me the same question, "you probably do this with all the girls" and "are you one of those pick up artists?" But they still slept with me. I firmly believe that a woman wants to be with a man who has a lot of sexual currency.
/r/seduction17/07/26 08:37 PM
10

Your jedi mind tricks don't work on me.
/r/seduction16/07/26 02:05 PM
11

Is it possible to learn this power?
/r/seduction16/07/26 12:17 PM
2

Agree: LA/SF is easy mode. If you can't get laid in LA, you're doing something very wrong.
/r/seduction15/07/26 10:46 PM
14

get off the apps first of all. Put yourself into as many volunteer situations as possible -- especially involving animals. If you volunteer at an animal shelter or a hospital, you'll meet a lot of women. Join some of the singles-oriented meetups: "cooking classes" "dance classes" etc. Talk to people in public: day game works best between 4 pm and dusk. Find those little boutiquey areas where women like to shop and drink mimosas or whatever. We have an "old town" area where there is about 10:1 fe…
/r/seduction14/07/26 04:47 PM
1

she walked me all the way to my metro stop You're good. Next time she walks with you, escalate a little. See how she reacts.
/r/seduction14/07/26 02:08 AM
1

It's on them if they don't tell you.
/r/seduction12/07/26 11:32 PM
1

I used to be like you, but in two cases their affairs with me led to their divorce. I have a buddy who was hooking up with a married woman, and her husband killed himself when he found out. Now I don't fuck around with people's investments. If they're single or clearly separated, no problem.
/r/seduction12/07/26 03:20 PM
2

"hey, I want to show you something on my phone, but the passcode is your digits, so go ahead and put those in for me." Seriously, just talk to her. She knows what she's doing, she's seeing who is man enough to step up and take what she's offering. "Hey, I know a place we can hang for a bit. You ready?"
/r/seduction12/07/26 02:39 PM
3

ah, my mistake. Always shoot your shot. If you don't, you end up on reddit posting about whether or not you should've shot your shot.
/r/seduction12/07/26 02:35 PM
2

Maybe she's Canadian?
/r/seduction12/07/26 02:28 PM
2

I'm married. I got out of the game because it got too easy. I had everything nailed, easily fucking 5-6 different women per week, and ... it was just a hollow victory. A couple of the woman were genuinely awesome and easily could've been marriage material, but I kept rolling the dice. Like me, I think a lot of guys don't understand what The Game is. It's not you vs. them, it's you vs. you. The Game is designed to trick you into becoming the best version of you possible -- "selfmaxxing". "if you …
/r/seduction12/07/26 01:51 PM
2

There's a lot of "bitch shield" techniques out there. Typically use the same methods as you would for AMOG or male cock-blockers. The easiest is wingman. Wingman comes and pulls the bitch shield, but sometimes this fails because bitch shield is often secretly in love with the woman you're trying to pull. The second is befriend the bitch shield. Buy them a drink, flirt with them a little bit, basically get them on your side. This is risky because it takes the attention away from your interest. Th…
/r/seduction11/07/26 03:06 PM
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All of the modern day game "Rizz" videos I see now are SUPER fucking weak. The women's responses to their weak attempts validate this too. These looksmaxxers are simply trying to get girls on looks alone, and have zero actual game. "Hey hey hey can I get ur insta?" "No? Aw, okay!" walks back toward the camera all forlorn. Soymaxxing.
/r/seduction09/07/26 03:16 PM
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I fully agree with this. Don't waste your time on women who aren't able and ready to meet up. This skips all of the validation seeking women and gets straight to the ones who actually want to meet someone and are courageous enough to commit to giving out a number.
/r/seduction09/07/26 03:13 PM
1

The goal of this sub is to reach S-tier.
/r/seduction08/07/26 05:30 PM
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This is about right. As soon as she drops the energy level, I'll go from daily communication to silence for a week or two. Sometimes, admittedly, I'll break first, but it's almost always her with the "hi" or just an emoji. Treat this like just another shit test. So when she says "everything okay?" (aka 'why aren't you chasing me?') I'll wait a couple of hours and respond "oh hey (name), I'm in the middle of a meeting, let me get back to you." I make her wait. Then the casual "glad to hear from y…
/r/seduction08/07/26 12:04 PM
9

I'm a guy. I'm married. If I got divorced today, I could hook up with 3 of my married co-workers tomorrow. They've made it clear that they're down to fuck any time... these are highly educated, successful women. I don't begrudge them for wanting to get laid. As a husband of a highly educated successful woman, I also realize she is probably attracted to other men. I'm comfortable with that. I know she's not stepping out though. Wanting to be desired and get plowed by someone you trust and value -…
/r/seduction08/07/26 11:47 AM
3

great question: always be escalating. try to meet up in person as much as possible, and keep the texting to a minimum. I usually only text to make plans or to tell them what our plans are. You can drop little things in the text to amp it up, like: asking her to "wear something stunning" or "You're going to love this place." Early stages (dates 1 - 3, language is "her" focused -- use "you" / "you're" more often, then you transition to "we"/"us" as the connection grows. The subtle shift in languag…
/r/seduction07/07/26 08:05 PM
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I'm a (former) professor and have heard from many ASU students who list their only wild party rivals as FSU (Florida State), however, FSU wins this battle. Apparently having year-round night-time warm weather is conducive to party school vibe. I've heard from FSU professors that the party culture there is so pervasive that it's literally engrained in the school ethos, and is generally seen as "part of the FSU experience". Administration does very little to curtail this. Kids coming to class hung…
/r/seduction07/07/26 02:26 PM
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thanks chatgpt.
/r/seduction04/07/26 04:04 PM
14

Women generally don't approach the same way that men do. They make themselves available to being approached. Smiling, eye contact, being close to you, striking up a random conversation, laughing at the smallest things, etc.
/r/seduction03/07/26 02:37 AM
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My girlfriend says that it's sexy as hell when I give a presentation / seminar. Confidence, social proof, deep voice, command of the audience, etc. She looks at me the same way when she's in the audience as she does when she's ready to get busy.
/r/seduction02/07/26 08:36 PM
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Then I shove my fingers right in your throbbing cooch. No warning at all. Just straight in.
/r/seduction01/07/26 09:42 PM
3

I brush back your hair a little, while making eye contact. "The way you look at me ... feels amazing."
/r/seduction01/07/26 09:37 PM
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You like that, don't you? ;)
/r/seduction01/07/26 09:28 PM
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social skills is just the ability to easily adapt to the situation and keep the frame or create new frames. Seduction is consistent escalation. It's the difference between friendzone and fuckzone.
/r/seduction01/07/26 06:35 PM
1

Inner game my friend.
/r/seduction25/06/26 08:39 PM
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I pass the easies as well. I'll go for a hot body but mid face, but the longer my spell, the more I drop standards.
/r/seduction25/06/26 06:20 PM
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If I were to get back into dating, I'd have the following main photo: holding a fish in the bathroom mirror selfie, shirtless, with a toilet in the background, mogging as hard as possible, with empty cans of coors light strewn on the floor. This would weed out most of the women I'm not interested in (i.e., those who are humorless, chasing clout, etc.) The other pictures would be the winner type photos. Candid interacting with a dog, sporty, dressed up, etc.
/r/seduction24/06/26 01:31 PM
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The most important skill is being able to identify the shit test. After that you must either agree and amplify, or go orthogonal. Here's an example shit test that I received a lot in the early days: Her: "You aren't one of those 'pick up artists' are you?" Me (agree and amplify): "Obviously, look how successful I am. I've got you already." This accomplishes a lot of things in a short amount of time. It almost always transitions to "Oh you have me do you?" (a playful frame). OR Me (orthogonal): "…
/r/seduction22/06/26 06:39 PM
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There have been times where I was out but 100% disinterested in running game (overwhelmed, just wanting to have a good time, etc.) This somehow generated more interest.
/r/seduction21/06/26 10:38 PM
4

2 sex events.
/r/seduction18/06/26 03:36 AM
1

Women respond to emotion. Being passionate about something is attractive. I told a random woman a story about a bee that I saved from drowning, and how it slowly was able to dry itself off and recover. She gave me her number just from that. I like to talk about romantic places I've been, you can always easily transition to this: "Wow this thing reminds me somehow of the time I was in Florence. It was during the fall, and leaves were raining down from the trees as I walked along some ancient path…
/r/seduction17/06/26 12:50 PM
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There's no magic bullet because everyone has different strengths. (1) how old are you? (2) where do you approach? (which country / city, locations you can easily visit such as malls, grocery stores, coffee shops, markets, etc.) (3) how do you present externally? (race, height, weight, clothing style, confidence style, smile a lot, etc.) (4) What type of women typically react well to you? Younger / older, ethnicity, chubby v. skinny, etc. (5) What's one thing you're passionate about?
/r/seduction17/06/26 12:21 PM
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Just in case anyone needs to hear this: The current batch of youtube/tiktok/reels/instagram "rizz" videos are intentionally weak / falling flat / cring to generate engagement. do not use these as guides to day game.
/r/seduction17/06/26 12:14 PM
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Agree and amplify. Same as it ever was. "Definitely, at least a thousand dates per week." Silly questions get silly answers.
/r/seduction16/06/26 05:12 PM
3

"had to get the first one out of the way."
/r/seduction16/06/26 02:20 PM
2

I appreciate that this was definitely not written by AI. I generally agree with your points.
/r/seduction14/06/26 11:43 PM
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keep texting to a minimum -- honestly, only use it to establish congruence and the next time you're meeting.
/r/seduction12/06/26 09:33 PM
0

probably 7-8 hours, I used to work on my dissertation there.
/r/seduction11/06/26 01:58 PM
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I was sitting at a Starbucks, a fairly nerdy guy carrying a paperback came in and started reading. Two women walked in, were chatting at a table. He walked up to one, said "hey, I thought you were cute, wondering if I could get your number." She was like "sure" A couple of hours later they came back to the same starbucks and had a little mini-date. He was doing everything right, kino, mirroring, dhv, etc. They ultimately left together. It was just so smooth and effortless, his technique was prac…
/r/seduction11/06/26 01:44 AM
1

then he's a homosexual man.
/r/seduction06/06/26 11:08 PM
14

Sounds like you're a professor of logic down at the science university.
/r/seduction06/06/26 02:32 PM
1

Correct advice from 30+ years of experience. You can find out at your risk.
/r/seduction02/06/26 01:12 AM
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too late. I learned this lesson the hard way many times. Never, ever, show emotional vulnerability in front of your girlfriend / wife.
/r/seduction01/06/26 10:23 PM
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Just like you'd talk to anyone anywhere. Start small, compliment choices "you have an awesome style!" and act as if you're going to keep walking. if she responds with more than one word, then you can say "I saw something similar in Italy." etc. She can choose to engage or not. Either way, always make like you're sort of walking away, if she continues to engage, then you can engage in normal routine.
/r/seduction29/05/26 01:53 AM
8

My pilot friends are just swimming in it constantly: think about it, you're constantly traveling with 5-10 women, staying in hotels, working together under fairly stressful conditions -- it's the prefect setup. My urologist only hires the hottest nurses, so naturally he's having a great time as well. He's not a good looking dude, but they treat him like Hugh Hefner.
/r/seduction26/05/26 02:27 PM
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Numbers my guy. Run game on everyone all the time. It's like fishing. You might have the perfect rod, reel, and bait, just that the fish are in the wrong place or aren't biting that bait that day. You might come back the next day, same gear, same bait and land 2 or 3. Once you get used to reading the room, calibrating yourself, calibrating your approach, learning good opening topics, etc. -- this all comes from experience. Also, not being offended when you're rejected is super important -- getti…
/r/seduction21/05/26 10:31 PM
2

If you can manage both at once, that's the most intimiate.
/r/seduction21/05/26 03:32 PM
1

👍
/r/seduction20/05/26 11:11 PM
10

Easy rule to follow: Compliment choices and values, not appearance. They know their own appearance is fake and subject to change at any moment, so don't compliment the "bait".
/r/seduction20/05/26 10:52 PM
5

women are more open to casual sex Pro-tip: they always have been, just varying degrees of social stigma.
/r/seduction20/05/26 01:25 AM
2

women seek emotionally fulfilling experiences, it can't just be "fun".
/r/seduction20/05/26 01:24 AM
5

Same here, major turn on to give my women pleasure.
/r/seduction19/05/26 10:53 PM
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most of them absolutely suck to date. 100% this. Pillow princesses all the way. Fucked up sense of entitlement. Will always claim that guys never approach her, when in fact she doesn't see any of them as men.
/r/seduction18/05/26 06:02 PM
2

Seems like a super smart dude.
/r/seduction17/05/26 05:00 PM
1

You could be like "you have a face."
/r/seduction17/05/26 04:27 PM
3

Always felt like their stuff was pretty ridiculous.
/r/seduction13/05/26 09:05 PM
1

Are you asking? You lowkey have to ask.
/r/seduction13/05/26 02:38 AM
3

You have to follow up the same day when you have a quick interaction (< 15 minutes). Keep it short. If you had a longer interaction (> 30 minutes) and you built up some attraction and early markers (her giving kino, etc.), then you can probably wait a full day. 2 days is too long.
/r/seduction12/05/26 06:17 PM
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winner winner chicken dinner OP needs to stop. drop. and roll.
/r/seduction11/05/26 04:38 PM
2

[For those of you new to this convo: OP is a virgin (nothing wrong with that), and they require recalibration.] OP: you're overthinking this. Sex is completely natural and normal, there's nothing wrong or unethical about being attracted to or wanting to have sex with a woman. The only "unethical" situation is when you coerce a woman into an encounter that's she's not comfortable with. Her being your friend or someone you've just met is irrelevant. Seduction isn't about coercion. It's about relea…
/r/seduction09/05/26 05:14 PM
1

No I'm just old
/r/seduction09/05/26 03:34 PM
1

Girls with headphones generally don't want to be approached. I'm not saying you shouldn't, but your odds are lower. I've seen girls take out their headphones as I got closer, to me that was an invitation.
/r/seduction09/05/26 02:35 PM
15

