L_Cubed Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	I feel like the thought of actually sleeping with/doing stuff with women is foreign to me.	L_Cubed	/r/seduction	03/12/18 11:29 PM
4	Has anybody here ever ‘slid in the DMs’ (of someone they don’t know) on insta/twitter and had it work?	L_Cubed	/r/seduction	12/11/18 07:37 PM
0	Dared to make a risky joke and face my fears...it paid off (at first)	L_Cubed	/r/seduction	12/11/18 12:38 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	Girls get bored when sexual tension is missing I completely agree here. After reading enough of this stuff it begins to feel like there’s a set, unbreakable procedure/strategy to flirting and attraction and it can really stress you out trying to follow every step. Which will kill your desire pretty fast, and hers. The last paragraph you wrote is way more useful.	/r/seduction	24/11/18 12:30 PM
1	Has anybody here ever ‘slid in the DMs’ (of someone they don’t know) on insta/twitter and had it work? Thanks for all your answers guys	/r/seduction	13/11/18 08:52 AM
3	How to overcome this add fear. Yeah, I get ya. Getting out and meeting others can’t hurt in the meantime so you can find the right group and join them. Uni (college for you I guess) is good for that kind of thing. Societies/clubs/sports teams...all ways to meet new people (including girls!) and get involved in new groups, and the happier you are doing things you like, the less pressure you end up putting on things like individual social interactions. :)	/r/seduction	06/11/18 09:47 PM
2	How to overcome this add fear. Haha, brain is a bit all over the place today and I’ve been trying to work on my thinking patterns like these a lot lately so it’s on my mind. Thanks anyway. In answer to your question directly, I guess a couple of things. Sorry if they’re a bit clichéd. 1) it sounds like you’re quite worried about what your guy friends think of you. I do get this and think to a limited extent this is normal and perhaps healthy. Gotta be honest though mate, these things are usually a two-way street and whilst yo…	/r/seduction	06/11/18 09:34 PM
3	How to overcome this add fear. I get where you’re coming from dude. I have to be honest, after you read enough advice on the internet (and buy into it), it starts to feel like there’s a set procedure to things like flirting and social interaction, and seemingly deviating from the procedure can make you feel anxious and bad about yourself. I as a person subconsciously feel the need for exact, precise, perfect procedures and patterns, and when the procedure is broken, it panics the shit out of me. The thing is, nobody is perfec…	/r/seduction	06/11/18 09:22 PM
2	Nobody Owes You Anything Awesome post. This realisation has recently been sinking in for me recently, too, and it’s been one of the most liberating, burden-lifting things I’ve ever realised. Various things when I was a child gave me a tremendous sense of entitlement: I was top of my class in primary school and some people (my mother in particular) told me how special I was and how everything would fall onto a plate for me. Well guess what: it never has. The feeling of entitlement, that people should automatically respec…	/r/seduction	11/09/18 03:05 PM