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I'm a man that has always been social and had a large network of friends and outside of the occasional a****** talkin about our sex lives as usually not good My cousin's wife does this a lot. She will talk about my cousin's penis and what they do during sex. My cousin doesn't like it and I'm pretty sure she says it around me only because we all grew up together. I basically known her since we were all 14
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/22 06:23 PM
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I can appreciate a feminist in their ideas of deconstructing gender and gender roles But they get it wrong when they don't apply that same energy to the male gender role
/r/MensRights01/06/22 12:45 PM
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As a poor black man I've seen the difference. I had a co-worker which literally is a rapist but got away with it because he's rich The guy takes no showers and has no social skills. Because he doesn't have to because he doesn't need to learn how to be a functioning person to get a job and then to live because his parents will just buy him whatever He's crash two cars but always gets another one because his mom and dad are rich The guy literally has a criminal record but he will still be able to …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/22 10:54 PM
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I have. It wasn't physical but it was Heavy psychological My clothes weren't good enough and my friends were never good enough. Almost everything I did annoyed her if it wasn't with what she wanted I was called every single emasculating term under the sun. I still have anxiety and trust issues from it
/r/MensRights31/05/22 05:14 PM
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Oh no I would say maybe 25% of both men and women enjoy the older people and even less percentage actually make it happen I still wonder what my mom would say if I brought home a woman that's basically her age
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:10 PM
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Because she still benefiting from it even if she doesn't really want it. I had to stop talking to one girl who kept play games because I would text her. And she will wait two days to text back and that went on for about a couple of months The point is girl's ego and how they perceive men's get inflated because even though they don't want the attention they still use it when they get it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 05:09 PM
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I swear I thought that it was some weird Hollywood cliche about being not so maladjusted but a lot of girls really do view you as being normal is somehow unattractive or weird or boring Not all the time and not in every scenario. But nice guys finish last is usually true and it's usually because those guys are genuinely laid back Just because you don't prefer to be ultra masculine and try to dominate everything, doesn't mean you can't protect yourself or that you're not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:13 PM
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That's the thing is for double standard because you're still benefiting from the attention yet complain about unwanted attention Girls don't see it this way because you're the ones that have the vagina which means you control access to sex If a man is out with a woman and he is courting her and taking her out to date and basically spending his time and money and resources ,without some type of put back ,then he is wasting time but she is benefiting from that still. I'm not saying a woman awesome…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:10 PM
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Which is why Kevin Samuels was so popular RIP It's crazy how so many average women seem to think that they are above average men when we're all on the same level Even if you are more attractive if you are still living in the same neighborhood or have the same income bracket then wow yes your looks may help you but you're really not doing any better than your neighbor. It's crazy how our society is so hell-bent on being so competitive when we're all in the same boat That's why the little Instagra…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:07 PM
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You know the crazy thing is being big and tall and black that sometimes it backfires. Like sometimes a lot of girls are into me but they expect me to be some type of thug I was once out with a girl who could not stop acting so surprised that I was speaking black yet I wasn't beating every dudes head in or mean mugging everybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 06:03 PM
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And the crazy thing is it's hard for me to believe that so many men are just that unattractive or weird because if that was the case then nobody would have any positive interaction For every Behavior a man may do, if it's creepy to one woman then there's a good chance another woman will find it the opposite and may be attracted to it That was one of the biggest things that helped me out of a depression in high school Yes some people will not like you for whatever reason but think about all the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:47 PM
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I have tons of ex-girlfriend's and female friends who will admit to it My toxic ex had a pregnancy scare and thought that she was about to have a 40-something year-old baby One of my deadbeat dads friends is about the same age as him at 44 and he just knocked up a nineteen-year-old I'm 25 but I've dated a 19 year old and a 40 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:42 PM
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And this is why I find it crazy that girls get mad when guys either call them gold diggers or attention whores And I know that's not every case but it's crazy how much girls will go on and on about how they hate Male attention yet, Thrive off of it. even the ones they hate I can see why so many guys are not dating anymore because just sending a text out is a gamble because you can either get a girl that's genuine or a girl who's just going to sit there and not respond but she's definitely benefi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:35 PM
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Men have all of those excuses to When I was in art school while being an artist part-time and working two jobs I still have time for socializing And texting girls I think men would like women to be more honest about this thing and just stay there you don't like the guy or you don't like him enough to immediately text back Girls are on their phones constantly Girls will spend hours on social media yet we'll act like they don't have time
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:31 PM
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So if you are a man basically if you text and she takes forever to text back it's just a no-go? Thank you for being honest at least because I see so many women try to Dodge this question and not tell the truth Like girls are on their phones more than guy so there should be no excuse to why she missed a text Unless he is keeping him on the back burner or just ignoring him which is just awful
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:28 PM