Fact: Girls like to walk and talk.
/r/seduction09/05/26 03:36 AM
1

When I "mastered" the game, I could have sex with a different woman every night of the week. It was trivial. At first I felt like a god. I knew exactly what to say, how to escalate, how to close... it was so easy. It's like when you play a hard game, but find the cheat codes, so your victories seem hollow, and there's nothing to show except for a string of meaningless sex from women that you didn't even remember their names most of the time. So I quit completely, settled down, got married, had k…
/r/seduction09/05/26 12:45 AM
5

Being a tall white guy with curly hair is crack. I guess I was too common in Germany, everyone thought I was French, so that worked against me.
/r/seduction08/05/26 10:00 PM
8

I had a super hard time in Germany. Korea and Japan was shooting fish in a barrel.
/r/seduction08/05/26 09:51 PM
25

Hiking clubs are ideal.
/r/seduction08/05/26 09:47 PM
4

If you're single, and both adults, I don't see a problem.
/r/seduction08/05/26 09:46 PM
4

Never approach women who are working. It's disrespectful, and they are being paid to be nice to you. Think of it like female streamers: they would never ever date someone who pays for their content.
/r/seduction06/05/26 12:31 AM
10

cool story bro. It doesn't add up in reality.
/r/seduction05/05/26 12:50 AM
8

I find the golden time is between 4pm and just after dark. I've had some of the best interactions during this time. Morning seems awful for day game.
/r/seduction04/05/26 11:09 PM
1

To thine own self be true.
/r/seduction04/05/26 10:09 PM
1

Just be natural. Casually ask if she wants to play pool.
/r/seduction03/05/26 12:36 AM
1

This is definitely a you problem: three out of four numbers I was able to convert to at least a date. The method was to just simply be direct and add a little bit of urgency, and make it seem somewhat spontaneous. "I'm going out of town this weekend but I wanted to catch up with you before I go out, we can meet up for two drinks this evening."
/r/seduction01/05/26 07:38 PM
1

It's less about standards, and more about social pressure.
/r/seduction29/04/26 04:59 PM
6

you love your cousin Found the Arkansan
/r/seduction29/04/26 11:31 AM
2

Move to a more traditional country for a year.
/r/seduction28/04/26 11:43 AM
12

you can't seem too eager. I know it feels like all of the pieces are falling in to place. Something similar happened to me: girl kept asking me to hang out, but it felt like there was this platonic wall. the 4th time we went on a picnic and found a secluded spot in the woods. had a great time just chatting and being close to each other, she would playfully punch me and she didn't pull back when I got something out of her hair, etc. But when I tried to hold her hand she'd always pull back, but di…
/r/seduction25/04/26 02:57 PM
6

Learned not to be emotionally vulnerable with women.
/r/seduction23/04/26 03:31 PM
13

Korean woman I met in Seoul. We were spooning on the first night, and she started grinding against me, when I slid it in, her back arched involuntarily and she just let out the most primal sound. She had an orgasm within minutes, and for whatever reason, I was in full stamina mode and just kept going. She came so many times that night, and I managed to keep it together for a few hours (which is exceptionally unusual for me). We met a few weeks later when I was in Tokyo, she spent $800 to come se…
/r/seduction21/04/26 01:07 PM
3

There is no try, only do.
/r/seduction20/04/26 11:44 PM
1

you should only really be using text to initiate plans to meet or following up after a "date".
/r/seduction15/04/26 03:37 PM
1

Just run before school gets out, or in places that older women frequent. Golden hours for day game are, unfortunately, 5 pm to sundown. Conversation isn't illegal, but if it turns into "get her insta" territory, then you could say "you're over 18 right?"
/r/seduction07/04/26 03:09 PM
1

I second this. Offer to cook, bring everything necessary, make it as easy as possible for her.
/r/seduction27/03/26 09:55 PM
1

"Those are rookie numbers, you gotta get those numbers up."
/r/seduction24/03/26 12:39 PM
1

no, it's more like "random phone number texting me some bullshit like 'hey, wut r u doin?' " Instead of a normal person: "Hi, it's Scarlett from the club."
/r/seduction13/03/26 04:11 AM
1

I agree with the general notion here that he's a "passport bro". More generally your question should be are there any field reports with video that have good examples of technique, body language, dress, -- "outer game". I would argue that if your inner game isn't solid, that's what you should work on most.
/r/seduction11/03/26 01:41 PM
3

You're not wrong, there's just that this sub is basically over-run with women and white knights at this point.
/r/seduction10/03/26 08:50 PM
3

Validation, she wants to feel like she's still got game. You might casually reach out: "Hey, something reminded me of our conversation, so I thought I'd look you up. Hope all is well with you." Make sure to mention a specific/memorable thing that you conversed about.
/r/seduction10/03/26 08:24 PM
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It's a tough call, to be completely honest. Most girls I ended up dating (and eventually marrying) had boyfriends at the time, but they were well on their way out of those relationships. I wasn't looking to be a homewrecker, and I never initiated on women who I knew to be in a relationship. If they pursued me, that's on them.
/r/seduction10/03/26 06:29 PM
1

Read as much as you can about inner game. Getting your internal mindset right is the very first priority.
/r/seduction07/03/26 02:53 PM
-10

If I'm breaking up with somebody, decency doesn't really have much concern in my decision-making process.
/r/seduction05/03/26 05:18 PM
-1

You're the one triggered and ranting. shrug
/r/seduction05/03/26 04:04 PM
-2

Why shouldn't you? I mean if you're on your way out, you probably want to have some options. No point in going dry for weeks...
/r/seduction05/03/26 03:13 PM
4

Not the person you were replying to, but you should definitely have some options in the background if you know you're going to break up with someone soon and aren't going to be heartbroken.
/r/seduction05/03/26 02:44 PM
1

These "right women" are so rare, that one should not take that risk.
/r/seduction04/03/26 03:16 PM
1

even the hottest guy won't have a 100% success rate. 1/4 of any given time, women are on their period, and they generally won't be receptive to any approaches. 3/4 or more of attractive women in the typical age range are in a relationship, and probably unwilling or unable to leave that relationship for any man. So out of 100 women approached, only about 20 are going to be even theoretically receptive to cold approaches. I'm not talking about getting flirty looks, you can find lots of videos onli…
/r/seduction02/03/26 05:55 PM
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There's a theory that seems to have some support: Are T. gondii-Infected Humans Attracted to Each Other? This is a more speculative but genuinely theorized area: Flegr's work also documented that infected men tend to rate themselves as less attractive but are sometimes rated more attractive by others — showing subtle personality and behavioral shifts (increased testosterone, slightly more risk-taking, less rule-bound behavior) that could affect mate choice signals. Infected women show a somewhat…
/r/seduction02/03/26 05:27 PM
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I've never heard it like that, but the fundamental concept is to not place her on a pedestal. Most women don't want to be treated like a princess, and it feels weird and artificial for a guy to treat them in a supplicating way. Or they'll see it as permission to walk all over you. How many times have you seen the hottie with a skinny bitch ass guy and she's inviting attention from all around while he weakly tries to fend off approaches or stands back as she's constantly hit on. He's her bitch. T…
/r/seduction02/03/26 04:58 PM
2

Been there too. It was fun at first, you feel like you've cracked the secret code that was so elusive for so long, but then you realize it's a hollow victory. Fucking 5 different girls per week isn't winning anything. Chances are that you're going to burn right through "the one" because this train doesn't slow down easily.
/r/seduction24/02/26 11:36 PM
1

wingmen: distracting the bitch shield, social proof, someone to pump you up, etc.
/r/seduction24/02/26 11:15 PM
1

We're taking about where to meet people in public... this is a public place. You're allowed to go to hotel bars... they're open to the public.
/r/seduction19/02/26 08:48 PM
1

Any reason, it's a hotel bar. Most convention goers hang out there in the evening to unwind.
/r/seduction19/02/26 07:28 PM
1

This might be controversial, but I have taken advantage of this: find the hotel in your area that has a nice bar/lounge, look at upcoming conferences that are being held at that hotel particularly nursing or human resources related conferences, and then just go hang out at the bar. It's shooting fish in a barrel.
/r/seduction19/02/26 12:53 PM
1

Animal shelter, hospital, political, cleanup, hiking, etc.
/r/seduction19/02/26 12:51 PM
2

Often it's the male teacher who is just running a pipeline....
/r/seduction19/02/26 12:50 PM
3

It's the after-class chit chat that is where you make the connections.
/r/seduction19/02/26 12:49 PM
1

roll with it. don't let your insecurities get the best of you. this time be more intimate and spend time with her.
/r/seduction18/02/26 03:34 PM
3

I know a guy who lowkey does really well with the following method. This is a chubby half-black guy who is a 6 or 7, kinda dorky. He shows up, and immediately strikes up a conversation with anyone nearby. He usually seeks out people who are sitting alone parks next to them and starts making comments about things sort of randomly, will chat with the bartender, will ask a simple question to the people next to him etc. Within 15 minutes they'll be in this full blown conversation about some random a…
/r/seduction18/02/26 03:10 PM
1

As someone who married a Chinese woman, I found this hilarious.
/r/seduction15/02/26 06:45 PM
5

Probably Mono
/r/seduction13/02/26 03:02 AM
7

Jealous. Had a great time in Brazil. Be playful, teasing, push/pull, confident, and flirty. Brooding = boring to Brazilian women. Dress nicer than the occasion calls for.
/r/seduction13/02/26 03:01 AM
50

Not at all. In fact, in my 40s I had far more interest from 20-somethings than any other time in my life.
/r/seduction12/02/26 02:18 PM
1

daily texting? that's just supplication. you shouldn't be making meetup plans more than a few days out anyway.
/r/seduction11/02/26 01:55 AM
1

Tough situation bro, so don't overdo it on the textbased contact. A few days or even a week go by before contact. There's no such thing as text game. Your only goal is to be able to meet her in person and spend time with her.
/r/seduction10/02/26 02:10 AM
6

This is a standard compliance test. I'm sure she's slept with guys within 45 minutes of meeting them. She wants you to qualify yourself. Don't fall for it. Leave the ball in her court. Mindset: "You have a fun, fulfilling life, and you're a busy person. It's almost a mild annoyance to have to deal with her." By the way, never ask for formal "dates". This sets up a whole slew of expectations and social norms that you can't possibly manage, nor would you want to. Your goal is to be different from …
/r/seduction09/02/26 07:18 PM
3

at the peak, 6. It was impossible. I was forgetting important details, like who had parents alive, who had brothers/sisters, etc. That lasted about 2 weeks. I was rotating them based on the day of the week. It was awful. I felt like I was "winning" and losing at the same time. One or two kind of sorted out what was happening and fell off naturally, the others I had to break off or slow rolled. I never lied, if they asked if I was seeing other women, I'd say "yes, and I expect that you're seeing …
/r/seduction09/02/26 04:29 PM
66

You haven't met yet. It's not a win.
/r/seduction09/02/26 12:12 AM
2

Hence my comment...
/r/seduction05/02/26 07:15 PM
17

I fully encourage you to approach early and often. Get shutdown hundreds of times. You'll start to see what works and what doesn't work for you.
/r/seduction05/02/26 07:06 PM
1

Everyone gets rejected even the "hottest guy" is not going to be hot to every girl.
/r/seduction30/01/26 12:52 AM
1

Why waste your time?
/r/seduction27/01/26 02:47 PM
3

There's a fine line between flirting and being a pest -- you really have to calibrate and adjust.
/r/seduction26/01/26 09:33 PM
2

I would add "being genuine" to this. It's different enough from sincerity that it deserves to be called out.
/r/seduction22/01/26 11:19 PM
1

White Guy here: I had an incredibly difficult time with Hispanic women. Like 1 out of 50, in spite of a 33% population, whereas I slayed with Korean women (but not SE Asians...) It's all about taste and style. Even the most attractive guy can't pull every woman.
/r/seduction20/01/26 11:33 PM
3

You're at the very beginning of a transformative journey.
/r/seduction12/01/26 07:01 PM
10

I feel like, as a community, we should be past this type of PUA-babble.
/r/seduction12/01/26 04:34 PM
2

Be wary of scams/robbery setups. Start in public, arrange to meet near a coffee place, then "spur of the moment" decide to stop by that coffee place and get to know her a bit. If she's checking her phone a lot, or sending messages, leave. If she tries to control the interaction in any meaningful way in terms of location or being at a certain place at a certain time, leave. Don't bring anything with you're not afraid of losing. Ask for a quick video chat for a vibe check. Keep it short and flirty…
/r/seduction09/01/26 05:42 AM
8

Depends on the reason for the gas. Beano might do the trick.
/r/seduction08/01/26 02:51 PM
0

Go to hotel bar at 5:45. Drink 1 beer. Bring a book. Something like The Alchemist, but not 50 Shades. 6:00, cute brunette walks in, sits at the bar. Give her a quick smile, go back to your book. Make note of what she ordered. She will 100% look at what book you're reading. 6:10, blonde walks in. Brunette will WATCH YOU to see if you're chasing tail or are discerning. Don't look at the blonde at all. 6:30: order a drink for the Brunette (a variation on what she ordered). Raise your glass in a toa…
/r/seduction05/01/26 04:35 PM
6

I've never had a problem. Hotel bars around 6-7 pm are like shooting fish in a barrel.
/r/seduction03/01/26 11:48 PM
2

I literally had the flu, fever, cough, etc. girl calls me up to come over. "Uh, i feel awful, fever, cough, etc." Her:"no problem, i'll bring you some soup." Me, liking soup: "okay, i'll wear a mask. Thanks!" She shows up with no soup, but immediately starts making out with me. We fuck as well as I can manage and she stays overnight to take care of me. We had sex 3 times while I felt like I was dying. I lasted longer than usual, so she had a great time ... AND... never got sick. I'm still not su…
/r/seduction23/12/25 08:37 PM
6

One of us.
/r/seduction23/12/25 08:34 PM
7

What does being super wealthy have anything to do with it? Do you think she's going to walk through his entire house, bedroom, and bathroom only to realize he doesn't have a liner, and then be like "oh this guy is super wealthy".
/r/seduction22/12/25 10:46 PM
0

read about shit tests and come back.
/r/seduction22/12/25 10:35 PM
1

If he's willing to take a risk, he could agree and amplify, but you're right, he's probably blown it by now.
/r/seduction22/12/25 10:04 PM
9

