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he's reduced to begging now We are married, all money goes into the same place and each of us have equal rights to it (both ethically and legally). If he wants a new car that bad he can just go buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:01 AM
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Since you say otherwise then give me a non discriminatory reason why a straight or hi woman would have this preference? I mean I couldn't see a man as dominant if he was a bottom. If he was bi and I knew he was a top, but then again I dont really want to hear about sex with past partners. Maybe that is a discriminatory reason but I dont want to have sex with a man who I dont see as extremely masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 03:21 PM
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This is genuinely funny. I did my post grad while working and shat out a kid half way through, our marriage wasn't strained at all. Enough so that my husband actually pushed me to start a second post grad this year. I also now outearn him, judging by the jokes about me using the extra money to buy him new cars I'd say he is comfortable with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:22 PM
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Younger women who want a family would be wise to be avoid a man who failed to commit and have kids for so long. It's irresponsible for older men to have children, people forget that the man makes up half of the babies DNA and it increases the rate of birth defects if the farther is older. The placenta is also made up mostly of male DNA and if the placenta is weak that leads to complications in both baby and mum.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 05:49 AM
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I said I agree with OP, I just also add that challenging these men needs to come from men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:36 PM
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Yes, I read the post too. If you scroll for a second youd learn the reason I say this is I believe that men have the ability to convince these men to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 02:37 PM
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>Why most the argument always always be “but there’s something wrong with men and only men” I agree that's a crap argument, there are both women and men who are shit people and there is too much focus on men vs women on both sides when it should be shunning shitty people. >when can we expect “dont hate men” to come from the women’s side. I think women don't take being "taught" by anyone the way a lot of men can learn from other men. I feel like the majority need to reject women who spread this i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 03:16 AM
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it comes from a place of spite, There was a point in time where the aim was not to get together and hate women but for men to focus on themselves, that I think would be a good thing if it were still a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 01:58 AM
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teach young men that dating and actively getting women’s attention isn’t necessary This is why I think MGTOW is a good idea in general and why I used to support TRP because at one point both movements had a good basis of self improvement (not nessasarily anymore). But I do think this is something men have to teach men (and boys) I don't think "don't hate women" coming from a woman is going to be anywhere near as meaningful. Which is why I recommend men with some sense speak up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:27 AM
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Ideally, I’d want to do both Okay fair I also think this flawed argument is the source of a lot of hate What argument do you think will make a difference? What replacement is there for this point then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 12:14 AM
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I dont think you're wrong, and I think you make good arguments which is rare especially here. But wouldn't your time be better used trying to change the minds of people who spread hate rather than people who are trying to stop that, albeit with a flawed argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 11:14 PM
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I feel like the biggest issue is exactly that, it gets harder on the mum and more risk to the baby to have kids the older you get. Sure there are people who have kids without issues at an older age but that's not the norm. having to raise them requires lots of energy. This is so under appreciated, I have a 4 month old at 31 and getting up at 5am after a shit sleep is so much harder now than it was at 25, I dont think I would cope with a baby at 40+ and I'm quite high energy. I'm sure people will…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 01:01 AM
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if the price of gas becomes $50 a gallon, people will think something is wrong and want to talk about it. Man you REALY don't understand economics. If the price of petrol is $50 it's because enough people are willing to pay $50 for petrol for it to be worth that much. If people stopped buying at $50 the cost would go down. Super basic explanation but that's how supply and demand works and you can yap about it all you like people are still going to pay what they think something is worth. since mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 08:01 PM
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I married the best man available to me, so I doubt at 31 I will come across something better but if I did I've already made my bed and I will lay in it with my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 07:08 AM
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I don't disagree that women should start having children in their 20s but there's not many people who want +3 kids now days. I feel like there are better arguments for having children before 30 than "you won't be able to have more than 3 kids"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 11:24 PM
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I earn more than my husband and he's 2 years younger than me. OPs entire point is that people date within their age range. 2.2 years is the same range, not 10 years which is the entire debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 07:42 PM
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So unlike you I can actually source data. The average age gap currently around 2.2 years in the US with most Western countries being similar. 2.2 years is hardly an age gap worth noting and definitely not the gap that men like you tout as the norm. https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2024/08/15/a-growing-share-of-us-husbands-and-wives-are-roughly-the-same-age/ Also relationships with a large age gap can cause difficulties https://psychcentral.com/relationships/age-difference-in-relationships…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 04:32 PM
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So no source
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:50 PM
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And yes, older means 1-2, 5 and 10 years The point is there are men spewing that normal range is 10+ years when this is something that happens rarely. literally left without girls. It doesn't really work like that but let's assume everyone in the world is coupled up, a 22 year old would date a 20 year old, the 20 year old would date an 18 year old etc. So a bunch of kids would start dating a year or 2 after the girls in their cohort, that's not really a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:32 PM
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their preference is a guy who's 3-5 years older. Yes, a little older. That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:12 PM
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Check in 25-27. If women late 20s are dating men in their late 20s/early 30s that kinda proves the point no?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:09 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:58 PM
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Men are complaining that women have all the power in reproduction, why not do something about that? Female condoms exist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 07:59 PM
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offline focused Why? Women have many online forums, why can't men. find and meet fellows in your city Why not both? Unfortunately it wasn't the case with online mgtows that I saw I've seen ones that weren't about women hate online but if you haven't then you haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 06:54 AM
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you’re not arguing with Red Pillers Half the people here don't even know what TRP is nor have been to any of the subs before but wholeheartedly argue a point claiming it's red ideology.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:14 AM
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You should build community for men There was one for MGTOW, it got banned
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:00 AM
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Idk what it's like where you're from but in my country both parents have parental rights (and responsibilities), so if the mum doesn't want the kid but the dad does the kid goes to the dad and the mum has to pay. I agree it would be ideal (but probably not feasible) if it wasn't possible to spend that money on anything that didn't benefit the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:24 AM
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OP was talking about conventionally attractive women, I am one example. I also know plenty of attractive women who have been through at least some if not worse than me. insert yourself to control the conversation Bud its A PUBLIC FORUM if OP didn't want replies dont post how good it is to be saved. I met my husband after 99% of this happened, I just met his family through him who I'm now close to so the last point isn't true anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:05 PM
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Men are better at being a CEO, women are better at teaching, why does this make you so bitter. Until 2022, men were likely (and routinely far more likely) to be victims of violent crime Women (outside of prison) get raped far more than men, you can point at every inherent inequality and use it as an argument. The point is everyone has a plus side and a down side. Go cry about it. Well, most women did. For decades Women are not a hive mind And I hope and pray this situation (that started around 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:06 AM
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The main beneficiaries of DEI are/were able bodied white women. Literally never been a beneficiary of DEI, if anything it hurts me because people assume places I've gotten on merit are handouts. Welcome to the life of men since... forever. My husband has literally never been hit outside of sport, I've been hit probably billions of times. He's not even big and people are to affraid to try something but with me they will. You are complaining against equality I've literally never in my life said I …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 08:35 AM
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Yep, I stop by every now and then to yell at people, gotta keep everyone on their toes. You know there are also a lot of men who could be out fucking women or even married men who come here too right? Or is it okay when a man used social media but not women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:31 AM
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People can't be on any social media if they are married now?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:26 AM
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You can't seriously be that deluded
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:10 AM
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I dont have instagram so I can't even watch that but assuming you're right it's one woman who's addicted to social media so not representative of all women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:09 AM
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Not all the issues have been caused by women. But also no one asked for sympathy, just to be treated like a human or left alone. If you do that then we're g
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 07:08 AM
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I can't say most because I don't know most women, but based off what I have seen and others comments it is the vast majority. What's your basis for believing that most women are coddled, you left your basement once, saw a women and projected?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:10 AM
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I believe women should act like women, I dont believe in victimhood, I believe the ideal is a traditional family, I believe that people should look after their own first not those who society tell you need to be protected.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:00 AM
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Many attractive women go through shit, a lot of what I said was caused by being conventionally attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 05:56 AM
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It is what it is But yes, the most insecure woman I have ever met is the most gorgeous blonde hair, blue eyed woman I have ever seen. It broke my heart to hear her apologise for normal things because she was "being annoying" or because she thought people hated her. She is also such a sweet human. I am not any different to most conventionally attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:55 AM
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I make as much as my husband, we do well not private jet money but still. Life is easier because he is amazing not because he has money.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:44 AM
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I'm not an outlier, I have met some many exceptionally beautiful women who are extremely insecure because they have been bullied into adulthood because other women get jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 04:41 AM
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I am an attractive white western woman. Here's the reality * I was beaten for the first 16 years of my life * I then moved out and paid my own way and no one gave a shit * I've had men treat me like a sex object most of my life * I've had "good guys" threaten to rape me * I've had more than one try to rape me, it was only through dumb luck I avoided it * I've had exs lie to and manipulate me * Feminism hates me because I have contradictory opinions to them * I get no victim points because I'm an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:02 AM
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This saying has been something trp has said for over a decade It's correct in the sense that you go to an expert in what you want to do. So if you want a relationship you go to someone in a relationship not a pua. People confuse the two, assuming that manipulation works for a relationship because someone else got laid. The other problem it is the reality is people assume someone is a "good fishermen" when infact they don't know what they are doing that's working. People also lie, look at all the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 10:23 PM
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I dont make friends with people who think having a hobby is some great sacrifice
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 11:08 PM
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Yes you put a disclaimer so you can brush off anyone who disagrees with you. That has nothing to do with my comment. Trp is not about suffering but you come to ppd with the sentiment that suffering is being forced onto men. If that's not what you mean then why make the post here and why make the claim that everything is sunshine and roses as soon as you "find yourself"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:41 PM
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If you can't develop hobbies without "suffering" then you have bigger problems then someone telling you to quiet down. I also have no problems with the traditional social system other than the people trying to tear it down, so maybe stop projecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 10:37 PM
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Wait is you claim that trp is about suffering? Because it's not its about being better. If working out, getting hobbies, and taking care of yourself is suffering to you then idk what to tell you but toughen up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 07:46 PM
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does not one person here know what RP is anymore? Even the reds here don't know what red is anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 07:46 AM
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Do you wish you were approached IRL more? Not any more, but I'm married. Before I was fine with being approached politely, even now I dont particularly mind (you don't know my life may as well shoot your shot), unless the guy is an asshole, just now it means I politely turn them down and tell my husband about it later. Do you think social media, dating apps, the fact that we're all in AirPods 24/7, radical feminism, MeToo hysteria and an overlooked porn addiction epidemic have ruined meeting IRL…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:46 AM
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Paying for first dates I wouldn't expect it but when I was dating I had few insist. Always be prepared to pay but I'm not going to fight someone over it. Buying flowers weekly without asking Hate flowers, flowers die 'Sidewalk rule' This one is cute but not expected Opening the door for her always Whoever gets to the door first should hold it open for the following people. It's just polite Pulling out the chair for her before she gets seated Im an adult, I can seat myself Gifts every month or tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:15 AM
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The reason for the insecurity is biology. Idk how that can be any more clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 01:21 AM
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they got abortions Abortions are damaging to women. And if they weren't affected by it they were already damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:53 PM
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Soz mate I'll just turn into a massive jacked dude to overcome human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:43 PM
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A good man is good at providing a feeling of security, yes. Many women feel more uncomfortable in some situations due to the fact that we are physically smaller and weaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:28 PM
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If relationships are so taxing for women The unpaid work isn't work to maintain the relationship. Most families at some point will require taking care of children, elderly parents/grandparents or a sick family member if they last long enough. That is unpaid labour because those things are labour
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 01:00 PM
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Realistically just bad vibes and annoying social situations, we don't really have the need for protection like we did in the past but the feeling of security is what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:13 AM
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Why do people think providing = opulent things I can by my own jewellery and nice dresses and makeup What my husband provides that I can't is safety and security, that is worth more than all the guess handbags in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 05:56 AM
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Which is different to your original comment of "everything should be 50/50 or the man will take advantage" Im just trying to understand the point of view because the comments don't seem to track.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:07 AM
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My husband and I have both been through periods of unemployment over the course of our marriage We thankfully haven't but I won't be paid for 3 months towards the end of the year (I want to take my full 12 months of maternity leave but total paid is 9 months), the amount of stress it would cause if my husband kept tally of expenses would make me a nervous wreck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 05:05 AM
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So now you're saying marriage should not be 50/50?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:57 AM
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No, they were just 50/50 people and held a lot back. That's the point, if you intend to marry someone you don't hold back "what's yours" and you don't keep score. Marriage is a team effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:09 AM
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I always imagine these people sitting there 20 years down the road with kids etc and a sick spouse telling them "well you better find a way to make money soon, the electric is due on the 10th"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:03 AM
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Because they weren't holding back, you put everything in. I've worked in finance for almost a decade now and seen people of all walks of lifes finances. Most of the people I've seen that end up in a shit fight divorce had other accounts with a not insignificant amount of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:58 AM
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If you marry someone and you're only 50% in it, your marriage will most likely not survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:51 AM
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Marriage is not 50/50 anything, it's one pool. Money goes in the same account and bills come out. Housework is done by the person who is best at it (ie hubby shits me the way he folds laundry so I do it, I'm crap at yardwork so he keeps all the plants alive), or whoever has the most energy at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:46 AM
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It's not about male nature or strategy. Go to the TRP sub, click the description, feel bad women are more likely to want variety than men. Read any post on any of the RP subs and you'll realise how wrong you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:24 PM
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Oh so you have reading comprehension problems. Okay
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:50 AM
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Notice how I said act like a man. Someone can be in their 50s and still act like a toddler, doesn't stop them being an adult and having adult rights. That's what's sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:16 PM
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I think OP just spends too much time on reddit and thinks the comments made here directed at men who haven't showered in a week and complain from their mums basement that they can't get a girlfriend are what happens to all men in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:34 AM
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If you can't get what you want then you obviously need to be better, it's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:29 AM
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TRP used to be about men acting like an actual fucking man, not a pussy who made their core focus women and getting laid. Now TRP is a heap of men making sex the core of their lives and blaming women for every minor problem. Want to be a man? Get a life, get some male friends, find a man you respect and make him your mentor. The reason "go lift" become such a meme is because it actually worked, this pussy shit makes you as bad as the feminists you hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:13 AM
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There are also a lot of women who reform because they realise they won't find a husband, but none of it has to do with religion. RP doesn't care about your God. I know this is a bit of a rant but it shits me that people equate all RP with Christianity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:15 PM
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Shared values and someone who shows affection in a way you can accept it. Your marriage may not be what someone else may choose but you have to live it not them. Choose someone you can live with forever because your agreeing to forever. Side note, don't make a list of wants but have deal brakers. The more qualifying factors you have the harder it is to find someone who fits your needs.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/25 02:06 PM
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Fath doesn't really matter so much as values, right leaning people tend to have those morals in my experience but politics =/= religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 01:57 PM
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Hitting a child only teaches them that the biggest guy is the one who wins in the end, if that's the lesson you want to teach your children then you'll raise some shitty people. There are absolutely ways to correct that behaviour at 3, but violence is not the answer.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/24 01:52 PM
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FIL can clearly not be trusted with a child, there are ways to teach a child not to hit (and you should teach your child not to hit even at 3) but violence is not okay no matter what. With hubby I'd be sitting down once your calm and talking about why it's not okay and why bub will not be around FIL any longer. He may have written it off in the moment due to everyone's high emotions or family dynamics so assume the best until the worst is proven.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/24 01:47 PM
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Yes, yes Women = bad
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:13 AM
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Who's talking about morals? If you're trying to get with a consenting adult whether they are in their 30s or 50s doesn't really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:10 AM
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If the younger guy is more attractive, more successful, and an overall better person a woman is for sure not going to get with the old guy because someone online says they should like older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:52 AM
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Women go for the best they believe they can get. If that's older then so be it. We don't care so much about the "rules"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:34 AM
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What? So women in their 40s be wanting retired saggy balls by that logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:11 AM
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It's really very simple, women want a slight power imbalance but not agency to be taken away. 38/20 is fine if you're assuming both are capable adults, if the younger is very immature/sheltered it's an issue. Hight/size difference is fine (and to be expected given averages) assuming no one is being forced, money gap is good assuming no financial abuse, education is okay assuming the gap in capacity doesn't indicate potential for manipulation. Basically women will put themselves in the shoes of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 02:09 AM
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Funny how a woman saying "I'm a 7 but I can't get a 5" is a delusional cunt but a man saying "I'm a 7 but I can't get laid" is a social problem caused by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:28 PM
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I think the point is even in your definition the trad wife would still get a choice in the husband, assuming when you say "marry young" you mean married at 18-23 not a child who is unable to make decisions or being forced into an arranged marriage by someone who doesn't care about your well-being. Still a chance of ending up with an abusive asshole in that situation but it does drop a lot when assuming free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 06:28 AM
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What exactly do you believe makes women incapable of working an office job that pays over 80k?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 09:28 PM
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Only women who are "required" by their culture/religion to prove they are virgins on their wedding night get this surgery. It doesn't do anything for the actual appearance of the vagina, just reconstructs the hymen so she bleeds during sex with her husband for the first time. It's understandable why women get this done but unless she comes from a culture that is so up its own ass that people can't recognise riding a bike won't take your virginity then it's entirely pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 05:34 AM
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It more depends on who you are, I have known many men who just do their own thing and don't give a fuck about relationships and if someone comes along who is worth it they will try but only for that specific woman. On the flip side there are a lot of women who are desperate to settle down with anything. The people who are secure in themselves and have a life are the people who are comfortable being alone if there's no better options and that's not really a gendered thing. There does seem to be m…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 10:12 PM
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women don't know what motivates women Hahahahahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:45 AM
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posses traits impossible to obtain through effort alone What traits are you talking about? Looks? The average person now is a fat slob who can barely make it to the shower once a day, eat healthy and take a walk and you'll suddenly be more attractive than most men. Social skills? This is 100% socialisation, go outside and learn to talk to other humans, after a bit you'll get comfortable interacting with others. Wealth? This is the hardest one, but also unless you're dating a gold digger the leas…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:44 AM
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Mate you do not speak for all men, and the way you talk it sounds like you've not left the basement for the past 15 years to be able to actually tell what human relationships are like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:33 AM
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I love it when men who have never met a woman irl tell women what they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 07:02 AM
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You don't have to be the top 1% of men to make someone's life better, you just have to be a net positive in their life. Ie stop dragging people around you down and maybe you'll see an improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:18 AM
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If men are not getting anything from relationships why are the majority of men on here whinging that they want a relationship but can't get one while most women are opting out of relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:14 AM
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Women like to be in relationships when they actually get some benefit from it. If being in a relationship means dragging someone else along then yeah you would opt out too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:09 AM
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Wait, so you're saying that women are currently better off being single than in a relationship, so instead of men bringing something to the table women should be punished for being single in order to improve men's odds?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:06 AM
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Your claim: women select for tall wealthy men Me: I chose my husband despite him not being the tallest or wealthiest option I had You: STUPID WOMAN YOU PROVED MY POINT!! lol wat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 09:50 PM
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Only one of these studies has a large enough sample size to even be relevant but I'm going to ignore that because the overall point, that women overestimate the risk of drink spiking, is true and discussing the exact number has no real baring on the conversation. Fact is humans survive because we all overestimate the likelihood of something happening if the consequences are severe (look up negativity bias, it affects men and women roughly equally). The consequences of drink spiking is high (like…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 07:04 AM
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no the claim is not that women refuse to date 85% You heard it hear first guys, 80/20 rule isn't real! As I’ve explained to you twice now If be explained you mean shrieking at anything that disproves your narrative, sure. I've already said, before my husband and I started dating I had the option of men who were both taller and wealthier than him, I chose him without question because he is better despite not fitting into some very broad black pill generalisations of what I should want and I guara…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:54 AM
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Why is everyone pulling up in group bias and pretending it's a major impact on male/female interactions. In group bias is the preference towards someone who is part of the group one identities with over someone who is not. The effect is stronger the smaller and more specific the group. So someone may identify with both their country and their church group. They would as a result show preference to people from their country but a stronger preference towards their church group as that is the small…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 05:31 AM
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Omg mate seriously, take your shitty opinions and shove them up your ass. Not everyone needs to hold the same values as you. Just let people live their lives and stop trying to guilt everyone into supporting what you specifically what.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:52 PM
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My husband doesn't give two shits if I swear and fully supports me telling idiots where to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:03 PM
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You're kinda conflating socialisation with group bias. Group bias is the tendency to prefer people who fit within the same groups as you (this may be people that you've met or know or someone who you don't know who just fits into a group your pat of). It's the thing you see when two people follow the same football team meet for the first time and suddenly they are bffs talking about whatever match or player they like. All else being equal people prefer the person who supports their team (the in …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:02 PM
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Yeah fuck off, this sort of shit is the reason a lot of push back against feminist propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:03 PM
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Women do show more in group preference as a whole Yes but the in group is rarely 50% of the population, that's just too big and too diverse a population for anyone to identify with. Mostly group bias is based on cultural groupings (or even smaller sub groups) which include men because let's be honest a man who shares the same culture, values, religion etc is more like you then a woman on the other side of the planet who doesn't even speak the same language.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 09:01 PM
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Generally the argument is that women specifically won't date under 6ft. And moving the goal posts doesn't help your argument either because I specifically chose my husband over taller men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:31 PM
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You're not being realistic about mens behaviour. If you want to make the claim that a minority of men are shit humans and need to fix themselves, sure 100% agree, this is not the claim youre making though. You came to a post about not demonising 50% of the population and then proceeded to demonise 50% of the population because reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:39 AM
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"I can't form a valid argument so everyone who disagrees with me is lying" You wanna throw another "women = bad" in there for good measure?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:13 AM
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Your original comment was Men have repeatedly shown through their own actions that they generally resent women being successful So essentially "men are a collective", "all men majority of the time think this", and "all men act this way most of the time" My point is Men are not a collective Men don't all believe the same things Men don't all behave in the same way Maybe you have only interacted with men who are shit humans, maybe you're just bitter, maybe you are pushing the idea as part of some …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:10 AM
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What am I or any of the other women expressing the same thing in this thread getting out of saying this that would lead you to believe it's virtue signalling? Like I don't know you or anyone else on here or give two shits about any opinions formed of me here, reddit is anonymous so it's not like a comment could follow me to my personal/professional life, I also regularly express unpopular opinions here so clearly internet points don't matter to me. But "oh you're just lying for attention" is the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:57 AM
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First I don't count because I'm not a woman now I don't count because I cannot speak for all women, but somehow you can. The point is many men in my life have pushed me towards being successful, I would even say they are the minority of men I have associated with. So yes I am one woman, but out of hundreds of men I have established some sort of relationship with the vast majority encouraged me at a minimum and a significant number have tried to assist me in being successful in at least one area …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:26 AM
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supposed to She's not supposed to do anything, she just has those options due to her circumstances. You cannot control if someone else is attracted to you. Doctors are not willing to date her so dating a doctor is not an option for her. If the only people willing to date her are people on min wage then her options are don't date or date someone on min wage. But dude said she is with a guy who does business economics, that's hardly the equivalent to a someone cleaning toilets, just not as prestig…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 07:07 AM
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I am a woman, hence proving your theory wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:56 AM
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idk who the fuck you spend time around but more men have pushed me to be successful than women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:52 AM
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Why do you believe she was obligated to settle? The men she was perusing didn't want to date her and she was miserable for it. If your dating preferences are excluding everyone who would date you then your standards are unrealistic. The options in that case is to not change your standards and accept you may never find a partner, or look at your expectations and figure out what is a must and what is a want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:49 AM
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*some* women want feminism, some of us would be happy if the whole movement fucked right off
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:32 AM
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I guess I have to give back my woman card then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 06:27 AM
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what woman agrees with the idea that "not all men" is a valid argument? Hi there, I am a woman. Also many comments on this thread from women who are agreeing with OP, just because there are women in the world who you can point to and say "see she thinks this" doesn't mean that particular woman speaks for all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:48 AM
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Sees a post about not stereotyping everyone based on gender Immediately makes a comment that stereotypes an entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:31 AM
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The current ideology in vogue is consideration of improving “odds” of their social group (e.g. gender) and how individual actions “imbalance society” towards or away from their favor. Actual humans who spend time outside don't put much thought into how to improve the dating prospects of some random man/woman they have never met. They think about what is best for them specifically, if that has an impact on other people it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:25 AM
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I mean I don't know how tall my husband is and I'm married to the man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:07 AM
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"Men = bad and women I don't like = bad, they are both bad so they should be forced to date because logic!"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:16 AM
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How? If anything that's even more curated than the rest of the content. Most people now plan all pics to ensure they present a certain way, check their background for anything compromising or embarrassing, use filters or edit it. Do you somehow think with all the effort people are putting into a random Tuesday pic they are putting something more authentic as there dp?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:52 AM
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they both seem to be very happy This is what your missing, people post what they want to portray on social media not what's actually going on. It's really not hard to curate social media to make yourself appear a particular way. I have known a lot of couples who paint this super perfect happy face to the public but if you really know them it's totally different, or 2 years later they suddenly break up and are saying horrible things about one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:38 AM
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all that bullshit women put that man through "No, I'm not interested in dating you" "How dare these EVIL females!"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 03:26 AM
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women are much more likely to tell their friends about their partner's penis I've never been told about the size of a man's penis from another woman and I've had a lot of friends who are hoes and talk a lot about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:26 PM
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100% this The way OP is talking sounds like it's coming from a micro penis problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:24 PM
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women praise and worship big dicks Do they? The only women I've ever heard even discuss size is either as a half assed insult or when flirting with a man who has already been gloating about his massive cock. Women behind closed doors without the performance pressure for men don't even care enough to mention the size of a man's dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 10:18 PM
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I don't think age is a real issue so much as development. When people look down on age gap it's because they assume (often rightly so) that two people are in a different life/developmental stage or that there is a power imbalance. That's why most people care more about age gaps when one person is super young vs the same difference when both are 30+
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/24 10:13 PM
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I'm curious if there are any red flags He lives on the other side of the planet to you and by the sounds you don't want to move and have no idea if he is willing to move You have never met in person and have no plans to do so He is just beginning to establish himself in life and you are looking to settle He has some disturbing issues with sex He may not want children, you haven't stated clearly but by the sounds you wish to adopt You haven't even known eachother for 2 months online He is very yo…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/24 09:38 PM
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There is no such thing as "his money" and "her money" when you're married.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 09:10 AM
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You are right but I don't like your tone I never said you're right, you didn't even really make a point in your OP. But a screenshot of a data dump in Excel is literally the worst possible way of giving meaningful information, humans can't compare data points like this and machines have trouble recognising data in a screenshot. Like I get that you couldn't upload a spreadsheet, that's why data visualisation matters. "women initiate most of divorces (for 157 YEARS, mind you) because men don't do …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:04 PM
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First off your data presentation skills are horrific. married men have greater workload than married women in all years without exception Yes, they also have the greatest amount of "me time", so your argument is men do more things than women? greater loss of "me-time" than women in most years Your data shows married men taking more "me time" than married women? Unless you're saying that men loose more "me time" when married compared to women but that's not a comparison you've made in your data a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 09:53 AM
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Red pill is sick and tired of a two tier double standard Is it though or are you just sick of not being the winner in the dating game and projecting that on others? get money , get taller, get some "better personality" The top piece of advice on TRP for the last 13 has been "be better", I mean it's basically a meme that TRPs solution to everything is "lift bro". TRP are not the ones complaining about having to get off your ass and not be a piece of shit. None of these rules apply to women There …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:28 AM
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You know that not hating women =/= blue right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:13 AM
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Guys find 40% of women attractive. So your argument is majority of both genders are dateless. Seems like the problem is solving itself for the uggos
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 08:02 AM
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Yeah most people here don't even really seem to understand what RP and BP are anymore but will label themselves as something and go into a fight like they are a representation of some sort of club. Even better are the ones who believe all women = blue/feminist and all men = red
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 07:38 AM
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I have my own life.. But seriously what makes you think you are in the position to give advice? If he needs advice he will go and find someone who has succeeded in the industry he wants success in, so assuming you're not 5 years+ on the same career path your meddling won't help.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/24 07:26 AM
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RP =/= SAHM RP is a relationship dynamic where women take on feminine roles and men take on masculine roles. Wanting to settle down and start a family is kinda a natural result of this for most women. If you are not interested in that that's totally fine but I'm not sure why you'd come to RPW for advice if you're not really red.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/24 02:40 AM
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My friends are mostly back home, the people I know here are people I've met through my husband or work and that's fine with me. I'm also 30 and have a career so I'm not going to throw that away for something that could lead me to meet 2 or 3 more people who I don't actually get on with. I am going to be really aggressive about meeting new people. I mean you can do that but assuming you want to meet more traditional women your age then they will be the women who's priorities have already shifted …
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/24 01:39 AM
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Have you been to either city? Because it kinda sounds like you heard some things online about these places and don't really know what it would be like in either of them. City 1 is the larger city but with no activities somehow? I don't know of many big cities that genuinely have nothing to do outside of pubs and clubs, particularly if the democratics are older. Tbh it sounds like you'd have better luck dating here even if women outnumber men. City 2 is smaller with a younger demographic, which y…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/24 01:27 AM
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As someone who moved to a new city at 27 honestly it's near impossible to make friends with people in a new city at this age. Also by the time you move again the majority of people you manage to make friends with will not be interested in maintaining a relationship with someone who lives far away and they only knew for a year.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/24 01:15 AM
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Do you think that maybe people criticise the ones who do specifically go to impoverished countries to find women who are desperate? If you don't fit within your community then chances are you won't find someone to date/marry in that community either, so looking outside of that is obvious and most people would recommend that. The issue is men who are looking for a woman who will act as a maid and sex slave. They do exist and they often hunt for victims in impoverished countries. My uncle is the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 10:15 PM
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find me a woman Yes hello. When I was dating there was probably 2 dates I didn't pay at least half on. Early dating with my husband I paid to get to and stay on the other side of the country (I didn't allow him to pay for anything until I felt comfortable it was long term and even then I paid for the majority). I'm not alone either, none of the women I am friends with expect a man to pay, and most say it feels uncomfortable to not contribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:50 PM
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I feel bad for the miserable life you live
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:08 AM
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You have seen this happen or was it something you pulled out of your ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:05 AM
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Oh no humans look worse when they're old, must mean that no woman has value beyond 25 because men only ever marry (or even have attraction to) the hottest woman in the room and the day she turns 25 she will instantly turn into a pumpkin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:03 AM
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As a woman who works in finance, me and my spreadsheets feel personally attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:47 AM
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The average adult = fat what's wrong with acknowledging facts?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:33 AM
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Relationships, especially established ones, are founded on more than just physical attraction. No cant be, that would mean humans had depth and thoughts and emotions and stuff. Everyone on PPD knows that humans only exist as a caricature of a stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 04:29 AM
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Say you're not capable of having a relationship without saying you're not capable of having a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 03:21 AM
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Everything you've said is "he does this and that", you're saying he doesn't accept responsibility but neither are you. Even with you denying and downplaying I can see there are issues on your end too. And yes he clearly has things to work on, it will likely take him years. Bipolar doesn't have any quick fixes. This was on the cards the whole time and you made the commitment anyway. I'm not sure why you're surprised there's issues now.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/24 05:01 PM
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Communication is great, one conversation is going to do nothing in the face of the mountain of issues you have though. On top of this he has bipolar and you seem to be completely unaware of what's going on with his mental health. Is it possible to make this work? Sure it's possible, but it's going to take a whole lot more than a couple of conversations and couples therapy. Him getting stable could take years alone, and you seem to have some things to work on too, then you have to come together t…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/24 04:34 PM
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You broke up in December, got back together in May and now you're married without anyone addressing any individual or collective issues?
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/24 02:12 PM
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How are you managing your husbands health? Is he not an adult, can he not do basic self management? You also said screen free is your husbands requirement, is this not your child too? It sounds like you want screen time but is that for the benefit of balance or just a selfish desire you have (which is totally okay to have and admit to, no judgement). Being a SAHM doesn't mean that hubby relinquishes all responsibility outside of his 9-5. Honestly no sane woman would agree to 24/7 child rearing p…
/r/RedPillWives01/08/24 12:26 PM
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Yeah red men say this sort of crap all the time like they have some sort of information about women's sexual history that the women somehow don't have themselves. In reality there are women who's main strategy is "just this once because you're special" who will break the rules for every guy and then there are women who will legitimately have rules and they don't care if it's the second coming of jesus, it won't be happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:52 AM
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she's breaking rules for you Bud sorry to tell you but if she is breaking the rules for you she's broken the rules for every guy who's come before you (pun intended).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:30 AM
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people that offer advice in good-faith Unless you know the ins and outs of someone else's life or you're a medical professional who has looked at the child any advice is unwelcome no matter how well meaning the giver is. you will never notice all of the people that leave you to make your own decisions There are a few people who stay tf out and they know how appreciated they are. I don't think there are many mothers who aren't able to point out the people who who worked out how to support without…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:02 AM
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Is it not calling someone a bad mother to force her to defend whether or not she is breastfeeding? Is it not calling someone a bad mother to say if she goes back to work she is "being neglectful" like she not an adult who is able to balance the positives and negatives of not personally being in the presence of her child? Is it not calling a woman a bad mum to assume she is not capable of checking if she can or can't eat a piece of ham while pregnant? As much I know people are coming from a place…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 11:23 PM
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It's the assholes who shout the loudest, but most people who are genuinely nice and mean well will push incredibly hard for something they believe to be "for the best" without knowing what they are talking about at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:47 PM
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Yes it’s hell for 3-5 years but after that, it’s smooth sailing. I'll let all the 5 year olds to stop their wining and get a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:03 PM
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I got the the same sort of treatment throughout my late 20s too, but if you then announce that you're pregnant you can't take a shit without someone deciding you're literally Hitler.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 10:00 PM
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Standard PPD user.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:19 AM
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Sure there's reasons people are fat now but I disagree that it's hard or takes a lot of effort to just eat healthy and do some exercise. I'm sure it's different for someone who is extremely obease but most people can do basic exercise and eat a home cooked meal rather than go to maccas every day. I really don't see any of the reasons you mentioned as something that is particularly difficult to overcome or control for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 02:17 AM
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Dude why are you fucking stalking every comment I make. Both of us said looks matter, both of us are female. But somehow women don't believe looks matter. you’re eager to downtalk red Bud I'm more red than you'll ever be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:57 PM
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Shit life =/= ugly She could have been beaten as a kid, she could have been raped, her whole family could have died in front of her in a horrific incident, she could just have a mental illness. Plenty of hot bitches with issues
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:45 PM
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Why else does a hot girl who can get flown out and get everything for free have crippling alcoholism? Idk who tf you're talking about but you do realise there are millions of reasons people develop addictions and the top one isn't "I don't like my face".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:00 PM
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And I wear make up because society likes me to in certain situations and I like glitter. It's so easy for men to understand there's other reasons why they might not have their dick out in public but they can't comprehend that there might be other reasons women put on eyeliner.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:58 PM
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am I allowed outside without clothes? To some extent yes, I mean sure you can't have your dick out but men can walk around shirtless and most don't. By your logic that makes them all insecure about their chest/abs stop being insecure about your face? How am I insecure about my face? Adding glitter and rhinestones to my face doesn't mean I cry every night that I didn't evolve to produce that shit from my pores.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:43 PM
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Do I look good without make up yes, do I look have eyes that look like butterfly wings without make up unfortunately no, that one takes effort. Do you wear clothes because you're insecure about your dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 03:49 PM
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it's different people saying these things? Sometimes, not always. demeaning and misandrist. Yes, making sweeping generalisations about men is pretty shitty. Wonder if saying "women hate sex" and "women don't contribute to relationships" is misogynistic.. nahh can't be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:57 AM
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The amount of men genuinely interested in love/relationships is significantly greater than the amount of women who are. It's funny how it's "all men only want sex" but also "most men just want a relationship" depending on the narrative being spun. Not necessarily top-tier men. Nope! 80/20 rule. As a woman only the top 1% of men exist to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:47 AM
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Sex =/= relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:42 AM
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Mate I got no problems fighting a feminist. Definitely no unicorn though.Most people are capable of having good marriages if they just be honest with themselves about what they offer and learn to vet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:41 AM
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Just get rid of the whole thing all together. You can't even the playing field by creating an oppression check list without causing additional damage. The problem isn't that black disabled lesbians have a hard time, it's the fact that your education system is beyond fucked due to corporate greed and the only way to achieve anything is to be rich or be 100× better than the rich kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 11:16 AM
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The same way I explain all fashion. Women like pretty things, the only thing more fun than looking at a nice picture is being the nice picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:49 AM
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every single woman "I've met girls! My mum does so count!"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:29 AM
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Didn't realise we lived in a world where men vastly outnumbered women and every woman could just take her pick of top tier men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:15 AM
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"misogynistic" men in a long-term relationship are generally the old-school, conservative type, who still love and care for women All the wife beaters? Yeah, nah they don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 10:06 AM
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So don't date trash women? I 1000% would throw every friend i have under the nearest bus for my husband without a seconds hesitation. With friends it makes me happy to see them happy and I try my best to support them but my husband is my life, if he fails I fail, when he wins I win and vice versa. We don't tell eachother secrets, because we don't have secrets in or relationship. That's just what marriage is, amongst all my married friends there's just an understanding that they are intertwined l…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 09:35 AM
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Why is this question addressed to women and not blues? When did we decide all men = red and all women = blue/feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 08:58 AM
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I'm Australian, I wouldn't pay more than 5.50 AUD / 4.90 CAD for a coffee. All our prices include tax and if someone asked me to tip I'd throw the coffee in their face. Sushi is a bit harder since it varies but last time we got sushi it cost something like 40 AUD / 36.20 CAD for the two of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:57 PM
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Not American, but I figured out you were Canadian so I checked the conversion. I guess if that's normal prices in Canada then you gotta do what you gotta do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:35 PM
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I don’t consider casual sex or fwbs to be romantic relationships I don't think anyone conciders them romantic relationships but they do require attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:26 PM
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Eh those are a bit different, there are men who I absolutely spend free time around but I would probably burn my eyes out if I had to see them naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 09:57 PM
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So because I've been beaten by a man I can advocate for the removal of your humanity and your rights by society, incite violence against you, and make threats against you. Despite the fact that you personally didn't do shit and for all I know you're the nicest person on the planet?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 09:50 PM
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Ah yes, a "study" mentioned in a reposted story by business insider (study never linked to, so we can totally trust how reliable it is) says around 150 women answered a survey in a particular way. Look sure there's probably women out there so mentally ill they would do some shit like this. The point is if you're regularly encountering women who would do something so weird and pointless as this you are selecting poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 09:42 PM
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Obviously, that's why I said that there are 300kg people, not that the average person was 300kg. 300kg people get dates. I'm sure there are people who are that comically obease and go on dates but the overwhelming majority of people will not date someone that size.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 09:17 PM
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Nah I just like to fly around on broomsticks while I cackle at the moon and eat children.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 09:10 PM
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Heh? I haven't seen the comment you're referring to. Idk if I specified both but yeah its true for both genders. It's probably never been easier to be comparatively attractive but everyone is out here bitching about chad like being under 6ft is the issue when we got people trying to date at 300kg.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:49 PM
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You choose this. Idk you but let's be real you dont get a say in how others treat you but you do get all the say on how you react to it. Plenty of people have been through some fucked up shit, it doesn't excuse perpetuating that same shit over and over. And the thing is at the end of the day the people who live with the kind of bitter hated you show are people who bring even more shit onto themselves. I've seen where that kind of life ends up and you don't want that for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:38 PM
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I mean sure people are more likely to say shit when anonymous, but it does happen out in the real world too. I'm not complaining, I guarantee i give as good as I get. People should be able to criticise others (to a reasonable extent, I don't believe in going after kids or inciting violence obviously). I mean obviously I am wonderful and all the people who disagree with me are the one's in the wrong, but they are entitled to being wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:29 PM
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I suppose at least you get credit for not being a hypocrite. You are choosing a horrible life though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 03:11 PM
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That wasn't my question
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:41 PM
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I mean basic human decency. But anyway, do you want women to show you anything other than hate? Do you want sex with women? Do you want empathy? Would you be upset if women laughed at you if you got bashed?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:39 PM
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Men here have said way worse to me than "who hurt you" and as far as I am aware they are out there still living their lives. It's okay to disagree with people or even criticise them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:35 PM
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How tf is that a funny story and not an example of you being a piece of shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:29 PM
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Calm down bud. You never specified seeing = fwb I've also never really concidered the amount of effort people in these types of relationships put into sleeping with others outside of the arrangement, but I guess that's my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:25 PM
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A man who hates all women because he was cheated on by one woman should be criticised in the same way that a woman who hates all men because one man beat her. Experiencing pain does not give you the right to then become a horrible person. Also it's interesting how that doesn't get labeled as women being red-pilled Red pilled women exist, I don't label myself as that anymore because the ideas have become so corrupted by bitter men but if you want to get technical my beliefs align. Red pill women …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:42 PM
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don’t get harassed because nobody likes them lol. If nobody likes them they are pretty damn low value. Again men and women have equal chance of finding someone to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:07 PM
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Your analogy doesn't hold up. There are (roughly) equal numbers of men and women in the world. There are also roughly the same amount of good to trash in each gender. Women get inundated with low value men trying to get something out of her because these men spam hundreds of women with their dick or the same vile message. Women and men have the same odds of finding someone. Men just do it without the harassment. Sure harassment might sound good when you get nothing but I guarantee if men had con…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:55 PM
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It’s a $15 investment For 2 coffees?! And then $60 for some sushi? And I thought that shit was expensive here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:31 PM
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Mate if they had to deal with 1/10th of the bullshit you've pulled in this thread alone they deserve 1mil cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:20 PM
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No it's not difficult to not be fat but just because something is easy doesn't mean people will do it. If you look at the averages then yes fat is the new normal for Americans. The average BMI is now just under obease for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:03 PM
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Wait what? You're seeing a girl and she still has tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:49 AM
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Yeah no, I've been to 2 or 3 nice restaurants while dating (none of them my choice) and they all felt weird and uncomfortable. After that point I specified told men no when they suggested something too "nice". Best date I've had was actually my first official date with my husband and all he did was take me to get coffee and then for a walk around the city where we got rained on and my hair ended up ruined.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:44 AM
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"No I can't possibly be wrong! You must be wrong for disagreeing with me. I am not capable of making an argument so I'll just say you don't understand but I can't articulate what you don't understand so just reread until you agree with me!"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:30 AM
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Technically, you could call an ad initiating I'd say a job ad is more like a dating profile. Yes the women is saying there's a "position vacant" but a hot 23 year old woman isn't directing that at a 50+ balding man with a beer gut any more than a company advertising for an accountant is directing that at a high school drop out who can barely add.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:18 AM
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I mean isn't the recruitment process kinda like this already? You always had to initiate contact with the company to get their attention, which is pretty normal but imagine you always have to, they never hit you up and ask you for an interview no matter what. If you're an average or below average candidate you generally have to initiate (ie a job application), it's only when you're the very top tier candidate that recruiters will reach out. In the dating world women will approach men they are in…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 06:49 AM
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You can have a loving relationship that is conditional. I mean if I say that if my husband decided one day to beat me I'd leave do you really want to argue that means I don't love him?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:54 AM
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successful men won't help other men be successful WOMEN ARE TRASH, EVERYTHING IS BECAUSE WOMEN!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:27 AM
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Men should support eachother over everything else. No, you should support people who share your values and who will support you. You personally might be okay with having to defend the actions of rapist incels but the majority of men don't actually agree with those people. It's exactly the same reasons women should not support women just because of their vagina. There is a sense of hope of that, "Hey! Maybe women just don't know! If they learn/understand, then they would just want to naturally ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:10 AM
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person a actually doesn’t know that action x will cause pain to person y. It's not a stretch to assume lying, manipulation, and using someone for sex is going to hurt them, particularly if that person has made it clear in advance that they value sex. The person who does this just doesn’t care Yes, that's the point. They do not care if they harm someone else. If a woman does something to hurt a man the men on here go wild saying it's proof that all women are degenerate whores who have no compassi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:04 PM
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person a knows act x will cause pain to person y person a does x to y regardless "Oh but you don't know person a didn't care if they hurt person y"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:34 PM
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I mean there is a difference between "I don't want a relationship with you but I still see you as human and therefore don't want to cause you unnecessary pain" and "well i don't want you long term so I can lie and manipulate as much as I like become I won't feel the consequences". What you're describing is the latter, to pretend otherwise is disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 10:16 PM
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once most women are upfront about just taking advantage of you for food Idk what fat fucks you're dating but majority of women aren't using men to gain food.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:50 PM
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No I understand your point, you're just wildly out with your time frame. If you learn to vet and actually find a man willing to commit it's going to be much less than 2 years before you get evidence of their commitment. Sure he's not going to propose, ask you to move in, or plan a family with you on the second date. But within a month you should have discussed your goals / plans / aspirations, have told eachother about your past and family, met some friends etc. I mean suggesting women set a tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:41 PM
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Could it be that they've fallen into a pattern of using sex not only as a bargaining chip There are women who do this but these are not the women OP is talking about. OP specifically states in the post and in several comments women who are upfront that they do not want anything aside from an LTR / marriage. There are men who do lie and say they want that too, being lied to tends to happen more to women who are upfront because deceitful men can decide on the strategy early on. The only counter to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 09:19 PM
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Not everyone wants a strangers dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:54 PM
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If the relationships doesn’t progress AT HIS insistence, within a 12-24 month period If you're wasting 2 years on a man who's not into you you're going to have a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 08:51 PM
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You say you've travelled a lot and you don't know much about western countries other than America? I'm not from the UK either, but yes there are famous people and although they tended to have some success it's not like in the US where women throw themselves at famous men. Majority of our celebrities or sports stars get bad mouthed pretty often, and it's even worse for people who are successful for other reasons such as being great business men. People do tend to stick to their own class in datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:33 AM
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Nah as a non American OP is right that you guys are a lot more obsessed with celebrity and status than most places. That doesn't mean there isn't hierarchy elsewhere just that we don't put it on a pedestal in the same way. I mean my country is well known for tall poppy syndrome, so basically if you want to be good at something you best learn how to hide it or you'll have the masses come after you. This is something you learn from the time you're a child, meanwhile every American I've ever met is…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 12:52 AM
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It's 2024, women are not blocked from entry anymore and compensation in my experience is a combination of the value you bring and how well you can communicate that value. Women now actually have an easier time than men going into a lot of high paying jobs (insensitives, easier time in university ect) but are still choosing not to. And you know what that's okay, we can just leave people tf alone to make their own decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 09:31 PM
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So you let homeless people live in your house?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 09:37 PM
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Yeah bud I'm definitely not going to take wild ravings of some delusional old lady over my own knowledge and the knowledge of people who have raised kids properly and people who have actual training in childhood education. Like ty but your lunatic ideas aren't what people are actually doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:51 AM
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He's almost 30 and has no idea what he is doing with his life. Yeah he told you plans, but none that are concrete or even practical. He wants to join the military, but also go to law school, but also is starting a business with some friends. He also took a long time to graduate especially for someone looking to go on to study more. Also not sure about American grading systems but isn't a GPA of below 2.0 pretty bad, and if he has a degree his high school grades mean nothing. Honestly it sounds l…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/24 02:43 AM
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Idk wtf you did to your kids but most people don't have repressed traumatic experiences. Again ima go with the strat every well off person I know has used and not some delusional old lady on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 02:00 AM
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Two Yet you don't know kids are going to ignore who you think they should be friends with and make their own friends? My kid isn't is school no, however I know a whole lot of people who are middle to upper middle class with school aged kids and literally only one even still knows someone from her mums group. Everyone sends their kid to the best private or selective school they can get into because again 5 days a week trumps even your best guess of weekend play dates (most kids actually see schoo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:30 AM
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You never had kids did you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 10:33 PM
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Yeah people don't often make life long relationships with the women in their mothers group, mostly because they are not the people you'd pick to be raise a kid with, just women who happen to be in the same area who got pregnant around the same time. Most parents do use school to socialise their children since they spend so much time at school that a friend they only see on school holidays is not going to have much, if any, impact on their personality. Also your post history suggests you live in …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:49 PM
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The answer to this is very context dependent. If you're a woman and see a massive guy in a dark alley and you gtfo, well it's a risky situation and any offence caused is negated by the fact that ignoring the risk can very well end horribly. In regards to kids you have to be extra careful since they have a lot less ability to defend themselves than the average woman and are more at risk of being manipulated into keeping quiet. So if some random neighbour who I don't know offered to baby sit my da…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:33 AM
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They do not like it, they just believe that having sex with Chad will lead to a relationship with him. Basically they convince themselves they are not being used, if they looked at it objectively and quit lying to themselves the vast majority would hate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:26 PM
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All normal distributions can be called roughly the same Lol what? No normal distributions don't all cluster around the same figures. Hight vs IQ are both normally distributed but are totally different figures. You're clearly showing how men are so much smarter than women by not understanding a math principle that 13 year old kids are taught. unless you call pathetic and needy vile I do, but there are also other things like being overweight, having little ambition, and not being very capable. lab…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:42 PM
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she’ll likely never find the kind of man you’re describing. Every man I have dated long term except the one I'm with currently has remembered important events and given me gifts/flowers/taken me out somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:05 PM
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"Nice guys" only fake being nice so the woman owes them sex, women don't particularly like to be manipulated into sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:54 PM
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This is bullshit more shitty personalities among women than men The average man is equally as vile as the average woman more good drivers among men then women, Young men are the highest risk for car accidents men are more knowledgeable No learn about normal distribution, average intelligence is roughly the same between genders, men just have a flatter curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:49 PM
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No you can't, women are not a monolith and one woman refusing to sleep with a man does nothing. Also most people have siblings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:25 PM
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The most interesting and fun women in the world will still get pumped and dumped if they don't learn how to vet men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:08 PM
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It disproves the entire narrative that France is forcing man to raise children that are not theirs. France, as with most other countries, has a system for dealing with paternity fraud. Weak men like you just want to ignore facts because it suits you to cry victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 08:59 PM
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You checked out of your friends life and now want her to postpone her wedding because you can't get your life together. So basically you want her to waste all the time and money she has invested into this (plus the time and money of all the other guests) for your comfort when you'll likely just be in the exact same position in a years time anyway. This isn't about you, grow up and get your shit together.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/24 11:19 AM
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Oh I see, I was wondering how you had points left. I feel like you wouldn't be able to make most women within the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:36 AM
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You had points left over? I got 0 but had to stretch a little and call myself a boss babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 10:26 AM
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25+ is old by PPD standards. Tbh I can't really speak for anyone older than myself (30) but when I was a teenager I thought teenage boys were hot af and anyone over 20 was old. In my early 20s I specifically refused to date anyone more than 3 years older than me because I saw men older than that as too old and kinda creepy but also refused to date anyone younger than me until I was 25 and met my husband (2 years younger, but I made an exception for him). Now men in their early 20s look like chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:58 AM
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Somebody has to Yeah the mother and the man who got her pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:26 AM
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people should be nice to innocent children that do nothing wrong you defend child murderers!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:22 AM
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It's a strawman invented to hate all women because a few do horrible things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:19 AM
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That figure is based on studies as old as the 1950s, do you really believe that our ability to determine paternity in the 50s was anywhere significant enough to use as valid data? rape actually happens rarer than to 3.7% of the population "Rape doesn't exist, trust me bro"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:13 AM
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Fact check actual procedure involves an act of the Supreme Court In France, matters pertaining to children such as parental responsibility, child support and guardianship are codified in the French Civil Code (FCC). Family court judges have exclusive jurisdiction to rule on child support. law still doesn't admit any paternity test as evidence in court The paternity test may be carried out only by technicians specially approved for that purpose. and her written consent. Consent is required to pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:03 AM
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on 4chan Yes, very representative of young women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 08:25 AM
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Most recent data I found (from a 30 second search, you guys don't mean that much to me soz): 11.2% of married couples in the US include a man who is 6-9 years older than the wife. Assuming married couples are representative of all heterosexual LTRs then yeah ima say 11.2% is not a significant proportion of the population. surprise surprise the man is a fckboi A 30 year old man dating a 20 year old is more likely to be an asshole? Damn who would have thought. Tbh there is a (relatively small) pop…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 08:18 AM
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No that number is 30%. The 30% figure (and the 4% figure you were talking about earlier) come from a 2005 scientific review that found rates of paternity fraud among those sampled were between 0.8% and 30%, the review included studies as old as the 1950s when paternity testing was highly inaccurate. The study can be found here: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1733152/ It was highly criticised to begin with but the warping of the findings are just wild. What's your remedy for a guy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 12:29 AM
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My suggestion It was, apologies there is another guy making the same argument and I confused which was which. Paternity fraud effects between 4-10% of all births. No about 4% of those who are tested men who's mrs is not cheating on them are a lot less likely to get a paternity test than men fucking whores. You can't convince me that there's a moral argument that some random guy should be roped in to pay for some lying woman's children Strawman. My argument is simple. Make a baby, raise a baby. N…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:41 PM
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Do you have any information on this? Is it just for mothers or can fathers do the same? I don't know the ins and outs but both bio parents automatically get parental rights (and responsibilities), only when the decision is made by a court can this be removed (ie adoption or parental incapacity, you can't just have a kid and dump it on the state because you don't want it). Women can say any man is the father and put his name on the birth certificate. It's 2024 paternity testing is widely availabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:06 PM
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Do you donate to men's charities? Do you voulenteer for men's charities? Do you promote men's charities on social media and ask for donations from the public? Have you ever tried to get government funding for men's charities?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:45 AM
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defunding the services for women down to the levels of the ones for men. Or we could just put funding into men's organisations. Punishing one group in need isn't going to help another.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:30 AM
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Taking responsibility for a life vs the ability to ruin a life. Yeah both of those are relatively comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:29 AM
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that isn't the case. Doesn't make it less true that people should be taking responsibility for the consequences of their actions. why would she need to? Come on bud, you really can't see the parallel between an argument of did he really agree to be a parent and did she really consent to sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:17 AM
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That is the same argument people use against abortion Yes, abortion should be rare. man would have to sign a contract (with stiff punishments) when he agrees to be a parent. Should women also have to sign a contract in order to agree to sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 06:08 AM
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most states have safe harbor laws I'm not American and I don't agree with American laws. Where I live it is illegal to abandon your child, if you want to give up your parental rights you have to go through a legal process to do this. she's also making a decision for a man Men take the risk of becoming a parent when they have sex, just like women do. Unless he was raped he made a decision knowing the risk. the man doesn't even need to have been the father because she can put a different name on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:37 AM
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I agree with the slob being an issue, probably the biggest issue with Paul. I guess it kinda depends to the extent but in general I'd pick a man who can't pick up after himself before I'd raise another woman's child.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:18 AM
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Adam has a kid with another woman, that is a dealbreaker for a lot of people. Meanwhile personally Paul and I wouldn't work but there are no automatic dealbreakers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 04:03 AM
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Adam is an automatic no, you have to deal with another woman's kid and he is divorced. Being a trump supporter is a problem too (I dislike all American politics but supporting someone with an iq of 17 to run your country and ima question your decision making capacity). I wouldn't be compatible with Paul but he is the only option that doesn't have a huge automatic nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:45 AM
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Ideally yes, but biology is not equal so this isn't really going to work in practice. A women for example has full right to abort a child or carry it to term. If we gave men rights to abortion it would lead to a lot of messy situations, an abusive man could impregnate his wife just to force her to abort it for example, or a rapist would have to be consulted before aborting a child conceived during rape. Even if we just give an opt out to men it leads to messy situations. Should a parent be able …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:56 AM
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But they could definitely sign up to volunteer with Big Brothers Big Sisters or something. Tbh encouraging men (particularly older men who have their shit together) to be mentors to young men and boys would be amazing. I've done a lot of voulenteer work and the men who get involved in things like this do so much for the world. The sad thing is there is not a lot of funding and information on services for men so they can't reach as many people as a lot of services designed for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:22 AM
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Forcing men to be step dads is in the same league as forcing women to have sex with incels. Let people date who they want, not everyone wants to raise someone else's brat.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 01:59 AM
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a certain group of women say sex work is real work, but the men that engage are disgusting pigs apparently. And despite sex work being real work, they would not like it if their daughter, sister, mother, or best female friend engaged in these activities. Different women, every woman I've met irl who defends sex work as real work has been a sex worker (whether that be full on prostitution or just cam girls or strippers) or has been very close with women who choose to do it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:36 AM
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Using the services of a sex worker is totally different from sex toys and robots. Porn, sex toys, AI sure do whatever so long as it's not hurting anyone. Going to a sex worker has so many levels of ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 12:22 AM
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he says him being selfish is beneficial for us both because he is doing what he needs to take him which in turn takes care of us. A man who is selfish is not a good leader. A good leader will always concider what's best for the family as a whole, not just one member of it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/24 11:16 PM
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Tbh I don't go there particularly often anymore because there's a lot of shit that just makes me angry. Whenever I do go there is probably 1 or 2 comments that are somewhat insightful or ask the right questions. There's not really insight from real women with 10+ year marriages anymore, or posts teaching young women how to vet, or how to maintain a relationship, or attract a good man. Endorsed contributors there only get that because they suck up to the mod team, and tbh the mod team is only the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:53 PM
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I have lost my fair share of loved ones and experianced a lot of personal tragedies. I also have also been there for friends and family in difficult times and in my early 20s voulenteered as a crisis counsellor. So yeah I have been in some dark places and seen a lot of people going through some shit. The reaction you describe, crying in the fetal position rocking back and forth and wanting to rip teeth out or whatever, I've seen similar reactions probably twice. Both were from people suffering s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 09:36 PM
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We propagandaed our way into this shit 30 years ago, if enough people wanted to fix things I don't see how we can't propaganda our way out in the next 30 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:05 AM
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I actually started the carnivore diet recently and I’m obsessed. It can put schizophrenia into remission (it cures/prevents most health problems) You're the one with the iq of 70 if you believe this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:06 AM
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There's no way of knowing at all. I mean if you're an ugly obease woman and suddenly have a super attractive man saying he wants to have sex with you but also is reluctant to touch you that might be a sign. Or just have some common sense and realise that sex with someone you don't know can lead you to being fucked by someone you don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:52 AM
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Because since third wave feminism women have been told that we are wrong for wanting a husband and kids. Women who have kids in their 20s are harassed for "ruining" their lives and their kids lives. Women who want to get married are told they will regret it and resent their husbands at best and at worst that they will be abused for the rest of their life. The women in their 30s and 40s now were children and teens when their bitter cunt mothers decided to ruin the opertunities they had for future…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 01:21 AM
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My occult powers mostly stem from hatefulness
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:24 AM
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Women who wait until 40+ to start trying have long missed the boat. The point is the majority of women have the option of having a kid, obviously they need to think about it well before 40. I suspect it is because they're preoccupied with education and careers You're wrong here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:20 AM
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RPW like the rest of RP used to be useful but became warped when the people who had some common sense left and idiots and people with an agenda replaced them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:36 PM
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Why do they have to wait until 40+ to try?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:21 PM
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Sure. And Germany during world war two just happened to have a lot of bad men. Same for Japan in Nanking. Same for all the Islamic world. You do understand that these things happened due to people having their humanity stripped away. If you don't see your victims as human you won't have any issues doing horrific things to them. This is just as true for women as it is for men and there are many examples of women doing horrible things throughout history. The fact that humans have been indoctrinate…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 11:09 PM
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Man I'm a certified psycho bitch and I don't even have breakdowns like that, the average woman sure as shit isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 10:18 PM
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Pretty sure OP is just trying to set up a gotcha moment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:35 AM
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Did you even read your own source? 70% of deaths occurred in Sub Saharan Africa, women who have access to healthcare have a fairly low risk of death during childbirth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:32 AM
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Yes the rule on this sub is if you want to address a specific person you cannot reply to them but you have to make a post and address it to their gender at large.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 08:09 AM
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I assume you mean pay differences not paedophilia. I earn a lot more than some of the men I work with, because I do more than twice the work they do and I don't fuck up. People who are competent win from a meritocracy, I'm not going to back a system that pulls me down or artificially inflates others when they don't contribute as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:55 AM
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The intent of the sub is to discuss sex and dating issues in the world at large. Why would you assume that in a place that was literally created to discuss the general population that people would choose to discuss a small very non representative subset of the population. But yes, men and women both excuse women who do horrible things. Are you really going to say that a man who punches his wife in the face is worse than a mum who hooks her 11 year old son up to a car battery just because the man…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:54 PM
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It's not about women in this sub. This sub is really not characteristic of people in general. If you think that female abusers, paedophiles and rapists aren't treated better than males who do the same thing you really need to get outside more. Women are also pressured into supporting womens movements even when they don't benefit us. I mean I got interrogated by a man I work with just 2 days ago as to why I don't support movements for women to be paid equal to men and my workplace is pretty conse…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:27 PM
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I think OP is trying to make reference to the expectation on women to support women's movements and the tendency for women to be defended by certain groups when they are caught out doing shady shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 10:21 PM
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Man people here are so delusional. The vast majority of couples have a 2-3 year age gap. When women have told you they like older men, they mean 2-3 years older not 10+ years. Yes there are exceptions, you are not one of them. Only around 8% of couples have an age gap of 10+ years and that includes relationships where the woman is older. Also I don't care about your story of how you fucked a hot 22 year old at 45, I know you relive that fantasy every night but repeating that story doesn't make i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:38 PM
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Most men don't have any delusions about that. I agree with everything you said except the majority of the men on PPD are so delusional they believe they are 6ft+, jacked, and pull hot 20 year olds every night.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 09:26 PM
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You must be poor or just don't have a lot of options. I was in my 20s the oldest man I dated was 3 years older and every man i dated had enough money to take me on dates and buy me things, even when still in uni. Basically every woman I know from my own class is/was the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 08:24 PM
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So keep them in the Thunder Dome so they can just suffer? There are some incels who have value to society, it's just not sexual or relationship value. So just like placate them with sex robots rather than letting the bitterness take over. They'd see sex robots as a source of empathy and connection that women have made great use of their right to not give to average men. The flesh light comment was more for effect. But yes, if women can't provide value in a relationship they don't deserve a relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:46 PM
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Nah, I'd encourage incels to have a sex robot. Keeps them from getting so bitter that they go on a rape/murder spree. I was going to say the average man shouldn't use sex robots because that reduces the dating pool but also if women can't be better than a flesh light then they don't deserve a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 10:22 PM
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90% of casual sex is sparked by alcohol or drugs anyway I would have thought that would be more true in the days before feminists pushed women into being whores. Since now a lot of women have been coached to believe that casual sex is liberating or whatever. men should just abandon the idea of casual sex. Interesting take, why do you think that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:43 PM
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No shit. Point is OP doesn't seem to know the difference between dating and sex. Women date different men than the have casual sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:32 PM
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Women don't want 50 options in dating because their options in dating are slightly above to well below their equal value in RMV. If you advertise yourself like that you will get few men at the level you want to date and many men well below the level you want to date. Showing your ass on social media is only an effective strategy for women not interested in dating and only interested in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:19 PM
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Date = relationship Most women don't have relationships with chad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 09:12 PM
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I'm 30 and this has been my experience since I was 13. Never trust a woman that tells you you're pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:52 PM
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Okay, I'll give you a chance. What ways are American men traditional that Eastern European men are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:13 AM
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Eastern European men aren't traditional But American men are? Lol wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:10 AM
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A male friend is at a female friend’s house. He asks for a glass of water. She refuses. How do you view her? No one is going to say this is a human rights violation. Yeah refusing to give a friend a glass of water is a bit weird but not because we need water. It's weird because it literally doesn't affect you to give someone a glass of water. It costs nothing, they are in you house already, even if you wanna be lazy you can just be like "yeah cups are in the cupboard on the right". Anyone who go…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:02 AM
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What tf point are you trying to make. You are the only one who mentioned long distance and you seem to have pulled it out your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 12:48 AM
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Who is saying long distance, she isn't American and is looking to move to America for a traditional man. If she has the ability to move to America one would assume she has the ability to move elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 10:30 PM
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Tbh progressive Eastern European men or Asian men are more traditional than the most traditional American men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 10:10 PM
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If you want this there are much better options than the US
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 09:57 PM
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Bud go to the TRP sub, click the sidebar, see that it literally says the words "sexual strategy", be embarrassed for yourself, go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 10:54 AM
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I legit thought she was a 40 year old man for a bit 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 10:41 AM
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What's with all the posts lately about people begging TRP for approval? TRP doesn't give a fuck about you, TRP doesn't give a fuck about any of us. It's just a dating strategy. If it works for you great, if it doesn't don't use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 08:19 AM
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I quoted you but you are claiming that a direct quote is incorrect. Bud you wouldn't know a smart choice if it was dropped on your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:11 AM
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No shit love, you don't know most women on the planet but you also make wild claims like "no woman would chose to be near a man instead of a bear" You wanna give you stupid ass opinions that's fine but don't subscribe your idiocy to everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:10 AM
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Depends what you want, there are RP men who just want to get laid and so don't care. If he wants a relationship then he is not going to accept a woman that is fucking around. There are no RP women who would accept polygamy though, it mean degrading yourself too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 03:07 AM
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You literally said every woman, I am a woman who does not agree with you. Therefore not every woman thinks what you think. How tf can you be that dense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:46 AM
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It bothers me because some retard is trying to speak on my behalf
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 02:44 AM
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Check your facts love, about 1% of people are accountable for over 60% of violent crime. So choosing a random man your chances of getting one who is interested in torturing or killing you is really low. 100% of bears will torture and kill you given the right circumstances without giving a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 01:34 AM
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Every woman I'm a woman and I don't agree No that's not what I said Fuck cunts are dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 01:28 AM
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Hahahaha bud I'm old and married to a good man who is also wealthy, got no problems here. You started this by getting offended that I pointed out there are poor people in the world, now you're offended about passport bros being called out as low class men. Yes I am the screeching child.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 01:18 AM
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They don't need to date a foreigner. They don't want to date an American because Americans make shit husbands. you only want to poison the well for other people's relationships We're talking about men who are actively looking for women who are so desperate to get out of a situation that they will accept being mistreated, at least for a time. Thing is most of these women know that the men approaching them are trash, the women use these men just as much and when they have improved their situation …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:58 AM
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Cunt you're reaching so fucking hard for something to be mad about that you're not even on this planet anymore. Being middle class in a wealthy country is wealthy, relatively. Also I'm not American, I am the "they" you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 12:24 AM
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Lol wat? There are people in the world who are impoverished, there are also are wealthy. I literally said passport bros wont go for women from traditional cultures who wealthy, how is saying one group won't date someone denying their existence?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:59 PM
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The men who think they want a traditional relationship don't want a real life traditional woman they want some fetishised delusion of the past. Majority of these men would never be able to handle the pressure that these cultures put on men. This is why they pick impoverished women, a woman with no options will accept a lot (at least until she can establish herself with more opertunities) while traditional countries that are somewhat developed the women have infinity higher standards that passpor…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 09:19 PM
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Most people throughout history have not been obease, most people throughout history have also not had access to meds like this or gyms. You got to land whale because you lack self control and common sense. If you don't fix the issues that made you fat in the first place you'll just gain the weight right back.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:53 PM
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"How dare a man speak to me!"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:30 PM
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I mean it with my entire being that I would absolutely without a doubt choose the man. So stfu weird you don't speak for women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:19 PM
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I would absolutely rather see a man than a bear. The man is much less likely to peel my skin off while I'm still alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:09 PM
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Damn I'm sorry society let boys like you down so much that you feel like you have to argue this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 12:05 PM
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People on disability are getting below min wage and mostly get ignored unless helping them is a job requirement. People on high income are getting several times what someone on disability is getting and a lot get social status. Tell me again how someone getting 5 times more is less valued.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 10:05 PM
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justify your privileges People can't talk about something that clearly happenes in society anymore because it might hurt someone's precious feelings. eliminate your disadvantages To some extent yes, we should (and do) use society as a buffer against natural forces. Are you going to get as offended if I say that male babies should get more attention from health care providers? you may be the first I've been on and off this sub for 13 years now, I absolutely guarantee that I and other women have c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 08:54 PM
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Women in modern western society are not oppressed. Yes there are negatives that come with being a woman (being physically weaker, higher rates and more consequences of DV, rape, harassment, risks related to pregnancy and child birth etc) and these are absolutely valid problems that should be addressed. But these are not society placing artificial problems on women, they are natural problems that arise from biology. Feminism uses victimhood to gain an advantage, do we really need an explanation a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 04:05 PM
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People are nicer to me that others Someone always stops to help me if I'm carrying something heavy or awkward I've gotten random discounts and free shit just because I have conversations with people (never asked for stuff like this). Every time I've had a regular cafe near places I've worked they would remember me, prioritise my order, and make sure to give me all the discounts they can even though other people I've worked with go more frequently and don't get the same treatment I've gotten extr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 03:08 PM
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Society is out here telling me I matter more than the average male though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 02:01 PM
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You gonna try and make a point there buddy or was that all?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:56 PM
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You're implying that you deserve better treatment No society is telling me I deserve better treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:55 PM
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Getting a woman to admit privilege is impossible. My existence matters more than the majority of men because I was born pretty and female. Being pretty and female lead to people being nicer to me, being given opportunities for better jobs, and put me in a position to be in relationships with better men and to choose one that could help to provide my kids an even more privileged life than I live. I am literally better than the average man because of genetic rng. I now also get to make other peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 12:28 PM
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Then men don't just want women to acknowledge they have privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:34 AM
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What does that have to do with my point? OP said men just want women to admit they have privilege. I am a woman, I say I have privilege all the time and I get hate for it from men like OP because they cannot handle women saying she is more valuable than them. And then you come here and call me an asshole for pointing out my privilege on a post that literally said "men only want women to admit they have privilege" Do you not see the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:23 AM
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Mate I'm literally married to a man who says worse shit than this daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:12 AM
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So a school teacher doesn't matter because she "just teaches kids to read" even though every midern engineer wouldn't be able to get anywhere without that skill. On the same note the nurses who patch up the men who get injured so they can go back to work mean nothing to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:11 AM
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Men aren't assholes for saying this though, it's just fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:03 AM
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All men want is for women to acknowledge their immense privilege So why am I the asshole when I point out I matter more than you because I was born pretty and female?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 10:45 AM
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Can you imagine telling women, Yes, I have no problem with telling women this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 10:29 PM
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pretty sure it’s crossed everyone mind Yeah but 99% of people don't get off their ass and do anything about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:49 PM
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The first message while not being flirty shows genuine emotion, it's definitely not cold and professional. The second message I wouldn't expect from anybody over the age of 14, and the fact that an actual adult sent that after 1 week of knowing someone shows some serious issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:06 PM
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Sure that's not representative, but OPs "evidence" is a reddit post where the woman didn't even answer the question and "trust me bro, women said this". Point being I doubt most people in general want to swap gender but that doesn't prove anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:41 PM
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14.8% of American women have been raped in their lifetime and 2.8% had an attempted rape. How is that "barely quantifiable"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:20 PM
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I mean I just asked my partner if he would become the average woman if it ment he would get hit on all the time and he straight up said no. So apparently men don't want to be women either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:40 AM
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Your youngest is a teenager there is no babysitting to be done. Cooking and cleaning don't take all day either and he doesn't need you home for him when he's at work anyway. SHAM doesn't mean you don't leave the house, basically every SHAM I know is active in the community and has hobbies even those with young kids. You need to re-engage in life to gain some independence because it's not healthy not to have a life outside of the house. It doesn't matter if that's from work, voulenteering, or a s…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/24 10:16 AM
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Another woman who didn't vet and is left with the consequences. I'm not saying that to shit on you, you say you were 16 when you met him and likely no one taught you. I bring this up because we as women NEED to teach girls to vet before marriage, when I was 17 and found this sub every post from young women would have multiple comments explaining this and the women here now just say "be nice and feminine and he will be good to you". That's not how the world works, not every man is deserving of yo…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/24 09:58 AM
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Studies that involve thousands of people done with controls in place to prevent bias trump your extremely clouded experiences with 1 or 2 women bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:30 AM
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women you think you know act like fucking animals when presented with a hot rich man. I've had man situations like this or even more unbelievable >I've had multiple gfs at a time. I just can get so many girls of a quality such general men call "high quality" yet I can get tons of them everyone tells me I'm smooth asf. You're not worth the average women cheating on her partner for, you're definitely not "I get tons of high quality women" stand man, the wild unbelievable sexual encounters only hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:54 PM
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TRP never used to be female centric, advice used to be things that better themselves and there were a lot of posts about male-male interactions as well as male-female. The "how to get laid" was one facet, one with a big draw but still. Also TRP was never about living in a world where women needed to be barefoot and pregnant. It was always saying "here is an eternal truth about society, don't fight it work with it".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:16 PM
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Mate most men in my social circle are fit, have jobs that come with status, have decent social skills, have an IQ +110, and have or will before their 40 have several mil in assets. What you describe here is not "every married women wants me" level man. Shit I'm probably slightly above average looking and not particularly feminine natured and if you are in fact what you describe and tried to hit on me I would laugh in your face then go home to my partner. The more you talk the more delusional I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:00 PM
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You're claiming you get all these high quality women but also that all women are trash who will cheat on their LTR out of nowhere. Again this doesn't make sense if you've ever met a woman irl. Basically you're argument is that you're adonis level man, who also happens to earn billions, owns half the world, and is super charming and charismatic. Idk what you look like but since randomredditor69 is not on the list of the world's richest men and talking to you kind gives me "49 and lives in mums ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:54 PM
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I mean if you say so, I'm not exactly going to ask for your tax return as proof am I. I'm just throwing it out there, your stories don't really make sense. I mean I don't see why a random women would come up to you and ask you to pimp her out when if she's even mildly attractive she can find it herself. And if you're so rich and attractive why can't you keep a woman loyal to you? I've met men who were poor farmers in what basically amounts to the 3rd world when they met their wives and they coul…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:02 PM
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I didn't know anything about sport or who those people you mentioned are so I can't comment on them. But in general celebrities don't have normal relationships because they are so far removed from normal people's lives. So you can't really use celebrity breakups as evidence for real world relationships. As for making excuses for women, I think any woman who cheats is reprehensible. But I also have seen a lot of successful marriages where women support their husbands and vice versa and am buildin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:42 PM
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Yeah part of me feel like it's a little sad, I feel like a lot of men probably needed the kind of support that TRP could offer back in the day, and as a woman I found the women's subs were a good place to get perspective without the feminist rhetoric especially since I was so young when I found RP. But at the same time I guess it makes sense that people move on and I kinda did too as I got older.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:23 PM
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I don't know that it's because they met someone, probably for some of the men yeah. But there were a fair few men who were already married back then, or men who weren't interested in marriage. I think people just eventually get bored or find better things to do with their time. I can't blame them, it's been a good few years since I regularly contributed to either women's RP subs or PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:13 PM
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Im not sure if I'm reading you wrong or not so mind me while I make some assumptions. First off I'm not using the term girl boss, since the only people I know who would actually use that term are in "affiliate marketing". When I'm talking corporate well paid women I'm talking more mid to mid-senior level in a professional field. Basically jobs that require a decent grind to get to but also not at exec level. Women in these roles do tend to be capable of standing up for themselves and generally h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:05 PM
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The problem with TRP is over the years the decent men who made good points moved on and all that was left was the dregs of society that came to RP because they were desperate losers, and now without real men to teach them to be men they just have an ecco chamber of incel shit. This is why you find that there are theories that are true or at least have utility, because back in the day the things that were said by men who were actually worth something. A similar thing has happened to the women's R…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:10 PM
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People who so aggressively say they are hot and rich are neither hot or rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:56 PM
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Do you mean a teacher married to a blue collar man? White collar means office workers or professionals, blue collar means manual labour jobs. And that sort of depends, in my country someone who's done a trade can easily earn as much or more than a teacher. Tradies who are talented also often end up with their own business here which not only can increase their earnings but also their social status. Not to mention we have a huge mining industry and that is filled with blue collar workers who are …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:47 PM
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Wild
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:19 PM
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Corporate manoeuvring isn't hard until you get to really high levels (like head of and up). You really don't have to be super cut throat, a backbone and a bit of self worth sure. But its not the 80s where women in corporate roles have to prove they are a man anymore. I also know more women in shitty min wage jobs who are abusive and have ridiculous expectations of men than women in corporate jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:17 PM
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I mean half is a pretty big disparity, if this is the case either the man is not working full time or there is a big class divide. If my partner wasn't working full time and I was I'd be pissed, mostly because I expect to take on a greater role in childrearing so if he can't even get a real job and I have to be the main breadwinner and carer then wtf do I actually need him for? In the class divide case that's probably a doomed relationship anyway since they will have very different backgrounds. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:04 PM
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I only graduated 3 years ago so it's not like there has been that big a shift. But my field definitely included women who were more realistic than the average feminist. In terms of non American, well I still live in a western culture so we have feminists here, but it does seem like American colleges are pretty corrupted by feminism while very few university spaces are like that here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:14 PM
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Getting nice clothes, decent hair cuts, good skincare, exercise, nutrition etc. Yeah for sure I'd do that for a son or a daughter. Medical procedures that have the potential to cause harm is a hard no. Even thinking it's okay to put any kid through this is incredibly harmful not only for the potential physical risks but also its extremely mentally damaging. Also both myself and my partner are fairly attractive so I doubt our kids are going to be ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:57 AM
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Neither but close enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 10:04 AM
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Oi cunt did ya wanna fuckin go or somthin?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:54 AM
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I mean maybe, but also the response you saw could be skewed because collage girls, or what you're studying. I feel like American collages tend to promote feminism especially in certain fields. When I did my undergrad (finance and accounting, and not in America) we didn't really have hot takes like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:33 AM
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I'm pretty sure feminist subs are one of those loud minority things. I'm yet to meet a woman irl who thinks like them and thank God because I wouldn't be able to be in the same room as people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:06 AM
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Anecdotally I know a lot of Asian men and their families all pressure them to date/marry an Asian or Indian women. Also my partner is from a very conservative European country and his family all wanted to set him up with women from their country, they were worried before they met me that I would not be good to him because I'm born and raised Australian.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 05:59 AM
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Your husband is a child who can't deal with the slightest annoyance. This is exactly the reason why women should vet properly before they get married. Now you have to try to convince a toddler in an adult man's body to get professional help. If he doesn't he's likely to continue to escalate and could potentially become violent if he hasn't already.
/r/RedPillWives10/06/24 03:06 AM
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Okay so women in their early 20s estimate their maturity to be 2-3 years older than men. Studies also suggest that girls brains develop sooner than boys, with boys not catching up until their early 20s. Girls ARE about 2 years ahead of boys and the effect is still present in early 20s. So women in their early 20s are correctly estimating their maturity. I dont know what you don't get about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:24 AM
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How is this a minor part, your premise is women want to date older men because they believe they are more mature. I told you girls from around 10 to their early 20s are more mature by a few years so it makes sense they would want to date boys a few years older. Women who date at the 10+ year age gap are the minority so it's not representative of women in general. About 8% of couples have a 10+ year age gap and that includes those where the women is older. So basically your post is taking less th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 09:02 PM
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So now you're saying that women 17-25 don't see themselves at the maturity level of a man 30+ but of a man 2-3 years older than her? In that case girls do develop physically, mentally and emotionally before boys and tend to sit about 2 years ahead of boys from puberty until early 20s. So it would make sense if most girls are +2 years they look for a boy +2 years older to date. Also this is ignoring the fact that women don't just decide on a man, both sides have to agree to date, and men are happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 03:38 AM
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women who are in their late teens or twenties will actually view themselves as on the same level as a 30+ year old men You think the majority of 18 year old girls are trying to date 30+ year old men? How much teen porn do you have to watch to have your perception distorted this much. The typical age gap in the west is 2-3 years not +10.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 12:56 AM
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Yo people are allowed to want different things in life than what you do. He is upfront telling women he is dating that it's short term, he doesn't go for women who express interest in LTRs, he's not lying to anyone or manipulating anyone. There are women who want that and will agree to it. So who tf is it hurting of two consenting adults hook up / have a short term thing? In regards to the women who are complaining their partner is abusive or cheating he is saying "don't choose me, choose someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 04:39 PM
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But he is saying "don't choose me, choose someone better than me" which is exactly what you said you want. Also I don't think your vasectomy comment is going to hurt him like you think it will, he clearly doesn't what that sort of life and is likely to have thought about how to reliably prevent unwanted pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:43 AM
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I mean kinda yes kinda no. 80 year old women do get raped so it's not like women are ever safe from that. But yes, women do get older and less attractive, but at some point life isn't so much about dating as it is about maintaining a relationship and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:45 AM
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men are far easier I mean if you take the average probably, only really because the average man doesn't have standards or self respect anymore. women still don't seem to get it right often If she isn't pleasing you she isn't into you. Women will go to the ends of the earth for a man they deem worthy. She's not doing this, next her and find someone else. Can't find someone else, make yourself better until you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:28 PM
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Whilst I agree it’s unlikely they’ll do it in the street, a gym/work/college? This is kinda my original point though, men who women want approaching them aren't doing it to random women in the street. They generally do so in more social spaces or to women they have encountered before and have some sort of basis for how to approach. doesn’t mean many are particular effective at it. I'm not sure what you mean by this. me too Mate me too was a hot mess, some of it legitimate predator behaviour from…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:08 PM
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Idk man I know a fair few decent men, shit I'm 5 years deep with one currently, and I'm yet to see any of them cold approach any woman on the train to work. Actually the highest status men I know don't really approach many women at all, they don't really need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:41 PM
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Men worth a damn won't approach on the street when you're just trying to get home from work or doing the grocery shopping because that's rude and could even be creepy. Men who are worth the time will know to approach in a more relaxed social setting and will have a different demeanour as to not come off as threatening or creepy. There's a fine line between good approaching and bad approaching and it really all comes down to social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:19 PM
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I get you and that would make sense but I have lived all my life in suburban Australia and have been hit on almost every time I leave the house since I was 13. I've also been clubbing all of once in my life so those are not areas I frequent. It isn't so much about the culture as it is that men who lack social skills from being chronically online tend to follow PUA advice and do weird things like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 12:10 PM
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You spent 5 years on this guy and you're still single. Love there is no future here.
/r/RedPillWives28/05/24 08:28 AM
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This. If you dont trust her don't let her control it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:30 PM
2

