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| 4 | Thinking of going out Every Saturday to game and here’s my plan to get rid of Anxiety. What do you think? I’m not allowed to return home until i complete them.Girl: I’m a Hanukkah type of girl. | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 01:40 AM |
| 1 | [Success story] My first approach in many years worked 100%.Execution at its best! Respect to you, sir. Congrats and thank you for sharing. | /r/seduction | 17/10/19 08:44 PM |
| 0 | Guys I fucked up so hard todayThen you need better women company homie 😉 | /r/seduction | 17/10/19 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Guys I fucked up so hard todayFair enough. Very good point! | /r/seduction | 17/10/19 03:45 AM |
| -6 | Guys I fucked up so hard todayHahaha! Noted 😄 | /r/seduction | 17/10/19 02:39 AM |
| 6 | Guys I fucked up so hard todayAgreed! It got so many upvotes because it gave lots of reditors validation for taking the easy way out!! Approaches takes gusto and real confidence vs “oh, she only said yeah so I’m gonna go wrap up my workout and go home and cry” 😢 | /r/seduction | 17/10/19 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Guys I fucked up so hard todayThis is very valuable advice coming from a woman who experiences these things fellas!! Thank you ma’am 😉 | /r/seduction | 17/10/19 02:31 AM |
| 14 | Guys I fucked up so hard todayDude is right! Do it the next time. However, I’d put some flirt into it considering you now have something to drive with. Open her with a hey or a smile and walk up to her and be like “So... I’ve been thinking, and the least you can do for stealing my keys is buy me a drink and yes I’m open free Friday” haha... this will at least make her smile and hopefully make her bite! If she’s doesn’t, go for direct, “in all honesty I’ve always thought your beautiful and was hoping we could grab a drink som… | /r/seduction | 17/10/19 02:29 AM |
| 1 | Guys I fucked up so hard todayGym approaches gotta be threaded carefully because unlike a random place, you’ll be seeing that girl all the time. That being said, OP could have taken advantage of the situation at hand and be like “you stole my keys, the least you can do is buy me a drink, yes I’m free on Friday”! Ps OP, it’s not too late to say something! Next time you see her, walk up and execute | /r/seduction | 17/10/19 02:23 AM |
| 2 | EXACTLY What To Do When She Turns COLD On You 😫🥶Haha! Good one. Although a rap fan, I’m not into rappers glorifying drugs considering lots of teenagers listen to their stuff. Nonetheless, he makes a point with “never chase a bitch” 😉 | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 02:03 AM |
| 1 | EXACTLY What To Do When She Turns COLD On You 😫🥶To add to that. In your mind, it is her loss!! You’re a man of value, thousands of women want a man like you! Don’t even waste time pondering “why” as it could be lots of reasons completely unrelated to you. Neeeext | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 12:16 AM |
| 2 | EXACTLY What To Do When She Turns COLD On You 😫🥶The singer Future worded it slightly different. “Chase a check NEVER chase a bi$&@“. A check doesn’t mean money necessarily, it’s more like be on your purpose and priorities, AKA do you and the rest will naturally follow...like the dog thing :) | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Friendly tip. If she doesn’t do this when you offer up a day to do something she’s just not interested. Move on. Women will offer up alternatives if they can’t when you ask them outI couldn’t agree more. Well summarized! Like you said “I want her to have a good time and have fun with me and not worry about anything”. That is indeed the ultimate goal, not “yay, I saved $40 or $50 tonight!” | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 05:01 AM |
| 6 | Friendly tip. If she doesn’t do this when you offer up a day to do something she’s just not interested. Move on. Women will offer up alternatives if they can’t when you ask them outI’m with you. Logically It sucks. That is our society though. We’re men and we do the courting, we invite. Just like you, she’s naturally trying to feel and gage you on a first date and asking her to split the bill is definitely not going to help your case. You can’t say let’s go have a steak at this cool place and expect her to have the funds for it. Some people are on a budget. others can be simply broke. Now, on subsequent dates, my rule is simple, I ask I pay you ask you better be willing to… | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 03:58 AM |
