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this is why askTRP was good. But overall, it is good to see people getting into TRP and showing their thought process while starting to understand how the world works. Nothing wrong with sharing your thoughts and hearing others perspectives on them.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/24 09:18 PM
147

So what? One of the most basic rules is that girls like guys with options. The only thing you did wrong is if you acted like you did something wrong.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/21 05:12 AM
3

120? Looool get those numbers up bro
/r/TheRedPill25/08/21 12:09 PM
19

This is a travesty. Losing asktrp on Reddit is going to fuck over so many people that are nudging towards unplugging. This action should be reconsidered.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/21 07:04 AM
8

Not true. Maybe that way on dating apps, but in general not true. In fact, guys often are able to approach and score out of their league because girls simply aren’t used to it. Anecdotal experience also shows this is true.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:23 PM
8

Yeah this looks like he’s trying to get a relationship lmaooooo. F close (attempt) on first date is pretty much the standard.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 06:52 AM
28

Why would you book only to fuck her in the beginning? Book it if you think it will be fun, not to get a nut.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 06:44 PM
1

Ignore
/r/askTRP10/06/21 10:11 PM
4

It’s a lost cause 99.9% of the time. Especially if they are as deeply BP’d as you describe. Only go out gaming with people on your level. Your time is finite and you aren’t running a charity case.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 10:51 PM
2

Black pill/anger phase. It’s cool. Go through it. Just don’t go full MGTOW. The game is here to stay and eventually you’ll come to embrace it. Everyone that is red pilled occasionally goes through phases like yours, but acceptance and embracement come after.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 04:56 AM
2

Sure, but he didn’t smash. His brain thinks he did, but all he did was get off to other people smashing. This is why nofap and TRP are so closely related. If you masterbate without watching porn or fantasizing it’s different.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 04:55 AM
1

Step 1. Don’t focus on getting laid That’s literally it. Just have fun vibes and enjoy yourself. Club game is more physical than anything else. Go to club first for yourself and the girls will come.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 05:21 PM
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Being "kind and sweet" is a synonym for being a pushover. They aren't words that describe a strong man. Glad you are starting to understand that you have to listen to girl's actions instead of their words. FYI if the girl you were talking about wanted to bang you, she'd bang you. Don't get stuck being a provider to a post wall girl.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 05:33 PM
16

Besides STDs but yeah basically
/r/askTRP25/05/21 08:41 AM
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"red pilled and alpha af" Give me a break dude. You have oneitis over a girl from 7 years ago, probably post wall too. If you have a chance at an organic encounter with her go for it if you care that much. Don't text a mutual friend that you barely know, makes you look like a weirdo stalker.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 08:27 PM
4

Michael is a bigggggg bitch
/r/askTRP22/05/21 09:50 PM
5

Why LTR her then? lol
/r/askTRP21/05/21 09:15 PM
1

LOL read the sidebar. Abundance mentality my man.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 06:35 PM
3

Having sex with women, working out, and adopting stoic philosophy are all great ways to overcome the anger phase. Once you start, “getting yours” you will no longer be upset with the system in the same way. Meditations by Marcus Aurelius is a great resource for stoicism.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 07:41 AM
1

Because you swipe on them. Duh.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 09:46 PM
5

Read the sidebar. There’s an acronym list.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 09:50 AM
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Of course beauty matters. Proverbs 5:19 “A loving doe, a graceful deer - may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be intoxicated with her love.” Attraction to ones wife is one of the strongest defenses against the temptation of adultery. What’s done is done, but you clearly do not have friends that are RP’d.
/r/RPChristians10/04/21 09:49 AM
20

Field reports should stay on the main subreddit unless you have a question regarding it. Good stuff though. In other words, the sky is blue. Sounds like your eyes are opening. Keep it up.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 07:20 AM
7

“Those who would give up essential Liberty, to purchase a little temporary safety, deserve neither liberty nor safety.”
/r/askTRP09/04/21 11:49 PM
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I love how quick people are to give up their personal freedoms. Next time you are so eager to give them up, you might not get them back.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 10:50 PM
1

I get where you’re coming from too. A lot of people new to TRP are skeptical of introducing dread to an LTR. It requires a healthy contrast with comfort, but when introduced correctly, heavily reduces the chances of her branch swinging. Definitely something to get right practicing with your plates before getting into an LTR.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 09:32 PM
1

LOL no she didn’t. Dread is an extremely important concept to implement in an LTR and this is dread 101. It’s NOT supposed to sit right with her. That’s the point of dread. Her hamster is supposed to be turning. She is supposed to be guessing if she is good enough for you.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 09:16 PM
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Church is a good start. It’s pretty easy to tell a soft man from a strong man at church, especially in the south. There’s a pretty clear hierarchy of men.
/r/RPChristians09/04/21 06:09 AM
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Why would you delete her number in front of her? The dread is fine, but deleting her number was stupid. Just because she’s an LTR doesn’t mean you’re in the clear. She should know you have options. Deleting it shows you want to throw away your options for her.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 06:05 AM
1

Workout, read rollo, find a group of lads and hang out with them more. Get involved with sports. Pretty much do the things you haven't been.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 10:57 PM
3

Really? I am asked for my instagram almost everytime I go out, whether it be outdoor activities, clubbing, raving, ect. Where in the world/what demographic are you in if you aren't being asked this?
/r/askTRP30/03/21 08:16 PM
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I'm not sure why people in this thread are getting shut down for actual facts. One of the easiest and strongest quantifiable social proof methods to exist. If anything, without social media, you are working harder to display your social proof.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 08:15 PM
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God you’re a pussy
/r/askTRP29/03/21 06:00 AM
1

Artistic release. Playing an instrument. Outdoor recreational activities. Meditation. Tanning. Plenty of relaxing things that are still productive.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 03:42 PM
3

How can you deal with having a higher SMV now? Lets see... Start by not caring about what people from HS think about you. The only people from HS you should still be interacting with are people you actually care about or plates. Doesn't sound like that's the case now.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 08:36 PM
2

Why give her closure lol. Just take your gifts and leave.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 02:09 AM
1

I would think about doing it now. You have a perfect excuse while everyone is still wearing masks.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 03:42 PM
5

This is exactly how dead bedrooms start. How clueless are you? He's trying to prevent that. Don't project your relationship inadequacies as normalities.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 10:03 PM
3

This is basic shit test 101, but withdraw, occupy your time elsewhere (aka the gym). She wants you to come crawling back, but giving her affection positively reinforces this behavior. If it were me, I’d insist nothing was wrong by kissing her, smiling, ect. But being very distant and making myself unavailable to her. Her hamster will turn and she’ll come back and either A. Apologize, or B. Initiate sex.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:47 PM
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The problem here is that you were overt about what was wrong. Just withdraw, and she'll come around. Sounds like you're in her frame right now. Correct that.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:42 PM
1

better than jerking off
/r/askTRP23/02/21 11:21 PM
2

No explanation. She would want closire
/r/askTRP20/02/21 05:58 AM
4

I'm considering joining a mason's lodge near me. Growing your tribe is one of the more difficult things to do in this day in age.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 09:28 PM
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Why would you respect her if she’s really into a guy and agreeing to go to her old FWBs apartment? AWALT. Enjoy your turn.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 09:23 AM
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You lack abundance. Fix that and you’ll stop feeling like shit.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 09:56 PM
5

