LTC-Mustard Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	Being a step dad is a joke So many cliches come to mind, all seem to have truth. It’s just your turn. You’re a wallet. I would never think that another man’s kids are anything other than just that. I’d hate to have the heartbreak you now endure.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/11/25 07:56 PM
7	Men over 45 after 27 years of marriage I haven't been intimate with my wife for 4 years. Thinking of calling it quits but I am afraid of not finding anyone. How hard is it out there? Bro. My wife called it quits. 27 years of marriage, 22years of me in the military. Both kids are grown. She is and always was selfish and borderline. My son is neutral, my daughter is firmly on my side post divorce. Lost half my stuff but kept a lot of valuable things. I’m happier without her. I’ve found a good woman who isn’t prefect but is putting forth effort.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/11/25 06:52 PM
3	Do you think my case is not thard?! Sorry man. Hard or not, it is still difficult. Get bank statements and everything you can from her bank statements over the last several years. Things gained during the marriage are marital assets and she would demand her half if she believed you made/had more.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/10/24 08:42 PM
8	Fuck you. I'm still standing. Not only “still standing” but I will be better without you! Congratulations there brother. I fell much the same way!	/r/Divorce_Men	16/09/24 01:09 AM
3	Wife wants divorce, but stay together for the kids. But I’m done She sounds like an anxious mess. Go your own way and only respect her wishes if she is active and making progress in therapy. Get a lawyer and fight to protect your kids from an unhealthy situation which seems to be your wife. You deserve a normal life and your kids are your responsibility. Protect them and yourself.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/07/24 10:50 PM
1	I’m the cheater…my story It sucks to call it victimhood because I don’t want to feel victimized, but women use their vulnerability as but a bludgeon and shield. It is time to have equal equality.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/04/24 11:40 PM
8	I’m the cheater…my story I agree. The cheater deserves to lose everything. He did nothing to describe any poor treatment from his wife. He didn’t describe a circumstance where stepping out had any justification (not an easy burden). Men, in general, don’t support this behavior which I have seen supported in other forums. Men support other good men, chastise poor behavior.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/04/24 08:14 PM
1	Thank You!! Reiterate the basics. Eat right, hit the gym, limit intoxicants (best at zero for a while) focus on yourself and grow your friend group, rebuild what you can but know that you can only control yourself. Being good to yourself doesn’t mean sh!t on others Stay strong brothers.	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/23 08:06 PM