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DISCUSSIONLI-valleymonarch/r/RedPillWomen13/08/24 11:37 PM
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Saying that this is a joke is dismissive and missed the underlying meaning of what he’s implying. Calling a girlfriend “a man with boobs” isn’t just a one off joke… it’s labeling her in a way that diminishes her femininity, which is exactly the kind of subtle put down negging is 🙄 Any red pill guy who respects a women would not stand a chance at letting a girl lose her sense of femininity. Any girl with self respect won’t tolerate it and let it go as a “bad joke”
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/25 03:09 AM
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He is negging you. When a man says backhanded or offhanded compliments or ambiguous insults like that he doesn’t see you as a princess or a prize and like you enough. No guy who loves his girl would call her a man. I’d suggest leave or giving him the cold shoulder and keep him on the side if you’re benefiting from him in some way.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/25 01:21 AM
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He said “you never buy me flowers or plan dates.” Seems like he wants to be a man sometimes, but also get princess treatment. This guy is confused!!! Any sane heterosexual girl would be turned off… Girl… run!!
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/25 06:18 PM
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I want to play devil’s advocate here, since most people are commenting the opposite. It’s completely valid to want a guy who’s just as attractive as you or who shares a similar look and level of attractiveness. It’s scientifically proven that most couples end up marrying someone who looks like them. Don’t settle, but also know your worth and be so obsessed with yourself. That said, there are many other qualities that make someone attractive too career, generosity, taste, character, interests, li…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/25 09:49 PM
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I want to play devil’s advocate here, since most people are commenting the opposite. It’s completely valid to want a guy who’s just as attractive as you or who shares a similar look and level of attractiveness. It’s scientifically proven that most couples end up marrying someone who looks like them. Don’t settle, but also know your worth and be so obsessed with yourself. That said, there are many other qualities that make someone attractive too career, generosity, taste, character, interests, li…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/25 09:49 PM
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The honest truth is that super masculine men don’t care about your degree or education, they’ll care more about your poise and femininity and how you behave and your aura and how well you take care of yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:21 PM
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Don’t listen to this dude and check out the r/sheraseven or r/tradwives subreddit if you genuinely wanna find a way to get married to a man who’s above you in terms of career and a hypergamous relationship and adapt the mindset for it. It’s been known since the beginning of time that women are hypergamous when choosing their partners so this dude doesn’t know what he’s talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:11 PM
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The ultimate goal for a red pill woman is to not sleep with a man until he married you and to attract someone at the top of the social dominance hierarchy that has access to knowing you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/24 03:48 PM
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Shera seven also has some pretty good advice too I started listening to her these last few days. She specifically has a video about how you lose friends on this journey and how there will be pickmeishas who will bring you down
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/24 09:30 PM
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Think deeply about what you want. Create a vision board for yourself to manifest your dream life. Listening to others who don’t share your mentality (majority of the western world now), the feminist, and the pickmeishas who are in 50/50 marriages and even worse, providing mostly for their husbands or boyfriends (who they aren’t even married to) will only make you feel bad about wanting to be in your feminine. They will say SAHM is not the way to go and push the whole “women should be independent…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/24 01:43 AM
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I have been in corporate America for five years lol you don’t know me
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 07:22 PM
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I never said anywhere in my original post Muslim or not is a deal breaker. I don’t mind meet someone and introducing him to Islam but obviously I’m a submissive women so I won’t make him become Muslim if he doesn’t want to. When I was an engineer I use to live alone and away from my parents and I have no issue marrying a non-Muslim but that’s not something I shared with them. I did go on a date a few weeks ago with a man who has 8 figures the problem was he didn’t feel comfortable dating a virgi…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 03:02 PM
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According to this post NYC has the most amount of billionaires out of all the cities in the world and I live here near NYC, it’s not that far fetched to want someone who makes 7 figures when 1 out of 24 NYC residents statistically are millionaires.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 02:55 PM
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He doesn’t have to be American… obviously it’s easier if he is American since I am too. But I’m a cultured women and I’m open to someone from a different country
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 02:41 PM
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Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 02:39 PM
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I’m not trying to illicit a negative response there’s nothing wrong with having standards and wanting a provider man the same way there’s nothing wrong with a man wanting a beautiful woman with a curvy body and long hair and low body county
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 05:20 AM
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Well I was making close to the top 10%… then so no I want someone who makes that much money in a month lol
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 04:00 AM
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I am not listing my school here but yeah my family has found people but no one I’ve been compatible with
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 03:54 AM
