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| 1 | Q4Women: How exactly are men supposed to improve themselves even further?“no bj?” i’ve never understood people who refuse oral sex. i mean it’s one thing if you’re saving it for your spouse or something, but besides that i don’t get it. i have to wonder if that was just a shit test. I don't think so. It's the upbringing model (deep Christian). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 11:18 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: How exactly are men supposed to improve themselves even further?It would be great if women did have built-in lie detectors, but existence of pump n' dumping means that's not the case. Lol, the thing is that they don't want to use it :D Once she's horny, all rules go out of the window. I think you need to re-read it. Pre-mature vetting just doesn't work for men. Vetting doesn't have to mean waiting for sex. It means sussing out red flags you want to avoid in that relationship. Yep. It's just the best way is to pretend to be fuckboy and then she will open more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: How exactly are men supposed to improve themselves even further?if you don’t mind, can you give an example? It's generally no simping attitude. We have a funny banter. I am throwing sex-jokes a lot. I say stuff like 'you have beautiful eyes, second only to your boobs'. This is mild. There is also more darker side, like when she said 'what would you do when i am not attracted to you anymore?', my reply was 'there will be next pussy'. I take care of her and her needs, but I have mine. guys like to play stupid games too. That's too :) However, in our 20-ies, we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 10:03 AM |
| 2 | is the pandemic making men on dating apps more sexually aggressive?Wannabe players. Very uncalibrated guys, but it's light years above the usual nerd. Wifey told me that most of her dates were aggressive. Sorry, girls. This is what happens when your girlfriends demonstrate over and over that being Chad gets you laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 04:07 PM |
| 2 | is the pandemic making men on dating apps more sexually aggressive?It changed here too over the last decade. Brits are sexually agressive too now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: How exactly are men supposed to improve themselves even further?Either your supposed lady has seen through you and you don't have all the control you think you do, I think we both gamed each other successfully :) I am pretty decent guy, you know. I got hot & sane wifey, she got commited man and a good provider. or your relationship is built upon the lie that you care about her far more than you actually do. One of the things you hear in PUA over and over again is to not to lie. Women have in-built lie detector and manipulation is not that effective. So a rou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: How exactly are men supposed to improve themselves even further?I am very sorry then. I edited the above post. I suggest to keep up your virginity card. Call it whatever you want, but many many men will value that. I never aimed at virgin, but I have to confess I subsciously see wifey as more valuable because she was a virgin. I caught myself a few times on that already. Btw, when we dated I initially thought she is delaying our intimacy and I got pissed (because I thought she is yet another 'oh, I am so good girl' ex-slut). She explained she's a virgin, so … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: How exactly are men supposed to improve themselves even further?Hey, I am not attacking you here at all. I am very glad you can see both perspectives. I didn't grow up in the West and my first encounter with modern dating culture was a shock. I came to London, tried my 'old-fashion' dating tactics and found out that ex had sugar daddies. I took her back and found another sugar daddy after a few months. It changed me - that shy nerd died forever. I needed to adapt and PUA was the way. I never liked those tactics, but they are effective. Once I got a grip, it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Sluts aren’t bad people they are just poor choices for traditional monogamous relationships.In other words, they still haven't actually been "checked" on a cultural level... they still have that mentality possibly decades later, and after they've piled up a mountain of baggage.... and society STILL doesn't tell them they're a liability, and instead it props them up as "strong and independant" blah blah blah. yes. Otherwise, yeah... My experience has been similar to yours... though I avoided the marriage quagmire. I didn't plan to marry, but I met that 1% unicorn: hot, sane & smart. Dam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 09:38 AM |
| 1 | What are the factors that create exceptions for dating women with over 10 partners?So you fucked around. Therefore you're not to be trusted in marriage. What a fucking hypocrite 😂 I would not date myself. But women value different traits, for example, I outearn wifey 7x, but I don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 09:37 AM |
| 3 | Q4Women: How exactly are men supposed to improve themselves even further?yes i understand that. although i think it's poor to judge solely on the past if the person is showing you a changed version of themselves, i guess you never really know and it can feel hurtful so i can see from the male perspective here (even though to us, marriage/ltr material means we love everything about you, not hook-up material). How do I know a girl really changed? I am not a mind reader and people lie to get what they want. Especially if you are attractive and seen as a prize. Formerly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 09:28 AM |
| 7 | Q4Women: How exactly are men supposed to improve themselves even further?... and yet I got myself into one. This way allows you to have control. You have options and you get laid like fuckboy, then you can decide if it's worth to demonstrate other qualities in order to keep her. It's much easier to flip fuck-buddies into relationship, than to start a relationship from scratch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: How exactly are men supposed to improve themselves even further?Girls dont care about iq lol They actually do if you demonstrate it as something valuable. Initially make jokes of her all the time. Later in relationship, a high IQ is what provides resources. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 09:20 AM |
| 3 | Q4Women: How exactly are men supposed to improve themselves even further?by partially, what do you mean? do you mean you still use things like dread or other pua tactics? It's natural for me now - I internalised this attitude. Her family noticed, but mum says 'thanks God you are with us' and her brothers like me. i think it’s good to maintain your looks in your relationship, but i’d think that you wouldn’t need to use those tactics if you’re married to a decent woman. I needed those tactics to get her. I don't need that much game now, but I always keep it live. It's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 09:18 AM |
| 4 | Q4Women: How exactly are men supposed to improve themselves even further?My tactic was to get girls as a player and only then (once we are fucking and fucking is good) to demonstrate good boyfriends qualities (if she's relationship-worthy). It worked pretty much every single time once I got the balance right. In other words - I am nice man in the core, but I learned how to pretend to be a fuckboy. Aside from being confident as fuck and having lots of casual sex experience, being pretty good at boxing and grappling, I also have a number of published scientific papers,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: How exactly are men supposed to improve themselves even further?high iq. High IQ is a weird one. It's attractive, but it can work very much against you if you don't play it right. Being a nerd is not attractive. But being confident, muscular, well-dressed and funny nerd is much powerful than any alpha-Chad can ever dream off. It took me a while to understand the mechanics behind pickup, but once I got it (thanks to high IQ), I could outbang Chads on quality continously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: How exactly are men supposed to improve themselves even further?would you describe your wife as a “hv” woman? Definitely! She's damn hot (genuine nine when I met her, model career, fit) and sane at the same time. Otherwise - a true unicorn. Damn stubborn too :P and do you still apply these things in your marriage? Partially. I don't need to go hard on her, because she a good woman to the core. However, she knows I have other options if needed. I got her from a street approach and she initially was testing waters how much she can push me. She shit tested me a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 10:07 PM |
| 4 | Q4Women: How exactly are men supposed to improve themselves even further?It did help me. I was a good boy who was not getting laid. Once I flipped and started pretending to be bad boy (or maybe actually being one) - I slayed pussy left and right. Then I found wifey and my playboy career was cut short. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: How exactly are men supposed to improve themselves even further?Lol, thanks :) corrected | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 05:41 PM |
| 9 | Q4Women: How exactly are men supposed to improve themselves even further?Mix the above with dark game: Get good at pickup and cold-approaches (or club-approaches if that's your thing) Be confident as fuck (this is the most important) Start making fun of girls Fuck as many sluts as possible but don't date them Don't tell others about fucking sluts (you will scare other sluts) Go for a early 20-ies girls (easier to impress and no baggage) Stop caring about them afterwards Have options and many many exes (but don't talk or show in their faces!) Stop caring about your bo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Men who don’t value friendships with women also don’t value relationships. They just want sex.Sure, shift-blame even more. Please continue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 04:27 PM |
| -2 | Men who don’t value friendships with women also don’t value relationships. They just want sex.That, and because a female "friendship" offers me no value. She's not doing anything for me. She's not helping me, doing shit for me or with me, or sharpening me. She's just.... talking. At the same time, she demands that I give of myself - time, money, attention, resources. No. I'm not getting anything back for it. THIS. Exactly this. Women primarly are looking for utility in men, i.e. what men can do for them? More mature man will be more assertive and comfortable of saying 'no' - this is the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 02:10 PM |
| 0 | Sluts aren’t bad people they are just poor choices for traditional monogamous relationships.So in other words, you DO want monogamous relationships, because as you say, "that's what's best for both parties". This concept is the only reason civilized society exists. Monogamous Pair-bonded social structures (such as marriage) are meant to check both sexes' basic instincts (i.e. hypergamy in females, polygany/dominance-instinct in males) in order to provide an environment where society can actually flourish and advance instead of constantly living in a stagnated, struggling-just-to-surviv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: What do you think of this quote about opposite sex friendships?Sounds wimpish. OK, dude. I think you are into bashing and I am out of energy. See yaa next time. Take care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: What do you think of this quote about opposite sex friendships?Sounds like you need more spine to call em out on their bullshit. I don't need to scream loud about it. Just saying I am busy works too. But it's a slow process. The phenomenon happens a lot, i.e. women will test you all the time for a free stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: What do you think of this quote about opposite sex friendships?I am quite handy with things like DIY, photos, computers, etc. That creates a dynamics where I am seeing as being 'useful'. The few instances I asked women for help (i.e. proofreading, writing, etc.) the usual reply was they were busy or postponed it endlessly. It is like it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 07:37 PM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] How big of a factor does location play in dating/romantic success?Big cities are the worst because many girls get attention from many guys. It's hard do date and girls are very flakey, because there is always the next dude who asks her out. London (UK), Toronto (Canada), Sydney (Australia), etc. - those are worst cities to get laid unless you are dark/tall/handsome. Girls are entitled and disrespect men. In smaller European cities I was able to get laid the same day or day afterwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: What do you think of this quote about opposite sex friendships?I do help my friends, just not the people who don't give anything back. Friendship is two-way street. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Is Kevin Samuels the top redpill creator today?He is selling his consultancy services for women, that's his marketing. However, if you listen to his podcasts, his callers are often very fighty and want to debate / argue. It really pisses him off, i.e. 'you are calling because you have a problem, and now you want to debate that your ways are right?'. I hate that too and there is lots of that on this sub. But then try to go to /r/relationships or /r/relationship_advice and it's like 99% bashing men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 02:29 PM |
| 1 | What are the factors that create exceptions for dating women with over 10 partners?OK, let me re-phrase it - it will take her longer to open sexually (i.e. to give a BJ, let me go down on her, etc). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 02:27 PM |
| 2 | What are the factors that create exceptions for dating women with over 10 partners?THIS. This is exactly how good girls behave. They care about their reputation. Wifey saw lots of men: super-handsome, rich, charismatic, etc. But she never used opportunity for 'once-a-lifetime-fuck', because she doesn't see it as an achievement. She wanted a full-package. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 02:20 PM |
| 1 | What are the factors that create exceptions for dating women with over 10 partners?Low-n women are a bit harder to date and usually not sexually open. If you want just fucking, sluts is were the gold lies. Just make sure you place an expiration date on that relationship. If you are aiming for LTR, then low-n is a must. You will spend like a year or two on training her, but it's worth in logn term. If you are aiming for marriage, then low-in is abso-fucking-lutly mandatory. The emotional and monetary costs of divorce are just horrible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: What do you think of this quote about opposite sex friendships?From my experiences being a friend for woman means I do I lots of stuff for her, i.e. I was always of certain utility for her. It's generally a bad deal for men because many girls are just entitled. Only now, when I matured I have some female friends, but they still think how they can use me (DIY, etc.). It's just I am better at telling them 'no'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 11:30 AM |
| 5 | Sluts aren’t bad people they are just poor choices for traditional monogamous relationships.Dude, it's not about wanting to have a monogamous relationship. We men are wired to seek sexual variety. Please stop pretending men want to commit to a single woman forever. I don't. However, I see the value of a monogamy in a long term stable relationship where we can have children. It's a good balance for both parties. However, I am pissed about girls first behaving like spoiled princess and sluts in their 20-ies, and then pretending 'she changed and it's a different person' and deserve the be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 10:56 AM |
| 3 | Sluts aren’t bad people they are just poor choices for traditional monogamous relationships.This is soooo true. Before I went pickup-artist route, I was willing to tolerate much more in a girl. Afterwards, when I had my options, low-n hot girl was a must. And I got what I wanted. My friends are the same. It's exactly that - previously I was willing to tolerate more due to fear of not finding anyone better. Aferwards, I knew I would get someone better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 10:45 AM |
| 2 | Sluts aren’t bad people they are just poor choices for traditional monogamous relationships.LOL :D what's this logic came from??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 10:21 AM |
| 4 | Sluts aren’t bad people they are just poor choices for traditional monogamous relationships.And? So what? The only ones who are impressed by the number of partners a guy has is other guys. Which is like a half of humanity :P Good enough for me. There are many reasons (evolutionary and logical) why guys don't like investing time and resources (so-called 'dating') in girls with high-n. Women seem not to care that much (as my marriage shows). Of course, you are free to ignore the above. Just please don't scream foul later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 09:31 AM |
| 9 | Sluts aren’t bad people they are just poor choices for traditional monogamous relationships.It's a different standard. Men have to work much harder to get sex. For women it's much easier (especially for younger girls). Society doesn't reward easy things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 09:09 AM |
| 13 | Sluts aren’t bad people they are just poor choices for traditional monogamous relationships.No one bitches about having sex with high-n woman. They are cool funny people that loves sex. However, they are risky deal for a relationship. The problems really start when a slut hears the above and gets upset. Then they are no longer those 'cool funny' people. There are both emotional as well as logical reasons not wanting to date promiscous girls: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/m4byra/what_are_the_factors_that_create_exceptions_for/gquepwo/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 09:08 AM |
| 1 | What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single?It sounds like you are just bitter bc they wouldn't have sex with you, and there is nothing wrong with them not doing that. You forgot to call me 'insecure', 'incel' and 'insecure'. LOL. I think we explored all our conversation options were explored. I don't have time for your bs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 09:37 PM |
| 1 | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?LOOOOOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 08:29 PM |
| 1 | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?...and still some stupid sucker will bang them. Compare that to a homeless drug-addicted men. No one cares about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 04:54 PM |
| 3 | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?This isn't value Someone will (i) date her (even if one drink) and (ii) fuck her. Possibly even make her pregnant. A bottom man has no chance for anything of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 04:27 PM |
| 3 | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?Literally all women have to do is be nice. And they don't seem to fucking understand this. I disagree. A hot entitled girl stil has value. Someone will take her because she's hot. Is that fair - no. I'm sure there is some dude who as long as she was hot before the accident, and likes her personality would wife her up. Yep, that's what I replied. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 04:26 PM |
| 5 | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?Yh, I am so sorry for her :( I mean - wifey has a couple of scars too. But somehow I don't see them because I am not projecting those scars into our future kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 04:18 PM |
| -2 | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?There is no such thing like a low-value girl before she is at least 30. Girl always have at least sex value. There will be always some guy for her, even if only for pump & dump. Maybe if we talk about some horribly deformed girl, but it's less than <1% of population. However, almost any female >40yo or a single mum is a low value (and they don't like it, check /r/FemaleDatingStrategy). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 03:57 PM |
| 1 | What double standard between men and women **should** exist?So yah you don't get to beat up people because they fucked with your emotions.. you cut them out of your life and move on. Are you saying that emotional abusers are to walk free, but physical abusers are not? Won't that result in emotionally weaker party being abused a lot more and, as such, performing more suicides? Such as: https://www.priorygroup.com/blog/why-are-suicides-so-high-amongst-men. We hold men to account for their actions by Police. Maybe it's also a time to hold women to account f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 02:31 PM |
| 3 | What double standard between men and women **should** exist?Your previous reply was something along the lines: 'men are more dangerous thus they should be watched more closly'. I am sorry, if that's not what you wanted to say. However, it sounds like it. This is BS. I have been used, cheated on and abused in relationships. It hurts me till this day and it's more permanent than a physical damage. Would you hold it against me if I go and beat up those stupid broads? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 11:44 AM |
| 7 | What double standard between men and women **should** exist?I'm gonna be way more concerned about severity and potential loss of life when a pit bull attacks a chihuahua. This is such a bs. It focuses only on physical damage. How about emotional damage that men receive from cheating wifes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 11:26 AM |
| 1 | What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single?That’s a lot of power one woman held and continues to hold over your life. It wasn't one women but a few who played me. Last cheating hoe was just the worst and set me into pickup-artist route. I am over them all, but I have my experiences and I learned my lessons, i.e. being 100% nice guy doesn't pay. A man needs an edge and options. Wifey is true unicorn and I don't think she will do anything shitty, but people change. I cannot stop her of reading all this 'you are better alone' feminist bs, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?I think we explored all conversation options here. You are just too fighty to take something on board and I am not going to stress myself, take care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Welp I don’t want a man who thinks like you. Can we please stop with insults? I am good as I am. Also, how old are you? And the man I am currently dating is not demanding sex after x dates. Its been 3 months now and we see each other weekly. I much prefer a man who respects me. And the fact that many men would marry women without having sex with them first pretty much proves that it’s not a “need” but a want. No one is arguing that a woman should never have sex with her man but waiting used to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 03:35 PM |
| 1 | What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single?I’ve seen plenty of married men insist on this, and they change their tune real quick That's possible. However, I was well prepared for this kind of life and I flipped only because I met a unicorn woman. At this moment I already had a soft-harem and I was working on adding more girls to it. Wife is once-per-few-years girl and that comes from a former pickup artist. Some don’t though. 🤷♀️ Those guys aren’t in our dating pool, they don’t exist romantically as far as we’re concerned. Why do I care… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 01:59 PM |
| 1 | What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single?I am married at this point of life. However, as almost-40yo male I would have absolutely no desire to met women my age. If I were still dating I would hit on late-20 and early-30 (maybe, if she's hot!). I am fit and I have good income - I should be able to date early-30 women till my mid-50-ies. After that age, I would prefer to stuff sugar babies or have sex with escorts. Sorry, but that's how things are. I got burned by Millenial women in my 20-ies and early 30-ies. Friends in my circles are p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 10:42 AM |
| 0 | What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single?I’m that age and live around a bunch of middle aged single women. Andi know plenty don’t live near me. Some of them complain about not being able to find a “good man”. I am Millenial man who had to deal with Millenial women whole my life. Eventually, after trying to date Western women in my 20-ies and early 30-ies, I married a foreign-born girl which respect me and we are in love. It wasn't a funny ride and I am pissed at Millenial women. I don't care whatever they are able to find a 'good man' … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?So you would have dumped your current wife for not having sex with you after a few dates even though she was a “half virgin”? Wow shows how much you love her. I love her very much, but I have my sexual needs to. If she wouldn't put out in time, I would walk away. You have to understand that we don't provide for women because of our good hearts. We want something back, and in my case it's sex and family / children. If you are upset by the above sentences, then it seems you need to learn a bit mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 09:54 AM |
| 2 | If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either.Alright, sorry for my reaction then. There are many people around that would argue even if it goes against relality :) Generally attractive people can get away with more, especially in dating context. It applies to both girls and guys, it just happened that only a few percent of men are considered to be visually attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/21 09:32 AM |
| 1 | If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either.Look, I am not really here to argue things I know are true. I am here to give my opinion which you mind consider or not (I don't care). I don't need to 'be always right'. I am married because I managed to develop traits and tactics which gave me the most chances of success. I was able to compensate for my shortcomings like my average height. I did a search on Google, and this is a first link that came out: https://www.boredpanda.com/social-experiment-guy-created-fake-tinder-profile-hot-model-pic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?You expect a virgin to have sex with you after “a bit more than three dates”?? I don’t know how old you are but I’m going to assume you’re out of high school and college any woman who stayed a virgin until after say 21 is probably doing so out of principle therefore to except sex after three dates is absurd. I am married to a semi-virgin (she did a bit kissing and petting, but no PIV before me). She waited till 26yo when she met me. Every other guy was told 'no sex before marriage'. I told her i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 10:19 PM |