I wouldn’t offer up knowledge that you slept with her. But honestly man, don’t shit where you eat. Fucking the sister of a coworker that you are becoming acquainted to is about the same as fucking a coworker. Find plates elsewhere
/r/askTRP11/02/21 06:28 AM
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Rock climbing, lifting, MTB, shooting, camping, hiking, reading. All for different types of escapes.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 06:12 AM
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Machiavellianism is the reason TRP and Stoicism don't align for the most part. Which is why no practicing stoic could even consider the idea of going dark triad, regardless of how effective it is in spinning plates. The two schools of thought juxtapose each other in most ways. Primarily in the sense that Machiavellianism is essentially the absence of virtue. About the only similarity between the two that I can think of is the lack of emotional attachments.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 08:27 PM
1

For the americans that's $41k LOL. How do you have your PhD and make what the average elementary teacher makes? Go somewhere that pays you more and invest your money.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 08:19 PM
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Living virtuously and in accordance with nature aligns much more with TRP than living indulgently. TRP pushes the importance of lifting and maintaining frame. Both of these can be related to stoicism. Frame can be related to the stoics resolve when being shit tested: "To be like the rock that the waves keep crashing over. It stands unmoved and the raging of the sea falls still around it." - Marcus Aurelius (Meditations, 4.9) Additionally, lifting is propped up with stoic principles and values. T…
/r/askTRP09/02/21 08:02 PM
1

Rpchristians is a good resource
/r/askTRP09/02/21 05:56 AM
1

You really only have to train each muscle group twice per week for maximum results. Try following the PHUL routine to get results while limiting strength training to 4x per week.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 09:57 PM
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Instead of cutting lifting, get an active hobby to replace 2 sessions/week. PPL is fine, but mixing a combat sport in, or an active sport, I.E. Rock Climbing. BJJ guys are super chill, as are Rock Climbers. Great way to meet guys and girls to socialize and build your circle.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 09:36 PM
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This would be one that I'm currently working on too. Engaging in active sports helps weed some people out. Honestly considering joining the Freemasons, there's a lodge super close to me.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 09:33 PM
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start lifting, find an active hobby. Stop going to bed mad at yourself.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 09:08 PM
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It's not for everyone. You can work and get there but nobody will be holding your hand. Or go to the other parts of reddit that reinforce your current lifestyle. Always a choice to be made.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/21 04:10 AM
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keep paying for sex and thinking you’re red pilled👍🏼
/r/askTRP27/01/21 06:21 PM
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I’ve been to Mexico and fucked girls that didn’t make me pay them lmao. If that’s how you want to spend your money go for it. But don’t act like you’ve internalized TRP when the only way you can get someone to fuck you is by paying them.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 06:13 PM
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Paying for pussy is fucking stupid
/r/askTRP27/01/21 05:58 PM
-6

So your takeaway from TRP is that instead of dealing with AWALT... Go to Mexico and buy hookers? Are you retarded?
/r/askTRP27/01/21 05:29 PM
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Agreed, pretty nasty. But I assume smokers don’t care
/r/TheRedPill25/01/21 11:13 PM
11

Go to work. Get your work done. Work is not the place to mentor men on TRP. You can literally get your career stripped from you if you say the wrong thing at work. Not worth the trouble.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 06:35 PM
0

Why are mods allowing posts like this?
/r/TheRedPill12/01/21 10:10 PM
0

Bust their balls back, A&A, ignore. Be grateful you have buddies that are busting your balls. It helps you grow thicker skin.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 10:02 PM
6

At one year in it’s easy to be black pilled. If you have no intentions of fathering a child, there is nothing inherently wrong with this viewpoint. But, women do add value when children are involved. They also keep you sharp and on your feet. Their barrage of tests for you strengthen you into a stronger man, as stupid as it sounds. Men jump on you like wolves if you don’t have a strong frame.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 08:27 AM
16

Bruh how do you even nut to that LMAO
/r/askTRP27/12/20 09:09 AM
1

How’d his sick taste?
/r/askTRP27/12/20 09:08 AM
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I lol’d lmao
/r/askTRP22/12/20 11:27 AM
18

Just lead. Don't ask permission. You'll get there.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 01:32 AM
1

Acknowledging its existence and overcoming it using TRP.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 03:54 PM
2

The solution to hypergamy is not to fuck hookers in Thailand lmao. That’s like telling someone in order to win the game you stop playing the game. Technically you don’t lose, but you sure as hell don’t win. If you’re happy, go for it. But it’s not helpful advice to tell someone else on this board.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 08:28 AM
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Don’t have time to read this shit. First and foremost sidebar. Why did she leave you? AWALT? Not yours, only your turn? This is beginner shit. I read a few of your responses and they read like you need actual psychological help. You’re 22 but you’re acting like you’re 15. You are not special. The world doesn’t care about you. You have a lot to learn. Read up, practice, lift harder, develop your social circle better, and quit bitching.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 08:24 AM
1

Why are you still with her?
/r/askTRP20/12/20 02:48 AM
1

Ehh I’d disagree. The original point of the subreddit was for more in depth RP questions that go beyond the sidebar. But it has devolved since then due to the moderators diligence.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/20 04:23 AM
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And those are the guys that don’t frequent this subreddit or read the sidebar. We should hold ourselves to a higher standard. The mods at asktrp have been doing a bad job moderating to say the least.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/20 07:13 AM
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What point are you trying to make here? That we shouldn’t share the pill with everyone? Anyone half aware of the truths of TRP knows that not everyone is geared to be RP’d. Let’s save this forum for actual lessons instead of obvious shit.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/20 06:46 AM
1

Don’t be friends with pussies
/r/TheRedPill17/12/20 07:29 AM
1

Faking it till you make it works if you are actually focused on making it. But if you are asking to be spoon fed and not putting the work in yourself you have no reason to be confident. That facade will fall down ridiculously fast.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 03:38 PM
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Basically what Young said. Say, “you shouldn’t, I’m an asshole” with a smirk. Granted, you have to be sly about this. Otherwise you can always turn the tables on them/laugh it off. Lots of good responses, but you won’t be able to sell anything without basic game theory. This is beginner shit, read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 03:35 PM
1

LMAOOOOOO
/r/askTRP14/12/20 02:59 AM
2

I’ll have a different approach than most in this thread. There is nothing wrong with introducing your friends to the redpill. I say this with two caveats. You ultimately don’t need redpill friends. They can be nice to have, especially when you are trying to unplug for accountability reasons. You can’t expect people to accept the truth when you present it to them. I’ll echo what other people in this thread say. In order to redpill your friends you have to first make judgment calls on who will be …
/r/askTRP13/12/20 09:22 PM
1

Why are you on this subreddit? Go back to the blue pill.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 09:14 PM
2

It may be true that he has had bad experiences with women, but it sure as hell isn’t true that NAWALT.
/r/askTRP13/12/20 09:11 PM
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Haha I had a good laugh about it the next day. Gotta give him shit for it though
/r/TheRedPill13/12/20 12:51 AM
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You can still post to the main subreddit. It will show up even though it’s quarantined. Let’s try to keep this subreddit to questions.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 09:19 PM
2

Hate fuck. Fun selfish sex. It’s great.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 02:59 AM
2

