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Almost all of Ella Mai’s music. Just listen to the lyrics she’s dead honest about the way women respond to men. She sings about shit tests and stuff. Good Bad: “you don’t wanna deal with it/you gotta be real with it/you wanna lead but you’re just in your feels that’s why I’m still winning/with that good bad behavior”
/r/askTRP09/04/21 07:31 PM
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Don’t let your woman talk to you in a disrespectful tone. Nip that in the bud day one.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 04:24 PM
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OYS 3 Age: 25 Weight: 160? Height: 6’ 2” Married for 3 years to wife of 25, with 2 year old and an infant. Body: been taking cold showers. Went to the gym 3 times this week and did 8 sets of 8 reps with the barbell. An empty barbell. Gosh I am so puny. Been eating big bowl of cereal and also cottage cheese with pineapple for breakfast. Lots of calories. Been taking ice water baths every afternoon. I go to the gas station and pick up 2 bags of ice then drop em in the tub. Soak for a while then ge…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 11:53 AM
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Horns I have been eating 3 helpings of chili a night, some kind of flax/oats/bran/ high carb cereal each morning, a bowl of cottage cheese worth pineapple chunks each morning, and a Sonic double bacon cheeseburger for lunch every day. I’ve been eating. I take my wife wanting to lose weight as a good sign. I’m not pressured to do paleo. I just wondered if I can get the mental clarity from paleo, and the weight gain from eating more, and encourage my wife in her diet, all at the same time. I’ve do…
/r/askMRP14/08/20 08:43 PM
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OYS 2 Age: 25 Weight: 155 Height: 6’ 2” Married for 3 years to wife of 25, with 2 year old and an infant. This week I have been really introspective. And eventually all these realizations about myself started coming naturally... I just started having random epiphanies during the week about “why I behave or think this way.” Body: I need to pay for premium MyFitnessPal so I can track macros. I need to check on my oral health. I haven’t been to a dentist in years since I got off my families insuran…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 12:29 PM
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I ate the fucking pizza. Hope I never see another one as long as I live.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/20 12:59 PM
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OYS 1 Age: 25 Weight: 155 Height: 6’ 2” Married for 3 years to wife of 25, with 2 year old and an infant. I am an egotistical prick. Also a Nice Guy per Robert Glover. Those kinda go hand in hand. I have never had a drop of alcohol but I’m still a drunk captain. More like a sleeping captain. I have just let these first 3 years of marriage “slip by” while I have been going through life sleepwalking. The control freak side of me has been awake, though. Endlessly bitching to my wife about how “thin…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 12:01 PM
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Testosterone was 553 ng/dL and free test was 103 pg/mL I don’t know how to interpret that.
/r/askMRP31/07/20 11:08 PM
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Your third paragraph is what I’ve been afraid of someone saying for a while now. Dude it’s so scary to think about. She chose me for the exact same reason, I’m sure. Holy fuck. Is this thing doomed? Am I ever gonna be the man she “really” would’ve been genuinely attracted to? Is she ever gonna be the little porn star “Ariana Grande” I fantasize about? I’m afraid to know the answer.
/r/askMRP31/07/20 10:06 PM
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Ok, thanks man. I didn’t see it but you’re right, it is just covert contracts. And I am trying to push buttons for sex. Or to solve any problems that arise. Ok. I’ll stop interacting with her like that. And I’ll go back and do those NMMNG exercises that I skipped the first time through the book.