| 1 | If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either.As a woman I can safely say that I've never cared for someone's height, athleticism, bicep thickness, and jaw squareness, that just sounds a bit ridiculous. Look, I don't even know how to reply to that one... Please do some reading. Also, just to clarify, you'd go out with a woman that's taller than you, right? Maybe your biggest obstacle right now is lying to your date I am married to a taller woman :) Not much taller (+1 inch), but it was a bit of a problem early. I managed to play it into fun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you have sex with an escort that someone else paid for?If I am not in relationship, why not? She gets money, I get sex. I don't have to care about her afterwards. It's waaay cheaper than a LTR monetary- and emotionally-wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 11:45 AM |
| 1 | If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either.I am glad we agree :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 11:43 AM |
| 9 | The main criterias women use when it comes to selecting a partner for casual sex vs. relationshipGents, the easiest way to get casual sex is to start date 'you know, I am not a boyfriend type' or like. After you disqualify yourself as a boyfriend one of three things will happen: if she's not sexually interested, she will move on. You saved time. if she is sexually interested, then she will fuck you. Once she is fucking you and fucking is good, she will likely develop emotions (because that what's sex is for). if she is sexually and emotionally interested, she will be worrying if that's some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/21 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Restriction of male sexuality?If you can’t notice that the class president or homecoming king is hot, that Disney princes and movie stars are sexy gods, and that groupies and fan girls exist, I really really have trouble excreting a drop of sympathy Lol, that's a good point about Disney. Likewise for girls that don’t listen to the way guys talk and behave towards them. Only the homeschooled/religious get a pass there. Previously it was a society that hold two parties to an account. Now you are right - only religious / homesc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Restriction of male sexuality?You could have a point there. I am damn always-horny bastard :D But still, the games girls play are terrible. In my 20-ies I was used a lot - sorry, if I am not sympathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Restriction of male sexuality?Because of my crazy wanking myself in my 20-ies? LOOOL. I had only a few sex-partners in my 20-ies and I wish I had much much more. I caught up in my 30-ies once I found the game :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Restriction of male sexuality?I didn't know women cared that much about looks in my 20-ies. I dressed badly and was skinny :) 20yo girls are very native. The problem is that they are being feed with that 'liberal' and 'sex-positive' bs and don't listen otherwise. If you try to explain them, then you are marked as 'insecure', 'incel' and 'immature'. When they reach age when they look for a stable partner (25-27, sometimes 30), they are surprised that guys balk on them (because fucking and dating are completely different thing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Restriction of male sexuality?Not in my experience, lol. They are usually very unaware of the fact than men especially dislike girls with sex work past. If you told them that they usually reply with 'it's you being insecure, other guys are not like you'. High end ones are just more hyped and expensive. Not much different in reality and not many can be high-end after 25yo. Don't bs yourself, lol. Young pussy sells better. The best example is my ex. I caught her twice of fucking sugar daddies. When I dumped her chating ass she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Restriction of male sexuality?Only if they can afford it. In my 20-ies I was almost always broke. Now, in my 30-ies I could afford a few sugar babies or escorts, but now I don't really need to pay for sex now. Being a sex worker is really dumb idea in medium- and long-term. You practically removing yourself from a dating pool of high-quality (and also high-net value) men. You might get a few hundreds of $ (if you are on the hotter scale), but you are losing on millions which your spouse will provide. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Restriction of male sexuality?I told her that yesterday. I suggest to ignore. She seems angry and crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 05:07 PM |
| -1 | Restriction of male sexuality?1/4 th of women 18-25 are sexless but no one cares about them or worries that they will throw tantrums That's their choice. Men don't have this choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 05:06 PM |
| 6 | Restriction of male sexuality?Men have restricted their sexuality because it's very bad for society and civilisation to have men competing with each other and no rules. Look at history of ancient China and ancient India. Those wars were bloody and have no rules. Then you had monogamous Europeans (at least at the surface) wiping the floor with every other race and culture at least twice: Romans and British. All of that was possible because men could travel far (and conquer) without worrying much that their wifes will be fucke… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 04:58 PM |
| 3 | If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either.Who cares? If his goal is to fuck a bunch of hot women, PAY FOR IT. How do you think Trump got the hot model wives he did? He was a sugar daddy. He's an old obese man and he's able to cheat on his hot model 3RD WIFE who refuses to leave him. Throughout history, men who had the most sex were rich. Being attractive has nothing to do with it. LOL, that's very true! However, it also depends on your goals :) My goal was to find a wifey and have some fun on the way. I achieved both (although my playbo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 02:01 PM |
| 6 | If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either.I think he refers to how hard is to be sexy and attractive for women vs. man. Girl just need to do a bit of exercise and don't eat like a hippo. A bit of makup goes long way. Push up bras will nicely make your breasts seem bigger. Also, a girl needs to be youth, but that's given to everyone in life. For a man to be physically pleasant: six foot tall minimum (nothing can be done about height), six pack (body fat around 14% minimum which means starving yourself), thick arms (13-14 inches biceps, w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 12:28 PM |
| 1 | If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either.I here congratulate you madam for understanding a simple truth about people and physical attractiveness. Without waffling around: wifey does some light weights and stretching pillates (4-5x / week) I do weight-lifting, boxing and cardio (4-5x / week) And you know what? We are attracted to each other! For the last five years my dick goes up every single morning when I look at those superb-legs of her, and she smacks my bum daily :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 12:06 PM |
| 1 | If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either.I think you want to move to /r/sugarlifestyleforum :P | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Introvert vs Extrovert dating.I am very introverted and dating was pain in the ass. Unfortunately, introverts are at disadvantage when it comes to meeting new people. However, once I pushed myself (via fay-game) to approach, approach and approach, I got lots of new contacts and this problem was solved. Then, my introvertism was actually a huge advantage, because (i) I could focus on learning game and I got better at it much faster than my extroverted friends, (ii) I could actually focus on a person and find what makes them t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 11:12 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Yes, parents being together is a good indicator. Also, you need to check what type of relationship she has with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?You are very fast to judge a stranger in the Internet. Each to their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/21 10:30 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?I didn't sleep much in my youth, but I catched up in my 30-ies. I don't have much disgust towards high-n women, but I consider them to be risky deal for a serious relationship. I wrote this list: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/m4byra/what_are_the_factors_that_create_exceptions_for/gquepwo/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 Please let me know if it makes sense for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Lol, no worries :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 11:28 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Yh, possibly. However, think of it - wifey is damn hot and she had her choices. Who like who, but she really has what men want. For some reason she decided that I was a good choice. I am not the richest, tallest, the most handsome from all of them. But I am sure I had the most confidence of them all. Moreover, she never fucked any of those guys (as far as I know). She wanted to wait to have sex after marriage, yet we had sex on 5th or 6th date. So maybe she really wanted a player, huh? Do you al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 11:28 PM |
| 1 | If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either./r/seduction is actually pretty good. People there are generally cool. The thing with pickup is that once you are good, people around you won't notice what you are doing. I was often picking up girls in the middle of a busy street with people moving around us and not noticing a thing. Then I was bouncing her to a quiet bar where we talked for hours and then to my place. Also, good pickup artists don't really want attention. Once you are Google-able, girls will check you out and eject. This happe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?I am glad you see sense in that reasoning :D Please keep in mind that I was primarly looking for a suitable girl to have long-term realtionship with. I was OK to sacrifice a bit on sex-side in order to have the most stable setup possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?I can see you wish me well :) No worries, take care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Because she's very good woman otherwise and definitely relationship-worthy girl. I want kids and a stable family. However, she was prude (Christian upbringing) and I projected my expectations of good sex on her (I was with serious nutcase previously, but sex was ground-shaking). But eventually we sorted it out and our sex life is getting better and better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Yes, they are. In my case I tried to minise the risks of breakup and divorce - I want to have kids and I need a stable family unit for the next 25-30 years. For that result you want to optimise for sanity and hottness (because children needs good genes). Unfortunately, those girls are not that great in he sack (my experiences). Sex gets better, but it won't be porn-star-level performance you get from crazies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Now on the other hand, if a woman gives me lots and lots of sex with very little effort on my part, but then breaks up with me a few months later? That is an excellent outcome and not in any way what I would consider "risky." For short-term fucking - sluts are perfectly fine. Just remember to place an expiration date on that relationship. However, as for long-term relationships, they are risky. I put this list together before: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/m4byra/what_are_th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 04:16 PM |
| 2 | If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either.Congrats on getting out of the game. Thanks! I planned for a good ten years of fucking around, but I met wifey in my second year, and she was too good deal to pass (i.e. hot, smart and sane). Mystery, Beckster and Discovery are still very active and they are pushing towards Day game a lot more now. Although its getting a bit pathetic with some of the marketing and everything. I'm sure they help some guys but I am also sure some guys are just being fleeced. It's very commercialised now. The best … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 04:12 PM |
| 2 | If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either.OK, like I said my experiences were different. About a half of girls had 20+ body counts. I did day-game (cold-approaches) on the streets of London (UK). To over 1000 women? I estimated I approached 2000-2500 girls in three years. Got around 500 phone numbers out of it and around 200+ dates. I fucked around 40 in that period. Please keep in mind that those are whole stats, i.e. since I started. I was very bad when I started (i.e. skinny and badly dressed nerd with no confidence) and it took me g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 03:31 PM |
| 1 | If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either.Are you one of Beckster's or Discovery's students? No. Mystery and those guys did mosly night-game. We are different breed - we do cold-approaches on the street (day-game). It's harder and has lower returns, because there is not a single type of girl you met and it's hard to find patterns. I.e. a good night-game PUA can do 4-6 girls per month, while we do around one girl per month. However, the quality of girls from the street-game is usually much higher and we more often end up dating them afte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 03:27 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?But the way men actually date is they are more likely to select a woman who did make them wait for a relationship long-term than one who had sex right away. So for a man to then complain that women who want relationships won’t have sex right away makes little sense. Imho, it needs to be balanced. A girl deserves a few dates to know me and I am honest with her. However, I won't be waiting for months before she decides if she likes me or not. I did that before and I was shitshow every single time.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Women are just as upset being friend-zoned as men are. I can attest to that from personal experience. And both sexes are right. If one person is in love and attracted sexually, the other person can't ask him or her to rewrite their feelings just so he or she could have a longer list of friends.I'm Canadian. Very diverse culture and lots of attractive women. Overall, I mostly agree with you but I wouldn't say avoid whole populations. 10%-20% of women in western cultures are often good matches for LTRs. But I would also do some extra vetting at 25+ to make sure they will take care of themselves for the long-term. THIS. I am not saying that *all* Western women are bad and evil. But I am saying that the returns of investment are so low (10-20%), that you can skip the whole group altogethe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 03:00 PM |
| -3 | If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either.Good, I'm glad for you Thanks!! I luckied out, but I also knew when to exit game. I traded my 'fuckboy phase' for a hot wifey (I met her when I got dating momentum). The point is, the majority of women do not view themselves in the same light as a model date and they accordingly. Look, I am a decent looking guy (7-ish + I am fit) and I do have lots of good boyfriend qualities. The most of girls I dated were very entitled and a few of them directly told me I am not in their league. I was also che… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 02:55 PM |
| 1 | If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either.Where are you getting it from? It's data from 2010-2012. Lot of things changed in the last decade. The girls I met were either on low-N side (1-5) or high-N side (20+) without much in between. Most of high-N were natives British. Because you only hang around women who like hookups. I did day-game (cold-approaches) on the streets of London (UK). It's a full spectrum of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 02:50 PM |
| -1 | If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either.None of the guys I have ever dated would have a chance with a model They said the same about me. And, hey - I have a model wifey. She even won a few beauty competions in London :P I met her when she was 26 and I gave her 9 straight away. I also saw her model photos from 22 (?) and she was a fucking hot babe. You don't see them often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Yes, you are way off. please read the answer above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 02:36 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Wifey did date a few guys and did some petting and kissing, but I am 99% sure there was no PIV. She was Christian girl with 'no sex before marriage' attitude. But I was not having it, lol. She *told* me she was a virgin, but I just don't trust women 100% anymore. After our first time she had pains for the first few months of us having sex. It *seems* she was a virgin. So it maybe it really was 'just the tip', lol. Anyhow, it doesn't matter anymore. The sex was bad for the first two years (I seri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 02:34 PM |
| 0 | If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either.There are more male sluts than female sluts. Where are you getting it from? What men here don't understand is that most women aren't interested in hookups. It's not my experience. Hence, slutty women have a higher bargaining power. In the context of sex - yes. In the context of relationship - no. They're in low supply, and they have a lower sex drive, so they're more likely to not want sex if they expect it'll be subpar. Go to any uni and tell me that slutts are in low supply. LOL :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 02:29 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?What? So if a woman is hoe she doesn’t deserve to be treated well Where that come from? She's a human and deserve a good treatment. However, she's a risky and bad deal for serious dating. In other words - we can be friends and lovers, but we won't be a couple. but let me guess if a man is sleeping with hookers he still deserves a chaste wife, 2.5 kids and a white picket fence. Because that is what many men used to do! Man has to build himself up, make his own money, approach girls, dine & wine t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Shouldn’t you aim in your league (i.e. other 7s)? In the past I should have had to pair with my level. However, with all that hookup culture, I figured out I had a shot with 8s and 9s girls, becase 8s and 9s guys were busy banging around and uncommital. I was right. After hundreds of approaches and dating around, I found one smart 9s who thought I am good enough for her we are married now. She just didn't want to wait for any of those 8s and 9s, plus I had almost all other stuff sorted already (… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Is this common though? Aside from in the heads of Reddit guys; I mean actually common as in real life. I don't think it's common thinking. I was PUA and that artifically (but still greatly!) expanded my dating options. However, most girls are aiming at those high-quality-men. I think that most of high-quality men think the same - having options allows you to have luxury of standards. In other words - an average's Joe opinion doesn't matter as much. But if you want a decent partner, then you shou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 02:03 PM |
| 1 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?Why then there is so many single mums now? Do you think they want to be single mums? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 01:52 PM |
| 2 | If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either.If a man can only be romantically successful if women lower their standards, HE is the problem. This is no better than land whales demanding hot rich men be their sugar daddies. Women greatly overshooting their level of attractiveness. Basically, women score 80% of men as below attractive. There are many articles like this: https://www.gwern.net/docs/psychology/okcupid/yourlooksandyourinbox.html It's not a male problem at this moment. Hookup culture allowed girls to sleep with very handsome guys… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 01:51 PM |
| 0 | If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either.I am more boobs-and-ass man which is rare among caucasian and asian women. Wifey is 9 for me, but she could be 7 for someone's else. However, I have been around sexually very succesful men (pickup artists) for a long time, so we exchange notes what we call hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 01:45 PM |
| -2 | If you "can't help who you're attracted to", then the opposite gender also can't help who they're attracted to either.It's more of the problem of girls not being realistic with their own attractiveness. In other words - London (UK) is full of 6s who thinks they are 9s. A few samples: I dated a 7 girl who thought she would marry a doctor, rich entrepreneurial man, established lawyer, etc. She cheated on me because she didn't find me attractive. Her other options dumped her and then she came back. Eventually I dumped her too and she ended with a low-key musician. I dated a 6 girl who thought she will just focus o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 12:41 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?That's true. But there is something else. A few decades ago, 7s would pair up with 7s, 8s would pair up with 8s, and 9s would pair up with 9s. However, 8/9 guys are now too busy with fucking around and don't want to date 8/9 girls (because dating is a lot of work). Therefore, a smart 9 *might* consider a 7 guy if he's otherwise all good. Welcome to my relationship, where a 7 guy with good game (me) approached hundreds of 8s and 9s, till the one (my wife) decided I am actually alright and just ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 11:42 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Then you are dating girls below your league. Hot girls have options and will x-ray you before they will decide you are boyfriend-worthy. If you are 7 look-wise, then banging 5s and 6s is easy. If you are 7 look-wise, then banging 8s and 9s is hard. But that's what you should aim for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 11:36 AM |
| -4 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?HA! good luck finding that in current dating market. Maybe when both parties are older and mature enough, but then what's the point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 11:29 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?There is truth that relationships which started as FWB have better sex because both parties started more unhibited. Then they carried over this momentum. However, those relationships started on attraction basics and attraction fades in time. Also the quality of relationship fades, because both parties discover incompatibilities. Imho, it's actually better to start with a dating / vetting process (i.e. 3-5 dates in enough), but make sure that girl and a guy have attraction towards each other. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 11:29 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?I have an ex who directly (and loudly) compared me to her exes when she wanted me to do something. She was a serious nutcase (cheating, sugar daddies, etc.). I also had an ex who talked to her ex every second day. This girl was a good one, but she couldn't understand it upsets me and continued to do that. After I let her go, another guy dropped her for the same reason (she called me and asked why I was pissed), till she finally got it. From the other side, I was projecting my expectations into m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 11:11 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?That's not true. Hot guys get a lot of action, but also charming guys get a lot of action and guys who just happen to be nearby (when she's horny) get a lot of action. Just be one of those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 11:08 AM |
| -1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?I think the dislike is from men who can't get casual sex. It creates an imbalance and a feeling of inequality/ inferiority, and also fuels doubt when it comes to sex and commitment in a potential LTR. I got lots of casual sex and I still dislike promiscuity in any girl I want to date seriously. It's emotional as well as logical - she's just a bad and risky deal for a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 11:07 AM |
| 33 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?You gotta feel sorry for modern men, they live in an age where they can't just marry the good chapel girl while catching siphilis and other fun diseases at a local whorehouse. Now they actually have to put effort into being manwhores which must seem like a terrible injustice to ED stricken, anime watching boys who can barely tie their shoes, let alone converse with another human being. LOL, that's fair to say :D But please notice, how easy is for girls to be hoes. And then later demand someone t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?If that were true the % of men who struggle to get married would be greater than the % of men who struggle to get a fuckbuddy but it seems like most men do get married while a comparatively smaller % of men can consistently get hookups. Most of current 30yo + men were programmed to seek out meaningful relationships and only a few were trained to be players. Some of us have re-programmed ourselves but it's till a minority. However, if you look at the current 20yo crop you will be much different a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 11:01 AM |
| 6 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Is sex all that matters? Are you implying men don't feel romantic attraction to their girlfriends, and get into relationships solely to get sex? It depends of what I am after: (i) If I am looking for just shag, then sex is all that matters. (ii) If I am looking for a temporary girlfriend, then she should be at least pleasant (iii) If I am looking for a serious LTR leading to a family, then I judge her much harshly. I was generally just looking for (i) or (iii), but (ii) happened a lot. Now, in r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?Unconditional appreciation is meaningful, conditional appreciation isn’t. Lol, wait till she thinks you guys are together. Then she will demand utility as well as sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 10:34 AM |
| 6 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?I disagree. It demonstrates that girl is OK with being intimate *just* by being attracted to someone. Plus once you already fucking you tend to ignore all incompatibilities. Generally she's a risky deal. She looks for sex and ignored all other traits which she should to pay attention to. Attraction fades after a year or two, what's left there? If you start from that state you need to make sure she (i) learns how to control it and (ii) likes you for what you are (now for how well you fuck),before… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 10:12 AM |