Drugs are tools not toys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 03:30 AM
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Married women suffer less abuse from their partner than unmarried women. Married women are less likely to suffer violent crime in general than unmarried women. Children from married parents suffer less child abuse than those from unmarried parents. Children from married households are more likely to live longer. Both sexes are happier, live longer, and have better mental health if they get married and stay married.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:31 PM
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No, if a woman actually wants a man his attention means more than everyone else's.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 08:55 PM
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I mean we could take this to the extreme and say that having a preference for dating someone who is not a methhead is okay but making it a rule is not. Most people would agree that having this as a requirement is fine but then where is the line? If its the fact that it's physical and not behavioural okay then what about someone that's physically deformed, is it then okay to say that's a requirement? Or if it steps outside of the boundaries of normal, is it not okay to say I won't date a man that…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:02 AM
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I dont think there is such thing as "overall confidence" i think what you'd be referring to as overall confidence is a sort of self esteem, ie the view that you are fundamentally worth something as a person. But that's just semantics. To answer your question self esteem does help with SMV and RMV but at the same time someone who has confidence in their job, particularly if it's highly specialised, might not reflect that in their SMV or RMV. I think it's also important to note the difference betw…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:26 AM
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Confidence in your career =/= Confidence in the sexual marketplace
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:32 AM
0

