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Never watched any rsd stuff yet, half way through this and it's brilliant.
/r/seduction01/02/16 02:44 PM
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I can't help but think of Battle Royale, it could be a pretty amazing experience.
/r/seduction25/01/16 01:37 PM
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Nobody in the world should have zero friends. Become friends with yourself and you'll always have a friend and you'll never be alone.
/r/seduction24/01/16 08:00 PM
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Looks matter, but it's how you look on the inside (personality) that's more important than how you look on the outside.
/r/seduction24/01/16 01:55 PM
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Passions, values and ambition. There's nothing more attractive to me than a girl who is driven, who knows what she wants from life and will stop at nothing to make her dreams a reality.
/r/seduction23/01/16 08:42 PM
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Don't forget Intimate Connections. For me, Models comes second to it.
/r/seduction23/01/16 07:34 PM
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Doe's your campus have any clubs / societies? I'm a 3rd year computer science student so I'm in a similar boat, practically no girls on my course. How I meet most girls at university is through joining clubs / societies. At my university, I joined rock climbing, snowboarding and skydiving. It's probably worth looking at what your university has to offer and try getting involved.
/r/seduction23/01/16 01:34 PM
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Yeah actually, I forget your phone number. Smooooooooooooooooooth. I wish I could of seen the look, it must of been gold. Well done man, you got out there, faced your fears and got a number. I really hope the date goes well, keep up the good work!
/r/seduction23/01/16 01:28 PM
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First and foremost, Well done "It's better to shit your pants than die of constipation" - this made me laugh, it's also actually a pretty interesting frame and I'm glad it worked for you. I came to a weird realization recently and it sounds like it might be relevant here. I've always been anxious of approaching girls for the fear of being rejected and loosing self-esteem. After a lot of work on recalibrating my self-esteem, I've approached a few girls recently, got rejected and yet, my self-este…
/r/seduction23/01/16 12:39 PM
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I recently had a rejection which hit me pretty hard at first but I got past it, I might as well share it here. This was the first time I've asked a girl out in a long time (3+ years). We really hit it off at first (at least I thought she did) but she rejected me when I asked her out. At first I was torn, half of me was really fucking proud of myself for putting myself out there, but the other half of me was putting myself down, trying to work out where I fucked up. I ended up going out and getti…
/r/seduction22/01/16 09:42 PM
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Me! Social anxiety has always been a big problem for me. I still have it but no where to the same level I've had in the past. I'm making really good progress in overcoming it recently and I'm hoping to continue that trend. A lot of advice will help you to "just man up and talk to them". This advice may work for some people, but it never worked for me. The fear was just too strong. When a doctor treats you for an illness, they don't just treat the symptoms but the root cause. If they just treated…
/r/seduction22/01/16 09:23 PM
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If you think about it, if you keep this frame of mind it will never end. How will you ever settle with a girl if your always looking for the hotter girls. You always be thinking, the next girl, the next girl... etc. It's like the carrot on the stick, always out of reach. For me, reading the book Feeling Good - David D Burns and doing the exercises every day worked wonders in improving my self-esteem. Ultimately though, you need to try various things, put in the work and work out what works for y…
/r/seduction22/01/16 03:46 PM
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So someone here is going to mention the book Models by Mark Manson so it might as well be me. Luckily for you, you already have the hardest part (in my opinion) under your belt so it shouldn't be to hard for you to pick up.
/r/seduction22/01/16 03:28 PM
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You basically sum it up pretty well. Low self-esteem. You probably feel bad about yourself and inadequate as a human being. When someone shows interest in you, you feel you aren't worthy of their affection and that if they like you, they are not of as high value as you expected. Now you have this girl with perceived low value interested in you and because of that, you become non-interested. If she'd settle for someone as faulty as you then she must have some pretty major flaws herself. It's a pr…
/r/seduction22/01/16 03:17 PM
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I read about this saying yesterday on Reddit and think it's incredible. "Sorry, I really need to go. I just remembered I left a knife in the fork drawer"
/r/seduction22/01/16 03:12 PM
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I gotta go, I left a knife in the fork drawer. This one's incredible. I'm definitely gonna to use this next time I have the chance.