I fucking died
/r/askTRP11/12/20 08:14 AM
5

Literally this LMAO. How about, “let’s shoot some pool sometime” or “let’s hit up a party and find some girls”. Don’t stress it, but know that you’re probably coming across gay.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 08:13 AM
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Hahaha it’s always fun picking up the ones that “have a boyfriend” either it’s a shit test, or you’re better than their boyfriend. Either way, a good time.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 08:09 AM
5

Definitely having a conversation when I see him on Saturday. He’s engaged, but this girl was significantly more attractive than his fiancé. Still thinking it was pure lack of understanding game on his part, but may have been sabotage. Gonna give him a bunch of shit when I see him because if that was his attempt at wing manning (when I never asked him to) then he needs a solid roasting.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/20 01:43 AM
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I get where you’re coming from. But when I’m in public I make sure to wear a mask and follow proper CDC guidelines. I work from home. If I contract covid from a club, I’m not putting anyone at risk that isn’t accepting the same risk as me by going to that club. I’m ready for this vaccine to get distributed so we can go back to normal.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/20 09:27 AM
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Ehh more like I’m not at risk. I should be able to choose to live my life how I want to as long as I’m not putting others at risk.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/20 09:18 AM
1

Damn. AZ here and our governor is a huge bitch
/r/TheRedPill10/12/20 07:15 AM
1

Yes in most cases when I hear people suggesting others go to therapy it’s in a more of a coaching type environment. Think, “tell me how you feel” type settings. Rarely do I hear people refer to therapy for serious mental disorders. Of course I’m not involved in the medical field or surrounded by people in the medical field, so my experience is different than others that are.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 07:07 AM
3

Gotta love Florida. What are the clubs like over there? Back to normal more or less?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/20 05:52 AM
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None of the states and none of Europe? Lol, pretty sure only New Zealand and possibly Taiwan are the only places open rn
/r/TheRedPill10/12/20 03:45 AM
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What part of the world are clubs with dance floors open? I'm in a premiere club location and our club scene is limited to tables and no dance floor.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/20 03:25 AM
1

Only from my university Psychology courses. I don’t claim to be an expert but there is a big difference between seeing a professional to treat PTSD, BPD, ect.. and seeing a therapist to solve your life problems and vent. That’s where I was going and I assume OP was going.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 11:19 PM
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This brings me back to last weekend. I went to a club with two of my buddies that are engaged and invited this smokeshow to join us at our table. She got ready and joined us a bit later. Shortly after getting there and leading her to our table I hit the bathroom. I got back and one of my buddies was talking to her. I let it go on for a little bit because I didn't care and eventually I give him the, "wtf are you doing" look. He says, don't worry man I'm telling her how great you are. The dude was…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/20 11:15 PM
2

Idk it’s the difference between seeing a clinical psychologist/psychiatrist and seeing a therapist. Therapy is pretty feminine outside of the former examples I gave. You’re literally venting to someone about your problems like women do.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 09:50 AM
4

Be submissive to get a girl. Try to display value by being submissive. Overall just being pussies.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 09:48 AM
6

Unfortunately as the old proverb goes, “You can lead a horse to water...” He isn’t high SMV. Most likely won’t ever be. He’s going to have to settle for a girl that is around his SMV or lower due to his disability. You can give him the book if you are feeling responsible for him, but I wouldn’t expect him to absorb it. The best way to help him would be to lead by example and sprinkle RP truths on him. Show him the alternative lifestyle, and don’t let it seem unobtainable.
/r/RPChristians08/12/20 07:20 PM
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You’ll probably just confuse him more. I mean is he capable of reprogramming himself with his disability? If you need to get him one I would say TRM, but who knows if it will even set in. Chances are he’ll go black pill.
/r/RPChristians08/12/20 07:03 PM
5

Lmao. This is blatantly false.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/20 03:22 AM
2

Ehh just switch it off man. I’ve been in your boat. She’s no unicorn, just go get laid and move on.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 09:40 PM
1

Sounds like you are very emotionally invested still. Get over her man
/r/askTRP06/12/20 08:27 PM
5

This advice is good for determining if someone is good LTR material but OP already knows she isn’t.
/r/askTRP02/12/20 05:50 AM
3

Gift him the rationale male instead
/r/askTRP29/11/20 08:35 PM
3

Uhhh that’s who they are most attracted to lmao. My easiest lays have always been asian
/r/askTRP26/11/20 10:32 PM
3

Southeast Asia, Latin America
/r/askTRP26/11/20 10:32 PM
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If you are white any Asian country. Otherwise backpacker cities like Barcelona, budapest, Prague, ect. If you have money, Latin America.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 07:47 PM
1

As you should be. But a nuts a nuts. Better than jerking it.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 04:56 PM
10

Don't add she's not reliable lmao. That shows you're emotionally invested. Assumed mastery means you don't care that she cancelled because you have options. Simply by suggesting the zero date option shows you don't care.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 11:12 PM
1

Typically soft next in this situation. Text her only for logistics when you get back. No date invite her over to your place or invite yourself over to her place with a bottle of wine.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 11:10 PM
1

Wtf is with this self righteous shit dude. So you’re busy and can’t manage your time right to game girls? Ok. Why have you come here looking for validation? You easily have enough time to game girls. People here game girls on their regimented free time, even if they are busy. I’m a masters student that works as an engineer full time and I work out 4 times per week and rock climb twice a week. The answer is you stop chasing women. You plate low maintenance girls and invite them over when you’re b…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 08:52 PM
1

No you can’t. That’s what guy friends are for.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 05:31 AM
2

6’2. But height doesn’t really matter. If you are below 6’ just don’t put it in your bio.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 05:30 AM
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Read the title, yeah dude drop her. Read the body, chances are she was trying to have a threesome with you guys. Just because she denied you one with another girl doesn’t mean she doesn’t want one with another guy. I’ve had this happen to me before with some random girl and my homie. I ended up having the threesome for shits and giggles. Still the right move to drop her. I wouldn’t tolerate that behavior from a plate.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 08:54 AM
1

MGTOW is full of incels that deviate from the original MGTOW philosophies that I agreed from.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 04:52 AM
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Look up tinder guide on the main TRP subreddit. There’s a post from 2 years ago outlining the method I use.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 04:26 AM
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Like I said. This sub is going to shit. TRP is not about bitching about your problems. Tinder is great, you literally don’t have to put any effort into it. I can call over a girl that I haven’t met yet and have a great time with minimal effort. People just aren’t using it correctly.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 03:51 AM
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Exactly, this sub is becoming some pussy MGTOW shit
/r/askTRP14/11/20 01:42 AM
1

Sure
/r/askTRP14/11/20 01:32 AM
1

I’ll PM you my profile. I have plenty of matches that I don’t even bother messaging. There’s a science to the algorithm too. Don’t swipe on anyone lower than a 7.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 11:02 PM
1

Top 80% of women compete for the top 20% of men and the bottom 80% of men compete for the bottom 20% of women on these apps.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 01:46 AM
1

You probably broke this plate. Obviously going forward, you should know that you messed up by confirming her suspicions. Never confirm. Implied via assumed mastery. Don't beat yourself up though. Good job defining the relationship. Learn from your mistakes.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 08:21 PM
45

Get better at wearing condoms man. Or get snipped. You don’t want to be fucked over by getting a random pregnant
/r/askTRP08/11/20 09:36 PM
37