After 30 years of fucking, I've managed to learn a few things. Good luck fellas.
/r/seduction22/12/25 08:30 PM
3

The whole point of this community is to bypass the waiting list, because if you do this correctly, you know there's always a table reserved for you.
/r/seduction22/12/25 08:24 PM
8

I used to troll ESL groups looking for "language partners". One of the girls called me out that I was just trying to hook up, put me on blast. I DM'd her saying she was right, but I thought it was great that she called me out. Good job looking out for the community. I asked her if I could come over and talk about it, she agreed. I went to her place and we were on each other right away. It was crazy. Rejections like this are usually shit tests. Personally, I don't tolerate shit tests, but if you …
/r/seduction22/12/25 08:23 PM
154

1) Clean sheets and blankets, a few different cozy blanket options. 2) 3-4 pillows of various types, feather, gel, cotton -- king/queen mushy pillows seem to be preferred. Pillows should be relatively new and clean, with pillowcases. 3) High thread count cotton sheets, don't get too satiny. Lighter colors tend to be more favored, but also show body fluid stains more easily. Avoid black. Have a mattress pad under the fitted sheet, and a flat sheet 4) the room should be tidy, with a clean / clear …
/r/seduction22/12/25 02:40 PM
1

Like a waiter or waitress, bartender, barista, these are all people who are being paid to be nice to you, you can't tell if they're actually interested in you or not, and generally you're going to be wrong if you think that they are.
/r/seduction20/12/25 01:53 PM
1

I only have two extreme rules: (1) never hit on someone who is being paid to be nice to you. (2) never date a co-worker. I feel like this reciprocation rule is a bit extreme.
/r/seduction19/12/25 02:55 PM
1

I normally don't shit where I eat, but this is lunch walking right up to you saying "eat me". Be casual: "Hey, there's a great little spot that I like downtown, care to join me this evening?"
/r/seduction19/12/25 01:56 PM
8

Yea, that's something you learn quickly in the game. Most guys overthink and self-disqualify too much.
/r/seduction19/12/25 12:53 PM
4

read about "AMOG destroyer". My technique was basically one of two: (1) Befriend or "Brofriend" (2) Lead them into the Tool Trap The first person to lose their cool in such a situation has lost the girl, period. The Befriending method works well on sociable guys. Introduce yourself confidently, introduce your date. -- "what's your name?" This gets him into a compliance frame. At this point you can buy a drink, or ask him about himself. Tool Trap is when you know the guy is already a douche canoe…
/r/seduction18/12/25 06:57 PM
1

Git down, turn around, go to town...
/r/seduction18/12/25 12:08 PM
-2

You should definitely have orders of magnitude more L's than W's unless you're a 10, but you wouldn't be here if you were. For regular guys, it's a numbers game. Here's a rough approximation: 4's have a 1 in 100,000 chance of getting a date with someone you're attracted to. 5's have a 1 in 10,000 chance 6's have a 1 in 1,000 chance 7's have a 1 in 100 chance 8's have a 1 in 10 chance. 9's have a 1 in 2 chance. 10's have a 100% chance of getting a date anytime they want. This includes all approac…
/r/seduction17/12/25 02:55 AM
1

fastest from 0 to fuck was < 30 minutes. Sitting at a hotel bar (shooting fish in a barrel, btw), a blonde was parked 2 seats over. Bartender comes up, "what'll ya have?" Me, "I'll have the blonde." (referring to the Guinness Blonde). Without missing a beat she said with a smile: "I'm a blonde." We chatted for a bit, she asked if I had ever been in love, and told me to "lean in". We kissed, she left a $50 on the bar and said "let's go." took me to her room, used me multiple times, and politely k…
/r/seduction16/12/25 03:54 PM
0

Don't.
/r/seduction02/12/25 01:10 AM
1

Best sex I ever had was with a mid woman. You never know what you're going to get. Hot girls tend to be pillow princesses anyway.
/r/seduction29/11/25 06:13 PM
28

Move to the Philippines: you'll be shacked up with a 20 year old cutie within a month. However, you're also expected to support her family.
/r/seduction23/11/25 01:08 PM
1

I agree, she must find you reasonably attractive, charming, or cute -- these are much better conveyed in person. Apps are a waste of time for most guys. Approaching in person is by far better for your growth as a man (e.g., improving inner / outer game) than wasting time on apps.
/r/seduction19/11/25 02:48 PM
0

Why do you keep qualifying yourself to me?
/r/seduction18/11/25 11:21 PM
0

Cool story.
/r/seduction18/11/25 11:15 PM
2

You're operating on the flawed assumption that all women are on apps or are engaged in the internet lifestyle. Touch grass.
/r/seduction18/11/25 11:10 PM
2

I've found that 80% of the difficulty in Apps is actually getting them to meet you in person, once that happens, your odds increase dramatically. That's why approaching (indirect/direct) is so useful -- you're bypassing that resistance to meet automatically.
/r/seduction18/11/25 10:23 PM
3

The Apps are just a disaster zone. Every woman is looking for that top 1% man. Whereas guys are like "that'll do" we're not nearly as picky when it comes to the same criteria that women use. If you're not in that top 1%, you're not going to do well on the apps. Real life is so much easier.
/r/seduction18/11/25 07:33 PM
3

To a certain extent, but for game, nothing beats going out and talking to people, improving yourself, and living a fulfilling life.
/r/seduction18/11/25 07:31 PM
1

Don't wait until it's someone you're attracted to. Rookie mistake. Learn how to communicate with everyone and build quick rapport. Exchanging numbers with someone should feel natural. You're still outcome dependent.
/r/seduction18/11/25 02:50 AM
1

You never know what kind of conversation you're walking into, and the female state of mind. Don't expect every cold approach to go your way. The vast majority won't. IMHO cold approaches at a bar/club are the hardest of all; and your lines are too cliche / overused. You should be practicing in book stores, kitschy areas of town ("old town"), etc. You need to be genuine and likeable and congenial. There's many resources on opening groups. In a social setting, you have to be more playful and less …
/r/seduction18/11/25 12:01 AM
12

When LinkedIn tries its hand at seduction... what a fucking waste.
/r/seduction13/11/25 02:26 PM
1

Field reports are the crucible in which men learn.
/r/seduction12/11/25 04:28 PM
2

It's super weird, don't do it. Seriously. Everyone is telling you this.
/r/seduction10/11/25 04:25 PM
2

don't do it. women find this incredibly creepy. they compartmentalize their lives very well, and do not like it when guys violate that compartmentalization.
/r/seduction10/11/25 04:25 PM
1

It really depends on how much of a pest you are. If you're respectful and chill, and aren't giving the ick or inducing discomfort, I doubt anyone will raise the alarm. I've seen a Starbucks regular get trespassed because he would talk to every attractive woman who came in. I expect that most gyms are the same.
/r/seduction07/11/25 05:02 PM
1

Of course. The whole point isn't about ONS, it's about improving yourself so that women want to be with you. I mean you can use it for ONS, but it doesn't need to be like that.
/r/seduction07/11/25 04:23 PM
1

Stay out of tourist areas. Stay off the apps. Check the package before delivery.
/r/seduction07/11/25 04:20 PM
2

Bears, beets, Battlestar Galactica
/r/seduction07/11/25 04:15 PM
19

This person constantly trolls college subreddits looking for college dudes to jerk off with. I suspect a gay dude catfishing for younger men. Search their username on google...
/r/seduction04/11/25 02:38 PM
2

Oh my fault, I could've sworn this post was originally about cold approaches only... weird.
/r/seduction29/10/25 02:29 AM
-8

Any city on the East Coast -- people are wary of cold approaches and strangers suddenly talking to them. Miami might be an exception, but you'd better be rich AND good looking. West Coast? No problem.
/r/seduction29/10/25 02:05 AM
2

Nice, Latinas were always so tough for me. The more you get rejected, the tougher you get. When I was 20, I remembered each and every rejection as if it were a grave injury to my soul. By the time I was 30, I'd forget about it within minutes, and wouldn't even classify most interactions as a rejection; just incompatibility or poor technique on my part. I shifted the interaction from "they rejected me" to "I rejected myself" -- if I couldn't open, pull, and close, there's no-one to blame but me.
/r/seduction27/10/25 01:45 PM
27

Not trying to start a religious discussion, but I believe it exists.
/r/seduction24/10/25 07:35 PM
2

Rekindle your passion for hobbies where single women might be present. Hiking clubs, cooking classes, dance classes, etc. Be genuinely interested in the class, and you'll meet other genuine people. OLD is a shitshow.
/r/seduction24/10/25 04:49 AM
1

catfishing
/r/seduction23/10/25 10:30 PM
3

Meeting up in a public / open space, and knowing where various things are nearby. Make it seem organic. "Hey, I heard about this ice cream place nearby." "Oh this place has good bubble tea." That way you're starting out and about, so it's not weird to move from one place to the next, and do a mini adventure. Always set a time limit on your first meetup to 30-45 minutes, that way there's a clear boundary and it establishes that you're a busy person.
/r/seduction23/10/25 08:56 PM
1

Sounds about right. Is this Oslo?
/r/seduction23/10/25 03:32 PM
3

How many of those 100 matches turn into dates?
/r/seduction23/10/25 02:41 PM
20

I don't. That's a no go zone. Unless she approaches and makes it abundantly clear, even then I'm just trying to get a workout in and don't want to be bothered. If things go sour, I have to find a new gym? Fuck that.
/r/seduction22/10/25 10:35 PM
88

Follow this rule: only use texting to make, confirm, and followup. There is literally no such thing as text game. Always be concise. Always be charming. Always be closing.
/r/seduction22/10/25 09:17 PM
1

I had zero game with culturally Hispanic and Scandinavian women, there was just some enigmatic thing I couldn't figure out. Did far better with Asians (Korea, Japan, India), and moderately well with non-Scandinavian Europeans, and North Africans. Had success with Iranian women, but that's easy mode in some ways. I never really approached any subsaharan african women or women of that descent.
/r/seduction22/10/25 02:32 AM
1

I agree with everything you said, completely valid concerns.
/r/seduction21/10/25 12:56 PM
3

From 16-23, I was in "nice guy" mode. I would be "nice" to every woman I was attracted to, thinking that "if I'm nice enough, they'll fall in love with me". Obviously this was completely wrong. Every woman is surrounded by "nice guys" who try to cajole women into liking them without being genuine. Most women see right through this thin ploy, and will keep you at a distance because they instinctively distrust your intentions. The only thing you actually need to master is being genuine. This isn't…
/r/seduction21/10/25 12:51 PM
2

I was the same way. I was adamant about condoms for piv sex, never did anal (although got more requests than expected), and rolled the dice on oral. Managed to avoid STDs, although a few infections, and got mono once.
/r/seduction21/10/25 12:35 PM
6

Are you trying to change this into a more serious relationship? If so, let her know. Chances are she's tired of the FWB thing, and might be willing to commit. It happens to most of us at some point. In a 2 year span I had over 100 partners (thanks to lessons learned on this sub and other forums), then I gave it all up for the woman I married. Now I'm just a suburban dad with 2 kids, and I couldn't be happier.
/r/seduction21/10/25 12:24 PM
1

yeah, hotel or car is your only real option. keep it lowkey at work, but slightly flirty. Don't pretend like nothing happened, just keep it under the radar.
/r/seduction20/10/25 07:41 PM
2

This is it, right here. Everyone should follow this precisely.
/r/seduction19/10/25 12:16 PM
4

With emojis this feels like AI generated content. It's not wrong, just feels less genuine.
/r/seduction17/10/25 12:22 PM
1

Blowjobs
/r/seduction15/10/25 07:11 PM
14

100% Being "nice" to get something is not nice, it's manipulative and desperate.
/r/seduction14/10/25 07:06 PM
2

I generally could only afford one night stand at a time. Didn't get two until marriage.
/r/seduction12/10/25 11:45 PM
0

👍 it doesn't hurt you at all. Worst case, you're still ghosted
/r/seduction11/10/25 12:31 AM
1

Don't chase. Here's a text that worked for me: "I'll take it from your silence that you're no longer interested in hanging out." It leaves the onus on them. This is a common sales tactic as well for eliciting a response.
/r/seduction10/10/25 06:39 PM
1

Fishermen sometimes go days without catching fish, but they continue to fish. Sometimes they'll catch a turtle, pet it and let it go.
/r/seduction07/10/25 08:20 PM
5

Was mildly annoyed by 3 blonde chicks walking toward me being loud and stupid, it must've been showing on my face because they said "oh, he must be gay!" "we're too hot for you anyway!"
/r/seduction06/10/25 09:27 PM
3

Cold approach requires you to understand (a) reading the room (b) calibration: yourself and your woman (c) confidence and carry-through. Sounds like you're just shutting yourself down, because you're not doing any of the above.
/r/seduction06/10/25 02:38 PM
1

You're right. If someone doesn't value your time, they're not worth it. Godspeed.
/r/seduction04/10/25 12:31 AM
7

this is a place for advice, don't be a dick.
/r/seduction29/09/25 03:16 PM
2

Yes, and then tell them to get it themselves.
/r/seduction27/09/25 10:37 PM
1

Stop ranking women. It's not objective, and is therefore useless to the task at hand.
/r/seduction27/09/25 07:07 PM
2

Some will say jawline, or brows -- but they really mean loose anus.
/r/seduction26/09/25 09:18 PM
1

Nailed it.
/r/seduction25/09/25 12:01 AM
2

It is 100% a numbers game, but you can tilt it in your favor.
/r/seduction24/09/25 11:40 PM
1

45 minutes was my record. Complete stranger at a hotel bar, made some small talk, she asks if I want to come up. And I did. I was young (25 ish), she wasn't (45 ish) -- didn't matter, she was hot and knew what she was doing.
/r/seduction21/09/25 05:18 AM
5

I will also add that hotel bars are a great option
/r/seduction19/09/25 11:31 PM
15

And low end: marshalls, TJ maxx, home goods on a weekday afternoon is the prime.
/r/seduction19/09/25 11:30 PM
1

