Lab_Brat_13 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Not wanting to take his last name, but not for reasons you would think. There’s a third option that people don’t talk about enough. You can take his last name, socially and not take it legally.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/06/25 10:24 PM
22	What Is Your Opinion On 50/50 Relationships? We’re 50/50, getting married in October, and staying that way after marriage. We are a Dink couple and we make roughly the same salaries. We split everything 50/50 this includes household chores. This works for us because there are no kids involved. I don’t think this works well for marriages with kids. No matter how involved a father is with his children and even if they both work full time, a mother is always going to be doing more emotional and mental work taking care of the family.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/07/23 08:17 PM
1	Struggling and I see it's weighing on my boyfriend You need to explain to him the difference between looking for comfort and looking for solutions. Women are emotional and sometimes we need to just rant and be comforted until our emotions fizzle out enough before we are ready to except rational solutions. You need to approach him and say I just want comfort right now and I’ll let you know when I’m over it enough and ready to discuss solutions. Could be a few minutes could be a few days every person is different depending on the severity of the p…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/04/23 01:47 PM
3	He Hasn't said I Love You My fiancé and I were together for 3 years, living together and shopping for a house before either of us said I love you. We both knew how the other felt so I don’t think words were needed. Some men (and me I guess) just don’t communicate well with words. His actions can show you how he truly feels.	/r/RedPillWomen	05/01/23 12:29 AM
1	Joint bank account? We both trust each other to handle finances hence why neither one of us feels the need to control each others spending. We split everything 50/50. Maybe as the years go by we will combine things but this is what we both feel is easier right now.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/12/22 03:23 AM
0	Joint bank account? We have completely separate accounts for everything but we spilt all household costs 50/50. This will stay the same once we get married next year and we will also have a pre-nup.	/r/RedPillWomen	27/12/22 12:57 AM
22	Do you offer to split the bill on the first date? When I was dating I would offer to split the bill, if they declined then I would offer to leave a cash tip. I would usually mention something about it’s nicer to the wait staff to leave a cash tip and make sure to leave 20%. Their reaction to this would also let me know how they treat service staff. If they acted like they didn’t see a point to leaving cash or had something to say about leaving a full 20% then I knew they were probably not someone who would share my values and I wouldn’t bother …	/r/RedPillWomen	26/11/22 04:31 PM
20	Do men prefer women lower than them? My fiancé is blue collar and I’m a scientist with with a Master’s degree. My fiancé was specifically looking for a woman with a career. His life goal was what we call the Dink lifestyle. duel income no kids. You just need to find a man whose life goals match your own. One of my best friends has the same exact degree and is now the SAHM to two beautiful girls. Her husband is also blue collar. He wanted an educated woman who wanted to be a SAHM with the ability to go back to work if the need was e…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/09/22 12:03 PM
14	Trying to not feel ashamed by wanting to be a housewife. People will criticize you no matter what you do. All that matters is that you and your husband are happy with whatever family situation you decide to have in your household. It’s your family and no one else’s. I have a Master’s degree, work full time and I don’t ever want kids. One of my best friends has the same degree and is a SAHM with two beautiful little girls. Both of us chose the lifestyle that best suited us and our family and that’s all that matters.	/r/RedPillWomen	09/06/22 01:51 AM
1	Getting ready to have a baby! I agree with the above comment you should elope. I’m just trying to buy a house and the amount of hours I’ve spent on the phone and filling out extra paperwork because we’re not legally married (even though we are both on the mortgage) is an absolute nightmare. If anything were to happen to you or the baby your fiancé will have no rights to make any medical decisions. The wedding can wait but for you and the baby’s safety (in case of an emergency) get legally married first.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/05/22 03:20 AM
22	How important is intelligence in finding a HV man? I’m a scientist and by nature I ask a lot of questions. I actually find my Boyfriend loves it when I ask him questions and he gets to explain what things are or how they work. He always asks my opinion on things and feels comfortable letting me make a decision if it’s not something he’s familiar with. The red pill ideology is to let a man lead, therefore I try not to offer my opinion unless asked for it or I’ll ask if he wants my opinion and if he doesn’t, I don’t push it. I second the comment a…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/04/22 01:03 AM
5	Valentine’s Day dinner ideas?? Get a digital meat thermometer and do steak. Just google the temperature for however he likes his cooked. I prefer a medium rare steak but closer to the rare side so I like it around 130F . You can always do chicken. Dark meat is better because it will stay juicy even if you accidentally over cook it a little bit. White meat gets real dry if you over cook it. I do a homemade honey mustard chicken that’s literally honey, mustard, and chicken in the oven for 40 mins, done. Or do something in the c…	/r/RedPillWomen	13/02/22 03:13 AM
15	For the men on here: If a woman doesn't have biological kids with a man, is she mostly only good for her looks and likely to be discarded after the wall? I’m a childfree 36 year old woman dating a 36 year old childfree man. All the men I have dated in the past have all been childfree and wanted to get married. It’s more common than you think now-a-days. If it helps, basically I add to my boyfriends life the same way any other RP woman would minus raising children. Cooking, cleaning, paperwork, planning and booking vacations . Emotional support is a big one too. His major concern since he didn’t want children was to find a woman who had a career a…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/05/21 05:34 PM
17	Boyfriend can't fall asleep in bed next to me and wants separate bedrooms My boyfriend and I do not sleep well together and I told him I want to keep the possibility of separate bedrooms open when we move in together next year, in case we can never get used to it. He has a dangerous job and I want him to be well rested for work. It’s much more common than people think and it’s unfortunate people don’t normalize it. That being said you also have a right to your feelings and those shouldn’t be downplayed either. Relationships need compromise so you need to sit down and …	/r/RedPillWomen	22/12/20 01:58 AM
18	Respect and how to talk when you’re smarter than him about certain things? I agree with this comment. I’ve dated guys like that in the past and it’s awful. Find a man who will value everything you can offer him, including your knowledge! My boyfriend now will ask my opinion or advice on things. He’ll respectfully debate things we see differently on. More importantly he understands as a scientist I love to learn new things so he’ll tell me about what he did at work, explain things to me, and teach me small things about his job. A relationship is a partnership and both p…	/r/RedPillWomen	01/11/20 03:36 AM
4	Engagement ring thoughts? Tell him to purpose with a stand in ring, then you can go and pick out the real ring together. I had a friend who decided last minute to purpose to his girlfriend on vacation and that's what he did. Worked out great for them. He didnt have to worry about getting something she liked or worse losing it while traveling and she got to pick out exactly what she wanted.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/09/19 12:48 PM
1	Potential prospect seems too comfortable letting me pay. Bad sign? I dont see this as a red flag because in my mind he used it as a way to secure a few lunch dates with you. Also you offered to pay, he didnt ask.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/07/19 11:09 PM