Usually that’s the move. If you’re good at going down on girls they won’t be able to resist. Fucked some Mormon girl that way when she said she was saving herself for marriage lmao
/r/askTRP08/11/20 09:36 PM
1

Jesus Christ dude. Let this guy be the reason that you wear condoms and don’t commit to women until you have a strong frame.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/20 12:21 AM
2

Who cares
/r/askTRP01/11/20 09:03 PM
1

Oh wtf yeah you’re fine bro just ghost her if you aren’t into that
/r/askTRP31/10/20 05:25 PM
2

I assume you live outside of US? Possibly Japan. It’s important to know the laws of the country you live in on this. Save a screenshot of your conversations and her profile. Additionally try to get her to admit it over text. She’s 15, it should be easy. Also, don’t feel too bad. If this was Japan, the girls look extremely young until their mid 20s.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 05:23 PM
1

If you don’t have anything else going on just go and socialize dude. Meet her friends and you might find yourself being shared with them.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 08:13 AM
2

In general doing submissive shit during sex is a bad idea for the mind. Especially with someone under your SMV.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 09:49 PM
4

I read halfway and stopped to read the comments LMAO I was about to question the state of this sub again until I finished it lmaoooo
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:03 AM
11

Work on having no zero days
/r/askTRP20/10/20 10:54 PM
30

Frank Sinatra says it best
/r/askTRP20/10/20 10:52 PM
1

No fap man. Got to get away from that shit
/r/askTRP17/10/20 02:35 AM
23

I get fulfillment in my day to day life through my passions and work. Tinder is for fun at the end of the week when I need to destress.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/20 10:33 AM
1

The mods have been letting shit slide here for a while. There have been half a dozen posts on the state of this sub in the last few months. We need more active mods that ban ridiculous/common questions. This sub should be full of substantial and difficult questions that come at late stage RP. My take.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 10:24 AM
2

It is, but the post guidelines are pretty strict. The mods tend to delete anything that isn’t from a select few posters tbh
/r/askTRP15/10/20 10:21 AM
5

Marcus embodies these traits well. Stoicism aligns very well with TRP.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 05:17 AM
2

I came to add, but this sums it up perfectly!
/r/askTRP14/10/20 05:16 AM
4

why would you want to be committed to someone that doesn't want to be committed to you? This reeks of BP behavior. Just keep her as a plate before you inevitably break it due to your lack of frame.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 07:13 PM
21

Jesus
/r/askTRP12/10/20 02:53 AM
1

yeah
/r/askTRP09/10/20 07:37 PM
9

Some of the suggestions are a bit off, but good resource overall. I find myself naturally doing this, so it’s cool to see it written down
/r/askTRP07/10/20 12:15 AM
3

Ehh this dude doesn’t seem to be high SMV. He agreed to meet up with a hooker and has dated them in the past. Wouldn’t take his experience for face value.
/r/askTRP28/09/20 10:14 PM
1

In the sidebar I believe there are some book recommendations, however, it would be helpful to link the sub. Specifically speaking about the books you linked
/r/askTRP26/09/20 05:37 AM
3

Wtf I’ve been here for 4+ years and just heard
/r/askTRP26/09/20 05:35 AM
1

What’s your bio? That’s somewhat important too, show yourself in social situations, especially with attractive girls if you have any pictures
/r/askTRP25/09/20 04:56 PM
1

Dread.
/r/askTRP23/09/20 11:32 PM
-2

That’s considered luxury? Remind me to stay in Scottsdale
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 05:12 PM
8

Meditations -Marcus Aurelius
/r/askTRP22/09/20 02:35 AM
2

Pretty common to be attracted to girls with NPD if you have parents with NPD. At least until you’re unplugged. My first serious ex was like that. Fucked me up for a while.
/r/askTRP20/09/20 06:36 PM
22

This is the way
/r/askTRP19/09/20 05:39 PM
1

Because there are plenty of women outside of work and it’s not worth your job to get involved like that.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/20 07:59 AM
2

What else would you have done but left? Lmao, she wasn’t having it, probably because you didn’t give her plausible deniability. The only option here was for you to leave. It would have been “more alpha mentality” to actually convince her.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/20 07:58 AM
1

Max out ROTH, max out HSA, get on your company’s HDHP. Max out 401k bc you actually can with your income. All that together is around $30k. Then put the rest towards real estate. You have a rare opportunity to FIRE before 35. Do it.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 07:35 PM
6

Most people won’t celebrate your success. Get used to it as you unplug. If people in your life don’t like that you are lifting, wait until you actually start adopting red pill theory.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 04:48 AM
4

Not yours, just your turn. Just keep her as a plate until she breaks. Obviously your friends wont respect you if you LTR her. But who cares about her past if she's your plate as long as she's clean?
/r/askTRP15/09/20 09:39 PM
3

Laughed out loud at that ending
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 08:36 PM
4

The best way I have found is to make note of what is said in person. Then, directly afterwards, send them a follow up email confirming everything you talked about. Then, at the end say, if I got any of this wrong please let me know so we can be on the same page. This way you have it all in writing, and if they don’t reply, then that confirms everything that was said was accurate.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 06:38 PM
1

Sounds like a bunch of excuses. You say you understand abundance, do you actually? Abundance doesn't mean there are a bunch of "club slut or bar hoes". It means that there are an abundance of girls that are exactly like your ex. You clearly don't have frame right now, so build that up. How can you expect to attract a "quality girl" with a weak frame? Stop feeling sorry for yourself and put in the effort. Read The Rational Male, lift, focus on your career and yourself. Get in the right head space…
/r/askTRP09/09/20 04:55 PM
2

When you say the latest being 25, do you mean that you want to find your wife at 25? If that is the case, you need to be single for some time and fuck around. You need to up your body count and experience the game before settling down. You don’t want to find that partner after only have two other relationships.
/r/askTRP08/09/20 07:17 PM
8

Just don’t answer directly. Never answer a girls shit test questions directly.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 05:35 PM
22

This fucking sub these days.
/r/askTRP06/09/20 07:00 PM
3

You can lower your standards for high tiered girls if you want. Traditionally speaking they are girls that are at the top of SMV potential with countless orbiters/guys pursuing them. At the end of the day AWALT. If you lose frame, she might not drop you immediately, but the seeds of doubt will be sown and she will start looking for a replacement.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 12:28 AM
7

Exactly. High tier girls with limitless options don’t put up with drops in frame. An average girl will, which is why many people in the red pill community say to only LTR 8’s or below. You will drop frame eventually in an LTR and that is the only way to allow for slip ups.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 11:57 PM
4

Generally speaking getting into relationships/monogamy is more natural than going to school. Naturally as animals we have a desire to reproduce and for our offspring to survive. That happens best with a monogamous relationship.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 11:54 PM
171

Traditionally, For men: having kids/a legacy For women: comfort and stability These days, No fucking clue.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 10:24 PM
4

Some girls are weird about their living space. That being said, I would try to pull back to her place. It's incredibly convenient, and if you end up plating would be ideal if you like that bar.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 09:18 PM
0

Speak for yourself
/r/askTRP29/08/20 03:27 PM
9

Single parenthood is proven to not produce healthy adults. Develop your frame. Game more women. Then bring the right girl into your frame (good relationship with dad, good genes, smart). It's not that hard man, just don't break frame.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 06:56 PM
4