| 48 | Q4M: I don't understand the complaints about women "riding CC". Do you want women to engage in casual sex or not?The complaint is that women are a lot pickier about casual sex so the % of men that meet women's casual sex standards is significantly smaller than the % of women that meet men's casual sex standards. So certain guys are disproportionately only chosen for relationships and don't get as many opportunities for casual sex and then end up with a girl who used to be fine having no strings attached sex but are suddenly the "Im not that kinda girl" type that wants to make him wait for sex and pay to ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/21 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Women are just as upset being friend-zoned as men are. I can attest to that from personal experience. And both sexes are right. If one person is in love and attracted sexually, the other person can't ask him or her to rewrite their feelings just so he or she could have a longer list of friends.OK, I tried my best... You are 100% right. Women are masters of human race and have upper hand all their life. I even upvote you. Take care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Women are just as upset being friend-zoned as men are. I can attest to that from personal experience. And both sexes are right. If one person is in love and attracted sexually, the other person can't ask him or her to rewrite their feelings just so he or she could have a longer list of friends.Women attract men and are more attractive than men at any age. This is bs. No one with options want to fuck your wrinked ass in your 40-ies. Check here: http://www.andychalkley.com.au/books/Girl_Power/OEBPS/images/graphs/Desirability.gif Fertility was not the reason why women attracted men in the 20s, so it naturally declining won't change much. It seems you missed the point here. It's not about what quality of men would like to fuck you, it's what quiality of men would like to commit to you. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Women are just as upset being friend-zoned as men are. I can attest to that from personal experience. And both sexes are right. If one person is in love and attracted sexually, the other person can't ask him or her to rewrite their feelings just so he or she could have a longer list of friends.It's simple logic, my friend. After 31 female ferility takes a vertical dump, to completely disappear at 40: https://www.britishfertilitysociety.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/Graphic-3.png Now, Imagine that I am aiming at 2 kids. I need at least 2 years before each of them (-2x2 = -4 years). Let's say we have some ferility problems to fix (-2 years). Let's say I want to know her a bit before marriage (-2 years) and we need to settle down in marriage a bit too (-2 years). Therefore, you can s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Women are just as upset being friend-zoned as men are. I can attest to that from personal experience. And both sexes are right. If one person is in love and attracted sexually, the other person can't ask him or her to rewrite their feelings just so he or she could have a longer list of friends.I would argue that most 30+ women are not in good shape, however it is reasonably achievable to be in good shape at 30. THIS. At 30yo it is *reasonably achievable* for a woman to still be pretty. However, as you mentioned many don't even try. At 35yo she is not deluding anyone. Most people let them selves go and become complacent, men included. Metabolism shifts at 23; takes work from there. Most of my male friends were OK till their early 30-ies and then their body took a dump, unless they got … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 04:16 PM |
| -3 | Women are just as upset being friend-zoned as men are. I can attest to that from personal experience. And both sexes are right. If one person is in love and attracted sexually, the other person can't ask him or her to rewrite their feelings just so he or she could have a longer list of friends.Most of 30yo women are still in decent shape and have looks, especially if they are not caucasians and exersise somewhat. But it goes down very fast after that. 35yo is the beta cut-off, when even the unattractive men don't want you. Also, women don't care about being hot for sex. I am describing how relationship-worthy she is. My personal cut-off for wifey-hunt was 23-27. Wifey was 26 when I met her and she was genuine 9 at that time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 02:29 PM |
| 5 | Are women inherently more aware of male nature than men are of women’s?When a man has any decent job at mid-30, there are enough 30+ women who will date them. A friend is on Tinder (due to lockdown there is no day-game in London), he's getting hundreds of matches from 30+ women. He has decent IT job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 02:26 PM |
| 0 | Women are just as upset being friend-zoned as men are. I can attest to that from personal experience. And both sexes are right. If one person is in love and attracted sexually, the other person can't ask him or her to rewrite their feelings just so he or she could have a longer list of friends.Do you think she can handle a cat if she couldn't handle boyfriends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 01:47 PM |
| 0 | Women are just as upset being friend-zoned as men are. I can attest to that from personal experience. And both sexes are right. If one person is in love and attracted sexually, the other person can't ask him or her to rewrite their feelings just so he or she could have a longer list of friends.LOL, while ur pussy is sweet & young that works fine :D Just don't get catch on decline when your looks start to fade. I saw some of my exes and it was ugly. About half of them were bitches in their youth, but I still pity them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 01:18 PM |
| 7 | Are women inherently more aware of male nature than men are of women’s?Women can be *very* picky till ca. 30yo. It's very correlated with their ferility. The men can be picky from 30 till mid-40-ies, however they still carry lots of firepower till mid-50-ies if they are wealthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Why are seemingly all women bi?It's also trendy to be bi. Young girls follow celebrities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 12:29 PM |
| -4 | Women are just as upset being friend-zoned as men are. I can attest to that from personal experience. And both sexes are right. If one person is in love and attracted sexually, the other person can't ask him or her to rewrite their feelings just so he or she could have a longer list of friends.I am a bit sad that I didn't use 'fake relationship' tactics more often. I did use it a few times just before I met wifey and it was very effective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 12:05 PM |
| 13 | Women are just as upset being friend-zoned as men are. I can attest to that from personal experience. And both sexes are right. If one person is in love and attracted sexually, the other person can't ask him or her to rewrite their feelings just so he or she could have a longer list of friends.I did friendzone ONE girl in my 20-ies and it's was because she was just damn ugly and fat. Every other experience is me being friendzoned left and right. When I reached my 30-ies, I didn't bother with friedzoning anymore - I was just ghosting them after 1st date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 12:04 PM |
| 12 | Women are just as upset being friend-zoned as men are. I can attest to that from personal experience. And both sexes are right. If one person is in love and attracted sexually, the other person can't ask him or her to rewrite their feelings just so he or she could have a longer list of friends.No they aren't. Women's equivalent of a friend zone is when they're fucked and told to get out by a guy they want. While average girls have been friendzoned in their 20-ies, the hotter women are not getting friendzoned till much later around 30, and then they are getting fully friendzoned around 35. That's why you have lots of angry women writing those 'where are all good men?' articles. They are just not used to being ignored. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/21 12:03 PM |
| 2 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?Sorry, I am out of motivation energy for today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 08:08 PM |
| 2 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?Please translate what do you wanted to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 08:02 PM |
| 3 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?In my personal opinion Aussie are the worst, closely followed by American birds, then Brits and Canadians at the end. Athough there is quite a distance between first two and the second pair. *Some* Brits and Canadian girls are cool; nevertheless, it's still best to avoid all four. Are you going to separate or do you want to plough through with the hope for better future? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 06:31 PM |
| 2 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?Don't forget shape-shifing pussy :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 06:21 PM |
| 1 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?Lol, I am not gonna to qualify myself to you. Edit: although some of ur posts are good. Take care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 05:09 PM |
| 1 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?Please don't. It's just downright cruel to bring children into this nightmare dystopia world. Nah, they will be players from the start. I expect them to bang model-level girls at 16yo, having first threesome at 20yo and having continous multi-ltrs through their 20-ies. When they are 30+ then I give them a permission to settle down with a foreign-born hot girl a decade younger than them. It's doable. Fuck it - I prefer to overdid it than have a slightest chance them growing into simps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 04:44 PM |
| 1 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?Yeah playing games is fun and doesn't reject you ad infinitum. But I wish more of those guys would see it as a pure numbers play; it really isn't all that different to applying for jobs. You don't get seriously bent out of shape if a potential employer sends a template rejection letter, or if you get rejected hundreds to thousands of times. Just keep improving and submitting applications with an upbeat to neutral attitude. Eventually, something has to give. You are right that being rejected is n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 04:39 PM |
| 1 | There is no separate casual sex and relationship market.Gotcha. Each to their own :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 04:29 PM |
| 1 | There is no separate casual sex and relationship market.What does 'ace' mean? Edit: OK, found it. Asexual. Well, that's kinda outliner, especially if you add meds to the mix. Do you want to send him to gym? Weight lifting makes me having boner every damn morning and I am almost 40-ty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 04:24 PM |
| 1 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?It's not nihilism. It's just playing games is much easier than dating nowadays. Read the comments here - lots of guys think it's only looks that matter. It's hard to learn something new with that attitude. Game is hard - you will be rejected 1000x before you get good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 04:20 PM |
| 1 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?Let them live in the world they created. It's not them per se. It's the fault of mothers (current 30+ yo) and media who push this stupid notion of 'having everything because you are worth it' and 'rebelling against patriachy' bs. Lots of this blackpill content is made by 30-40 yo men who had to deal with the current bs dating environment. They are passing hard-learned lessons down. If I will have sons, I am teaching them hardcore game right away. They will become a bit toxic (there is no way aro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 04:11 PM |
| 0 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?It’s got nothing to do with me being black lol. You guys have certain mindset and attitude :D Don't get me wrong - I learned a lot of game from you guys. You can’t be broke-ass bum, but you don’t need to be rich or be a sole-provider. You can be a broke-ass bum and fuck them... I never attracted women with my wallet because I never used it as a selling point. ...but you cannot keep them just by giving them dick. Dude, I am telling you to be both: a player and a good provider. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 03:55 PM |
| 2 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?Females: 'We are not your sexual objects! We want equality at work!' Men: 'OK, you have careers now. Why won't you pay for dates? Why won't you contribute to bills?' Females: 'We are women! That's your job to pay!' Men: 'OK, we can pay. Can I have sex with you?' (go back to step no 1) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 03:49 PM |
| 1 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?I prefer self-sufficient women who like sex. No bitch who is eyeing my wallet lol. Idk why, but black guys belive that a good game is everything they need. You need both, my friend - money and game. The mix of both is deadly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 03:44 PM |
| 1 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?And it's hard to hold that against them to be honest. It's not anymore about attraction, it's about girls having upper hand in every aspect of life while not contributing much. In other words - women wants all the choices and zero responsibility. Why those guys should move mountains just to get a kiss? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 03:38 PM |
| 2 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?I prefer women who like sex And why do you think both collide? A smart girl wants both: a good dick and money to support family and lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 03:32 PM |
| 1 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?I got no idea what black pill is tbh. Basically dudes who bitch about current dating environment (just like Red Pillers), but completely refuse to move their asses out of their basement. Nevertheless, they learn from YT (and like) games that girls play, so they are toxic, but with nothing to balance it. All I know is that when I get the slightest hint of that entitled princess or Karen attitude, I gtfo so fast it'll make heads spin. I don't even care how good of a potential match she is otherwis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 02:55 PM |
| 2 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?It's being talked a lot on forums, YT, etc. The blackpill-ism spreads like wild-fire now. I am worried about 20yo girls now, because in a decade they will want to settle with current crop of 20yo guys who are getting blackpilled daily. It won't be pretty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 02:22 PM |
| 0 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?You will get much hotter ones if you date below your tax bracket :D When I met wifey I outearned her like 10x. Now it's only 7x times, lol. But she's a good and damn hot woman :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 02:14 PM |
| 4 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?Yh, but then you have to weed out Olivia, Sophia and Emily as well. And also Isabella and Diana. And Linda. And Joanne. Oh, I forgot about Victoria too. Just too many names to keep in my limited memory. It was easier to shift towards non-Westen looking girls. At least you can see they likely weren't born in the UK. After a while my eyes were trained to skip over Westen-looking girls (we were approaching en mass on the streets). I probably missed a few good ones, but I am sure I missed the whole … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 02:12 PM |
| 1 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?White guys tend to do it with Asian women anyways. That waifu shit is toxic. Ha ha ha! That's so true! I recall visiting a friend and I saw his asian flat-chest gf on his bed. I asked why does he like her? 'Look at the face man! she's so pretty!'. This dude was a living steroid / personal trainer type of guy, so you can imagine how funny it looked. On a serious note - we all avoided American, British, Canadian and Australian girls. So we had to go somewhere - some went to Eastern European girls … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 01:51 PM |
| 1 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?Ha ha ha! How about white dudes perdestalising you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 01:14 PM |
| 10 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?Everyone is settling... 100% compatibility doesn't exist. Also, every woman has only one pussy (i.e. no variety). Just make sure you don't settle too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 01:14 PM |
| -1 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?Just accept it :) We want their wet hole, they want our thick wallets. It's fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 01:12 PM |
| 0 | What are some reasons why someone is attracted to you, that would offend/hurt you?Yh, same here. There is nothing wrong with being fetishised. It's like an extra bonus to attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 01:11 PM |
| 5 | Why are both men and women flakey these days? Also do flakey people realize they burn bridges by being flakey?Really this is so frustrating. The guys watching Corey videos are definitely not Chads. I think they could have a better chance with women if they didn’t ignore Girls they were interested in... Welcome to my world. I still have 500+ numbers in my phone and I have been on 200+ dates. This is the result of my PUA phase for over two years. Around 2/3rd of those gilrs flaked after a few messages. Around 2/3rd ghosted me after 1st date. Those are averages. Early, when my game was shit, I was ghosted … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 11:03 AM |
| 1 | "Tinder will soon let you run a background check on a potential date" - Is this seen as good or bad from a dating perspective?Jeremy Meeks says hi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 09:34 AM |
| 1 | There is no separate casual sex and relationship market.I'm engaged. Most men aren't horny little man-children. I am married. I am horny little man-child. Wifey loves it :D Best advice - give ur man wild sex as much as he wants it. He will love you for it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 09:28 AM |
| 1 | What are the factors that create exceptions for dating women with over 10 partners?I agree 100%. You need to be a righ mix of alpha and beta traits. Foreign-born also go for guys with game (don't kid yourself that you will get foreign hottie as a badly dressed nerd), they are just more subtle about it and then try to stick together. Western women generally overvalue themself (6 thinks she's a 8-9) and don't repect men at all (cheating, multi-dating, keeping exes in the orbit, etc.). Then they do Pikachu face in their 30-ies and try to shame attractive men to date them. At this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 09:20 AM |
| 1 | What are the factors that create exceptions for dating women with over 10 partners?Rollo Tomassi is too hardcore for me, i.e. Red Pill is good with limited doses, but not full on. There are *some* girls like that and it's very bad society chose to be quiet about it. Yes, it sucks bad. However, it's not the norm and I am telling you that after all shit I went through. Most women are actually nice once you learn how be attractive to them and don't simp. Afterwards, I was very careful around Western-born girls (i.e. she's a slut till proven otherwise) and definitely skip American… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 11:17 PM |
| 2 | What are the factors that create exceptions for dating women with over 10 partners?Sound BDP like. Good Sex Crazy Person definitely stay away. Definitely. Afterwards I read a bit about BPD and those were classic symptoms. I even wanted to take her for theraphy, but I was already one leg outside that toxic relationship. Well, sex was damn good till the end - I miss that. She married in the last year to some low-key muscian. I stalked him a bit online and he cames across as very very inexperienced and not tough enough for this shit. It's not my business, but I fell pity for her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 10:27 PM |
| 1 | There is no separate casual sex and relationship market.I prefer men who aren't sex-obsessed. Good luck, loooool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 10:20 PM |
| 1 | There is no separate casual sex and relationship market.Guess we just have different ways of viewing sex then. Cause for some people (men included) you move quickly with people you want to discard quickly. Alll relative🤷♀️ That's perfectly fine :) I got lots of casual sex too with girls I wasn't interested to have anything more serious. However, I also dated a few girls who run me through the gauntlet while I was dating them (because I liked them and they saw me as boyfriend potential). Afterwards I found they banged some dudes at the first night be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 12:27 PM |
| -1 | If most men would rather be fuckboys than have LTR, does that mean most men in LTRs are "settling", are not genuinely attracted to their partner, and would leave her instantly if he got ample casual sex opportunities?Men who dislike women and only want to sleep with them and never want to meet a long-term partner are a minority that are over-represented on this sub. Don't take what the men here say as a reflection of how the majority of men feel about women. I have to second that. Even among horrible and evil PUA, the most of us are just normal guys trying to get laid, but it's not an end of all. There are some fuckwits who want to be an eternal player, but that's only a few. Most of us finds a girlfriend (u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 10:07 AM |
| 1 | There is no separate casual sex and relationship market.But...you're saying you'd still want to be fucked on the first night. Of course! So aren't you a deadbeat as well, then? Lol, actually I have high-end white collar career with 6-digits income, side business and a number of investments. But it got me nowhere in terms of dating. However, once I learned how to be a funny fuck-boy (I am former PUA), I got laid left and right. Damn, I even got hot wifey from my player phase (although not from ONS). You girls have to stop lying to yourself that you li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 09:50 AM |
| 1 | There is no separate casual sex and relationship market.How do you know he’s a deadbeat though? She said he doesn’t have the things she wants in a long term partner. That doesn’t mean he’s a bad person just means they won’t be compatible long term Following your logic - if she fucks incompatible guys on the first night, then she should fuck the compatible guys after an hour or so. Because the compatible guys are more valuable for her. In other words - why being compatible guy for her makes her to require more work from a guy? Now, how does the above … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/21 09:44 AM |
| 0 | There is no separate casual sex and relationship market.That's very American methinks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 09:13 AM |
| 1 | There is no separate casual sex and relationship market.And I'm gaslighting... how? I think he's refernig to girls' strategy where they fuck some rando on the first night (because 'she's not serious with him') but delay sex with a potential boyfriens (because 'she needs to know him better'). While it makes sense from girl's point of view, it's very insulting from a male point of view (because you reward being a deadbeat vs. being a decent human being). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 09:10 AM |
| 0 | There is no separate casual sex and relationship market.There are girls who fuck for fun. There are guys who fuck for fun. There is nothing wrong with it. The problem starts when one party thinks what by sport-fucking, they will get a commitment from the other party. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 09:03 AM |
| 2 | What are the factors that create exceptions for dating women with over 10 partners?I really really envy you :( For me having children and a stable family is very important. Otherwise, I won't be exposing myself to a divorce risk, but just fuck around. Unfortunately, in the current culture, it was mandatory to find myself the most sane / stable girl I could. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 08:22 AM |
| 5 | What are the factors that create exceptions for dating women with over 10 partners?Relationship-worthy girls *try* to stay with one partner. It might be a mistake (young girls are quite naive and easy to impress), but at least she tried. I won't hold it against her at all (assuming she won't compare me to her ex). Let's skip all the emotional discomfort of being with a high-n girl for the sake of argument (some men really have no jealousy) and let's also skip STDs because they are mostly curable. Let's try to analyse it logically: When girls jumps from a cock to a cock, it dem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 10:58 PM |
| 9 | What are the factors that create exceptions for dating women with over 10 partners?Well for me I'm not as hung up on n-count as other guys I wasn't either paying attention to a past till I was hit by a bag of bricks. You can read my other posts. In short - I caught her fucking sugar daddy, I took her back and tried to move on, in a few months I caught her another sugar daddy. Then I examined her past, I found lots of guys and a few sex videos (forever in my mind). There were lots of lies. Well, sex was awesome (she was a real nutcase). I was in love and it took me two years an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 10:35 PM |
| -2 | What are the factors that create exceptions for dating women with over 10 partners?Does she compensate in other areas of life (school/career/success) Don't care unless she is a complete failure, i.e. university dropout. Still have high bonding affinity Too many exes in shadows. That will be always a problem. If she even mentiones her exes, she's gone (I have been compared to exes, it's upsetting). If she has any ex who is a friend, she's gone (I have been there too, same as above). Does she demonstrate loyalty, trust How can she demonstrate it? People lie and pretend. How many… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 10:25 PM |
| 1 | There is no separate casual sex and relationship market.Yeah but having kids nowadays is extremely overrated Not for me. not to mention the potential of losing 40% of your income. Yes, probably even higher than this. Look, I know the risks and I tried to minimise them. I found myself a hot and sane* woman (*unicorn, yaaay!). Her mother likes me and I work on it. I stay fit and improve myself as much as posisble. I make good money. I was PUA and I still have good game. We are interracial couple with the lowest divoce rate stats. I have my urges for se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 09:43 PM |
