| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 89 | How did you get rid of your victim mentality? | Inner Game | LMR_Sahara | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 06:53 PM |
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| 12 | If most women look away immediately as soon as you lock eyes with them, is this is good indicator that you're ugly? (NO COPE ALLOWED)Your post history is wild bro. Just relax man and enjoy your social life. I say this as someone who’s had a habit of valuing myself via my romantic life before. It ain’t worth paying attention to all the details that you can’t prove/disprove. Just go out and have fun is the your friends | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 02:56 AM |
| 8 | If most women look away immediately as soon as you lock eyes with them, is this is good indicator that you're ugly? (NO COPE ALLOWED)Not really when I was more shy I’d just look away any given direction that was not the person making me feel anxious, for better, or for worse. | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 02:52 AM |
| 5 | Lots of female friends, no play.I swear the guys on this sub that give the most hard ass, “alpha” advice probably get the least play and inflate their numbers a lot lol | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 05:27 PM |
| 19 | Should I approach her again?When girls complain about guys being creepy, they’re talking about shit like this lol | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Went on 22 Hinge dates in the last 9 months: Here are the results (2024 Online Dating Experience)When people are in love I agree. | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Went on 22 Hinge dates in the last 9 months: Here are the results (2024 Online Dating Experience)People get busy man. I’ve forgotten to text people back too lol. If it’s 24+ hours then yeah forget about it. But I’ve had plans and dates, some subsequent hookups come through after sending a double text if I don’t hear back within a day. Especially as I’ve started to date girls past their late teens and early twenties as I’ve gotten older as well and they get more busy with their career. It’s rare, but happens (which is why I’m refuting the claim of it never happens) Granted for more serious r… | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Went on 22 Hinge dates in the last 9 months: Here are the results (2024 Online Dating Experience)Disagree on the not texting a day back part. I have plenty of friends who are girls who genuinely forget to text some back, even a family member or best friend. Some of them have said there’s been times where they’ve replied but just forgot to hit send. I’ve sent double texts (too much respect to myself to even think about a triple) that has still led to plans being made and followed up on | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 06:11 PM |
| 1 | What books can help me learn about the topic of seduction?Anything that can improve your social skills. Seduction is useless without doing some outer work first to make sure you’re at least coming off as an approachable/healthy looking human. There’s a few chapters in Models that cover this, overall Probably the best book out there | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 05:09 PM |
| 2 | How did you get rid of your victim mentality?You sound a lot like I do. This morning before I made this post, I went ahead and cut off the women I wasn’t interested in but still stringing along for my own validation. Now I just gotta work on going after the women I’m into. I’ve cold approached a few times in the past - even got a date out of it. But it just seems so daunting, I’ve been rejected a good amount now but it still stings ngl | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 11:33 PM |
| 4 | How did you get rid of your victim mentality?I’m just looking for love, man | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 11:06 PM |
| 6 | How did you get rid of your victim mentality?Ah I doubt it. Out of those 7, only three of them I found to be quite attractive. I think I’m just so desperate for a girlfriend I lowered my standards far more than I should’ve. I went ahead and decided to raise them last week, for my own sake. I still have a lot to learn | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 08:13 PM |
| 9 | How did you get rid of your victim mentality?I’m pretty damn good at photography. Trying to learn the guitar more too. Sadly can’t Freeride mountain bike and snowboard anymore due to too many injuries | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 08:05 PM |
| 3 | How did you get rid of your victim mentality?Ah, I’d say we’re equal in our dynamic. I tend to make more emotionally mature and rational decisions while they (and my best friend, in particular) helps me to push myself out of my boundaries from the social “don’t give a fuck” mentality. He’s just more confident and a better looking dude where I am more mature/considerate. We’ve been best friends since we’ve been 8, both of us are 25 now - but there’s still aspects to both of our personalities we can grow from | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 07:30 PM |
| 8 | How did you get rid of your victim mentality?Thanks man. I know this is a short reply on my part but I’m taking everything you said to heart | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 07:28 PM |