The reason you get answers like this is because it's pathetic to be hung up over one girl. You wanna know the answer to your question? Say "Thanks, long time no talk. Let's catch up over drinks at my place (x date, x time)." If you care about the outcome of that text, then you have learned nothing from what you've read. Every girl is different, she might just be trying to stroke her ego, or she might be interested in you again. Stop overthinking it. Abundance mentality is the only answer.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 09:28 PM
2

I definitely think we are seeing a wave of blue pill men posting here. There are a lot of comments supporting men’s attachment to girls rather than giving them advice about how AWALT. I attribute it to people not reading the material that is provided and coming in after eating a few PUA vids.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 07:22 AM
3

you need to keep gaming and having options. AWALT at the end of the day. If you show weakness and that she is your only option then you will fall into her game which is what she is trying when she baits you with those statements. You're only 20, which is young to have a serious LTR. You will learn as you age that women are not all that unique. Many women will display a majority of the traits that you desire. Focus on lifting and developing your social circle.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 05:45 AM
1

It’s a good baseline for starting strength. Not everyone is built the same way. People also start skinny as a twig and can’t bench that either
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:01 PM
1

Get body weight in bench, and aim for twice bodyweight in squat, and three times bodyweight in deadlift. StrongLifts 5x5 will help you with your beginning gains. Then after you plateau (talking like a year down the road) switch to a more structured regiment for your aesthetic goals. Currently I’m on P.H.U.L.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:39 AM
3

What are your stats? Squat, bench, DL, height, and weight? If they aren’t on point then she won’t respect you for enough to change. If they are, phrase it exactly like that. A stranger through the internet can’t help you with more context.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:32 AM
3

Just keep jerking off little one
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:04 AM
1

Guys often grow up with low confidence, and date below their league. Also, he could have got jacked after an LTR and isn't social capable enough to understand the IOIs.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:40 PM
23

Tell her directly that she is becoming less attractive. otherwise just leave them if you are in an LTR. If you aren't, why do you care?
/r/askTRP21/07/20 09:37 PM
2

Hard next. You have a glimpse of what your marriage would look like. Game younger 20 year olds to see what you’ve been missing out on.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 08:58 AM
0

Stop jerking off
/r/askTRP20/07/20 05:35 AM
0

This world is fucked. Watching porn at 7 years old? All I can say is read the side bar, study it like a religion. Use pmohandbook as a way to stop watching porn, and start lifting. You have plenty of life ahead of you. Look at this as a lesson and quit smoking weed for gods sake.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/20 08:08 AM
1

You realize that a plate that is super into you is one of the best plates to have right? They’ll do whatever you ask. Why are you spinning it as a bad thing?
/r/askTRP18/07/20 03:24 AM
17

Hahahahha OP is really struggling out here😢
/r/askTRP18/07/20 03:22 AM
1

Wouldn’t consider Chicago to have the hottest girls but it all depends on your taste. Clubbing on the west coast is a shit ton of blonde girls. They pack the gyms, dance venues, and pools. If you like to have a good time and take care of yourself, you probably won’t be running into many 5s.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 10:56 PM
1

If you can’t pick up an 18 year old and have to go for a 16 year old, you’re a fucking creep.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 05:12 PM
5

I’ve had this discussion before. The place I live (AZ) has some of the hottest girls I’ve seen. It’s ridiculous how many potentials there are here. The same cannot he said about the Midwest and the east coast. However, men generally are about the same most places. Granted, where I live men are generally more fit, but there isn’t much of a difference. If you want to be bagging 8’s and above on a consistent basis, you have to put yourself above the competition, or be somewhere where it’s less comp…
/r/askTRP17/07/20 05:10 PM
0

Fuck her (with protection) and ghost her
/r/askTRP17/07/20 02:55 AM
63

Great comment, once you realize the system values strength over sacrifice you are given new life.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 07:30 PM
0

Agree and amplify😂
/r/askTRP14/07/20 01:53 AM
2

That’s what my point was. He has no reason to contact a lawyer. Just keep the evidence and chill. He didn’t nothing wrong.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 06:42 AM
1

For what reason? He has the documentation. He did nothing wrong.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 06:17 AM
2

You did nothing illegal or wrong. Make sure you’re covered and you’re fine. I’ve hooked up with girls that have boyfriends or more. They feel guilty, but that isn’t your guilt to carry.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 06:15 AM
75

feels better with 9s/10s but still that's an important realization to reach. Abundance mentality is key.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/20 06:43 AM
5

Have you considered investing in real estate and getting passive income from that? You can live on the income you get from 2 hours easily, with $75k down on each you wouldn’t have a big payment each month, especially with renters.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 03:28 AM
2

Damn. Way too gaudy for me, but if you like it nice!
/r/askTRP09/07/20 02:54 AM
3

What kind of watch was it? Just curious. Nothing wrong with accepting a gift from someone.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 02:49 AM
1

Yeah not worth. I’ve got a three strike policy with shit tests especially if I’m just meeting the broad.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 08:10 PM
6

People that are giving you shit for this comment don’t understand basic RP theory and it’s clear. Abundance mentality states that working on yourself will always come before a lay. Good shit by hitting the gym and not giving a shit about the random lay.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 07:18 PM
1

Could have just been a shit test that you failed and she kept pushing. Just bc you say you played it off cool doesn’t mean you did. Gonna have to clarify how else she disrespected you too to get a good answer here.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 07:15 PM
1

To follow up on this, read sex god method
/r/askTRP02/07/20 06:55 PM
6

Lmaoooo facts
/r/askTRP02/07/20 06:53 PM
1

Why are you trolling on this subreddit lmao you have nothing better to do?
/r/askTRP01/07/20 08:45 AM
2

Looool what is this sub anymore. Read the sidebar and get rid of your scarcity mentality. Ffs.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 08:42 AM
1

Yeah no, don’t do that
/r/MGTOW220/06/20 04:00 PM
2

Yes
/r/askTRP20/06/20 03:48 PM
4

Amen. To compound on this, read meditations by Marcus Aurelius
/r/askTRP19/06/20 08:57 PM
15

There are other forms of dopamine that you can experience. The reward system in your brain is not structured to only function on orgasms. The gym is one form of dopamine, as is hitting achievable goals. Your main problem here is that you expect girls to come to you without doing the work. You don’t need a wingman or a friend to go out with you to pick up girls. Cold approachs are still king. With COVID people are slightly more standoffish, but I still don’t have trouble establishing kino when ta…
/r/askTRP19/06/20 08:33 PM
9

No he means if you tied up two girls that same weekend, what else did you do that was more exciting
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 05:08 AM
4

Romeo and Juliet laws typically only apply in grandfathered situations, aka if they were dating before one of them turned 18. Doesn’t really work if you’re 24 trying to pick up someone 7 years younger than you
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 11:41 PM
24

Yeah that’s basic game theory. We know we aren’t on an equal playing field lmao. We need to stop treating it like one
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 11:39 PM
1

At 22 you had $19,500 extra dollars to invest in your 401k after maxing your $5,500 Roth IRA contribution, and your $3,550 HSA contribution? That’s pretty unreasonable unless you have virtually free cost of living.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 08:17 PM
2

Just tell her you liked what you had before and demote her if you wanna keep spinning. Either she’s down or not.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 04:16 AM
1

