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| 2 | Visitation Hearing WednesdayGood luck! | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/24 10:01 PM |
| 12 | Friend insults my ex-wifeShe cheated on you. Period. She didn’t take you into consideration at all. Not sure if you realize this. I think your friend does. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/24 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Divorce Lawyers specializing in NarcissismIs there any evidence either you or your spouse have that can change the outcome. Like real evidence? Not, he said she said? Don’t waste a ton of money fighting over something that won’t come to fruition. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/24 06:27 PM |
| 1 | I can’t live without my sonsWhy are you discussing divorce in the first place? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/24 05:50 PM |
| 6 | spouse manipulating childrenI would make sure you know the laws in your state for audio recording. Some states require two party consent for audio recording. Your situation sucks! I would figure out how to separate in your living situation asap. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/24 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Young military man hereWe need more info. What is your state of residence? Where is your spouse? How long have you been married? You may just need to file for annulment. More details. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/24 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Closing bank accountPersonally, I would take the funds in the account out and move them to an account under your name and let that money sit there until the divorce is finalized. Once it is determined how the assets will be divided. If you can use the money to pay any marital debt this would be acceptable. From my knowledge the money in the account if acquired during the marriage is a Marital asset in which both parties are entitled to an equal share. Honestly, how much are we talking about? A few thousand or tens … | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/24 06:40 PM |
| 1 | How is home value determined?You will need to have the home appraised for the divorce. You will both have to agree on the appraisal price to love forward. I would sit down with your stbx and agree on an appraiser together to avoid future issues. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/24 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Spy apps without the target phone?I think you need to be concerned with the laws regarding the use of such software. It sounds like you may be entering the realm of committing a cyber crime. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/24 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Living in the house you used to share with your Ex WifeIt takes time to overcome, just like any grieving. I’m not sure of your financial situation with the house, but the market is not buyer friendly right now. If I was to sell and buy the same house next door my mortgage would go from $1,800 to over $3,000 a month. You need to work on making a new life for yourself and dwelling on the past. If you keep dwelling you will never overcome this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/24 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Divorce Lawyers specializing in NarcissismI don’t think you need such a thing. What is it you think is happening and what do you think the outcome will be? | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/24 06:16 PM |
| 5 | No idea where this came fromCould be many things. Her current relationship may not be going well and she could be regretting it. Could be something completely different. In any case, it’s over just keep moving forward and don’t look back to her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/24 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Can I record in CA if my wife is threatening she will take the kids out of the country if we get divorced?Have your attorney place a clause in the parenting judgement the kids cannot be taken out of the country. She could still leave in any case, but you will have legal standing to take further action. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/24 06:04 PM |
| 1 | DivorceYou can always ask for it back. If it’s anything significant it would most likely be considered a marital asset and both parties are entitled to 50% equity in it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/24 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Lawyer free thirty minute consultationThe lawyer is going to assess your situation and will not be going to address and specific issues you have. They may help give you an understanding of the process. All of the information will come to light once the divorce proceeds through court and the judge makes decisions or the attorneys make agreements. After your free consult, keep in mind attorneys usually bill in 15 minute increments. I’m not sure what everyone’s attorney costs per hour, but from my experience $80 for every 15 minutes of… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/24 05:54 PM |
| 5 | Do you wish her happy birthday?Some people will say yes and others will say no. It depends on what your current relationship is like, if it’s civil then sure. If it’s not civil then why? Either way the relationship ended so what’s the point? | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/24 05:47 PM |
| 2 | ExchangesOf course. If an ex wants to make a situation difficult they will and can get away with a-lot of it in my experience. My ex directly defied our custody order and refused to send our child during our agreed time for my custody. I had the police conduct a wellness check of their residence. The police called me back to inform me my child was safe and the ex stated she didn’t send her because it was an inconvenience to her. Used my attorney to take it back to court, no legal actions were taken again… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/24 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Question about house during separation.Best to ask an attorney. From my understanding the house would be considered a marital asset along with any other property if acquired during the marriage. Each party would be entitled to 50% equity in the property. Individual bank accounts would also be considered a marital asset if the income is earned during the marriage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/24 05:30 PM |
| 3 | STBXW got part time job, I am still without.. but made more.. how will alimony work?Best bet is to ask an attorney if you haven’t already. You are probably going to get hundreds of differing opinions coming to reddit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/07/24 05:22 PM |
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