/r/askMRP31/07/20 10:01 PM
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What do you mean
/r/askMRP31/07/20 09:52 PM
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Thanks dude, yeah there’s a lot of negative emotions there. Your part about insecurity festering into angst and angst festering into irritability really struck a chord with me. I really do need to stop “feeling” all this negative bs towards her and I really do need to put my problems with her on the back burner. Your last paragraph said that you “stopped getting pissed off like a little bitch whenever she annoyed you.” I have to be honest with myself and admit that I do act like a bitch in exact…
/r/askMRP31/07/20 09:41 PM
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Maybe you’re right; maybe I don’t. I’m not trying to give her attention just to placate her, however. I want to give her attention when I’m home because how else am I going to generate her “feelz?” If I’m not texting her, and I end up spending all my time at home reading the sidebar books and going to the gym, eating... then she’ll just get completely bored, right? I mean I have to throw her a bone/attention at some point, right? Unless you mean I am only supposed to give her “attention” by havi…
/r/askMRP31/07/20 09:07 PM
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Dude I never said I wanted a cheat code, I have been reading through these books and shit for months. All my online content is red pill. I don’t think about anything else. I swapped out listening to the news and replaced it with listening to red pill videos. I have bought vitamins and shit to dial in my nutrition so I don’t feel like crap. I’ve been reading about how to start an online business to bring in cash in the side. An you’re trying to tell me I just want a cheat code? Funnily enough I s…
/r/askMRP31/07/20 08:59 PM
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Yeah I need to do that more. I used to share things all the time but since I learned STFU I have been trying to not communicate anything that has any “feelings” so as not to be perceived as beta. Guess I didn’t calibrate correctly. Need to start giving her those “feel nuggets” again. We both love talking about philosophical stuff, and conspiracy theories and whatnot. “Deep conversations” as we call them. That’s actually how we got to be friends before we started dating, just talking about stuff.…
/r/askMRP31/07/20 05:30 PM
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We actually had a similar talk this morning. And yeah I don’t burden her with my problems or worries or anything anymore. Probably haven’t in a year or two . I realized that women don’t care about you that way.
/r/askMRP31/07/20 05:18 PM
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Kid you not someone left a copy at our house and I was reading it last night. What are the odds.
/r/askMRP31/07/20 12:40 PM
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Thanks man, I am and I appreciate the referral, I’ll pick it up.
/r/askMRP31/07/20 02:28 AM
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Alright thanks man, this is it, no more texting about anything other than what you’ve listed. However that means I’ll have to make my time with her in the evenings even more “memorable” and fun. To make up for the lack of attention/conversation that we would normally have over text.
/r/askMRP31/07/20 01:12 AM
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Dude I don’t mean any disrespect but what the fuck. Of course I left them out. It’s my fucking house. What am I gonna do, hide in the closet and read them? There’s no way to read them in my own home without her seeing. And I don’t care if she does. They are all unrelated from different authors anyway. And a woman might snoop a phone but there’s no way a woman is going to slog through chapters and chapters of a book behind your back to see what type of content you are reading. Lol
/r/askMRP31/07/20 12:49 AM
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Haha alright alright I’ll do it, I’m setting a reminder on my phone now. Thanks
/r/askMRP30/07/20 11:35 PM
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Thanks man. I didn’t think I was hypersensitive. Maybe I am. I mean I do kinda see her as a threat to my happiness in a way. Maybe she views me the same. I appreciate the advice.
/r/askMRP30/07/20 11:34 PM
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Thanks for that. Let me ask you something. That last paragraph, “group of male friends,” “start getting shit done,” “stop giving fucks about unimportant stuff,” “start living life on your own terms,” is that stuff gonna freak her out? I know I’m an autist, y’all have made that pretty clear. But yeah I left the house for a few hours the other day and took care of some shit I had been needing to do for a while. Even picked up some things she had been needing from the store. Never told her where I …
/r/askMRP30/07/20 10:46 PM
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Ok, good point. Will do.
/r/askMRP30/07/20 09:55 PM
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This sounds like a great alternative and I bet she would get some major comfort from this. We have read marriage books together after our honeymoon. We even have a book that is on our shelf with two copies, how convenient. Thanks for this.
/r/askMRP30/07/20 09:55 PM
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Dude I actually don’t know what you’re talking about. Do you mean why did I marry someone who lacked certain social skills? Dude I loved her, I don’t know. Should I have interpreted this as a red flag? I just figured she was naive. Heck I was naive, still am in a lot of ways.