Things that have got me seduced: (1) Sat at a hotel bar, ordering a beer: "I'll have the Blonde." (referring to a Guinness Blonde). Without missing a beat, a milf two seats down says "I'm a blonde." That was a fun night. (2) A girl telling me about her Lord of the Rings fan theory, she was passionate and really into the details. (3) Genuine compliments go a long way. (4) A woman sitting next to me on the plane, with subtle but intentional physical contact. Legs touching, her hand on her leg, but…
/r/seduction14/09/25 04:38 PM
1

Doesn't make it any less effective. Women have not changed biologically since then.
/r/seduction12/09/25 07:25 PM
1

Sure, but you don't want to get comfortable with that mode of communication. ABC
/r/seduction08/09/25 11:34 PM
1

The key point is to avoid small talk. Even if she's in interview mode, just say you'd prefer to get to know each other in person.
/r/seduction08/09/25 10:11 PM
1

Hey, it's kyle. Looking forward to meeting up soon!
/r/seduction08/09/25 09:33 PM
2

text should only be used to confirm plans. There's no such thing as text game. "Hey, picking you up at 9. See you soon!" "I'm heading over to the Navy Yards at 7, we should meet up. There's an awesome little Tapas place I think you'll enjoy." Never ask questions, unless absolutely necessary. They point is to never send something that has "no." as a potential response. Do not: "hey do you want to meet up?" That's weak. She's bringing feminine energy, you're expected to bring masculine energy. You…
/r/seduction08/09/25 08:55 PM
4

I think you're gonna have to explain more what performative meme is... I saw a guy kill it once in a coffee shop using only a book as his prop.
/r/seduction24/08/25 11:39 PM
0

Go all in. "Hey, let's get together tonight. There's a great spot near my place."
/r/seduction24/08/25 10:45 PM
4

Happy to see a field report
/r/seduction24/08/25 10:23 PM
1

For me it was either alcohol or "crashing at their place". One girl, I visited her town frequently and she offered for me to stay at her place. It was a small studio apartment, so I slept on the floor and she slept in her single bed nearby. The first few times it was strictly platonic, just chilling and no flirting at all. The 4th time, it was a bit cold in the room and she asked if I was cold. I said a bit, and she said you can get under the covers with me, which was hard to do on a single bed,…
/r/seduction20/08/25 07:24 PM
1

You'd better have a pretty face.
/r/seduction20/08/25 07:09 PM
62

I once got laid while (a) being broke AF, and (b) having the actual flu. I had a 103 fever, felt awful. She hits me up and I tell her the details. She offers to come over and make some soup for me. Comes over and she's just on me like instantly. I look like hell warmed over. She has a massive orgasm, falls asleep, and doesn't make me any soup. Sometimes women don't care about anything else, they just want to be fucked. So in that sense, we're not too different.
/r/seduction18/08/25 05:27 PM
41

During peak game, I had 5-6 on rotation throughout the week. It was exhausting. I couldn't keep track of each one's details, and i didn't even know some of their last names. It was unsustainable. Had to start dropping them, and because the sex was good, that caused all sorts of drama and clinginess. Some of them knew I was seeing other women, and didn't care. Some were trying to lock me down. After about 3 months of this type of behavior, I quit. I dropped all of them and went into hermit mode f…
/r/seduction17/08/25 03:22 PM
6

She was the GOAT back in the day
/r/seduction06/08/25 01:26 PM
6

When I was running game, I wouldn't really bother with 9s/10s - that's just trophy hunting. They're terrible in bed anyway.
/r/seduction06/08/25 01:26 PM
1

first come, first served.
/r/seduction05/08/25 03:21 PM
8

Yep. I had a friend once who was just fuming for weeks over a guy who said her shoes looked like stripper shoes. That's it, and she wouldn't shut up about it.
/r/seduction05/08/25 01:57 PM
5

The Golden Hour is really best. 5-7 pm.
/r/seduction03/08/25 07:37 AM
3

Search "AMOG destroyer" and "bitch shield removal"
/r/seduction31/07/25 10:10 PM
17

I love rolling other people's eyes.
/r/seduction31/07/25 10:06 PM
2

Not trying to be a dick, it's important to understand this as it's not a subtle point: https://medium.com/@dayvough/rule-1-be-attractive-rule-2-dont-be-unattractive-d7c934e62a3c
/r/seduction30/07/25 04:17 PM
1

yes, but it has nothing to do with looks. That's why Rule #2 exists. Rule #1 is about being attractive, but Rule #2 is for attractive people who act in ways that makes them unattractive. So many people have believed these to be statements of the same rule, which is why i mention it here.
/r/seduction30/07/25 04:11 PM
2

Rule #2 has nothing to do with looks, FYI.
/r/seduction30/07/25 03:58 PM
1

With zero sarcasm, I'd really like to know more about Twitter pickup.
/r/seduction30/07/25 01:35 PM
1

Finding conventions for such groups is like shooting fish in a barrel.
/r/seduction30/07/25 01:33 PM
13

Rule #1 and #2
/r/seduction29/07/25 09:37 PM
3

I fully accept your explanation prima facie. Clearly you're an authority in this area, as evidenced by your adherence to strict scientific and rigorous academic principles. Socrates himself would be like "bruh."
/r/seduction18/07/25 05:45 PM
29

Because I asked for evidence to support your assertion? If you were a psychologist, you'd recognize that it's a request borne from doubt. I now think you're lying about being a psychologist.
/r/seduction18/07/25 03:29 PM
65

You can't just swoop in, make a value judgement, and appeal to authority without additional justification. "Too much" just sounds like "I don't like it." Is there a peer-reviewed psychological study that supports your assertion?
/r/seduction18/07/25 02:03 PM
83

"Too much" is this standard psychological terminology?
/r/seduction18/07/25 01:20 PM
7

A lot of girls are into it if you're going to provide some substantial support. Showing up sloppy or lacking the daddy vibe, you're not going to do well.
/r/seduction11/07/25 09:51 PM
41

Sometimes that hits right.
/r/seduction10/07/25 12:45 AM
7

changing venues is the easiest. hand on the lower back, elbow, guiding across the street. sitting on barstools so your legs have to touch. the worst is sitting in a booth across a table.
/r/seduction01/07/25 07:33 PM
3

This is why the 3 second rule exists.
/r/seduction30/06/25 02:19 PM
1

Learn to build tension and escalate.
/r/seduction26/06/25 03:51 PM
1

Women can smell insecurity a mile away
/r/seduction25/06/25 10:57 PM
2

Exactly. You understand the story completely.
/r/seduction13/06/25 03:23 AM
69

Yes, but we miss 99% of them, guaranteed. Had a friend in graduate school, we'd go to lunch sometimes, we'd chat sometimes about class, etc., but I never really thought about her as ever more than a friend. One day towards the end of the semester she comes to me, sits me down and says: Her: "I can't be friends with you anymore." Me, shocked: "What... Why?" Her: "Because you obviously have feelings for me." Me, rewinding every interaction searching for the slightest ... Me: "I don't even think of…
/r/seduction12/06/25 01:17 PM
2

experience > charisma I speak from experience.
/r/seduction09/06/25 03:55 PM
2

When the staff is comfortable with you, it makes things less awkward.
/r/seduction08/06/25 06:07 PM
2

Ok. There's false boundaries and real ones. Body language, actual language, and experience will tell you which is which.
/r/seduction07/06/25 10:08 PM
11

classic LMR she wants you to push past her false boundaries. A clear "no" would be a real boundary. She wanted you to seduce her. I'd sit tight for a day or two. She'll contact you.
/r/seduction06/06/25 07:17 PM
2

So you're claiming to date women in their teens and early 20s as a 40+ year old man? Yeah, that's a pay-to-win situation for sure. Good luck.
/r/seduction06/06/25 06:52 PM
2

That's why I would never recommend dinner dates until you've met a few times and have established at least a baseline compatibility on values.
/r/seduction06/06/25 06:51 PM
7

For < $20 situations, I used to try to find a balance: "hey, you drove longer than me, so let me get this." For the first dinner date: if she's ordering the most expensive items and indulging, then I'm going to immediately recommend splitting. If she's being particular and not overly indulgent (i.e., somewhat frugal) or if she's open about saving money or being frugal, I'd usually pick up the tab or ask her to pay the tip. What does NOT sway me is: "my XYZ is so expensive!" type conversations ri…
/r/seduction06/06/25 05:56 PM
2

As someone who has "wrecked a home" -- don't ever go there. That guilt hits hard and stays with you.
/r/seduction06/06/25 05:48 PM
83

exactly, weeds out the "sex demanders" or "nice guys".
/r/seduction29/05/25 11:00 PM
7

my experience mirrored yours. It's a test. I'd always play it cool: "Yeah, definitely -- I'm not even looking for that right now." Then they always started to cozy up: "I feel comfortable with you." "I like your arm around me." "Are your lips soft?" etc.
/r/seduction29/05/25 10:59 PM
1

Don't.
/r/seduction26/05/25 07:10 PM
1

It could be a few things: interview mode leads to shitty conversations e.g., https://www.youtube.com/shorts/1CLGpc8TM7w
/r/seduction22/05/25 03:30 PM
-1

Infields are cold pickups. You can't force attraction, but you can put your thumb on the scale and tilt things in your favor. I'll give a few examples: (1) sitting at a hotel bar, a cute 30 something sitting one spot away from me. I tried to engage her in conversation, but she wasn't reciprocating. Two chinese guys walk up to the bar and try to order some beer, but they didn't speak English. So I ask the guys, in Chinese, what kind of beer they wanted, and explained to the bartender. I had a bri…
/r/seduction21/05/25 01:26 AM
5

Kenny Rogers had it right.
/r/seduction21/05/25 12:35 AM
1

sex
/r/seduction19/05/25 05:58 PM
1

He's someone I work with.
/r/seduction13/05/25 06:07 PM
1

Basically anywhere with a beach culture.
/r/seduction12/05/25 10:31 AM
1

Social proof is important if you're among strangers. No-one knows anything about you. That's why you establish yourself with the high value guys first. Game recognize game, and as long as there's enough to go around, most guys won't cockblock you or be the AMOG.
/r/seduction05/05/25 03:40 PM
2

Initially, yes -- the "tricks", but the trick was really to trick me into becoming a better person. I found that when I dressed better, was more sociable, more conversational, more assertive, and started working out a bit, I didn't NEED the "tricks". Just talk to people. After a while you get a sense of who is a good fit for you at the time.
/r/seduction02/05/25 01:03 AM
20

It'll probably work, but I'm not serious.
/r/seduction01/05/25 02:28 AM
31

Volunteer at widow-focused events. Offer to cut their grass, and do it with your shirt off. Ask for a drink of water. Look at the obituaries from last year.
/r/seduction01/05/25 12:35 AM
2

There's a few cavaets: (1) Clean / modern: Typically what one would wear to work. Non-offensive but not especially interesting. Screams: "Boyfriend material" (2) Stylish / fashionable: When you want that extra bit of attention. There's an old adage that every girl is crazy about a sharp-dressed man. Demonstrates value. (3) Peacocking: The Russell Brand -- you just go nuts with an assemblage of flashy things. Good for generating conversation and inviting a more casual interaction. It absolutely h…
/r/seduction30/04/25 05:06 PM
0

"Damn right, old enough to be your daddy tonight." Confidence is key, even if it's cheesy.
/r/seduction29/04/25 12:10 AM
3

Stop putting women on a pedestal. Stop ranking women. You've gotta get your inner game so dialed in that you stop seeing women as "10s" and start seeing them as equals.
/r/seduction28/04/25 02:21 PM
-3

are you a woman?
/r/seduction28/04/25 02:15 PM
0

You failed your first shit test. Next time own it and double down.
/r/seduction28/04/25 02:14 PM
31

To expand on this, eye contact can be creepy no matter how attractive you are -- so you have to smile.
/r/seduction28/04/25 01:59 PM
28

I agree with the top comment -- your goal is to IMPROVE YOURSELF, and women will be attracted to you naturally. You're planning to do the exact opposite of that.
/r/seduction27/04/25 01:56 PM
3

Doesn't matter much. Move from spot to spot, keep things dynamic. Keep talking and escalating kino.
/r/seduction23/04/25 11:22 PM
2

Lots of confidence and being authentic are the key traits. Zero hint of any insecurity, but not cocky. Think Steve Buscemi: He did well with his late wife and his current girlfriend.
/r/seduction23/04/25 10:37 PM
61

The concept of a woman "being out of my league". The hottest women rarely get hit on. They WANT you to have the confidence to approach them. The most beautiful women always tell me that guys are afraid to approach them. It's the ones who are solid "7"s that get hit on non-stop. A close second (and highly related) was inner and outer game. Dressing 1 notch above the occasion always did wonders for me. Inner game was improved by dressing well, grooming better, and talking to as many people as poss…
/r/seduction17/04/25 09:37 PM
1

Ok 👍🏻
/r/seduction16/04/25 01:38 AM
53

Never compliment appearance -- compliment choices and values.
/r/seduction15/04/25 10:32 PM
3

This is a common compliance test. They know what you want. What matters is how you answer the question. The best answer I've heard is "I'll know it when I see it." This reframes the situation a bit and challenges her a bit as well.
/r/seduction04/04/25 09:35 PM
15

No need to be a dick. They're just saying that gym pickup is not forbidden.
/r/seduction02/04/25 02:38 PM
1

Improve yourself first. Gym, dress, appearance, mind.
/r/seduction27/03/25 01:07 AM
0

Just to augment the top comment: always compliment on choices and values, not appearance.
/r/seduction22/01/25 07:39 PM
1

Depends. In a specific city/county subreddit where you can bond over a mutual interest? sure. A subreddit meetup is usually the dregs.
/r/seduction19/12/24 08:58 PM
1

Like most shit tests: agree and amplify.
/r/seduction25/11/24 01:51 PM
1

I'd just let them hang. What's the point of responding? Abundance mindset.
/r/seduction21/11/24 07:47 PM
2

Early: Open everyone. Pretty, ugly, young, old, men, women, workers, dogs, cats.... just get used to talking to people casually. I know a guy who does this so effortlessly, he immediately makes you feel like you're part of some little adventure that he's on.
/r/seduction20/11/24 12:36 PM
1