I mean have you spoken to a woman about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:46 AM
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being able to tell their friends they're dating a guy who's over 6ft and how she's viewed by other women in general which takes priority over the actual level of attraction she has to a guy. Soooooo your theory is that a woman doesn't care about height all that much but a woman's friends, who would also be women, do care about height a whole lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:52 AM
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Is there a third option? Just do you and stop trying to fit into someone else's ideals? Most people don't fit exactly into a stereotype I don't understand why this is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 02:52 AM
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No man constantly dates attractive women, just like no woman constantly fates attractive men. The super attractive people might have more better chances in the dating pool but they're still dating from the same pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 09:16 AM
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How is it fucked up?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 10:04 AM
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Is it reasonable for men to live through a sexless marriage? Not if its permanent. If the answer is no, then what's a reasonable expectation following a big event for libido to come back? 3 months? 6 months? 9 months? A year? Longer? Depends on the situation and what each person's needs are. In the case of children both parties should be aware that sex will be off the table for at least as long as it takes for the woman to heal. Then again its not fair to make someone wait indefinitely or for an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 01:04 AM
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How is it a human right for LGBT people to have sex as long as someone else is willing, but there's not even COMPASSION for men who have the same problem? Its not the same problem, LGBT people what to have sex with eachother so its just about society getting out of their way. Incels don't have anyone who is willing to have sex with them but scream on the internet about how they deserve sex with hot women. Incels are considered inherently creepy/evil/misogynistic. Incels minding there own busines…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 11:40 PM
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Okay you obviously have a lot to get off your chest, which is fair enough. But you do realise this isn't all men? this man was seriously fucked up and it wasn't porns fault, it was his. Put the blame where it lies with the man who treated you like shit, not the thing he used to treat you like shit. He wouldn’t let me break up with him If you want to leave a relationship you leave, you do whatever it takes to leave. Make that a lesson you learn from this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 11:28 PM
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There aren't really a lot of men who are like that, and most of the ones who are like that are extremely manipulative and will just move from person to person when they are found out. In real life there aren't that many women who are abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 10:27 AM
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Except women are better at discerning social cues than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 11:24 PM
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By chose porn over you do you mean he still watched porn or he would watch porn over having sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 10:24 AM
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Im pretty so 💁‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:03 PM
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No. Itd probably just piss me off to spend even more of my day having to reject fools
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:02 PM
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high quality women Awww how sweet. My man said something the other day about how hot women don't act like whores because they don't need to. I feel like there's truth in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:52 AM
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The maggots, no question.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:37 AM
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I have no tits.... I'll just show myself out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:32 AM
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I think you're right and some women do this sort of thing. People like getting attention, women seem to like it more than men. I like anyone else like attention, it just matters more to me where that attention comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:28 AM
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Do you feel an urge to do it? Not really no. Why would I want to flirt with someone else when I can get attention from a better man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:06 AM
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Never had sex 9utside of a relationship but my current partner is the most chadish man I've ever dated and the only one to make me cum without touching me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:45 AM
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My man is far too territorial for me to do any sort of shit like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:36 AM
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If there were less trash men there would be less sexless men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:18 AM
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If the assumption is these guys are chad, then every woman wants to sleep with them. ie he can have his pick of any woman. Im a woman and I wouldn't want to sleep with them, so he can't have his pick of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 09:42 AM
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Yes, thank you for noticing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:03 AM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:13 AM
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Oh you think about me how sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 04:12 AM
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Except i dont care what you people think of me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:59 AM
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I would not sleep with any of these guys, maybe I'm broken?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 01:24 AM
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Years ago some HR chick hired this fat ugly blob while my boss was off sick, I didn't like the way he looked me up and down so I told the girls I worked with he seemed "creepy" and I got "weird vibes". After that no one was left alone with him. I don't know what ended up happening because I left that job shortly after but I heard his contract wasn't renewed. Creepy works thats why it's used.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:26 AM
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What are you talking about, I am a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:00 AM
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male partners Last time I checked men couldn't have abortions so they aren't making those decisions. (Disregarding mem who push abortions onto women because that's a whole thing in itself) But yes, men who have sex without protection are a problem. Unfortunately there's no way of holding them accountable without going through the courts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:57 PM
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Thats what we call McDonald's in Australia
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 11:49 PM
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Why is it up to me to save the life of someone who is intent on running their own and other people's lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:33 PM
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My taxes better not be going to incels
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:06 PM
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Yes the only thing that is on a woman's mind when she gets married and turns 25 is why doesn't chad want me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:04 PM
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but not abuse it. I mean he can abuse it a little
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:11 PM
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Yes thank you for noticing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:59 AM
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Inceldom
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:58 AM
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There are a LOT of ugly thin women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:57 AM
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Men are just far more interesting people in general. You had me until this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:29 AM
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One does not simply decide to get an abortion wtf Tell that to all the women who use it as birth control
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:15 AM
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Damn im only 5/16th pick me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 10:12 AM
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Yes, and what?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:54 AM
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*Macca's
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 08:39 AM
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Im an asshole whos in a happy relationship with another asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:28 AM
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I dont think anyone can honestly rate themselves they just say what they want to be
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:43 PM
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I've dated a guy who took me to Mecca's for a date, it was a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 11:17 PM
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My opinion: all money is our money. His opinion: I can buy things for the house and myself but not for him. He can spend money on any of the three. But neither of us really spend money on frivolous things so it's not a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:42 AM
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I dont care about the number because anything that happened before me doesn't exist anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 11:05 AM
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Yes, hookup culture is disgusting to me. But I am in the minority so
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 10:45 AM
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It sounds like she needs professional help
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:23 AM
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She's also started apologising to our son after she snaps to make it clear it's not his fault which is positive. This is still really bad for the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 02:48 AM
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Assuming most people start having casual sex in their 20s that would put most brides in their 50s...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 04:16 AM
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Security.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 04:13 AM
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I've never met a man irl who cares about how much his partner earns.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 03:58 AM
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What if a self hating fatty has nice boobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 03:54 AM
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Every time I've had sex with someone for the first time its been planned well in advance, even if he doesn't know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 03:38 AM
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I would like to vouch for the volunteering as I have found that this is a really good way to find meaning and meet kind and caring people. I'm the around the same age as OP, have been volunteering since 19 and have basically had the experience you describe. ​ I've found that schools are also a good place to volunteer, particularly for those who enjoy spending time with children. I have found a lot of older ladies who have become good friends through school volunteer programs too.
/r/RedPillWives24/01/21 11:08 AM
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modern day idealism of the "natural native Americans" ​ I do not understand this
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 11:43 PM
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I'm not American, you've lost me. I reference paganism because that's the roots of religion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 12:58 PM
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Well yes, paganism was demonised by christians because belief in many gods was seen as a threat to the dogma. My flare is more a piss take on the evel women are witches thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 12:52 PM
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I was making a joke, my flare is about the social idea of a witch. I was basically raised by wiccans and I understand that wicca for most shuns practices such as animal sacrifice, I'm agnostic however.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 12:42 PM
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Really wanna be friends, maybe hang out, summon some demons, maybe sacrifice some animals?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 12:25 PM
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I am short love
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 05:24 AM
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I won't stand for such hate speach!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 03:13 AM
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People always say that a couple has to be married if one is in the hospital for the partner to visit them. I'm not sure how it works in the US but here they treat defacto and marriages basically the same in this situation. When my dad was in hospital they actually had both myself and my dads partner listed to contact (he refused to marry her because he wants everything to go to me when he dies) and knowing they aren't married the hospital still contacted his partner not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 11:15 PM
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if kids and marriage were off the table would you look for sex from a longterm monogamous relationship or would you enjoy the variety of short term relationships, casual partners, or FWB situations? I wouldn't date. I want these things too much and I doubt that I could ever get to the point that I could fully accept that it's not going to happen. Having a relationship would just be damaging to both parties at that point. I don't believe sex should exist without commitment so I just wouldn't have…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 11:07 PM
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Read my comment mate. You're claiming that its sexist to discuss the fact that someone possessing a particular world view or trait is going have issues when dating. That's fucking asinine. He's literally saying nothing negative about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 10:43 PM
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There is no such thing as the "right person". All relationships are going to have their difficulties. You should work on yourself, understand what you value and your needs in a relationship. if we so blind in the ideals we miss the right person Learn the difference between a deal breaker and a preference. How do people know someone is the best thing in their life's without waiting for someone better to come along after in life? The grass is always greener. If you want a lasting relationship stop…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 02:29 PM
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This isn't her sleeping with someone she wouldn't sleep with, it's her justifying that she is sleeping with someone who might not be proud to sleep with. If a woman says that about you it means she is worried about how she will be perceived for sleeping with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 01:40 PM
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Buddy I am female, a certified crazy one at that, and my actions still make more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 01:31 PM
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You do realise that the buyer doesn't know the reserve price in an action?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 12:04 PM
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Why are you arguing with me while also agreeing? This is anecdotal, the reality is women enjoy casual sex just as much as men. As apposed to what? The many peer reviewed studies you've conducted??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 12:03 PM
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What are you on? Dating anyone who disregards a demographic your part of, is hung up on their ex and is entitled is going to make for a difficult relationship. This doesn't "degrade women to a set of checked and unchecked boxes" it points out that it's going to be hard to date someone who has major issues with their world view.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 08:04 AM
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When your auctioning a house and set a reserve price are you contradicting yourself when you take a bid above the reserve but less than what you hoped for?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 07:48 AM
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Trust me that happens alot. I know, most people don't see sex the way I do. And that's fine, I mean be safe and don't rape anyone but do what you wanna do. When I talk about women's views on sex in general, I exclude myself from the conversation because I am not normal in regards to what I am willing to do. Instead I speak from observation and conversations with many women. I'm not the ideal. People rarely if ever even get to be with their ideal, a minimum level of physical attraction is really …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 07:41 AM
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You have an ideal woman right? Whatever your taste is you have a preference for a particular person in terms of both looks and personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 04:13 AM
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No, everyone wants an attractive and pleasant partner. But the men here tend to have fucked up priorities and / or are jaded from their desperate desire for sex with attractive women. Man are just people, some are amazing some are shit cunts. The same can be said for any demographic. Trp and ppd just tends to attract the ones with issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 04:08 AM
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The same woman will always be willing to go for the 5, but if someone is concidered better she will go for them. Given the choice between a successful, middle class, well socialised 7 and the same thing in a 5 package ofcourse the 7 will win.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:34 AM
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Congratulations, you are the exception to the rule Yes but because I've only had sex within ltrs not because I've only slept with people I'm attracted to. I've had women fuck me because they were bored and i just happened to be there. They were always willing to fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:29 AM
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Physically men have to be attractive enough for the woman to sleep with and he has a chance. Just because she may prefer to sleep with a 7 doesn't mean that she's contradicting herself when she sleeps with a 5, it means she was always willing to sleep with a 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:25 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:21 AM
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In this case he was tolerable enough to fuck and then did a thing that made her wet. How does this disprove my statement?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:15 AM
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they will seek out the top prospects and if they can’t get them, they simply won’t date I've never seen an ugly women date an extremely attractive or successful man, but I know plenty of ugly women who date. So I guess this could be true if you want to drastically redefine "top prospects" men however seek out the women that’s giving them the most attention and cooperation Then why have I so often had men I've not even noticed existing approch me and hit on me? Why are there so many women complai…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:13 AM
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women are full of contradictions Well this is true for me but for most of the time people will contradict themselves because they don't want to admit the truth outloud. When you realise their true motives people are fairly consistent, even women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:04 AM
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If your 6'4, well built and have a decent looking face you are an outlier. Congratulations you won the genetic lottery but your experience cannot be extrapolated to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 03:00 AM
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But are you physically attractive? Tall men can be Ugly too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 02:51 AM
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Swap the genders and all the women claiming he is misogynistic would be screaming "yes queen" "all women need to hear this"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 02:49 AM
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Either you look like an Adonis or you're leaving some info out buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 02:42 AM
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Basically yeah, man can look like shit and still be attractive to a lot of women. A lot of men here blame the fact that they're not getting laid on their looks because they prioritise looks without ever realising that their shitty personality may be to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 02:41 AM
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Also no one gets jealous when their friend gets a boyfriend. Maybe if that "friend" is really an enemy, but probably not even then. This does happen, I have experanced it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 01:41 AM
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Probably both
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 10:22 PM
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I am a woman, I have female friends who like to talk about their sex lives, I can 100% tell you that what you do matters. Obviously it matters more if the woman is looking for a relationship, and less if she is looking to get laid but it always matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 10:19 PM
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I know some extremely slutty women who are proud of their behaviour and I am still yet to hear anyone who has actually done anything like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 10:14 PM
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Not really, women watch the actions of men they're interested in even if they aren't concious of it. It's not just about be attractive, it's be attractive and do things that make her wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 10:11 PM
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If someone conciders you fuck ugly it doesn't matter how great your personality is they won't want to fuck you. If they concider you attractive enough to sleep with your actions matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 10:52 AM
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So your theory is that people decide ahead of time not to like you, BEFORE they even meet you and this is why you cannot have friends or get laid. Stop rationalising and learn how to talk to other humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 10:41 AM
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I honestly don't know why you are having this experience, but it's not universal. Are you in a relationship? If so how long? Are you sleeping with the same person? Having a lot on one night stands?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 06:54 AM
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Have you ever dated a shorter guy? Do you have any prejudice? Never dated a guy who's shorter than me. I probably wouldn't, seeing as the only males I've met who are shorter than me are under 14.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 06:47 AM
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If your man can't please you either he doesn't give a fuck about your existence or you don't know how to ask for what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 06:38 AM
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You're confusing confidence with areas of competence. I am compitant in management accounting and confident in my ability to do so, but when it comes to a cars engine I am near totally incompetent and have no confidence in my ability, but if I thought I knew everything while barely being able to distinguish coolant from oil I would have false confidence. Someone who is compitant and confident in an area will do well in that area. Someone who is competent but not confident is likely someone we wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/21 12:02 AM
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Your son is 4, he isn't a "mummy's boy" he's 4. Don't punnish your son for having an attachment to his mother. As your son grows up he should take on more and more independence, starting out with being able to play with his peers without needing to check mum is still there, going to kindy and school without feeling abandoned, wanting to spend more time with his friends etc. The problem with children arises when this independence doesn't happen, mostly this is because parents (mostly mothers) don…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 11:19 PM
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No, sex is important to maintaining closeness in a relationship. Even ignoring the fact that not having the desire to have sex makes your partner feel rejected and undesired, it's a form of bonding that you only do with your partner and without it you're just people who chose to be codependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 11:07 PM
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You can rationalise away the actions of both sides of the situation but at the end of the day if you don't agree with the situation it's on you not to feed into it. Both sides complain about the arrangement and still participate expecting the other to put an end to it, just take responsibility for yourselves kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 10:59 PM
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When we first met I got that feeling like "oh this guy is different, I like him" all the basic stuff when you meet a guy you really like being upset when someone messages and it's not him etc. I realise one of the big reasons for the initial attraction was that he teased me not in a way that made me self conscious or upset me but in a way that made me aware of the fact that he noticed me and made me want to impress him. Ofcourse there were other things that attracted me to him and our goals and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:12 AM
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Did you wanna skip to the part where you call me a cunt for rejecting you? That part always makes me giggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:06 PM
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Are you actually concerned about men hating women? Because honestly the only problem is idiots playing at a gender war which doesn't really exist. Men and women are not enemies, nor have they ever been.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:04 PM
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Well my partner likes them, and since he is the only one who sees them that's all that really matters :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:02 PM
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Well it's not funny if I have to explain the joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:56 PM
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Yeah and their only point was to make like a little bit easier for a few women who actually saw utility in them. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:48 PM
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Nah I'm just depressed because I'm a diagnosed terrible human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:46 PM
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Still working up the courage to lose your virginity i see.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:40 PM
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Simps are just easy prey for average to attractive women who are willing to exploit others. It really doesn't matter if a few wake up and become angry incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:38 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:23 PM
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Confirmed, this is why I am with my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:19 PM
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All evidence to the contrary Hahahahhahah read my post history. I am pure misogyny. How can you support a victim..... Idk because I've known actual real life male victims and have you know been there to support them, including helping them through the shitstorm that is the mental health system and being there with them during a very long trial. I've also thrown money towards specialist men's mental health resources, voulenteering in emergency mental health organisations which aim to connect peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:08 PM
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Buddy i dont know who you think your arguing with but I ain't no "rrrreeeeeee equality" feminist. Someone who has been raped has been put in a position of powerlessness and used against their will for someone else's gain. The act is sick, no matter who the perpetrator is. I do not support the idea that women cannot be rapists, nor that men cannot be raped. This isn't an issue that should be dragged through the gender debate, so if you genuinely support male victims I am 100% behind you, male vic…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:51 AM
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That's not true. You can also be an atm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:33 AM
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According to my partner about 3 holes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:18 AM
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I'm female, I have no hobbies and am completely uninteresting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:10 AM
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I see. So if you believe that women can work with her husband to build a good life how is it exactly that that same woman sees him as an atm when the life they have was something she has worked for too, even if you don't believe that she has done as much as her husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:05 AM
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Maybe it has something to do with the definition of rape and that a woman can't rape a man. First off, change is rare and slow, this is even more true when talking about society wide changes. The definition does not make things right or wrong. Secondly, the gender of the victim says nothing about the gender of the perpetrator. Odd that those who face the worst rape (physically damaging), also have the least resources. I would say the most damaging form of rape (physically and mentally) is prolon…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:56 AM
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Idk man, we had a pretty good sex life even when he was earning fuck all and I was on a halfway decent wage. Not sure how you rationalise that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:27 AM
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By this logic when my man runs out of money I should stop fucking him. So I guess if I have a headache I just needa tell him to buy me a house in Sydney CBD.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:16 AM
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TIL; women aren't human and cannot have problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 09:36 AM
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The fact that women are offered more support has more to do with societies perceptions of the genders than how they deal with the trama of rape. As to who is more traumatised, it would be the people whose rape most severely impacted them, nothing to do with gender. Someone who was raped as a child, experienced frequent abuse, or particularly violent abuse is going to be severely traumatised by that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 09:10 AM
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Yesterday I saw a post there advocating women to dump their children on someone else. The sub is a cesspool that occasionally points out that women should have self respect, find better places if you don't want to become one of the fuckwits.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:55 AM
3