| 1 | There is no separate casual sex and relationship market.Your right but I probably won’t have kids do there is no need for me to worry about it. I really really envy you :( If I had no family/kids plans, I would simply keep fucking around with multiple girlfriends or even join some poly community to. I have a good game and I am capable of doing that. When I am too old (late 50-ies?), I would switch to sugar babies and other sex workers. However, because I prioritise having offspring higher than getting my dick wet, I need a stable family unit for the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 08:59 PM |
| 1 | There is no separate casual sex and relationship market.She will just lie about her number count Never ask for her number. There are two options how to go around that: If you are newbie, act very non-judgamental, a bit sleazy and don't be interested. Say something like 'I don't understand London guys... sex is fun...'. Most of them drop hints, see how you react and then drop more hints. This way I listened to whole first-view relation how is to be in a gang-bang (unfortunately I must shown some expresion, becuse she called me on pretending). Once you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 07:54 PM |
| 5 | There is no separate casual sex and relationship market.Yeah but the wait isn’t worth it. It depends what are you there for. If she's girlfriend material, then you can wait five-seven dates (especially virgins). Those girls are low-n for a reason. However, after that time pull away - she had enough time to interview you. If she's sport-fuck material, then more than three dates is a waste of time. Aim for second date, because some hoes like to pretend they are something else. Once you get experience, you will see throught it. For girls reading that - … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Alpha fucks Beta bucksThis is so blatantly disingenuous. You know damn well there's more to this than just "liking casual rough sex". Why do you want to make that your problem, my friend? Women are perfectly capable of booking a theraphy for themselves. It's better to be a part of her 'mistakes' than to be a part of her theraphy. Make sure you are the Chad in that equation and just take what she gives freely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Alpha fucks Beta bucksShe got the sex she wanted. She's also ethical enough to notify her partner. There is nothing wrong with her. If she feels shitty, that means the aftercare was bad. As for her partner - he either likes it or is neutral to her. This is open relationship above all else. Now, if she catches emotions to her partner (which she's seems to), that's on her. Look, you guys need to understand some people just like casual rough sex. There is nothing wrong with it and it doesn't make them bad people. You do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/21 05:35 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Unattractive men should not befriend women if they want sex, they should befriend ChadNah, Chads usually don't know what they are doing right. They are usually attractive, extroverted or rich guys (or all together), but they have no clue how it work. Befriend any pickup artists if they are any in your city. But make sure you get the good ones, because 99% of them are just for show. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 05:42 PM |
| 9 | The Red Pill is wrong about the SMV of menYh, she will put you into 'boyfriend potential' box and delay any sex for the next two-three months (because she's a 'goooood girl', lol). Meanwhile she will bang every rando in the bar (because 'she's not serious with him', lol). Even if she's not banging at the moment, she likely had some ONS before. How would that make a decent man feel if some other jerk got between her legs quick and fast, and he has to wine & dine her? Nah, it's not a good deal. Been there, done that and I got nothing. Mad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 02:35 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill is wrong about the SMV of menThe incel game and the cucked game (or co parent game, or beta game, whatever it's all the same) has exactly the same chance of passing on their genes, however the latter at least has a miniscule chance of influencing the nurture aspect of the offspring. I think you mixed all of that into one box :P Beta strategy is to select the best partner and then mate-guard her. It's high-risk high-reward strategy - you are aiming to get the best genes available, but there are risks. You rely on provider sk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 02:13 PM |
| 8 | The Red Pill is wrong about the SMV of menThat's called a sugar baby - it's a completely different category of hoes. Once you are good with girls, you can be their fuck-friend while she 'dates' some rich dude. Think of what she has to do for that Chanel bag. Ugh. Just don't invest emotionally into that relationship and be ready to dump the hoe as soon as she falls for you. If you happen to met one - keep reading /r/sugarlifestyleforum and you see what level of delusions they have. Use kevlar condom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 01:55 PM |
| 5 | The Red Pill is wrong about the SMV of menBeta game is useful into two ways: as a last ace to play (assuming you want to settle with a girl) after you dated her as alpha. This way you can wife up a girl normally out of your league. I wrote a few posts about it. if you into that, 30+ women can be easily played for sex if you start talking about commitment and stuff. It's ugly, but it's surprisingly effective. Some hoes left a path of broken hearts in their youth (so-called 'mistakes', lol), so don't beat yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 01:50 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill is wrong about the SMV of menFor example, TRP states that women reach their maximum SMV at around 22-24, whereas men reach it around 36-38 (lol). There is a graph for it, but it is very implausible: I suggest this graph, it shows the SMV much better: http://www.andychalkley.com.au/books/Girl_Power/OEBPS/images/graphs/Desirability.gif (you can notice the areas below every curve are more or less the same) It suggests a late 30s woman supposedly has much lower SMV than a late 30s man: except women have the milf/cougar thing, m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 12:14 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All]What was the thing that surprised you the most about the dating game as you gained experience?In a more conservative culture, I will add more of boyfriend traits into a mix, but I will stay within 'player' frame, i.e. you want to fuck her first and it's her job to convince you that's she worth more than just a shag. In more conservative cultures girls are just more restricted in showing off their sexuality, but it's still there and the same principles apply. With Western girls you can talk about sex directly (but not too much! you don't want to come accross as sex-maniac), with non-Weste… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 03:34 PM |
| 3 | [Q4All]What was the thing that surprised you the most about the dating game as you gained experience?Cool. Just be careful because there is 5% of girls who seriosly want to marry and are looking for a good partner. Following those tips too hard will scare them away. However, it is still better to date her like a player and then reveal your value. Just watch and see how she reacts. You won't be able to hide your good boyfriend traits 100% and a smart girl will notice. She might be confused, but it's easy to have an open conversation later. And she will be more happy at the end :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 02:55 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All]What was the thing that surprised you the most about the dating game as you gained experience?There is a bit of reverse pshychology going on. Hot girls rarely met men who are willing to walk away. Be a bit of an asshole, don't be afraid to make fun of her, call her silly names (sticky-girl, boobs-career, assy, squirrel-face, etc.). You have to balance on the line of being asshole and being funny. Be willing to walk away - this is your best weapon. You generally want girls to think: 'who do you think he is? is there something I don't know about him?' because that makes you interesting. If… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 11:20 AM |
| 3 | [Q4All]What was the thing that surprised you the most about the dating game as you gained experience?> Any tips on not giving off the bf vibe and being seen as a fuck-boy? In my case it was generally: pretend to be dumber and uneducated - I have high IQ, so I was a big one for me. Don't talk about any scientific or nerdy topic - your only interests are football and gym. don't show you have money - be willing to pay for her (girls like that) but take her to cheap bars, restautrants, etc. Don't show off in fancy restaurant. Your vibe should be: 'I am OK to pay for drinks, but it upsets me because… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/21 11:14 AM |
| 11 | [Q4All]What was the thing that surprised you the most about the dating game as you gained experience?Yeah and those relationships are very intimate and sexually succesful /s ... for poolboys :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 10:59 PM |
| 4 | [Q4All]What was the thing that surprised you the most about the dating game as you gained experience?I mean women dont want traditional relationships with ugly short guys. In my experiences, older women drop their standards a lot. If dude is ugly and short, but has money, they will 'forgive' him his looks :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 10:41 PM |
| -1 | [Q4All]What was the thing that surprised you the most about the dating game as you gained experience?The fuckboys you are referring to is getting “unhealthy” love and desperation from the person. It’s not better treatment at all. I didn't care about love and desperation as long I was getting my dick wet. Actually, this desperation often results in the most fun sex acts. I still regret I didn't push girls for threesomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 09:10 PM |
| 8 | [Q4All]What was the thing that surprised you the most about the dating game as you gained experience?I was surprised at how desperate many men are, and how badly some of them still want traditional relationships. Old-school social programming is still strong. However, watch some YouTubers <25yo and you will be shocked how many are ugly blackpilled. I really feel sorry for the future generation of girls, because in a decade those guys will be what's available on dating market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 09:00 PM |
| 7 | [Q4All]What was the thing that surprised you the most about the dating game as you gained experience?I learned that as long as I present myself only as fun fuck-boy, I can get easily into those arrangements. However, it was only with average or cute girls, and they were usually on young side (24 tops). I never could get a real hottie into this arrangement. However, when I demonstrated good boyfriend qualities, a very few the girls were willing to be a side piece anymore. And those who were willing to be side piece, very quickly tried to switch the relationship into exclusivity. I also learned t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 08:55 PM |
| 0 | Do the issues 30+ women face on OLD stem from the men remaining in their dating pool rather than their own looks?Sure, but im not 30 and looking at the available pool of 30+ men, it looks like a big fat bucket of "no thank you" You should not date men you don't like - I agree :) What are your main issues with them? Do they look bad? Don't they have shit together? I am a man, I am interested what are you looking for on Tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible for men to become “alpha widowers”?Is it possible for men to become “alpha widowers”? It is. I had an ex who had high-libido and was real porn-star in bed (she was also a complete nutcase). That was a toxic relationship and I dumped her eventually. Then married a prude semi-virgin and sex was very substandard for a while. I considered cheating, but I was cheated on (by the mentioned ex) and didn't want to hurt a nice girl. But it was close. However, after talks, wife finally understood sex is important for me and learned. Once sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Do the issues 30+ women face on OLD stem from the men remaining in their dating pool rather than their own looks?I doubt the issue for 30+ women is finding matches, it's more like it's harder to find suitable men. I can see it clearly when comparing 20s men to 30-40s men 30+ women are generally good for quick fucks, but not long term relationships. Think of it from a man's perspective: If I want to have a family - then I am looking for a young (20-28) women who can bear children without issues. I need to know them first (2 years) and then try for children (2 years). If I don't want to have a family - then … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Handsome Wants as Handsome Does: Physical Attractiveness and Gender Differences in Revealed Sexual PreferencesBehold! - the ultra rare non-nihilistic, pragmatic pseudo-positive and encouraging post. Best of all, it’s all true. 🦄 Thanks! Yeah - it takes a lot to prepare and then execute smoothly, but it works. The most upsetting is the fact that you train for a few years, just for this brief moment when you seduce your wifey and then you limit yourself. So you have all the skills, but you discipline yourself for a greater good. But the prize is a girl our of your league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/21 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable?But anyway the point is, my beliefs are rooted in science and yours are not. The best advice I can give to you: drop your beliefs, get out of your books and go out to approach and date women. Maybe you can get laid eventually - right now you are just a pittable troll. For anyone reading this - this is exactly why PUA don't get along with those Red Pill dwellers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable?Let me reiterate my rebuttal in less words. Hopefully you can at least understand it this time: Fuck off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable?more attractive girls see it as a green-light that effectively someone else like them approved you. Idk. In my experience, more attractive girls usually were less slutty, i.e. more biased towards relationships than quick bangs. The really hot ones are very very selective and will drop you if they notice any obvious weakness. They really aim to be treated like princesses and are very status aware. But that could be because I usually dated out of my league and I needed something more than a pure a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable?You're welcome to have another go at answering the question if you like. But you haven't answered it yet. Hopefully you can at least understand it this time. OK, I will give you very nuanced and detailed answer because I don't want to stress myself: You do you, I do me. Fuck off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable?The human brain has not changed that much in the last few thusands of years. It's true that humans evolved lots of those mechanisms and instincts. However, we also created a civilisation and social systems in our minds. We agreed on many things and created many many rules to follow. This is how we are different from animals. If you suggest you that following those primal instincs is still a way to go, for example, to fuck everything that moves like horny animals, I don't think you belong to the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable?You underestimate women, my friend :D Wifey is very perceptive. However, she indeed told me I confused her in our early dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable?I hope she's okay now. LOL. She's getting the best deal ever - Chad and boyfriend in one :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable?I guess I'll just repeat the question I just asked, and see if maybe you want to answer it this time: Have you ever heard the term, "mate preference copying" First thing - I don't like your tone. If you maintain this bs attitude, it will be my last reply. Secondly, no - I have not heard 'mate preference copying'. Please explain. Edit: I found this definition on Wikipedia: "the observer (i.e. copier) female recognizes the demonstrator (i.e. chooser) female when mating with a target male and later… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable?Sorry, but I am confused. What are you calling 'mate preference copy"? When girls look for sex, a few things are important: (i) a guy makes them horny, (ii) he's available and (iii) he won't boast around it. Also, my problem was that I broadcasted lots of good boyfriend qualities. Once I learned not to show them, I was classfied as Chad more frequently and got laid left and right. Actually, I got so good at this, that I confused the hell of my wifey and only after two years together we had a ope… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable?Try showing them, rather than telling them. Women react negatively to men "boasting about their n-count." That's something else - if you tell around who you fucked, then you will tell everyone about fucking them as well. Girls don't like that. Women react very positively to their friend saying "All my homies fucked Brett" I read that too and it simply didn't work for me. The best responses I had were neutral, the worst were girls ghosting me. The girls I dated were on the hotter-side and they wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Handsome Wants as Handsome Does: Physical Attractiveness and Gender Differences in Revealed Sexual PreferencesSure thing pal. I'm sure you totally "matured" and "grew up" and "moved beyond your hoe phase"; just because you got married. I don't think I ever moved beyond my hoe phase. However, I value the stability of my relationship more than getting my dick wet. In other words - I want to have a family and kids; otherwise, I will be still chasing and fucking around. Doesn't change the fact that you'd buy stolen goods so long as you didn't personally know the person that is hurt from your actions. Lol, I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Handsome Wants as Handsome Does: Physical Attractiveness and Gender Differences in Revealed Sexual PreferencesWomen are capable of making their choices, you know. If they decided to sleep with me while in a relationship, that's on them. Also, I was jaded much earlier before I had any skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/21 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Handsome Wants as Handsome Does: Physical Attractiveness and Gender Differences in Revealed Sexual PreferencesHumans evolved jealousy in the context of relationships in order to prevent being cheated on or dumped. However, imho, the sexual jealousy evolved much stronger in men, because we could not be 100% certain that kids are our own. i feel like this is inaccurate due to humans being social creatures and i feel like jealousy is not dimorphic, but what you said evolutionarily/biologically makes sense and i have seen other men use this reasoning (but i have seen other women also then refute this). Than… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Handsome Wants as Handsome Does: Physical Attractiveness and Gender Differences in Revealed Sexual Preferencesinteresting. she must really like you or she's just fine w/ the situation. i can't imagine liking a man enough to put up with arguments about sex but that's all a matter of different women, different standards, different expectations, etc. etc. i'd rather stay alone than be with someone who pressures me about sex (not saying that's what you do though!!!!), so that's why i feel like low n-count, virgin, or religious men may be the best match for similar low n-count women/virgins like me long-term… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 03:56 PM |
| 5 | Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable?a sexually successful man is seen by women as being more attractive. That's something being pushed by manosphere, but I never saw that working. I call that bs. I told a few girls that I have high body count, but it was usually either ignored or they asked if I have something against commitment. For women sex is easy to get, therefore they don't see value in having multiple lays. I.e. we don't value things that are easy for us to get. Maybe if I had like triple digits, it would work against me. B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 03:00 PM |
| -1 | Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable?A low count for an attractive girl is what is most desirable for the majority of people probably. I don't think girls care that much in practice, unless you are in triple digits or so. In my experiences, girls are much more harsh if you are not confident, ugly or deadbeat (in that order), but low n-count is not that high on their priorities' list. I know a few very experienced men and they don't have problems with getting into relationships. They are extremely picky and have problem with finding… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 02:57 PM |
| 0 | Would women consider a man with a low N-Count more desirable?If I was single I would prefer a guy who has a low n count but has relationship experience over a guy with high n count but has no relationship experience. If his n count is high when single but he also had long term relationships I would consider that. This is of course in addition to other things I would be vetting like his personality etc. This is very very true :) You don't learn much from ONS. I think the best type of a man has (i) a couple relatonships and also (ii) lots of casual sex betw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 12:30 PM |
| 0 | Handsome Wants as Handsome Does: Physical Attractiveness and Gender Differences in Revealed Sexual Preferencesyou're good, did what's best for yourself Lol, a classic revenge of the nerd :P semi-virgin ? low n-count? I don't think she ever had any PIV before me. I have high libido and I am sexual and I mentioned that on our early dates. She played it like she liked sex too, but then (i) she delayed for a few dates (till I got pissed a bit), (ii) our first times was painful for her and (iii) she didn't know what to do in bed for first two years. My wifey is very stubborn and doesn't like to verbally ackn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Handsome Wants as Handsome Does: Physical Attractiveness and Gender Differences in Revealed Sexual PreferencesThis is clearly a lie considering your willingness to help women cheat and be all around hoes in general. If they are willing to put out for me - I am glad to fuck them. But it's my choice who I want to date and commit to. Anyhow, to calm your soul - I am married now and not planning to came back to playerdom (that's if I don't have to). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 12:46 AM |
| 0 | Handsome Wants as Handsome Does: Physical Attractiveness and Gender Differences in Revealed Sexual Preferencesi get it, i would be bitter in your place too if i just wanted a good woman to settle down with/love but they were doing me wrong. but like you noted, this is not all Western women, and women who do others wrong get what's coming for them. I eventually just stopped approaching American, British, Canadian and Australian girls. I am sure I missed some good ones, but hunting for those 10% is just low return of investment. i don't think there's anything inherently wrong with women being promiscuous … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/21 12:01 AM |
| 4 | Handsome Wants as Handsome Does: Physical Attractiveness and Gender Differences in Revealed Sexual Preferencesthis sounds a bit angry I wasted my 20-ies on being a good boyfriend for hoes like the mentioned ex, then I fell for another hoe that cheated with her sugar daddy. Of course I sound angry. Only when I found game and PUA, learned those tactics and started fucking around, I could find and pull a good woman. Yes, I was naive before; however, I always wanted to marry and have a family - why it was necessary to become a player beforehand? I could have family a decade ago. This is insane what lack of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Handsome Wants as Handsome Does: Physical Attractiveness and Gender Differences in Revealed Sexual PreferencesLook, there is a difference between (1) 'I-had-one-ONS-and-never-again' and (2) 'I-fucked-whole-football-team-but-it-was-in-my-college-and-now-I-am-ready-to-settle'. The first one had experience and it's OK - we all do those things when young. Young girls are naive and it's easy to play them. She learned from it and never repeated. That's cool in my books. I did lots of stupid shit too. The second one is the damn worst entitlement I can imagine. She's just a bad and risky deal for any man. I don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 10:56 PM |
| 11 | Handsome Wants as Handsome Does: Physical Attractiveness and Gender Differences in Revealed Sexual PreferencesThe problem is men don't seem to be satisfied with this these days and they all want the kind of sex that a high value man can have. Chad got the best of her, i.e. her sexual experimentation phase in her prime (20-ies). Now, when she's older (30-ies), she wants a man to pay the full price of commitment for something other man got for free? I had an ex like that - called me back after a decade. In my 20-ies she dumped me for some singing dude, but he ghosted her. We met and she told me how 'unhon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 10:27 PM |
| 6 | Handsome Wants as Handsome Does: Physical Attractiveness and Gender Differences in Revealed Sexual PreferencesSometimes I wonder what is left to debate on this sub. Chad does whatever the fuck he wants, when he wants. If you're not one then you're going to have to put in work and jump through hoops. No wonder married women rule with an iron fist over their husbands. Chad does whatever he wants - that's true :) However, there is another type of man who benefited a lot from modern dating. If you looking 'good' (6-7 range) - a bit below Chad level (8-9) which is possible for most of guys after some dressin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 09:50 PM |
| 0 | Unpopular opinion: Many mothers give horrible dating advice to their sonsMother also gave very wrong advice to their daughters: https://youtu.be/yE4cvtWznd8 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 07:01 PM |
| 2 | The most important thing for a man in a relationship is to know that it isn't transactional. If a man believes the woman sees the relationship as transactional, he'll treat it as transactional too and do as little as possible to get laid.It’s because you’re hypocrites who want it both ways It’s because you’re hypocrites who want it both ways Nah, I just adapted to the current dating market. I tried to date old-school and was screwed a few time. Then I went into player mode... It worked. Sure, I broke a few hearts, but I got what I wanted. Treat me like shit in my 20-ies, you will get the same treatment back in my 30-ies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 04:35 PM |
