LaFridge Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Just need to vent Indeed. Common this time of year. Winter weather conditions and all.	/r/MensRights	04/12/12 02:39 AM
3	I asked a blogger about some comments on her blog hoping for a real conversation about rape culture. Because I expect a rational conversation I used my real name and email which she has now made public, labeling me as a "Rapist waiting to happen." I'm scared for my future, please I need your advice! Dude, if you read any part of that blog and thought that psychotic bottom-feeder was capable of any rational thought then I don't know what to think. I've met KKK members that were more tolerant. ETA: I reported the blog for promoting hate speech. Depending on the staffer that reviews the complaint, it may get the blog at least temporarily shut down.	/r/MensRights	26/11/12 11:45 PM
1	Wife Threatening Action Against me if I get a Vasectomy Step 1: make up fake "work trip." Step 2: go get vasectomy. Step 3: never tell your wife. Step 4: make sure the fertility doctor you eventually get sent to knows not to tell your wife. It's your private medical history and he has no right to tell her.	/r/MensRights	21/11/12 07:43 PM
1	Girlfriend recently told me that she was pregnant and I'm gonna be a dad. Within a few hours of this announcement, she completely changed and has been threatening that I'll never see or have custody of the child. LOL that's just not true. "You wrecked my car!" "I'm sorry your car got wrecked!" That is not an admission of guilt. Jeebus all the armchair lawyers in this sub.	/r/MensRights	01/11/12 08:45 PM
1	Girlfriend recently told me that she was pregnant and I'm gonna be a dad. Within a few hours of this announcement, she completely changed and has been threatening that I'll never see or have custody of the child. LOL no it's not.	/r/MensRights	01/11/12 07:53 PM
1	Girlfriend recently told me that she was pregnant and I'm gonna be a dad. Within a few hours of this announcement, she completely changed and has been threatening that I'll never see or have custody of the child. Not entirely correct. If you mean the whole "restate her accusations and then show that text to the judge when she didn't respond" will only anger the judge, I agree. However, I know for a fact, from two separate cases with two separate judges, that if the gf texts threats to her bf, the judge will be happy to consider them as evidence. So far, we're 2 for 2 in such texts getting custody granted to the father.	/r/MensRights	01/11/12 07:52 PM
6	Girlfriend recently told me that she was pregnant and I'm gonna be a dad. Within a few hours of this announcement, she completely changed and has been threatening that I'll never see or have custody of the child. My brother was able to just screenshot his iPhone and it was admissible. Family court isn't like criminal court, where there would be a higher probability of someone demanding that the texts be verified. I think most Redditors know that there are iPhone text generating websites, but most judges don't, and there's no jury in family court.	/r/MensRights	31/10/12 06:07 PM
3	Girlfriend recently told me that she was pregnant and I'm gonna be a dad. Within a few hours of this announcement, she completely changed and has been threatening that I'll never see or have custody of the child. Your original example did not involve the individual changing the subject, but instead involved them not responding to the accusation, or as you just put it, "remaining silent." I'm not arguing with someone that keeps changing their position to avoid admitting they're incorrect.	/r/MensRights	31/10/12 06:03 PM
13	Girlfriend recently told me that she was pregnant and I'm gonna be a dad. Within a few hours of this announcement, she completely changed and has been threatening that I'll never see or have custody of the child. This. In CA (where I live) it's not legal to do this, which is why I recommended written communication. Though to clarify: if you're not in a single party state, the law (at least in CA) only requires that you inform the other party that you are recording. They are NOT required to consent in order for you to keep recording. Often, you can turn on a recorder, tell someone that you're recording them, and when they say that they don't want you to you can just say "OK" and put the recorder in your p…	/r/MensRights	31/10/12 05:56 PM
2	Girlfriend recently told me that she was pregnant and I'm gonna be a dad. Within a few hours of this announcement, she completely changed and has been threatening that I'll never see or have custody of the child. I feel ya. I have a dog, and whenever people ask me why I don't have children I just tell them "sometimes having a dog takes more work than I bargained for- I don't think I'd do well with kids.	/r/MensRights	31/10/12 05:54 PM
9	Girlfriend recently told me that she was pregnant and I'm gonna be a dad. Within a few hours of this announcement, she completely changed and has been threatening that I'll never see or have custody of the child. There is no jury in family court. And no, it's not enough to convince a judge. You need actual admissions to prove an admission as made. If this were true, then in any criminal trial, exercising your right to remain silent would automatically equal an admission of guilt.	/r/MensRights	31/10/12 05:53 PM
16	Girlfriend recently told me that she was pregnant and I'm gonna be a dad. Within a few hours of this announcement, she completely changed and has been threatening that I'll never see or have custody of the child. No. No, it is not. If you say "you stole my cheeseburger" and my response is "I like cheeseburgers," that is not an admission of guilt.	/r/MensRights	31/10/12 05:33 PM