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I’m not sure what 10% means since I was an engineer I did go on dates with other engineer or engineer managers (maybe they’re the 10% you’re thinking IDK) and I was a high earner too making over six figures and they were too but I don’t believe in being a career woman and they like still don’t have the drive or ambition to think outside the box, leadership qualities, and take the risk and start their own business and be more successful and they were comfortable where they’re at which is a turn o…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 03:54 AM
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I def have some interesting hobbies like aerial/acrobatics, crotcheting, gym fitness, equestrian, cooking healthy meals, gardening
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 03:42 AM
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Looks are subjective I’m def a fit women and have a sharp jawline and big eyes and facial structure and full lips. I think I look more exotic though so idk… my girl friends say I’m a Miami 10 but am a 7 in New York because of having sharper but tanner skin and since I’m petite and not very tall.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 03:42 AM
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It’s definitely a challenge I’ve been on dates before but I usually don’t tell my parents about my whereabouts
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 02:49 AM
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Yeah I talk to them about it I only train older women but yeah they got no one they know it’s hard right now when men are so feminine these days and don’t want to provide in a relationship and go 50/50
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 02:38 AM
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I do personal training now online because I’m more passionate about fitness and I want to do something that involves caring for people and making an impact on their lives
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 02:34 AM
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I did but I got laid off. I use to be an engineer in tech but it didn’t work out for me.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 02:30 AM
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Yeah I’m considering arranged marriage as an option but would like to meet someone on my own and love too
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 02:15 AM
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What even is rage bait
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 02:14 AM
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I think my biggest dilemma is where I live is far from nyc and middle of nowhere and not near any high end gyms. And considering I don’t drive far or outside of local areas it makes it even more difficult
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 02:14 AM
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23F, 117lbs. 0 body count. Yes I use to be an engineer in corporate tech so I have experience working with them I had no issues I would usually do the easier tasks and collaborate but I wasn’t much of a leader or one to argue. I think corporate America failed me and I failed corporate America because I’m not a boss babe or one to argue over things and hustle
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 01:32 AM
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I come from an immigrant family and yeah my parents struggled but now they made it, we are new money and I don’t mind marrying someone else who is new money.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 01:18 AM
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Thank you this was honestly the nicest answer on my post. I appreciate the advice
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 12:50 AM
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It’s funny I was hoping to get answers from red pill women on being trad wife and being selective in their marriage process. But here I’m getting attacked by men for not being special or attracting that kind of man when I don’t leave my house, hardly drive, and am loyal and take good care of my body and health.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 12:46 AM
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Ok it’s just awkward because I hardly talk to the opposite gender let alone my own uncles because I’m Muslim so I’ll try to spread the message indirectly someway
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 12:43 AM
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I’m honestly not looking to grow with someone especially when I’ve already experienced what other men had to offer me it’s hard to go back with my standards
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 12:39 AM
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Not to sound cocky but I do think I can pass as conventionally hot… I just don’t know how to put myself out there and I hardly leave the house since I hate driving. I don’t have an issue with (2) either and marrying someone who’s also from a wealthy family. I’m 23 but I’m willing to date up to someone who’s 40.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 12:38 AM
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What do you mean by “good family”
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 12:35 AM
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You know what’s crazy is that the dating scene is so bad for women in their 20-30s that even my wealthy (top 0.1% uncles with multiple businesses) can’t find a man for their daughters let alone me who I’m way younger than their daughter who have been looking for a decade and are in their 30s now. It’s tough
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 12:34 AM
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I’m a virgin saving myself for marriage so can’t imagine cheating. I’m pretty calm in person I hardly argue and I say things how they are
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 12:31 AM
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I understand that. I do feel like I stand out, my problem is I don’t drive far so I rarely go out besides my gym or local stable, or hardly leave my house and my family is Muslim so even if I do go out it’s with them and Muslim women aren’t suppose to talk to men they aren’t married to. So it’s tough I’m still here in the states I’m actually in New York where there’s a lot of wealth circulating I just have a hard time putting myself out. Most of my hobbies are fitness and nutrition oriented and …
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 12:27 AM
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You’re right I need to try to host my parties at my house and we do but I definitely need to do it more often
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 12:23 AM
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It’s always men who always ask “what do you bring to the table” who have nothing to offer and know they won’t meet my standards. Most men who do meet my standards don’t ask me that questions (1). (2) I can cook and bake fyi I eat super healthy and that’s my definition of taking care of myself because I’m not trying to be obese and diabetic like most of the country. And I think being lean and fit makes me attractive. I can clean and dust the house I’m a stay at home daughter. I have fine taste fo…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 12:11 AM
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