| 1 | The most important thing for a man in a relationship is to know that it isn't transactional. If a man believes the woman sees the relationship as transactional, he'll treat it as transactional too and do as little as possible to get laid.There is a whole /r/seduction sub for that topic. I personally was the most suited for day-game (where you approach girls on the street in day light). Without many details there are three phases in classic pickup (let's skip same day lays because those are more rare): cold-approach and get her number - it's a pure display of confidence and humour. You want to have 5-10 min conversation and get her contact. it takes practice but you can master it in 3-6 months text-game - here you want to keep it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/21 01:39 AM |
| 1 | There are too many variations in dating to try to have a discussion about itOh great, you’re bringing kids into the world. What could go wrong? Exactly that - against all odds and cheating hoes, I am bringing kids to that world. The question is WHY it took so much pain and time to do something so simple like finding a decent woman to have a family with? Why I sound angry, you ask? If not for those cheating hoes, I would already have a couple of kids and a happy family, but noooo... I had to first became a player and unlearn how to be nice, so I can be considered to be a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 10:09 PM |
| 2 | There are too many variations in dating to try to have a discussion about itSame here. It doesn't say much more than whether she's marriage material or not Because 'women want to be understood' and stuff. Like to somehow makes them marriage material, lol. I am calling it for what it is - entitlement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 08:35 PM |
| 0 | There are too many variations in dating to try to have a discussion about itWhat I’m telling you is that you usually don’t know (as a man) that the woman you’re sleeping with has issues. Lib feminism is an attractive ideology to those who see having sex as a salve for their problems. Look, I don't care about their mental problems. Most of the time I just wanted my dick to get wet. If they let me fuck them due to some liberal ideology, I am all for that. Just please don't bring this ideology up when I am looking for a serious dating. My wifey was a decent woman who resis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 05:31 PM |
| 1 | There are too many variations in dating to try to have a discussion about itLol, I am not saying I don't judge them. Of course I do, I just don't broadcast that. Look, there are girls for fucking and there are girls for marrying. It's her problem so I classify her correctly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 05:28 PM |
| 1 | There are too many variations in dating to try to have a discussion about itTrp is mostly moaning dudes, who do work on product, but completely lack marketing. Check /r/redpill/ and /r/seduction/ - the combination of both works the best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 04:20 PM |
| 3 | There are too many variations in dating to try to have a discussion about itthat's very true :) Most of my bangs come from time when I didn't care what I fuck (2-3 new girls per month, mostly 5-7 range). I had zero self-esteem (being freshly cheated on). When I cared, it had maybe 1 new girl per 2-3 months (mostly 7-8 range, sometimes 9). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | There are too many variations in dating to try to have a discussion about itIt’s the same with sexual relationships. Women who are sleeping around aren’t usually doing it because they’re just horny or love Chad’s attention or whatever. Most of these women are traumatized or depressed or have low self-esteem and want validation and the only place they know to get it is from men. The sex is a result, not a cause. I disagree here. Some of women sleep around because they are traumatized; however, most of my bangs were with 'liberated' and 'sex-positive' women. Basically you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 04:06 PM |
| 2 | What is the future relationship between men and women?Unless the male population magically becomes attractive as women or women change the standards in their partners , no. It’s just gonna continue on a downward trend. LOL. The truth is that male sexuality has been suppressed for hundreds of years for greater good of humanity (the same applies to female sexuality, btw). If you don't believe it, check what kind of wars were in ancient and also in medieval times. Men are naturally competitive and will fight for a chance to have offspirings. Monogamy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 11:42 AM |
| 2 | A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right.Wifey was actually quite prude when we met. She's a good woman, but she had different understanding of sexuality. Plus she's very stubborn, lol. It took us two years, but eventually I was able to break throught that think skull of her (only matter of speech) and we have very good sex life now. It took many many arguments and talks, and a number of links I sent to her. But that's what happens when you have a partner who wants to be good for you - they try to change. The same applies to me and sev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 09:43 AM |
| 1 | The most important thing for a man in a relationship is to know that it isn't transactional. If a man believes the woman sees the relationship as transactional, he'll treat it as transactional too and do as little as possible to get laid.All that it's great, but (as a man) my stock is on the rise till my mid-life, while yours (as a woman) is pretty much in decline once you hit 25. Who should be worrying then about getting the best deal while he/she can? In other words - in sex-world, men have to comply with womens' rules. If you let jerks to fuck you, that's your standards and not my business. However, in relationship-world, women have to comply with men's standards. We can chose whatever we want in a partner and it happened we … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 09:24 AM |
| 2 | A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right.Idk. In my relationships it was me who usually wanted to fuck around. Girls were rather happy to stay. I have quite high-libido, maybe that's what causing it. I am almost five year married, my dick still goes up when wifey undresses, but the urges are there. I know that fucking around is not the way, thus why I commited to wifey and don't plan to cheat around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 10:13 PM |
| 0 | The most important thing for a man in a relationship is to know that it isn't transactional. If a man believes the woman sees the relationship as transactional, he'll treat it as transactional too and do as little as possible to get laid.Consider it to be a test. Tons of men will try to sleep with you - if you allowed them, then you set your base line low. In my life I was friends with very very experienced men. Those guys are far from what media portray as alpha men, i.e. James Bond. They are getting their dick wet frequently and with attractive girls. I learned how they do it and I was quite proficient myself, and it's shows with how attractive my wife is. Each one of us is saying the same - we will gladly sport-fuck sluts, bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 10:09 PM |
| 0 | The most important thing for a man in a relationship is to know that it isn't transactional. If a man believes the woman sees the relationship as transactional, he'll treat it as transactional too and do as little as possible to get laid.It's not excluse. It's just my understanding why things are like they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 10:02 PM |
| 2 | The most important thing for a man in a relationship is to know that it isn't transactional. If a man believes the woman sees the relationship as transactional, he'll treat it as transactional too and do as little as possible to get laid.It's not that they don't care because of being selfish or something. It's that they have no need to care in their youth, because the media are telling them they are the prize, etc. It's not true, but they don't see that till much later in life (when it is usually very late or too late to catch a high-quality man). Many carry that entitled attitude later in life too. Also, I am generally not interested in women who fucked too many men during casual sex. High-n disgust me although I have high body… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 01:35 PM |
| 16 | A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right.Yes. It seems that women are not evolutionarily programmed to be able to easily maintain long-term lustful sex with the same man, especially as they age. I think what TRP types call hypergamy is ONE aspect in play here: when a woman is with a man she really believes is very high status absolutely, and also relatively 'better than her' in some fundamental ways, it does make long term lust with that one partner easier. That said, even in such relationships, there is evidence that over time it gets… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 11:17 AM |
| 12 | The most important thing for a man in a relationship is to know that it isn't transactional. If a man believes the woman sees the relationship as transactional, he'll treat it as transactional too and do as little as possible to get laid.If women understood just how much men's self-esteem was tied up with being fuckable, a lot of problems in dating would dissolve. Most women simply don't care. I am always surprised how little women know about men. We have the game, tons of websites about pickup, etc. At the same time women have all these cosmopolitan-like pages which tell bs. Dang, I am still working on wifey to explain to her why men are like they are. It is hard to make her unlearn all that rubbish. It just shows how prevalent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Career women are not miserable.The moment you started insulting me and then trying to shame me so I conform to your opinions, this conversation was over. In other words - you do you, I do me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Career women are not miserable.I agree there are only a very few men like me. I have a rare mix of good career, decent genetics and also a good game. The mix of the above allowed me to have options. And, based on my experiences, I concluded that sport-fucking modern women is a good fun, but having a serious relationship with them is nothing else than pain. Therefore, when I was ready, I exclusively dated foreign-born girl who had the same ideas about a marriage as me. And it worked so far. I don't see anything of value that a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Career women are not miserable.And I don't date men, let alone men like you. You sounded a little frustrated by some words I threw at you, does it upset you because it's true? Yes, you are right. Now bug off. I am not interested in feminism-talk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Career women are not miserable.If you dont want kids then you can still date and find that special person you want to be with for the rest of your life and make a lofe with each other. If I did't want kids, I would go into poly-relationship or swinging. No need for a special person if I fuck different pussy every week. I know three couples who have just now started with their first kid and they are between 36-40.8th Yes, it's possible. But why to take the risk? Get younger girl and there is no risk :D "If you want a good husb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Career women are not miserable.If self-reporting stats are to be believed I've had 800% more partners than average. Think I'm doing OK. 8x norm is NICE! CONGRATS!!! what's average you are referring to? I managed to get to 40+ in my mid-thirties and wanted to keep going, but met wifey and she was too good deal to let her go. As such my promising playboy career was cut short :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Career women are not miserable.Do you also judge men for being promiscuous? No, because I am not attracted to men. Women don't judge men that harsh on promiscuity, but they judge them on money, career and confidence. I didn't seriousy date high-n women, my wifey doesn't seem to care about my body count. My wife didn't date shy and poor guys, I didn't care she was making 1/10th of my income. Stop applying the same standards to both sexes. We are different. If not that one fact alone is a red flag, among the many other red flag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Career women are not miserable.I'm cheap AF. But I'm 6'4". Kind of even out. Stop being cheap then. 6'4 doesn't matter that much as you think. Check my other comments for a research study about height vs. life-time sex partners. It was like 10% difference. I have average face, a bit above average body, but I still got laid a lot. Why? because I am confident and I cold-approached a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Career women are not miserable.*To each their own The women I'm friends with don't care one bit what men think about them. If a man is attracted to them that's cool, if not that's ok to. I'm lesbian so I'm not including myself when I talk about my friends and other women I know. They refuse to live their lives based on how their lives, and themselves, appear to other people. In my experience it looks like this: 20-25yo: i can do everything, i need no man! feminism is the answer to all! 25-30yo: i need no man! but i will date … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Career women are not miserable.Because I'm a middle-aged guy who doesn't want another dependant. Up your game (signals good genes) and don't be cheap (signals provider skillset). If you have both, you will be for a surprise what quality of girls you will pull. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 03:05 PM |
| 5 | Career women are not miserable.Then don't associate yourself with low-quality people. Leave the wife-hunting to guys - a high-quality man will find you. Do: be nearby (i.e. in good social circles and have friends) be attractive (i.e. stop eating like a hippo and do some exercise, learn makeup and dress well) be available (i.e. don't waste time in a relationship with some jerk) Don't: be an entitled bitch (self-explanatory) be promiscuous (i.e. it's repulsive and risky for a man, the past does matter) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Career women are not miserable.Most women I know wouldn't think of getting married before they are 30. And that's great and stuff... you know all that independence and fun... However, men are attracted to youth and there is very slim chance to find a high-quality partner after 30. Each to their own. I other words - I was 33 when I started wife-hunt and my age target was 23-27. I have career, I am fit and I am looking good. No, I didn't care about equality because I didn't have to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 09:54 AM |
| -2 | Career women are not miserable.Why are you dating women with career? 25 years old just finished uni and don't have a career yet. And if you are dating 30+ women - why are you dating 30+ women??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/21 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Bluepilled men, what exactly are the practical benefits of marriage for men these days?(i) can be valid in some cases even if I could argue about the generality you make. A hot girl has many suitors. Why she should stay with you if there are other good guys around who offer her marriage? Don't undervalue how powerful the commitment card is. I am around 7-8 personally, but I was also PUA when I met my wife. She's genuine 9 - I was able to get in her pants by my game, but I made her stick by proposing. I banged enough girls to know when I get a good deal. (ii) is completely unrelate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/21 09:26 AM |
| 5 | Bluepilled men, what exactly are the practical benefits of marriage for men these days?I am red-pilled, but here it goes: (i) Have children with a high-quality woman, because high-quality women generally won't stick around without that legal paper; (ii) Two-parents family for the next 25-30 years to raise children together and support them in early life (with current real-estate prices it's necessary. I don't see other reasons. If not (i) and (ii) I would go full-poly or swinging a long time ago (just to fuck girlfriends of those guys). Or get a few sugar babies and rotate them fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 03:33 PM |
| 2 | How much of the sexual deviance that you read about online have you actually seen reflected in real life?You thinking All women or myself is trying for some top 20%. LOL That baloney is So over blow here its ridiculous. From some dumb dating app study based on picture, a profile and looks... Reality, dating apps are a shit show for most people. Lets be real here. I completely agree about dating apps - those are shitshow and demonstrate nothing. You will be surprised but I used Tinder only for a week in my whole life. From what I read it works only for model-like men (which I am not). I am (was) spe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 10:39 AM |
| 0 | How much of the sexual deviance that you read about online have you actually seen reflected in real life?I know exactly what it is, Im an escort. They are in denial. LOL Most sugar daddies are cheapos trying to get a cheap deal. Yh, that was my impression - those dudes use those girls a lot. But hey - they wanted to sell their pussy, so that's the deal. The SA and like site are selling it like some kids of entrepreneurship, lol. It seems sugar babies think just by staying with a few dicks they can later dress it up as 'relationships', lol. I dont date at this time and its ok some many never date me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 11:31 PM |
| 3 | How much of the sexual deviance that you read about online have you actually seen reflected in real life?Its a moral failing. No diff than sellin rocks to fiends. Its exploiting addiction Morality is a subjective thing, my friend. Really, don't be hung up on ethics. Let's escorts be escorts. There is a seller only when there is a buyer. Now, please bear with me and read to the end. Think of escorting as a business deal (from girl's point of view): if you are pretty and do well as a high-class escort, for a decade you have six-digits income like a professional job (~100k per year), so +$1m lifetime … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 09:14 PM |
| 2 | How much of the sexual deviance that you read about online have you actually seen reflected in real life?Look, there is nothing wrong with selling sex. It doesn't make you abomination or something. There is nothing glorious about that profession, but there is also nothing horrid. It's pretty much monetisation of someone's youth. However, there is lots of wrong with later lying to men or trying to shame them into having something serious with a (former) sex workers. I see a lot of that on Reddit, Twitter and other social media. Being sexually promiscous is not attractive in a partner. For me it's li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 07:46 PM |
| 3 | How much of the sexual deviance that you read about online have you actually seen reflected in real life?You assumed a lot about me in all those paragraphs. You don't know my N count and you being married doesn't improve my opinion of you/your friends. Well, what do you think about me doesn't matter. I told you directly what men care about. What you do with this knowledge is up to you. Guys that care about n-count and treat women the way you do aren't guys I want as friends much less boyfriends. In my opinion and experience, guys who care a lot are actually the ones who will stick to you when you g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 04:52 PM |
| 3 | How much of the sexual deviance that you read about online have you actually seen reflected in real life?You forgot to call me 'incel', 'insecure', 'immature' and not 'sex positive'. LOL. Actually, being a former player, I was inside yours-like vagina a lot. And it's fine to bang you, it's just I don't want to have any relationship with you later. It's called sport-fucking for a reason :P Guess what - once I was done with girls like you, I used my skillset and I found myself a nice low-N woman for a life-partner. It took a good two years of teaching her how to do a proper BJ, but now our sex life i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 04:30 PM |
| 3 | How much of the sexual deviance that you read about online have you actually seen reflected in real life?You assume the men don't know their gf's past, but the most promiscuous women I've known never hid their past at all. Most men don't know their gf's past. Just search on Reddit and see how many posts are there: https://www.google.com/search?q=reddit+gf+used+to+be+promiscous They still married great guys. Google for couple images of married porn stars. The most of them are married to other adult actors. However, take a look at 'civilian' dudes and notice how greatly unattractive they are in compa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 04:24 PM |
| 5 | How much of the sexual deviance that you read about online have you actually seen reflected in real life?She got £5000 for two or three months (sex-night once per week) - I am not sure for how long exactly because she tried to play it down. I saw emails where she tried to finesse this dude for more money (but he refused, lol). In their heads it's not a sex work (but 'relationship'), because they are banging only one guy. To be honest, I was also initially too confused (shocked) if to classify it as a sex work or not. Till the end she refused to call it 'prostitution' and always called her sugar dad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 03:26 PM |
| 8 | How much of the sexual deviance that you read about online have you actually seen reflected in real life?They are escorts (or sex workers if you want to be politically correct) in fact. Lots of them deny that, lol. Source: my ex and her girlfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 02:22 PM |
| 4 | How much of the sexual deviance that you read about online have you actually seen reflected in real life?Why would your wife's sexual history be a problem anyway, as long as it was done before? Because most of men are not attracted to (formerly) promiscous women. There are evolutionary reasons for (i.e. is that my child? her past disgust me) and also logical (i.e. i am not the only dude in town with game; i don't want to be compared to her former bf; did she learn anything useful for a relationship from all those ONS?; etc.). Past does matter. In those divorce-friendly times the commitment is a ris… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 02:15 PM |
| 2 | How much of the sexual deviance that you read about online have you actually seen reflected in real life?I have been on the receiving side of those more 'un-standard' things a few times: an ex was a stripper and then had some amateur porn videos presence. once I found out from her 'ex' we broke (he was in previous videos with her, he thought i am the next performer so he gave me tips); an ex had a sugar daddy. once I caught her, she had another one. we had two-years open relationship where i fucked round. that was very toxic one and mentally fucked me. she was also into light BSDM and i tried to pu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/21 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Is the juice worth the squeeze?Interesting take, I do think its harder to move up the scale the higher up you go. But you don't have to be top 10% in muscles & height & income & charm, etc. You just have to be overall good enough to be in the top 10% which is very difficult but more attainable By being top 10% I mean being all-around, i.e. being wealthy, confident and having looks, etc. Another thing - I have no ideas what those fractions mean. +1/2 standard deviations or on of 10 point scale? +1/2 - you can pull a girl +1 or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/21 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Is the juice worth the squeeze?In my experience top 20% is were you kinda start to be noticable by girls. Reaching those top 10% is damn hard till you are incredibly lucky with height and muscles, and also good career, money, etc. I got somewhere to top the 20% too, but moving up is waaay harder. There is a huuuuge jump for earning 100k to earning 1m and less than 1% of men can achieve that. However, there is a hack how to make it work - start cold-approaching like crazy - that will increase your options (you still will be re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 11:10 PM |
| 3 | Opt-in vs Opt-out Subscription == Dating vs MarriageI know why marriage existed as a difficult opt-out system (ostensibly: kids). This is practically the only reason for marriage. Both parties decide they will resist their natural urges for the sake of kids, i.e. her - not sleeping with the most alpha man in her youth; him - not fucking around and sticking with girl when she's older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/21 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?Oh? I'm very curious now. What country? Will DM you :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?Yes! I spent years being so angry at all the people that made me blue pill. The reason I engage in this forum at all is to connect with people like you and to try and reach out to blue pill guys who need help. You can find many depressed dudes here. It's sad dating market came to this state. Regarding your wife... I know I don't have to say this, but value her! This AWALT thing only applies to a small handful of topics like having a vagina. LOL... I probably just pissed off some trans activists.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 10:44 AM |
| 1 | There's more male virgins than female virgins, but there's also more male sluts than female sluts.OK, change it then to 'West Africa' and 'Scandinavian Countries'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 09:54 AM |
| 1 | There's more male virgins than female virgins, but there's also more male sluts than female sluts.'It's difficult to make friends' goes for any country I been to. If you are outgoing, then you meet people. I used to cold-approach in Gothenburg near the Centralstation and in tram. In London you can day-game on Oxford Street and roughly half of people are foreign-born. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/21 09:52 AM |
| 3 | There's more male virgins than female virgins, but there's also more male sluts than female sluts.Well, I lived there for two years :) Swedes are beta as fuck. If you have any game, you will bang Swedish girls in dozens. Google a bit, there was some post here on PRD a month or so ago with a few articles from swedish newspapers. Here are good ones: https://www.quora.com/Whats-it-like-to-date-a-Swedish-guy https://www.thelocal.se/discuss/index.php?showtopic=44067?showtopic=44067 Basically, they are super-nice, are tall and handsome. However, Swedish men generally lack any direction on life and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 03:57 PM |