1	Girlfriend recently told me that she was pregnant and I'm gonna be a dad. Within a few hours of this announcement, she completely changed and has been threatening that I'll never see or have custody of the child. Have you had the opportunity to be around kids a lot that you actually have a reason to care about? Like a baby brother or niece / nephew? I only ask because, I felt the same way as you did, and thought that I would never be able to stand children. Then by brother had a little girl and a son, and though it took a good year or two, I'm no incredibly attached to them and love spending time with them. They look up to me so much, and tell me how much they miss me when I'm gone. It's a feeling that c…	/r/MensRights	31/10/12 05:32 PM
1	Girlfriend recently told me that she was pregnant and I'm gonna be a dad. Within a few hours of this announcement, she completely changed and has been threatening that I'll never see or have custody of the child. Me too. My gf and I have been together for over 6 years, and neither of us has any interest in children. I would say I have disdain for them, but I'm one of those "oh yeah I love children... so long as they go home at the end of the day" kind of guys.	/r/MensRights	31/10/12 05:19 PM
2	Girlfriend recently told me that she was pregnant and I'm gonna be a dad. Within a few hours of this announcement, she completely changed and has been threatening that I'll never see or have custody of the child. The rare case of honor on Reddit! Props to you. Upvotes all around.	/r/MensRights	31/10/12 05:08 PM
2	Girlfriend recently told me that she was pregnant and I'm gonna be a dad. Within a few hours of this announcement, she completely changed and has been threatening that I'll never see or have custody of the child. Don't know. Probably that whole "I'd be killing my baby" part. I'm not really for or against abortion. I'm more of a "hey y'all can do what you want" kind of guy. Still, I find it hard to believe that most any woman would consider aborting a fetus as the equivalent to protecting a child.	/r/MensRights	31/10/12 05:07 PM
30	Girlfriend recently told me that she was pregnant and I'm gonna be a dad. Within a few hours of this announcement, she completely changed and has been threatening that I'll never see or have custody of the child. I'm not a lawyer, but I find it hard to believe that a lack of argument is equal to an admission of guilt.	/r/MensRights	31/10/12 05:05 PM
3	Girlfriend recently told me that she was pregnant and I'm gonna be a dad. Within a few hours of this announcement, she completely changed and has been threatening that I'll never see or have custody of the child. FUCK. I'm sorry. :(	/r/MensRights	31/10/12 05:03 PM
2	Girlfriend recently told me that she was pregnant and I'm gonna be a dad. Within a few hours of this announcement, she completely changed and has been threatening that I'll never see or have custody of the child. LOL condoms do not "work 99% of the time." Do some research. The failure rate for male condoms is 14-15%. There are a lot of other factors at play as well. This means that 14-15 people out of every 100 will become pregnant during the first year of use. http://www.americanpregnancy.org/preventingpregnancy/malecondom.html If the failure rate is 14-15%, and you have a gf that sleeps with you every day, then it's only a matter of time, unless you also combine condom usage with the rhythm method, whi…	/r/MensRights	31/10/12 05:03 PM
1	Girlfriend recently told me that she was pregnant and I'm gonna be a dad. Within a few hours of this announcement, she completely changed and has been threatening that I'll never see or have custody of the child. Word.	/r/MensRights	31/10/12 04:50 PM
5	Girlfriend recently told me that she was pregnant and I'm gonna be a dad. Within a few hours of this announcement, she completely changed and has been threatening that I'll never see or have custody of the child. Sadly, this is what a good friend of mine did. He had no money, she had a lot. He never wanted conflict and is very laid-back, she was a controlling bitch. When he realized that he would have to fight with this woman for 18+ years, he just let it go. Signed over full custody in return for zero child support.	/r/MensRights	31/10/12 03:55 PM
14	I live in a part of California where any domestic violence call will result in the arrest and prosecution of the male party regardless of the facts surrounding the incident. As a result, I am in a domestic violence class to avoid harsh penalties. AMA. You clearly have never had ANY dealings with the court system. It has nothing to do with evidence, or who is right and who is wrong. I've been involved in two divorce trials (neither my own) and two custody battles (neither my own), one criminal case (as a witness, not the defendant), and one civil trial (as a witness). NONE of them were fair, NONE of them had anything to do with evidence. They were just dog and pony shows put on by the state to rake innocent people over coals. Total travesty, t…	/r/MensRights	30/10/12 04:32 PM
3	I live in a part of California where any domestic violence call will result in the arrest and prosecution of the male party regardless of the facts surrounding the incident. As a result, I am in a domestic violence class to avoid harsh penalties. AMA. I don't really have a question, but I wanted to comment to thank you for bringing to light a very serious issue with California's (and perhaps many other states', I wouldn't know) domestic violence policies. "A part of California." You mean EVERY part of California, right? It's particularly common amongst firearms collectors here. Wife knows that TRO will require surrender of all guns w/i 24 hours. So, she files a fales police report, gets a TRO, and the collector or shooting sports enthusiast l…	/r/MensRights	30/10/12 04:21 PM
8	I thought you guys would get a kick out of this. My first thought seeing Kurt: "Polly wants a cracker..."	/r/MensRights	15/10/12 10:33 PM
2	Congratulations: if you're a man - especially a white man, you have absolutely no problems. Maybe you drive like shit? I mean no offense, but you're making a huge leap saying "IS IT BECAUSE I'M BLACK???"	/r/MensRights	12/10/12 10:11 PM