Who cares? Worry about yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:49 AM
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Genuinely why are people so obsessed with hobbies? Maybe I'm too much of a work obsessed weirdo but what hobbies someone has has never had more then the most minuscule impact on my relationship with them. It's not like you look at people and say "oh hey once a month she sews a circle skirt, we're going to be the best of friends" or "he knows how to code, he'll make an excellent husband and farther"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:38 AM
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Nah buddy, what you did was try to twist what I said into hating women. Obviously I don't think so lowly of women, I am way to far up my own ass to belittle my entire gender like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 02:05 AM
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Came on buddy, reading comprehension is taught to 8 year olds. Neurotocism is a trait of humans. The fact that a trait is skewed towards woman =/= it only affects women or that all women have that trait. People can't just wake up one morning and decided they want a different personality =/= humans are biologically programmed and there is nothing they can do about it. Neurotocism is a personality trait characterised by greater likeliness of experiencing emotions such as fear, worry, anger, guilt,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 01:09 AM
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People can choose their level of neurotocism about as much as they can choose their level of extraversion. Also your analogy is flawed at best. The chances of falling when laying on the ground is negligible, the chances of something bad happening in an admittedly safe society is real. Just Look at the crime statistics for whatever area you live in, yeah the chance of you being assaulted may be low in comparison to the chance historically but that does not make it negligible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 08:50 AM
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You seem to be confusing all attractive women with stereotypical bimbos. Human's have personalities outside of how they look, once you figure this out you'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 07:52 AM
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Women don't "attract" men like they're bating a fish. Women have qualities that are attractive, some more than others. If a woman doesn't like the number or quality of men who find her attractive, she has the option of sucking it the fuck up and moving on or changing the qualities that are unattractive and replacing them with more attractive ones. The exact same optiins that men have, only difference is what makes them attractive. Is it fair to complain Nope, stfu with the bitching. It's called …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 12:24 AM
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exclusively slutty to her man. Logic is not welcome here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:24 AM
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Yes I too call it a bonding experience when my balls touch another mans. My obsession with dick has nothing to do with it..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:22 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:20 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:09 AM
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Hyped for the d
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 03:00 AM
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Because there are a lot of men who are attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:15 AM
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Nothing. I don't wanna die when fatty comes after me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:34 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:57 AM
1