/r/askMRP30/07/20 09:28 PM
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Attractive? I’m tall, have good jaw definition, clear skin, full head of hair... and no muscles. I’d say realistically I’m a 5. I know my potential is much higher. Fulfilled, no. A good dad, yes, one of the best. Killing life? No. I could have a side hustle and be bringing in extra cash. I could have a job with more vacation time. I could be spending time with cool dudes and maybe have a circle of female friends who all secretly want to fuck me. I could be more proactive at getting car repairs a…
/r/askMRP30/07/20 09:24 PM
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Dude I have brought up the issue of her crying probably 2 or 3 times on reddit and you are one of the many people to mention this. I think one of them was Rian_Stone. Anyway.... I don’t just “shut the conversation down” when she starts crying. If you think so you’re wrong. I will continue talking to her and she will just sob and sob and sob. Womanese will get very thick, and my normally rational wife will become completely irrational. She doesn’t use it as a defense mechanism ( at least not cons…
/r/askMRP30/07/20 09:11 PM
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Thanks. No this guy seriously hates my guts. I’m the guy who goes to visit other people in the office when they are having a bad day. I get my wife to buy gifts so I can take them to the office baby showers since there is a baby boom on our floor. I went over and congratulated my recruiter on her recent engagement and we talked for an hour. I try to be a really social guy. I am nice to everyone on the floor. I spoke to a guy just a minute ago who once said he would come set my house on fire. Yet…
/r/askMRP30/07/20 08:54 PM
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We have fun watching Jeopardy and playing games and stuff. But when I see other couples who we are friends with, it seems like they are “living it up” and so by comparison I don’t think my wife and I are having a whole lot of “fun” together. We have inside jokes that have been running for years and we just created a new one about a month ago... “vanilla ice cream” which refers to a time when she decided that dessert would be tastier if it was drizzled over my cock. Fun times, we’ve gotten a lot …
/r/askMRP30/07/20 08:45 PM
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I have been trying to internalize the “focus on yourself” mantra. I know you don’t believe me from my post history, but I don’t whine to her about things at the house, at all. This text conversation today was kind of a one off thing. I guess I let her know that I am displeased by my actions... still not good for maintaining the “Oak” status but I really do try to keep my mouth shut when she doesn’t meet my expectations. Now about the texting thing, I am aware that texting is for logistics. I hav…
/r/askMRP30/07/20 08:16 PM
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Yeah it sucks and it made me feel horrible when reviews came around. I was always a sharp guy and it seems like since getting out of college I can’t impress anyone. Don’t know what I’m doing wrong. My team lead hates me and always finds opportunities to “misinterpret” everything I say so that his feelings get hurt. Gosh I hope I don’t make my wife feel the same way, wtf.
/r/askMRP30/07/20 08:02 PM
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Well the headgear was supposed to be supplemental to the weightlifting. Something I can do at home when not at the gym, just do neck exercises in the evenings since I heard they were hard to train/slow growing.
/r/askMRP30/07/20 08:00 PM
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What would you personally suggest to become more self aware?
/r/askMRP30/07/20 07:57 PM
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I know it took you a long time to type all that out man. Thanks. I will make a log or spreadsheet or something to start objectively measuring myself. I think you are right. I don’t currently have any objective way to gauge my improvement. I need to fix that and having it all laid bare will probably help me internalize/focus on what I need to do.
/r/askMRP30/07/20 07:55 PM
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Ha, thanks, I may have heard it once or twice
/r/askMRP30/07/20 07:42 PM
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Hahaha dude I love that movie, thanks!
/r/askMRP30/07/20 06:18 PM
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Dude that’s it, that’s me to a T. I don’t know how I didn’t see it before but you’re right, I am way too intense. I’m the oldest of 4 and all my siblings were scared of me. I was super easy going in college and that’s why she probably always says “I liked you better when we were in college.” How do you be casual while also ruthlessly pursuing excellence? I’m afraid if I get relaxed I’ll skip back into beta-dom.
