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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 18 | Future's Big 10 | LS_Future | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 10:30 PM | |
| 0 | Holy crap, women can be MEAN at night! | LS_Future | /r/seduction | 11/09/12 03:31 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How does one deal with a relapse of their one-itis ?For reals. | /r/seduction | 14/12/12 05:04 PM |
| 7 | Inability to make friends.Everything woocheese said. I'll add to the clubs thing and say that in the normal world, PUA shit is WEIRD. PUAs learn to overcome the weirdness with force of will, charm, and applied psychology, but make no mistake about it: if you're approaching strangers out of the blue, you're doing something weird. So how does the rest of the world get around this? Clubs. Social events. Gatherings of like-minded people. Parties thrown by and for friends. You spin or whatever? Awesome leg-up. Use that to you… | /r/seduction | 22/09/12 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Future's Big 10lol. You're way overthinking it, killer. You are approaching her because you want her. The reasoning behind this advice is that many guys castrate themselves when they approach by denying themselves access to the lust that brought them over. Don't think about the mechanical when so much as letting your animal desire have a strong role in the conversation. Encourage that porno to happen. If I was going to put a nail on it, I'd say the porno should start somewhere around transitioning. Certainly w… | /r/seduction | 17/09/12 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Future's Big 10There are more things in Heaven and Earth than are dreamt of in your philosophy, Horatio. Human sexual social dynamics aren't static and aren't always traceable. She's going to pick up your "vibe" from a zillion little subconscious broadcasts you're sending out, from your eye contact to your twitchiness to the way you look at her to the speed of your speech. A lot of guys speak to women in a way that is inherently deferential and polite; they castrate themselves before the approach and subconsci… | /r/seduction | 13/09/12 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Future's Big 10lol. I am soooooooo not new to Reddit. I'm just not posting here with my normal Reddit account. I read IAMAs voraciously. They're writer crack. Maybe I'll do an IAMA. Honestly, I know that would generate way more traffic to my blog than this one, and I'm actively tuning said blog to be a bit more of a merchandise driver. It's a tough row to hoe, because I take a lot of pride in the content, and it feels whorey to think in terms of SEO and affiliate direction. But that's just me being romantic. A… | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Future's Big 10Thanks. Did you ever check out the follow-up, Returning to Beatrice? I'm always shocked at how people who love Kill Beatrice seem to forget that the stuff I said at the end is there! The whole thing was building to a conclusion! I've been thinking about adding stuff to the Discovering Boundaries bit. One thing I picked up recently from Venture is this goddamned gold: Most guys wait to have enough attraction before escalating when escalating can itself raise attraction. Mind. Blown. Like all grea… | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 11:27 PM |
| 7 | How to Grow Comfortable Talking like...I agree with the advice here, but not for the reasons given. To the OP: Calling them all "gorgeous" and "beautiful" is gonna get really old really quickly, especially if you're not doing it already. It will be creaky as fuck. Instead, try to give them nicknames pertaining to secret inside jokes. Don't overdo it, but that kind of secret coding can work wonders over a sustained seduction like the one you're describing. I've never worked in a bar or restaurant, but I have integrated tons of these t… | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 11:21 PM |
| 0 | "Practicing" pickup while attached?I think it depends a lot on where you're coming from. There's a trend among certain Love Systems students that I've noticed over the years: divorced dudes who were married to a hottie and are now clueless. In my experience, those guys get rusty, but it's not the same thing as when a recovered nerd (e.g. me) has to LEARN game. There's an ease of falling into an old stride that comes from former jocks/frat guys/ cool guys where even if they're rusty, they're still made of strong stuff. They have m… | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 10:55 PM |
| 3 | Future's Big 10Shit socket! Sorry, I hate posting trifling link bait. I'm such a bad redditor. I updated the Big 10 this afternoon to be more newbie friendly and to flow more smoothly into itself. Here's the content from the link: "The list below are what I consider the essentials of learning seduction. Whether you’re a beginner or confirmed lothario, lapses in the rules below are what tend to lead to lapses in your game. It’s hard to separate any of them from the list, although some of them (Rule #1, Rule #2,… | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Six Reasons women flake on dates! (And how to deal with it)Also 1-5. Because women are autonomous entities with fears, worries, immune systems, menstrual cycles, insecurities, and all that business. That's a strong frame and one I wouldn't dare try to modify (because it will be helpful more often than it will hurt), but if someone wants to get beyond frame control, that just ain't the case. | /r/seduction | 20/06/12 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Does the Mystery Method actually work or is it just false promises?The distinctions he makes in comfort are bizarre because he still wants it to be linear. There isn't really a clear-cut place where you transition from rapport to trust to intimacy (C1, C2, C3). They do tend to follow each other, though, but only as a parallel to all the other stuff that's going on. If you come in with an attractive personality/bearing, and you touch comfortably, and you can find common emotional turf, she will trust you more. If you have trust and rapport and physical attractio… | /r/seduction | 03/01/12 09:48 PM |
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