| 1 | A night out with a girl i'm 'seeing' and her friends - some Pickup thoughts from girlsNot dumb at all!! In fact, I cold approached a girl once at a store, got her number and we went on a first date. During the date, after she learned what my first name was (I normally go by my initials), she became super pale! Long story short, we’re in the US, I had the same very uncommon first name and from the same far away country her very recent her ex husband was from. I’m sure you agree it’s understandable that she never wanted to see my ass again :) | /r/seduction | 02/10/19 02:05 AM |
| 3 | Got rejected, feel decent!!You didn’t get rejected!!! She had a boyfriend. Props and respect for attempting though. Next! Colonel Sanders, the KFC guy got rejected 302 times before he found someone to buy his chicken recipe! Good things (a 9/10 don’t come easy) My toughest rejection? I approached a girl and opened her. She told me” thank you but I’m good” and walked away. Reminded me of the times I used to sell vacation packages in the phone. 😂 | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 12:58 AM |
| 9 | To put it simplyI’ve being doing direct approaches for YEARS. I would honestly say the times you get “eww that’s creepy” is about 3% or less. Yes, for those of us not great at Math, that means 3 out of every 100 women would give you the look. Now, that’s is Not to be confused with “not interested” or “I’m married / have a boyfriend”, just like not every women is our type you’ll come across some women who don’t think you’re their type. However, and I say this with utmost certainty, most women ADMIRE and RESPECT … | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 03:36 AM |
| 1 | This stuff is really workingNice! Thank you for the definitions. I’m definitely on the hedonic side which after a while, you realize that it sucks cause you’re always chasing. | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 02:02 AM |
| 3 | This stuff is really workingWat? | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 04:16 PM |
| 3 | How are guys so scared of talking to women?Reasonable question. I recommend you think about the opposite as in what’s the worst that would happen if she doesn’t dig your approach? Trust me! I’ve been doing direct approaches for years. I don’t do online dating. The more you do it the better you get at it. I’m a bit overweight, bald and have absolutely no problem getting women. so trust me you’ll be FINE. Don’t overthink it. Do this: you see a girl you like at the store or coffee shop or whatever, do a countdown from 5, when you get to 1 s… | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 07:02 PM |
| 1 | How to text a girl after getting her number?Good answer from u/rich_god. Another approach I do a lot especially if I was the one who got the number is something like: “Hey, Dajourney here from Place, did you hit on anymore random strangers since I met you?! it was really nice meeting you, you’re pretty good at it! :) Let me know if you’re free on X for Y”. What that does is you’ll make her smile/laugh and you’re slightly switching the context that it was you who did the chase. Again, nothing wrong with what rich_god said but just a slight… | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 04:45 PM |
| 2 | How are guys so scared of talking to women?lol you got some points, way to go for making 9 approaches last night!!! however, I’d argue against few things: 1- why would you feel down for a week?? She’s a human just like you bro! You need to have the mentality of “it’s her loss” you’re a confident and a hopefully accomplished man that she’d much rather be with than some chomp. She takes a $hit and uses the bathroom in the morning just like you man, maybe you’re not her type or she’s got a boyfriend or whatever but I highly doubt they’ll te… | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 04:33 PM |
| 2 | How are guys so scared of talking to women?True! It’s all about rolling the dice. Some other post I saw yesterday in this sub talks about the number of women in a given area. Assuming you live in a mid to large city, the number of women you come across regularly is truly astonishing. Out of 10 approaches, say you get rejected about 7 or 8 times (being pessimistic here) you still got a 20 or 30% of getting someone. Out of that, if you get a solid date or two you got success. Now, do that 3 or 4 times a week and you’ll be in really good sh… | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 04:23 PM |
| 3 | How are guys so scared of talking to women?You are a pro, sir. You’re absolutely right. The two values; confidence + status go hand in hand. You can’t have one without the other. Status doesn’t mean you drive a super expensive car and work in the C suite, one can have a regular job and a regular house and apartment but exudes hella confidence. Women can sense that. PUA is all about mastering and working on both. | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 04:18 PM |
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