/r/askMRP30/07/20 06:16 PM
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Ok, you caught me. I haven’t been to the gym in a while, so no gains there. I have read NMMNG, MAP, WISNIFG, MMSLP, a lot of the Pook stuff, Roosh V’s guide to texting girls, and I’ve been watching Rich Cooper’s Entrepreneurs In Cars videos on YouTube. I think I understand how to flirt... but it doesn’t work on my wife, she just blinks back at me like Dora the Explorer. I mean she and I have sexual flirty texts and conversations but because her end is so shoddy and not a turn on at all, I can’t …
/r/askMRP30/07/20 06:12 PM
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Thank you man I really appreciate it. Yeah our new baby girl is here. I’m definitely gonna remove all criticism. How can I calibrate STFU without being hit by “we don’t share/talk the way we did in college” (I’ve been hit with that numerous times and again recently) I will give her more patience. Dude it’s so fucking hard when I have been patient for so long with little results. Also I’m afraid giving her extra grace/patience will lull her into thinking that her current level of fitness/interact…
/r/askMRP30/07/20 05:11 PM
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She barely knows how to have a discussion at all. In college I had to teach her how to talk about hard topics, how to have an argument in a calm, adult way, and how to deal with differences in opinion. I taught her how to have a “fight” if that makes any sense. It’s been so long now I don’t remember the details but pretty much I had to teach her how to have “an adult conversation” cause the poor girl was clueless. Her parents didn’t really handle conflict at all, they just avoided it or somethin…
/r/askMRP30/07/20 05:05 PM
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Clarification: the reason she wants someone to “help her listen without breaking down” is because earlier in the text convo I had told her that it’s not fair when I bring up anything to her, she cries and breaks down. She has said before that she cries because she feels awful for not meeting my expectations. Like it hurts her feelings to know I am dissatisfied with her. She’s very submissive. But it’s a huge blocker to change/progress because if I call her out on something directly, she cries. I…
/r/askMRP30/07/20 04:54 PM
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That creator is actually the God of the Bible, who came to earth in human form as Jesus Christ. Jesus is the “visible image of the invisible God” and all things were made through Him. You can’t believe this on your own, it takes faith to believe it. I will pray for you that God will give you faith, to believe. Jesus said “no one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws him” I used to think I had faith in Jesus, because I had prayed a special prayer one time. Then when I felt like that …
/r/askTRP24/06/20 11:44 AM
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Thanks man I’m gonna keep at it and to your second point, the wife has started “buying new clothes” and “buying new makeup/skincare stuff” and talking about “losing weight as soon as the baby is born” since I’ve been improving so I’m optimistic. Praise God!
/r/RPChristians24/06/20 12:26 AM
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No, surprisingly in all the sex talks we had before getting married (or after) we never talked about what we found attractive in the opposite sex. Never brought it up. I think at that time in my life, I would have been conditioned to think that it would be “shallow” to do so. Yeah I am improving myself but I don’t trust that the rise in my SMV is noticeable enough to have that talk yet.
/r/RPChristians23/06/20 10:58 PM
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So I know the first rule of fight club is don’t talk about fight club. But is this intended for wives to read? Should I show this to my wife? A year ago I would have jumped at the chance to send my wife a list like this. Now I understand that I should be working on myself, not sending “how to be a better wife” lists to her. Still, I wonder if she would/could benefit from this. If not now, then maybe later, sometime in the future? She already works hard to please me and I’ve noticed some improvem…
/r/RPChristians23/06/20 02:30 PM
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Hahahaha thanks!
/r/askTRP22/06/20 12:39 PM
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My wife doesn’t have any friends. She is not irritating at all; she has a calm, reserved personality. What camp would she be in
/r/askTRP22/06/20 01:49 AM
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I really like my wife too, seems like for many of the men here, there is so much resentment built up that it becomes difficult to enjoy their wife’s company. You say your wife is hotter now. As I improve myself (going to the gym 5 days a week, increasing protein intake, etc.) I hope my wife will be inspired to improve her physique as well. What has been your experience since you say your wife is hotter now
/r/askMRP20/06/20 10:49 PM
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You got it!
