LFAB Archive

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2	Divorce Lawyer Texaslawhelp.org is where you should start. Done by legal aid, Texas bar association, etc for pro-se filers.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/10/20 08:34 PM
1	Almost done. Look at the county court for where you are filing. If uncontested, some judges are just signing off without an in person hearing because ‘rona. Totally depends on where you are specifically.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/10/20 05:37 PM
1	Daughters at AP's house The praying isn’t for them to be forgiven. It’s for you to stop clinging to hate and resentment, which is poison and destroys you, without any harm coming to the guilty. You could accomplish the same aim through a loving kindness meditation, or many other ways, secular or religious. If you believe in a god or in karma or whatever, the guilty will get theirs. Your praying or mindfulness will be to your credit, not to the guilty.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/08/20 04:07 PM
6	NEED HELP - Wife cheated Damn	/r/Divorce_Men	24/02/20 11:01 PM
2	When to move on? M, 48, sexless marriage Do you feel like she has a right to her beliefs about irrelevancy of sex, non-open marriage, and imposing limits on access to her body and how you can interact with it (ie no touching parts, no kissing, etc)? Should she be forced to change herself to bend to what your wants and needs are? I imagine that you would tell yourself that she has a right to her beliefs and preferences, and you would never force her to change. The same thing applies equally to you. You have a right to your beliefs about…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/01/20 06:54 PM
1	Texas divorce Texas is a no alimony state, but a judge CAN order spousal maintenance, which is civil alimony. If the marriage lasted at least 10 years or if the spouse became disabled and cannot work while married then you can be ordered to pay “alimony”. Usually the max they can order is between 3-10 years based on length of marriage, but in case of disability of spouse it can be ordered as long as the disability persists, even lifetime. The maximum amount is 20% of Gross income up to some $ cap. I believe t…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/20 05:42 PM
4	Texas divorce Not a lawyer here, so be warned. If you haven’t filed yet, then everything is community property in Texas in a divorce (unless you had it before the marriage or other very specific things). The money you send her, the money she makes, everything. The duty to support children is shared, and you owe her exactly zero in child or spousal support. If you “send her money”, it’s jointly-owned money. There is no back child support or spousal support duty yet. If you have filed, then whatever terms are i…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/20 05:35 PM
1	If I'm disabled, am I entitled to alimony? Yeah, a judge can order spousal support for life in Texas if a spouse became disabled while married. It can continue as long as the disability does. Just because they can order it doesn’t mean they will, so consult lawyers like everybody says.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/12/19 12:45 AM
1	What do you do when you have an eight month old and can't just leave the house to lift/hobby when you're turned down for sex? Probably they both work and he's at daycare during the day, then they have ~2h before he gets out to bed	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/02/17 01:21 PM
1	I think I need to speak my wife's native language to her. Lernen Sie Deutsch und dann ficken Sie ihr Gehirn aus	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/08/15 01:40 AM
1	Wife found out I am spying on her. She wants a divorce. You file first. Don't wait for her to do it.	/r/MarriedRedPill	07/08/15 10:03 PM
2	What if you're the bread winner? It depends on the state	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/05/15 12:51 PM
7	AWALT: My 35yo FWB'S Rule of 666 Watch out for someone like this to pull the goalie and "accidentally" get pregnant	/r/TheRedPill	12/05/15 01:11 PM
6	What does the Red Pill Community make of men like John Wooden or Mr. Rogers? It's an astonishing display of unapologetic self direction. Meekness doesn't have to mean weakness.	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/15 03:23 PM
10	The Elements of Frame 1 - Physical Basis "if you have high expectations in life, those expectations shouldn’t be imposed on others, but on yourself." Beginners who come on here and try dread 10 in the first week post-RP and then ask how they fucked up: that is why you fail. I know because I did all of these things. I learned by hard experience. You can't be a beta weakling for a decade in your marriage and then one day decide you are going to demand sex right now, and if it's not instantaneous you get up and move into the spare bedroom…	/r/MarriedRedPill	25/04/15 03:22 PM