Stay dumb Can do!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:53 AM
2

The pics are fake, everyone here is a fat ugly bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:51 AM
2

Okay, I hate you. Happy now?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:18 AM
1

Man pretending to be a woman for the lols. As red as my bloody face after my caption beats me for being a useless woman. If a man is lazy, useless, or weak willed they are low RMV
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:22 AM
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They have no maternal instinct Enjoying a 50-80 hour work week doesn't exclude someone from wanting kids, that drive is deep in biology and what you do on an average day doesn't change that. spend their time brunching, instagramming You think a bitch has time for that? If her days are spent eating and taking photos of her asshole she's a hoe, doesn't matter what her job is. An entire class of women aspiring to be men Your thinking of feminists, not women with decent jobs. So the professional wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:04 AM
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Something goes off in a female's brain when a dude cums in her that makes her fall in love with them Yes, this is why women should not hoe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:39 AM
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Didn't answer my question. I'll respect the people who act like decent fucking humans and do something useful. I'm not respecting a man who's trash just because other men are deserving of my gratitude, that's disrespectful to the men who are actually valuable members of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:37 AM
1

Sadly we are following in a lot of ways. A lot of the wrong ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:22 AM
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Did you build society or are you just another incel taking credit for the work of men who actually got off their ass and did something valuable?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:20 AM
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I didn't say we're perfect. I said we are ruining our country by pretending you guys know what's best and that I find a lot of things in your society weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:17 AM
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Mostly it's a joke. I don't really hate you guys, but I would never live in America. Your society is fucking weird and I honestly thing we need to stop pretending you guys actually know anything. Blindly following America is ruining my country, and I don't appreciate seeing that happen. At the end of the day that is on us though not you guys, but it is a common joke to hate on America.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:11 AM
1

Just don't marry useless women. Men allow this by excusing the behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:05 AM
1

White
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:04 AM
1

Yay, validation!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:03 AM
1

Straya mate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:03 AM
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I don't know what I'm doing because I have a joke as my flair? LOL okay little incel
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:02 AM
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The witch flair is a joke dude, I'm agnostic not pagan.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:32 AM
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No we just hate America. Everyone hates America
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:27 AM
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There are no Chads here, they're all small dick incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:26 AM
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Lol, I guarantee you have a bigger ass than me. MICRO HUMAN MASTER RACE!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:23 AM
1

He says he prefers women with curves, your lack of a maccas gut is just not enough for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:18 AM
1

Well, you're not wrong...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:14 AM
1

awwwwww steals your boyfriend and runs away
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:13 AM
1

Nope, I believe everything I read on the internet. Obviously this means you are a tranny, tell the bf I said hi
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:11 AM
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The truth. You don't hide shit from your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:09 AM
3

True misogyny is telling women not to have kids until 30
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 02:05 AM
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Why would I hate a guy man for liking dick, we have that in common. That doesn't mean I don't reserve the right to chose who I fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:46 AM
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I got enough in my life that I can deal with that. Only genuine problem there is that I want kids, so do some dope ass shit then neck at 30. Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:41 AM
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No. I genuinely don't understand why someone would put up with her. Yeah sure looks wise she's attractive, but not hot enough to make up for a personality like nails on a chalk board and the mannerisms of a guy who dropped out of school to become a plumber.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:37 AM
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Living in a safe society doesn't negate neurotocism
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:03 PM
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He looks like a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:27 PM
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8, I'd rather long hair
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:00 PM
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6 maybe up to a 7 depending on his body
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:41 AM
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I'm biased but I support the votes for the micro human matter race
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:36 AM
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2
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:28 AM
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I will show you a man pretending to be a woman. What if I'm a prick and a man pretending to be a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:27 AM
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“yas Queen” Only for that sweet sweet cringe, love. until Chad gets eyes for some other “Queen” then it’s “She’s a skanky slut!” Lol, chad can so whatever the fuck he wants, I'm not interested in some diseased cock belonging to a trash human. I'm not interested in men who "trade up" every week like a common whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 07:28 AM
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You vastly over estimate how many men are worth the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:17 AM
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Not a friend Then same deal minus the respect I have for a friend. Don’t act like women are above.. I don't act like women are above shit. I literally said I will (and have) fought my closest friends for a man I see as having potential. In that case women know what's up and it's cool. This situation is totally different to "I'm insecure, I don't like you" which is what OP was talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 06:14 AM
1

Then it's not big enough
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:42 AM
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If a chick is gonna come at my man, I'm happy to be the one who makes her so ugly no one will ever touch her again. I ain't trynna be friends with the bitch. If it's just someone I'm interested in and a friend of mine is too it's a fair fight. Neither of us are going easy on eachother, but we both know what's up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:34 AM
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All you can do now is cry, incel
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:13 AM
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Wym? Women only want sex if it will rupture their internal organs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:39 AM
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Dick pics. Random ones. I'm aware, I still don't see why I would waste more of my time on OLD. You're truly a guru among people. I do it all for you, my adoring fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:37 AM
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BIGGER!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:32 AM
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18 inches Mmmmmmm, I guess I settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:32 AM
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That's all I ask. God, with your attitude anyone would think I have unrealistic standards or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:31 AM
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😘
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:30 AM
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BIGGER, still needs to be bigger
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:25 AM
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Ya got me there buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:24 AM
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That could be anywhere though Some places are more likely than others. Interesting Ya keep saying that but it doesn't really say anything calls to question how well people actually know others You are correct, we should all hide in a hole and never associate with anyone but ourselves just to be safe. Actually no, not even yourself because you might not fully know everything about yourself!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:24 AM
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BIGGER!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:19 AM
1