Typical "day game" behavior -- it's good practice, because the stakes are so low and you or the other person can eject at any moment. You're not stuck in a social situation where even if you got completely blown out, the whole scene wasn't ruined. Part of the discipline is to be able to strike up conversations with strangers casually. "I don't even know how we got on this topic!".
/r/seduction18/11/24 09:09 PM
2

Do not be vulnerable with women. Where did you ever get this idea? It never came from a man.
/r/seduction08/11/24 12:04 AM
16

Honestly, it's a waste of time, unless you like wasting time. Better to spend time with women your age and start building solid foundations toward meaningful relationships.
/r/seduction04/11/24 02:09 PM
2

"I'd challenge you to a battle of wits, but I won't go to battle with an unarmed opponent" -Michael Scott
/r/seduction02/11/24 05:35 PM
7

"Those are 4 measurements"
/r/seduction02/11/24 05:35 PM
6

As a former young man who almost made the same mistake, she revealed to me just prior to PiV that she had herpes -- so I stopped, dropped, and rolled. Got tested multiple times over the following weeks, negative, but never again did I try to fulfill any cougar fantasy.
/r/seduction31/10/24 06:24 PM
7

That means they're interested, but wary. Serial Killers have often been described as "charming".
/r/seduction22/10/24 08:49 PM
5

Yeah, that'd be an instant no from me. Ham hocks lol
/r/seduction22/10/24 03:01 PM
1

Spitting in each other's mouth is basically like moving in together though.
/r/seduction10/10/24 12:15 PM
2

The Underdark.
/r/seduction07/10/24 11:55 AM
2

I think it's also important to realize that a lot of women have no problem dating older men. I know many guys in their 40s/50s dating 20 years younger. It's more about security and resources than physical attraction.
/r/seduction30/09/24 03:54 PM
6

Just repeat it a few times, people like to hear someone say their own name.
/r/seduction27/09/24 11:35 PM
2

Take notes, seriously. I have forgotten names, mixed up names, forgotten which ones parents were dead, etc. I would also forget which stories I told or which funny things happened... it was just unsustainable to try to keep track of everything in my mind.
/r/seduction25/09/24 07:01 PM
1

Especially once the family gets involved. Best to keep it on the dl.
/r/seduction23/09/24 12:58 PM
-1

(Make sure you have 2fA on your venmo/zelle/cashapp.)
/r/seduction18/09/24 05:35 PM
1

Yes, but your inner game has to be pretty much perfect, and you'll need infinite confidence because you will be tested. Also riding that line between fuckable vs friendable is tricky, but that's about where you want to be.
/r/seduction18/09/24 12:23 PM
3

One thing I've learned is that there's still a decent amount of random chance in the game. There's no "one" technique, but I always found that I was doing best when I riding that edge between obvious player and assertive guy. Being genuine really helped a lot, because I would always get "you're not one of those players are you?" and my response, invariably, was "do I look like that kind of guy?". I wasn't peacocking, and I think that worked. Basically I always tried to be completely orthogonal t…
/r/seduction13/09/24 02:23 PM
1

My improvement came by accident. There were a couple of times where I was in a serious time crunch (due to travel) and I really wanted to close before I left, so I made it clear that I was only there for a day or 2, so this accelerated the timeline from start to close. I was more direct and physical than I normally would be. Then I realize that this was highly effective and used some variant of that from then on.
/r/seduction10/09/24 08:18 PM
6

ITT people are learning that seduction is 99% self improvement, and 1% technique. And it's true. The hardest part of seduction isn't approaching a 10, it's becoming someone a 10 would talk to.
/r/seduction08/09/24 01:00 PM
1

Everytime I was more aggressive than I felt comfortable with, it was successful. Be aggressive.
/r/seduction06/09/24 10:13 PM
8

The general correlation is that improving yourself improves your inner game. For most guys this is partially true, some more than others. If, however, your inner game isn't improving, being fit and good looking is only going to get you ghosted on a regular basis. The observation is that many self-esteem issues arise from body / appearance issues. Obviously this isn't true for every guy, some have esteem issues from previous relationships, religion, family issues, mental abilily, etc. So obviousl…
/r/seduction03/09/24 01:38 PM
6

You might just reach out via IG. "Hey, saw something that reminded me of you and it made me laugh. We should grab a coffee and catch up." Her: "lol. what was it?" You: "I'll tell you when we meet, it's a little silly." Now you have to come up with something, but it doesn't matter. The point is to get face to face again.
/r/seduction29/08/24 08:48 PM
3

It's an amazing feeling when you hit that perfect stride and you're just crushing it left and right. I had a 2-3 week period where I couldn't lose, and it was absolutely glorious, but also eye opening.
/r/seduction29/08/24 04:47 PM
2

In this order: head, shoulders, knees, and toes. x2. Eyes and ears and mouth and nose; head, shoulders knees and toes, knees and toes! More seriously: Level 1: back of the arm, near the elbow. A gentle guiding touch. Shoulder: playful push or very light smack at appropriate points in a playful conversation. Hand touch, palm to palm. Level 2: Upper-middle back. Can linger for a bit longer. Upper arm, controlling touch. Like if you're about to cross a dangerous road, take control using her arm. Ha…
/r/seduction29/08/24 04:32 PM
2

Yeah they definitely do. I had a woman run full game on me, game recognizes game, and eventually I called her out. She was doing it all. Kino, mirroring, negging, DHV, push-pull, you name it she had it down. She'd have made an amazing lesbian. After I called her out, we chatted about technique, had a laugh about it, and went our separate ways. It's always fun to see legit players in the wild.
/r/seduction29/08/24 03:48 PM
1

Did you get her number?
/r/seduction29/08/24 03:39 PM
1

Agree with the "compliment them" I remember every single compliment I've received from a woman, that's how few and far between they are. "Hey, you looked interesting, thought I'd come over and say hello." "Mind if I turn the tables and buy you a drink?" If you need to be more aggressive: "That shirt would look great on my floor." "You have a kissable face." "My eyes are down here."
/r/seduction29/08/24 03:38 PM
22

I think the key point is that women want to have a good time, sex is easier for them to achieve, so a good time might include sex but it should include a lot of other things as well
/r/seduction28/08/24 09:56 PM
0

Point is that if the question has a one or two word short answer, you shouldn't be asking the question.
/r/seduction28/08/24 09:48 PM
0

"Poodle" Now what?
/r/seduction28/08/24 09:47 PM
1

Can you give me an example of a question that you think would be appropriate under the present situation?
/r/seduction28/08/24 07:11 PM
0

It fully depends on how you do it, if you're smiling, engaging in correct body language, etc. Too many guys go into interview mode, and it absolutely kills any possibility of a connection. I think it's better to err on the side of creating open conversation, rather than trying to direct the conversation by asking questions. So here's how the exchange continues: "I'm open to recommendations." Her: "well, what do you like?" You: "I'd like to get to know more about you." or "Maybe you can show me y…
/r/seduction28/08/24 05:18 PM
0

You're talking to someone with 30 years of experience. Good luck with your cold approach.
/r/seduction28/08/24 04:26 PM
-1

The cold opener with direct approach only works if you meet rule #1 (Be attractive) and rule #2 (don't be unattractive). You'd better have demonstrated solid social value in the space you're working in, and she has to have seen you and paid attention up to that point. Walking up out of nowhere with zero social proof is a recipe for failure unless you're a 10, in which case you don't need these methods. Better to work the room, be sociable with everyone, be friendly and affable, confident, and de…
/r/seduction28/08/24 03:52 PM
168

If you go out with a plan to get laid, you're going to be disappointed often. If you go out with a plan to meet as many people as possible, have good conversations, go on some small adventures, you're going to have a good time.
/r/seduction28/08/24 03:40 PM
0

Never ask questions. Seriously. Especially yes/no questions, as they don't invite any sort of conversation. Instead, make observations. "I like this area, but it seems to be missing a good coffee shop." This invites her to comment and make a recommendation. or, "I'm new to this area, and am open to any recommendations you might have." This isn't really a question, and it's vague enough to lead to many different conversations.
/r/seduction28/08/24 03:36 PM
3

"Hi, we keep running into each other. I'm Mike." (or whatever your name is, of course). I recommend being vague about which apartment you're staying in exactly, you don't know if she's insane yet. Just talk to her like you'd talk to anyone else. "I'm new to this area, definitly open to recommendations." (this opens up a lot of opportunities for discussion about what you like, what she likes, etc.)
/r/seduction28/08/24 03:34 PM
11

physical escalation is the key, just tell her you're interested and keep on point.
/r/seduction26/08/24 08:33 PM
1

Not sure. It was never my vibe, and you're usually going to enounter groups. Day game, apps, and coffee shops.
/r/seduction26/08/24 04:43 PM
1

Yes, just do some research ahead of time, and familiarize yourself with the areas around your place. Just be more aggressive than you're comfortable with about meeting up and getting her to your place ASAP.
/r/seduction26/08/24 04:40 PM
3

turn it into a game. (1) start talking to as many people as you can, casually, just commenting on shared experience, etc. Just get into the habit of starting conversations and carrying them. (2) Find local fun social things to do, farmers markets, wine tasting, etc. Then start inviting people do join you. Not "do you want to... " instead "I am doing XYZ, you should come with me". (3) escalate as usual. Kino, mirroring, DHV.
/r/seduction26/08/24 04:34 PM
5

A few thoughts: (1) she's trying to make someone else at work jealous. (2) she likes to be the center of attention. (3) you're not escalating enough. Ask her out directly, cut the texts down to planning, and see how far she's willing to go. My vote is for all 3.
/r/seduction26/08/24 03:23 PM
4

Bitch shield is a real thing, and super fucking annoying to deal with. This is why some guys insist on wingmen. BS's are harder to deal with than AMOGs. Bitch shields are usually (a) secretly in love with the girl, (b) in denial, (c) angry at the world, and (d) get even worse when they drink. You best option is to ditch the bitch shield and move to a different location. If they have to reconnect, make sure you have established enough with your girl and call it a night, reconnect later.
/r/seduction26/08/24 02:06 PM
4

Have you tried "git pull"? I was having a great time with this girl, we were on our second "date" and we hadn't kissed or anything. She just blurted out midway though "I guess I'm in the friend zone." ... I was just stunned, I really didn't know what to say. But it was true. I didn't feel like pursuing her. I liked spending time with her, she was funny, cute, smart... just didn't flip that switch for me for whatever reason. Escalation is super important. It has to be unambiguous that you're sexu…
/r/seduction26/08/24 01:41 PM
7

I've held a rule for 30 years, never to approach a woman who is paid to be nice to you. I know plenty of guys who ended up with a woman bartender or hotel desk girl
/r/seduction23/08/24 09:32 PM
1

Try being passionate about the things you do in your life, and demonstrate that passion to others -- it can be really almost everything.
/r/seduction23/08/24 06:07 PM
3

Relevant username
/r/seduction23/08/24 12:36 AM
0

You're being downvoted by people still on the path. This is a perfectly valid point. I ran into the same situation. After years of practice, I reached mastery and was able to easily pull 3-4 times a week, for weeks on end -- I had the methods down to perfection. It was effortless, boring, and time consuming. I quit at the top of my game. Settled down, got married, and haven't looked back. I appreciate what it taught me -- it taught me to be a better person in all aspects of my life. It taught me…
/r/seduction22/08/24 02:25 PM
3

You're not moving on them fast enough. Full stop. You need to be way more aggressive.
/r/seduction20/08/24 12:50 PM
7

Pick a bar that's more open / social. Where the vibe is people just hanging out and having a great time. Bar trivia nights are really easy mode, because you can just walk up to any table and say "hey, I need a team." Now you have a legit reason to sit and get to know everyone at the table. Pick a table with more girls than guys. Introduce yourself to everyone in a very open and friendly way, except the girl that you're interested in. Not like you're specifically ignoring her, but like just the f…
/r/seduction20/08/24 02:53 AM
13

Is it possible to learn this power?
/r/seduction19/08/24 06:15 PM
122

Almost every time a woman has approached me, it was completely unexpected. Basically I was ignoring her, without even knowing I was ignoring her. Certain types of women will try to catch your eye, and if they succeed, they get that little ego boost and they'll go about their day. However, if they fail in that technique, they might try to get closer, which if it also fails, then they'll resort to the cold open. To be honest, unless I'm in a "safe" situation in a location that I'm familiar with, p…
/r/seduction19/08/24 06:15 PM
1

There are a lot of really dumb guys out there. They might be attractive, but most quality women want an equal or to at least be challenged. So for longer term relationships, intelligence is a greater predictor of success than attractiveness. A formidible intellect combined with emotional intelligence and confidence is ideal. However, you definitely don't want to be a know-it-all or show off. Your intelligence should manifest in your choices and values.
/r/seduction19/08/24 02:40 PM
1

Brother recognized game, and shut you down. Keep moving.
/r/seduction17/08/24 02:43 PM
18

A stark reminder that strong emotional variance is a catalyst for sexual openness. This is why weddings and funerals are lowkey cheating for the game.
/r/seduction15/08/24 04:47 PM
1

open ended commentary, try eliminating all questions except those specifically designed to elicit an emotional response. invite conversation through your observations. explain how something made you feel (positive / strengthening feelings only, never admit to weakness). invite discussion about how a certain event changed her life. Take her on an emotional roller coaster ride. do not be the guy at the party that all women offload their shit onto, otherwise you're just a emotional cum dumpster.
/r/seduction14/08/24 04:26 AM
45

Relentless mocking: like just when you think you've gone too far, double it.
/r/seduction13/08/24 01:23 AM
3

This could be two things: (1) You creeped her out and she's avoiding you now, (2) she's trying push-pull on you, (3) she expects you to chase her. I never learned how to count. Abundance mindset, ignore her and keep rolling.
/r/seduction08/08/24 03:55 PM
1

Bro code would only apply here if you know the guy. Carry on.
/r/seduction07/08/24 07:51 PM
1

Posher suburbs of any major city. Anywhere where there are cafes, little boutique shops, etc, walkable areas with lots of people (but few tourists). Examples: Pasadena, CA Hollywood, FL. Georgetown, DC / Alexandria, VA Liberal cities, such as Austin, Asheville, Madison, Boulder/Fort Collins, etc. For UK cities, High Street in any city. For Japan/Korea: places with food / drink / nightlife.
/r/seduction07/08/24 05:29 PM
6

