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Through a mutual friend! My best friend from high school has been dating his best friend from high school for a few years. I live in a different city from them all but it’s still insane that he and i didn’t ever meet until just recently!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 06:59 PM
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It really isn’t. He has shown me so clearly that any man I was with before— even a man I was with for a long time who didn’t treat me badly at all but also didn’t do these “extra” things for me— and most men in general are just so thoughtless and careless, even if they are “good” men who don’t actively harm you. He mirrors me in that he ACTUALLY listens to what people say and therefore remembers it, and then applies what he remembers to make peoples lives better. It is NOT hard at all if you act…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 05:59 PM
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Please excuse me for staying with this man for too long after this lol, but story time: So I had a LVX who told me that he had cheated on his college girlfriend (we were now in our mid 20s). Like, worst way possible. Sleeping with multiple other women, sometimes repeat customers, over multiple months. But, he told me this when we first started dating, and he also said that he willingly told his girlfriend about it and that they tried to work through it but eventually broke up. He also told me th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 05:52 PM
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after meeting them, my friend asked me which of her three unattractive, alcoholic LVM friends I would fuck. None of them girl lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 02:42 AM
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He posted about herpes several months after the post about the dating app, and at least in one of his herpes posts he did talk about disclosing to future partners. Just not past ones, I guess. Pft. Hope that lasts, at least. Though my hopes aren't high, obviously. And re the orgasms, he is apparently constantly having outbreaks on his face and he says he is constantly having "prodrome" symptoms genitally (smaller/warning symptoms that come on before the major symptoms of a disease, the major sym…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 11:22 PM
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I just found out that my extremely LVX has herpes. I found this out through stalking his Reddit. Which I honestly never do, but I felt an unusual urge to check and boom, he has herpes. He has tested positive and is having symptoms of oral and genital and he has not made a peep to me about it. We broke up less than a year ago and he was having small, nondescript symptoms while we were together too, and I was having even crazier and undiagnosable symptoms (I was in and out of the gyno all year), a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 05:10 PM
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and even Fullmetal (brotherhood) treats Winry like a sex doll sometimes. She’s smart and capable, but they still show scenes of her taking baths lol. They did treat the other women pretty well though. It makes sense, as the manga was written by a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:13 PM
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Honestly, yeah, this. I have always been around a ton of anime guys, in school and now a field I work with, people (including me) love anime/cosplay. But I get very skeptical of anime guys because most of the time they do fetishize it. I feel like in some ways too much exposure to things like “fan service” in anime at a young age has to warp their brains similarly to porn 😂 I definitely agree that some guys can watch it and actually enjoy it for the good parts but it is VERY good advice to be wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:09 PM
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Don’t feel stupid, I ignored a mountain of red flags with my last guy and I was in my mid twenties! He literally told me he had bought a pickup artist’s book before (over 5 years before), just because he “wanted to see how to get girls.” I am now absolutely sure he was negging me throughout our relationship. Like when he kept telling me I smelled, and I even changed deodorant for him besause apparently even when I smelled good, I smelled bad. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 12:08 PM
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Just a note on the podcast production itself-- I LOVE the podcast and you ladies do a great job with it! And I know we are still in the early stages, and the production is already getting better and better. But just as some (hopefully) constructive criticism I'd like to mention that the music that starts playing randomly around 15 minutes was very distracting for me, and also seemed to come in for no reason? I thought it was indicating the end of a segment, the start of an ad or something but th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:52 PM
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My mom has a narcissist husband (my dad) and trusts my taste in men but she still has issues with instinctively standards shaming me, or just not getting it. I'm in my hometown with my parents right now and a guy I haven't talked to since MIDDLE SCHOOL CHURCH messaged me on facebook (we are not friends) and said he was coming in town, asked if I wanted to get a drink. No? lol. When I didn't reply in a couple days he sent me "🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️????" I tell my mom about this and she mostly laughs al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 10:16 PM