Still too small
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:17 AM
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Nope too small, needs to be bigger
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:17 AM
1

Nope, buddy what you have there is an overgrown clit. Needs to be bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:14 AM
1

Too small. Needs to be bigger
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:13 AM
1

Needs to be bigger
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:13 AM
3

Girl social dynamics seem savage. They can be, they can also be amazing. There are many shitty people on this planet and a few that are great. The women who are good people are fucking beautiful humans. Do you size the girls up based on looks at all? I'm not interested in fucking a chick, so why should how she looks matter to me? Sure if a woman has some perfect tits I'll say that to her, just like I'll tell her if she has some dope cross stitching skills. But I am not selecting friends based of…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:09 AM
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I have an aversion to going into places where people assume your goal is dick. meeting people who you don't know How much more do I really know about a stranger irl than a stranger online? I talk to a lot of people I don't know, I know people lie both online and irl. I just like talking to people online because if people don't know what you look like they can't act weird because of what you look like. If I can tolerate someone's personality enough that I'd want to spend time with them, either as…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:58 AM
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Mine, yes. Goals men who think they're likely "better than" Dear wanna be Chads, it's funny to see you try with a taken women only to recoil into your hole as she decimates your unearned confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:33 AM
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Honestly there isn't really much you can do if there are several women going at you. I just learnt to be alone, keep my shit to myself so they didn't have anything on me, and deal with the problems they caused. I did often have a few female friends and men who would look out for me, which I'm greatful for despite what their motives may have been. I also learn that older women who have values beyond wanting to be a hole are great people to be around, I aspire to be like those women. Now I avoid a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:23 AM
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Can you sympathize with her at all? Yes, a woman can turn into the biggest cunt on the planet if she feels threatened. This isn't at all abnormal, and honestly I was surprised with how light the stuff she talked about was. I'm not even particularly attractive and have copped way worse than the things she talks about.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:58 AM
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I don't understand why any guy would bother fucking her? she's insufferable and has masculine mannerisms. May as well fuck a dude at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:45 AM
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A true hero!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:36 AM
1

I'll bite, what you mean by interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:34 AM
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Nah, all of us not on instagram are fat midgets with weird lady dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:34 AM
1

Too bad your an incel and will never have your own 12 year old wife
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:27 AM
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All women want is to share a trash man with their bff. We're not competitive at all and even refer to the other hoes as sisters. Not in a sibling way, in a cock sisters way, which is actually a stronger bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:06 AM
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wanting to help Most of what you say is weird and cringe. What are you going to do? Help me get married at 12 to a man who will chain me to a stove so I can be useless as anything but a hole and shit out a kid every now and then?? I know I'm being a bitch but genuine questions because the above seems to be what you think is ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:59 AM
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Then why are half the girls I know begging for cash to buy themselves some tits?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:48 AM
1

Get a new daddy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:46 AM
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with multiple women! Ewww
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:43 AM
1

The bar is low for women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:41 AM
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there's not much of a change there anyway Either more useful or less useful, depending on how you look at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:37 AM
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I'm okay with this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:17 AM
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Looks: preferably tall (gotta make up for them midget genetics) preferably blue eyes fit, because if my lazy ass can go work out so can you idk, so long as he's not a fat lazy slob so I can actually get wet for him Personality: smart, ideally smarter than me but gotta at least be able to actually talk about ideas driven, even if I don't care about the thing he's into, I wanna see him work at something stubborn maybe a little cocky also a genuinely decent human honest, even if the truth hurts not…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:09 AM
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6 inch cock How disappointing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:39 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:37 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:29 AM
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OLD no, never have and would rather burn my face off than deal with the kind of trash that collects there. I like online communities though, people treat you different when they don't know what you look like and I find that makes it easier to get to know someone. However, I wouldn't use anything online to actively search for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:22 AM
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You should be sorry, feel bad for my lack of coolness
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:25 AM
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Yes, this is why I told you to simp for me. Now simp bitch!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:55 AM
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I know I'm not cool irl or online
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 08:54 AM
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+10 simp points Simp total: 27
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:26 AM
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Then earn more simp points
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:21 AM
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ty, I try
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:20 AM
1

Why would i ruin my son by pretending I can teach him to be a man. He's gonna know to go to his dad about that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:12 AM
2

Then the one that's mine
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:39 AM
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That's effort, women are entitled to easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:36 AM
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I'm not cute, can I still answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:24 AM
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Your all trash, I'm only here to remind you I hate you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:19 AM
2

Sounds like a simp, women don't simp
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:16 AM
3

Don't lie, no woman pays for dinner
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 05:01 AM
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She lied for them sweet sweet betabucks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:57 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:56 AM
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Incel /10
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:44 AM
1

No more nudes! Everyone just post feet pics!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:43 AM
3

On behalf of women under 30, men should look like men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:42 AM
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You know she's a quality woman because she hates incels
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:40 AM
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$2500 per feet pic I didn't even think about the math when I said that but your right, I sould probably concider upping my price. Regardless; a low effort compliment +5 simp points for a total of 17
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:33 AM
2

I would assume you are American and i cannot tell you how to see a therapist in America, I can tell you it is something you should look into and try to find a way to see a professional. There might be a volunteer service or way to get government assistance for this. Number one you need to stop posting this shit. It will never help, you will never feel fulfilled by this. If you need to get off social media all together, there aren't really any places that are going to be a positive without any ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:22 AM
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There are some good things if you look deep enough. The idea of having self respect, boundaries, and not seeking validation or whoring yourself out for attention. The amount of pure aggression kills that though. If someone need to bring others down to prop themself up you need to better themselves. I get venting and getting out pain, I just think surrounding yourself with people who sit in their own jaded fury makes it too easy to believe that's normal and acceptable. I would never send a woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:20 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:44 AM
2

Most females in real life are not rabbid foaming at the mouth feminists. Yes we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:34 AM
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If you have a boyfriend why the fuck do you care so much about the dicks of some random guy? Even if you were single you shouldn't care about if you make any guy here's cock hard. Stop attention whoring. You are not ugly, but no one here cares. If there is no more to you than being a pretty hole for whatever dick comes along, then you need to fix yourself. You do not want to be whoring yourself out for messages from guys and a few upvotes. Any women who acts like this devalues herself. Get help …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:30 AM
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Yes, this is the only factor that women select for. The bigger the better, all women want a monster cock that will give them organ failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:10 AM
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😳
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:00 AM
2

I just checked and this is actually fantastic +12 simp points
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:56 AM
1

I'm not actually a misogynist, more a realist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:11 PM
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The real reason short women .havehight preferences. We need them to reach things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:09 PM
2

There the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:01 PM
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Spare a thought for Chad 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:59 PM
2

I'm ugly, but you still have to call me pretty or your a woman hating incel and no one will ever love you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:34 PM
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I've been in and out of the manosphere for about 10 years now (and on reddit and 4chan for god knows how long but way too long) and I still find it funny. It will lose appeal when people stop getting triggered over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:22 AM
1

Well then, your obviously just a good guy taking care of his women. Carry on kind sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 10:53 AM
0

Because nerds are all incels and I hate incels
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 10:50 AM
1

uwu
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 10:48 AM
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There's never enough bitching about incels CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 10:47 AM
2

We also need nail polish and male attention though. Without that we die
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 10:42 AM
1

Nah I'm an actual female. I just find shit posting funny
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 10:40 AM
1

Lol. I'm a witch, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 10:19 AM
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What do you expect from a woman? An iq higher than a 3 year old?? Lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 10:16 AM
2

Kinky
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 10:14 AM
1

AWALT I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:34 AM
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chocolate bitcoins Idk chocolate bitcoins seem worthwhile. Definitely more worthwhile than internet attention whoring.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:27 AM
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I was trying to move away from the calling men incels shitposting. I appologise for the inaccurate information
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:03 AM
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uwu = cute face
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:01 AM
1

Your so kind uwu
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:56 AM
1

Obviously too much of a Chad. Seeing as I cannot get your commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:42 AM
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Should we be encouraging 18 year old women to do stupid things out of insecurity? I know if she was my sister/ niece/ daughter/ one of my female friends I would be slapping some sense into her. She's got a whole life to live after this shit and needs to have more value than a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:40 AM
6

Why seek the validation externally, especially for how you look? 50% of women are average or higher, it's not an achievement. Making some randoms on the internet hard, also not an achievement. I get people don't want to be rejected. I get women want to be attractive, I want to be attractive, but holding that so highly that you can drag yourself down to point where you are asking random men to tell you how pretty you are just to feel better for 5 minutes is some seriously fucked up priorities. Av…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:31 AM
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Like i said, I haven't seen anyone here say anything that is untrue (aside from obvious troll comments). If anyone isn't willing to cop the comments why post a photo asking for people's opinions?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:19 AM
5

Honestly have not seen the men here underrate a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:07 AM
2

No. Women are property
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:51 AM
2

Aww thank you for respecting me ❤
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:45 AM
2

Your saying that he won't marry me just because I dropped everything to suck his dick one time? crys in woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:42 AM
2

Obviously, all these subs are one big shitpost
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:35 AM
7

Being an attractive woman is amazing, how's being an incel going for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:34 AM
6

No one cares about your attention hoeing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:31 AM
3

We don't kill children, we just eat them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:16 AM
2

Why do cunts gotta be killing kids anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:10 AM
1

When a guy struggles getting some, it’s always automatically his fault If someone cannot seem to find what they want their standards are higher than what they can attain. Do better or lower your standards. And then there’s the girls saying this stuff If someone cannot seem to find what they want their standards are higher than what they can attain. Do better or lower your standards. yet a depressed man is seen as weak Depression aint about weakness, true depression is a fucked up mental state. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 07:09 AM
2

I wanted to argue but it's just a fact that women even if they are capable of it won't actually do this sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 06:24 AM
2

as in Dostoyevsky Well at least I can keep my books as some pretty paper weights
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:27 AM
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I'm sorry my female brain prevented me from understanding this post.. Look at my sparkly nails though!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:24 AM
1

I consider myself redpilled Obviously not red enough
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:22 AM
2

Yes, people are dumb and do not value the thing they have. It's their twisted morality that says "I can hang around to get what I want out of this and then when I'm ready I'm out. It doesn't matter how using you, my partner, affects you at all. All that matters is me, and if you were to do the same you are a bad person"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:18 AM
2

Why wait for the argument? I'll call you an incel right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:10 AM
2

There’s not going to be intelligence shown in that video. Can confirm, there's no intelligent life here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:03 AM
2

why the fuck shouldn't guys be scared too? They should be, there are threats to men too Most men wont hurt a woman. But men can hurt women (and vice versa but there are generally higher consiquences for a woman being hurt by a man). People should have a healthy fear of threats, just because majority of men won't hurt someone doesn't mean anyone should be making themselves vulnerable those who will. I don't know you so if your lurking in some park at 2am when I'm trying to get home, I'm going to …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:54 AM
1

I only hate people, women aren't people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:38 AM
1

Will you accept women with internalised misogyny or am I gonna be lurking?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:36 AM
1

Wouldn't know about Americans but yes in my experience those sorts of environments are filled with women who don't understand the value of work done well. I've worked with a lot that don't even seem to understand you get paid to actually, I don't know, work.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:26 AM
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shoot the shit, insult each other Kinky
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:19 AM
1

they’re completely useless at work Admin women are a plague on productivity, hr women exist to waste time and money on bullshit, even most of the women in finance/ accounts work for 15 minutes and piss fuck around with gossip for the rest of the day. DO YOUR FUCKING JOB OR GTFO /rant
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:40 AM
1

All men are privileged! My handouts do not make up for the privilege men have by having a dick!! It doesn't matter if he is a delivery driver, a homeless man, or the Chad that just railed me. All men have more privilege. Give me things!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:34 AM
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People have fucked up views. They think it's about getting a man (I say this because of context but it's the same on the other side) rather than you know having some kind of self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:28 AM
1

Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:17 AM
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I don't know why so many people here think a vagina excludes you from finding this shit funny. But full respect to everyone here that engages in the shit posting, you guys are the real heroes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:15 AM
5

Just looking for that feeder bf uwu
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:12 AM
3

I'm sure the average reddit user would dick you. Do you feel validated now? Was that worth posting your ass to randoms?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:10 AM
3

Preach!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:06 AM
1

We ain’t her soy orbiters Nah, nah, you guys are getting it wrong. You gotta go full simp for the average woman who so she can inflate her worth and get that sweet sweet validation while never even registering you as human.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:05 AM
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Why tf would you want random guys on reddit to simp for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:59 AM
3

bitterness Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:57 AM
3

The fan out shit is weird Agreed, it's some random extra fabric just because
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:55 AM
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I'm here more during the purge, it's some of the best shit posting I can do on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 02:53 AM
1

Damn cucks and needing a mummy to punish them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:50 PM
1

Kinky
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:00 PM
2

Idk if I can even follow through with the shit post this has hit full cringe.. Clears throat dirty boy Oh look I did it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:57 PM
2

I mean, not yours but most human males.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:05 PM
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Wouldn't you like to know uwu
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:55 AM
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Nah, I'm a fat midget with a small dick
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:26 AM
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That's because there are no women on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:22 AM
1

You gotta sub to my onlyfans for that uwu
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:16 AM
1

Why the question mark
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:04 AM
1

Not a request What is it then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:57 AM
3

shitting on women for no reason. Okay I'll shit on incels more
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:49 AM
1

"I can change him 😍"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:41 AM
1

That shits still gay
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:40 AM
2

Curves 😍
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:36 AM
1

Yes, women are incapable of critical thought and therefore their vote is worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:34 AM
1

Your thinking of betabucks, incels like you don't even have that kinda value
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:28 AM
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Women don't date incels
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:24 AM
1

"Ummmm you need to stop crying, you weren't actually raped."
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:19 AM
1

Sorry buddy you can't rape anyone with that micro dick
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:14 AM
1

Lollololololololololololololol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:00 AM
1

Because your an incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:44 AM
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Did you want them back?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:42 AM
1

How do I know if I’m an incel? You're an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:41 AM
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Nahh just I just look 16
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:40 AM
2

Nice tatts good job
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:28 AM
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except I paid for it. Damn, I feel bad now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:20 AM
2

Dick is the most important thing, the only measure of a man is the size of his dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:59 AM
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Yeah but anyone who spends time on /soc/ is a lonely incel who would sell their left nut for someone to shit on them. I wouldn't take anything they say seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:55 AM
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The correct way to hunt witches
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:09 AM
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Damn, i think your the first person to get my name. This makes me so happy i will accept not being hunted
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 04:03 AM
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I am a witch, hunt me bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:52 AM
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Just sounds like your willing to move for a woman, simp behavior right there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:40 AM
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I came here with low expectations, I was wrong for this. You have achieved relationship goals
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:12 AM
1

Kinky
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:36 AM
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LARPing as women But it's my favorite pass time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:35 AM
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So now I wait. Posted 4 hours ago and no update
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:34 AM
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Because I hate you. And everyone else, your not special
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:32 AM
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will absolutely give a girl (or guy) a bigger butt. Also just nicer, no one wants a saggy ass
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:04 AM
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Worth it? I think not You are incorrect. This kind of laziness is why the world has so many fat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 02:02 AM
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But fat = unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:54 AM
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As a woman my duty is to please all men, regardless of how they look or their actual value as humans. However I must also not be a whore and remain a pure virgin while doing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:44 AM
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Can confirm. Some people believe there are but this is a myth, all women online are men larping as women. Women are property and are therefore not able to have an internet connection of their own, any good man will not allow his women to use his. With the rise of cucks and white knights we all feared what would happen. Would women suddenly be online, invading male space? would women who go online suddenly become men? Would they implode after leaving the kitchen? It was a tough time for everyone,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:39 AM
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Incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 01:21 AM
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Preach!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:46 AM
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Seems like a lot of effort
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:37 PM
1

"Mine" sticker Can these stickers be an actual thing? I want there to be a sticker
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:37 PM
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would have to move You would move just so you never see a guy that's banged her?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:28 PM
1

women get tricked into sex Yeah but themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:58 AM
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You are not a mind reader, you are guessing at what her behavior means
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:17 AM
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You gotta subscribe to her onlyfans first
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:40 AM
1

we're all awful Nah I'm amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:32 AM
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How would you fully reinsert the turd and get the world to cheer you on? Put in on my onlyfans and get that degenerate simp cash
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:38 AM
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Red, male larping as female, literally Hitler
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 05:32 AM
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I’m selling tickets! May as well make money off a whore
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 12:34 PM
1

Lol at this but also that situation just sounds like a really fucked up form of dom revenue
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 04:42 AM
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The argument isn't about ability but legal requirement. The argument that people should legally be required to do something they are not physically capable of is retarded. revert to swearing and demeaning others That's a cultural norm, not everywhere do people freek out over a word. you think You'll know what i think when your reading comprehension is greater than a 2 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 04:12 AM
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Women basically live on attention and validation so to you saying women are better off being incels is hilariously out of touch with reality. Also crack heads need crack, don't mean they wouldn't be better off if they dealt with their problems other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 03:41 AM
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someone penetrated you bodily and to an extent you had to trust them to do that Preach!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:19 AM
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More a personal responsibility argument. The potential consiquences are pretty clear with sex, people who can't see that are too low iq to do the thing. I don't think men should be able to force a woman to have an abortion nor that women should be able to have an abortion if the man wants the kid (i mean so long as there are no complications where that may be necessary). Everyone takes the risk when having sex, a controlled risk is still a risk so people choose their consiquences. I am anti abor…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:10 AM
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Anyone stupid enough not to realise that sex makes babies (yes even if you take precautions and lower that risk), is too stupid to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:54 AM
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Imagine only being able to feel validated by who is willing to take your dick. I feel bad for the sad existence you live every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:47 AM
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I think you are missing my point Maybe. It sounded like some woe is me, I cannot get laid so all women are whores type shit. Hence comments that try to be edgy. women enjoy the so called "sexual revolution" women hate the casual sex culture. Care to explain? Because this looks like a contradiction. I admit you make some good points, the culture has changed to the detriment of most people. There isn't really much point in me going through the points I agree with you on, I write far too long winde…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:44 AM
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Idk how incels have such shit reading comprehension. I want to fuck the man who has committed to me, because that way I get a dick shoved down my throat and I get to hang out with someone who actually gives a shit about my existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 11:36 AM
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Mmmmmm no. I want sex but why would I bother with a fuck buddy that won't actually give me the things i want, especially if I actually liked him to some degree. Why the fuck would any self respecting women allow themself to be used like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 11:21 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 11:06 AM
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I love sex. Just don't want a randoms dick inside me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 11:02 AM
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Atleast women can put off their shitty miserable existence to the future by having constant sex with multiple people in the present and forget about it and feel validated by all that physical attention they get from chads. Not sure if your wrong or just I'm a broken woman but would 100% neck if this was life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 09:51 AM
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I'll take not getting laid. If it's only sex I'm not getting laid anyway so may as well make my day more efficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 09:43 AM
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I've proven your idiocy wrong already, fuck up and learn to have a cohesive thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 05:28 AM
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Most women are never going to get into a serious confrontation with each other Have you never seen women attack other women? Women can and will ruin someone's life in every conceivable way if they have to
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:19 AM
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I answered what you wrote directly. Equality means women = men. This is false. Therefore you cannot expect women to do the same things as men and vice versa. It's about the legal requirement to do so to be granted the same legals rights No, given the wording on your original post this is about you being angry at women. Everyone cops shit in life, stop trying to win victim points and stop trying to start gender wars. The argument isn't about upper body strong In order to be on the front lines you…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 05:19 AM
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all the time I see women saying "uwu I love soft sensitive boys" and then the guy she's dating has like some dudes brainmatter and skull fragments stuck to the bottom of his shoe. People can lie
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 05:49 AM
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Either you are for or against treating women as equals. Either you hate women or you think they're inferior, your choice. Against, always against. When you can give birth and I can lift 60kg I will admit we're equals. If you wanna get down to it I'm inferior when it comes to lifting shit, your inferior when it comes to growing a kid. Women being denied from front line duty has been repelled You want a 5ft asshole to fight a 90kg guy that's your stupidity. Your war is already lost. To be clear, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:39 AM
8

I think beards may be a sign of maturity/getting ready to settle down. I wish
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:03 AM
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TikTok seems to be more ages 12-18 Yep, the market for eboys is very young. Of course a 15 year old is more likely to be attracted to a guy who looks 15 than one that looks 30
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 04:01 AM
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No, most of us aren’t saying that a woman is perceived as urcella instead of ariel the second she turns thirty This. The wall isn't waking up one day with the face of an 82 year old and your tits resting on your knees. It's about aging, no longer being the hot 22 year old who's the center of attention, and fertility declining. There are hot 45 year olds, there are no young 45 year olds. Can we grow the fuck up and accept the role people play in society changes throughout life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 02:27 AM
1

Whores get paid for their work
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 11:57 PM
1

Nah it's a joke actually. I pay for my own shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 02:08 PM
1

That's too much effort, if I want money I can just call my dad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:32 PM
1

Honestly I just find it funny. I know guys irl who would be considered incels and most of them are okay people, some are seriously not okay humans and need to stop. Realistically I shit on everyone, but I don't have a problem with anyone so long as they are a decent human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:13 PM
1

Are you saying I can't use an ATM because I hate useless cucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:03 PM
1

Edgy Thanks I try The thing is that AWALT is a principle more than a quantitative proof, aphorism, or statement of fact. I agree with you, I just thought my way of saying it was more fun
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:00 PM
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In that case, yes men like attractive women, exactly the same as women like attractive men. Some men are willing to associate with an asshole of a woman so long as she is hot just so he can bang her, just like some women are willing to date horrible old men for their money. It's a small pool and you can't claim all men do from the behavior of a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 12:41 PM
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Who cares. Deal with your own shit and stop trying to win victim points
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 12:32 PM
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This doesn't make any sense. Are you saying men want the kind of bitch that is going to make their life harder or are you saying that men want a woman who is hot and don't care if she makes their life harder?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 12:30 PM
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Isn't your argument, men don't care about personality? Yet all men love bitches? I think you changed your own mind buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 12:26 PM
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There's a difference between nagging banshee bitch and hot kinky bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 12:11 PM
2