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I'm pretty feminine and emotional as a man and it has helped me I'm a visual artist aside from the usual confidence of actually putting yourself out there and selling your art I couldn't imagine not being an artist and not being a little feminine because art conveys a lot of different emotions. My job as an artist is to use lines and space in color to signified or personify some type of image that draws out the emotion in the viewer I understand what you're saying though but I feel like that is …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:23 PM
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That's exactly why Society should care more about me because it really shouldn't be a downside to admitting you have a trauma from something serious and legit. What you typed out is exactly the type of double standard and hypocrisy that is frustrating I'm not blaming you but I understand completely where you're coming from And it's a shame that men have to feel like that and it took me here so I can finally see emotionally vulnerable and expressive without feeling like I was some loser But all w…
/r/MensRights30/05/22 03:30 AM
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I agree with this When we objectify somebody we dump them down to where we were think would be their best behavior based on stereotypes or even things out in the real world And objectification can go for anything, when you look at images of sports players of any gender you're technically objectifying them Because we don't see them in human capacity anymore but we see them for what their function or use should be Like an object. It's not human and it's only there to function for us Of course it's…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/22 10:17 PM
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It's the same with female on male bullying We all know bullying has long lasting effects because it happens in childhood when the brain is barely developed That's why you have a ghost even though they may be better off still have Trauma from that If you say to a feminist that women have bad behavior to and do crazy behaviors they'll just write you off and say that " woman go through enough and a woman bullying you is it the same as being oppressed" or whatever Just because someone has gone throu…
/r/MensRights29/05/22 08:32 PM
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We justify it by saying that everybody gets fully for that but this type of stuff is damaging Despite the common phrase we actually do care about one another and what we think We evolved out of the Jungle and formed communities and tribes and cities. Because when you get to that we had a much better chance of surviving if we were literally together If you were to do something that was considered anti-social in our ancestral past, that usually meant getting kicked out of the tribe or Village and …
/r/MensRights28/05/22 06:32 PM
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Albro don't mistake me I understand that completely that's why I hate how both sides demonize man because trying to act like a traditional 1950s man just not viable I live with my grandfather who is 71 He was in his 20s in the 70s I once asked him if he ever worked two jobs. He responded "No. I didn't need to." Of course everybody's life is different and my grandfather was a black man in America. But it baffles me to somebody that comes from a long ago age where people were supposedly working ha…
/r/MensRights28/05/22 06:26 PM
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Which is why I always hated the advice that is given Bullies get away with what they get away with it because they know they can It's no different from a corrupt judge or police officer They have a power or source of power and they abuse it Standing up to a bully almost never works because just because you beat the bully up or make fun of them back doesn't mean they'll stop Some people are more cowardly in real life and nine times out of ten will side with a bully and the victim will get in trou…
/r/MensRights28/05/22 04:37 PM
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Or you have a bunch of fathers who are deadbeats thinking that they are old respect just because they are fathers Don't get me wrong I hate giving you some too but me and my dad fight constantly because he's constantly making excuses for himself You can call yourself an old G if you don't raise your kids and doubly so if you go out of your way to raise some other man's kids but ignore your own I'm tired of both sides blaming mens issues on the men I worked hard while growing up in an abusive hou…
/r/MensRights28/05/22 04:21 PM
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As a black man I can see why some of my brother's choose to go right because while they may have problems with being black men most of that comes from being men Which took me a long time to really understand that but my black sisters and cousins don't have the same problems even though they have their own If you're a man or a big man just your presence is threatening already. You can literally see it in people's eyes if you walk through a public space like a grocery store I really want to ask a …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/22 03:12 PM
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I was talking to this at work with someone today Half the population in the u.s. think men are pussies while the other half believe your evil and dangerous This is contradictory of course but you can see why it makes men go crazy You literally can't win because if you're tough enough then you're dangerous but if you try to be more calm and cautious then you're a weakling
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/22 02:51 PM
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Exactly Man gets brainwashed into white knighting by all of society Usually by their own parents but if that doesn't happen Society / the media/feminist will do it instead And feminist girlfriends will mess a dude up Women already had an in group bias even in the dark times. Now Society doubles down on that but would have you thinking that women were actually oppressed
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/22 08:40 PM
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Exactly. And if you ever catch a feminist in their own BS They'll act like it never happened. I have a cousin that was a man hater and followed Derrick jaxn of all people She would force feed me his videos as if they were gospel truth Cut about two years to now and now everybody knows that Derrick Jackson was a fraud, she acted like she was never a fan I straight up asked her if she still follows him just because I wanted to see what she said. " he just wanted to spin his own narrative" And I'm …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/22 08:36 PM
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Because they really don't care about equality and it takes a lot to see it but that's the truth The sad thing is I know a bunch of people who called himself that really do think they're doing good work but the fact that they cannot see any woman's bad behavior and will dress it up call any man's behavior toxic and s3xist It's a glaring double standard Right now they're debating if Karen is a misogynistic term
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/22 03:46 PM
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Can u elaborate? I always figured things won't change because though we are human and can think, we are still animals which explains 90% of the crap humanity has done and had to put up with
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/22 12:10 PM