/r/askTRP16/06/20 09:17 PM
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I’m definitely a reforming nice guy and my wife I would consider is a “nice girl” The more I learn on here the more I feel myself veering towards the mindset that you are describing I’d be interested to hear what other guys have to say on this topic, too
/r/askTRP16/06/20 09:15 PM
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When you say you fucked for 2 hours straight... do you mean 2 hours of constant penetration? How is that possible? My wife can’t go more than a few minutes before it “hurts her.” I’d love some details on how that marathon sex worked, cause I just can’t get it to happen.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 03:52 AM
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No, am looking for the reasoning behind this behavior. It seems like an anomaly from everything I know about women
/r/askTRP22/05/20 11:01 PM
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Thanks man. I am giving more comfort and getting a good response. Still need to internalize a lot of this, but can’t sit around and read too much. “Mental masturbation”/ “do more, think less” and all that. Goal right now is to keep improving even if that doesn’t mean “increasing dread” overtly. Got to give comfort but still leave the house to go to the gym, even if internally I feel bad for spending that extra hour away from her... I know she really misses me during the day and looks forward to …
/r/askMRP28/02/20 12:04 AM
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Thank you for understanding.
/r/askMRP26/02/20 03:49 AM
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So everyone here is telling me to balance comfort with alpha. You are saying that “if you stop what you’re doing when she cries, you’re just looking for permission.” I have done my own thing for months, telling her how it was going to be while she cried. So far that has resulted in her becoming afraid to bring things up and afraid to share things with me (her words.) I mean she said she didn’t have a reason to live other than the kid. Obviously this is an emotional response. And a huge one. So I…
/r/askMRP24/02/20 09:44 PM
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Ha, I interpreted her saying “I want the old you back” more as she wants faggot me back, instead of this intense red-pill guy! Faggot guy is probably easier for her! But yeah, it would be preposterous to think I ah e it all together.... I’m just starting out. But maybe I was doing better than I thought I was doing.... before going too far into “Rambo zone.” Maybe that’s why she’s asking for that guy to come back. Who knows? I was definitely not giving her the “comfort” feelz. That is being fixed…
/r/askMRP24/02/20 09:17 PM
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Thanks, I needed to hear this.
/r/askMRP24/02/20 09:07 PM
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Thanks for your concern. I am very involved with my kid, so no problems there. I am aware of some of the things that have happened to my coworker during his divorce... wife kept telling him not to help with the baby so she could say “he never helped with anything!” in court. But yeah, I love my son and do stuff for him all the time. Thanks for the advice.
/r/askMRP24/02/20 09:06 PM
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Great advice. My problem has been searching high and low for her to make an “unreasonable request” and treating something reasonable as if it is not. I just haven’t seen her make unreasonable requests. So because “AWALT” I figured “she must be unreasonable SOME time, right?” I was treating the occasional request to “grab such-and-such for me” (when I am sitting and she is standing) as an unreasonable request. That’s just an example but in general that’s the type of simple request I was refusing.…
/r/askMRP24/02/20 08:56 PM
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Yep, was failing her comfort tests. I think I was misinterpreting comfort tests as shit tests. Big mistake on my part. And the “make her feel like she is an essential part of the crew...” that is what I was missing. I was trying to be “independent” of her. She got the feeling that I didn’t need or appreciate her. I hate that I made her feel that way, but there’s nothing I can do but keep moving forward, learning from my mistakes. Now I am praising her when she does things I like, and she (hopefu…
/r/askMRP24/02/20 08:39 PM
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I agree with everything you said here. Nothing more to say, you’re right. Thank you for the advice, sir.