| 2 | How do you know if you’ve been settled for?OP, as 20+ yo you should not think about setting at all. Have fun, fuck around, do your thing. The earliest time you can start thinking about settling is your early 30-ies. At this time your value will be the highest and your current 'insanely hot girlfriend' will be blank in comparsion. In any relationship, it's a girl who should be worried if you settled with her. She should be telling herself that his exes were uglier than her, etc. This is the power dynamics you want and this will keep her h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?My story is pretty similar to yours except I married the girl that is your ex, and instead of a sugar daddy, mine was fucking around with a drug dealer. Rich Bitch syndrome. I also got crazy insecure about money... but mostly because my ex pretty much put me out on the street when I filed for divorce. Sorry man :( I know exactly how it hurts. Fucks you up mentaly really hard. I still have some anger triggers, eight years after d-day. Wifey is a good woman, she helped me a lot to move on. I was l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/21 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?I think your categories are probably correct... which is why people tend to play in both worlds. I think Red Pill focuses a lot on female dating behavior and how to market yourself to them. Idk, I went into day-game without knowing what Red Pill is. I started reading what's attractive for girls to get a hot wife. I read how to improve myself for both lays and long-term attraction. I was a nerd, so I had most of long-term stuff fixed already. I never planned to be in game for that long. Then I fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?I see Red Pill as increasing your value by gym, fashion, career, etc., but not that much about cold-approaching and actively trying to self-market yourself. They don't really study routines or try to play dating game. I see PUA as mostly cold-approaches, routines and dating tactics, but not that much about self-improvement. I was mostly hanging out with PUA and they don't really focus on anything else than mastering game and maybe gym / fashion (because it helps with attraction). However, those … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?Better they are black-pill than blue-pill simps. At least they are aware of how things are. There is not that much distance between black and red pill / PUA. It just takes motivation and get your ass out of the basement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?Yh, but try to tell that those responders. I am out of energy for today, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 10:20 PM |
| 0 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?He's fit and tall, all else isn't as important. And that makes sense, he isn't American and neither are you. Can't relate to non American people. I live in London, UK. We have the same feminists-cluster-fuck here. I learned how to fuck British girls and then looked for serious relationships elsewhere. My wife is not from UK and I am happy with it. Just. Don't. Date. American*. Girls. (* = American, British or Canadian) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?Dude is 6'3+ and is definitely not fat, at least not American fat. They say 6'1" here https://www.datingskillsreview.com/yad/ There are some photos - is he 'handsome' in your books? For me he's ugly as fuck. Yet he still is able to pull good pussy. lets see him be successful with that caliber of women while being actually overweight. He never goes for American, British or Canadian women. Neither do I and neither should you. It's just too much pain to fight with all the feminism bs. Don't be fat.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 12:38 PM |
| 3 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?Your success with women is coded into your DNA. Thank you :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 12:04 PM |
| 3 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?There's actually red pill guys that buy into cold approach PUA? From my understanding Red Pill guys work on themselves, but completely miss the self-marketing side. PUA usually focuses on self-marketing, but somewhat misses the self-improvement side. If you want to succeed, focus on both at the same time - it worked well for me. Cold approach never worked and absolutely doesn't work in the age of declining social interaction. If it's working in any shape or form for you it's because you're good … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 12:02 PM |
| 5 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?A 5’5” average looking guy isn’t attracting a lot of attractive women no matter what bullshit he says. One of the best PUA I knew was Indian 5'5" (or something in that area). But he was ripped, dressed well and had lots of charm. He dated fooking smooth Latvian girl in her early 20-ies. After they broke and she got new boyfriend, he still fucked her on the side. Look, if you have this mindset, I cannot do much for you. Learn how to be outgoing and fun-to-be-with person, then miracles will happen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 11:54 AM |
| 8 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?Some of them were 5'4" and some 6'5" :) There is not that much in being tall as people belive. Check this: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1474704915604563# (scroll to Figure 1) 5'10" -> 12 lays 6'5" -> 13 lays Once you are above 5'8" is makes a little difference. In my experience it's more in confidence than looks. Yh, the tall guy might get more attention, but does he fuck-close all those girls? I doubt it :) Once I started PUA, I met some tall / handsome guys. Especially one - A. fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 11:26 AM |
| 8 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?There's a reason it's called 'building' confidence. If you build it on sand, you're fucked every time. I saw deadbeats from coucil houses who were able to pull hot girls just by pure confidence. They were delusional in their confidence, but it worked every single time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 10:14 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many young men falling behind on the dating market (and just life in general)?Love and emotions? Lol women hate emotion. That will get you dumped. Love? Men value love. Stop watching disney movies It's not that easy :) If a woman is attracted to you, then she will hang on your every word. If she despises you, then any show of emotions is auto-dump. As for 'men value love' - maybe I am weird, but I came to this world to have children and leave my legacy before I depart. Love is useful only to that extend if allows you to keep woman happy. However, please take that with the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 09:58 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who is taller than you?Come on... a quick Google. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1474704915604563# (scroll to Figure 1) 5'10" -> 12 6'5" -> 13 +1 lay, LOOOL. Once you are above 5'8" is makes a little difference. Damn, learn game and cold-approaches, you will make +10 lays in a year. I am 5'10 and I was 40+ bodies when I met wifey. If I didn't met her, I would be 100+ bodies now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 02:10 PM |
| 4 | Why are so many young men falling behind on the dating market (and just life in general)?Yeah and how did he lose his virginity if he was shy? A girl got him, lol. We both went abroad and it's hard to date other nations till you actively want to do it. From their photo she's 6 (a big chubby but with big boobs). I haven't met her yet, but he says she's kinky. Being super ripped is not that impressive Lol, trust me - it is. I am trying to get six-pack for a while now. I am much stronger then most of men, but I am ectomorph. I do bench a lot, I can lift a lot, but it's not visible. I d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who is taller than you?LOL, that's kinda true. I still need to figure out how to fuck wifey doggy well :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 01:53 PM |
| 6 | Why are so many young men falling behind on the dating market (and just life in general)?I think it's more about exposure and options. I have a super-ripped & tall friend who is also a nerd (like I was before). You wouldn't believe but he was a virgin till 30. He's shy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who is taller than you?Yeah it's funny how height difference plays a part in sex machanics. It does, but not that much as you think. I recall the life-time number of lays being only 10% higher for tall guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who is taller than you?Wifey is slightly taller than me. Early in our dating, she asked something if a tall girl should date a shorter man. My heart froze, but I re-called a canned response 'when I fuck you doggy-style, I will be above you'. She never raised it afterwards. Yh, being tall is good, but there are many things you can do to make up for that. Not neccessary physically, although looks help a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 01:07 PM |
| -1 | Why are so many young men falling behind on the dating market (and just life in general)?...and why do I need anything else than sex else from her? Love and emotions have lots of value for women, much less for men. For guys it's sex, sex and sex. I have my friends to talk to and my work to keep me intellectually stimulated. If I were not dead-set on having family, I wouldn't marry. Instead I would just fuck sugar babies and escorts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 12:22 PM |
| 10 | Why are so many young men falling behind on the dating market (and just life in general)?I have quite a successful career, but it took me nowhere in terms of dating. I got girls via cold-approaching and learning how to date (i.e. fast seduction via PUA route). Actually, the high IQ and smartness was rather an obstacle than help, because many of those girls were putting me into the 'boyfriend' category, i.e. sex only after three months of dating (because she's 'a gooood girl', lol). It's better to dress well, have muscles and fuck them asap. Only when I had sex with a girl already, I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 10:29 AM |
| 27 | Why are so many young men falling behind on the dating market (and just life in general)?As for me, my main drive was to be successful with girls, i.e. my horniness helped to push myself to make more money. My parents told me: have career, make money and you will get girls. I am stubborn so I kept following that advice throughout my 20-ies. Only later in life I learned how pointless is this and I started learning game and went to gym instead. However, I already had momentum in my career and the combination of both worked quite well. But without game I would no nowhere. Imo, it's a p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Modern western women are not “having sex to buy love”I just think it's really fun to stick needles in dicks. DAMN! That's something on another level :D :D :D I get creeps even thinking about it. What's the worst you done to the guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Modern western women are not “having sex to buy love”Yh, Covid changed a lot. Not in a good way :( It's interesting you are mentioning adrenaline. Are you getting kicks from being a dominatrix? The stripper ex mentioned a few times she gets some tingles from teasing those guys. It kinda sound weird initally, but I got used to it. Do you like your job? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/21 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Modern western women are not “having sex to buy love”Yeah, I have lots of regulars and a reputation that allows me to charge a high hourly. Interesting. As for me I would probably try it once but I won't be repeated customer :) Is that you only job or do you have some other source of income? I recall that stripper ex often complaining about having no other source of income. She also tried OF (that's why we broke). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Modern western women are not “having sex to buy love”Nope, started doing domination and stuck to that once I was established enough for it to be profitable. Ah, never tried that :) Maybe one day if wifey allows. However, I am not sure I would get off from being dominated to be honest. I dated one stripper / dominatrix for a few months. She was very upfront about her job, but we never tried. She was very normal in bed otherwise. What do you mean by being established? Are you getting many repeated customers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Modern western women are not “having sex to buy love”Lube and acting skills. LOOOOOL It's annoying as shit, which is why I'm not full service anymore. I would not ever do it unpaid. I remember one girl I wanted to do for a flag. She was so feisty that at the end of the day I just hated her. She was smoking hot, but later my dick just couldn't get up (and I am a always-horny bastard!) :D :D :D I guess you women can get away with acting. Were you doing full service for long? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Modern western women are not “having sex to buy love”I exchanged sex for money. I had sex with people I was interested in because I wanted to, and didn't regret it on the occasions when things didn't lead to more. The only time I regretted it was when it was bad, and in those cases I lost interest. Hmmm.... I am trying to understand you. I am sorry if my questions seem silly :) You seem to have two motivations for sex (i) when you like someone and it's perfectly fine (I am very sexual person too) and (ii) when you are getting paid for it. (ii) is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Modern western women are not “having sex to buy love”I've had sex for money but I've never had sex to get a relationship. When I've had sex with people I was interested in dating it was because I was attracted to them and I wanted to. Don't you think in both cases you exchanged sex because you wanted something (sex or relationship)? I.e. if there was no sex, would your partner stay with you? As for me, if I date a girl and she doesn't want sex after a few dates, I am not dating anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 09:46 PM |
| 1 | There is no correct way of approaching women without potentially coming off as "CREEPY"bruh 40+? Are you attractive? If you are attractive, there is no need for game or PUA shit When I was in my late 20, I was unattractive. I worked on myself and became attractive around my early 30-ies. I read a lot and I knew what to work on. Here I agree, I could probably go without game now. It would take much longer. However, game and PUA works like a booster. If you are 7, it gives you access to 8s and occasionally 9s. Plus I can easily go through ca.60-80 girls in a year. Without game, I wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 04:50 PM |
| 2 | There is no correct way of approaching women without potentially coming off as "CREEPY"The whole PUA industry is inventing new ways to cold-approach without coming as creepy. Direct approach, indirect approach, Yad stop, etc. There are tons of videos of pickup artists approaching, getting numbers, sometimes even kiss-closes, instant-dates and the same day lays. In most places in the West you can go directly, in some you need to go indirectly first and then switch to directly. But there is always a way. I got body count 40+ from my day-game approaches. I met my wife via cold-approa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 02:20 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men don't care about women's careers. But class definitely plays a role when it comes to datingLOL! that's true. Worked for my wifey (genuine 9) :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 09:51 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't care about women's careers. But class definitely plays a role when it comes to datingWhy did Arnold have an affair with his maid? And if the idea is to play the game of using a scale, I doubt she weighed heavier than a feather on it. Steroids make you horny :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 09:50 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Men don't care about women's careers. But class definitely plays a role when it comes to datingI am quite wealthy (six-figures income, side-business, several international investments), when I met wife I outearned her like 10x. I didn't care. She was ambitious and I helped her with studies. She got professional job. Right now it's about 7x, but my net value is around 40x hers. I still don't care. She's very hot and has nice personality (not submissive at all!). We are trying for children now. Are we power couple? I don't care :) Imho, the people marrying someone from their social status i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/21 09:39 AM |
| 2 | "Unconventionally attractive" is still conventionally attractiveYh, because US Marines are the pinnacle of all warriors on Earth... But I forgive you because I think you are an American :P You will qualify for Marines too - those fitness tests are nothing hard: https://www.military.com/military-fitness/marine-corps-fitness-requirements/usmc-physical-fitness-test As for beating most-people-to-a-pulp achievement - it's not that hard really. Most people are not fit at all and lack any martial arts training. Any good striking technique like boxing is enough to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 04:32 PM |
| 1 | "Unconventionally attractive" is still conventionally attractiveYh, I would put him 12-14% too. I am amazed how much Jeremy Meeks could get just from those looks and bad-boy vibe in a dating market :D :D :D I found this page to be a good reference: https://www.rntfitness.co.uk/how-heavy-will-you-be-when-lean/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 02:00 PM |
| 1 | "Unconventionally attractive" is still conventionally attractiveFar better or faaar better than the average slob, take it as you like. My point still stands, he definitely doesn't have ripped abs. We are the same height and for me it takes around 10-12 % to appear as ripped. He bf % is not that low ...and what I just said? (hint: the same as you) 16-18% of BF (my estimation) won't make you ripped. I kinda look like he does look on this photo, but I carry a bit more muscles. https://www.pinterest.co.uk/pin/310607705525763751/ It's still damn better than avera… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 01:32 PM |
| 7 | "Unconventionally attractive" is still conventionally attractiveHe has body fat like 16-18%, that's faaaar below the average fat slob (average BF 26-28%). He's even better if we adjust for his age group (28-30%). https://dqydj.com/body-fat-percentage-distribution-men-women/ That motivated me - I am going to bench :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 01:17 PM |
| 1 | "Unconventionally attractive" is still conventionally attractiveI hate to break it to you, but there is nothing quite unconventional about a guy that is tall, dark and handsome. HAHAHA! I love this. 'unconventionally attractive' = no super-defined abs and steroids-like physique. Yet another NAWALT snow-flake. She will give you pass on looks, because she's oh-so-special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Myth-busting single mothersWell, they got three or four dates out of you anyway! Lol, that's true! But I was always dating en mass anyway, so one girl less didn't matter. I kissed (fucked) lots of frogs before I found wifey :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 06:55 PM |
| 2 | What's the point in marriage?marry the one that you can't live without. If you are in the state of mind that you cannot live without someone, then you absolutely SHOULD NOT marry. Sorry, but that's just asking for codependency and abuse. One of you will have leverage and the other one will build resettlement. I got that as was a default mode a few decades ago, but in modern times marriage is very dangerous for men. Sex is plently to go around - actually it's better to be in multi relationships for more sex and variety. Also… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 11:47 AM |
| 1 | As the average American woman is 171lbs @ 5ft4 is wanting a slim girlfriend under 140lbs now considered "high standards?"...or skip the whole advertising alltogether. Just go out and start approach what you like. They like you or not, but if you 1000s approaches, a few will like you. Also, a bold approach in a day-light is display of confidence. You will be remembered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Myth-busting single mothersMakes sense that single moms would be found on tinder. They don't really have a ton of access to the dating scene like bars and clubs or w/e. Tindering is very accessible while tending kids. That too, but I primarly think they try to hook up guys on their looks first and then hope he doesn't ghosts them when he learns about kids. The way it went in my dating was like a pattern: I met girl, she's dolled up and responsive She's very nice, therefore I am thinking - maybe that's the one for me? Thre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/21 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Myth-busting single mothersAwesome stats! Nevertheless, the Tinder is ful of single-mums. I my dating times I met three or four single mums. None of them mentioned their kids before 3rd or 4th date. Further dates didn't happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Monogamous relationships aren't the cure for the "desire" problem for men who can't have casual sex, they are simply the only realm where they are toleratedFor the greater good of women. For the greater good of both sexes. If you let it run in a wild west manner, then you will have 20% of guys taking all the women. Then 80% of guys will run wild. I don't care how much alpha you are, you cannot go against four desperate men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 12:17 PM |
| 0 | Monogamous relationships aren't the cure for the "desire" problem for men who can't have casual sex, they are simply the only realm where they are toleratedSounds like she’s got a real keeper Lol, not really. I was setting up my harem when I met wifey. She blew me out of water. I was seriously considering joining poly community just to fuck their girlfriends, lol. I am smart enough to recognise that's family is worth keeping my dick restricted to one woman. Everyone has it's own priorities. It just happened that I have a chance to improve our DNA (because wifey is rare combination of beauty and smarts) and I won't let down my ancestors :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 10:17 PM |
| -1 | Monogamous relationships aren't the cure for the "desire" problem for men who can't have casual sex, they are simply the only realm where they are toleratedLol, maybe. But I also think kids need both parents for 25-30yrs. I fucked enough girls from single parent family (it's a goldmine of ONS!), so I know kids need both parents. At the time mine will be ready to go on their own, I will be old fart, so I can stick with wifey as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 09:44 PM |
| 0 | Monogamous relationships aren't the cure for the "desire" problem for men who can't have casual sex, they are simply the only realm where they are toleratedIn my experience, the best of men are somewhat promiscuous They are more likely to cheat and divorce, are they not? The will to fuck everything that moves is in us always. Men are more likely to have an unrestricted sociosexual orientation but I don't think the disparity is as high as you make it seem. There's this weird idea in society that any man who isn't having casual sex simply doesn't because they can't, it's not true though. I was pretty lame guy before I found game. Once I had options, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 09:24 PM |
| -2 | Monogamous relationships aren't the cure for the "desire" problem for men who can't have casual sex, they are simply the only realm where they are toleratedI am not attacking her standards. Just presenting her other views. We men won't change :) In my experience, the best of men are somewhat promiscuous. I had my run after being cheated on and I was surprised how much social programing I abandoned (temporarily). I did some damage when gloves were off. The will to fuck everything that moves is in us always. It's the social rules that make it us act in a more civilised manner (for the greater good). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about many red pill gurus and dating coaches being shown to be not so successful in real life?I did spend about four years among Pickup Artists and I still have lots of contacts among them. You are right that most of them are unsuccessful in life and that's why they are finding a way to get women by other means. Lots of them are very red-pilled and some try to set up a business around teaching game. Generally, being successful with women also dampens their motivation. Why to work hard if you can have sex with hot women just by routines and other tricks? However, once in a while, you meet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 07:27 PM |
| 0 | Monogamous relationships aren't the cure for the "desire" problem for men who can't have casual sex, they are simply the only realm where they are toleratedI hate guys who like casual sex. Lol, then you hate like 80% of men :D Look, I can separate sex and love 100%. I can fuck girls after 2 min of knowing them. Yet I still chose to be with my wife and go into monogamous relationship (because I want family). Just find yourself a smart family-oriented guy who understands those things. Just because I like casual sex, doesn't mean I will put my dick in anyone else than wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 06:41 PM |