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I do not agree with everything KS said but he gave advocacy to blue collar or working-class black men because there is still an air of superiority do a lot of people hold over working class man despite the fact that without these men , our society wouldn't run. A lot of people are too busy putting their eyes on more status heavy jobs like Bankers or lawyers
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/22 11:23 AM
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Aba and preach. Kevin samuels, Anna akana There's a lot of people on both sides actually did I can mention who have ideas I agree with and don't
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/22 05:39 PM
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I'm going through this right now on ready because even though I the man have been abused by a woman these people still wants me shut up basically and just accept that women have it harder I kid you not even after paragraphs of examples all they hear is a man complaining about a woman and therefore he should stop and learn about women's experience Society does not believe that women can abused men or hurt men and women know this and use it to their advantage all the time If Johnny comes out on th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/22 04:09 PM
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I told some of my closest female friends this If it was truly about equality then they would be equally supportive and aware of men's issues
/r/MensRights10/05/22 10:40 PM
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We don't need another preaching. Which is basically what these videos do. Im all for analyzing and breaking down stuff but sometimes it's still gets to blaming men. Toxicity and bad ideas are permeated on both sides. Girls and boys media reflect unrealistic and toxic norms all the time
/r/ExRedPill10/05/22 07:27 PM
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With everything else considered I already have those skills except for literally the physical sex part
/r/ExRedPill08/05/22 08:45 AM
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Sometimes that works. Other times it has backfire. Which is a given and I know that Is there something wrong with me if I don't want ro jump in
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 08:13 PM
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That's what's normal now. That's all that's been offered to me Both men and women have told me that i seem strange because I don't like it Fear of missing out. Trust issues
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 07:37 PM
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If that was the case then I would have stayed the same I'm not really a big believer in those types of things because if it was true then it would have worked I'm a visual artist and I really didn't start getting noticed from that til I was about 20 years old. The eight years prior to death of just telling myself that I was a good artist was going to cut it cuz I had to practice and find better tools This is tripping me up because mindset was really the key to all of this than I should have not …
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 07:35 PM
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I'm from the black community bro and this is a giant just this problem that even older women in the community will admit It's hard to advance as a people when a lot of your young men are Steeped in debauchery, but it's hard to blame them because if they were a normal then they will be seen as boring
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 07:33 PM
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Already did all that My life has been pretty interesting up until about 2 years ago My mom and both of my aunts literally had babies by gang Bangers There are tons of things to do that the count is interesting but it does not seem that way then it's just not seem that way
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 07:31 PM
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Their reaction is exactly what radicalized people It's telling because when they react like this you can tell they don't really care about the quality or understanding
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 03:42 PM
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It doesn't matter. It could be me or them but the point is how they react to their behavior after work that bothers me My original plan was to have that intimacy with one person and Faithfully but that did not happen for me Some girls I just was not into and for the fact that I went in blindly I should keep an erection I think I am one of those people that needs to feel at least if there's some type of emotional connection Just like women. I want someone I I be open with and trust Men get uncomf…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 03:10 PM
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I told a lot of girls in my own about why it is very problematic that bad boys are picked over especially one of those type of bad boy that is a thug If every girl in the city wants a Thug archetype, then what do you think every dude is gonna try to be? I've read that in certain cultures that was the norm for grown men to take their sons or nephews or students out to a brothel to avoid the very same thing we're talking about. Women are attracted to experience that often but if you don't have tho…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 03:03 PM
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You shouldn't have to hide it and it should be seen as a big stigma but I did make the mistake of telling someone that I was interested in that I was a virgin and that's why I no longer tell you want to go to an escort You can't both say that there's a huge stick with a confraternity and then somehow blame the guy when he understands that it's a stupid sticker but that same stigma has a lot of real life effects. I have got tons of times without dating And I've been working on mainly what you hav…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 01:42 PM
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Even in some of the most healthiest relationship I've ever witnessed, people still lieand stretch the truth It's the same reason a woman may find out on her husband's death that if he had another child by another woman It's the same reason why a man May later on in his life find out that is 10 year old is not his I'm not in any way application for line especially with something like this but telling the truth of being genuine is what got me here in the first place If it was really true that most…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 12:55 PM
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I don't think men have been lacking a emotional intelligence otherwise the human species would not be here ( without mentioning historical context and time periods and cultures) I don't think we give men enough credit also and that's another thing that's helped me out of my depression is that I can't just keep hating myself because I'm a man and just because a bunch of men do something or it stated doesn't exactly make it accurate But I do very much agree with the fact that while women have been…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 12:53 PM
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It is quite the conundrum isn't it? I haven't dated in about maybe 4 months because I'm trying to get myself situated but that's also partly because I have such huge trust issues.