Nah guys also don't want to deal with a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 12:08 PM
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I've never once seen women on here having a set standard on what a guy has to be in order for her to date him. Let me interject here. No small dicks, no fat guys, be useful or fuck off.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 12:01 PM
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how rich he is A useless cuck who is rich is still a useless cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 11:52 AM
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The "team my gender" people tend to make all sorts of conflicting arguments, because their only goal is for "team other gender" to always be wrong, no matter what. Yes. Be a good person, hate everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 09:14 AM
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Yup, so few people actually understand any of the theories anymore and so cannot debate them. No one corrects misunderstanding because hardly anyone actually understands what they are talking about. That said trp forgot trp principles too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 09:11 AM
1

AWALT used incorrect because incels gotta incel
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 09:04 AM
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What do you mean? My point is the "artful" nudes is just so the women posting them can claim it's something other than what it is. At the end of the day men are buying their nudes, not for the art but for the tits and women know this deep down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 07:49 AM
1

Are men paying for nudes for the art?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 07:39 AM
1

OP is pointing out that betabucks isn't the only goal for women. Attractive does not necessarily equal wealthy and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 07:37 AM
1

Define "high value"?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 07:33 AM
1

A hot slut is valuable as a hole that is hot. Is it really surprising that men like pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 07:32 AM
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women base value based on how much drive a eprson has. Why tf should a woman care what kinda drive a person has? What does a woman get out of someone elses success unless it is shared with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 06:55 AM
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I think you overestimate young sluts. Most young women are told they shouldn't want marriage until they are post 30, and are spoon fed the "don't settle down" narrative. I think what your seeing is more repetition of talking points rather than their own rationalising. Regardless the whole thing is just women who are too weak willed and idiotic to understand that letting that guy at the club pound them has consiquences. Dumb people should be shut up, or the stupidity will spread.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 05:04 AM
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Older ex sluts have always pushed that narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 04:44 AM
1

Marriage is a legal contract. Its ment to bind you to someone for the rest of your life, as well as having duties to him (and him to me) above and beyond that of someone your dating. Yes I want to get married, I would not consider investing in someone if that was off the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 01:05 PM
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A few things that hopefully will help you, or someone else dealing with issues with boundaries. Work on your self confidence it takes time but the more you have the more you are able to look out for yourself. Small things like forcing yourself to say 2/3 good things about yourself, or just reminding yourself that you are a valuable person every time you hear that voice pop into your head can incrementally improve your confidence. There are so many small ways you can do this, it doesn't even take…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 09:47 AM
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I don't think "I actually kinda like that I was born female" is particularly controversial but I will say this is one of the best subs to actually have an opinion. Sure you'll be challenged on it but that's not really a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 03:43 PM
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I kind of feel this weird confusion every time people say that people my age grew up wrapped in bubble wrap. I don't know if it's an American influence or just because I grew up with ravers and going to doofs or what but when I was a kid most people I knew were just as bad as my parents when they were young. I just grew up in time and place that had better drugs and more contraception than either of my parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 03:14 PM
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Nope, definitely a woman. Either that or there is something seriously wrong with my dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 02:33 PM
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Are you purposely misinterpreting? Treated as property, rapped, the living shit beaten out of you. Those things yes. Did you want me to organise a reenactment and get you some popcorn or something
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 02:29 PM
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If it makes you feel better it has, although no where near that degree. The difference is I'm neither naive enough nor cunty enough to wish that upon others :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 02:23 PM
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Can't think of a better rebuttal? You basically asked me if I would rather be property, most likely brutally rapped and killed or be the one doing that to others. My view isn't invalidated because you shout lol when I answer honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 02:12 PM
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Yes. I would rather be a woman who is exposed to that because at least I would be a woman, I think I just see a lot in femininity and the ability to produce children.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 02:07 PM
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More so men offer a buffer to the most brutal parts of life and allow your weaknesses. I'm not saying this from a naive perspective, I know how easy it is to become a victim as a woman but the benefits are well worth it. I couldn't imagine carrying the weight of being a man, but I've never and will never be in that position.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 01:57 PM
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I'd take woman at any point in history not gonna lie
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 12:33 PM
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Women don't want sex the way a man does With a record number of men now involuntarily celibate They're incels because women don't WANT to have sex with them. You can claim it's "unsafe", but there's options to mitigate that. Women are biologically programmed to see sex as a risk, because well it is. There is a (much) higher penalty for pregnancy, it's more likely for a woman to contract an std from a man than the other way around, and there's the physical size difference. some will only meet at …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:07 AM
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Honestly all of these rules are a load of shit. 3 months can be long enough when two people genuinely are trying to see if they are compatible and want the same things, or it could be nothing to a guy who has 4 others putting out on demand. If she sleeps with you after 3 dates she may just really want to fuck your brains out all the time, or she could stop as soon as she has commitment. Both sides just need to know what they want and look for signs the other person is going to fulfill that. Ofco…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:50 AM
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I don't know why you have such disdain for men but I would definitely disagree with that one. Men are not so much cruel as not so interested in people and emotion. That doesn't mean they actively try to harm others, nor is it necessarily a negative. Honestly I think you just need to be a little more realistic about your expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 01:27 PM
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This is pretty much it. If you want compassion go to a woman, if you want shit fixed go to a man. There's a reason we're different.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 11:10 AM
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Since when do women support eachother? Female social dynamics are complicated and a compliment isn't always a compliment, women are excellent at social warfare. Looking out for a random chick comes from the fact that women know their inherent disadvantage and a lot of us will "feel" it when another woman is in a risky situation, it's sort of a combination of neurotocism and empathy. When talking about the "you go girl" crap in the media I think most of the women who engage in this are looking to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/19 02:06 AM
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I have a similar thing with gifts, the only way my dad knew how to show love was by giving things or money but the rest of my family would kind of buy people off with money. To this day I can only accept gifts from my dad, I can't even let a guy pay for a date without feeling like I owe something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 11:07 AM
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are there also ways in which they get women's attention? Women look for men who are useful, being able to achieve status is a way of proving that you're useful. A man who is respected by other men has earned that by being able to do something. Women can recognise that. do men usually have silent competition in social settings to impress the woman? I would imagine at least some do, you'd have to ask a guy honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 12:35 PM
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Is it obvious which dudes are alpha and which ones play a beta role? Yes, humans in general will quickly sort themselves into hierarchies when put into a social setting. The men who are higher to the top may or may not do a lot of talking but he will be shown respect by others whenever he opens his mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 12:09 PM
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I never said anything about hate. I stated a thing I heard once years ago about why men fear rejection because your post reminded me of it. That's what kids do because they're too young to understand gray areas. As we get older we learn that there's no such thing as pure good and pure evil. I mean if that's a discussion you wanna have I'm down, but please don't project something I didn't say and don't believe onto me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:46 PM
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It's not about love, it's about sex. Chances are she has her own life and has no room for him in it. But it doesn't mean she hates him. Sounds like your a bit defensive about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:34 PM
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I have zero care for anything, therefore I win all the arguments. You cannot beat me mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:25 PM
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Sounds a bit like Freud's Oedipus complex. Rejection from women only reminds him of the days when a woman's attention was the difference between life and death This reminds me of something I heard once but never really put enough effort into assessing the idea. It's something along the lines of men being affraid of women because if he is rejected she is basically saying that "your fine to exist right now, but your genes should die with you"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:21 PM
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Red pill women are feminists in disguise Nah, we're all men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 12:28 PM
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I am aware of this. Lots of rape has taken place throughout human history. That doesn't change the fact that it's the only way to take selectiveness away from women. Why do you think low value men don't get laid, even the ones who are married?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:17 AM
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Sex makes babies not marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:07 AM
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Rape is the only way to remove the sexual choice of women. Women select, that's how we evolved so unless someone is working on a way to change biology TRP doesn't have an agenda in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 08:03 AM
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You're correct, but not many people actually get the concept. If your married you don't get to leave, that's why you choose carefully then make that shit legal. The thing is divorce has ruined it because it offers an escape.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 07:40 AM
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You say that like I would care? At the end of the day women are selective for a reason, useless men are unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 07:28 AM
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Calm your tits guys it's not a contest of "what's the better sex" Incels won't "stomp out" anything, the men women want to sleep with are at the top of hierarchies those men have no allegiance to men at the bottom and have no reason to help them. The men who are at the top or even the middle of hierarchies are already getting what they want, why the fuck would they mess with the people who are providing that for some loser?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 07:18 AM
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I think OP is talking about a specific type of person, I've met many guys who could fit into the catagory of incel who are fine as people but for their own flaws don't get laid. I still don't feel sorry for these men because they could get a half decent woman to sleep with them (or even date/ marry them) if they put some effort into themselves. OP is probably talking about self proclaimed incels who do actually spout shit about women because they feel entitled to pussy from the best women but ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 07:02 AM
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I would disagree with your views on welfare, but that's a totally different discussion. Women who can't provide for a kid and has no support (other than the government) for said kid has no business having a kid. Everyone learnt how those things are made and "but I want one" or not being able to keep it in your pants is no excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:53 AM
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I am fine with euthanasia though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:46 AM
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Men give in and give women free resources, women don't give in and don't fuck incels. Men in general now need to get their shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 02:28 AM
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Are they? Or do they just expect from society? I honestly see no difference in the attitude of an incel to that of a slut who got knocked up. One wants free sex the other wants free resources, both can start contributing or pull their head out of their ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:37 AM
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Most incels aren't productive members of society though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:21 AM
5

Or I could just shoot the incels
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 01:12 AM
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Awwww thanks now let me hypocritically make short jokes at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:56 PM
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Too big means less crazy sex but still good sex. Too small and you may as well go back to your knitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:30 PM
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My comment was a joke, I really don't see why people always talk about height. If it's such a big thing to someone they can fuck off and grow a personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:27 PM
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I don't even know who that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:13 PM
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I've never denied this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 11:11 PM
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I have no idea who that is but just looked him up and yeah I'd go him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 10:50 PM
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Can't photo because I'm slow and forgot how to use the app but that guy from vikings. Gimme a man who can snap me in two thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 10:42 PM
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I mean if your into getting your ass beat then yeah do that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 10:32 PM
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Will do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:44 PM
1

Then Chad needs to pay for all those pussys he's destroyed. Why are women not embarrassed seeking power and avoiding responsibility simultaneously? Woman have a specific type of power and innate responsibility (shorter time frames and all). There's no bitching out and not have shit sorted before 30 without serious lifelong consiquences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:41 PM
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On behalf of all little girls, I'm sorry but your too short for this ride
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:33 PM
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I'll stick to attractive, middle/ upper middle white guys thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:29 PM
0