You know these outrage videos are fake. The same "actress" appears in dozens of them. Here she's the mother in law.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/08/24 12:05 PM
2

No way
/r/seduction02/08/24 07:57 PM
2

Or get information from people who might be more experienced... like that's the whole point of this community.
/r/seduction02/08/24 07:22 PM
6

Feels scammy to me. South American women, especially from Colombia, have been known to get up to some seriously shady shit.
/r/seduction02/08/24 04:11 PM
6

Being more confident, aggressive, and direct than you're comfortable with. That was the one thing that really made the difference for me. Being honest and unapologetic about your intentions, but not overtly sexual. Pushing to meet as soon as possible, same day or even right then. I'm pretty sure I also would suggest that I wasn't going to be around for long or that I would be leaving the country soon to give additional emphasis on the urgency to meet soon. I talked to every single woman that I m…
/r/seduction29/07/24 07:42 PM
5

There was a peak time (before I got married), where I was closing 3-4 times per week for about 2 months. At first I felt like a god -- I had perfected the game, but evetually I hated it. I felt awful. I had given up everything about who I was to become a perfect weapon. I would even forget details and names of some of them... after that I quit. I saw what was possible, saw what it would cost me, and then I hung up the persona and went back to being me. The techniques you learn here can lead to p…
/r/seduction29/07/24 04:01 PM
1

You have to stick to the rules. They exist for a reason.
/r/seduction26/07/24 09:55 PM
1

Happens often. If i'm not interested, and someone is flirting with me, they get upset if I don't give them attention, and this is how you get stalkers and clingers.
/r/seduction26/07/24 03:51 PM
17

I've also noticed an "emotional flatness" in a certain demographic, it appears to be related to medication (?). Like zero emotional response to anything.
/r/seduction25/07/24 03:29 PM
16

Never exhibit emotional weakness, emotional vulnerability, or body/emotional insecurity in front of a woman. It never works to your advantage with regard to building or maintaining attraction. There are other ways to exhibit "vulnerability" without comprimising yourself. Google "Mark Manson" and vulnerability.
/r/seduction22/07/24 06:16 PM
2

Don't be insecure about height. Women can detect insecurities super easily, and that's always a sign of weakness. Be confident, funny, flirty, and assertive in a positive way.
/r/seduction22/07/24 05:38 PM
3

Rule #3: don't hit on people who are paid to be nice to you.
/r/seduction22/07/24 05:24 PM
2

The first thing you learn in this community is to improve yourself first. Get your own shit fixed.
/r/seduction22/07/24 03:28 PM
2

First, ignore the people saying that "every woman is different!" that's bullshit. Women have a particular style / message they try to send with their own clothing and grooming choices. If there's a particular girl you're trying to get closer to... match her level and style of dress. If you can match or complement her color choices, then that's even better -- she'll see you as "fitting in", consciously or not. For my own personal style, what I do is pick a famous "hot" actor who has a similar bod…
/r/seduction22/07/24 02:51 PM
1

People don't even do that at airports.
/r/seduction22/07/24 02:29 PM
3

Try this exercise: talk to someone without asking them questions. Anyone, doesn't matter. Just get into the habit of not asking questions. Instead of asking "what's your name?", say instead: "hi, my name is ... ", reach out your hand, and wait for their response. If they don't respond you can just walk away. In general you want to avoid asking questions, because it doesn't actually generate conversation unless it's a deep question, and you're not gonna get to those early in a conversation. Work …
/r/seduction20/07/24 02:42 PM
1

Most of the really bad decisions I've made were involving either alcohol or women, I have "2 only" rule for both as well.
/r/seduction17/07/24 06:59 PM
3

There are three breaks that we all took on the journey: (1) It's just not working break; (2) I'm hooking up with too many girls, and I still feel empty break; and (3) I found "the one" break.
/r/seduction16/07/24 08:17 PM
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First of all, you're doing great -- keep working. When you workout or practice something, do you see immediate gains? Nope. Keep praciticing. Talk to everyone, this will help you stay calibrated. I will say that east coast (from Virginia to Maine) is pretty hard on average. People are generally distrustful of strangers and people approaching them. The main reason for this is that we (people in urban areas) get approached all the time by a wide variety of people who are usually looking to scam yo…
/r/seduction16/07/24 04:02 PM
2

I was the same. The only advice you need, the only advice that worked for me came from an old man: " Talk to everyone. The cashier, mailman, delivery guy, banker, old lady, person in line -- it doesn't matter. The more people you talk to in every day life, the easier it is to talk to the ones you actually want to." I'll add to this, when you have the opportunity, always speak to people with the intent to learn. You build rapport the fastest when you allow people to talk about themselves. You als…
/r/seduction16/07/24 02:46 PM
1

Your mindset is wrong. You should be happy for the guy who is doing well. Because that means you're also happy for future you.
/r/seduction16/07/24 12:25 PM
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I think you also gained confidence, which is 37.51 times more important than looks. Looks are important, but if you're clean, reasonably well dressed for your body style, and generally presentable, then that's something women will get past really quickly. Being reasonably attractive is helpful, but actually doesn't get you too far if you don't have a good personality and confidence/assertiveness. Having said that, being unnaturally attractive is, however, a magic bullet and women will ignore eve…
/r/seduction15/07/24 06:28 PM
2

I guess it really depends on the situation. If you're sort of stuck somewhere, like a cruise ship or on some sort of group outing, etc., then you should be talking to every possible person casually, just like you would with day game. The problem with being with family means you can't suddenly change plans and have an "impromptu" date / hookup, so your ability to escalate is fairly limited.
/r/seduction15/07/24 06:21 PM
88

Just to be clear, you don't have to spend money on her.
/r/seduction15/07/24 05:42 PM
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You're still new, I understand your confusion. Seduction is, at it's core, quite simple. Your job, as a man, is to (appear to) be both different and superior to other men that are in her orbit. You come in like a prince, remove her from everything that she has grown accustomed to, and basically "rescue" her, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. This is the ultimate outcome of all of the techniques espoused here. This is why I talk about breaking frames. Kino: breaks the physical frame. Norm…
/r/seduction13/07/24 01:47 PM
2

Where did I say that's the definition? The purpose of the neg is to break frames.
/r/seduction13/07/24 01:21 AM
2

Being sweaty gives you an excuse to take a shower. If you do it right, it could be a shower together.
/r/seduction12/07/24 11:08 PM
1

Keep your hands out of your pockets. Keep your posture slightly facing away. Relax your shoulders. Eye contact is important, do some research on eye contact and attraction.
/r/seduction12/07/24 11:06 PM
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negging is specifically a frame breaker. Most women are in a specific "frame" of mind when interacting with you. Typically it's (a) skeptical (b) determining if you're a creep or not, (c) determining if you're simping / beta. Use negging to break these frames. It doesn't have to be hurtful, but it should have the potential to sting. The most effective neg I've ever used was telling a girl who was wearing high heel shoes that were a little too flashy "I saw a hot stripper wearing those shoes once…
/r/seduction12/07/24 07:22 PM
6

These are some unnecessary self-defeating thoughts. (1) If you only focus on women, your life will be shit. Guaranteed. (2) If you focus on yourself, and improving yourself, your life will be infinitely better. Guaranteed.
/r/seduction10/07/24 08:10 PM
1

Actually I agree, in this case where it's clear that she wants to hook up. There's a chance that she won't show up, but you're absolutely right if he had tried a lot of contact, she probably wouldn't have shown up that way either.
/r/seduction10/07/24 02:34 PM
1

You can't leave a gap either, what's your recommendation?
/r/seduction10/07/24 01:51 PM
4

Yeah, 3-4 day gap is really tough. Edit: I think TRT's recommendations below are correct.
/r/seduction09/07/24 06:28 PM
0

When I click on your username, it says your account is suspended -- is this true?
/r/seduction09/07/24 05:39 PM
1

If you're not consistently (respectfully) escalating, she's going to think you're boring. I'm not talking all out, just kino, teasing, etc.
/r/seduction09/07/24 01:10 PM
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I agree completely. 95% demisexual people.
/r/seduction08/07/24 04:38 AM
5

It makes sense. If a girl has a bunch of brothers, you've got to get in good with them first.
/r/seduction07/07/24 08:15 PM
2

You're 16, so your best bet is to be funny and slightly aloof. Don't be creepy or pushy at all.
/r/seduction03/07/24 03:18 PM
1

No offense, but the few times that I did this, it was pretty awkward. I think it's better to look for opportunities to wing in social situations.
/r/seduction02/07/24 07:50 PM
2

you can't, don't bother. even though they seem to spend 99% of their life on their phones texting, you cannot build anything via text except confusion and false expectations.
/r/seduction02/07/24 05:08 PM
1

Some women are plain evil. I think it's best to really get to know someone before you start pursuing them in any meaningful way.
/r/seduction02/07/24 03:26 PM
6

"Flock of Seagulls Lesbian Office Supplies and Cat Sundries"
/r/seduction02/07/24 03:23 PM
1

Let the 1st annual Thirst Games begin!
/r/seduction02/07/24 03:21 PM
5

Instinct comes from experience. Experience comes from practice. Like anything else, you have to put in the hours. The biggest issue I ran into was being genuine.
/r/seduction29/06/24 11:13 AM
1

That's a question you don't ask directly. Use condoms, of course, and get tested regularly. If there's any concern expressed on her part, let her know the last time you were tested -- don't lie, get tested regularly. You might even keep a pic of the results on your phone, with the date clearly identifiable. At this point she should show hers or at least say last time she was tested. IF you're concerned, then you can gently ask "how about you?". It's not an easy situation, and is frequently a moo…
/r/seduction29/06/24 04:22 AM
0

This is a bit of a "mis" take, but not entirely untrue. Rather than "take that from him" it's more like "get involved with that without the effort / earning it". This is such typical manipulative behavior that it's almost never called out. When a woman does this to you, your first thought should always be "what do I get in return?" Make her work for the manipulation. The more manipulative the request, the harder she should have to work to get you to do it.
/r/seduction29/06/24 04:16 AM
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if your not clear you want sex they will manipulate you. I think it depends on the woman. Any manipulative behavior on their part, then it's a cat vs. mouse game. I dealt with a master manipulator once. She tried to every compliance test, shit test, etc. in the book, and I parried each one. However, after 6 hours of this, I finally fired the shot that ended the night. We had a small dinner, and she made a token offer to pay. I said "that's sweet, thanks." she paid, and that was it. We parted way…
/r/seduction29/06/24 04:12 AM
2

You have to more assertive than you're comfortable with, and set some sort of urgency or condition that compels her to decide. Women will not decide things easily on their own. Example: You say: "hey we should hang out sometime." She hears:"I'm indecisive and don't want to lead the interaction". A better approach: You say: "I'm going to the farmer's market tomrrow at 11am, we should go together." or "I've got a free hour tomorrow between 4 and 5, let's meet for ice cream at xyz just to say hi." …
/r/seduction29/06/24 04:00 AM
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"Mode 1" is just a simplification of what the entire community is about. Being confident, direct, assertive, but respectful. Not a nice guy. Not a low self esteem guy. Not a supplicating guy. The author only really seems to have the inner game and some outer game stuff down. If you want a formula, there's one that works pretty consistently. (1) Introduce yourself within 15 seconds of making eye contact with her. Any longer and it's awkward. (2) Be calm, but confident. "Hey, my name is Mike. I ca…
/r/seduction29/06/24 03:50 AM
1

"Well, you can call me daddy if you play your cards right."
/r/seduction29/06/24 03:26 AM
0

The key is reframing the conversation quickly from mundane to interesting. Example: "how long have you lived here?" No matter what she says, "what's the most romantic place you've been to here?" No matter what she says, "i'd love to go there -- care to join me?" (Unless, of course she doesn't know or hasn't found anything, then you should have something in your back pocket as a suggestion.)
/r/seduction28/06/24 10:41 PM
1

Yeah, but expressing that much direct interest is usually a turn off.
/r/seduction28/06/24 08:19 PM
2

Some people aren't suited to relationships.
/r/seduction28/06/24 06:50 PM
3

It's compliance testing if she's asking for it. It doesn't do anything except stroke her ego and make her less likely to be interested in you. Instead you discuss her choices and values. You can compliment a choice or a value. This reinforces different feelings, and establishes a connection. "That's an unusual scarf, where did you find it?" This is just slightly neggy, and works quite well.
/r/seduction28/06/24 06:34 PM
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I've lost almost every time when I start with compliments. Especially if she's fishing for compliments, I don't give them. Her: "most guys tell me I'm beautiful." Me: "that must get tiring."
/r/seduction28/06/24 04:13 PM
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Have you ever met someone (any time in your past) and connected right away, before really knowing anything about their financial circumstances, or whether they had a house or a car? I have, many times. The reality is that it only matters if you make it matter. All of your insecurities will become obvious to the other person if you make them obvious.
/r/seduction28/06/24 01:18 PM
1

Cut and move on. Any additional hanging on just makes you look (even more) desperate.
/r/seduction28/06/24 12:15 PM
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Get out of that mindset. No-one is "super hot". They're all human.
/r/seduction27/06/24 04:28 PM
1

If you think going from American to Latina will be an easier move... good luck. Here's a pro-tip: don't go on expensive dates. Wining and dining is a waste of time. They need to be emotionally invested in you, not financially. Financial dependence is a much weaker position.
/r/seduction27/06/24 01:43 PM
0

The hidden secret behind "the game" is to get you to put in the hours necessary to improve all aspects of your life.
/r/seduction27/06/24 11:52 AM
1

Even better: "my class schedule is lowkey insane this semester, hopefully yours is better." It's not a direct question, and opens up conversation
/r/seduction26/06/24 09:14 PM
1

This is 100% something you have to do over and over again. Practice approaches on everyone, men, women, etc. eventually you'll get so good at starting a natural conversation, that they won't even think it's weird that you're talking to them.
/r/seduction26/06/24 08:00 PM
5