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 12:51 PM
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Holding hands. Cuddling. Oral. Fingers. Kissing. Me and first girlfriend decided to wait. The only reason why I have as much experience like you asked it's because I'm basically forced myself to but I still rather have sex in a relationship but not everybody has that luxury
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 12:48 PM
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Yes you can You will be very surprised how many people may be attracted to you, that you'd never know, that is something I've had to learn I do think men would do themselves a big favor because a bad experience is not preferal to ko experience I'm pretty much the same before and after I started I would go even further how to say that I probably would be better off if I just spent so much time on ex-girlfriends that were toxic
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 12:45 PM
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How would you know?
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 12:43 PM
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Part of me still wants to be patient and see if there's a girl out there that really don't care what my track record just tells me that that's not a good strategy I find it amazing because if a girl had any type of sexual hang-up whether it's physical or mental the guys expected to be there for her and work with her but I'm just not sure that happens the same way around Believe me this was Last Resort . plan z
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 11:09 AM
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Crazy thing is a lot of the girls I have went out with have been older women I found a girl that was everything you just described but because of factors outside our control that didn't happen And it's not about my set because if that was true then I wouldn't be having this problem at all I get you're trying to spend this to sound more positive and I value that but once again if my mindset was really the problem then I would not be here
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 11:07 AM
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Honestly bro I still get attention even though I live with my mom Over half my friends are in the same situation and if they're not there usually living with the roommate and are pretty much in the same socioeconomic situation If a girl does have a problem with that I usually just drop her. I was out with a girl one time who loved bashing broke dudes But keep in mind she was also broke and living in her car is no. There is nothing wrong with that until you start judging everybody else as if you'…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 11:01 AM
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You'd be surprised how many men do understand that The common narrative is that men don't understand but in my experience that's just not true Some red flags to be how she treats service workers or how she talks about other people Now people are human and not everybody is evil but at the same time if you are constantly putting other people down then how can I not think that you may be doing me the same way?
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 10:57 AM
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Believe me bro I do not want to do this But I have major trust issues and a girl really has not proven to me that I can trust her I know I'm attractive because I've even turn down women because they were trying to use me to cheat I spent a lot of my good years on a wrong woman and I really regret that
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 10:55 AM
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Way ahead of you dude. My ex-girlfriend used to be a sex worker and I have had both so I'm not really judging about it and I know a lot of people aren't And especially when it comes to these type of double standard because I know women use the services too
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 10:54 AM
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You didn't really answer my question though and once again a girl really won't know unless I tell her
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 10:53 AM
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I'm not too comfortable with the girls and start talking about past experiences even if it's something like that because there are ways to tell a guy What She Likes without doing that This all sounds great in theory unless you have somebody to actually can work with you and I know they exist but this type of woman seems to be very rare Most of the stuff I already know and my past girlfriends really weren't that open as you described it but the knowledge itself isn't that hard but you need to app…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 10:52 AM
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You can't both say that it's the perception and then say that I'm putting too much worth in it at the same time tell me it's no big deal because is that pressure coming from myself or from Outer society
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 10:46 AM
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I've done all of that but the problem is I've never gone all the way with a woman I've had three hookups technically but I could not stay hard and it honestly was not pleasurable so I don't really count it I've had girlfriends and I've had dates And apparently I'm pretty good at eating a girl out but I only I've done that with my girlfriend in the past Getting to know a girl and then attracting her isn't the problem Getting a girl to look past your virginity is though
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 01:34 AM
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I really don't see the stigma behind virginity change it so what else am Im left with Believe me this is my absolute Last Resort. But I've been through all of that I know what it's like to take a stroll out of court her and do everything except for physical sex As I said before not every girl likes to teach in a lot of girls will reject you if you have no experience Just a couple months ago I was out on a date with a girl who was super into me and then she asked me about my experience I told her…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 12:38 AM
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Of course not but doing this clean and doing it authentically Hasn't really worked for me that well Don't get me wrong I am proud that I was able to grow up and not fall into any toxic traits as a young man even though they probably would have got attention quicker I have a friend who literally has lied about everything in his life and it's sad but it works even though he's not being authentic, as at least by his own words he's now a ladies man I have turned down women and I have even ignored wo…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 12:20 AM
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What kind of illustrates why men and women have such a huge dividing experiences because by your logic A guy seeing escort especially in a business that is so sketchy could be a turn off But if for some reason he's still not able to find sexual experience a lot of women would also consider that the turn off and then he still would be in the same boat My ex-girlfriend was also an escort. And I had no problem with it but that's because I'm a guy and I have very different challenges Believe me I do…
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 12:05 AM
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