0	"Are you mad?" One thing you are missing is revealed in your statement: Saying "I'm not mad" doesn't fix it right away You feel like you have to fix her, or that if she's upset then you have to do something because you can't handle it if she is. When you finally really internalize what it means to not be afraid of your partner, your anxiety will fall away. She can be happy or mad, and it doesn't affect you or your sense of worth. You can have empathy for her feelings if you choose and when you choose. But you'…	/r/MarriedRedPill	24/04/15 02:25 PM
151	I Married A Slut That Fucks Like A Prude "Her genuine desire, her sexual best was never intended for him in the first place." God damn, that line is hard hitting.	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/15 12:02 PM
7	I believe the term is "nuclear" Oh hell yes. She bears the pain of childbirth alone. You can't save her from it. It's hers. You bear the pain of being the load-bearing member of the household. She can't save you from it. It's yours. As a man you must be strong enough to hold yourself up in the face of anything that may come, and also carry the load of your family as well. Hopefully your wife helps you rather than piling more load on top, but she can't carry you. Expecting or demanding it will lead to her losing respect for you…	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/03/15 01:11 PM
2	... whereupon he reaches his limit. Don't look to the marriage or a new relationship to fix you or make you happy. Neither will. Take responsibility for yourself. Improve yourself. Own your shit. Become a better man every day. Physically stronger, more skilled, more knowledgable, more self directed. A year from now you will be completely different. Whether your wife notices and responds, or you are so amazing that you cannot be contained anymore and you walk, it doesn't matter. You will be living your life better each day. Life wi…	/r/MarriedRedPill	07/02/15 04:56 AM
1	Wife admits she was just trying to make me lose frame [FR] Excellent. Nicely done	/r/MarriedRedPill	20/01/15 01:12 PM
2	Secondary explosions [update of Nuclear shit test] Just remember that ultimately, her feelings are her responsibility. Not yours or anyone else's. If you have to hold her together, she will never improve. You can help stabilize her, but she has to stand on her own. You can't carry her. Good luck. I think you're doing a great job and asking yourself all the right questions.	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/01/15 12:29 AM
4	Secondary explosions [update of Nuclear shit test] I think you may be confusing "frame" with "not losing your shit". In my mind, frame is the mindset that you are an innately worthy man who commands respect and approaches things decisively, with amused mastery over self and outside influences. Frame is an alpha mindset. It depends on you and you alone. It is self sufficient and self affirming. Keeping frame in the presence of shit tests doesn't mean sitting and listening to them without either getting mad or becoming submissive. Keeping frame wo…	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/01/15 02:47 PM
7	How To Make Your Woman Have Sex: A Parable Bob wants to stop using the towel	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/15 05:26 PM
5	Contemplating Divorce: At What Point Is It Not Your Fault? Do not under any circumstances have kids until / unless this shitshow is permanently behind you both. If you asked me 10 years ago, I'd say stay and try. If you ask me today, I say GTFO and don't waste any more of your life.	/r/MarriedRedPill	03/01/15 07:18 PM
10	Contemplating Divorce: At What Point Is It Not Your Fault? Do you have kids?	/r/MarriedRedPill	03/01/15 08:00 AM
38	Wife denies husband sex 25 out of 28 times he asked, shows her on spreadsheet. Guy's probably an engineer. Can't help but document and analyze.	/r/TheRedPill	18/07/14 04:24 PM
3	This is easily the most Red Pill lesson I've ever learned. So much info summed up so succintly. Bill Burr is awesome. That was amazing. And that crowd was horrible. Was he working a retirement home? Jeez.	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/14 01:39 PM
5	Child Pornography charges dropped against Minnesota Football Coach - Judge says pictures on phone where of his children dancing after a bath He's lucky he is famous, or he might have gone up the river for it	/r/MensRights	03/12/12 11:25 PM