Shakespeare must've been swimming in pussy.
/r/seduction26/06/24 06:37 PM
2

Even better is to recognize the "obsession" parts and shutting it down. The needy texts, the supplication, the obsession over every message or communication with her. One thing I've learned is that no amount of "begging" (because that's what you're doing) will make a woman more attracted to you. Why would she be attracted to something that so willingly gives itself up?
/r/seduction26/06/24 06:33 PM
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i suffered from Oneitis for a long time, even during my peak PUA years. But it was all projection. Ultimately I used the skills I had earned from years of PUA practice , and I was able to hook up with her. And she was nothing like what my mind had created her to be. That moment of clarity hit me like a a sack of bricks... ever since then, even if I caught a whiff of that desperation, I shut it down immediately. Women can smell desperate from a mile away. The slightest hint of it is an immediate …
/r/seduction26/06/24 06:28 PM
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I like this, in limited cases. If she's been talking about herself non-stop, this could be a not-so-subtle hint. Her response 95% of the time will be: "what kind of question?" or "what do you want me to ask you?" Both are technically valid responses to the request. Your response to such questions should be some variation on: "Now's your chance to find out what you really want to know about me." You're setting up a limited opportunity, it's putting some pressure on her to reveal her hand, and it …
/r/seduction10/06/24 08:38 AM
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I will always try to help these people, it's my time to waste. If you don't have any positive contribution it's probably better not to say anything at all. Making them feel worse about their situation is only going to reinforce their already negative stereotype.
/r/seduction07/06/24 08:21 PM
3

To make that assumption at the beginning is not helpful. Your negative comments would only increase the number of involuntary celibate people, instead of at least offering them a way out.
/r/seduction07/06/24 07:34 PM
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Ignore the negative commenters. You're just getting started on a journey that will change your life. Step one: Improve your Inner Game. Read as much as you can get your hands on about Inner Game -- there's plenty of material out there. Start putting effort into improving that aspect alone. Once you feel better about your inner game... Step two: come back here and post again, identifying what you have changed and how you have changed.
/r/seduction07/06/24 07:30 PM
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This is exactly the opposite of the attitude we should be taking here. Sorry, I respect your prior contributions, but in this case you're wrong -- he's in exactly the right place to begin his journey.
/r/seduction07/06/24 07:28 PM
3

agree, performance athletes need carbs. I'm just assuming people struggling with dates aren't in peak physical form.
/r/seduction07/06/24 04:43 PM
3

Guess I'm stupid for losing 30 lbs while gaining muscle. Read about carb-cycling and keto-adaptation.
/r/seduction07/06/24 01:03 PM
1

I've had this exact experience and she was completely different in person. Like I had to verify that she was the same person I was talking to. And she definitely was not dry.
/r/seduction07/06/24 12:59 PM
2

Most people are lazy. They don't want to do the work necessary to attain and maintain the best version of yourself.
/r/seduction07/06/24 12:52 PM
2

Get off the apps. Get into the gym. Cut most carbs. Get a style.
/r/seduction07/06/24 12:46 PM
2

First of all, ignore the downvotes. This is a legit question. Read about the "abundance mindset". The short story is that you shouldn't have to lie at all. You need to be clear with each woman that you're not exclusive, and set expectations early and often that you're not interested in a serious relationship with anyone at the moment. This way, you don't have to worry about them "finding out", because there's nothing being hidden. You don't have to divulge the details of your personal life to an…
/r/seduction07/06/24 12:38 PM
1

Be specific, ask what?
/r/seduction06/06/24 06:53 PM
2

You always say how things don't work, but never say how they do work.
/r/seduction06/06/24 04:06 PM
3

Agree 100%, the chances are higher with an attractive woman, but finding attractive women is less common.
/r/seduction06/06/24 03:20 PM
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The number one comment I hear from objective 10s is that "men never approach me." What she means is that they self-reject. She can see that they're interested, and she wants a man who is confident to make the first move, so when they show interest but don't approach -- that's a weakness. This is an inner game problem. You're putting women on a pedestal. Stop objectifying women as something to be obtained or worshipped. Instead, if you approach a woman as an equal, talk to her like she's your fri…
/r/seduction06/06/24 03:08 PM
2

The rapport itself doesn't make a girl "want you". It does, however, create a solid foundation to develop from. There's nothing inherently emotional or sexual about rapport. It's the process that comes next that helps build attraction and allows her feelings for you to develop.
/r/seduction06/06/24 02:56 PM
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The theory exists to create patterns to work from. The theory exists for people who are unlearning all of the nonsense they've been told about what women want (usually by women). Rapport doesn't "naturally happen" -- what does that even mean? You seem to think you're "a natural" and that somehow everyone else should also be "a natural". For the vast majority of guys, their natural approach doesn't work, otherwise, why would they be here? Initially, rapport must be established through effort. It'…
/r/seduction06/06/24 12:30 PM
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/u/EfficiencyMore1988 This guy ^ has the correct answer. Women are dominated by emotional discourse, whether internal or external. Feelings are generated through a series of positive emotional events, this includes discussion.
/r/seduction06/06/24 12:25 PM
12

You can ignore SaaS's comments, he generally doesn't know what he's talking about but talks a lot about it.
/r/seduction06/06/24 12:22 PM
1

The key distinction here is to not disqualify yourself. What does this mean? It means that you've decided how she actually feels and reject yourself before she has a chance to. This is a common defense mechanism to prevent the perceived pain / humiliation of rejection. Of course, if she makes it clear: "Not interested." "No, I have a boyfriend." These are clear. but "I have a boyfriend" without the "no", is not necessarily a rejection. You can run with this a bit longer. "Lucky you. Let's meet t…
/r/seduction05/06/24 06:45 PM
2

Honestly, I'm not the best source of information. The sidebar on this subreddit contains tons of useful information. Read as much as you can about the art: the primary topics are inner game/mindset, approaching, seduction, and closing. Start with inner game. That's the foundation.
/r/seduction05/06/24 06:08 PM
2

You might have inner game sorted, but that's really the first step. Good luck out there.
/r/seduction05/06/24 06:04 PM
2

You use it for communicating. Let's say you're at a market, you come across a cute girl that you're interested in talking to her. You walk up, make your introduction, small talk about the nearby area, and then say you've got to run but would love to contact her later. You already have Whatsapp on your phone, so you're good to go because so does everyone else. You show up without whatsapp or not knowing what it is? That's gonna be a no for her, or at least an obstacle to her easily interacting wi…
/r/seduction05/06/24 06:02 PM
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If you believe that, then you don't understand the cultural side of game. Women are not all the same. Particularly those raised in more restrictive, religious, or prudish cultures. You have to (a) understand those cultural boundaries, (b) know how to navigate their resistance, (c) and understand how to make them feel socially valid within the context of their culture. I speak from nearly 3 decades and 50 countries of experience. If you're peacocking everywhere, for example, you're going to have …
/r/seduction05/06/24 05:54 PM
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The key is to use the apps that locals use for socializing. Japan: LINE; Korea: KakaoTalk or Naver; China: WeChat; India: WhatsApp; Thailand: LINE; Vietnam: Zalo; Find english meetups, or post in general ESL type boards that you're interested in cultural exchange. I can help you with specific countries if you need more detailed information.
/r/seduction05/06/24 05:43 PM
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Yeah, we operate on generalizations a lot here. Of course there will always be quality women around.
/r/seduction05/06/24 04:05 PM
6

It's more middle class, so the Galleria Mall or Broward Mall are good places for day game. For evening activities, lots of "near beach" bars with open / outdoor seating are great for casually meeting multiple people.
/r/seduction05/06/24 02:08 PM
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To be fair, I haven't been to Miami since before the pandemic. LA is fantastic. Day game is super easy. Just find a bar with outdoor seating during a sporting event, coffee shops with a social vibe, brewery type areas (like Stone, for example). Lots of women out with their friends, having a good time. Be friendly and attentive, talk to multiple people, and in no time you'll have invites to parties, bands, hangouts, and hookups.
/r/seduction05/06/24 01:48 PM
6

That's kind of a southern culture thing too.
/r/seduction05/06/24 01:44 PM
7

I feel like field reports are severely looked down on in this sub. The biggest issue I see are that there's a heavy incel population here, which is normal for seduction, I started as an incel too -- but they're a too bitter (just downvoting everything that sounds like work) and not willing to put in the work necessary to learn.
/r/seduction05/06/24 01:43 PM
3

I think they're referring to "cost of dating".
/r/seduction05/06/24 01:41 PM
2

relevant username is relevant. I'm interested in TRT, I've always been a skinny / lanky dude. At 48, I'm not sure if it's a safe decision, but I would like to bulk up a bit. I've seen dudes that are older than me that are absolutely ripped. I don't want to get insane, just add muscle. Would appreciate any advice you have, feel free to DM me.
/r/seduction05/06/24 01:38 PM
7

It's not creepy to point out facts.
/r/seduction05/06/24 01:34 PM
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I hear what you're saying, but this is different. I've been to ~50 different countries. I've picked up all over the world. The absolute hardest time was Miami. I'm not even talking about South Beach, that's a garbage heap. The expectations are so damn high there, it's like a form of inflation. Moving to another city definitely helped me. Living in LA was like shooting fish in a barrel. I got laid so easily and consistently it wasn't even fun. Living in DC, and not being the son of a senator, mea…
/r/seduction05/06/24 01:33 PM
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Yeah, but they're NJ chicks, similar to British chicks, they might look hot on the surface, but as soon as they start talking.. yikes.
/r/seduction05/06/24 01:26 PM
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I've never been to LV while I was single, but it just seems... sad. LA, however, particularly in the suburbs, is rife with MILF action. I just had to show up and be a gentleman. I had more success in LA in one week than a year in DC. I'd argue that the whole east coast is moderately hard, the women tend to be cold and reserved in general. There's plenty of wealth on the east coast too, but it's not flashy, so this creates a high baseline of privelege and expectations.
/r/seduction05/06/24 01:25 PM
10

Miami is hard mode. It's a city full of players of both genders. I'd argue it's one of the hardest cities for pickup in the U.S. If you still like that Cuban flavor but without quite as much of the drama and challenge, you should try going north from Miami -- Fort Lauderdale / Hollywood are good locations.
/r/seduction05/06/24 01:22 PM
3

How about Indian women? What's wrong with you.
/r/seduction01/06/24 01:45 AM
17

6 to 8 year olds tend to be kind, 12-15 are the worst imho.
/r/seduction31/05/24 02:32 PM
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guys, please don't downvote this post: this is an advice community, and boy does he need advice. " it seems girls gonna reject me for sure as I'm a brown guy." You're rejecting yourself. Stop doing that. I (white guy) have had women reject me because they prefer Indian men. Please stop rejecting yourself based on imaginary women. Go out. Talk to everyone. Be sociable. Be confident. Get numbers. Once you've got a number, come back and we'll help you.
/r/seduction31/05/24 12:52 PM
7

100% This is the biggest mistake most guys make in both text and in person.
/r/seduction31/05/24 12:43 PM
11

Depends on a lot of factors. If you're an 9-10 looks wise, you don't need money. Just show up. If you're an 6-8, having enough money to be fully self-sufficient is important. Well dressed, clean cut, sociable, genuine, and confident are the necessary ingredients. If you're below 6, be as rich and socially accepted as possible. Preferably with a yacht and a fan club (see, e.g., Pete Davidson, Adam Driver, Steve Buscemi).
/r/seduction30/05/24 07:30 PM
2

As bad as online dating is, Linked-in is the worst possible online platform for this... Between the hours of 12-1 (lunch break) and 5-8 pm is the best time to meet women out in public. Grocery stores, bookstores, the mall, coffee shops, craft stores, pet stores, yoga studios (plus it's good for you), social gatherings, quiet bars / pubs, festivals, lively restaurants with outdoor seating, sports events ... there are a thousand places to meet women. You have to take yourself out of your routine a…
/r/seduction30/05/24 02:50 PM
1

Not sure why you're being downvoted. This is a legitimate issue for people who don't want relationships. I think it's best to establish your boundaries early and often. "I don't want to hurt you. I'm only interested in a physical relationship. I can totally understand if you want more, but I'm not at a place in my life where I'm ready to commit."
/r/seduction29/05/24 08:58 PM
1

Hard disagree on this: it leaves zero room for converation. Don't ask questions, make provacative statements. Not negging, but close. "Looks like that scarf was hand made."
/r/seduction29/05/24 01:08 PM
1

Do these girls live near you? If not, you're just wasting your time. If these aren't people you can't convert to a face-to-face, what's the point?
/r/seduction29/05/24 01:05 PM
1

I have a hard no co-workers rule, it's come back to bite me twice.
/r/seduction22/05/24 06:45 AM
2

You've gone too far into the stats. I get it, you're trying to use logic to find what works. After 1000 approaches, were any of them women that you approached before? There aren't 1000 approachable women where I live, I'd definitely run into the same one multiple times. I'm guessing you've got approach down. Now you have to work your escalation. It sounds like you're also probably texting too much if you didn't convert every single number into a date. Texting is only for setting up the next time…
/r/seduction22/05/24 06:27 AM
1

God damn YouTube video transcript. "Hey guys, today we're going to learn how to flirt!"
/r/seduction21/05/24 04:29 PM
1

What. 40 year old women can still get pregnant and STDs...
/r/seduction21/05/24 03:23 PM
1

A lot of people beating you up in here, but it sounds like you need more experience with women in general. FIrst of all, you shouldn't mess with people who are working, especially people working for you. Make this a hard rule in your life and that will help you avoid issues.
/r/seduction21/05/24 03:16 PM
1

never get signals from cute/attractive women Why are you waiting for signals? Men approach.
/r/seduction20/05/24 08:14 PM
6

I agree, brooding doesn't work. Mysterious doesn't work. That's some romcom fantasy stuff.
/r/seduction20/05/24 08:14 PM
1

I'm objectively ugly. Got fucked up teeth, overbite, slightly bulging eyes, receding (but not balding). Women very rarely approach me if I'm just out and about. However, when I was running game at my peak, I was pulling 5 "dates" per week, most ending up with sex. These were solid 8s, where I was a 6 on a good day. This may sound like thathappened material, but I swear on my children that this is true. I was acting 100% confident all the time, being more aggressive than I felt comfortable being,…
/r/seduction20/05/24 08:12 PM
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Fail early, fail often. Seriously. You have to get rejected dozens of times. It's a numbers game. 1 out of every 4 weeks, a girl is going to be interested in taking a risk in dating. That's 25 out of 100 random women. Out of that 25, half have a boyfriend. That's 12. Of the 12, 2 will be gay, 2 will be too old, 2 will be too young. That's 6 left. Of the 6, half will potentially like you. That's 3. Of these magical 3, you have to find them in the sea of 100. Therefore you need to approach at leas…
/r/seduction20/05/24 02:03 AM
0