/r/askMRP24/02/20 08:04 PM
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“Not the time for dread, Rambo, or any of those tools” I think I misjudged how strong her emotional response would be when I started making “dramatic” (to her) changes in my likes, interests, conversations with her, etc. Started going to the gym, treating her like a silly little girl, and not saying yes to everything she asks. Small things in my opinion, but to her I’ve changed into a whole different person. My words mean so much to her that any criticism crushes her. Not helping her with a simp…
/r/askMRP24/02/20 08:01 PM
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Your comment is such an odd mix of criticism and rapport building... I love it. Ha. Yes the qualifying part was very purposeful. I have you guys here to thank for that, never would’ve thought to word it to her that way otherwise. As far as turning it back onto my behavior, I think I know what you mean... you are saying that I shouldn’t have given her a “blank check” saying “I’ll do what I need to do.” Up to this point in my red pill journey her emotions have been pretty low on my priority list. …
/r/askMRP24/02/20 07:46 PM
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I have read “tone the dread down” while she’s pregnant but I thought that meant “no overt statements of dread,” I never thought that my disinterest was causing her dread. I misunderstood “don’t dread during pregnancy” and I’ll be the first to admit that. Just glad I didn’t turn her away from me long-term. She seems to be happy and bouncing back into normal wifehood for now. I made a mistake and I’ve owned up to it to her (something not always recommended on this sub) but I believe a leader shoul…
/r/askMRP24/02/20 07:15 PM
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...that’s the only place I’ve ever made friends. ...wait, you can have friends outside family work and church?!??
/r/askMRP18/02/20 08:28 PM
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This is my very first OYS post. ~155 lbs. 6’2” 24 y/o married for 2...almost 3 years. We have a 1 y/o son with another baby on the way... Christian, both of us raised in nuclear families. Both homeschooled. Lost our virginity to eachother. I work, she’s a SAHM. I have read WISNIFG, NMMNG, MMSLP, working on Mindful Attraction Plan. Going to gym. StrongLifts 5x5. Ok guys I am back from a few month hiatus. I had a project at work that I had been procrastinating on and so my team lead and manager me…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/20 05:01 PM
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I actually downloaded it this morning. Gosh I have a long way to go to reach my calorie goal today.
/r/askMRP10/01/20 09:25 PM
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I appreciate your insight. And yes, the warning on exploring “new holes” is appreciated as well. Before we got married she said she would never want to do that. A while back we actually tried a little bit but not much progress. Then just a few days ago we actually got a small butt plug and she wore it while I ate her out. I want to do some “anal training” like the post somewhere on here suggests, but it’s low on my priority list. Also, I think she gets “cold sweats” from anal stimulation so not …
/r/askMRP09/01/20 06:36 PM
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Hey I appreciate this. This was the response I was originally expecting, honestly. You are right, she doesn’t “know” how to be sensual either. I will just have to step out of my comfort zone and lead. In other words, be willing to move sex in a direction that she might be uncomfortable with, or that might be “uncharted territory” for myself, as well. I have worked hard not to bombard her with “what not to do” comments, because I don’t want sex to be a performance or a negative thing for her. So …
/r/askMRP09/01/20 05:39 PM
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Thanks man. I needed to hear this. I’ll get a food scale today and let you know how it goes.
/r/askMRP09/01/20 03:06 PM
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Any tips on eating enough/more? I eat home-cooked stuff like chicken, potatoes, rice, etc. Problem being that I don’t generally feel the need to go back for seconds, or thirds. I have tried/am trying the GOMAD regimen... gallon of milk a day.... program is apparently made for hard-gainers like me.
/r/askMRP08/01/20 11:22 PM
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You make it sound like I have a life-threatening condition! Thanks for the chuckle, will do.
/r/askMRP08/01/20 11:17 PM
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Thanks! Yes, from the little I have tried, it does feel fake, at least for right now. I actually tried the “hair grab” thing last night when she was blowing me. Worked great! I am working on verbal commands. Hard to say out loud since I’m not very confident doing it. She has actually said That she likes me holding her hands down. I will try to work on being more verbal. Doesn’t come natural but I know I need to do it. Should I... practice while driving to work or something?