Why does that even matter
/r/askTRP14/06/20 04:11 AM
2

Meh volatile ETFs are good for option trading but long term they aren’t going to produce. It’s always good to invest in large cap. It will always perform.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 04:28 PM
1

Maxing our 401k isn’t feasible for most people
/r/askTRP13/06/20 04:24 PM
7

Never try to time the market. Just buy S&P 500 and it will go well. Volatility ETFs only matter if you are a short trader
/r/askTRP13/06/20 04:23 PM
6

This 100%
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:06 AM
-1

You’re bad in bed and needy
/r/askTRP31/05/20 10:48 AM
3

Doing something you want to do and inviting them along for it
/r/askTRP29/05/20 08:20 AM
1

First focus on smashing one hot girl my dude
/r/askTRP29/05/20 07:32 AM
1

Lacking abundance mentality
/r/askTRP23/05/20 01:12 AM
1

Why would you LTR a whore that clearly determined her self worth by how much guys paid attention to her body? If you read any of the sidebar you would have known not to do that. Anyway, hope you learned. Be thankful you didn’t have a kid with her. You’re 17, so it’s good you’re learning this now.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 10:35 PM
-1

I said this in haste while on lunch. The context I thought I was replying to was post T. Yes, all testosterone converts into estrogen. However, your body STOPS producing T in your balls when you are on T which causes you to have essentially no libido when you get off. At the end of the day, you're messing with the hormones in your body. It's typically the people that don't do it smart that give it a bad rep, but regardless there is always some risk to it.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 12:09 AM
-11

Lmao keep round ragin buddy hahaha it’s known that people who take steroids have a lower sex drive
/r/askTRP19/05/20 09:54 PM
-3

Steroids increase estrogen production as well. That’s why
/r/askTRP19/05/20 09:37 PM
47

The best are girls that didn’t used to be hot but grew into being hot. They have the benefit of being humbled early on, and they’re still sexy. Those are hard to come by, but when they come around it’s great.
/r/askTRP18/05/20 07:40 PM
8

He said he was 17, so meh it’s not that much out of the question. Highschool is a weird time
/r/askTRP13/05/20 11:37 PM
2

I literally lol’d
/r/askTRP13/05/20 11:36 PM
1

Lmaooooo
/r/askTRP13/05/20 06:00 AM
1

Dior Sauvage. Slightly pricey but such a great purchase
/r/askTRP12/05/20 03:13 AM
1

It’s not hard to do that if you work a 9-5. Just have an interesting job and work your ass off at it. You don’t have to be some kind of entrepreneur or freelancer to live an interesting life and attractive lifestyle.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 08:52 AM
9

What blazer said. As soon as possible. Experience in relationships is important if you are going to lead them.
/r/RPChristians07/05/20 09:51 PM
2

Are you sending and she isn’t? If so, why? Have her send it first and then don’t send one back.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 09:05 AM
1

Because you lack abundance mentality
/r/askTRP06/05/20 07:21 AM
0

Why do you care? Is she going to get you in trouble at your gym? Just tell her you’re not into her any longer like you would any other plate you see from time to time. Are you that afraid of confrontation?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/20 02:53 AM
0

It’s a strength for the most part as long as you don’t come across as a pussy. Obviously you want others around you to know you have their backs. But, being a confrontational Neanderthal doesn’t look good either. Generally dismissing conflict is the way to go. Training will help you do this confidently without using it as a defense mechanism.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 08:23 PM
1

As other comments have said, jiujitsu is a great way to get an experience like you are chasing in a safe environment. Nothing manly about getting killed in a street fight. Come train with us sometime
/r/askTRP29/04/20 08:21 PM
1

Why do you care? Tell him directly you don’t give a fuck. If that doesn’t work, ignore him, or laugh. He’ll get the picture. Are you still in Highschool? It sounds like it.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 02:52 PM
1

weak father didn't prepare me for the real world. was pushed around in first real relationship. yes it has.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 11:55 PM
0

Stop masturbating, check out no more mr, nice guy, start doing body weight exercises, cut out the junk, cut out the booze, and focus on your sleep. You’ll be better in no time
/r/askTRP22/04/20 10:25 AM
1

I hope you forgot the /s. The same could be said about any feminine traits that are instilled in men these days. That’s why most of the people are here. They wouldn’t be on that journey if it wasn’t possible to overcome
/r/askTRP22/04/20 03:43 AM
4

Sidebar. Outside of that read meditations by Marcus Aurelius. But the Rational Male from the sidebar is a great start. Seriously don't ask for recommended reading again until you read all of the materials on the sidebar though.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 03:34 AM
5

Quit being a pussy and start lifting. You are projecting your insecurities onto them. You are brainwashed by the media and focused outwards rather than inwards. Get laid more often and you'll realize how little any outward feelings and prejudices matter. Most importantly, work on your inner frame. If people have this affect on you simply by existing you have some issues.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 03:27 AM
2

If you end up coming out to scout for places to live I’ll recommend/show you a few places to go out! I haven’t been there yet, I’ll have to pick some up today. They’re still around
/r/askTRP21/04/20 09:27 PM
2

The beautiful thing about Arizona is that you don’t need a CCP to concealed carry here! As long as you are legally allowed to carry your firearm and you own it, you can conceal it. You can open carry all the rifles you want. Including your NFA rifles if you happen to have any.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 09:19 PM
2

Dude driving here is crazy if you aren’t used to it. The limit is 65 on most highways but the minimum people will go is 70-75 and you will regularly get passed if you are going under 80-85. There aren’t really any old people outside of north Scottsdale and fountain hills Mesa. All the places a young person would want to live, (near all the club districts) there is an overwhelming majority of college age/young professionals. New Mexico sucks. There’s nothing to do and the people are less attracti…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 08:44 PM
1

That’s insane. High of 84 today, low of 58. It’s gonna start heating up, but honestly the summers aren’t too bad and the rest of the year is beautiful. Phoenix has some of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen, especially scottsdale. Gun laws are great. You can walk into a gun store and walk out with a firearm in less than an hour as long as you pass the background check. Shit you can open carry, and concealed carry without a license. You can shoot on all public land as long as you don’t mount…
/r/askTRP20/04/20 05:40 PM
1

Move out of that commy state my dude. We’re free over here in AZ and welcome freedom lovers
/r/askTRP20/04/20 07:01 AM
5

set boundaries ya cuck.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:50 PM
5

demote to plate if you can. She's no longer your LTR if she's disrespecting you like this. If you can't demote to plate bc of your frame then ghost.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:46 PM
7

All these dudes in these comments are thirsty cucks. You did it once, you can do it again, this time try to find a bitch that won’t put you on trial for homicide. Go lift and game better
/r/askTRP07/03/20 09:34 AM
4

Why would you research a pornstar you cuck
/r/askTRP07/03/20 09:33 AM
2

for porn your post nut clarity is that you're a sad piece of shit touching yourself to a screen. It ISN'T that you shouldn't go out and bang other girls. That's a byproduct of your disappointment with yourself.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:29 AM
1

So watching porn and masturbating is better? Lmao. He isn’t “chasing pussy” he’s inviting girls over to fuck. He’s living a life of abundance. MGTOW or Incel would be a good sub for you. We are men, we are sexual creatures, sex is good.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 09:03 PM
1

That’s if you fuck a girl, not if you jerk off to other people having sex
/r/askTRP04/03/20 08:47 PM
1