/r/seduction21/01/16 08:55 PM
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Diverging a little from the post, the first paragraph of this really resonated with me, and it poses a question that I constantly find myself asking. Why are so many of us not prepared for this? We're raised in all these fucked up ways that often hinders us rather than aiding this. Don't talk to strangers, keep your opinions to yourself, please others rather than yourself (this is something I really despise and is a major problem in schools in my opinion). We're often raised to make our parents …
/r/seduction21/01/16 05:13 PM
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You could always do something a little more out of the norm. I asked a girl recently if she wanted to go on a date to the zoo. She declined (she's seeing someone) but she was really really taken by the gesture and started talking about how much she loves the zoo / animals and how she couldn't think of a better idea for a first date. Lets face it, a girl is going to remember a date at the zoo a hell of a lot more than drinks at a local pub. The added bonus is it gives you extra conversation topic…
/r/seduction20/01/16 03:31 PM
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This is actually a pretty interesting frame, I've not heard of this before. The way I interpret this is as, If you can't take her off a pedestal to bring her onto your level, then put yourself onto a pedestal so you bring yourself to her level. Does this sound correct?
/r/seduction19/01/16 07:14 PM
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The master has failed more times than the student has tried.
/r/seduction19/01/16 05:36 PM
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You not screwed. There's something beautiful your completely overlooking. That thing is called time. With time, change often follows (providing you work for it). People don't remain constant, they aren't fixed in one state for their entire life. Some of the biggest PUA names were originally extremely awkward, anxious AFC's. With time, effort and hard work, they changed. If I go out today wearing old trackies, a dirty hoodie, having not showered and just being a grumpy / miserable guy, I'll be pr…
/r/seduction19/01/16 05:35 PM
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I'm not an expert at seduction so this might not be the best advice but hey, have it anyway. Are there any other alternatives? For example, will you be seeing her again soon at another party or the like? If not, and you don't do anything, chances are any attraction that may of been there will be lost/forgotten. I know messaging online isn't ideal, but surely it's better than doing nothing? Action trumps inaction.
/r/seduction17/01/16 05:37 PM
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I recently brought the Acqua Di Gio cologne from Giorgio Armani based on multiple recommendations and I love it! It's a little pricy but worth every penny in my opinion.
/r/seduction17/01/16 04:01 PM
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Wearing decent clothes that fit and compliment each other as well as grooming well / good hygiene. When I go out wearing a decent set of clothes, a nice cologne and have used certain cosmetic products (face scrub, face wash, eye roll on and the like) I feel a million times better than when I cba and go out in trackies and an old hoodie!
/r/seduction15/01/16 06:57 PM
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FU! I came here to post that quote and you beat me to it :( Anyway, here's an upvote!
/r/seduction15/01/16 06:33 PM
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You've just reminded me of a great quote! "The master has failed more times than the beginner has ever tried"
/r/seduction12/01/16 12:20 PM
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It's best to work on yourself first, then build on the rest after. A few resources worth checking out Feeling Good - David D Burns (This will help you to overcome negative thoughts, become less anxious, build up self-confidence and self-esteem etc) Intimate Connections - David D Burns The Game - Neil Struass Models - Mark Manson Most importantly, don't expect to become a "pua god" overnight and don't expect a small amount of reading will make you a pro. Take your time, do some reading, practise …
/r/seduction21/12/15 03:31 PM
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The obvious thing to do is to get out and put what you've learnt into practise. It's so easy to spend all your time reading and not putting it into action (I'm guilty of this). However, if you want to keep reading when your not out and about here's a few suggestions. The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women Into Bed - Mystery https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/25376.The_Mystery_Method Intimate Connections - David D Burns https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/194358.Intimate_Connections How …
/r/seduction17/12/15 02:01 PM
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Alongside Models, Intimate Connections by David D Burns is also a great read. There's a lot in common between both books and both make a great read
/r/seduction13/12/15 05:28 PM
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There are some great books out there worth reading. Side note before I list some books, there are some people who preach action over reading. Although there is some logic to it, I personally find this idea is extremely flawed. Books will never allow you to improve yourself just by reading them; however they give you required knowledge to put into action which in turn will allow you to improve. I like to think of self-help books as enablers, or the first step, so to speak. How can you act to impr…
/r/seduction13/12/15 01:46 PM
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I have recently been making significant progress in overcoming my own social anxiety / anxiety around women. Here's my opinion. The problem I had was always trying to cure the symptom (anxiety) and not the illness which caused it (low self-esteem.) Like /u/Luftwaffe88 mentioned, one of the best ways to overcome these problems is to work on yourself. In my case working on improving my self-esteem decreased my anxiety and depression as a secondary result.
/r/seduction06/12/15 09:47 PM
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My thoughts - I'm not really aware of all the seduction coaches online so my views will be comparing Mark Manson (via his book Models) with Neil Strauss and Mystery (via the books The Game and The Mystery Method.) In comparing the two, I find it impossible to say which is objectively better as their methods differ greatly as well as the outcome. What are you looking for from the PUA world? Personally I prefer Mark Manson to Strauss / Mystery. This isn't because he's "better", but because his met…
/r/seduction06/12/15 03:13 PM
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