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| 0 | Legal Separation vs. DivorceYeah he does have a right to my 401ks, but I had a little swaying power…gently reminding him of how he would not want many things to be public record during a silly litigation and that I’m raising our girls and he has seen them a handful of times over this past year and we are 4 miles apart and he still can’t show up for our beautiful girls… he does not deserve my retirement and since I care for our girls… he’s got nothing to say. I’ve never needed him financially, I’ve been working my ass off s… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/24 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Legal Separation vs. DivorceOnce you separate, the marital assets are divided, but my paychecks and money made after we started the year separation, nope, he has no right to my income and he tried to get some of my 401 k and I laughed at him…he has only had 1 job our entire 20 year marriage that last more than 4 years. You don’t get my retirement buddy when you put the burden on my shoulders to carry our whole family…and raise our kids alone Um hi, delusional here, party of one! 🤓 | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/24 12:05 PM |
| 2 | Legal Separation vs. DivorceDoes you state area require a year in separate spaces! If so, separation agreement asap, on day 366 you sign the decree, she is served, court process, and magically divorced! | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/24 11:59 AM |
| 0 | Legal Separation vs. DivorceDepends on where you live/laws, but it is very helpful if you have older kids, cars, who is responsible for what… I found it to be helpful to get it done so he’d stop thinking I was overreacting. He decided banging call girls would be a cool new hobby and exposed me to possible stds because he paid extra to not wear a cape! He had sex with me a week before I found out what as going on and he was symptomatic. Thankfully, my first and second rounds of testing were negative. The 12000 I spent to ge… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/24 11:49 AM |
| 13 | Revenge on stbxwYou’re a dad, that’s where you need to keep the focus. You seeking revenge on her will only hurt you and your kids. Be the parent your kids deserve and need. Who gives a crap about your stbx’s antics and sex life…she will make life even harder for you and your kids and you know that right? I know being cheated on is humiliating and it hurts, but you both can’t be a’holes…man up, dad up, and block, ignore, snooze her and limit contact with her unless it’s legal or child related that involves you … | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/24 01:07 PM |
| 0 | My ex just got a ridiculous OFP against me and 3/4 children. I can’t believe she did this. This was easily the dumbest thing she’s ever done.“I was supposed to watch my kids all this weekend”! That says it all for me right there. You hurt her, you hurt the kids, cool off, get counseling, and be a dad bruh! | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/01/24 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like meMaybe take cooking class at a local community college! Get 2-4 of plates, bowls, cups, kitchen towels, dishwasher detergent, cutting boards, mugs, knives, forks, spoons, a sauce pot, a larger pot for pasta, colander, coffee maker, toaster, panini presses for sandwiches/quesadillas are really great and I’ve heard air fryers can do smaller portions quick! Good luck! | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/23 11:47 AM |
| 1 | My ex-wife is refusing to let me pick up my son. there is also a TPO against me. What do I need to do?Ditto…. You must have an attorney | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/23 08:25 PM |
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