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Eye contact. I find that if a man is vibing with me and I'm vibing back with him, if we're hanging out with others then letting the eye contact between us linger a little bit when I could look away because I have nothing else to say to him directly is a great signal, because it makes them wonder why I'm lingering. Very subtle, but it makes them curious. It's like using someone's name in a sentence, it makes them wonder why and makes them feel seen (that's another way to signal interest) If you'r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 12:38 AM
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I was born in 96 and definitely preyed upon by at least two pedophiles on the RPG sites I used (one specifically geared towards pre-teen girls), and that was WITH significant oversight from my parents, including only having access to a desktop in the family room. The first time I was preyed upon online, I was playing Runescape AT MY COUSIN'S HOUSE, ON HER FAMILY DESKTOP, while she and my other cousin were literally in the same room as me, just doing something else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:48 PM
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I think (also from personal experience) that its still different between the late 80s and mid 90s. My sister was born 89, I was born 96 and the ways we used the internet were just... different. She didn't get a cell phone until senior year and while that was later than her peers, it still wasn't weird for parents to regulate internet/phone usage to that extent at that point. By contrast, I got my first phone in 8th grade, but I got my first iPhone when I was 16 and got my first internet-capable …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:46 PM
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My LVX once told me that he didn’t care about the fact that he doesn’t know if he’s watching rape on tape or not, because he “won’t let anyone shame him for his sexuality.” Like he was ever fucking shamed for it! He even told me he asked his mom about masturbation when he was in puberty and she even told him it was okay for him to want to do that (masturbation, not porn). That’s not what my fucking experience was as a girl trying to navigate sexuality during puberty, but i still have empathy eno…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 04:20 AM
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Women also lose attraction to men when the nice guys turn out to be depraved. I dated a guy who I thought was HV (and in fairness the way he treated me was very HV), but he told me about a year in about a disturbing fetish he has. I was incredibly young (he was too) and he said I didn’t have to participate so I still dated him for about six years, but after breaking up with him I realized that was the reason I had no sex drive. I was very attracted to him physically. But after he told me that...…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:46 PM
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Scrotes as young as 18 are trying to pressure young women not only into sex, but casual/“poly” sex too. Heinous, they start this BS this young. Good for you and good luck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 02:16 AM
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And it wasn't even that much! The quotes are rightfully roasting the woman making fun of her, but the people in the replies are acting like she's carrying a sword or something! One guy even said "that's a lot of extra weight to bring on a run." Yeah, brass knuckles and pepper spray, I'm passing out just thinking about the extra 0.5 lbs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:42 PM
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Based on that observation, societies, groups invent/perpetuate norms to ensure the survival of the group, roles that define a member from a particular group. Norms are literally one of the first thing that defines a group of humans, a group identity. If this were true then women wouldn't have been pressured into shaving/waxing all our body hair, not letting others see us without makeup on, and wearing high heels. Women's biggest biological difference to men is that we have the ability to gestate…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:54 PM
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Yeah, 20m kissless virgin yelling on dating subs, I totally believe you'd deny the affections of any woman lmfao /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 07:15 PM
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There's nothing wrong with a lot of gender roles, as long as they're not being FORCED and as long as they're genuinely not restrictive or harmful or dangerous. And obviously when kids grow up, if they decide they don't wanna follow certain roles, that's fine. But we can't literally rip all gender roles from young kids and expect them to be able to mentally or emotionally handle that. But they are being forced, if the roles/traits are expected by everyone in society 90% of the time. You cannot te…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:10 AM
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This was my thought as well. The history of men being "protectors and providers" was coupled with women being their property. Maybe in a fictitious or far off world this wouldn't be true, but it seems to me that when men decide that something is theirs to protect and provide for, there are strings attached. If they are caring for you and protecting you, you have an obligation to them, it seems. Also, teaching men that their role is to protect and provide for women, however it is intended or rece…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:28 PM
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