Something something victim points.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:05 PM
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I mean chaperones used to be a thing for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 09:01 PM
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No shit we prefer to date within our race. White men hit that intersect of money + looks and give us status. What else would we do? Date down? Lol no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 08:55 PM
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Everything is humor if you try hard enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 08:45 PM
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No one, I'm just sitting like this for.. reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 08:40 PM
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Am I wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 08:28 PM
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It doesn't matter what it means for the guy. People are selfish, she cares about her social standing among other females and the pool of men she actually wants to provide for her in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 08:27 PM
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They're missing a massive point about women then. Fuck a drug dealer = cool free drugs Date a drug dealer = pretty white girl lowers her social standing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 08:19 PM
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Being incel is a real thing Yes, not getting laid because your absolutely useless to women is a real thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/19 08:06 PM
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Yes, a simple "thank you for offering, but I would prefer to meet you there" tells him exactly how you feel. His response will show his character, a good man will appreciate a woman who doesn't put herself in a (potentially) bad situation.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/19 01:57 AM
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Damn, I must have been skipped that lesson. Oh well better go back to being an idiot teenager.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 12:36 AM
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Anyone who doesn't have solid long term goals is wasting their time, but the goals of women and men should be different yet compatible. The difference reflects the fact that we have a different focus in life. Either that or you're just not around women who have their head screwed on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/19 12:15 AM
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The question remains the same even if you change the age. Men of value have options, he isn't going to settle for you if he can have someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 11:28 PM
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You're right but I don't think 17-22 year olds for the most part are even capable of commitment, at least not long term. Whereas women at that age used to be able to think about the long term, now they seem to only think in terms of months. I don't just mean in terms of relationships either, all their plans, goals etc. are max 12 months, at least from what I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 11:24 PM
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When I say be elsewhere I don't mean move, I mean be in the social settings the sort of men you want will be. I find it really hard to believe that there are just no men between 25 and 35 who are stable around you. Keep your expectations in check, if you aren't getting what you want then you're expecting something you can not realistically achieve. Either lower your standards or be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 01:22 PM
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If you are finding men who you want to be with but aren't getting anywhere; they are not interested in you, be better. If you can't find the men you want at all; you're in the wrong places, be elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 12:34 PM
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I know I'm a bit out of the loop now but since when was TRP about men marrying an 18 year old? Sleep with sure, but most 18 year olds are too immature to make a commitment and men know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 12:17 PM
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God no I would not give up being a woman for anything. I mean, I can literally grow a god damn human inside me. Yeah emotions can be intense sometimes but if you just learn how to deal with them they are pretty damn amazing. People are automatically nice to me just because I'm small and and female I get people so much more than any man I've ever met, women's brains are wired more socially if you learn how to use that there is so much you can learn about people. because of the above, it's easier …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/19 09:44 AM
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I mean you could just politely reject advances if your not interested, not that many men are predatory and if your in a public space you're most likely going to be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/19 12:39 AM
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Weight/ bmi is not a great indicator of health so if your saying you are underweight based on that you may need to concider if you have a smaller frame. If you haven't already I would reccomend seeing a personal trainer/ physio especially as you already know you have scoliosis, you don't want to do more damage when you start working out. If you are underweight then your best bet is to talk to a PT and a nutritionist as you'll probably need to up your caloric intake in line with the extra exersis…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/18 12:20 PM
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Brittany Pettibone is amazing, good values and absolutely gorgeous
/r/RedPillWives03/09/18 10:01 PM
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I second the discord suggestion, just because I know it's easy to use but I'd love to join no matter the platform. I've never used the reddit chat and I mostly use the reddit app on my phone but on the odd occasion I do use the new layout. I really don't have strong enough feelings regarding layout.
/r/RedPillWives15/08/18 11:45 AM
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I'll also add the charities that are actually on the ground helping people are more likely to take usable items that can go straight to those in need. Charity shops mostly resell donations to raise money for the cause so they reject anything that costs too much to resell (storage, time etc costs them). Animal shelters will take old blankets and towels and sometimes radios (they help the animals feel less lonely and anxious). Local churches usually have someone in the community they are helping o…
/r/RedPillWives27/07/18 02:01 AM
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As someone who did leave the workforce prior to marriage and then had the relationship end I can 100% agree with everything you've said here. My ex did support me for a while once the relationship had ended and made very sure I was well taken care of as I had left work for his benefit but I truely believe my case was one in a million and anyone who does this is extremely vulnerable.
/r/RedPillWives16/07/18 01:59 PM
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being domineering is more of a masculine energy, since it strives to influence the direction. Being warm and trusting is more of a feminine energy, so you could phrase it as "balancing out" her energies instead of outright saying she is being unattractive in her fundamental behavior. Also to describe how to attract a masculine man, in order to do so she should display more feminine energy as this is complementary to her desired mate's energy. This made me giggle but it would totally work on so m…
/r/RedPillWives27/06/18 05:26 AM
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I agree with this in a practical sence. Everyone should know how to take care of themselves regardless of gender. I do think I would raise children differently in the sence that boys and girls are innately capable of different things and are best to function in society baised off these innate differences. I can see how your situation impacted you but be cautious of going too far in the opposite direction. I feel like my upbringing was the opposite of yours, my father encouraged a lot of masculin…
/r/RedPillWives25/06/18 12:29 PM
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I will be more likely to directly challenge them or mock them because puffing up their chests as some do when trying to prove how alpha they are registers as lack of true confidence and poor leadership ability. I would venture to say these men are more playing alpha than they are men who truely have many alpha traits. Women are fairly adept at spotting "fake it 'till you make it" confidence.
/r/RedPillWives23/06/18 11:32 PM
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I used to lurk over there until I was told I was spending too much time reading about internet strangers opinions. I might check it out again if you are active over there, I miss your comments.
/r/RedPillWives23/06/18 03:54 PM
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Petticoats aren't necessarily supposed to be visable but can be used to contrast the dress especially if you want to play with different colours. However it should always run the length of the dress to avoid awkward drape.
/r/RedPillWives23/06/18 01:19 PM
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I'm HH too (and ENTJ!) I have the same problem with feeling like the more mentally strong one. Honestly I have moments where I start to lose hope and have to actively stop these thoughts. I think the best advice I've been given is to figure out what the type of man you want would do with his spare time and go there.
/r/RedPillWives23/06/18 09:50 AM
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I have to admire this girls mentally. Although it is possible to dress feminine and modestly while also looking a little more modern. I will add that in my experience once you dig a little deeper than "it's liberating to show off your skin" most women who dress or act provocatively will admit (to some extent) that they are doing it for either acceptance with the women around them or in order to gain validation.
/r/RedPillWives23/06/18 01:01 AM
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I'm most certainly not saying it's impossible, I have helped couples be able to live off one wage and have done so with my exfiance in order for him to set up his business without having to worry about housekeeping and cooking. I am however saying it is naieve to think being a housewife is going to in any way help solve problems like taxation (one of the things mentioned by op) or that there will never be issues relating to money if you just live simply.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/18 12:43 AM
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I agree it includes sacrifice, but I believe that these should not be underemphasised. Having helped couples find ways to afford living off one income as well as see families realise what they would be giving up, I can tell you how difficult those sacrifices can be. From the way this reads and some of your other posts it seems you feel the need to convince women that this lifestyle is okay. You don't! Plus it is not beneficial to women, it just creates more propaganda. To help women you can eith…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/18 03:43 AM
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I agree it is unrealistic if you live in a third world country or something like that. No it's actually not necessarily easier to live off one wage in a first world country. I live in Australia and have been doing this for years. I have two friends who also do the same thing and it is very possible. You just have to lower your financial standards. I wonder what exactly you mean by lowering financial standards. Minimal savings? Not buying a house? Little financial security? Government payments? A…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/18 07:31 PM
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Amazing! I will have a look :)
/r/RedPillWives19/06/18 12:16 PM
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I would just send him a message before the date saying you are looking forward to dinner and that you heard about a great ice cream place that you'd love to try with him. I understand not wanting to back out of a commitment you've made. Is your hesitation just not wanting to get yourself into an awkward situation if he is expecting more from you than you are willing to provide or is there something more you are worried about?
/r/RedPillWives19/06/18 12:12 PM
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I agree with u/tommyetw about tea/ dessert after dinner so you can end the night officially. I'll also add some things I do when dating. Always know how the date will end; how you will get home and roughly what time. This way you can make sure you get home safely and don't end up spending the night before you are ready (obviously this will change when in a committed relationship). On the above, I also let someone know where I am going and what time I will be home when it's a man I don't know qui…
/r/RedPillWives19/06/18 11:16 AM
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Congratulations on the pregnancy! I feel so much of what you said about working up from nothing, I've always been super skinny but I did mma up until I found out that I inherited some serious issues with my joints and was basically told to stop all exercise until it was safe (which turned out to be almost 2 years!). Going from super fit and toned to super skinny with no muscle was devastating. I'm still working on getting back to where I was, it's a tough process but totally worth it. It's great…
/r/RedPillWives19/06/18 10:34 AM
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I have no problem with a man asking me what I want for dinner if I haven't voiced my opinion already, or really asking my opinion on anything that effects me directly or if I may have knowledge about the subject. I however cannot sustain attraction to a man who needs someone to motervate him to do simple things like going to the gym or gets anxious when a homless person approaches them. Also given that my exfiance and I were together for more than 3 years (and had more than our fair share of cha…
/r/RedPillWives19/06/18 12:49 AM
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he earned his standing by showing me he was worthy of his place as the captain of our ship. Yes! This pretty much sums up RPWi attitude. It's so sad seeing women get given the "submit to any and all men" message, it's detrimental to women. Not every man is worthy of submission, and the man who is worthy is disrespected by submission to men who are not.
/r/RedPillWives18/06/18 05:58 AM
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I don't feel like I am in the position to give you advice but I can tell you from what you say here he seems to be attempting and failing to dread you. It seems like he is playing around with rp ideas the way that new single men do, I will leave you to make of that what you will. I wish you and your unborn child all the best.
/r/RedPillWives16/06/18 02:00 PM
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If he's not showing any interest he's probably not interested. Form what you mentioned she may be chacing after the wrong men. Encourage her to sit down and reflect on what she wants from a relationship and what sort of man she wants. From there she can start actually vetting men.
/r/RedPillWives15/06/18 04:21 AM
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personally in the anti-mainstream more conservative part of society I also get looked down upon. I'm sorry that you feel this sub and spaces like it look down on you for your lifestyle. I honestly don't think anyone should judge someone for choosing what's best for them or their family however that looks. I mean, I’ve seen the recent posts here, there were a couple just the last week in RPW, where women who want to be at home more are received negatively because they don’t have kids or even a hu…
/r/RedPillWives14/06/18 02:42 PM
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I have yet to meet a successful or respectable man who has the time (or wants to) spend a lot of time in gaming communities, if they game it's usually casual. I've actually met some fairly successful men through these groups, it's not their success that is the problem it's how strong willed/ capable of dealing with situations. They're not the sort of people who can control a room if they want/ need to, while I can, this sort of thing makes them seem weak or incapable in my eyes. instead of just …
/r/RedPillWives12/06/18 11:31 AM
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I do prefer men who are as a minimum a few years older, not that I would reject a man purely because he's closer to my age :) If you don't have hobbies that you're meeting eligible men through, you need to go find some! I know you are right on this, I just need to figure out what more dominant men do with their time! Would you consider online dating? Honestly I have a bit of disdain for online dating, although it's more from the idea of it in my head.
/r/RedPillWives12/06/18 11:11 AM
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I think you have your wires crossed :)
/r/RedPillWives12/06/18 06:40 AM
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Hi thank you for your responce. One of my friends observed that, in her experience, men's "settle down" switch seems to go off when they're around 30. So dating 24-25-year-olds (outside of select, conservative communities) might not be the best use of your time. I tend to prefer men who are a few years older than me and would be happy to date a man in his eairly to mid 30s. I can accept that a man my own age is probably not completely established so long as I can see he is capable and headed in …
/r/RedPillWives12/06/18 05:24 AM
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Hey :) I generally meet men through mutual friends or the gaming community. I don't really have many interests that would also appeal to men other than gaming and martial arts (which I can't participate in until an injury has fully healed). Would you have any suggestions on how to meet men that have more leadership qualities? I don't really want to get involved in online dating or anything like that.
/r/RedPillWives12/06/18 05:07 AM
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it sounds like you are meeting men and right away wondering whether they would be a good provider and protector. This is for sure something that I do, I suppose with the way last relationship ended I'm a little affraid of sinking time and energy into someone who is either not interested in marriage and kids or are not a good fit for this. You should be figuring out whether you get along, whether you share the same sense of humor, whether you have chemistry, etc etc. I do agree with this, and I h…
/r/RedPillWives12/06/18 04:49 AM
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Hey! thank you for your responce. I've read a fair bit if the relationship dynamics post and I feel like I'm probably high dominance and need a high domonance man. How old are the men that you're dating? I tend to go for men around 24 to 35. I can't really see myself dating a man younger than me as I don't really see many younger men who have the same level of maturity as me although I'd be open to dating a little older than that if he ticked all the boxes. Where are you meeting them? Generally …
/r/RedPillWives12/06/18 04:36 AM
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It's 5km over everywhere, at least everywhere I've been. The idea is if your spedo is out you're still covered by 5km. I honestly can't see to much harm in the speeding thing, but Aus is definitely a nanny state.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/17 08:46 AM
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I've detected a subtle shift in my husband since I stopped working outside. Like it means something to him that I trust him enough to be our only income. I could be in a seriously bad spot without him, having a sizeable gap in my work history now, and that's not lost on him. I've definitely noticed that going both ways! I haven't been out of the workforce for as long as you but I don't really have anyone to lean on if he decided to up and walk. On the same token he is investigating a lot in me b…
/r/RedPillWives18/02/17 08:36 AM
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Having somebody at home can be so helpful, people have more time to breathe, your SO can be treated like a king and pampered and everyone just has an easier time. Sometimes I think we just lose ourselves in the rush of life. That is for sure, especially if he has a high pressure job. Your outlook is wonderful, as long as you make decisions that are best for your family you are doing the right thing. Besides there is nothing stopping you from going back to your career later on, there are many man…
/r/RedPillWives18/02/17 07:19 AM
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It was planned, my SO and I both worked stressful jobs. He runs a bakery right now and often works 6 days a week, 12+ hours over night. I had a job in finance in a company that was demanding but no where near what he does. As you can guess with different working hours we hardly saw eachother for weeks at a time. So we made the decision for me to quit so I could get a break for a year or so and support him in his career. However my SO has passed the point where his life is essentially work, sleep…
/r/RedPillWives18/02/17 07:08 AM
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I think this responce is the worst thing I could have gotten. I was fully prepared for people to say that I was ruining my career, I'm 23 so it's not like I don't have time to go back to my career. The simple fact is not working helped my outlook and health and gave my SO the break of knowing everything was taken care of while he worked a crazy stressful job. It was a good opportunity for us and I have no doubt after we have kids we will go back to this.
/r/RedPillWives18/02/17 05:15 AM
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People always forget that the military puts people in positions they are likely to be capable of doing. Putting a bunch of 90lb 18 year old girls in the frount lines would be asking for defeat. I hope the world is never in that situation again but if my SO, my brothers, my father had to go to war I'm not letting them risk their lives while I sit at home hoping for the best. Anyone who would hope to sit around without doing something, anything to help doesn't deserve the safty that soldiers have …
/r/RedPillWives18/02/17 05:04 AM
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I'm currently looking to go back to work after 6 months at home taking care of everything for my man (shout out to anyone in Aus looking for someone to work in banking/ finance). The biggest criticism I got was people saying I was lazy or questioning if I was after a free ride. I can't say that didn't hurt but as long as my SO and I are happy that's all that matters. I would tell them the reasons and anyone who didn't accept it, I'd politely excuse myself. I did get a lot of questions from rando…
/r/RedPillWives18/02/17 04:40 AM
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Sorry I think I've spent too much time with my serious face on and that comment came across like I was being a bit intense? I largely agree with his points, women definitely need to show venerability in order to be attractive but having self-esteem and an inflated ego are two different things. I know he is intentionally trying to use language in order to shock, but come on call a spade a spade. While it is natural for a man to seek feminine companionship, it is a sign of damage for a man to seek…
/r/RedPillWives03/09/16 01:47 AM
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If anything, having a college degree is a strike against a girl—unless it’s in something real like a STEM discipline—as it shows that she’s a conformist who thinks that credentials are a substitute for knowledge and experience. I can see why some men would count a degree as a negative, the majority of women who use an arts degree to prove they are an authority on whatever unrelated topic. However this is really a symptom of a cruddy personality, having an education is not the cause. The same goe…
/r/RedPillWives03/09/16 12:43 AM
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I found RP the same way! It was near the end of the relationship and he thought it woud make me more open to casual dating (or casual sex really), by showing me the male perspective. After looking though I found RPW and started reading. Obviously the end result was not what my ex wanted.
/r/RedPillWives01/09/16 05:41 AM
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Okay I think here we can see better why you come off as bitchy. It's important not to take out your past pain on those who didn't inflict that pain on you especially when it comes to future relationships. u/PhantomDream09 linked you to a thread about vetting, I would recommend you read this if you haven't already. It will help you to prevent getting hurt in the future without scaring off men. I'd also recommend serching the posts on girl game, they are very good for self improvement. basically f…
/r/RedPillWives20/08/16 02:29 AM
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I can't speak for anyone but myself but in your original post you talk only about your appearance and ask how to find a good man, this always sets off alarm bells. You are very short with a lot of comments that you seem not to agree with and do not seem to take criticism with much grace. I may be wrong as it is difficult to display tone in text but it seems that you are attempting to talk down in some of your comments which would be a bad idea as many of the women here have what you want.
/r/RedPillWives19/08/16 01:52 PM
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No, a man will not feel emasculated just because a woman is better at a particular thing than him. There are areas that I am better than my fiancé, handling finances for one, he defiantly does not feel emasculated by that even though it is often seen as more of a masculine talent. This is because I do not belittle him or look down on him for not being as good at this as I am, and why would I expect him to be better at this than me, I've had extensive training in this area (study and work) and he…
/r/RedPillWives19/08/16 01:35 PM
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I want a man that is better than me and my "accomplishments" in every aspect. If you find a man who is better than you in every way possible, why would he choose to be with you and not a woman who is better than you?
/r/RedPillWives19/08/16 12:57 PM
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I don't go out to "the club" I don't go out drinking and thus don't really meet men. Most people you meet at a club will be people who are only interested in a one night stand or a fling. No one goes to a club to find a wife. My last relationship I felt like the Alpha The best way to get a man to lead is to follow. I know a lot of women who fight for control and then complain that their man is not enough of a leader, if your doing this you're making a loose loose situation for any potential rela…
/r/RedPillWives19/08/16 12:31 PM
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It's hard when you are young and people are pushing you to be and do something. I'm glad that now you have decided to persue the career you are better suited to.
/r/RedPillWives17/08/16 03:45 AM
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"you don't want to be just a secretary or a housewife." I hate hearing things like this, the world needs good secretaries, housewives, child carers, teachers etc. Not to mention many women are happiest and best suited to a mother/ nurturer role. One should never undermine the less prestigious or glamorous roles. A good secretary is going to do much more for the world than a bad doctor. My comment's all over the place but society right now just seems to be discouraging feminine personalities and …
/r/RedPillWives14/08/16 07:05 AM
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I'm sure there are more unbiased people to ask for dating advice, an older married woman such as your mother, aunt or a friend. The best advice comes from the people who have what you are seeking. Unless you want to be with a man exactly the same as your ex I wouldn't expect his advice to be useful, and even then you'd have to be extremely critical of it.
/r/RedPillWives10/08/16 02:47 AM
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Yes definitely, he is one of those people who cares more that you've formed an opinion based reserch than what your actual opinion is (although he will definitely argue his point). He can't stand people who don't think critically and I doubt a woman who couldn't debate or think for herself could deal with him. I think a lot of intelligent men want a woman who is intellectually capable, leading to the myth that men will date a woman for her degree. I believe that many women also misinterpret this…
/r/RedPillWives10/08/16 02:15 AM
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In fact I would argue inherently it should be positive, to improve one's mind as we improve ourselves in other ways. 100% agree with this, a women who is smart enough to hold a conversation can be a good thing for a man. My fiancé says often that he loves the fact that I'm working towards getting my degree, but honestly he couldn't care less if he was with a woman who didn't get any further than high school as long as she wasn't a dits. He likes that I'm getting an education because it's somethi…
/r/RedPillWives10/08/16 12:18 AM
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I live in a country where you can defer higher education debts, but they are by no means cheap and you do have to pay eventually. If I was to go the route of formal education it would only pay off if I was to complete a degree in full. That said part-time study is an option here, which would give me the time to take care of the man but would also take longer to complete a degree.
/r/RedPillWives22/06/16 04:28 AM
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It's funny I walked past my craft room and saw the pile of projects I have yet to finish. So maybe I was a bit quick to say bordom would be a problem. I think my need for social interaction could be satisfied with a craft or sewing group and calls to my mum in the short term. Relationship status: I'm a little confused by your comment. If he's committed and you feel secure, and this is temporary, what is the problem? After thinking about it my feeling of insecurity probably comes from only having…
/r/RedPillWives21/06/16 11:25 AM
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Thanks for your comment, there is a lot in here so I wanted to put off replying until I had time to do so properly. The first two you mentioned make my husband much calmer and relaxed (sex is a solid stress reducer). He loves the fact that he can solely focus on his job and his hobbies without having to think about what supper to make or which clothes need to be washed. I think this would be the biggest benefit if we do go down this path. I can definitely see us both being more relaxed if I quit…
/r/RedPillWives21/06/16 10:53 AM
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Personally, if I were you I'd take this time to go back to school. That way, you will have an automatic social outlet and a sense of purpose. I think this is what I am leaning towards right now as we had planned for me to study after a few years, so we could just bring this forward.
/r/RedPillWives21/06/16 04:14 AM
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We have been engaged one year together two before that. We have not set a date yet but OH has said that at most it will only be another year. I think not having a date is making me feel less secure.
/r/RedPillWives21/06/16 04:10 AM
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I think it would be harder to face the added expense of a child and the loss of an income at the same time. I've never thought of it like this, thank you. Something we will need to consider.
/r/RedPillWives20/06/16 10:36 PM
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Let's also say she cannot really improve her appearance further, short of plastic surgery. She's already thin, just not a great face. Being attractive isn't just about being thin. Do you dress to show off your assets? Do you always have nice hair and makeup on (I'm not saying cake it on, but it does show that you've made an effort)? Do you have curves or are you just stick thin? Your looks will attract a man, so invest in a good wordrobe, work out (there are even workouts to enhance curves, it w…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/16 02:06 AM
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For a while after, I thought I could be anti-feminist while at the same time using game as a defense against guys who were trying to game me. Girl game is very different from a mans game. We have different objectives. If you want to learn more about girl game start by reading through the sidebar and serch in this sub, there have been quite a few posts on girl game. What to do when a guy recognizes that you are marriage material but tries to reduce you to FWB If he is doing this he doesn't think …
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/16 01:12 PM
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The real problem is the military life, the culture of military wives, and the inherent difficulties of being away from your spouse for long periods of time. I'm not American and I don't know much about the American military culture. But where I live there is a large mining industry and the same thing happens as in this story, women cheat and blame their husbands for away regularly. Avoiding men in jobs that require him to be away is not the answer, having respect and loyalty is how you avoid che…
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/16 12:31 AM
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You are definitely right, the best way to find out if I am on the wrong track is if I mess up. Posting can only help, so I intend to do so more often. Thank you Mrs Stingray :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/16 01:44 PM
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There isn't really a particular theory I feel I need help with, obviously there is always room for improvement and it's great to have little reminders of things pop up. I think I feel a bit stuck because when I first started reading all the comments were new and exciting, it was great to finally be able to hear advice from women who actually know how to make relationships work and shared my values. After being here for 3 years I still feel like I need to listen to ladies more experienced than my…
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/16 12:48 PM
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This was never an issue, you said yourself that he was not bothered. Women can be catty, especially in the workplace, of he was single he would be getting flack about being a "player" (regardless of his actions). It's likely he told you about this so that you don't don't find out later and think there is a problem. Tell him they are probably jealous they don't have a sexy man of their own and drop it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/16 10:49 AM
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I think they just like to claim they are an hour glass shape because deep down they know overweight isn't attractive, but at the same time don't have the self control to put down the cake and get to the gym.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/16 10:28 AM
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Men liking curves means there should be several of them (like in an hour glass), not just one like in an apple. People delude themself into thinking that an hour glass shape is only achieved when a woman is overweight. No one seems to accept that a woman can have a perfect hour glass shape and be 100 lb or less. And was that just my phone screen or is white font on a light grey background not the greatest choice? Dear god, that was driving me crazy.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/16 09:41 AM
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You definitely bring a lot to this sub
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/16 06:41 AM
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Not to put pressure on you but I've been waiting for a part 2 for that post! I really wish we had a lot more theory posts like this.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/16 05:12 AM
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It's very interesting when I hear people talk about separate bedrooms, mainly because I couldn't do it. My fiancé runs a bakery so he is up at all hours of the night, while I work 9 to 5. Although he doesn't like to talk about it he has mentioned he doesn't like going to sleep before me, and if he goes to work before my bed time I have a lot of trouble sleeping (noises sound a lot more creepy when he is not laying next to me). For us being able to have some cuddles in bed is well worth the risk …
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/16 11:09 AM
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My work has been crazy lately as my responsibilities have increased. Thankfully I have a wonderful friend at work who is helping me out until my boss gets back and we can reassess the more menial tasks that are taking up sooo much of my time. My man has seen the amount of stress work has been causing me and has picked up a lot of the slack at home - I am absolutely greatful for this but I can't help feeling guilty when I come home and my jobs around the house have been taken care of. My goals fo…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/16 12:22 PM
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You may look 23, you may get told you look 23. Honestly saying that doesn't make any difference to the advice you will get here. You are over 30, time is not on your side. I believe I can bring a hell of a lot to the table. You need to assess if what you have is enough for a man to commit to you. You are comparing every man to the illusion of your ex. No man will measure up to some perfect idea of a man you once dated (no not even your ex). And I'm yet to meet a man who would be happy to marry a…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/16 03:39 AM
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You are 31, don't give us that I look 23 shit. The wall in comming for you and your looks are fading. I'd bet your SO can get a girl who is 23 and actually wants to be with him, but you act like you are doing him a favor by being with him? Let him be with someone who does want him. You've been alpha windowed by this LOML guy. If you want any chance at a relationship you need to get over him and be realistic about your options. You know you can't have the perfect man but you don't seem to have in…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/16 12:25 AM
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Guests are temporary, A is not and I don't want to treat him like he is. I agree with what you said. The analogy might be a nice reminder to some people, but I really feel that taking a few seconds to remember gratitude toward my mr is going to get rid of any angry feelings.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/16 09:47 AM
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The answer to this really depends on your relationship with your sister. If I were in your situation I'd have said something as soon as I saw her behavior but my sister and I can say anything to eachother and any anger will last at most a day before an embarrassed apology. That said I know many people who could cause more problems by speaking up in this situation. It all really depends on if you think your sister will listen to you.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/16 04:26 PM
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At whatever age she is in a committed long term relationship with a man who she can seriously see herself with for the rest of her life. For my sister-in-law that was 15 (she's now 26 an has only been with her husband), for others it may not be until their 20's. But at the end of the day the exact age isn't so much as important as the criteria a woman has for her sexual partners.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/16 01:20 PM
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The good: Less than 2 weeks now until we move into our new place! Most of the planning has been passed onto me as Mr is in the middle of a busy season at work (poor planning on our part I know). I feel I'm doing quite well with this and have made up a file with all the info so he doesn't have to chase me down if he wants to know anything or change any plans I've made. I'm super excited to have more space and glad we will finally have enough space for him to have a mancave :D The bad: I was stres…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/16 10:56 AM
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Personally I loved it when my sister took the baby for an hour or two so I could do all the mundane shit myself. It made me feel normal lol On the same tangent, you could offer to take bub so mum and dad can have a little time together. I don't have children myself (yet) but I know a few parents who have forgotten about their time together when the baby came along and struggle to reconnect when they realise the relationship is suffering.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 11:58 AM
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The account is one day old, could be a troll.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 06:53 AM
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I trust my partner. I hate when people say this regarding contraseption. I'd trust my man with my life, that doesn't mean he has control over whether I get pregnant (I'm assuming you've only slept with your current partner and he is faithful, so STIs are not a problem). To your question, I can't tell you what will and will not work for you but there are a few things you should keep in mind. First there are a lot of different forms of contraseption, you're not limited to the pill or condoms. Do s…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 12:23 AM
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Eh, still... The point I was trying to make was that this guy you'd jump in bed with because he's so attractive may become a jerk in the morning. And just trying to stay away from obvious jerks/overly attractive guys that you know you can't control yourself around isn't enough to protect yourself from Chad. No matter how attractive he is or how much he gets your motor running, a high value woman doesn't jump into bed without a commitment. That is really the only way of protecting yourself from b…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/16 07:19 AM
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I read the 6 Things You Might Not Know About Matriarchal Marriage post... funny how it's seems a great idea not to allow men to own property or inherent money, but if someone suggested the same for women there would be an endless shit storm.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/16 09:57 AM
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I was waiting for someone to say this. There is no one day to tell someone you love them, it's something to prove every day for the rest of your life.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 01:00 PM
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The Good; The past few weeks have been a bit of challenge with an overloaded work schedule. This past week I set myself the challenge to put work away once I get home and focous on the house and my man, I'm happy to say that I have been able to keep on top of most of the cleaning and spend time with my man without stressing him out by running off the lists of things I still feel I need to accomplish. The Bad and The Ugly; To cut a long story short my brother-in-laws little brother was trying to …
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 06:53 AM
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Interesting post, I'm waiting to see a follow up on how you would rank dominance. Trying to put my finger on my own level of dominance is making my head hurt. My fiancé I'd say is a bit more straightforward and I'd put him down as high dominance - it makes me think as women often can be more flexible with their level of dominance, it would be more difficult to rank dominance for women?
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/16 04:56 AM
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Do you have a realistic household budget? And do both know were the money is suppose to go? Did he mess up or did the two of you not have a working system. Your husband may be the one in charge of the finances but if he doesn't know how much you're spending on groceries or personal care no budget will work. It would also be a benefit for you to at least have a rough idea of how much things cost, that way you can take the rains if his attention needs to be elsewhere. Most missing money goes into …
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/16 02:53 AM
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That stuck feeling, the loss of passion can be a symptom of depression, is there a chance that you're expecting too much too fast? I think the best suggestion would be to talk about this with a counselor, especially if you are still seeing the same one that saw you through the most of your recovery, they will have a better idea of where you are at and what a realistic expectation is. Other than that you could always look into the things your friends, family and SO are passionate about. Who knows…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 10:54 AM
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You can put together a nice slow cooker meal, I do this for my man and all he has to do is grab a plate and eat. A hot meal, a beer and a comfortable chair is better to a man than having to run about doing things. You could also put together a basket of snack foods /drinks he likes. You don't want him going hungry or having to run to the store.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/15 12:23 PM
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Thanks, I've always been too affraid to try making hollandaise
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/15 08:21 AM
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I'm also not married yet, my man and I got engaged a year and a half ago and have not yet set a date because we both feel so strongly about divorce. I originally brought up it up because I want to be 100% sure that we were on the same page. I have no doubt that we will get married and stay that way but out of respect for eachother and our families we agreed to check off a few things (such as seeking councilling from an older married couple, living together beforehand, getting our parents blessin…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 01:03 PM
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I just wanted to add the flip side to what u/freebumblebee said about using lube, if you are getting weird reactions like burning or tingling you could be allergic to some of the ingredients. Also along the lines of what some other ladies were saying, sex for women is mostly mindset. So communicate to your husband what turns you on and be sure to make time to relax when you're going to be intimate.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 12:37 PM
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I suppose it could mostly be avoided by using low fat sausage, I know the butcher I use does really good low fat meats with almost no preservatives - only thing is it has to be used straight away or frozen.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 11:35 AM
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If they made potato milk I'd have to try it just out of curiosity lol. I have to admit the milk craze does make everything seem a bit more exotic
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 11:31 AM
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I looked through this at work, it makes my lunch look a bit sad.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 09:15 AM
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Wow I've never thought of using meat as a crust for a quiche.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 03:48 AM
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That actually sounds amazing! my man is on a bit of a health kik right now so your parfait would be great. Might try it with rice milk though seeing as that is his newest food of the week
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/15 11:29 AM
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If theres a place nearby that delivers soup that would be good, it's not home made but it will still mean he doesn't have to make dinner. You could also look into sending a care package with a cute note, some herbal tea and a hot water bottle. Nothing you can do will be as good as being physically around but you can send him a reminder to take care of himself and let him know you care.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/15 12:01 PM
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I find many of my coworkers assume a negative response is normal "it's such a horrible rainy day, don't we all get so miserable and sluggish on days like this". It's hard to respond by saying I love to to watch a storm. Even if it's not said outright it's often implied that the negative response is natural.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/15 11:46 AM
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