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| 1 | Should I even go to the club if I feel every guy there is better looking than meDon’t go to the club with the goal of meeting anybody. Everybody will pick up on that needy energy. Go to have fun, don’t even think about trying to pick up someone. That will make you relaxed and in the moment, instead of pre meditated. Relax and have fun and good things will inevitably happen. | /r/seduction | 28/12/25 05:03 AM |
| 1 | The unofficial value ranking of different attraction attributesSo being good at making friends and talking to strangers must be a part of “game”. | /r/seduction | 28/12/25 04:53 AM |
| 1 | The unofficial value ranking of different attraction attributesThe best thing I’ve ever done for my social skills is reading a book called How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. I guess that is what “game” if you call it that, I have. | /r/seduction | 28/12/25 03:22 AM |
| 1 | The unofficial value ranking of different attraction attributesI really don’t. I have nothing canned, no pick up lines, no tactic, never play games. I think the biggest obstacle for guys to meet girls is that they go out with the planned intention to meet girls. That comes across as desperate and calculated. If guys go out with the sole intention of having fun and show genuine interest in others (both guys and girls), they become likeable and attractive to hang out with. From there the possibilities are endless. | /r/seduction | 28/12/25 02:43 AM |
| 0 | The unofficial value ranking of different attraction attributesClearly I said more than that. And even more things are implied. Like reading body language could also include don’t be socially awkward. | /r/seduction | 28/12/25 02:37 AM |
| 2 | The unofficial value ranking of different attraction attributesNonsense. I’ve been deficient in all 4 of your categories and have always been with hot women. The only thing I’ve been repeatedly told by girls is that I’m genuine and I make them feel at ease. Never pursued women or gone anywhere with the intention of finding one, yet almost always end up engaging with them. Be yourself, be good to others, have fun, listen to people, and be good at reading body language. I’d take these attributes over anything on your list. ETA: clearly good hygiene and decent… | /r/seduction | 28/12/25 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Can a decreased interest in sex attributed to other things as lack of attraction ?I believe so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 12:44 AM |
| 18 | Although I would say "I am a little chunky" although that shouldn't matter anyway.thick girls are desirable to many men. The kid is off putting to many but not all. I think there’s something else at play here as noted above. The thing that stands out the most for me is the self pity. Nobody wants to be around negativity like that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/03/22 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Men have no problem waiting for sex as long as other men had to alsoExactly. Same advice either way. Your life is yours when you are single. It’s nobody’s business what you did. If you want to share, that’s fine, but if you don’t you are within your rights to say that you don’t feel it’s appropriate to talk about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/22 01:31 AM |
| 0 | Women getting upset about men asking them about their sexual history is the equivalent as employers getting upset about a job seeker asking them about the salary a position pays.No. It’s not at all the same thing. Only insecure losers ask girls questions like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Men have no problem waiting for sex as long as other men had to alsoIf you are bothered by your wife’s past you shouldn’t have married her. This is the husbands insecurity and his issue. Either get over it and put the topic to bed or the resentment will destroy the relationship. Why live in misery? Get over it, people have a past and you weren’t there, there’s nothing you can do to change that. The best advice for people like that is to seek counselling or read a book like “The feeling good handbook” by Dr. DAVID Burns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Men have no problem waiting for sex as long as other men had to alsoThat’s not what I said, I was responding to the deleted comment that said something along the lines of //asking those types of questions can help determine if they are likely to cheat//. My opinion though is that the sexes are equally insecure as a statistic and insecurity isn’t gender dependent. My opinion about the sexes being innocent or bad would be similar to my thoughts about insecurity. There’s good and bad, naive and manipulative behaviour equally distributed among the sexes and it is al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Men have no problem waiting for sex as long as other men had to alsoAsking for that type of details is not only super creepy but is a sign of insecurity, as is being worried about infidelity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 07:05 AM |
| 19 | Men have no problem waiting for sex as long as other men had to alsoBeing stuck on or even talking about what someone did with past partners is weird af. I’ve been with my girl over 8 years and the subject of past partners rarely comes up. I really don’t care to know what happened before me and I believe she feels the same. Why would anybody want to talk about this shit when you could instead live in the moment and enjoy your time together regardless of what you are doing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Do you care if your daughter is sexually active?What exactly is the scientific definition of pornsick and what is the criteria one must meet to be classified as “pornsick”? Bc I have not found any data on the subject. It seems as though you personally don’t like porn for some reason, therefore classify everyone who does as “pornsick”. There is no such thing and putting others down who don’t agree with your views is actually what is sick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 11:13 PM |
| 3 | Do you care if your daughter is sexually active?You need help. The professional kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Men here are always talking about not wanting to date women with high n-counts. So what's an acceptable number?The bigger the better. The more experience she has the better for me. I ain’t no tutor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 03:05 AM |
| 3 | Why exactly does pornography bother you?I would understand my girl having a problem with it if I preferred it to sex with her, or needed it to become aroused. Even spending money on it I would understand being weird. But none of those things apply. I prefer to fuck her than any other sexual activity. Usually even put porn away and think about some awesome experience with her to finish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: can you succinctly describe PUA, TRP, black pill, and MGTOW and how they differ?😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Why hasn’t this been approved? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 09:53 AM |
| 0 | If a man is not the best his woman has ever had, he should not be in that relationship.It’s a personal thing and different for everyone. If someone cares about a person they will talk about what’s important to them and try their best to do those things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 07:59 PM |
| 5 | Are attractive men not looking for casual sex so rare?Almost every man eventually wants a ltr. The problem is that by the time they realize it, they have ruined the probability of success bc they have not had any practice being selfless. So they aren’t ideal partners even if they look pretty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Are attractive men not looking for casual sex so rare?Being attractive to a woman is rarely about being pretty. It’s way more complicated and unique to each woman. But most need emotional connection. Some women think construction workers and mechanics are hot. Some like suits. Some like artists. Some like super brains. Can’t put everyone in a box. I’m personally like a 5-6 looks wise and have dated a lot of beautiful women. Chicks say things like “you’re really genuine, easy to talk to, understanding, comfortable with sexuality, never awkward, sile… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | TRP and FDS are dishonest about how vulnerable they are, and about how pain and personal experience are more important to their ideology than logic or reason.Both ideologies are very unhealthy regardless of what drives people to them. I imagine the reasons cover the entire spectrum from self improvement to utter disdain for the opposite sex due to past experience. If you follow either perspective you will see a common thread of selfishness. This imo likely comes from being used, which is not a good feeling and the ideology provides some defence against it reoccurring. Unfortunately, both are echo chambers of negative experiences and prejudice views a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 06:29 PM |
| 4 | Straight women who have had (or hope to have) "hookups" or "one night stands" or whatever, what made you do it? Or, what would make you do it? What attracts/attracted you to that person?You can speak with someone for a lifetime and never find that out. Again, women need a connection, not just attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 12:53 AM |
| 5 | Straight women who have had (or hope to have) "hookups" or "one night stands" or whatever, what made you do it? Or, what would make you do it? What attracts/attracted you to that person?Women are masters of interpreting social cues, to pick up on character traits that make them feel comfortable and safe and finding who they are comfortable with through even brief conversation. Job interviews are rarely even 15 minutes long. How much time do you need with someone to know if you are comfortable around them? In my case, I know within 5 minutes of casual conversation if the interaction will progress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 12:12 AM |
| 4 | Straight women who have had (or hope to have) "hookups" or "one night stands" or whatever, what made you do it? Or, what would make you do it? What attracts/attracted you to that person?This is a male perspective and clearly incorrect for females. Women need more than solely physical attraction, even for a ons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/22 10:28 PM |
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