Lmao you forgot /s
/r/askTRP04/03/20 08:47 PM
1

Quit being a little bitch, stop masturbating, and hit the gym
/r/askTRP04/03/20 08:46 PM
1

I’m gonna give different advice than top comments since our sub has been invaded. Ghost and next man. 8 years is a long commitment but you still have plenty of time from here. If she wants to come around she’ll give you tricep truth at best and beg at worst. It’s not worth it. Lift; game; and meditate man
/r/askTRP03/03/20 09:04 AM
5

Stop jerking off
/r/askTRP27/02/20 07:51 PM
12

First girl at 24? You should probably hold on to this one. Don’t think you’re really in a position to spin plates with that record
/r/askTRP20/02/20 09:51 PM
3

Lmao why would you send them and then deny that you sent them? $100 could be spent so much better
/r/askTRP20/02/20 06:53 PM
16

Woah dude that’s fuckkked up. 80% of the population has HSV1, not HSV2 aka genital herpes. Most people have cold sores on their lips. You should definitely be disclosing that if you are having raw sex.
/r/askTRP19/02/20 10:24 PM
4

LMAO fellow WSBer. I see you didn’t get rich of TSLA calls or else you’d be YOLOing it all into MSFT calls for the bills
/r/TheRedPill12/02/20 09:15 AM
3

Meh it’s really not that fine of a line. Just be a charismatic person and they will question every interaction you have with a female. But they won’t get jealous because they know you’re high quality. Best way to keep the hamster spinning and them holding on to you.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/20 09:14 AM
2

Props on you for taking responsibility for your actions. AWALT man. Lift and move on. Good on you. Thanks for your service.
/r/askTRP05/02/20 06:31 PM
1

First of all, you aren't working right now which obviously puts a power dynamic in the relationship. It doesn't seem like you have strong frame as it is due to your eagerness to apologize and reward her behavior. You need to get back on your feet and call off this wedding. Keep milking her on the side until you can do that, but start gaming again and prepare to move out. Otherwise you'll be posting in dead bedrooms by the end of the year.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 11:18 PM
3

The hours cost a lot to accrue
/r/askTRP30/01/20 10:42 PM
9

Marcus Aurelius meditations: Marcus Aurelius on the virtue of work At dawn, when you have trouble getting out of bed, tell yourself: “I have to go to work—as a human being. What do I have to complain of, if I’m going to do what I was born for—the things I was brought into the world to do? Or is this what I was created for? To huddle under the blankets and stay warm? —But it’s nicer here. . . . So you were born to feel “nice”? Instead of doing things and experiencing them? Don’t you see the plant…
/r/askTRP30/01/20 10:41 PM
2

+1 for rock climbing. There’s quite a few fine girls at my gym as well
/r/askTRP25/01/20 06:02 AM
44

Basically this. You know Adderall and any form of amphetamine is illegal in Japan? Yet they don’t seem to be having the ADHD and ADD epidemic we do. Maybe it’s because those “diseases” are just a way for pharma companies to make bank. Most side effects from those ailments can be solved through meditation and working out
/r/askTRP24/01/20 05:57 AM
2

go into stem. If you go into business don't get a degree for it.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 12:45 AM
100

The only appropriate response lmaoooo. What are you thinking OP?
/r/askTRP21/01/20 10:59 PM
3

Never say mired again
/r/askTRP21/01/20 06:16 PM
1

Lmao earnings are pretty gay but tattoos are fine
/r/askTRP18/01/20 05:44 PM
2

What’s wrong with you is that you feel sorry for yourself instead of taking action. Going out was the right move, but next time make conversation. You will be more confident to initiate by getting some goddamn testosterone in you. You do that by working out, and not watching any more goddamn porn. Eat fucking good food too, no more bullshit processed food. The only way you change is by making changes.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 05:25 AM
1

What else are you going to do all weekend? Go out and have fun faggot. And because nobody else is telling you, tomorrow start eating better and hit the gym you fat fuck. You aren’t going to feel better about your body until you start working on it.
/r/askTRP18/01/20 04:25 AM
5

stop watching porn. get more guy friends. keep working out. keep approaching and get laid. you are way too caught up in your own mind. just fucking do it.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 05:35 PM
1

Do you follow a specific routine/program or do what you’re feeling each time? Also, in terms of body part split do you mean you are hitting chest and tri/back and bi. Or dedicated chest days/arm days/back days? Also, what’s your Ab routine look like?
/r/askTRP15/01/20 04:45 PM
1

I second this. Your build is what I’m going for. I’m on a modified PPL rn 6 days a week but I might have started my cut too early. Curious what your lifts are/maxes
/r/askTRP15/01/20 02:31 PM
3

They really go hand in hand. You approach a HB8 that hasn’t been approached by anyone in a while. That takes courage, but it comes across as confidence.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/20 12:27 PM
11

Why do you care? Have condoms, Jesus you almost fucked her raw? That’s how you get a kid or an STD dude
/r/askTRP14/01/20 12:18 AM
24

Remember, if you hire someone else to raise your kids they won’t be instilled with the values that you had to seek out for yourself. Don’t let your children be lost and find their way to the pill. I Even with putting them in private schools, in order to instill those values in them you have to be present. Children are a product of their environment.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 12:09 AM
1

He’s UK. Doesn’t apply
/r/askTRP13/01/20 12:55 PM
1

School. STEM primarily
/r/askTRP13/01/20 12:55 PM
3

ffs man, why are you so invested is the real question? You are angry because other guys are succeeding where you didn't. You are angry, because you fail to understand that it was your turn and you blew it. Instead of wasting your energy on anger, lift, read the sidebar, and start spinning.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 09:23 PM
2

definitely not high income. I'm about there at 23 and I definitely don't feel like I'm where I want to be financially.
/r/askTRP09/01/20 05:40 PM
0

Basically sums up 80% of posts in this sub
/r/askTRP04/01/20 04:46 AM
0

You’ve been fucking for years but you just got out of a 3 year LTR last year?
/r/askTRP03/01/20 02:53 AM
1

Do it, it’s a great feeling. Probably even more so when divorce is involved.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 03:48 PM
1

Agree and amplify. Read the sidebar material and you will find out about it in the shit tests section
/r/TheRedPill17/12/19 06:07 PM
10

Amen. She’ll likely convince a cuck to raise her child, and the kid will have a solid but weak father. One day he might meet you later on and you can bond then. Shit it’s the same thing as being a sperm donor at the end of the day.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 09:17 PM
1

Money has nothing to do with it because I haven’t spent a dime on any of these girls. In fact the two that I hooked up with prior bought me drinks when we were out together. I’m a 23 year old above average looking, 6’2 white dude with an above average size dick living in America. But, that being said. I never used to pull girls because I didn’t have confidence and I wasn’t a sexual man. Sure, you aren’t going to pull 10s from the club if you aren’t conventionally attractive, but you can bat with…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 08:02 PM
1

Enjoy being a cuck your whole life if you miraculously convince a girl to go out with you
/r/seduction16/12/19 03:31 PM
-2

God this subreddit is pathetic. You guys are so BP it’s not even funny. I don’t fuck girls to have a relationship you dumb fuck
/r/seduction16/12/19 03:22 PM
-23

Yeah man, you get it. If you are going to go to that spot she suggested, take another girl there and make sure she sees.
/r/seduction16/12/19 06:11 AM
-12