| 4 | Would you be happy with a romantic, caring, and compassionate relationship, with absolutely no sex ?What's there for me if there is no sex / kids / family? I have friends to go out and I don't need emotional connection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Can women be truly satisfied if they marry a somewhat physically attractive man?I still suggest to date other cultures. Even if you don't like it will be a good story :) Yeah I just don't suspect I'll meet a woman from another culture in a USA metro area That's why you need to move to Big City, get yourself into tech or something. If you survive all that, then you are super-polished :D But you seem to have it all going already. One more thing - aside from tech, it's worth to learn communications. Soft skills are very valuable later in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Can women be truly satisfied if they marry a somewhat physically attractive man?See I go the other way. I value face above everything else by a wide margin. And very certain types of faces. I can be quite picky. That's very good you know that already about yourself! As for '20 not ready for a family' - depends on a culture my friend. Definitely not Western girls, but 90% of them won't be ready for family ever. Yeah, it does depend on culture--but I'll only be within Western cultures. I laughed at "90% won't be ready for family ever." That was true in a really dark way, lmao… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Unrealistic expectations of sex is a bigger problem than the "rise of sexlessness".A few decades ago young men and women were pushed into marriages for exact this reason - to avoid men and women playing hookup games. Currently, the female sexuality has been unleashed, but men are only starting out. And when male sexuality is unleashed, the disasters happen. Just read a bit about history of Africa and China to learn how bloody those civilisations were. I am not talking about 80% of beta guys who cannot do any serious damage. I am taking about those 20% of guys who actually can … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Can women be truly satisfied if they marry a somewhat physically attractive man?Yeah ime most cities are trash for Tinder. Some it will work in. Tinder also seems to be getting harder as the years pass. This is what other people told me too. Tinder and other online dating apps got harder and harder. However, once you are 33+, those 19-22 won't be that eager to go with you (at least in the West), and then you need to move on to 25-29. This is the hardest age bracket to play imho, especially if girl is feminised (lots of them are in the West) and belives in that 'empowered' b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Can women be truly satisfied if they marry a somewhat physically attractive man?LOL. Point taken :P | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Can women be truly satisfied if they marry a somewhat physically attractive man?Yes, if you are really good it pays even more than senior managerial positions. You need to be self-learned, my friend. I did code from 12 years old (actually that will make like 25 years experience total) :D First check if you like it, because that's the work for life. Will do. Feel like I'm behind a bit as I did not start at 12, but we'll see what I can work. That's where I luckied out :) Two decades ago no one took computers seriously (at least in my native country) and we were some kind of w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/21 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Can women be truly satisfied if they marry a somewhat physically attractive man?Yeah, I see that. Kind of why I'm pivoting to that--I feel like I wasted my education, and it's a second chance to self-educate and get good at something. Would you say learning code is a go-to for those higher paying jobs? I'm still really green. Learning basics like what each part of a computer is and what it does, etc, right now. Yes, if you are really good it pays even more than senior managerial positions. You need to be self-learned, my friend. I did code from 12 years old (actually that w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Are there any extremely attractive men here who have no money/status or an unattractive personality?I'm sure you could date her if she was poor. You have to realize that every billionaire heiresses has a menu of chad gigolos to choose from. Yeah I'm sure chloe would take you up on that ONS offer, get back to me after you've finished. Lol, nope. I don't like her body and attitude. I have my own money for lifestyle and I don't care about her money. Even if I would care of having a few billions, I would not compromise my DNA code to have children with her :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Are there any extremely attractive men here who have no money/status or an unattractive personality?Having an internal slide: 'bastard +++++++++ nice guy' and dynamically applying what works at the moment is the best, imho. Good looks are always helpful, but I met a few super handsome deadbeats which cannot pull anything above 7s. Also, in my experience 8-9s girls prefer to be with a well-rounded 7s man than with some 8-9s jerk. We are probably safer choice long-term and a smart girl knows her looks will fade in a few years :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Are there any extremely attractive men here who have no money/status or an unattractive personality?True :D Living in my head was a problem till I started to understand emotional mechanics (about three years ago). What helped me was a therapist friend who has a hobby tryng to teach me (it helps that I buy him wine and beer every time). I kinda get that Chloe was under love-fog at that time (a dude with six-pack loves me, yaaay! I am special to him because I see his value, yaaay!!!). Her dad was also protecting her whole life and she didn't strike me as especially thoughfull person. All of what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Are there any extremely attractive men here who have no money/status or an unattractive personality?All I'm saying is, "seeming cool" in interviews means nothing. Actually, with current social-media-addicted generation, interviews are everything :P Look, I am trying to understand mechanics of why Chloe was attracted to him and not to some British elite dude next to her. I am not saying it's right or wrong. His case proves the blackpill. When a good looking guy commits crimes, he gets seen in the best light possible. 100% agree. Actually, there is a research about attractive people getting lowe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Are there any extremely attractive men here who have no money/status or an unattractive personality?So do plenty of domestic abusers. What facade they keep up in public has nothing to do with how they are in private. How do you know how they are in private? I didn't hear he hit her or something. If he did, Chloe's dad would immediately take her back. Nah, I think he just did what he did, i.e. made her kid and run away. That makes him a shitty person, but it doesn't make him a abuser. Don't project. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Are there any extremely attractive men here who have no money/status or an unattractive personality?100% agree here :D That's exactly my point - she should see that trainwreck miles away. Maybe I am too much in my head, but I see those things almost immediately. And I don't commit to those people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Are there any extremely attractive men here who have no money/status or an unattractive personality?Right, because being a member of the Crips, possessing firearms and beating up 16 year olds is....not aggressive. Sorry, I should use the word: 'he doesn't SEEM to be aggressive'. If you meet me, you will think 'nerd and clueless about women'. While in fact I was pretty good PUA a few years back (I am married and got a bit rusty now). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Can women be truly satisfied if they marry a somewhat physically attractive man?I mean, there's other cities in the US with top companies. It may be a little bit before I can get into those top companies though. I do have a degree from a T20 college, but it's not in comp sci (or anything useful). Definitely made a mistake there. Working on fixing it, tho. Good! The thing with IT is that you can get in if you are good, there is no need for a superb education. BUT you need to be really good and be able to develop complex architecture and systems. I am a nerd (of that's not ob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Are there any extremely attractive men here who have no money/status or an unattractive personality?Lol. Yh, but he left her with a child. Sorry, but she ended worse than him from that relationship. But I think I get what you are saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 02:14 PM |
| 3 | Are there any extremely attractive men here who have no money/status or an unattractive personality?u/GridReXX has a point. He's not superbly-aggressive or anything. More like a lost soul or something. Plus his good looks give him lots of leeway. I was kinda in the same state when wifey met me. I was cheated on a few years back, just exit-ed a toxic relationship and still in combat mode. She kinda took me in because 'I had good boyfriend traits'. Well, plus I was a financial professional, had some investments and I was quite muscular and confident :P It could be the same effect for Meeks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Are there any extremely attractive men here who have no money/status or an unattractive personality?These women are treating him like a sugar baby. That would make sense. Are you saying women are also white-knighting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Are there any extremely attractive men here who have no money/status or an unattractive personality?But I can see how women who aren’t used to good looking poorer men who’ve had lack of opportunity and have thus dabbled in and out of light criminal activity are fascinated. I just struggle to understand his pull aside from his looks. I would understand if he pulled a poor girl via his money, but Chole is worth waaay more than him. And she must have seen more attractve men around her. Jeremy is matching with exactly the range of women I’d expect. How does that work? What pulled her in? Btw, I am… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Are there any extremely attractive men here who have no money/status or an unattractive personality?Meeks got a few millions from his modeling too... I kinda struggle to classify him as a high-value man. * From one side, money is money and Meeks has attractive body. He's dump, but it doesn't stop him to became a celebriti; * From the other side, he should be able to get something better than Chloe for himself. Maybe he will in the future. Guys like him puzzle me. What do you think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Are there any extremely attractive men here who have no money/status or an unattractive personality?Chloe is far from a hottie too, lol. I replied there what I think of her (in short: FWB limit before baby, ONS now): https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/lh2s9r/are_there_any_extremely_attractive_men_here_who/gmxlqrb/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Are there any extremely attractive men here who have no money/status or an unattractive personality?If you live in a big city, join day-game, guys. If you survive long enough (90% drop-off), it will polish everything in you. It's hardcode and returns are low, but your confidence will be through the roof. Also, the quality is the best from all forms of game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Are there any extremely attractive men here who have no money/status or an unattractive personality?No, she's average looking (5-6) at best and starts to be chubby (on photo she's 26-27yo): https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/6198823/chloe-green-and-hot-felon-jeremy-meeks-plan-to-have-their-baby-on-super-yacht-in-mediterranean-and-live-on-board-for-six-months/ She's not a smart one and all that 'empowerment' talk bs puts me off: https://youtu.be/2q_3U2BirRw You can be rich and still have low SMV. I am not that wealthy, but I have enough money for a good life quality. If I were single, I coul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Are there any extremely attractive men here who have no money/status or an unattractive personality?You forget Jermey Meeks is famous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Are there any extremely attractive men here who have no money/status or an unattractive personality?I like this comment. I came from the other side: in my 20-ies, I was average looking, but I was very introverted and shy. All my three exes (lol!) remember me as very shy guy. A classic nerd good with computers and math. In my early 30-ies I found game and PUA. In the next few years I redesigned myself. I became much more extroverted, made a good money and put some muscles. I got momentum. I still needed to do a lot of work to put my foot in the door (especially with hot women), but once I got i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Can women be truly satisfied if they marry a somewhat physically attractive man?Point taken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Can women be truly satisfied if they marry a somewhat physically attractive man?About the job stuff, I'll look into it. To be honest I don't like NYC--I've been multiple times as I'm from just a couple states over. Not leaving the USA either. Any other recommendations? I've been thinking about Austin, Chicago, Denver, cities like that. So something in that vein is more-so what I prefer. I have friends in Chicago, was part of my motivation to go there too. I don't know about US. I live in London, UK. My thinking is like this: go for the most money. You can always downgrade f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/21 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Can women be truly satisfied if they marry a somewhat physically attractive man?Man this was honestly really nice to read. I see a lot of parallels here to what I'm going through right now. I had a great LTR... very hot girl. When college ended I moved for a job and she said she'd come with me... only she didn't. She 'kept me on the hook' for a few months saying she'd come eventually--never ended up coming full-time. Ended up leaving me a few weeks back. Got that happen too (with another ex). Admittedly I've let my body depreciate (used to bench 250+, can now only bench abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Can women be truly satisfied if they marry a somewhat physically attractive man?You can select target group there. I always put 25-34 females. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Can women be truly satisfied if they marry a somewhat physically attractive man?Imho they should, because 90% of men are very shy. Yh, I know it's not what should be happening... but you want to have a hot partner, right? I see it as being able to control your life. But they don't approach guys, so it's our role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Can women be truly satisfied if they marry a somewhat physically attractive man?You need to be self-advertising. I suggest to start cold-approaching once the Covid is over. I am good 7.5 now (verified by Photofeeler) and the only girls who approach me are like 4-5. It's how it works, i.e. women rarely will initiate with you unless you are a genuine 9. And even then those guys are not getting 9s unless they open them first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Can women be truly satisfied if they marry a somewhat physically attractive man?Tons of women stay with trashy dudes based on their physical stats alone, meanwhile plenty of slightly attractive men with attractive personality traits get left, cheated on, or dead bedroomed in ways that are less likely to happen to somebody that is actually significantly physically attractive to their partner. That's very true, but it's only a half of story. What you don't see is what happens afterwards when she gets old. My ex cheated on with her sugar daddy. It took me two years to find my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 02:45 PM |
| 4 | Can women be truly satisfied if they marry a somewhat physically attractive man?Imho there are three types of bonding: sexual-bonding, when a partner is just your type, i.e. he's mucular if you like muscles, he's tall if you like tall, he's black if you like blacks, etc. A girl fells pleasure when she has sex with that man and then she conditions that sex with him equals pleasure; emotional-bonding, when a partner is trustworthy and reliable, i.e. you can feel safe with him. A girl will feel safe with a man if she feels can trust him; logical-bonding, where partner provides… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 02:36 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Almost all the things you listed only become relevant after meeting a certain baseline standard for attractiveness. But the attractiveness comes first, for both men and women in most cases And while most of the physical characteristics men select for can be achieved by most women fairly easily with a little effort (gym/don't eat like a pig, makeup, etc.), the ones women select for are often more innate (height, facial structure, ethnicity). In PUA they teach to watch for IOI (Indicator of Intere… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 10:37 AM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Money, gifts and, in come cases, green card / visa. I know one Egyptian man who married to an older German lady. He came to Europe, waited three years and applied for citizenship. The same day he started divorce proceedings and, a year afterwards, he brought his girlfriend to Europe. Where I live many non-Western men establish their right to stay by having babies with white fat girls. They don't care about their kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?In general population 80% of men are not attractive according to women standards. It's how it is and being butt hurt about it is not productive. One way to be unique in that bodies' mass is to be visually attractive. If that is not possible for you, then the next best thing is to win girls by confidence, humour, being interesting person, being wealthy, etc. I have good news for you - you are lucky winner! You have been born a man and you have a lots of potential to improve. In other words, throw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 10:11 AM |
| 0 | CMV: If all men were suddenly attractive, women would find all men attractive and not just the top 20%Then you shoould be happy to live in times where porn is plently and it's free! One last reply from me - fix your confidence and attitude. Miracles will happen afterwards :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 09:39 AM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.I really doubt at late 20 guys are sexually attracted to 40+ women. It's a transactional sex for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 10:35 PM |
| 1 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.cougars dating younger men from 3rd world :P | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?an experienced man is attractive. My wife said once that I must have done it all. having a passion or two is really good for conversations. You need to be well-rounded to be able to talk about a whole range of topics. I don't know if that's just me, but the last few replies to my posts are like 'nah, it's all looks' or 'it doesn't work'. This is supposed to be purple pill, not blue pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 10:21 PM |
| 5 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Or he's rich Gold digging doesn't apply. Imho, it's the same bs as sugar baby (just more permanent), not a quality woman. Wanting a guy who will provide for family is one thing, wanting a rich dude for his lifestyle is gold-digging. You need to get wifey in T-Shirt and with a couple of drinks. Then you know she will love you and not your money. Wifey didn't know my income and assets fot the first year. I have high six figures income but I prefer to save it for kids. I pretended to be just a norm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?Judo by itself no. But it will you self-confidence that you can kick someone's butt :P Plus your gf will know you can defend her. It also could be that judo is on her check-list :P Btw, if you are into martial arts, I suggest grappling/wrestling (awesome submission moves and holds!) instead of judo. Then learn some striking technique like kick-boxing (back-kick!), mua-thai (elbows!) or boxing (combos, combos, combos!). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 09:55 PM |
| 11 | As a man you have the privilege of compensating with other attributes other than looks, and dating attractive women. While women can't really do the same.Nah, a 4/10 man has no chance with 8/10 girl, unless she has some really fucked up past, i.e. porn star or heacy drugs user. And even then it's unlikely. You can get +1 for confidence, +2 if you have confidence and game, +3 if you are crazy good with game (Neil Strauss level). All those assuming you can cold-approach like crazy and sort out everything else. In the West, if you are 6-7 guy you have a chance with 8-9 if you play it right. That's what you should aim for. Edit: I don't consider gold… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 08:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If all men were suddenly attractive, women would find all men attractive and not just the top 20%Idk, it worked for me to get lays once I become good. However, I got my first number only after a few months of cold-approaching and the drop off from day-game is like 90%. I could point you to good materials, but I don't think it will work for you. As for Tinder - I was able to upgrade a friend of mine a bit with good photos and a funny profile (because of Covid there is no day-game now). But the results are still shitty, i.e. we went from 2-3 match per week to around 10. Out of that maybe 1-2 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?Men have much more improvement options available to them. Look, I really could write a book about that, but I just don't have energy now (I am working online) Let me start with obvious ones: fittnes, fashion, grooming confidence, being funny, charisma being a leader, courage psychological maturity, understanding and controlling ambition, income, net assets value skills, education, niche skills to make money artistic side stubbornes, never giving up, optimism height, big dick :D hardcore masculin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as “shallow” as womenNo, it's their locals. Most of Thai guys are just so low value that they can get away with this because girls have no choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 11:52 AM |
| 0 | CMV: If all men were suddenly attractive, women would find all men attractive and not just the top 20%Alright a few things. You literally said your looks improved. If you didn’t go through an overhaul making you a 7-8 then your “game” would not have worked from the getgo. Which supports my belief, that there is no “game”, your looks are your qualifier. I had my photos from before the game and after the game. I was scored (on photofeeler) around 5-6 on photos before I started working on myself and then around 6-7.5 once I put some muscles, started caring what I wear and kept groomed myself better… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/21 11:27 AM |
| 0 | Men are just as “shallow” as womenShe could be from some 3rd world country. I saw this kind of deals in Thailand and West Africa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Men are just as “shallow” as women26yo 7 paying for some fat dude? DAMN!!! I have not seen that one yet :D :D :D wtf were you doing with that dude? Do you have kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 01:38 PM |
| 0 | CMV: If all men were suddenly attractive, women would find all men attractive and not just the top 20%My friend, I can ensure you that this mindset won't get you hot girls :P I was about 6 look-wise when I found game and started my overhaul. By going to gym, fixing my fashion and grooming, I upped myself to around 7-8 in two years. By learning how to be confident, I was able to sleep with 8s. By being more confident and social, I was able to double, then triple my income. By learning game and cold-approaching, I was able to get a genuine 9 and by being a good boyfriend, I was able to walk with h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 10:34 AM |
| 5 | CMV: If all men were suddenly attractive, women would find all men attractive and not just the top 20%Thanks to feminism it may actually happen :P Have you seen how many old women are out there childless? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/21 09:22 PM |
| 6 | CMV: If all men were suddenly attractive, women would find all men attractive and not just the top 20%4) Learn game and use it. Cold-approach like crazy till your dating performance is super-tight and you do 80% things right and don't do wrong things. Then you can get girls +1hb (half a year experience), +2hb (two-three years experince) and +3hb (if you are master!) vs. your attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/21 09:03 PM |
| 9 | CMV: If all men were suddenly attractive, women would find all men attractive and not just the top 20%Average Men today already are far more attractive in absolute terms than 200 years ago. Most men have access to dental care, don’t have growth defects due to malnutrition, and are at least literate enough to string together some coherent thoughts. THIS. I never thought of it, but it's very true. An average male 200 years ago would be much worse looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/21 09:01 PM |
| 0 | A ‘Masculinity Crisis’? China Says the Boys Are Not All RightThat's a bit extreme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/21 09:12 PM |
| 1 | A ‘Masculinity Crisis’? China Says the Boys Are Not All RightDAMN! Chinese are smart! I wasted a good five years of my top productivity time to chase a marriageable girl. I could setup some company during that time. In China, girls are shamed for playing stupid games (Google for 'leftover women'). They marry young and don't create a headache for guys. How do you think a nation gets powerful and rich? By motivated and ambitious men who work their ass to take resources from other nations. Not by having a bunch of guys running after spoiled women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/21 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?Maybe tone down the condescension, it's not the best way to convince anyone of anything. To be honest, I am not looking to convince anyone. I went through a lot: I was a nerd, I was (pretty good) PUA and I did lot of reading on social-dynamics, I was cheated on (badly, the ex had sugar daddies), I was a Chad (multiple parallel LTRs) and I am now husband. I am also helping friends to create effective Tinders profiles, lol. I have been on many sides of the game (never MTGOW, lol) and I type how I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/21 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?I literally 100% agree with you on your view. Cool. The way you write is rude and patronizing. Please point me to samples. I will try to improve so they don't come out rude and patronizing. I seldom use the word Mansplaining but if there is anything that could be described as it.... And I’m not a feminist. Gross OK, it sounded like a feminist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/21 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?You are offputting because you are talking AT me and the other women like you are advising us. I believe the common word for this is mansplaining You have no good points anymore and now you are making it personal. Everything to be right, huh? LOL. Sure - please also call me 'insecure' and 'immature'. Then throw a few more words like 'objectification', 'sex object' and 'patriachy'. Don't forget 'incel' too. Afterwards, you can write a reponse with obligatory 'positive' words like 'liberation', 's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/21 02:33 PM |
| 0 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?You will be surprised how many girls still think that 'her personality will win him over' - it's the feminists 'you are always pretty' bs. Nope. First be thin, attractive, fit and look good, i.e. get my dick up - that will get your foot in my door. Then we can negotiate on personality compatibility :) The earlier you acknowledge that we are initially driven by sexual appeal, the easier it will be for you. Please notice the word 'initially'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/21 09:49 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?You demonstrate the lack of understanding of men. Don't project what you are looking for into me. I am sexual being - I like nice boobs and nice ass. This is the way you will make me come to you and date you. THEN we can negotiate emotional availability and bonding. If you think I will be attracted first to your beautiful personality and soul - keep dreaming. However, your nice persona will make me stay after banging. If you are nice and non-threating girl, I will open and we will start pair-bon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/21 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?ok ok ok :D you don't want to start a war and get this sub rallied by people from poly, swingers, etc. As for me - I would like to fuck around, but I understand it's not a way to have a family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?I will say only this - I would be very happy if I didn't have to learn all that PUA tactics and get a wife without it. However, I didn't see another option in this botched modern combat dating culture. As for non-monogamy: throughout the history, around 80% of cultures were poly-something; then the monogamous Europeans come and wiped the floor with every of those cultures; once Romans started blabbing into poly-gamy, the Roman Empire collapsed. There is strenght in a monogamous family unit. Howe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 11:13 PM |
