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| 1 | Temp Separated - counseling appointment tonightThanks for the reply. Its been a time but probably overdue. Stay positive and self improve. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/21 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Hi Everyone - need adviceYour comment was spot on about the children and arguing around them. Thats why you stay calm, collective, kill them with kindness in any talks and just grit your teeth. For me anyways, thats when she shows her true colors and loses her mind. That I laugh at later, as long as the kid wasn't around. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/21 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Hi Everyone - need adviceI can appreciate that! | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/21 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Hi Everyone - need adviceI make a decent income, but her's is double and we have split everything over 15 years 50/50. That means all her savings/retirement etc are maxed out every year, and I'm hand to mouth. She can't even comprehend that the split should still be 50/50 when we divorce. Fuck, we even finally agreed last year that I only pay 40% of the bills, and that this yours/mine bullshit needs to stop, but she's extremely resentful about it. That conversation took me 5 years to get through her head that maybe spli… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/21 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Hi Everyone - need adviceI had the cops called on me for taking my favorite hobby out of the house when she wasn't home. Now I have that on my record permanently even though I wasn't there when they did or did not show up - she could have even been faking the call, who knows, its happened before. She was running back and forth to the front and back doors blocking me from leaving, young daughter starting crying because she didn't know what was going on, and I'm not putting her through any more trauma from daily rage sess… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/21 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Hi Everyone - need adviceMine too. Staunch feminist, mid 30's, but meanwhile gets raked over the coals by her very large company that pays her a fraction of the team that she's goddamn leading. Put work above everyone, refuses to take holidays for fear of retaliation - covid just compounded it with school closures so she's burning out hard. I respect that, but you know what, when you work for a billion dollar company and need a stress leave, take the fucking thing. Meanwhile who the fuck mows the lawn, renovates the hou… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/21 12:20 AM |
| 2 | Temp Separated - counseling appointment tonightRecently going through the same thing, 30 days out of the house today after 15 years and one young one. Its more complicated as I have turned into an alcoholic the last few years, and especially since shes taken a new job - and now a year of isolation from most people. Also probably to deal with a lot of the stresses of the relationship, according to my councilors etc. I'm seeking treatment and have been having longer and longer dry spells. I'm a happy drunk, but drunk none the less and had enou… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/21 12:08 AM |
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