Bro, You're failing to understand the purpose of the techniques espoused here.
/r/seduction18/05/24 01:38 PM
-1

If you can't change you will continue to fail
/r/seduction10/05/24 09:36 PM
-1

That isn't hostility. That's laying down the truth. You're not listening.
/r/seduction10/05/24 09:15 PM
4

Work your conversation level up. Talk to everyone that you meet, no matter what. Cashiers, workers, gals, guys, etc. just get into the mode of making conversation.
/r/seduction13/04/24 03:04 AM
21

You did exactly the right thing, never regret it. If you stuck around, it would be more of the same shit. Stop. Drop. and Roll.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/02/24 05:47 AM
4

Downvotes are for irrelevance to the sub.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/08/22 10:40 PM
4

Common double standards that women hold toward men: (1) He should be taller than 6', but he can't have any preference toward her weight (fat shaming) (2) A man should pay for things, but also treat her as an equal. (3) A man should do all of the dirty work / labor, but also do an "equal share" of the housework / family responsibilities (4) A man shouldn't express his feelings or he is perceived as weak, but she is encouraged to express her feelings / emotions and is perceived as strong for doing…
/r/PussyPassDenied25/05/22 06:02 PM
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While I agree that it's 100% a shitpage, They have every right to exist and spout their nonsense. Calling for the cancellation of a particular group/subreddit simply because their beliefs don't align with yours is the real cancer.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/01/22 06:51 PM
1

Pics
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/22 01:44 PM
3

Broes before shoes
/r/PussyPassDenied28/11/21 11:31 PM
0

Obviously. But the double standard is there: we permit children to watch extraordinarily violent scenes, but forbid them to view nudity.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/11/21 03:34 PM
2

Watch films with brutal gory murder scenes? No problem. A woman shows a bare breast? Call the fucking police.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/11/21 03:04 PM
1

I think i'm on a list now. :-/
/r/PussyPassDenied22/11/21 05:29 PM
17

Interesting that there are almost no domestic violence shelters for men, in spite of receiving 40% of domestic abuse.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/11/21 02:15 AM
2

Similar thing at my work. The state requires equal pay for equal work. A male colleague was promoted to a higher level. The pay they were offering was substantially lower than a female colleague in the same job category / level. I argued that he should be paid equally on the basis of the law. They didn't like it, but were compelled to do it. The reason they were against this was because it made their diversity numbers look bad...
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/21 11:55 PM
2

"Mostly peaceful protests." "Most of the time he was well behaved."
/r/PussyPassDenied11/07/21 01:31 PM
2

Bill Burr nailed it: https://youtu.be/AFAdL892ElY
/r/PussyPassDenied06/06/21 03:01 PM
1

How much is milk?
/r/PussyPassDenied23/05/21 05:44 AM
8

Almost every time I was actually nervous about meeting a girl ("out of my league") it went really well. The "fuck it, let's have fun no matter what" attitude works.
/r/seduction13/05/21 01:33 PM
0

define "step out of line"?
/r/PussyPassDenied11/05/21 02:26 PM
2

Johnny violated the cardinal rule of dating: Don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/05/21 02:13 PM
428

Even a starfish helps out a bit with their tentacles.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/21 05:11 PM
4

Not OP, here's a few, enjoy: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1740144507000678 " Ratings were made for physical attractiveness and sexual promiscuity, as well as estimates of the number of alcohol units consumed on a typical night out. Results showed that tattooed women were rated as less physically attractive, more sexually promiscuous and heavier drinkers than untattooed women, with more negative ratings with increasing number of tattoos. " https://journals.sagepub.com/do…
/r/PussyPassDenied11/03/21 09:32 PM
38

She was an Objectivist. And you say libertarian like it's a bad thing. It's he only mainstream political ideology that encourages individuality.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/03/21 11:40 PM
45

A pussy in the hand is worth two in the bush?
/r/PussyPassDenied23/02/21 03:28 AM
131

Wouldn’t you if your picture was literally on $100 bills?
/r/PussyPassDenied23/02/21 03:27 AM
1

Pike that bad these days?
/r/PussyPassDenied20/02/21 12:09 AM
3

Yep
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/21 04:55 PM
2

Okay, cool. I thought he was going for the flip off, then shifted to peace out.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/21 03:11 PM
1

I vaguely recall something similar, but the one I saw was a different group of people. I could be confusing more than one video.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/21 03:05 PM
1

Right, she probably shrugged and said "well, this is awkward." Wiped her mouth, got up, and left.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/21 03:04 PM
16

They were all blondes too, as far as I can tell.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/02/21 05:14 PM
4

The Lion, The Witch, The audacity of this Bitch.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/02/21 04:21 PM
1

Must be digging deep, this comment is a month old...
/r/PussyPassDenied09/02/21 07:56 PM
1

Happy Cake day
/r/PussyPassDenied04/02/21 01:50 AM
11

Politimon, gotta fuck ‘em all!
/r/PussyPassDenied03/02/21 12:37 AM
1

Eagles fan and you like tits? My man!
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 11:45 PM
1

Kind of proving my point ...
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 11:30 PM
1

The problem is achievement is (apparently) "racist": "Standardized tests have become the most effective racist weapon ever devised to objectively degrade Black minds and legally exclude their bodies” (https://www.aaihs.org/why-the-academic-achievement-gap-is-a-racist-idea/)
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 10:21 PM
1

People make up the system, without the people, the system doesn't exist. It's specific people with specific agendas who enable and perpetuate a specific political system and the associated ideologies behind them.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 10:13 PM
3

I know. I don't need other people telling me that I'm supposed to be offended about things. The latest is "you're occupying Native American land, and that you should make a statement recognizing that fact." I'm part Native American... so should I make a partial statement? Should I identify my tribe and the tribe that most recently owned this land? Should I recognize that multiple tribes occupied this land in the past, and they fought bitter wars against other tribes for control of this land? Als…
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 09:13 PM
1

Yep. I’m procap because it’s the best thing for everyone right now. Doesn’t mean I’m holding that belief forever.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 07:17 PM
2

The problem is that even moderate leftists are unable to publicly denounce these outrageous positions for fear of being canceled. Many intellectual liberals have been forced into submission by the vocal minority of the far left.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 07:07 PM
2

How is anything I said related to Qanon? Just because I criticize “liberal logic”, I’m somehow a fascist bootlicker? Do you have any informed opinions or do you just go around parroting things?
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 07:05 PM
1

Nope. Free thinking individual.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 06:38 PM
1

Sorry, where did I get offended on behalf of an imaginary God?
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 05:58 PM
13

I don’t care what people like or dislike about my comments. I’d rather they attack the argument / premise, rather than the individual.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 05:58 PM
1

Not clear yet. We’re heading toward AI revolution, which will alter the way we conduct business and government in unprecedented ways. For now, Capitalism is the best economic model for raising the global poor, but in the next 15-20 years, this may not be true. The primary issue seems to be the productivity vs wage gap, it’s rapidly increasing. Fewer people needed to perform work, means fewer employment opportunities in traditional labor markets. A seismic shift is beginning. The WSB shenanigans …
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 03:58 PM
1

Finally. God damn. Thank you. I just wanted one person to actually form a rational argument against my position because it was clearly absurdism from the beginning, but what I got was exactly what was predicted -- people simply reacting emotionally rather than thinking, or even doing the tiniest shred of research. You're 100% correct that this opinion piece is biased. That doesn't mean that it's completely wrong. Government subsidized health care, has incentivized health care providers to charge…
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 03:34 PM
0

I don't need to google everything because I understand many of the concepts that I'm speaking about. There's this weird and weary notion that people who can think for themselves, who form arguments and opinions to support their assertions are somehow elitist? This is my primary argument that I made at the beginning: the liberal mind (collectively) is so weak right now because it's been so focused on outrage and reactionary thinking that it cannot use logical and rationality to form coherent / st…
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 03:27 PM
2

Respect for that. I did make some strawman arguments. I wish people would attack my arguments instead of me -- leads to healthier debate.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 03:18 PM
2

I never said that the conservative position is good. This is the problem. You're reacting to an assumption that because I somehow argue against a liberal position, that I'm somehow a right-wing nutjob who supports the absolute dumpster fire that was president Trump? Wrong.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 03:12 PM
1

Capitalism, as an economic model, has been largely responsible for raising the global poverty levels. It's only when the government starts to interfere in individual health choices, and tries to manage the consequences of those choices (rather than the causes), that we get into a situation where it's now somehow "okay" to pay $1000 for insulin.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 03:10 PM
2

Yeah, exactly. You're getting the point. Conservatives have no interest in giving you decision making ability either.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 03:08 PM
0

That’s not how conversation works. That’s not how logic works. Explaining things is somehow elitist. Got it.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 03:04 PM
1

Which country is this?
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 03:01 PM
2

Agree.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 03:01 PM
1

Really? Calling someone “Edgelord” is. Unbelievable.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 03:00 PM
1

Ad hominem is the refuge of the weak minded. You don’t have an actual argument, do you? You make a statement about your country having “free” healthcare as an apparent counter point to my argument, and then you refuse to identify your country specifically. I simply wish to educate you, perhaps you might learn something in the process. Instead you choose to lash out. Try learning about the system that you live in, instead of simply accepting it. the results might surprise you.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 02:56 PM
0

Did I say I’m better than anyone? And starting off by calling someone literal cancer is not a valid form of argument.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 02:52 PM
1

And there you are, reacting instead of thinking.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 02:51 PM
3

The fraction of diabetes patients with genetically determined conditions is tiny. I can give you some stats: https://endocrinenews.endocrine.org/u-s-leads-developed-nations-in-diabetes-prevalence/ If your argument was true, the rate of diabetes would be nearly evenly distributed across nations and cultures. However, the US is the leading diabetic nation in the modern world. If it’s not choices, what’s happening?
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 02:50 PM
0

You do realize that I asked about your country, because you mentioned it, not a list of countries with social health care programs. Because I wish to make a specific point about your country’s healthcare plan and will explain precisely how it’s related to insurance.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 02:44 PM
2

could you be more specific?
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 02:38 PM
9

I didn’t ask for advice, try harder.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/02/21 02:31 PM
9

This is the way.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/01/21 09:23 PM
101

Just like when "The Patriarchy" is brought up. Women don't want equality. They want the good things only.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/01/21 04:34 PM
13

And chances are the chump who does fall for this will never even meet (or meat) her.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/01/21 07:26 PM
3

And that makes it somehow more valuable?
/r/PussyPassDenied28/01/21 07:26 PM
289

I guess the PPD is that they were sentenced to prison at all.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/01/21 03:23 PM
0

He wasn't "standing his ground", are you kidding? He was getting treated like a bitch, sitting there and just taking it. He's a cuck, and she knows it, that's why she's treating him like that. In public. In front of her friends. And you laughing at that situation makes it seem "okay" for your cuck buddy to continue being a cuck, and will enable her by giving her the pass. Your failure to understand this simple concept suggests that you might be in the wrong sub.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/01/21 05:40 PM
-4

Good one!
/r/PussyPassDenied16/01/21 04:49 PM
-4

I did, your inability to comprehend my response isn’t my problem.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/01/21 04:43 PM
-4

And you’d be a dick for it. Seriously, you should be standing up for him, not enabling or normalizing her behavior.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/01/21 04:08 PM
23

What a count she is. Putting him on blast, in public. Shaming his sexual preferences. Despicable.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/01/21 03:51 PM
34

Agreed. I'd rather not catch any rapists than to imprison one innocent man. To be fair, there are plenty of men who hate women, and would resort to draconian tactics as well, no matter who is doing it, it's reprehensible and should be held financially responsible for the harm that they have inflicted. The other issue is that people can't seem to wrap their heard around the differences between accusation and conviction. These days, especially following the metoo movement, accusing someone (men) i…
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/21 09:34 PM
107

Yes there’s definitely that weird logic of well “women have been dealing with this for years, so it’s fair.”
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/21 06:47 PM
25

You "kids" have no idea how good it is to have such free and easy access to porn. When I was a teen, we had to resort to 2nd hand Hustler magazines found in a tree at the local park, pages all stuck together from being out in the rain. Felt like an archaeologist, meticulously prying the pages apart to preserve the images. Then once the internet finally came along, it would take 10 minutes to download a single image on the modem, and chances are that it wasn't even something you were into... Now,…
/r/PussyPassDenied13/01/21 05:37 PM
13

“Be more masculine. But not like that. Masculinity is toxic.”
/r/PussyPassDenied08/01/21 02:07 AM
5

What is?
/r/PussyPassDenied22/12/20 11:00 PM
5

Can’t spell bastard without tard
/r/PussyPassDenied17/12/20 11:00 PM
1

Reread what I wrote.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/12/20 10:47 PM
1

I didn’t say any of that??
/r/PussyPassDenied08/12/20 09:44 PM
1

And?
/r/PussyPassDenied08/12/20 07:09 PM
-1

Was that the best you could come up with? Impressive.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/12/20 06:09 PM
10

The levels of inequality between women and men are at their lowest point of anytime in U.S. history.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/12/20 06:00 PM
0

This one is probably more appropriate: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ
/r/PussyPassDenied07/12/20 04:58 AM
52

Imagine if a toddler did that. He'd get no jail time and probably a decent following on Instagram.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/12/20 08:24 PM
3

Goals vs. reality. My brother spent time in a U.S. penitentiary, hard time. He said that he'd rather die before going back. Rehabilitated? Not at all. Just nothing to lose now, which makes it that much more dangerous. I'm not disagreeing with you, just saying that's the way it is now.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/12/20 05:46 PM
1

More like Get in shape because I’m gonna leave her...
/r/PussyPassDenied30/11/20 07:24 AM
1

Interesting. My wife has recently suddenly found her newfound sexual interests and we’ve been going at it. Prior to pandemic, she was frigid, distant almost hateful. Waiting for that next turn of events...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/07/20 04:07 PM
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