| 0 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?'I'll be single forever' bs attitude, OK? Well if what you're saying is true that every guy does care, I'd rather not date them. Come one - I would give you a hug :) We are not that bad - just learn about men as much as you can. If lots of other guys fucked you it means two things: (i) you are easy to manipulate or (ii) you are promiscuous by nature. Or you like casual sex? But I do prefer these reasons then 'hur duh pair bonding' I do like casual sex. I am also quite kinky. I could fuck a lot w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?Then I guess I'll be single forever, rather that then be with someone who values people by the number of penises that have been inside them Edit: But no, most guys I have met irl don't care, and haven't been asked about a body count since high school Yes, they do. They just don't want to come out as 'insecure' and 'immature' because they hear that a lot in fem-media. Look, I do wish you well. I am really glad you are doing your stats masters. I did IT and it worked for me. But please don't give … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 10:59 PM |
| -1 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?My limit for a ltr is below 10. And to be honest, it's quite high limit among my friends. Most of them won't date you if you cross 5 bodies. I was cheated on baddly (the ex had sugar daddy) and tried to move on. It didn't work, but I got some tolerance. Yh, body count matters for men. Take that on board or call me 'insecure' - it's your choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 10:42 PM |
| 0 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?That's assuming that her candidate husband won't balk after hearing her body count. And that will be the fault of 'insecure' men again. Damn, I am such 'sex-negative' again. LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?Sure, there will be nice cuddly simp for you :P | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?To be fair, I have no idea if this guy is a jerk or not. I am something in between - not a nice guy anymore, not a full blow jerk :P Obviously you need to value deeper stuff to get to marriage, but this is a list to get to date #5 with as many ppl as possible. Exactly! You girls should go on dates with as many guys as possible. Not to bang them, but to learn about them. Then you can learn and pick what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 10:03 PM |
| 1 | The ultimate last resort plan for men to defeat the big guy (women) again (similar to holding the line for gamestop).What I'm trying to say is you're not getting 8s. You're getting 6s and that's fine. It's very hard to get out of your looks range What I'm trying to say you surely won't get out of your range with that attitude. At this moment my best suggestion for you is to try. You miss 100% of shots you don't take. I was surprised of what I could do. Sure, I got my share of 6-7s, but I also had my share of 8s and even a few 9s. Damn, I married a genuine 9. Would that happen if I kept repeating myself 'I am n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?Your focus was on keeping a good diet, being fit, being good at makeup and finding ways to rock his world. Adapting my whole life to suit a partner. And he will adapting his life to yours. That's called pair-bonding. He will be working, taking care of you and kids, making sure you are happy. He will be fit as well, dress well and try to be as mature as possible. When I got wifey, I switched from PUA to reading communications and psychology books. It's because I am not 100% mature yet and I can b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?I don't want to be someone's sex pet in a relationship so I'd rather be single than just be seen as a pretty face to my partner. WTF this come from? I love and respect my wife. I supported her in her studies (financially and time-wise), I helped her to get her first job (rewrote her CV, provided references and coached her for interviews). I created a pension fund for her and explained how it works. I will be helping her all my life because she's my wife. However, I am honest why I was attracted … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 04:50 PM |
| 6 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?I am taken, sorry :) Let me repeat what I say a lot - when I met wifey she was doing retail. I had my money and I didn't give a rat ass what she was doing. Do your stats master and quant job - just don't expect any man to be wow-ed by this. It's a nice bonus but nothing else. You will get much more return of investment for 30min workout 3x per week, good diet and some good fitted classic clothes. Some decent makeup skills will go far as well. Plus read some good sex notes and rock your bf world … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Highly educated women are more likely to be promiscuous than less educated women,Met at 23, married at 27 EXACTLY!!! Please stop telling young girls that they have time to settle. Nope, their attractiveness peaks at 20-25yo and then drops (quite sharply in some cases). Everything after 30yo is catching up and compromise. After 30yo there are no 9s and there are only a very very very few 8s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Highly educated women are more likely to be promiscuous than less educated women,Lovely, so now please stop giving bs advice to younger girls. Your husband did most the work, i.e. found you and dated you before you said 'yes'. You likely were only a passenger on this ride and judging someone's performance doesn't make you expert. Ask your husband how did he date you and make sure he's honest with you. You might not like what he will say, but that will be a good first step in coming back to Earth. What age did you marry? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?As for dating advice for women: be in your 20-ies, pretty, slim (don't overeat) and fit (30min exercise 3x week won't kill you); don't be a bitch, don't cheat or slut around (any sex-work is 'no-go' forever - I don't give a flying flamingo that you changed); have some job (Instagram model doesn't qualify) and don't be dumb (no need for high IQ, just have some interests); be relationship oriented (is that so diffcult not to fall for jerks?) and have a low n (fuck off with your 'sex-positive' bs);… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 04:08 PM |
| 15 | Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice?Women dating advice is tailored to those 20% of men who already crossed their attractiveness threshold. Also, lots of it is influenced by media, blogs and other commercial bs. It can (and should) be safely ignored. The only good piece of advice I ever heard was given by my mum in regards to going to gym and dressing better. I have no doubt she wanted the best for me and yet this advice was accompanied by many bad suggestions. There are a few sources of good dating advice in regards to short-term… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 03:55 PM |
| 1 | The ultimate last resort plan for men to defeat the big guy (women) again (similar to holding the line for gamestop).You are right as for stats. However, when you are in a busy city on a busy street, you can select and approach who you want. I did day-game for a few years in London plus I learned what's attractive for girls. Some guys start with 5-6s, then they move higher once they become better. I started with 7-8s and I got rejected 1000x of times (a few times nuclear, lol), but I had 100x of dates too and I fucked 10x. Stats are not in my favour and my ego got hurt a lot, so what? It's only emotions, lol. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 01:11 PM |
| 1 | The ultimate last resort plan for men to defeat the big guy (women) again (similar to holding the line for gamestop).I won't deny looks matter a lot, but everything significant aside from height can be upgraded: buy fitting designer clothes and dress well; grooming and hygiene, shave and moisturise; muscules and fitness. However, looks don't matter that much as you think :) I am around 6-7 looks and I was getting 7-8 girls consistently and sometimes 9. However, I am confident and funny. If you approach a 1000 girls and have 100 dates, you will be easy-going and smooth. I am not naturally like this, but it came… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 11:38 AM |
| 1 | The ultimate last resort plan for men to defeat the big guy (women) again (similar to holding the line for gamestop).That's not true. Most of woman's attraction is behavioral. You can easily spike attraction within realistic look-limits, i.e. no ugly will get hottie: a confident dude can get a girl +1 vs. his attractiveness (proof: look at any Chad in your nearest club) a skilled dude can get a girl +2 vs. his attractiveness (proof: me and lots of other married former PUA) a master PUA dude can get a girl +3 vs. his attractiveness (proof: https://www.alamy.com/stock-photo-ingrid-de-la-o-and-neil-strauss-neil-s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Highly educated women are more likely to be promiscuous than less educated women,I wouldn't care who my future son or daughter marries as long as they aren't like...a serial killer or Nazi. I'm not one of those weirdo helicopter parents. The first step to better yourself is to be honest with yourself. Your anecdote still doesn't change statistical data that educated people have the easiest time getting married, thus making your original comment about "spinsters" moot. Sure, a 25yo cute retail worker has a harder time to marry than 35yo career woman. 'because stats say so', L… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Highly educated women are more likely to be promiscuous than less educated women,Sure, they will get married more because they are surrounded by professionals. So what? The most of those are just average 9-5 dudes, i.e. nothing special. Just ask yourself a question - would you like your son to marry 30yo spinster? Btw, I found my wife when she was working in retail. She was gorgeous, kind and ambitious. Do you think I cared she had no ivy league education? Lol. I helped her with her study. Then I helped her with CV and coached for interviews. She works now in one of the top … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Highly educated women are more likely to be promiscuous than less educated women,What makes you think that a career women are wealthy? Give me a break :D Why suddenly 35yo career woman (end of dating-life age) makes more money than 35yo man (peak of attractiveness)? It will be same income on average, but men have much more dating firepower at this age. The few 31yo I dated (my personal cut-off time) weren't any wealthier, but much more jaded, demanding and full of shit. Good for a quick fuck, but nothing serious afterwards. This is an MGTOW fantasy. I am as far from MGTOW as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Highly educated women are more likely to be promiscuous than less educated women,We need to add one more: be a spinster because she cannot find a 'worthy' man (i.e. a dude who will stay and who outearns them). Once the Rubbicon (i.e. 30 years old) is crossed, the amount of sex partners increases very quickly. It's because men don't like to invest much time dating older women, when there is a cute 25yo nearby which is also much easier going, more open and prietter. This results in older women putting out much quicker and men moving away from them much quicker too. I saw that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Men should adopt women’s mindset when it comes to dating and relationshipsCool. Then you definitely deserve the top 1% of men in the world, because the rest is too poor for you. Thank you for a reminder why I didn't like Western women. I am going to kiss my wifey now :) Bye-bye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 12:52 PM |
| 1 | “Dark Triad traits” include duplicity and propensity for deception. It’s a lot easier to get laid when you lie about being committed.I didn't remember I who was she. I have like 200+ girls' numbers in my phone from my cold approaches :D We had one date and then she ghosted me. She was hot and maybe she wanted me to chase her more then, idk. When she called me out of blue - maybe she broke with her bf, or someone rejected her (yes, it happens to hotties too!). When she called it was like two weeks before my wedding, so obviously it went nowhere. As a rule of thumb girls won't contact you first unless they find you very attract… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Men should adopt women’s mindset when it comes to dating and relationshipsLol I think you should go first since you think men in their 30s as a general rule have the same SMV as young 20 something women. 😂 I never said that. It looks more or less like this: http://www.andychalkley.com.au/books/Girl_Power/OEBPS/images/graphs/Desirability.gif On a pure attractiveness-basis, girls have terrific advantage in their twenties. However, at this time guy can approach like crazy to nullify it. I was out 2-3 days a week, farming ca. 5 numbers per day, and having 1-2 new dates ea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Men should adopt women’s mindset when it comes to dating and relationshipsCan you please list me what men find attractive? Please answer. I just want to show you how little you know what we want :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Men should adopt women’s mindset when it comes to dating and relationshipsWhat I am hearing in your text-wall reply is 'me', 'me' and 'me'. You are approaching it from the angle 'what women want'. Thing is that you never mentioned what men want. The things is that around 30 men get lots of firepower, while women lose theirs. Normal men have little options and generally are marrying whatever is available. High-quality men have options and are marrying much younger women. I spent a few good years learning what women want and how to be more attractive for them. I spent m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 08:32 PM |
| 1 | “Dark Triad traits” include duplicity and propensity for deception. It’s a lot easier to get laid when you lie about being committed.This basically already is my mindset since I don’t wanna date anyone, I just wanna fuck There is nothing wrong with it. It will make you ready for how to get the one you really want :D The over-confident mindset helps a lot when dating. Girls react very positively to over-confident guys. If there was anything I suggest to learn from PUA (I was one if that's not clear yet) it will be confidence and cold-approaches. Look, there is absolutely nothing more impactful than walking on a busy street to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Men should adopt women’s mindset when it comes to dating and relationships30-ies are good for me too :) However, I don't know how will that unwind in my 40-ies. I am not that fast as before and there are knees issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Men should adopt women’s mindset when it comes to dating and relationshipsRisk what? Before BC women actually did just have babies until they couldn’t anymore so is it really a risk? No. There is lower ferility and higher chance of complications. For most of human history women were indeed having babies past 35 if it still worked it was working. Where are you getting this data from? Look, we have to disagree (in a friendly way!). You do you, I do me ^^ You see - in girls' 20ies, it's all about what they want. We men try to be jacked, to be funny, to be extroverted, et… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/21 09:44 AM |
| 9 | CMV: The more high value the man is , the more likely he is to want a woman with a good jobI do have STEM degree, good career and a side-business. When I meet my wife she was working in a retail shop. But she is ambitious so I helped her with her study and CV. Now she's working in one of the top London financials company. She will go even higher because she's smart. I still outearn her several times over. Do I care? No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Men should adopt women’s mindset when it comes to dating and relationshipsYh, it's sad it's happening. I don't understand those simping men and I refuse to be identified as the same species. High-quality men don't simp, especially not to single-mums. Those 50yo don't want those simping men, and at the same time they have no chance to get high-quality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Men should adopt women’s mindset when it comes to dating and relationshipsIt does get easier a lot, but only if you keep working on yourself. Keep doing gym and weight lifting, finish a good study (STEM, legal, medicine) and keep doing career, start a business, learn how to dress well, learn how to cold-approach (join PUA and try day-game). Travel a lot. If there is easy way and hard way - chose hard way. You will fail a lot, but also learn a lot. Fix what you can fix, and keep improving forever. Your life won't be as fun as others, but once you grow taller than other… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Men should adopt women’s mindset when it comes to dating and relationshipsAfter 31 the ferility goes down quickly. At 35 it's half of what it used to be and at 40 it dies out almost completely. https://www.britishfertilitysociety.org.uk/fei/at-what-age-does-fertility-begin-to-decrease/ However, this is only part of a puzzle. You need to add dating period (two years), marriage and trying for children (another two years). What if you want to have another kid (+two years) or two (+two years)? That gives eight years total to create a family. That gives cut off time 35-8 =… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 07:43 PM |
| 7 | Men should adopt women’s mindset when it comes to dating and relationshipsYea, if women were inherently more valuable than men there would be less of them, also places like FDS wouldn't exist as we would work much harder to impress women. YOUNG women are inherently more valuable than men. The moment she crosses the Rubicon (i.e. 30-35 years old) and is single, she becomes angry and joins FDS. The total sum of attractiveness of men and women is the same. However, for women almost all their value is between 20-30 and for men it is more spread. The below chart shows it p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Men should adopt women’s mindset when it comes to dating and relationshipsIt's a valid niche that can leave a 50-year-old guy in great shapes bed active, but it is very much a niche. I am late 30 and I am still pretty active. My knees are not the same, but my strength and endurance is the same as in my late 20-ies. I don't know if I am able to maintain that into my late 40-ies, but I am not going down without a fight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 04:27 PM |
| 0 | Men should adopt women’s mindset when it comes to dating and relationshipsHey, I am in my late 30-ies. How's the SMV looking forward? Can you still pull 20-30 girls? What's you target age bracket? I am married, but I will always work on myself (to keep my options open if wifey does anything stupid). I am weight lifting, trying to spin another side-business, learn more communications skills and working on my fashion. What's important to do & maintain in the next decade? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 04:20 PM |
| 0 | “Dark Triad traits” include duplicity and propensity for deception. It’s a lot easier to get laid when you lie about being committed.As much as I think that there is legitimately no one that could find me attractive That's wrong mindset, my friend. Whatever the reality is you should be always thinking 'why I should date her?' - it works. As for attractiveness - there two kinds of attractiveness for a man: short-term attractiveness (i.e. looks, height, extrovertism, money) and long-term (i.e. intelligence, personality, skills, career, money). The most important thing is: she doesn't need to like you to sleep with you. If it ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 12:11 PM |
| 1 | “Dark Triad traits” include duplicity and propensity for deception. It’s a lot easier to get laid when you lie about being committed.I don't actually think that men lying to get laid is that far into Dark Triad. Just don't do that in your social circle. I am guilty of playing a few girls this way (i.e. pretending I am looking for serious commitment). It's was just waaay simpler than being Chad. I don't fell especially bad about those few instances (half of those girls had boyfriends); however, I could be more affected if I kept doing it for longer. I was in a bad place (being cheated on a few years back), but I had lots of go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/21 07:57 PM |
| 1 | What is your ideal ONS?I do all the work trying to impress you and, if it works, you sleep with me. Then it's your turn to convince me I want you to stay. Many girls miss that, i.e. your pussy is not a golden pass. However, the convicing usually happens before sex (but I will not let you know the result). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/21 05:58 PM |
| 4 | What is your ideal ONS?I met her, she's attracted to me, we go to a few places, we go to my place, we fuck, we sleep, in the morning we fuck again. She dresses up, I make her breakfast and order Uber. If I like her, I will re-engage in a few days. If she likes me, we repeat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/21 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Ghosters who come back, is it because they ran out of options or realized they made a mistake?Lol, you don't want the guys who get it smoothly the first time. Those are the dudes with experience :D I suggest to go for nerds who have potential to be attractive. Send them out to gym & dress them up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Ghosters who come back, is it because they ran out of options or realized they made a mistake?I mean give him at least one chance, i.e. come for the first date. If you don't like him, ghost him. Look, there is really no good dating-advice for men around (there is PUA, but it's very niche). Younger guys have absolutely no clue how to be attractive. His delayed messages might be only a result of reading some dumb article 'how to date for men - keep her guessing'. When I started dating, I had lots of those stupid ideas in my head. I eventually got better, but it required dozens of dates. My… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Ghosters who come back, is it because they ran out of options or realized they made a mistake?Not neccessary. Men read all those stupid dating advices to not to text for two weeks, etc. Give them some leeway. You can always skip the 2nd date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 11:14 PM |
| 3 | People who went through a bad relationship and took the long road of maturing and building themselves after it, do you regret that you had to go through that and wish you remained as you were? Or are you thankful for the experience that you went through?I am glad :) Go and execute your plan now :) Afterwards you will never look at substandard girls as anything more that a quick fuck. It's funny when you reject girls on dates and some are completely shocked, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 04:46 PM |
| 3 | People who went through a bad relationship and took the long road of maturing and building themselves after it, do you regret that you had to go through that and wish you remained as you were? Or are you thankful for the experience that you went through?That's how you do it :) I had my IT career running, THEN I started the side gig. I was very angry / insecure from all that cheating and 'fuck all sloots!' was my motto :P I think the ex was scared that I would dump her eventually (which happened). I didn't stop till I met my wife and even then I had some momentum. But she was a good woman, so I didn't want to hurt her the same way I was hurt. As for cold approaching - yep, I got like maybe 10-15% number closes and maybe 30% of dates from it. Tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 04:37 PM |
| 3 | People who went through a bad relationship and took the long road of maturing and building themselves after it, do you regret that you had to go through that and wish you remained as you were? Or are you thankful for the experience that you went through?My world exploded when I found my ex had a sugar daddy. I was pissed and we talked about it, she broke that arrangement and I took her back. I was trying to move on. A few months afterwards I found about the next sugar daddy. We had this crazy chemistry, I was immature and felt in love already. Not easy way out of it :( The first cheating on made me angry, but not insecure (I didn't feel threatened by some old fart). The second one zeroed my self-esteem (similar old-fart). The ex said we can ope… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/21 01:58 PM |
| 10 | "Watch what women do, don't listen to what they say" doesn't work because you're not observing women in general. You're observing the women you want and the men you envy.Im not using anecdotes. Im looking at how profitable the sex industry is. You even have married men going into strip clubs and we as a society that just kind of accept it. Sex industry has a perfect symbiosis with all social media and influencers. Some girls like Dephine can hype themselves easily. That's why we see those crazy numbers, i.e. millions per month. But then you have 1000s of sex workers barely making living wage (as it was throughout the ages). However, you should also take a look a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREDamn! Please write some tutorial. I am trying to get off wifey for a couple of months but no luck. Cannot lick her, because she's ticklish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 09:48 AM |
| 3 | Men would hate it if women had a male sexuality.Man, find yourself some slutty girl - if you press her buttons right I can ensure you the sex will be ground-shaking. The thing is that you still have to pay for this via your time and / or money. And also with sanity :D I have yet to meet older pro-bono slut who shares her goodies indiscriminately. Young ones - yh, they will ride you and enjoy it. But as soon as they understand they can get stuff for their vag, the pro-bono part ends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/21 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Men would hate it if women had a male sexuality.If women had male sexuality, the sex would not have that much value. If the sex had no value, women would need to really up their game in being productive and usefull. I.e. no marrying into house, instead take your own mortgage. In other words, the world will suck for women as it sucks for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/21 10:44 AM |
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