Because she suggested it. You’re meant to lead, not follow.
/r/seduction16/12/19 04:17 AM
1

Killin it bro
/r/askTRP16/12/19 02:28 AM
1

Jesus Christ dude get a grip. Kick her ass out and start lifting
/r/askTRP14/12/19 09:46 PM
5

No such thing as karma. She disrespected you and the ghosting was closure. Only see her if you want to. She doesn’t deserve it.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 05:35 AM
5

Have some confidence in yourself dude
/r/seduction06/11/19 06:33 PM
2

Jesus dude. “Large set of breast” good job on the approach, but work on kino and invite them to dance! Girls are at the club to have fun, and most of the time that doesn’t involve making small talk. Keep it up and you’ll be laying soon.
/r/seduction06/11/19 06:31 PM
1

Maybe it’s common in other parts of the world to bring water bottles into bars/clubs. In America you are prohibited from doing so. I was just giving an alternative.
/r/seduction26/10/19 12:20 AM
1

I’m talking about bringing a water bottle in. Most clubs don’t even allow it.
/r/seduction26/10/19 12:19 AM
1

I used to never go out alone, but now I almost always go out alone or separate from my friends throughout the night. This works especially well if you are going to a show. Just be friendly and make conversation with people and you will be surprised how well you pull.
/r/seduction25/10/19 07:35 PM
0

In America it looks weird to go to clubs like this. If you aren’t drinking, get a soda water with lime from the bartender. Looks like a drink, almost tastes like a weak drink, and you don’t look out of place.
/r/seduction25/10/19 07:32 PM
2

Pretty much this
/r/seduction22/08/19 06:35 PM
2

I agree with you that dancing isn’t the best, there is a severe lack of quiet bars where I pick up girls. It’s a bunch of big clubs where I go. So I tend to get them isolated by taking them to another club and going from there. As far as my wings go, while sometimes they might end up picking up the other girl, most of the time I just use them for distraction so that I can isolate the girl I’m trying to game. I’m the same way as you, I live a solid 20-30 minute uber away from where I game, and it…
/r/seduction25/06/19 06:07 PM
3

Yeah I think I’m going to take your advice. It’s honestly just a waste of time for me anyway. If anything I just use it for validation like the 9/10s do as well. My energy could be much better used picking up irl instead.
/r/seduction25/06/19 12:34 AM
1

I’m from Arizona, so we have incredibly beautiful girls here. The problem I’ve found is that the most attractive girls travel in groups, and I tend to PU solo bc I don’t have any solid wings. Most of my friends are in relationships and they are off their game. So when I say difficult, my first approach will typically be the most beautiful girl that I can see that is by herself or with one other. Then I’ll find an excuse to get her isolated from her friend, typically dancing. I’ve done approaches…
/r/seduction24/06/19 09:15 PM
1

The game is everything, unless the sex is amazing. That’s fair, I’ll work on my text game some more and see what I can do. I usually pull on my first approach as well, but I like to pick difficult ones for the fun of it.
/r/seduction24/06/19 09:05 PM
1

I tend to, but it doesn’t translate over very well ime.
/r/seduction24/06/19 06:09 PM
2

KitKat was quite the experience when I visited Berlin a few weeks ago. I don’t know if I would have sex in there, but congrats on losing your V card my man👍🏼
/r/seduction06/06/19 07:38 PM
1

If you're skinny try "westside for skinny bastards"
/r/seduction16/04/19 05:28 PM
2

Honestly this is my question too. If he says there is no pressure on her for the coffee date, why is he feeling enough pressure to have to use beta blockers?
/r/seduction21/03/19 06:38 AM
1

This is good advice if you are looking to make friends with girls. Some girls will be into it, but most wont be willing to make the first move like OP is essentially asking for. You’ve got to radiate confidence and be willing to show interest. That’s why kino is so important and heavily stressed in this sub. But if it’s working for you, keep going for it. Not the most efficient way to get laid but if that’s not your goal this method seems fine.
/r/seduction21/03/19 06:36 AM
1

Dude are you talking about that angry picnic video? That girl is wifey material
/r/seduction20/03/19 10:18 PM
3

Yeah I’ll keep that in mind and dread her for a bit.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 08:44 PM
10

Confidence is a reflection of how you feel about yourself. Go out and go to the gym, get in shape, eat healthy. Do more for yourself, pick up a productive hobby. Once you are feeling better about yourself, you can focus on picking up girls. A big problem people make is trying to fill a void in their lives by picking up girls. Girls see through that. Before you go to pick up girls think about what you can offer, if you don’t think you can offer much, then keep working on yourself.
/r/seduction28/01/19 05:47 PM
1

You have dated girls like that in the past. It was only your idea of what they wanted that stopped them from having sex with you early on. I brought a shy, conservative, Asian, Mormon home at that and she swore up and down that she didn’t was “super Mormon” 20 minutes later I was in her pants after very minimal resistance. Don’t put girls into a box, we all want the same thing at then end of the day.
/r/seduction21/01/19 04:44 PM
7

Definitely not true at least from anecdotal experience. I’ve had luck picking up girls this way. Just make sure your Instagram shows social value and go for it.
/r/seduction21/01/19 04:15 PM
1

Hahaha, mate have some confidence in yourself. Confidence attracts girls. You’re the prize at the end of the day, so start acting like it. Go hit the clubs/bars have a good time and pickup yourself a cutie tonight.
/r/seduction18/01/19 04:13 PM
5

True, glances over the part where you updated photos. Try adding some pictures where you’re dressed up if you haven’t yet. Otherwise, keep working out and develop game in person. I’ve had much more luck in person with confidence and a fun personality than on dating apps.
/r/seduction18/01/19 04:08 PM
17

what you have to realize about tinder, especially in a city like toronto, is that the app only shows you to certain people based on your response rate/match rate. So, by not replying to the girls you match with, you’re actually hurting yourself. Additionally, girls are able to be a lot more selective. The attractive ones are being shown the top 20% of guys in the city, so if you aren’t in that, they have no reason to swipe on you. Dating apps aren’t stupid, but I would increase your game and col…
/r/seduction18/01/19 03:58 PM
1

Start spinning plates
/r/askTRP16/01/19 09:42 PM
1

So you’ve been trying to game her for a year, haven’t succeeded in sleeping with her, she’s disrespected you by flaking multiple times, and she has mental issues? Man, she is not worth it, but it’s clear that you are lacking an abundance mentality. Ultimately if she has mental issues those are damaged goods regardless of what you might feel. Go out and improve your game, and be more direct with what you want in the future so you don’t waste another year of your life on a damaged girl.
/r/seduction07/01/19 04:05 PM
3

We’re not going to have a pity party for you. Build your worth and have something to offer or go for low hanging fruit. Develop game, stop watching porn, and work your ass off.
/r/seduction07/01/19 03:51 PM
6

All very straightforward stuff, but good for the beginner that doesn’t have experience yet
/r/seduction26/12/18 02:17 AM
1

Lmao Nam flashbacks. We’d been talking a good amount and have pretty much the same values, she has a good career and low body count. Has a lot of the qualities I look for in a LTR. Fucking amazing in bed. Before this I didn’t know she was broken though. You’re right though, she wasn’t LTR material, clearly I just needed to let that come out. Now I’m just trying to spin her as a plate. Sex was amazing, but there’s always more.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 06:42 PM
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