Laaulapaau Archive

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0	Strange study. Apparently married men who don’t help out with the housework tend to bring home bigger paychecks than husbands who play a bigger role on the domestic chores front. So if you tend to work longer hours at work you tend not to want to work at home. Hmmmmm. Yeah but women who clean up after men, feed them, do their laundry, etc eventually will lose all sexual attraction. So what about that aspect?	/r/MensRights	22/07/21 06:22 AM
3	A Public Service Announcement: Getting off is good for you. Yes. Over the past decade I have had women confide in me several dozen times, so much do that it’s led me to do my own research. Check out www.fightthenewdrug.com, plenty of data there as well, I also recommend a book called “your brain on porn” by Gary wilson Researchers have a very difficult time finding focus groups because virtually all men are using it. Alsp mens sperm count has dropped by 70% in 2 generations. Men need to stop lying to themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/21 09:15 PM
-1	A Public Service Announcement: Getting off is good for you. What do you really know about crystals and essential oils? Do you have any experience with them, have you done any research or are you, like most privileged white American men, mocking something for the sole reason you don’t know anything about it and this hurts your feelings?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/21 08:05 PM
4	A Public Service Announcement: Getting off is good for you. Who is the “we” that sees no evidence. It’s happening. Younger and younger men can’t get it up. I’ve managed large teams of women ages 20-35 in six states. It’s real, I assure you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/21 08:03 PM
13	“Can’t make a wife out of a ho*” and more bullshit This is all so true, in addition to this page, which has taught me so much, I also learn a lot from the sex worker Reddit forums. They often screenshot their conversations with men and it’s quite illuminating. Nobody sees the unvarnished truth of men’s basest desires more than prostitutes. I’m having a strange experience where TONS of the women that I have known throughout the years (I’m 33 and have lived in six different states for my work, so lots of acquaintances/Facebook friends, people I ki…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/07/21 06:34 PM
16	🚨Vetting Strategy: Watch how a man drives I had two partners who would use the car as their primary area of abuse. The neighbors couldn’t hear him screaming, whereas they could in the house. Both of them borderline refused to let me drive (red flag, but they covered it by teasing me about my driving so that it was just easier to always be the passenger) And both of them, when I’d insist on driving, at one time yanked the steering wheel from my grip to scare me. One of them punched out the radio as well, both of them would drive erratica…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/06/21 05:37 AM
3	What other podcasts besides from FDS nurture you? I find that the most popular ones are conducted by males, gets tiring after a while. Death, sex, and money. Hosted by a badass woman, Anna Sale. About all the hard topics; she did a two-parter on porn a few seasons ago. I also love npr’s planet money.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/06/21 05:11 AM
251	That’s what actual “Traditional” means. I think people tend to forget that. The fact remains that he is building a career, she isnt, so he holds virtually all of the earning power. He could revoke her access to his paychecks at any time. I had this arrangement for awhile and I found it to be pretty toxic tbh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/21 03:32 AM
3	The difference between a real HVM and a fake one- how they treat you at the end. Screenshots! Please entertain us.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/21 07:26 PM
10	Popular Canadian brand targeting teens suggesting a prostitution site in their advertising email headline. Has pandering to the patriarchy gone too far? I find Madewell to have nice stuff for young women, I like Athleta as well. They’re pricier than the typical fast fashion brands but you can find lightly used pieces on poshmark.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/21 07:14 PM
23	Popular Canadian brand targeting teens suggesting a prostitution site in their advertising email headline. Has pandering to the patriarchy gone too far? I’ve been noticing this too. Like go look at Kim Kardashians SKIMS website. Very porn-y. I live in Hawaii and when you look at old advertisements they are alllll about island women being posed in such a way as to appear sexually available. Marketing hula dancers to white men and getting them to take their families on vacation here was essentially the beginning of sexual tourism in the US.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/05/21 07:12 PM
57	DO NOT fall for a man claiming to be "traditional". My mom, aunts, and all 3 sisters are right wing Christian women and this book helped me a lot with finding compassion for them instead of anger and resentment. Highly recommend to anyone raised in strict gender roles.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/21 08:30 PM
10	Done with my LV boss Next time, record him yelling and being an ass. In general, ladies, record all meetings that you think might turn sketchy. Email yourself every single time something weird or unethical happens at work. That way you’ll have a time-stamped record that will hold up in court if necessary. Sometimes it is best to manipulate a situation so that you get yourself fired rather than quit- it will be easier to get unemployment, (which you usually cannot get if you quit) and with a backlog of info you’ll ha…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/21 03:45 PM
77	Nah you can be mean to men and still find a HVM who gets why you're mean lol This is true. A few months ago i took a very part time job with a real estate broker to learn more about it since I’m planning on buying a home soon. We’re talking, the agreement was, 5-10 hours per week, specifically updating documentation and some graphic design work. He’s 55 (I’m 33) and his firm sells $50m per year. He is way richer than I am, but I also didn’t need the part time job, my business supports me but I wanted to earn some travel $ and learn about the process of buying a house. We…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/21 09:50 PM
16	There is a steep and rapid decline in US birth rates. The media is placing the blame on the pandemic but I’m just over here like, “Have you seen these men out here lately?” What do you mean by push present? I mean, I know what one is, but what specifically would you like and do you have any thoughts about how you’d negotiate that? Where I live, a solid gold bangle is common, and has been for centuries.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/21 05:00 AM
63	Is Bill Gates LVM? If he was focused on justice and equality, on better health outcomes, like he claims to be, his own wealth and power would become less meaningful and he doesn’t want that. The ways that he invests and funds research and tech all serve to keep the triangular structure of white male patriarchy. He’s basically funding research to manipulate humanity and it’s fucking gross. I’m glad Melinda left him, I’m certain it’s because she couldn’t stomach his megalomania and lies any longer.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/05/21 07:39 PM
2	I'm leaving my unfulfilling relationship and couldn't be more excited. Thank you all. Yes. My ex did this with food, strangely. If I’d make the kind of stuff he wanted (high fat, lots of meat) he’d give me lots of compliments and be happy all night. If I cooked the way I wanted to be eating (gluten free vegetarian) he’d be grumbly and make little comments and then sometimes just straight up order a pizza. We were trying to save money, so $40 on a pizza when I had already spent the time and money to make food was really frustrating. In essence jt just trained me to do what he want…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/03/21 05:32 AM
7	Learning how to not gaf about pleasing men I came to these realizations about 8 years ago; when I was 25, so about the age you are now. I had just moved to Southern California by myself, didn’t have a car, so i walked or used public transit alone for the first time. And I realized, like you are, that I was essentially a fresh piece of meat, that men would constantly undress me with their eyes and not be subtle at all about it. And I noticed them doing it to all young women everywhere. It was really disconcerting and I was scared and I sp…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/03/21 08:09 PM
1	What are your thoughts on being married to a man who works seasonally and is away several months a year? My partner and I used to live on separate islands, a 20 min flight away and we did thurs-Sunday for 1 year before he moved into my home on my island. I had been married before and don’t have much interest in it but I did want to cohabit again. And surprise! 1.5 years later especially given how much we have been inside together throughout the pandemic, we miss that a lot! He is leaving tomorrow for 12 days back on his original island and I’ll have the house to myself. Later this summer I’ll leave…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/21 11:42 PM