| 3 | How did you get rid of your victim mentality?Thanks. I’m just glad I’m recognizing negative and toxic thought patterns sooner rather than later. I feel a little mixed about not hanging out with friends who do better with women than I do— because wouldn’t being around those who are better than you be a great way to improve as a whole? Just as a general principle outside of game? | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Looks matter motivationIm an average looking Indian guy, 5’10”. “Prey Eyes”, and crooked teeth. I invested into my style, social skills, posture, and overall confidence. I still have a ways go to but have already been on 14 dates this year with 7 different women. I live in a small town in Utah of all places lol. If I listened to that blackpill nihilism, I’d be dateless this year blaming a theoretical lack of success (and lack of trying as a result of blackpill content) on my looks | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 01:06 AM |
| 6 | So this girl I grew up with hit me up the other day...Dude both of you guys are married what the fuck are you thinking lol | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 04:58 PM |
| 15 | What it means to Never Chase“Escalating Smoothly” is still showing interest in a woman | /r/seduction | 16/05/24 11:32 PM |
| 103 | If you’re desperate for a girl, come to remote ChinaAm I the only one that finds the concept of “just move to a non-white country so you can finally get a girlfriend” deeply unpractical and bizarre? | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 06:23 PM |
| 7 | Curious about Female Perspective: Do Women Find Virgin Men Attractive or Desire Them Sexually?I believe that the studies show women prefer men to have about an average of 3 sexual partners in the past. With none and 10+ both being equal turn offs. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Crave sex so bad but my anxiety is terribleAnd we all are hoping for the sake of humanity You are not one either. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Crave sex so bad but my anxiety is terribleI have family who are doctors lol. Their training for mental health is literally to only prescribe meds and nothing else. Their training for anxiety and depression is very limited and cookie cutter. Also the reason you’re being downvoted is because you sound like a total irrational insecure douchebag | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 11:17 PM |
| 20 | Crave sex so bad but my anxiety is terribleDon’t do this. A doctor will just prescribe you meds that may or may not work and is only a temporary band aid solution. I’d say find a therapist that specializes in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 09:31 PM |
| 2 | How many of you eventually settled down and got married after being in the game?Would love to see a post on social dynamics you’ve learned over the years | /r/seduction | 28/03/24 04:38 AM |
| 2 | How easy or hard is it to get laid while backpacking?Unshowered backpacker pussy ain’t the same | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 06:39 AM |
| 1 | How easy or hard is it to get laid while backpacking?Keep in mind of expired backpackers Punani | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Need help getting women (24m)How many dates/relationships have you been on? No judgement man no one here knows you irl. Just be honest trying to help | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 11:39 PM |
| 2 | How important is penis size for one night stands?Just don’t get whiskey dick like I did | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 05:01 AM |
| 17 | R seduction is the best reddit and heres why?Hey man if you’re just looking to get laid power to you, I’m all for it. Just make sure you communicate those expectations early in a relationship opposed to stringing them along with false hopes of something more than that. | /r/seduction | 22/02/24 10:31 PM |
| 8 | R seduction is the best reddit and heres why?Are you being authentic or just saying lines that your identity isn’t tied to so you can trick them into liking you back? Intent/authenticity is a big difference | /r/seduction | 22/02/24 10:24 PM |
| 6 | Is 24 too late to change?I didn’t start going on dates much til I was 24 | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 04:17 AM |
| 14 | Matches on dating apps randomly stop texting backBecause they’re talking to at least (minimum) 2-3 other guys. Just think, if online dating was 70% women and 30% dudes, and your inbox was being flooded with 10-30 women a day asking you the same handful of things, how would you entertain your spare time when you don’t have any emotional attachment to any of them until you get to know them? | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 08:01 PM |
| 2 | This is what I don't get about the "wait to text" line of thinkingWaiting hours or days to text her is just needy behavior. As other have said, matching her energy/commitment out of self respect for yourself seems like the better option | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 05:09 PM |
| 1 | What’s wrong with meDon Jon lol | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 04:04 PM |
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