/r/askMRP08/01/20 08:59 PM
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Thanks. I probably am stuck in my head a little. I have no problems with intimacy, and I don’t diffuse awkward situations with humor. I could qualify that statement but I’m not going to. However I do have a problem with things seeming “goofy” in the bedroom. As others have pointed out, it’s probably a number of things, all of which I can improve on. I am actually going to hang out with a group of guys at a burger joint tonight, so looking forward to the “male friends” aspect. Thanks for the advi…
/r/askMRP08/01/20 08:49 PM
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Thanks, I’ll look into Sex God Method. Definitely need to keep hitting the gym.
/r/askMRP08/01/20 08:17 PM
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That’s what is so surprising. I (like a lot of Christians, I guess) though that sex would just “click” once you get married. Boy was I wrong. That’s why I’m glad I found this place. Also, thanks for asking! My walk with the Lord is good. I don’t do anything to earn His love... I just trust that what Jesus did on the cross is enough, and that it counts for me. That’s what it means when it says “believe ON the name of Jesus Christ,” at least that’s how I view it. I serve the Lord in various ways, …
/r/askMRP08/01/20 08:04 PM
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Good idea... how though? Lol
/r/askMRP08/01/20 07:49 PM
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“When you can pick her up and toss her around” Say no more!!!
/r/askMRP08/01/20 07:47 PM
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Thanks man. I appreciate your insight. You are right about churches not teaching the whole story when it comes to sex. Also as I have been reading on here and other red pill places, it has become apparent to me that the scale for sexual responsiveness is related to your attractiveness, like you said. Can’t sweep that truth under the rug. And no, I haven’t been using dread since I had heard that it was a bad idea during pregnancy. Though I think just me going to the gym has been showing “passive”…
/r/askMRP08/01/20 07:41 PM
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I like it... how though?
/r/askMRP08/01/20 07:33 PM
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Thanks. I’ve read MMSLP.... didn’t let it sink in. Can’t remember if it was there or if it was some other book where they talked about “believing that it’s ok to “lead” in the bedroom.” That’s where I’m at, most likely. I have said the things you suggest I say to her; felt good. Also felt forced, but of course I didn’t let that stop me from saying them. I just don’t whip them out often because I know I sound unconfident saying them. Something tells me I’ll be able to say these things with confid…
/r/askMRP08/01/20 07:21 PM
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Thank you for the advice. Will look into the Kama Sutra since I have heard so much about it. I am learning to lead in the bedroom. Only so much you can learn before you have to just “do it.”
/r/askMRP08/01/20 07:15 PM
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Not frequent enough for me. I was taking her to the bedroom more frequently than ever before (improving week by week) when I first hit the gym. Pregnancy happened and slowed that down. Other than a few moments where you laugh, is the sex good? -I don’t know, I’ve only ever been with “her!” Lol I would say it’s pleasurable, just not “exciting.” We are pretty goofy people so I’m trying to not make this an ego thing... we have silly times during sex. I just finally realized I would enjoy sex “bette…
/r/askMRP08/01/20 07:02 PM
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I agree that I am very skinny! The freckles thing really made me laugh; I know it’s true! Thanks for this. Looks like the best thing I can do right now is actually spend more time in the gym.
/r/askMRP08/01/20 06:55 PM
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Thanks, man. I don’t understand, what’s wrong with needing an illustrated guide for learning how to better engage in sex? ;)
/r/askMRP08/01/20 06:34 PM
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Thanks brother! Seriously though... this is the persona I’m trying to avoid. Neither of us ever learned to flirt, much less have a repertoire of “mature, sexual, responses” in the bedroom.
/r/askMRP08/01/20 06:27 PM
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“It will almost never go back to it’s better previous frequency” Does this apply in a marriage, or just a plate? I am married and the wife is pregnant with baby #2. Nausea is making it hard for us to be intimate, but shouldn’t it pick up later? I thought the man should “train his woman” to expect sex as the default, not the exception?
/r/askTRP08/01/20 01:59 AM
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Dang. The level of self-awareness she must’ve had in that moment is unreal. Thank you for this.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 11:59 PM
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I have been trying to do the GOMAD (gallon of milk a day) regimen to help me bulk up. So I sure hope this doesn’t affect test. :/
/r/askTRP07/01/20 06:23 PM
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